Come Sit with Me | Letting Go is HARD!

[@mistyb8434]

I totally heard you Kelly! I had to let go of an 8 year friendship almost a year ago next month. It was heartbreaking, but just like you, I know my worth! I’ll never let someone or their family ever hurt me again!! I have too much respect for myself to ever go back! My mom always tells me, “ when somebody shows you who they truly are, believe them”! ❤💪🏼🫶🏼🥰 We’re going to be okay my friend! Thank you for reminding me and I’m here to remind you!!❤🫶🏼🥰😘

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

I love that… when someone shows you who they really are, believe them! Wise wise words!

[@DW702-jw]

Hello Kelly I loved the last 2 videos Come Sit With Me very much I so could relate I needed to hear this It got me emotional but that’s ok I enjoy all your videos! Your so down to earth There’s not a lot of them around anymore Love you girrrll I can relate and it definitely helped me think So thank you Kelly I pray for Ray I pray he is hanging in there 🙏 ❤️❤️

[@midgethorn4083]

You touched my heart. Thank you for sharing yourself. I’ve had a rough couple of years, too. We will make it!

[@rocki59]

I so want to hug you right now. I am praying for you.

[@ArtFriendly]

Whether insecurity, ignorance, or narcissism, we will grieve the supposed loss of a so-called pal or spouse, so please feel the feelings, but give em the ol' Heave Ho and move on!😊 There's plenty of fish and friends, not just foes, in the sea!❤. It is hard to enjoy the view while😮 looking in the rear view!🎉

[@deborahhernandez9780]

Sweet Kelly, I am an 70 year old woman who has had a lot of bad times in my life but if I could give you just one piece of advice it would be to let go of things that are not really important, focus all your strength on yourself and those in your life that DO MATTER. You know Kelly if no one else on earth loves me I know JESUS does and that is good enough for me.

[@SherylLynn333]

Jesus is the one who gets me through everyday. God bless you

[@Nanakook1]

When all we have is Jesus, Jesus is all we need.

[@sweethaven1929]

Sending love and peace to you

[@MKCarol-ms7lg]

Letting go is hard because as humans we fear the outcome, outcomes we know we aren't in control of, but try to be. When I learned to lean on Jesus letting go of everything became so easy. The outcome always was in His hands anyway. This is the real cure for worry.

[@deborahlarive7711]

@@MKCarol-ms7lg I do not worry for today or tomorrow. Pain of loss is real and that is what we need a counselor to help up get through the pain. Inviting God into the session allows God to take control of the session.

[@alicebenson8607]

I believe God is giving you so much wisdom through all of this. Weeping endures for a night but joy comes in the morning. ❤️

[@shawnalarson5175]

I so needed this video. My husband is divorcing me after 28 years. I have been very very sick for the past 3 years. You are not alone in these feelings. I have fought to stay alive today. I am letting go of my husband. I am scared on what will happen to me. I have no income because of my severe illnesses. He does not get it. I am taking one day at time. I will survive this too. God Bless You. Prayers.

[@Jesusluvsmeandyou]

Praying for you and the restoration of your health and marriage 🫶

[@theresapittman205]

Team Ray. I got called for my colonoscopy and almost blew it off, but I’m sure Ray’s story was in the back of my mind. When I woke up the doctor’s first words to me were, “screening saves lives.” A 1 mm polyp is considered large and requires a specialist to remove. I have a 3 mm polyp that will turn into colon cancer if I didn’t find it. So I’ll be having it removed soon. Please tell Ray that his struggle has saved lives through your KZbin channel. If he ever felt reluctant to let you share his story, it was absolutely worth it! At least to me. ❤

[@asoto128]

I blew off my last colonoscopy even knowing that two out of three times they have found polyps and I’m a two time breast cancer survivor. I have a colonoscopy coming up this week and have been thinking of canceling again. I think I’ll keep this one though.

[@theresapittman205]

@@asoto128 please do. I would love to be able to tell the doctor that spreading the word made a difference. I’m otherwise ridiculously healthy but this could have been a silent killer.

[@cherylcain890]

I’ve been putting off my colonoscopy, but will be scheduling this week. It’s ridiculous of me to put it off any longer just because I don’t want to drink that awful stuff and spend the day in the bathroom. I’m turning 66 next month, yes I’m way old enough to know better. I’ve been following Ray’s story and sending up prayers for your family for the last year. Thank you for sharing your journey! You are such a sweet person, Ray is lucky to have a mom like you.🙏🏻♥️

[@heathera5362]

Hugs, my mom just had a 3cm polyp removed! It was scary but she feels so much better now.

[@maryevans4720]

​@@theresapittman205😮m

[@cherylhoward71]

My sweet friend, Kelly. You matter to ME!!!!! Hang in there. I felt every single word on this video.

[@janearl2056]

I’ve been reading a lot of the comments. So many have been through so much! I have lost my parents, went through a painful divorce and then lost my daughter after years of addiction. My faith has grown through all these things and the only real peace I’ve found has been Jesus. He NEVER leaves you. You, Ray and your family have been in my prayers. Thanks again for the chat! You help a lot of people ❤

[@sariflynn9292]

Amen, Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life! ❤

[@kimtreneman-pape6107]

Yes, I feel the same way! I haven’t lost both parents, just my dad. It’s been three years since Dad died and my mom is still taking it Really hard. She misses him more every day. It is difficult watching her pain.

[@janearl2056]

I pray you and your mom will have comfort, kimtreneman❤️

[@FawnhillFarmhouse]

Kelly thanks for sharing. You’ve been through so much and deserve to have happiness and joy in your life. Sometimes it’s hard to shut a door and open a new one. You’ve got this. . . And God will lead you!!

[@jpendowski7503]

Kelly, these Sit With Me episodes are some of the most real things on the internet. We often only see the well prepped glossy views. Being able to share and reflect in honesty is pure gold.

[@jamiea4986]

I have framed on my desk at work "Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go." Hugs to you!

[@lynnegrant2216]

You may never know the lives you touched with this heartfelt video. Mine is one. Thank you. If we lived closer I’d invite you over to visit and chat. We are both struggling with some of the same things. And yes, we are going to get through this. We are strong women. The sun is going to shine again.

[@kellieroth1710]

Thanks for this! I'm 64 and dealing with my dad with dementia in probably the last stages. I'm ready to let my dad go... he wants to go. Lost my mom August 2020, and my husband died very suddenly December 2020. No covid. Very traumatic to me still. You're a light in the darkness. A widow with no kids. You make my day!❤😢

[@KeilaRemon2006]

You are more powerful than you know. Trust in him. :-) ;->

[@taraschmidheini4674]

💜🕊️

[@leslismith303]

Kellie I am so sorry for your loss and what you are going through.

[@bonniedavis1656]

Hugs to u. Ull be just fine I've been where u r and it tough and hard been thrown n pits of darkness so many times but I get up and continue on. Ure never alone. God bless u 🙏 ❤️

[@ninamazzaplourd3224]

Dementia is terrible, it is the long goodbye. And it hurts like he'll. I'm very sorry for your losses

[@TheKyla1]

Hi Kelly! It's funny that you say you have a hard time letting people into your life when in fact you have let so many of us in. I hope your fans have let you see how valuable you are. For me, I have a lot of anxiety and sleeplessness, but for whatever reason your videos make me feel incredibly relaxed and safe and I've been using them to help me fall asleep for years. I think it goes back to watching crafting/cooking videos when I was a kid! Anyway, I've been wanting to say thank you for a while now and this seemed like the right moment. So, thank you. You really are doing something special here.

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

🤎🤎🤎

[@kimmorin7847]

❤

[@lindseyf8505]

Amen to that!

[@kaythacker8837]

Thank you for your heartfelt words. I was so fearful when I read the title that something had happened to Ray! Prayers to your whole family ❤❤

[@annieb4728]

Thank you. Your timing with this video was perfect!

[@carolsaylor6151]

You are enough without her, Kelly. Thanks for sharing your bed with a couple hundred of us. Thanks for the talk, Sister 🙏❤️

[@dshon2234]

Kelly, my heart goes out to. 2015 thru 2021, I went thru some of the hardest situations, watching my mother die, my marriage die, and my friends and family walk away, until one day I had no where to go and I sat down, picked up the Bible and read John 3:16. I just didn't read it I asked God to show me what it meant. Today I am in a different place in my life, and I am truly happy, I did learn to breath in life differently, so I hear you, I hear your pain and I pray for peace from God to surround you. ❤

[@cherylbaird2338]

Thanks Kelly I needed this today. Yesterday was my daughter's birthday and I lost her 10 yrs ago. We raised her son who graduates from college in December but sometimes the hurt still remains. I have had to let go of my entire immediate family and even now I still have a hard time letting go. I also have cancer and have battled it twice for now it is stable but not gone but I have chosen not to fight it again. Thankfully my two remaining kids and grandchildren understand and are excepting my decisions. I'm grateful they have a better grasp on letting go.

[@trudymesserschmidt3564]

🙏🙏🙏

[@oreobenavidez953]

🙏🙏

[@deannaisom342]

" I don't like goodbyes;- I like hellos and forevers." Those words cut to my heart and I felt the raw emotion in those words. Thank you for sharing your heart and making us feel not so alone. You truly are a gem Kelly!❤

[@cricutcrazy54]

I’m right there with you. We have a daughter with stage 4 terminal cancer, though she’s doing well, it’s so hard to live across the country from her. We also had a daughter die from S.I.D.S. in ‘84 and had a son pass away pass away this July while in the service. I’m too aquatinted with grief! We adopted 11 children and are estranged from some of them. All the love in the world just can’t always fix things. I will love them and pray for them until the day I die, but for my own emotional safety I had to let them go. Yes it hurts like crazy, and I pray that things will change someday soon. Jesus said “in this world you WILL have trouble, but fear not for I have overcome the world” I have my hope Him. God bless you as you continue on this journey, such as it is!

[@kimkelly9046]

May God bless you

[@nancygalloway5341]

God bless you 🙏 we are praying for you.

[@donnadriscoll4314]

God Bless you and your family, you are stronger than you think, all of us have the same issues, life throws alot of sorrows, try and think of all the happy memories of your family and as time goes by those happy memories will give you comfort and may God Bless and wrap his arms around you with love and happiness.

[@katen1228]

I have three children my youngest is adopted Korean. She has cut me out of her life and her children’s life. IT IS Hell going thru this. I totally relate can relate, loving and praying for them forever but having to let them go.

[@elizabethf6010]

IPT therapy for cancer. Look into it

[@wendygray8725]

I’m 60 and I have learned how to let people go over the past year. I’m getting better at it. ❤

[@donnasennett1668]

Thank you Kelly for sharing your thoughts with me. I have alot of stress in my life right now. I have felt alone many times in my life. You are worth alot to everyone that is on your website. Praying for you Kelly. God says you are to die for.

[@maryellenyork2819]

Very few people have the ability to show up when we deal with a chronic situation. It may be painful for them but it is especially painful for us. My faith in God has given me the tenacity not to give up through too many losses. I appreciate you, Kelly.

[@kerryprzytula7]

Hi Kelly, I could feel everything you were saying and it hit me right in the gut. I'm one who takes things very personal. I always wished soo many people cared about me the way I care about them. It's a very hard sad lesson to swallow. Love, hugs, Positive vibes and Peace.❤🙏🏽 Have a beautiful evening ✨

[@leahberg6359]

You certainly have value- a great deal of it! All the best in your journey ! You’ll be fine!🩷

[@maggiewilliams6750]

I Love your chats. I lost both my parents in a 2 yr period and also went through a divorce at the same time. I discovered there are a lot of "takers" in this world. I am a giver. People take advantage of givers which I have found out the hard way. I can relate to some of your experiences. You are a fantastic person and strong woman! Prayers are always coming your way. Ohio is a long way from where you live, but thank you for your encouraging words! Love and Prayers!!!❤❤

[@loriirons9503]

Kelly I don't know you personally, but I feel through our mutual love of family and love of crafting that I do know you. I sometimes don't have the right words to say, but I can say that we are lifting you and Ray and your girls in prayer. We feel like we are right there in that battle with you. 💕

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

🤎🤎🤎

[@kathleencozzie2703]

If I could be there with you , I’d give you a big hug. Your strength is so heartfelt & yes we do wear our hearts on our sleeves. Love your sweatshirt. Seems like everyone goes through their own struggles in their own way. Yes, there will be another day & we will wake up & put our feet on the ground and carry on. That’s what Mom’s do. You are an amazing Mom. Thank you for your little talks, they do touch us. 🥰

[@barbaraponciano7190]

You hit the nail on the head Kelly. Hold your head up like you are. You are enough. Love your family.

[@TexasAries4]

Gosh Kelly, these Come Sit with Me videos are so helpful. I’m 52 and don’t have many close friends to talk to about life. You feel like that friend I need to talk to. You’re creating an amazing community here. Thank you.

[@angeltaraila6868]

What is it about this stage in life that makes life so hard? I feel ya sister.

[@RobinR1220]

I'm 52 and do not have any friends either. I have 2 sisters and 2 brothers but they are out of state, so I am alone. I think that we need to do what "I Love Lucy" did. Make a group called "The Friends of the Friendless" lol :)

[@angeltaraila6868]

Wow I’ll be 52 in January. We should definitely figure out how to make a group! I’m always saying I have no friends lol

[@TexasAries4]

It’s really crazy, in a world with billions of people it’s still hard to find good, close friends.

[@tondacottle8454]

Kelly you are so amazing. Lifting us up when you have so much going on. What a heart you have. Love you so, so much!

[@nettiedrott421]

You are loved and l will keep praying for you and your family no matter what.l am thankful for you and your channel and your diys. A faithful follower

[@williejoyce6150]

Ms Killy , God bless you and your beautiful children 😘. Thank you for your encouraging words. Needed to hear them 💕

[@angelavaughan9477]

I feel you. Our son, too, was diagnosed last summer with stage 4 cancer. People have faded from my life as well. I realize I have not been a jolly person this past year but I'm watching my son go through this and we know there is no chance of healing for him. How long? We don't know. I do know I am alone walking through this. Hugs to you.

[@arciafrench993]

Sending you strength and prayers, sorry you’re going through this.

[@Irishgrl59]

Prayers🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

Ugh… your words hit me with a heavy heart! Please feel my arms around you hugging you in this unbearably hard journey your on🫂

[@Sunnyside55]

I'm so sorry to hear your son is going through this. No child should suffer. I'm sending you love and prayers for you and your family 🙏❣️

[@boatsie]

…you will discover someday that you are not alone-God has surrounded you with angels who hold you both together for eternity in the strong & loving comfort of their wings.

[@nancydroge7682]

Kelly, Thank you for inviting us to ‘Come Sit with You’ today. You are an extraordinarily wise, courageous & compassionate woman who profoundly impacts my life (& the lives of countless others) in a way unlike any other. Always, my hand is extended to yours.

[@annlind2349]

Kelly I have found that most of the people we call friends are fair weather friends. When you support someone through their ups and downs but the moment you need them they are no where to be found. When you find someone who is there no matter what we need to let them know you really value their friendship and support because they are a treasure

[@lauriandjonmurrow3133]

Oh my goodness! You were talking to me!! Thank you so much for this, I needed it a lot! So much has gone on in my life in the last 7 years. And I've had to let go of people I thought were special. I know I am worthy, enough, special, and deserving of true friendships. My circle is smaller, but more positive. There's no room for negativity. God Bless You Kelly ❤❤❤❤

[@melissawittman]

Kelly, you are healthier than I feel. I have suffered great loss within the last 6 years as well. Within 17 months I lost my husband of nearly 30 years, my mom and 2 siblings. It just rocks you. I have a hard time letting go of people that have abandoned me since then. It becomes so hard to just function. I have begun seeing a therapist again. I am in awe of your strength. I tend to isolate even thought I know it's not healthy. It just becomes easier to be alone than to be let down again. I am working on believing that I am enough and I do matter. Thank you for sharing and giving me hope.

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

Hugs to you 🫂🫂🫂

[@ElleBug197]

I deeply feel both the video by Kelly and your comment. Same here. Encouraging video is so helpful. Hugs yo all of you

[@Kathy-g3i]

my best friend,my moma and my husband died ... all in 3 years( a year apart). People stole money and all kinds of stuff from me. I was already devastated and lost, especially after my husband died. I've never felt so alone in my life. I honestly didn't think I would live thru it. I do stay to myself mostly and I don't mind it anymore.. I'm gonna be ok. I don't do drama anymore

[@ElleBug197]

@@Kathy-g3i we will make it

[@cherylreeder3898]

Hi Kelly, This is your second sitting and you are truly touching my life. You're a caring loving woman who is not afraid to wear your feelings on your sleeve. This is helping more people than you know. So many of us are alone and have no one to share or understand how you feel. Thank you for helping us see we have someone that understands and shows us we need to take care of ourselves. God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

[@kristiw7528]

You have no idea how much this video has touched me. About 2 weeks ago, I started to let go of a few people who, as you said, just weren't good for me, and then at Bible study this week, it was all about this very thing, how God removes people and things sometimes so that we come to depend on him and He's protecting us. Tha k you so much for this video, from the bottom of my heart, thank you ❤

[@JanyeMayfield]

Watched this 5 days late. My husband fought stage 4 cancer & all the treatments. My heart goes out to you. 12 years and I still live it at times. Hugs my friend.

[@djmac6088]

I look forward to these little chats. Can’t believe how much you have helped me. Thanking you from Canada. 💕 thoughts and prayers for Ray, yourself and your family.

[@janiceree6061]

I love this segment! COME SIT WITH ME!!!! You are correct it is hard. I learned to love myself five years ago…. I still fall back into the rut at times. But, I finally realized I’m worth so much more than being used and abused. Kelly, you are worth everything that this world holds and much much more. My hand is here, just grab hold. God will see all of us through. ❤❤❤

[@deborahsimpsonauthor4507]

Mine too. I've been through all the things you have, so I know you can get through too. Here for you

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

Ugh… I’m in tears! You told me to grab your hand! Thank you. That’s hit me hard🤎

[@janiceree6061]

@@KellyBarlowCreations , I meant it. We must stand together through the thick the thin. You are a wonderful person, I’m honored if you except my hand and we build a friendship ( a friendship is the start to an amazing relationship; which a friendship is a relationship.)

[@jeannezimmerman7034]

Beautiful video, beautiful person. I am just like you with holding onto people who aren't right for me. I cleaned house a few years back when I became tired of feeling lousy with treatment of people who were supposed to be "friends". I don't let toxic people in my valuable space anymore...just to have someone there. I realized that I have amazing, loving women who are there for me even when I don't ask. You are everything I'd love in a friend. Kelly, come sit with me. We'll comfort each other. Hugs.

[@robinsummers7612]

😢 I can relate to everything you are going through. You brought me to tears...and sometimes we need a good cry...it's good for the soul....and it helps us cleanse our feelings. Nice to get it out. Thank you for taking the time to do this. BLESSINGS and PRAYERS for you and Ray. ❤

[@alisharocklin2741]

My fiance passed away after a terrible fall, on October 7. I honestly don't know how I can move on or let go. I love your comforting words Kelly. I've watched your channel for years and it only gets better❤

[@empathy4good]

I'm so sorry! It's a special type of grief when that happens. Take care of yourself.

[@dawnfowler2194]

Prayers for Peace and renewal. GOD Bless you. I'm here if you need to talk.

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

Your words hit me with a heavy heart. Feel my hugs to you 🫂

[@gowest5145]

So sorry for your loss

[@ellashaffer7803]

So sorry for your loss, with God's help you will find a way to move on, slowly , day by day. Don't forget memories.

[@jennoury249]

Boy did I need this today. In the middle of divorce and it’s negatively affected my relationship with my kids which is slowly improving but it’s been a tough road for the last year since I left my husband. I am praying for your family and especially for Ray. God bless you all.

[@veratrigloff8027]

You are such a great woman Kelly, we love you. It is just like you to want to help others. I wish I could be there for you, but know in spirit, LOTS of us are.❤❤❤

[@shirleysirmons4251]

Kelly, you spoke to my heart tonight. I heard you and felt your words lifted me up and I finally wanted to say that 'I Matter". Though our losses are different, they carry grief and pain. I'm 76 and wonder "Why Me". Then I remember, Why Not Me". I realize that I'm stronger than the rest of my family. GOD knew exactly why my burdens were placed on me instead of someone else. GOD has His hand out to you and me. We're going to be OK. Keep on with your

[@kimkelly9046]

Well said!

[@judypyle6336]

Live your reality, and focus on what is important to you. Love yourself and push through and remember you matter to many as they matter to you. Persevere with strength and grace. ❤

[@anniewardlow9297]

I love this new chapter of KBC..."Sit With Me". Really raw and refreshing, thank you! 👍 I think you have a lot to bring to a relationship regardless of the type. Years ago I figured out that, less IS more in some ways. Do we really need to give, give, give the whole time while getting nothing in return? NOPE!!! I have a favorite quote by an inspirational speaker named, Byron Kate and it goes, "It's not your job to like me, it's mine." I 💜 it! Thanks again, Kelly!

[@alisonbennett1589]

Wow ! What a powerful quote!

[@crochet18burple]

Hi Kelly, I’ve not really commented before, but this sit with me episodes are nice. I needed to hear this. I’ve had a lot of loss in the past 6 years. The most recent my mom in January. Life is just not the same. My husband and sister has passed as well. That has left me feeling very vulnerable and easily hurt at times as I try to heal from the grief. It’s true we all are going through something. Sending a big NC hug and thank you

[@lindathompson8620]

My condolences go to you and your family. RIP husband RIP sister RIP Mama May God bless you everyday.

[@Kuimeaux-r3u]

You are a very brave woman with so much to give. I, too,have had to let go of some important people in my life. Those relationships were toxic to me. I always give it over to God and I don’t take it back. The blessings I receive in return are have been bountiful.

[@d.l.shanahan1220]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@judylagasse3135]

Here in Maine a massive shooting went on in Lewiston, Maine which is close to 50 minute drive from me. He killed 16 people and injured 13. Three people are in critical condition. For 48 hrs. Maine was confined to homes till the killer was found. He was found dead by self inflicted gun shot.

[@judylagasse3135]

Maine is in deep sorrow for the families who lost their loved ones and for the injured . Maine will not forget this.

[@pamrem9292]

Wow! Tears in my eyes. I felt every word you said. Hugs sweet crafting friend. Be the light in the dark.

[@JSee-i3i]

Kelly thank you! You have helped me to look at things differently. Loss is so hard, I’m experiencing it now myself, thank you for being so open, you have a gift, I’m so grateful I found you! I’m seeing this video late so I am so sorry for your loss…. My heart just grieves! I look forward to hearing more from you, maybe another channel for inspiration? You are blessed with a gift I can’t tell you! Much love for you and your children! Rest in peace precious Ray ❤️🙏

[@sashagirl1987]

Kelly you are so strong and so precious. You have a pure heart and soul. I pray for you and Ray often. Hang in their hun. 👍🙏

[@Mtnmamma5251]

Kelly, thank you. You touched a nerve about giving up someone. I went to a therapist concerning a long “friendship” that I thought I had. Near the end of the session, my therapist said something that shocked me. He said, “ you don’t really have a relationship with this person, you have an expired friendship which is now just an acquaintance. You have been doing all the heavy lifting and you keep getting hurt and going back for more “. He does know my life story and all that I have been through. He asked me if this friend was there for me when I went through so many of these losses and crises. I had not really seen that or maybe didn’t want to. But you have spoken honestly and directly and I hear you. I really do have to let go of a one-sided life-long relationship which isn’t good for me. It’s going to be hard but she isn’t there for me anyway. So maybe it won’t be as hard as I think. Thanks for your honesty. You are going through such a difficult time and have already been through so much. So for you to be sharing your wisdom and best thoughts is amazing and a gift. I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer. I truly cannot imagine doing what you are going through. God bless you. Thank you again.

[@dhines3804]

Look at you reaching out and giving thoughtful & kind advice when you are going through one of your darkest trials. I like these videos and it feels like it is healing for you to share them too. I chuckled at the irony of not letting many people into your physical life but you have opened your life and heart to so many here on KZbin! You are making a difference to so many people by sharing your thoughts, your honesty and your soul! You are blessing so many people by doing so. You matter and deserve so much more for yourself!

[@dianawalls5005]

Kelly, Thanks for the pep talk. We all need to be reminded of our value more than we realize. Have a blessed week. 💞

[@sharonbennett4101]

You are precious. People either come into our life either as a lesson or a blessin’. I try to learn my lesson and count my blessings. ❤

[@denisewells6856]

Thank you for the first 'Come sit with me' and this episode. Your calm demeanor and use of everyday words reminded me of Mr. Rogers! I think there is no other media personality who has done more for mental health than Mr. Rogers. You go girl!

[@clamrocks]

so very true, the same peaceful, hopeful feeling that Mr. Rogers gave.

[@kellyweber627]

Kelly, as I sit here with tears flowing down my face, I know that I am not alone! It is soooo very hard to let go. I always blame myself at first, until I really think about the whole picture. Some days are easier than others. We all go through that. But I want to thank you for sharing this with us ❤️it is comforting to know that I am not alone!! Take care my friend ❤️💕

[@karensmith1357]

Bless your heart. I know how things can be so sad at times. Hang in there...

[@Rapture_Ready]

You matter and are growing into a beautiful person Kelly. Growing pains hurt. But you are going to make it and I see how you are growing into an amazing human being. ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@christinecarter6295]

Great chat - so much of what you said really hit home with me ♥️ My “circle” has gotten smaller over the years - but much better & healthier for me!

[@numa.k]

Woooooh, the moment you asked “How are you doing today?” The waterworks 🥺🥺🥺😭…………there’s so many of us who are grateful for you and the community you’ve created here. Sending you so much love & hugs today ❤

[@chrissyluna8183]

Water works here too.

[@barbaralambert7853]

Dear Kelly, what an insightful person you are. In my life it has been God who has always been there for me. When I have nowhere to turn and feel overwhelmed I can say Lord I need you please hold me and guide me. He has never let me down. You are such a gifted person and a blessing to so many. Please continue with your come sit with me programs. You'll never know how many people your strength has helped . 🧓❤️✝️

[@vickiebelk635]

The way I look at it is you find out who your true friends are when you go through the dark places. You are worth more than that. I’m sure you have a lot of people who value who you are as a person. Thanks for being you!🌻

[@christyb7590]

Thank you. I am with my Mom who is dying from Leukemia. I know how you feel. I feel the same. Thank you for this raw testimony.

[@dedeanderson7880]

You do matter to all of us Kelly! You are worthy! You are a child of God and never forget that! ❤

[@user-Giovannia]

All I can say is THANK YOU so much. That was the sermon that I needed to hear today 💜💜

[@billieshreve8392]

I’m in this place right now with a lot of things. It started when I lost my husband of 31 years to cancer 18 years ago. I pushed through but lost both my parents and a brother in the following years. Covid came and I lost my job and my family distanced from me because of Covid. I lost my support. You do matter. Thank you for pushing through!

[@amystogsdill2083]

I totally understand putting my energy into people that don’t reciprocate!!

[@virginiawilson9008]

Thank you for our sit with you. I to have had a lot of loss these last several years. First my dad passed away, than my boss/friend of 21 years, the loss of my job of 21 years during Covid, try brother passed away, a friendship of 45 years I let go of, because I finally realized that it was a one sided friendship and was not a healthy friendship. But in all the mist of all the loss I FOUND JESUS. My heart is so full of love, comfort and peace. My relationship with our Father is growing stronger every day. My advise for all who feel lost, Let Go and Let God be your Savior. 😊❤

[@sunshinejgb]

Thank you for sharing your heart Kelly. I'm sorry you've had so much loss and pain these past few years. Growth is painful. There will come a point when you look back at this time and see how strong you were and how much you are loved, and valued. You've touched more people than you'll ever know. You're awesome, strong, kind and loving. Hang in there, the best is yet to be.🫂😊🥰

[@rhondaburtch4483]

Thank you, Kelly!! You are so REAL!! So many of us needed this. I’m sure we’ve all been praying for Ray, and it’s good to hear his chemo is done. If it weren’t for Jesus, I sure couldn’t make it. My faith in Him propels me forward. Thank you for sharing your heart. We love you, Kelly!!

[@deniseperez6490]

Your words hit home, I have so many friends and family slipped out quietly also. First, I got severely sick and then covid, and now my husband of 40 plus years is losing his life from cancer, and here I sit feeling alone and like you can't seem to let those individuals go. I keep the hope, but I have to let them go. I matter and needed there hand but they didn't take it. Thank you

[@craftingwithgloriascreatio4014]

Okay...so I may have cried while listening to you. This spoke to me. Two years ago I decided it was time to walk away from family. It's such a long story! I'll just say they never made me feel loved or like a member of the family my entire 54 years. I was raised made to feel like my life is less significant than theirs. It always felt like my worth to them was what I could do for them and if I wasn't doing anything for them then I was unworthy of their company or attention. There is so much more to this story! Maybe one day I will write that book!

[@denisegardner2373]

Oh my gosh you sound like you told my story. Too much background but I too walked away from all 27 family members at one time. After crying privately for 8 years God's grace helped me to understand it was ok. Now in retrospect my life with my husband, son and grandchildren have filled me with more love and respect than I have ever known. I used to feel like a weed in my family's perfect garden and i eradicated myself from. It turned out to be the best and hardest thing I've ever done. God bless you and know you are not alone. ❤❤

[@Freida657]

Thank you for the encouraging words. For about the last 16 months, I’ve really been struggling. Between some devastating family news and some pretty intense health issues myself, it’s been hard. But my head is still above water, I’m learning a ‘new normal’ in a family situation, and I’ve made it through the flu, a broken arm, my 2nd case of COVID and torn rotator cuff on BOTH shoulders. Two surgeries will take place after the first of the year and after some really tough physical therapy, I’m speaking in faith, that this coming summer will be the best I’ve had in MANY years! Prayers continue for Ray, you and the girls. Sending love from Rome, Ga❤️

[@mommab1969]

Get well soon. I pray your surgery goes well and that you heal quickly! Blessings 🙏🏼

[@Freida657]

@@mommab1969 Thank you!🥰

[@marykonrath496]

Praying for you. That is certainly a lot to handle. I surely hope this coming summer will be awesome for you!!! Bless you.

[@judylagasse3135]

I'm going through PT now for a torn rotator cuff! I pray not having to have surgery! I am Type 2 diabetic and the orthopedic said it would take longer to heal with surgery!

[@susanjensen1688]

I am reaching out to you with a hug🙅‍♀️. Thank you so much for sharing I really enjoyed These Quiet times with you and hope you will continue them. I wish I was there with you to help support you and your family with what you're going through. I hope and pray that things are going well with Ray. Now that he's done with this chemo. I pray that God will wrap his arms around you and your family and that you know that God is there for you when you call upon Jesus name. I love you and your family ❤. God bless you and keep you strong

[@marand6218]

God bless your family in every way; Your are a beautiful, inspirational lady. Thank you for all that you share with the world 👏🏽💕💕

[@loripierce2544]

We pray for your family, God is there with you. I lost my husband of 23 yrs to covid almost 2yrs ago, but I got hold of Psalm 27 gives me peace. Jesus meets us where we are and give us his hand and never leaves us others will disappoint, leave, but Jesus never will. I love that you're sharing. God bless you.

[@JenniferJohnson-zu5kh]

You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts

[@maryjarrell5824]

I just love your come sit with me segments! We all are in the same boat sometime or another! Thank you Kelly for being YOU!

[@barbaraann9308]

Kelly hugging you through the screen and yes you are stronger than you think I think we all are...hugs and prayers honey.

[@soonzach4017]

Kelly, thank you for sharing with us, You are a very special, I pray for Ray every morning🙏❤️👍👋

[@grandmanette9503]

Thank you, thank You!!😊😊

[@debc929]

Oh my goodness the fur babies look so cute in their cozy vests! I totally get what you’re saying. I had a hard time taking inventory too! I recommend reading the book LET GO by Shiela Walsh. Lord knows I’ve had my share of loss, etc. Reading the book mentioned helped tremendously. When we are hit with divorce, loss and health issues you will see who are true to you and who will lift you up and be there always with the good and bad. Unfortunately sometimes life takes over and not meaning to, we lose touch with people. Kelly you are not alone please believe that. There are so many people who are with you thru good and bad. Prayers are flowing to you and your family. I hope Ray does well and that everyone had a blessed week. ❤

[@heatherleatherman6260]

I watch your videos and have followed your journey, but rarely comment. Just know this video has truly touched me. Sometimes I forget my worth and usually let others validate how I feel about myself. This has helped me when I needed to hear it the most. Thanks for sharing! Much love to you and your family!❤

[@denisepope8599]

God Bless Ray and your family. It is hard to let go.

[@brendaphilyaw3677]

Just want you to know you are loved and appreciated by this viewer!! You help lift me up, hope this helps lift you up!! ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@pattishumateanderson4633]

Thank you for this. One of the most honest, from the heart videos I have ever watched. I have lost my mother and older brother to cancer and my younger brother has it now. He only weighs 84 pounds. I understand exactly what you are saying. All cancers are different types. I had a malignant pregnancy in the 1980s and fortunately after going through blood tests every two weeks for a year I was given the ok to try to have another baby. I had refused the hysterectomy the doctor recommended because I wanted another baby. God blessed me with a healthy boy.

[@kembrapowers62]

Kelly thank you so much for this❣️ I wish i could tell you exactly how much i needed to hear this during these dark times in my life. Your videos and a few other crafters videos really do keep me going. I am grateful for you ❤️ You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers❣️

[@kelilee5839]

Kelly, I love this vulnerable side of you. You inspire me to be brave and face my grief and sadness. You are strong and brave and are a beautiful spirit. Never change. Thank you for sharing. You, Ray, and the entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. 🥰

[@missinde0723]

Kelly a lot of us are right there with you!!! I would rather have quality over quantity when it comes to friends. I don't need negative talk from anyone or to anyone about me. I have learned not to care what others think about me. They don't pay my bills!! Love your sweatshirt!! I often have breakfast for dinner. I find it easier to make, and I'm only cooking for me!

[@mellysthoughts]

In my darkest hour ... I reached for a hand and I found a paw 🐾.... Probably my favorite quote I made it with my cricut into a sweatshirt❤ sometimes the unconditional love of an animal can heal the soul. My cat saved my life from a dark place of drugs and hating myself. I'm 6 years sober and now I have 3 cats that save me everyday. I love these segments Kelly!

[@KellyBarlowCreations]

I can relate to that. Winnie and biza are sometimes the only happiness in my day

[@margareth5501]

It took me 7 yrs to let my best friend go. She left my life without warning or explanation. It was hard! But eventually I got to the point you are talking about, in letting go. I finally realized that I was worthy of having friends who value me for me. And I’m more than okay now, 25 years later. And I’ve been blessed.

[@lianneb7634]

Loved this chat with you tonight! Thanks for your vulnerability and feeling safe to let us in! Hugs

[@elizabethrobinson4851]

Hi Kelly - I really needed to hear this today. Thank you so much! I hope you have a peaceful, relaxing rest of your day.

[@JSee-i3i]

Kelly I’m so grateful for you! You are amazing! Don’t stop blessing all of us, you have a gift 🥰

[@SuseV8]

*God Bless you Kelly Darling* ~ Beautiful reminder to " Just keep going " and to " be TRUE to yourself ". Love your sweatshirt. Oceans of Positivity, Strength, Joy, Inner Knowing, LOVE, coming ENDLESSLY your way ! Peace of Heart/Mind to ALL Humanity ~ Suse & Crew Vancouver Island BC CANADA ~*~

[@debhale6760]

Kelly, thank you for this inspiring chat. It was something I really needed to hear right now. Your words hit home with everything I've been going through for the past several months. Family issues and as of lately my dear friend of 20 plus years just suddenly cut me out without a word of why. Life is tough and the waters aren't always easy to paddle through. I don't always see myself as important, so thank you for reminding me that I am important and I should tell myself I am and I am worth so much more. Thank you ❤️🥰 I continue to pray for you, Ray and your girls and of course the doodles!! 😊😊

[@deirdreclinch6223]

Kelly, I don't think you will ever know how deeply your words have touched me and how much I really needed to hear those words today. I hope your doing okay and I'm sending Ray all the healing energy I can. Thankyou

[@trinapenunuri5475]

Thank you Kelly for keeping it real and sharing your truth. I felt as though you knew my thoughts , disappointments and understood my losses. That is a gift Kelly. You are helping many. Sending love and positive thoughts your way.

[@BeckyA59]

Wow Ibiza is a big boy! I love the sweatshirt. I don't do tiktok but I'd watch your made me do it channel! I hear you and your value is immense. I let go of a friendship a few years ago and I don't have many close friends but she was toxic and that didn't work for me. Because I also have value. Loss is hard. My mom is 90 and I'm glad I get to her see her next week, as who knows how long she has - and she's worth it ❤. I hope the rest of your Sunday was wonderful. Hugs to you and blessings to Ray for the end of chemo 🫂🥂🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@suedyck6835]

You are an amazing strong and Powerful woman. Thank you for your words today! 😊❤️🙏

[@katherinekinnaird4408]

God bless and keep you all. Thank you for encouraging us my goodness. I am proud of your whole family and that includes the dogs. Also Rays fellow men and women first responders, the medical staff A -Z and the people watching this channel. God Team Ray. 💪🏽🙏💖🐢🐝👏👏👏👏

[@lynneclark5313]

I can really connect with you. It took me decades to let go of my toxic parents. They were totally non-supportive to me all my Life. They never gave me a positive word, action, etc. I finally let them go when I was about 40, but they are still in my head. God Bless You, All of you.

[@joansmith6844]

Hi ditto here it’s been that way all throughout my life I always thought I was not wanted or adopted but looking at that birth certificate it says I’m There’s .. u know I have 3 siblings brothers who were cherished they became prodigies of my parents cold arrogant selfish & mean .. well what comes around goes around they shoved my parents in a home where they passed on & had fun deeding everything to themselves .ignoring me 100% .. there day is coming because HeLL is a real place 🔥 a few things I wished I changed , stayed at my Gideon’s house where I’d run away too to stay safe & loved , leave sooner then the age of 40 ..should have woke up stopped thinking I had to endure such abuse sooner but I did it I closed that door of hell held my head high because I luv , value my self more

[@dawnwittenhagen9055]

I understand that feeling ive not spoken to mine in 7 yrs. I will always love them but I wont force them to have anything to do with me. Make things worse is my dad isnt doing well and if anything happens I will hear it from my gpa (my mom's dad)

[@marywiggins7411]

I completely understand letting toxic people live in your head, it's very traumatic. Hang in there.