Great Example of Hypergamy

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[@Torgo1969]

If she wants you, you won't have to do anything. If she doesn't want you, there is nothing you can do.

[@bdkbordromahkumlar]

True

[@jebidiahnewkedkracker1801]

WOW! If ever a comment wins the "Hits-The-Nail-Right-On-The-Head" Award Of The Month, I'm fairly certain this one qualifies for the month of December, if not January of 2023.😐

[@jebidiahnewkedkracker1801]

I take it you don't "Beat around the bush" too much?😶🤣

[@williamweigt7632]

Best Comment on the Internet-2022!

[@SamplingPercussion]

cute Disney story there. But they’re a lot more complicated and slithering then that.

[@FerociousSniper]

Women with that voice are 100% going to ruin your life.

[@thatsaveryrealthing5183]

So basically yt women are ruining the world.

[@slowpoke96Z28]

What???

[@litpen8056]

that kind of no care kind of tone. ive heard that many times. that attitude usually comes with that.

[@luxuriousmindset1906]

​@@thatsaveryrealthing5183 yes actually they started this feminist BS

[@RyanGBanister]

My first thought.

[@sburns2421]

The thing missing from your life is maturity.

[@sethspence5552]

That's how they age out of the market place because men aren't hypergamous they will just date younger.

[@necrosteel5013]

​@@sethspence5552 men are also hypergamous, I do not think it is unique to women because I have seen it in plenty of trans people. It is the result of sexual stimulation without its deeper aspects of connection. It's the result of women looking at their man in a manner very similarly and very disturbingly how close it is to a drug addiction.

[@ClementineShmementine]

Maturity is a body thing. Based on aging and tons of information, research studies and theories of child development, maturation is a physical not mental state. The brain maturation is when it is complete in growth but the ability to adapt and change does not. It is just harder. The brain is only capable of what you allow it. Maturity is milestones. Understanding, not this. This is confusion but she is mature in her processing feelings and understanding mistakes. Also another idea is maturity is not that you have a house and are stable. But able to work through issues with ease. Saying you’re wrong when you are and standing up for your peace.

[@ClementineShmementine]

@@sethspence5552that is not ideal. Men create the problem by doing this. We were all young and dealt with this already. Many of us have been through a ton from older men. Micah miller. Dating young is manipulative “I want someone who I can mold like their father”.

[@sburns2421]

@@ClementineShmementine Bot

[@really2345]

I had a girlfriend who freely told me that she was always looking for something better. I appreciated her honesty and wished her good luck.

[@kaustubhraizada]

there is something killing intent , we have to control it or we would become serial killer

[@danielustarez]

Thanka God, some women have the red flag written on their forehead

[@BMedvid]

Did these words actually come from her lips or did you just hear them in your head?

[@ivoryas1696]

​@@BMedvid I mean... he said freely 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@erichamilton8952]

@@ivoryas1696 Well, their head is up their butt, so they likely missed that part.

[@edwardbremer6322]

When a woman tells you " i dont know what i want" your relationship is doomed, that is code for im shopping for a better deal.

[@alejandrovargas7592]

Yep!! Nailed that you did. Also: "It's Not You, it's Me". When a woman tells you that, it's automatically a lie.

[@edwardbremer6322]

@@alejandrovargas7592 i dated a girl for years who did the "i dont know what i want crap all the time" we had a nasty break up because she was cheating and i swore i would never tolerate that from a woman again. Shortly after we split i started dating a model, ( which i married and had 4 kids with and are still together today) but my ex saw us together at the mall one day and she saw me then looked at my wife ( who is stunning) and you could see the color drain right out of her body like she saw a ghost, that was all the payback i needed. Lol

[@lesgobrandon9444]

That's when "I'm gone" and usually that same girl would blow up my phone wanting to talk with in days

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

Average to good looking women simply have too many options. Most of them aren't good but that doesn't matter men boost their ego and make them unsufferable. We have created a world where women are just far to comfortable. Women used to have to select men for very practical long-term reasons. Now they have so much sausage being thrown at them they have to screen even more. Often times for only when they're used up past their prime do they look to you the nice guy

[@lesgobrandon9444]

@@edwardbremer6322 well my old lady came home after being dropped off a block away with her shirt on inside out and backwards wasted . Lmfao but denied any wrong doing 🤣 That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I suspected for awhile she wasn't faithful and I caught her . It was closure to me . I wasn't upset but more relieved as I told we are done . and since then no woman will ever get me jealous. Just give me the cold shoulder and I'm gone . Anyway been with same woman for 25 years . I have 4 kids and 3 grandkids since that disaster of a relationship though so there is hope

[@mr.j9303]

"She belongs to the streets" -Abraham Lincoln, Lead singer of Metallica.

[@alyshaleppla6263]

Bruno Mars also said it :D

[@ezilla30]

Pretty sure it was originally Joan Jett could be wrong maybe it was Janis Joplin lol

[@alyshaleppla6263]

@@ezilla30 way before my time :D

[@ezilla30]

@@alyshaleppla6263 promise you your missing out

[@philb4462]

I didn't know Abraham Lincoln was in Metallica.

[@kylelay6858]

We have to teach our sons to stop simping for women. If you treat them like a celebrity, they’ll treat you like a fan

[@ABitefLife]

Excellent quote

[@ragingsaviorkami9862]

But that just goes to show that all that "strong independent woman" bs is just that: bullshit. If a guy is all nice and simping and all that, he's not good enough for her. I've heard multiple women say bullshit like "I'm pretty extreme, I need a guy that's able to handle me." Handle, as in handling a wild animal? Taming it? Or handling a toy? They need men to help them keep their sanity and give them a sense of direction in life. Simply said, they need men who will lead them. It's just that recently that bar has gone ridiculously high, and they still try to deny it, and everyone that speaks like me is a misogynistic patriarchal pig. So, when women subconsciously describe that they're looking for exactly what I said just now, it's all fine, and they're totally clueless about what they're saying, but If someone like Andrew Tate actually describes it in more detail, plain and simple, he's a monster and a misogynist. Why? Because social media doesn't want young men to think for themselves, but instead mindlessly subscribe to OF and porn and hope that one day they get the attention of a godess that they so much desire.

[@Metal12111]

Current culture is taking away masculinity from boys and femininity from girls

[@ryanhefner2011]

Treat em like shit and like you don't need em.

[@1337CompanyServices]

Stop following the bullshit in Hollywood its designed to profit from discord

[@clarkmay4819]

She did him a favor.

[@squeezerdsqueezerd2427]

Nope she wasted his time

[@clarkmay4819]

@squeezerdsqueezerd2427 that's true. At least he got out of it, though.

[@submarineradioman5535]

What’s missing is common sense

[@neyenice]

Dogs gotta bark...snake will always bite...women do what they gotta do cuz it's in their DNA, that's why in non western countries..men tell them what's good for them...cuz they don't know what's good for them.

[@ag2581]

🤣🤣🤣

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

What do you mean

[@huey37]

@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 stop playing you know exactly what he means

[@GenZisTrash]

Couldn't have said it better😂

[@krail5500]

My first wife...she's still chasing the unobtainable. Wants me back, but that will never happen. Update: both ex-wives, apparently have seen the errors in their ways. All I see are the bullets that I dodged!

[@kamenkazan8139]

Stick to your guns

[@DilbeardAlbeard]

You're the man.

[@iandiru6433]

Stay STRONG 💪 better is coming your way🙏

[@elijahmeza2479]

Same...my wife left me for that feeling.

[@sharpatite4684]

Of course she does! Why wouldn't she?!

[@alexl5660]

That’s called adultery

[@truthteller3024]

That's the fruit of feminism. Look how many happy families are out there in comparison to a couple of decades ago

[@stevesteiner7220]

@@truthteller3024 Definitely more.

[@stevesteiner7220]

No, it's not. Look it up.

[@limoncr5205]

@@stevesteiner7220it depends how you look at it.. not sure it's better if there are no families. It's just different world with lots of kids without a father.

[@whatknotcovfefe]

❤❤❤ some states in the usa have laws and adultery is a broken contract subject to the penalties of the state. And a felony can lead to prison. In the usa ... I was working for a company that hired a private investigator to investigate my complete background .. which included all my neighbors and family. By law they had to inform me that my wife was cheating on me... ❤❤❤ not a good thing to deal with... total distraction

[@rickysampson8759]

Remember boys she’s not yours it’s just your turn

[@pitfiend-d7j]

It's exactly like that.

[@vishbinliftin2288]

Sad part is they literally have nothing to offer them selves, yet they want the world.

[@kevinmeserole7345]

You can't say this one has nothing to offer. For one thing she's beautiful. That's something. But I know her type. A girl that good looking will rip you to shreds, particularly when they have that sort of attitude. I'm sure no one will ever be good enough for her.

[@TehZNCify]

@@kevinmeserole7345 being beautiful is not something to offer 🤣

[@kevinmeserole7345]

@@TehZNCify gee thanks for pointing that out

[@sheepdog5799]

@@TehZNCify it’s something but it doesn’t last. Eventually you have to talk lol

[@poetaenlaluna]

She's drop dead gorgeous, yeah you can slam her and all but in reality there's an army of guys who will be dumstruck by her beauty before they ever found out there's anything wrong with her and even then they won't mind and will try to turn her arounr cuz she's so beautiful

[@Holmesy87]

Best way I have ever seen this explained: Women want Superman, but won't even look at Clark Kent.

[@warrencash3314]

I'm so stealing this! Perfect explanation! Thx

[@phantomdracula]

Or they want Bruce wayne but can’t handle the Bat..🥷🏼🦇

[@jameswilkerson4412]

Provided for by Banner, choked by the Hulk?

[@boyermatthews2177]

Wow, great

[@boyermatthews2177]

​@@phantomdracula 💀

[@CountCraigula]

That deer in the headlights look. Poor girl is always out of shampoo. She read the bottle and it said "Lather, rinse, repeat."

[@-Ordinary-Average-Guy]

My wife's friend left her husband for that reason. Found someone who told her how beautiful she was. I guess her husband wasn't the romantic type. Now that Casanova has gotten his fill, he's moved on. And the woman's ex moved on, too. She actually thought her ex would take her back.

[@michaelcandido2824]

Good for him

[@mehmetozguraydin8987]

How come she thought her ex will take her back even though she dumped him. Does not make sense to me :)

[@vectorx777]

I love a story with a happy ending.

[@fairwayfigueroa]

That's the GREATEST STORY EVER TOLD 😃😃😃💪💪💪💪💪

[@michaelczerwony4042]

@@mehmetozguraydin8987 because she thought he was weak and works tolerate her behavior.

[@adriennepayne5474]

I tell you my husband was 45 years old. He died 11 months ago. We were married over 25 years I never had that experience he was everything to me, my best friend if I had a problem he was the best counsel I could go to he would never advise me to do something that was detrimental the respect and love I have for my husband goes far beyond words. I hope people find that for themselves. I will never be actively looking to be with someone again I just want the Lord Jesus to come so I can go to heaven and see Jameson again.

[@scubaxave6519]

Hey adrienne...im so sorry for your loss... i hope in time your pain lessens and youre just left with good memories... sorry for your loss... Dave

[@nonsoville]

God bless you Adrienne. Jameson is always there with you.

[@RA-vq3dk]

Sweet. God bless you all

[@All-as1]

My condolences Mrs. Payne! Thank you for sharing. Nat King Cole wife, Otis Redding wife have the same beautiful perspective as yourself regarding their husbands. That is absolutely true love. Unimaginable to most people, absolutely profound. You truly honor him.

[@TonyRule]

You didn't have social media distorting reality.

[@jamesburke9865]

Men do the same thing. Guy gets successful, dumps his wife, goes for someone younger. People who function in primal states are gonna do this. It's not a man or woman thing, it's a character thing.

[@rectorkirk1158]

Sure 30 percent. Men leave because of not being respected women leave for hypergamy

[@jamesburke9865]

@@rectorkirk1158 Men are more likely to leave their partner when they get sick. How do you explain that?

[@iamyou3080]

100% agree. It’s a character trait not a gender trait.

[@rexluscus]

Nope, there is a reason. Because the wife becomes entitled and lazy. It starts to whine and be nasty because a man allows her to do that. These old women should realize their sexual worth: either be submissive and serve the husband like a good wife or get replaced by a younger agreeable one (both inside and out).

[@rexluscus]

Nope, there is a reason. Because the woman develops a mentality of entitlement and indolence. Dissent and nagging start to arise only when a beta starts to allow displays of recalcitrance without attaching consequences. Also, the current culture enables this by deliberately obscuring the truth: progressive reproductive asset depreciation with a rate that is tied to the biological rate of oocyte decline in both quality and numbers. The serpent told Eve: 'You're a strong woman, you have time, you can get any man you want'. Eve says to Adam: 'I do not have to listen to you, because I can get any man'. And Adam starts to believe in her. And that is why the world became as it is today. Because we lost the natural order of things: Father > man > woman > children. And when all is said and done, it ends up in tears, and it is his fault for abandoning her for a 'weak woman'. You're Adam, my friend. Amen.

[@shanewatkins7491]

When someone explains that behavior is "biology" -run away.

[@dawntie]

Agreed.

[@samhennessy7108]

Imagine denying biology lmao. Our boy shanewatkins is a demi-god who got rid of all his urges i guess.

[@aguilazombieXD]

Is true. Is biology. But as humans we can fight a little bit those impulses

[@shanewatkins7491]

@samhennessy7108 @samhennessy7108 People use "biology" to justify all kinds of stereotypes, like the superiority of one race over another, or men cheating on their spouses. It's not "in their DNA" and that kind of statement attempts to make stupid stereotypes "scientific".

[@shanewatkins7491]

@aguilazombieXD You profess to know the "biology" of women well enough to proclaim this "true". I think this video is BS.

[@carlosalvarado5729]

When a woman says “I’m chasing this feeling” Just walk away and leave her on the streets. 👍😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@connyslayer4661]

Well damn, If she says "i'm chasing this feeling", tell her "keep chasing and hope you find it" then walk away lmfao.

[@eduardmanecuta5350]

She is chasing a dopamine hit that she thinks is love. She is addicted to a feeling, the feeling of being in love. Look this woman /girls speak. I want him to be like that and like that... But these girls NEVER speak what they want to do for them.

[@iandiru6433]

😂😎

[@robertreichardt4509]

I at least take her home and wish her luck.

[@thatotherguy1]

You're absolutely right.

[@LateNightRewrites]

"Started chasing this feeling" Yep, sounds like a woman

[@sharpatite4684]

Yes cuz no man ever did this.

[@warriorofthewastelandrv9480]

😄

[@flyingdutchman2442]

@@sharpatite4684 some women have raped men before. Doesn’t make it common.

[@donger2983]

Just like Eve I suppose in the garden of Eden 😂😂😂

[@Kenny-Ross]

YYYUP!

[@truthteller3024]

10years later: She is scrolling through that guy's happy family feed while this video pops up and her cats poop down the litterbox but she's too heavy on wine to move. A shitty ending, literally :)

[@treesoul00]

There’s no happy families. Just a bunch of miserable people pretending lol. Maybe super wealthy people who don’t have to change diapers or wash sports equipment.

[@user-mf4xm2sf6v]

👍👍👍😆😂🤣

[@IAnonymous3]

😂😂😂😂😂 bravo.

[@RainaSaxxon]

Men do the same thing after marrying a woman who builds them up and helps their career. Them they think they’re so great they deserve better then marry their dream girl. That girl unfortunately outgrows him and dumps him.

[@personbelowmeisadumbass8891]

what a lie

[@chrisd7775]

So she basically said that she chased the bad boy who gave her the tingles. Destroyed her solid relationship which would have lasted her a lifetime. Now she's alone in single and being ran through. That's her own fault for letting her value go down the drain.

[@LuckysLair]

Her and several million other wimmin

[@dubble2107]

On 1 hand yes no 1 wants a hoe, however on the other hand there aren't many high quality men out there, being a nice guy isn't effective, you can't provide fun, you don't provide thrills and you can't provide protection so why do you deserve a good woman who's also beautiful?

[@ronthibault1853]

Your right - at her young age she's better off married to some scrub who will probably eventually leave her (or can't hardly get it up any more) strapped with two kids to finish raising.

[@chrisd7775]

@@ronthibault1853 OK Mr. Simp. You do realize 70 to 80% of marriages and because the woman leaves. Because she thinks she can do better and find out that the best she can do is her baby daddy. Why do you think 72% of generation Z has been raised by single mothers. It isn't men leaving the relationship it's women. Because they can sleep with the top 20% of men but those top 20% of men are using them as a warm wet hole. It's pretty funny that you wanted to grade your own gender. But who built this world who maintains this world. Your name fits perfectly for you Mr. Simp. Also don't forget this. Women have lost everything that men value. fit feminine friendly loyal low body counts purity. Not one of them traditional. But they all want traditional masculine men. Why would men commit to a thought. The average woman nowadays has 10 for a body count or higher output or higher I would put more towards higher like like triple digit. On top of it all no man wants to raise an old man's children. On top of that no man wants to commit 2 a 304. You can not turn a 304 into a housewife we already know this it's been proven through society from generations upon generations. We have a whole generation of women who are gonna grow up gonna grow up alone with a cat hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. And us men we don't care at all whatsoever.

[@tuanas458]

Nah. Has nothing to do with bad boys, which btw are not attractive at all. Her old BF inflated her self esteem and now she thinks she can chase higher status men. But its bitten her in the butt. Lol.

[@chetp8423]

Women have to learn how to turn this off. That takes character. There’s a shortage of that today.

[@mrbusiness9214]

Absolutely. Knowledge is Power! They also need to improve their character development like we men do.

[@off6848]

I don’t think turning it off is going to work it needs to be tempered just like male sex drive

[@chetp8423]

@@off6848 That's a more precise way of putting it. Both sexes have their unique base drives that they need to control and sublimate.

[@patrickstogsdill74]

@@chetp8423 I agree 100 percent it would make things better

[@Sonns7900]

18+ years of marriage to hubby through good times and bad. There are still good women out there.

[@razer440]

"Best possible mate" = Guy who has the most money.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Yeah, too many modern "women" are such fucktards. Conditioning of postmodern social bullshit of course!

[@gregoryc6656]

Not always true money can only get you so far even the millionares are cheated on

[@True38]

Real attraction is all psychological.

[@lostfilmkid221b]

who will enable her worst parts the most

[@21Danieltbs]

Nah, even with all that money, girls like her are still gonna "chase after that feeling". They will never be fullfilled

[@Hieroglyphics87]

Its not just hypergamy its the fact that shes been with so many guys before him that she cannot pair bond, and at any low point in the relationships she will compare her current partners faults to every other guy shes been with that doesn't have those faults.

[@annamcg7473]

How do you know that she has been with many guys? Your woman hating is showing. Don't worry about her or any other woman. The type of men that gets girls do not have the same attitude that you have.

[@truthteller3024]

That's another reason why being a virgin is non-negotiable.

[@kevinroberts9580]

She is extremely beautiful and those are the ones that are the most trouble. If you find an average looking girl that has a good heart and is a wonderful person you're far better off

[@khanhcao3123]

An average girl with a kind heart makes her more beautiful

[@ocerco93]

@@khanhcao3123true

[@danwelterweight4137]

I disagree. All that average girl needs to do is get a promotion or get a better job and once she making more than you she will do the exact same thing. She will always think she can do better. It's not about their beauty. It's not about the hardware. It's all about software. Women are biologically programed to be that way. They can't help it. It's part of evolution.

[@calumbest5570]

@@danwelterweight4137 100% or sleep with a dude that's above her but wants nothing to do with her yet that's what she thinks is her level it's a cold world if you don't know how to move out there.

[@OverRule1]

​@@danwelterweight4137 they are also programed to complain even when everything is going perfect and will remember everything you do wrong

[@barbaradiasbatista2009]

And having the false sense of access to these “high quality” men through social media makes them miserable because they think they could do better when in reality they can’t

[@Christopher-ql8ul]

Yep once again great post rite here!

[@dubble2107]

Yes let's bash the woman who wants the best and doesn't wanna settle,,,, why don't you go marry a whale, they'll stay at home, they'll cook all the time and she won't cheat on you but apparently thats not good enough for you, everyone has needs that need to be met, some people want quality, some people want quantity and most of you guys are just whining about not being chosen by the hot chick but you aren't making moves on the ugly ones either

[@tomdip2094]

Another aspect of this is hookup culture negatively affecting a woman's view of herself. She might be 6, but the one night that she manages to sleep with Chad (despite getting ghosted the next day) will convince her that she is a 9.

[@zacharygreene1979]

@@dubble2107 sad part is the land whale will cheat on you nowadays. With social media, 2's think they are 10's now

[@dubble2107]

@@zacharygreene1979 sounds like your making assumptions, it's not like guys are super loyal either, there's pieces of 💩 on both sides

[@edwinvazquezjr]

The streets was calling and she answered 😂😂😂

[@oscararias3353]

Yeah I agree. When my ex wanted to end the relationship, I’m pretty sure she was already talking to someone for at least two months. How do I know? The day she was taking me to post office to drop most of my stuff, she didn’t even hesitate to stare at a rich 40 year old good looking guy. It was a lustful and desire look, not giving 3 fucks that I was next to her. You fall down, you get up and you move on. There ain’t nothing else to do.

[@user-rm5ig6td3l]

Ooohh but, there IS something else to do. If you're mentally able & willing

[@kyleamaral6809]

​@@user-rm5ig6td3lExactly!!!

[@burpbee1]

I'm sorry that happened to you. If I had someone special in my life, I would never let him go because if a guy treats me right, I'm not anywhere. You'll find someone who loves you for you. The one you're no longer with is not worth your tears.

[@alexanderr3098]

She wasn’t yours, it was just your turn.

[@curtisnorris868]

Not much separates us from animals and she is the proof.

[@scottjohnson8576]

I went through 3 women like this before I found my wife. When they start talking like they can do better, it’s time to set them free and invite them to go do better. All 3 of those girls talked about how great a man I was but still voiced reservations and wanted to keep their options open. I didn’t hesitate to let them explore their options as soon as it came up by stepping aside…for good. Two of them showed up and tried to hook back up when they found out I was engaged. Thank goodness I had no problem resisting any temptation.

[@bwink23]

Thanks for your story.... although pretty pointless

[@porterdavis1612]

Until yo current girl does the same ol shit

[@dnegel9546]

@@porterdavis1612 guys like this will never accept it that their current gf "the one" will ever cheat on them. And to be fair most will never catch them.

[@scottjohnson8576]

@@bwink23 oh contrare sad person. The point is, there’s no reason to spend a day with a person who wants someone else. Giving then their freedom also grants you yours.

[@blocc316]

Just make sure your new wife don't try and trade up

[@PS-gr5wh]

#1 trait of a woman who has hypergamy ....she loves to travel!!!

[@DaveE99]

I thought that was just a trait all women had

[@Africanlady2]

This makes sense as a single woman. Would always wonder why men talked about this when first meeting them, this was always super important for them to bring up . The women they meet probably eat it up, real women do not care about this.

[@eduardmanecuta5350]

What are the rest?

[@eduardmanecuta5350]

What are the rest of traits? Can you indicate where to find more about this subject?

[@debraguffie1810]

​@@rasaanshakur9491 not true an u must be a muslim

[@johnblasiak2499]

I live in an apartment block I can tell who the women are that are single They all have little dogs no partner it’s amazingly ridiculous

[@areza15143]

This young lady is freaking gorgeous. She got looks from every guy in every direction. So I’m sure she thought “I can do better,” and by doing that she blew it. 10 or 15 years from now, she will hit the wall.

[@CarlYota]

The thing is, at least with makeup, she’s STILL gorgeous. So saying she blew it isn’t accurate. She could go get an another guy like the one she “blew it” with right now. As you said, who wouldn’t say yes to her right now? Only in twenty years when she hits “the wall” if she’s still looking, THEN she blew it.

[@areza15143]

@@CarlYota I agree. But she blew it with that other guy she was talking about.

[@truthteller3024]

Litterbox will be her companion.

[@BrianManning-wh6rl]

It's just her hair , her nose is lopsided, and crooked mouth. You people see long straight blind hair and immediately think , oh wow 😦 georgous. Actually take a good look at her features , not her hair

[@charlotterogers466]

Can we stop talking about women “hitting the wall” as they get older as though they become less valuable human beings? It’s so degrading

[@66block84]

When I was much younger, 28, 70 now, my first fiancé did this to me. I was working & going to school. I was raising her first kid like she was mine. Came home from work one night to be told she wanted to go out with other guys. That was the end of that. Three years later her Mom called me to ask if I would consider her again, when asked why, she said you're the only guy that treated her with any respect. Since she had two more kids with two more guys, I told her Mom, sorry, she should have realised earlier what she had.

[@josephvance8900]

Thats crazy man! Her mom called you because she knew her daughter messed up. The crazy part is that her mom should have never called you asking you that. Seems like moms intentions were to get her daughter and grandkids taken care of financially to remove the burden from her. Good thing you didnt fall for that.

[@tedgayer336]

They had phones back then?

[@66block84]

@@tedgayer336 Yeah, they were called land lines.

[@66block84]

@@josephvance8900 Some lessons are learned the hard way, that was one of them.

[@JohnPFilakovsky]

I hope you laughed in the moms face

[@vikingshark2634]

And it doesn't end. You could be married to her for 20+ years and she could still eventually come out with that "something missing in my life." My sister was like this chick in the video, except she was married to her husband for 22 years. She had "this feeling" and started going crazy; going back to her teenage years partying, chasing dudes, cheating.... She left and now I never hear the end of how much she regrets leaving him because she hasn't found anyone better yet.

[@thalmoragent9344]

Yep, they have a helluva partner and then... yeah, they ruin it for cheap thrills.

[@Heatwave9000]

She is unlikely to find anyone better now at her age. Women need to understand that as they get older their leverage also decreases.

[@youwilllaugh3136]

The bitch deserves it, and they call out men for cheating

[@donnamariedavidson5065]

​@@Heatwave9000I understand.

[@ArmyWolves]

She doesn't regret leaving him... Even right now if Mr. Perfect walked up to her and she had a choice between Perfect and her ex husband she would choose ex husband... Simply because she has failed to secure anything better than him

[@pinnacle1717]

She doesn’t even give the man she’s leaving a second thought, he will be devastated, she doesn’t care! All she cares about is herself & that she thinks she can do better!

[@d4air105]

that is why a man who takes back an ex should be put in prison.

[@user-fi7rf8nk7z]

The thing missing from her life is common sense, modesty, morality, respect for herself and others, responsibility, accountability, self discipline, the ability to think critically. After all girls just want to have fun.

[@user-mf4xm2sf6v]

Correct ! 👍

[@davidlatting3789]

This attitude is why so many men are swearing off of marriage and even relationships now. You get married, she gets bored, isn’t satisfied or doesn’t feel like she gets enough “attention” and the next thing you know she’s looking elsewhere and you’re in court losing half your assets, retirement, house and paying alimony and child support.

[@joshbarclay1769]

Truth

[@Tom-si5ec]

And she will try to have you fired and beat up and smear campaign you

[@NeverForget1776]

I feel for young men today as a GenXer I escaped the madness of women who's minds are poisoned with toxic feminism. GenX women are more traditional like.

[@schuylergeery-zink1923]

Maybe both partners should work on themselves and be better together instead of blaming men/women for all their problems? Oh but what do I know. I’ve been with my husband and raised his nephew after my SIL died, before we got married I was there by his side to help. But I’m just a stupid woman whose DNA is working against me to make men’s lives hard! And the woke want all men to die/suffer! “Feminist power!” Perhaps the truth is eluding you all bc you blind yourselves to it. It’s easier to blame everyone else than look in a mirror.

[@cryptomilitaryvet9326]

Men sacrifice emotions for relationships while women sacrifice relationships for emotions

[@Santos.Sarmento]

I'm going to tell a joke on this topic, it's a little long but for me it's perfect! One day a man was walking alone along the beach very early in the morning. After a storm the sand was full of trash washed up by the tide. He was diverting the waste and ended up spotting a very beautiful bottle. He took the bottle, opened it and boom, a purple smoke came out, the classic genie. Before being able to recover, the entity spoke: - Unlike legend, you can only make one request, so think carefully! The man thought and thought and then finally said: - I've always wanted to go to Europe, but I'm terrified of planes and ships, so I want a bridge that goes from Boston to London! The genie shook his head and said: - That's not possible, we geniuses are here granting requests and you don't see elevators to the Moon and other absurd things, ask for a reasonable thing! The man thought some more and finally said: - Okay, so I want to understand women! In reply the very disturbed genie said: - How many lanes do you want this bridge with? Greetings from Brazil.

[@TMB-cv2bg]

Excellent 👍🏻

[@robertreichardt4509]

Yes, truth whether it's Brazil, the States, or East Asia.

[@RavenGTR79]

Daaaayuuummmm 🤣

[@snehasanskritmaternallove3087]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@moonram9639]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@stevenparker7922]

"It's science" (presents zero evidence) Being compelled to tear down women based on this pseudoscience is some seriously insecure nonsense.

[@novagalaxy342]

Lots of modern young men nowadays do this too. Some guys keep their current girlfriend or wife as a placeholder, security blanket at home until someone better comes along, then the guy cheats on his current partner or dumps her entirely to trade up for the new model. This game has been going on forever.

[@user-tj1bw7xp2r]

difference is we know who these guys are man. Most men are happy with what they can get let's not pretend that every man out there is getting laid left right and centre.

[@MustafaKulle]

A moment of silence for all the men who were ditched for someone supposedly "better".

[@Ilistentonoise]

Yeah they weren't better. Fell for the trap. Never again. "Ask not what I can do for you but what you can do for me", I say to myself when dating

[@atendriyadasa6746]

Christ, a moment?! Ha! It may take a lifetime or 2!

[@KRYMauL]

Yeah, she cheated on him with me and he told me about some other guy. -Sincerely, the other guy. She won't talk to me directly years later, but I hope she agrees to go on a trip tour with me as my friend dropped out.

[@nathantrujillo471]

I think it’s happened to nearly all of us

[@thisdyingsoul76]

My ex said as she was leaving me that she felt she could do better. 5 years later she is still single and I replaced her faster than yiu can say Change The Locks. 😂

[@milesdyson]

Remove sex from a relationship, and the modern woman offers nothing for a man today.

[@antonioarmando1938]

My core principle of evaluating women. Remove pushy from her. What do you have in common? What principles, hobbies and interests? What does she bring to enrich your life? Add in semen retention and you basically discard almost all women.

[@faulfeza5243]

Men just want to feel loved. During my relationship, I didn’t put sex on the pedestal. I only liked sex because afterwards she would be more feminine and loving.

[@Redskywinter204]

@@faulfeza5243some women can F w no emotion attached

[@soundslikejrich]

Cap

[@whatoh3407]

Lmao yall are so sad. So many mommy issues that aren't resolved.

[@ThatMans-anAnimal]

She left him BECAUSE he treated her too well, she IMAGINED she could 'do better.'

[@mattsheezy5469]

The secret to happiness is being grateful, & content with what you have… not constantly looking for MORE.

[@brettwood8379]

Fiance dumped me out of the blue. Relationship was awesome. Crazy how people just leave on a whim without trying, without communicating

[@machinemaker2248]

There were signs that you missed. I know it doesn't feel like it, but you got lucky this time. Do the post-mortem and figure out what you missed so you don't do it again. Be strong, brother. When you see your mistakes in judgment, pay it forward by telling as many men as will listen.

[@brettwood8379]

@@machinemaker2248 there were signs that she had a fearful avoidant attachment style. Actually pretty textbook. But that's pretty much it. I've been in relationships that ended and I could still identify the issues. This time there really wasn't any more I could do. Little things I could improve? Sure. I was always trying to be better. But this time it was her fear of commitment and triggers from a traumatic past. No matter what I did, something would have come up eventually

[@map3384]

She was cheating well before she ended it. You were lucky she took her trash ass out to the curb.

[@KingComp67_-io3iz]

Women leave relationships mentally before physically every time if you know that already.

[@usarmymedic07]

She did you a favor

[@shawnofeons]

I've dated women just like her. Even after I am loyal, loving, affectionate, everything they claim to want, they get bored of me and move on. Then they hit me up years later after they have hooked up with other men, thinking I will take them back.

[@schuylergeery-zink1923]

That’s sad :/ once I found a good man I wanted to lock that shit down. He was worried if change my mind after I turned 25 but I was like NAHH. We went though hell and back together, got married. I’m SO grateful for him everyday. All I ever wanted was to marry someone who is my best friend and we can grow old together. And we agree our sex life is an “exceeds expectations” for married life. There’s never a boring day 😂 not when your SIL dies and you’re raising your teenage nephew together ha. Best thing to do is improve yourself, so you’re the best you that you can be in each moment and to attract a good fit who is doing the same. I can be loyal to a fault when it comes to friendships and I’ve definitely let people manipulate me… I’ve left female and male friends… people like this aren’t friends at all. I hope they learn.

[@LautaroTessi]

@@schuylergeery-zink1923 “We went through hell and back together”. That doesn’t sound like a fairy tale, but a real love story. Not many are willing to drive that road, but is the key of a strong, mature relationship. Good for you two!

[@Strafeyy]

I see your problem - Your definition of "Everything they want" is wrong. Read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi.

[@user-yv6iy8nm5g]

Never do that...

[@1766584]

They don’t know what they want. It’s up to us to tell them what’s best; lead and teach them. Only listen to like 5% of what she says. We men suppose to go within to get a what we need.

[@andersoncockerm7543]

The problem is many can never satisfy a [want] but you can satisfy a [need]. This situation happens because of greed.

[@dogukancil5128]

No, it's loyalty. Weak-willed people will always cheat. Select your partners well. A good partner will be your best friend, it's not about sexuality, which fades, but rather about the memories you share and the loyalty you inspire in her.

[@CorbinB-Rax]

That fades in the current moment you upset her enough, or for the last time. Any woman it seems

[@Rbhawk3rd]

Like my grandfather always said "Hoes without instruction always head for self destruction "🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡

[@coreywallace8726]

Sounds like something Denzel from Brickleberry would say

[@Rbhawk3rd]

@@coreywallace8726 Grandfather passed away 20 years ago. Told me this since I was 12. I'm 54 now and he's been proven correct til this day.

[@thalmoragent9344]

​​@@Rbhawk3rd Facts, that's why a man has to lead as the head of the house, and be the one in charge and have the final say.

[@vicshephard9231]

Grandad was the pimpin'.

[@theemotionalremix]

​@@Rbhawk3rd your grandad was a G 🔥

[@dannyv161]

"Iam too pretty to be with one guy"

[@HOLLASOUNDS]

Everything is tempery, enjoy the moment and never grasp to tight to anyone.

[@cassiodomingues5403]

I'd say 'I'm too pretty to not be with a guy that's not a billionaire'

[@HOLLASOUNDS]

@@cassiodomingues5403 Your a man and not supposed to be pretty.

[@___solar___]

@@HOLLASOUNDS And everything about that behavior is temporary. It’s self gratification and pursuing dopamine is what sleeping around is. Get real, and go to the gym if you have that fuckboy mindset. 🫵 Then maybe you’ll realize how important emotional connection is with a loyal person. After a while, the gratification gets old, and when that happens, it’s too late, and your addiction has destroyed your love life, and has done NOTHING to benefit your life.

[@HOLLASOUNDS]

@@___solar___ I dont sleep around actually and often dont even bother with getting to deep into women because they mess Me about so much and I basically dont have time for it. Most of My girlfriends have been just as good looking as the women in the video and prehaps that's part of the problem.

[@mattkrauss7170]

“It’s in *their* DNA” lol ours too buddy, that’s something we’ll have to figure out for ourselves.

[@CarlYota]

He’s just in stage one of studying about evolution, and since he’s not a nerd he probably won’t go further. But if you’re smart and you do go further you eventually actually wake up from delusion. The irony of the red pill is they don’t actually swallow it. 1. See the devil in others 2. See the devil in yourself 3. See yourself and others with compassion because you see the devil in evolution. And the final wisdom is to realize that you couldn’t have designed it any better how do you take the universe from elements to complex life in a way that doesn’t min max for the only viable win condition, selfish genetic replication. Most people aren’t nerds, which is to say not smart enough to actually study this stuff. And it’s in thier selfish interest to stop at stage one anyway.

[@wastrelperv]

Agreed.

[@widxchange]

No, that feeling was she wants a chad that makes her cry and treats her like shit

[@Chris-es3wf]

You'll notice that in the Simpsons one of the things the Crazy Cat Lady throws at people is her framed Harvard law diploma. The Simpsons knew what was coming...

[@sitaruim]

Hilarious

[@boejiden855]

They are always years ahead of us

[@shiptj01]

​@@boejiden855 You're right!

[@MnMEminem]

Why do men act like we are so much different? Many of us(me including) treat good women like trash, then comes a girl that treat us like trash... and then we start to appreciate the good women! I believe its the same with this girl, she is young and unexperienced...

[@JB-423]

Simpsons predict the future again 😄 🤣

[@fernandoamy8278]

Hypergamy is not just about feelings. Women have brains too, they can think. She doesn't just feel that she can do better, she also THINKS that she can do better. When it serves their purpose, women will use feelings as an excuse to avoid responsibility for what they knowingly set out to do.

[@alejandrovargas7592]

You have said it perfectly!! True that.

[@PolarBearPredator]

Lol women have brains??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SpyTrader1988]

Biology always win. Don’t let this make you mad. Just adapt to the situation and reality. Date for sex and not marriage. Focus on your wealth and health

[@KRYMauL]

And if you want kids, just adopt them.

[@mihailucian409]

​@@KRYMauL:))))) so fkin crazy :)))

[@csu111]

Also why marriage is a bad idea. Marriage requires women to go against their nature and be loyal. They’re not really into that loyalty thing, and they like taking your money with them when they leave.

[@iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii2458]

"Bros before 304s." ---Sun Tzu

[@lordamber]

Ah but they definitely require loyalty to them, if not their hoes to start with so break a leg running!

[@teevee5884]

Then why do the redpillers expect women to accept their husbands to cheat? Thats not loyalty.

[@seekingtruth3054]

Women are not only looking to trade up but also to keep a guy or two on the back burner in the "friend zone" in case things don't work out.

[@eddiea3251]

those are her orbiters. Just waiting to slide in and take your place.

[@coco-on60fps54]

Do not lump all women together. That's complete bullshit.

[@teevee5884]

Sounds like a lot of men to me.

[@johngrabowski9647]

That's why so many men are walking away from relationships and marriage thank god !

[@rychier6994]

Simps still outnumber smart guys by a 10-1 margin tho, lol

[@rychier6994]

@@natoslayer2907 exactly......

[@miket6094]

The reason I walked away from marriage and relationships was because I learned that 80% of divorces are initiated by women. This fact is much more important statistic for men to understand than hypergamy is

[@johngrabowski9647]

@@miket6094 I was dumb enough to get married twice! I regret ever getting married ! Both of them fucked me and both pulled the same shit ! It took me 54 years to understand a woman's nature and they are always looking for better no matter how long you're married for or even going out ? They will monkey branch your ass with no regrets! I'm red pill 100 percent and that's not even having kids,? You have kids your wife and the state will own your ass for 18 years if not longer it's just not worth it anymore to get involved ! Men need to focus on themselves to improve their lives !

[@rychier6994]

@@miket6094 yes sir, exactly, basically the deck is stacked In favor of women, you have to be a fool to not realize that.....

[@dr.doppeldecker3832]

What is this dude dressing like a 12 year old trying to tell me?

[@mmm365]

With his Stupid hat inside a building

[@barefootarts737]

So when I do this, is it hypergamy?

[@piratepete2022]

Destructive behavior 101.

[@dalebabcock722]

I had an ex like that. She was always looking for the better mate. One with more money , better car, house ,job. Blah blah. I'm glad we're no longer together she was a nightmare

[@texasflood3165]

..been there..!!

[@oliverkeverenge9819]

Man, you are literally telling my story

[@sergiojuarez584]

Dodged a bullet my friend me too

[@mainagakere7305]

I thought I was alone. Sorry bro

[@knightstar1312]

My life story....

[@marlonscloud]

"It's science" is a pretty ridiculous preposition about just about anything. The pro wrestling hat makes sense here

[@pitapita3559]

It plainly illustrates that *SHE WAS NEVER ABOUT the Pursuit of LOVING UNCONDITIONALLY*

[@cptbob100]

The thing about being human is that we can consciously override biological urges if we choose to.

[@DonManuelConLeonsJacket]

Rarely vomen, but u can try if it helps u sleep better.

[@meunome5867]

I was waiting for someone to say that, well said!

[@ianarn]

Yes we have to control our urges and hormones as men but there is no such shame placed upon women in the modern age!

[@golddanny]

right, but you have to be very disciplined for very long to acomplish that

[@icarus9097]

In theory, women can. But will they? Not in western 2024. Why would they?

[@scottjohnson8576]

When she’s 40 and still single and can’t get a date she will realize how bad she screwed up 20 years before…

[@SamuelBlack84]

I'm almost 40 and can't get a date, mainly because nobody wants to date me. It's not always your own decision

[@MRW21783]

My ex wife lol. Light bulb still hasn't come on.

[@markmagness3693]

@@SamuelBlack84 the point is she should lock the guy down now in her 20’s and not try at 40 expecting to attract guys as early

[@MichaelSmith-ku7ki]

@@SamuelBlack84 There's a lid for every pot.

[@SamuelBlack84]

@@MichaelSmith-ku7ki How presumptuous

[@yudirsamakhlouf2955]

It’s just that she wasn’t ready. She had not found herself and it has nothing to do with the man. Before being in a serious relationship or marriage one must be happy with one’s self. That goes for both men and women.

[@rodschmidt8952]

Props to her, at least, for being honest about it

[@modernman1240]

Treat her like Dirt and you wont get hurt. Treat her like a Queen and you will be left unseen. - FUTURE

[@MichaelJP]

Sensational.

[@burntgod7165]

Incel.

[@modernman1240]

@@burntgod7165 Says a VVH0!₹€!!🤣 Ask yr mama. Her l00se pu&&y will tell you what kind of mayhem i am capable of doing.

[@MichaelJP]

@@burntgod7165 lol FUTURE? He's a proud misogynist/chauvinist but "incel"? Man's gotta be pushing Wilt Chamberlain/Mick Jagger numbers by now.

[@burntgod7165]

@@MichaelJP Such pride stems from insecurity. Such boasts tend to cover embarrassment.

[@greg6d4d78]

"He treated me like a princess." ...that'll do it every time.

[@flyboy4467]

I read an article where archaeologists and other scientists found a village from the caveman days. Not sure how they figured this stuff out but they found strong evidence of domestic violence from that era. The men beat the piss out of their female partners. Not condoning abuse or violence of any kind but I find it funny that even back then, men had it with females.

[@mrsherwood2599]

Oops!

[@Noumenon4Idolatry]

Nice guys finish last. 🫡 Maybe it’s something a guy should look at, first thing every day. Just a reminder of how to prepare for the day. Am I giving too much? Am I being too nice? Am I putting myself past? Am I too caring? Am I hoping this person will Love me back? Am I giving allot expecting something in return? Am I trying to help someone and getting nothing in return? Am I my priority or is someone else? Am I that persons priority? I have a neat trick someone showed me years ago. How could of this woman better helped or supported your needs and desires? Once you have the answer See it in your mind Attach an imagine line to it Now find a spot on your body where you can receive it And attach the other side of the line to where you can receive it. Learn to sort of give yourself everything you want and need from a woman in this way… Until you learn to detach.. The more detached you become The more attractive you become to woman Because you no longer want or need them in your life You no longer come across as needy or desperate or insecure and chasing them around to feel whole or complete etc. You will no longer have a void within yourself and you will less dependent and more independent They make even feel compelled to start giving to you because you don’t want anything from them Because you can leave them without consequence Because you don’t care about them They can feel that energy Woman are sensitive to anyone pushing or putting pressure on them Do conform to the wants and needs of others But You will see woman give and throw away their entries lives on guys thag don’t even care about them at all. You don’t even need to give much to a woman to receive her total love attention care and revolution If your not getting it It’s because your giving it And wanting it in return. Giving to recieve Really screws men The desire for reciprocation Then whining and complaining Poor me nobody loved me I try so hard No more trying Do something instead No chasing No trying They don’t deserve all of your love and attention so just stop giving it to them And focus on yourself Let them come to you For real For every man you see out there That’s failing I bet he’s desperately trying really hard to cling to some woman that’s running from him to be with someone else And it’s because he’s so needy And because he doesn’t care or take good care of his self Have self esteem Or put his self first When you make yourself the priority That’s how you let woman know That they need to make you the profit and if they don’t do that Good You don’t need them That’s how you get a woman’s attention I don’t need you That lets them know that their not shit And they will seek your approval instead Even jump through hoops at times to satisfy or please you So you don’t leave them

[@weswolever7477]

If she wants to be treated like a princess … negotiate an arranged marriage that will strengthen your alliance with Spain

[@beefy1728]

​@@weswolever7477🤣🤣🤣 👏👏👏

[@NYC_LIBERAL]

Yes, chasing is wasted effort. Us guys have to stay on our mission at living OUR best lives. The 'right' ones will WANT to included. Stay focus men

[@DFDX1001]

This is directly on point. Hypergamy is a women's curse. Its consequences spills over into all areas of her life with a sense of unsettled discontentment. If women could only understand this as an instinctual discomfort, they could self-check and avoid emotionally damaging decisions for themselves and the wake of destruction for all those in close relationship to her.

[@johndo2627]

Everything new always seems exciting until the novelty factor inevitably wears off.

[@michaelcorrigan6577]

Well said

[@andevrezme3059]

The “feeling “ she was chasing were other men. She was treated as a princess so she treated him as one of her subjects.

[@Djsolaur]

Just because you feel something, Doesn't mean you should follow it

[@alexanderjosephross]

Men are not immune to this sin- I’ve been guilty of it before

[@GPS.GhostPirateSloan]

8’s, 9’s, and 10’s are community property. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.

[@GPS.GhostPirateSloan]

@Poop take your red pills daily bruddah- eventually the philosophy will just flow through you, on auto- nothing new, no new stories from the stragg, and the phrases, verses, and lines on tap for every situation.

[@Johnnysmithy24]

Why you gotta make me depressed like that

[@bx3556]

They call it a carousel for a reason. They get on, get off, repeat for no reason or aim. Then they cry when they waited too long to have children. Watch out though: some beautiful women are smart enough to figure this out and avoid the problems. While some average women act like as if they look good when they don't. They do the same silly games so don't think you are safe if you "settle for less."

[@SuperDJsEnt]

PREACH!

[@eroik4301]

8-10s are not community property lmao. These are super hot IG models that sleep with millionaires. This girl in the video is dead average

[@yossarianmnichols9641]

My three sisters have held on to their husbands for dear life. They never traded up because they knew where they were in the marketplace. They are smart.

[@YanoshRagauld]

A result of some good nurturing through growing up perhaps. Hats off you all and your parents. ( let me guess,. you had two parents?, one of "each" gender?)

[@ladyvanda]

Oh my sweet summer child… this is impossible. Haven’t you heard -auntie george- rollo? Doesn’t matter if your sisters were raised right. They still get flown to Saudi every 2 weeks to entertain princes and their camels while your brothers-in-law look the other way. It’s science, it’s biology, it’s hard-wired deterministic stuff. I’m sorry bro, your sisters are getting 🚂 on the daily. cqfd,▫️

[@JonnyDWise]

Lmao you basically said your sisters were unremarkable and I really respect that honesty

[@rebrandftw]

Gl to my fellow gentlemen, we're in this shit together!! 💪

[@guyfawkes9789]

When you hit the wall we all be laughing.

[@PIERCED6966]

Both my exes traded up for older men, more money in bank. Both men died living them zilch🤣

[@MichaelSmith-ku7ki]

That's hilarious!

[@PIERCED6966]

@@MichaelSmith-ku7ki The 2nd wife's was the best. 1 month after we divorced the guy she was cheating with fell over, hit his head and died from a hemorrhage to the brain. Ironically I never knew at the time and we were arguing on phone after the incident and I said I hope the old fart dies, not knowing he had. Boy did I gloat

[@nncoco]

Probably spent it keeping her happy.

[@PIERCED6966]

@@nncocoYou mean you're so shallow that's all it takes for you?

[@MichaelSmith-ku7ki]

@@PIERCED6966 She's talking about your ex probably didn't get any money because the guy she was cheating with spent all his money paying for her services.

[@veritasliberabitvos454]

What she does not talk about is all her friends encouraging her to pursue this feeling and dump the other dude. Women know women and they hate each other - seem many women destroy great relationships of their friends out of jealousy.

[@JustALowClassWarrior]

If that's true, that's disgusting. Both that a woman's so-called lady "Friends" would do that, and that she'd listen to them... Brothers, have any of you been able to confirm this happened to you? I believe this may be what happened to my marriage, though I am not certain.

[@Johnnysmithy24]

@@JustALowClassWarrior Yes this happens a lot, but mind you it happens with men as well. If their friends don’t like you, they’ll always encourage her to leave you as soon as she gets a chance, instead of having your back. This is why I think you should to get their friends to like you

[@JustALowClassWarrior]

@@Johnnysmithy24 I appreciate your response, but I disagree. At that point, if she is so unhappy that what I bring to the table isn't enough for her, that she is still swayed by them to leave me, she should just leave. I don't need a female partner in my life who keeps a bunch of thirsty betas waiting on the side. If she wants them, she can have them. I make a solid effort to get to know, befriend, and care for people in my life, including friends of hers, but I don't need that kind of crap.

[@mikepurdue7472]

​@@Johnnysmithy24Nah. Not even. Sorry. I know at least I've never had any of my buddies try to convince me to leave a girl. Though i have experienced first hand on more than one occaision her female friends trying to split us up. One time it was successful. It's a female thing. Sometimes that female "friend", just wanted to date you instead of her. Pretty pathetic.

[@idolhand6468]

You say Hypergamy. I say Hyper Gammy .

[@jasonkutlik2414]

The flip side of hypergamy is she gets older and older so when she leaves because she's hit her wall -- you get to get a younger one guilt free. Dazed and confused "I get older but they stay the same age." She's never your's. It's just your turn.

[@twigmasta]

Living Hot dogs flying at her face meme

[@princeharming8963]

When you are THAT Attractive.. you live in an alternative reality. Doors magically open for you.. coats go down over the mud for you.. bartenders give you the best booze.. with an even number of ice cubes.. You Rarely ever hear the word "no", or have to flex the muscle of compromise - and eventually, through no fault of your own, that muscle begins to atrophy. Then, one day.. someone breaks out of that mold of pure fantasy.. and you are utterly blindsided. It doesn't mean you are mean, or evil, or stupid.. just conditioned to a different reality. One that the rest of us do not live in. And the result can be a bit of a shocker.

[@frodiesel0]

It’s called white woman, privilege and blondes. Have it the worst

[@willmercury]

The Halo Effect.

[@theambassador2350]

She's a 10 (with the paint job)

[@DrRussell]

Really well explained. Thank you

[@DrRussell]

@@theambassador2350 yep; also, -10 personality.

[@devinjeffrey275]

The moment this is evident to any man, walk away-never look back! It’s never worth it!

[@gavriecox2229]

This poor guy has been hurt

[@ComeOnManPodcast]

Everybody drink 🥃

[@mattbrown5511]

A garden tool will always be one.

[@Lucid_Waking]

"I thought I had it all.. and there was something missing in my life." I am confusion.

[@nathantrujillo471]

😂😂

[@sayckeone]

Female logic.

[@rayrwyr]

The moment she thought she had it all was when the doom started. That's why you must say no to your wife whenever possible.

[@Lazuray666]

The way to combat that is to show that you are desirable to others without being a narcissist. Once she sees that others find you desirable her limbic system will make her realise "others find him desirable, so now I don't want anyone else to have him" - obviously there are a ton of variables.

[@questionsfrog1918]

You can't "combat" people driving against traffic on a highway by signaling you're driving the right way,if the spark of "oh my god,what the hell am i doing" is missing then there will never be enough self awareness to navigate life using brain over impulse

[@Lazuray666]

@@questionsfrog1918 I'm not saying it's fool proof...however I've had enough personal experiences which accurately reflect my aforementioned statements so 🤷‍♂️ as I said, there's always variables

[@questionsfrog1918]

@@Lazuray666 its worth a try eh,still a rigged game

[@esth8175]

There is some truth to this.

[@esth8175]

It's similar to how more people seem to want you as soon as you're "taken" To have that air about you while not dating someone is very effective.

[@squeezerdsqueezerd2427]

There was something missing alright a father figure 😂.

[@stephenhobbs4753]

Learn from my experience... After two divorces, my anecdotal experience should be a cautionary tale. There's no making a woman happy from anything external you could do for her. My second wife left me when I was making much more than when she first met me. If she's broken, you will not fix her... Dismiss this at your own financial peril...

[@johnqueen2754]

you have to have some integrity, and integrity is doing the right thing when know one is looking

[@mike69bout]

And that's where they'll always be alone in the end

[@SamuelBlack84]

Nobody knows the meaning of that word more than I do

[@carvercapitalequitypartner122]

The cats will keep them company.

[@levijack1947]

If I can resist the biological urge to sow my "oats" in every "field" I cross, than she can resist the biological urge to chase "more," and "better." We both have to make an effort...

[@billucf96]

This is why you must make women prove themselves to you everyday.

[@youwilllaugh3136]

Yep looks don't matter 100% of the time they should work to please you and make you happy, also never be predictable to them

[@perezchizzy8500]

Facts

[@diamelisynfante9801]

That’s a weird mentality but okay

[@diamelisynfante9801]

@@youwilllaugh3136work to please you is one of the craziest shit I’ve heard

[@Cory99918]

@@diamelisynfante9801 No, meet the man halfway, and prove she is trustworthy - or else it's not worth it, and there can be no union. There should be a certain amount of time passed, maybe a year, two, 6 months.... 3 years.... when you can say "Ok, I know her, she's proven herself", but then if she ever starts acting out of character.... she isn't really proving herself anymore, and she isn't trustworthy anymore is she.... The craziest thing you've ever heard? Is not this, this is just actual reality.... The craziest thing you've ever heard would be trusting an untrustworthy person, gaslighting yourself, and pretending everything's fine when it isn't - that's insane....