Coming Out Video

[@nathanhenderson7828]

Hey everyone just wanted to say thank you so much for watching my video and thank you very much to everyone who left such encouraging and thoughtful comments. It has been a goal of mine for a long time to make a coming out video and it makes me so happy to see others actually gaining from it. I am thinking about posting another video soon about dating, what you should watch out for, and what to keep away from if you are looking for a possible relationship online. So keep on the look out if you are interested in something like that? -Thanks to everyone, Nathan Henderson

[@vinnytabares142]

OMG! I am gay and live in KANSAS too!! That is so cool! And your video was inspiring and I'm here for ya if you ever need somebody to talk to!

[@TPR38655]

I'm glad everything turned out good in the end for you. You should do update videos , you have good presence on cam & you think out what you want to say. You could really help others close to your age, I bet

[@kq4971]

MAKE MORE VIDEOS!! 8)

[@rdcc9677]

Nathan Henderson Bro, i'll be really thankful if you could look your Inbox, in the section of others, I really hope your answer, greetings to you from mexico

[@papasmurf1904]

Nathan Henderson Indeed Nathan........you were very, very, very *Brave!* I am wishing only the very best life has to offer you...... you're a *Strong* Jedi Knight! =D

[@viderethevaccinatorfromhol7536]

Anyone knows how Nathan is doing nowadays? I would be so proud to have a child like Nathan. Such a brave young guy that knew who he is and didn't want to hide himself just because of other people's feelings and thoughts. At the end, their feelings don't matter. Brave guy. I hope his life is awesome.

[@HighMindedSoldiers25]

I'm hoping he's somewhere thriving and doing okay, this video made me cry.

[@garyjones3880]

I agree I would like to know how he is doing also

[@ZachSkagen]

He’s doing great and is dating a great guy named Jack! 🎉 and he’s very happy!

[@viderethevaccinatorfromhol7536]

@@ZachSkagenthat would be awesome, thank you so much.

[@johnfisher247]

Hopefully he has moved through it and not been used up or used others.

[@georgeruberti6666]

You are a gorgeous young man. I bet you still are these five years later. I wish you would do an update and let everyone know how you're doing now. Thanks for telling this very thoughtful personal story.

[@foxfacerules4816]

I'm a closeted teen at school and I've been worried about coming out to some of my friends and family. After watching your video and hearing your experience it hit home to me. I'm out to very few people, but they all support and love me for me. In your description, it says that you're from Kansas. I also live in Kansas and just hearing the experiences that you have had with people in this state made me feel so much better. Thank you!

[@ryuuzaakii1656]

How are you doing now?

[@wckcol]

Great video. You are so confident and self assured. I am extremely happy that things worked out for you. Truly inspirational story and great advice.

[@danieldumas7361]

Yes Nathan is cute, yes he's attractive but, most of all, he is brave, yes he's lucky but, if other young gays get a chance to view this vlog and recognize his honesty, his courage, his approach which is so relatable to others of his age, then he has achieved what most people, twice his age, have failed to convey. Totally Awesome. Thank you!

[@nicholassweazey987]

yes, Nathan WILL inspire other young men to accept themselves and for that you have my respect. thank you from my heart to yours. God bless you.

[@kevinbowden3397]

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[@austinparrent395]

You should do a follow up video, just an update or something. Would be really cool!

[@GlynRobinson]

Austin Parrent I agree.

[@redhood8141]

I'd love to see that

[@melissamuller3509]

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[@eagleboyben]

Hey Nathan- What an amazingly thoughtful guy you are. Definitely wise beyond your years. You have a great future ahead and all those who have you in their life are blessed by your presence in their lives. Thanks for putting yourself out there and sharing your inspiring story. I have a favorite saying that I repeat often - "Trust the process". Clearly you embody that saying. I wish you the very best always! Ben

[@elijahmiller2744]

I recently came out to my family and this is exactly how I experienced it. I’m still going through the process of them opening up, but so far it’s going good. I’m proud of you sharing your story Nathan! ❤️

[@michaelsumstine1579]

Wow.....I am almost 44 years old now, and this brought back memories of my life when I was 17 & coming out to friends and my very religious family. I'm proud of you and a beautiful life is ahead of you. Thank you for making this video

[@stjuartsmills3108]

Wow, you are amazing! Smart, confident, kind and handsome.

[@FuzzyElf]

Thank you for making this. It's wonderful you got so much initial support. I'm sorry your parents reacted that way, but glad you were there helping them change. It can be really hard to be patient -- like you say, you have to give them time.

[@hanzzie28]

You are a very good example for boys like you who strugling with their feelings. Much of courage to do this. Great video, you are a good person!

[@bbcowan]

Nathan you are great! Inspirational. Your coming out story has no doubt helped many others, giving them the confidence to come out. Absolutely awesome.

[@RossWalkerSmith]

Nathan, First off, I can already tell that you have reached your goal and have already inspired many. Congrats. Second, coming out stories are my favorite kind of video to watch because not everyone's story is the same. Every story is different in their own unique way and the fact that you were strong enough to not let your parents control you (in the sense of making you go to counseling and such) and rely on your friends is so wise of you and that makes me so proud (despite not knowing you personally). Lastly, i'd just like to say that i'm glad that in the end everything turned out nicely and that you aren't having many troubles since. P.S. Are you going to be making any more videos? Alright that's it, stay tight man! Peace. -Ross

[@nathanhenderson7828]

I agree, I still love watching coming out stories because they are so diverse and unique. Thanks so much for everything and yes I am hoping to record another video soon!

[@devonguy02]

Nathan Henderson Great video man, your an inspiration to young people dealing with this issue, very wise words, stay focused, best wishes from the UK

[@RossWalkerSmith]

Nathan Henderson I never saw that you replied but they truly are. Still waiting on that video :) haha hope to see one soon! Hope all is well! -Ross

[@queenbeez3438]

black puta ok but you dont need to say that i could deal with myself you dont need to sy that ok😡😡😡

[@kristjansepp5108]

Nathan Henderson when that soon is ?? waiting :) 👀😍

[@niclarsson4894]

This is honestly the best coming out video on youtube I've seen so far (and I've seen a lot)! I grew up in a religious environment too. Watching your video makes me optimistic and gives me hope. I wish my friends and family are going to be so accepting as yours... You're a big inspiration! Thanks for sharing your story!

[@johnsen6699]

Nathan, congratulations on coming out and making this video. I'm sure it will help others who see it and will be encouraged to come out on their own. Glad your parents are more accepting and supportive. Good luck

[@JonnyH123]

Watching your only video on 12/4/24, hope life is treating you well, I fully expect it to be so. Throughly enjoyed your coming out story. You’re so fortunate to have a supportive friend base, then a family accepting and loving you for who you are. Thnx 4 sharing 🕊️

[@SweetandMature]

Nicely done Nathan, I am super proud of you.

[@craigsmith4105]

Thank you Nath for doing this...what courage. Beautifully done. You're my hero.

[@trisshandy]

Great video - props on your courage, and thanks for making it. The part about your friends/classmates speaking up to support you brought tears to my eyes.

[@AnonymousAnonymous-ku3vw]

Nathan has really inspired me to make my coming out video. Im glad you shared your experience ... you helped me a lot.

[@scottsummers8326]

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad things went well. Best of luck!

[@anthonyzane7541]

This is a beautiful video. I think it will help many people struggling through their issues. Thank you for putting yourself out there. This video speaks for so many that are, or will be going through the same process.

[@timkidd8491]

Great video! It's important to tell coming out stories, thank you. Best of luck for the future.

[@nico-dd4hk]

Thank you so much. In my situation and the situation of many others, these videos are sometimes all that we have. I've watched a lot of coming out stories, but this one touched me. Congrats and good luck for the rest !

[@robertschultz4641]

I'm 76 y. o. and had tears in my eyes. Never had the courage of Nathan 2 come out,!

[@angelusavila3832]

Not that you did not have courage, it was a different time! God Bless!

[@devonguy02]

Sadly a lot of people back they wer'e in the same position, so sad it was bad enough 20+years ago here in the Uk things are now so much better and easier thankfully and rightly so !

[@philipzanoni]

It's not too late...i came out...to myself..and a handful of trusted people... Including one of my daughter's... I met and fell in love with the perfect young man... he gave to me, for 2 years! what I denied myself when I was his age.. so it was a chance to sort of go back in time almost. because he was so young... in his 20s ..it allowed me to sort of pretend I was in my twenties also... he agreed to be that person ..understanding that we were living in a fantasy of sorts.. the only problem is we both fell in love with each other ..and because of the age difference it obviously doesn't work out.. And my heart is broken..because I live him so much..and him me..but now that we are separated... I don't regret a minute of it.. without him, I'd still be like you in the closet full of regrets .. now I'm free ...and looking for a more closer in age partner to play with. and enjoy myself.. it is so the best thing I ever did in my life ..I'm going to turn 53 so quite a bit younger than you.. but hell, ll I say go for it still.. you never know who the universe might throw in your path .even if it's just a little while..GO FOR IT!!

[@markpalmer8083]

Different times.

[@ilqar887]

@@philipzanonisorry your since ur gay how come u have a daughter

[@flnative3839]

Great video Nathan. It's great to see strong young people like yourself accepting who you are and moving forward with your life. Hopefully you will be an inspiration for other younger (and some older) people who have still not dealt with this important aspect of their life. Best wishes and good luck. Stay healthy.

[@jaguarantony]

That's awesome Nathan. I'm gay and It was difficult to come out to my family and friends also. Best of luck Nathan. I support you.

[@bionicredneck6976]

Antony the Muscle car nut You're still the same person at the end of the day

[@frederickwilson6222]

Antony the Muscle car nut I am gay too

[@frederickwilson6222]

Antony the Muscle car nut I support you

[@andya3164]

Beautiful story, thank you, brave boy! Keep shining your light and making life good for yourself and other people. You are very special. God bless you, protect and guide you into a wonderful life with love and happiness.

[@weda0604]

Hey Nate, thanks for making this video. I am 25, soon to be 26, and just came out to my family and friends over the last month. I expected my friends to be supportive which they were more than supportive. I was not, however, anticipating the same from my parents so I started seeing a counselor. Apparently my mom picked up on the hints I had been dropping over the last year and so when I finally came out to them they were prepared. I was absolutely stunned and blown away by how supportive they BOTH were. I was expecting my mom to come around some day and thought my dad would have a hard time dealing with it. It was for this reason I decided to wait until I was done with college and completely independent before telling them. To hear both parents say they are concerned about my well being, that I am a great person, they understand I am still the same person, and they will always love me was probably the most uplifting thing I could ever hear. It's amazing how coming out is probably something no gay person will ever forget. I know I won't. So I went from a really dark depressed state to the most peaceful yet excited person. I was and am SO happy to have my friends and family in my life. Not only are they ALL supportive but not a single one has treated me any differently or even been slightly awkward in my presence. I am glad all has worked out well for you. I come from a Catholic family and know what it's like to have the strong roots that go against homosexuality. I don't consider myself very religious, yet I always ask myself about God's message. How can it be said that homosexuality is a sin, thus we are sinners, but God loves all and says no one should be looked down upon. It's contradictory and has made me question my religion. I would rather live in a world where acceptance of all people is human nature rather than worrying about religious laws and ideals. Anyway, I digress. Thanks for sharing your story, I hope to share mine soon as well! :)

[@nathanhenderson7828]

I am very happy for you Dan! It's great to have such a supporting friend group and family and I wish that was the normal for everyone. Thank you for sharing a little bit of your story!

[@queenbeez3438]

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[@bionicredneck6976]

Nathan Henderson can I ask you for advice

[@SeniorBactive]

@@nathanhenderson7828thanks

[@chetanvinayak6799]

@@nathanhenderson7828 this video is beautiful lovely story of your coming out story wow very brave my name is Chetan I am gay too I can totally understand what you’re going through my coming out story is horrible and nasty they is a saying acpect yourself before others expect you

[@JamesManon]

Great coming out video. You are wise beyond your years. I wish I had your emotional intelligence and thoughtful strategy around telling the people around you. You showed incredible courage with your family and I happy to hear you are in a great place. Thanks for the inspiration.

[@beefree2003]

Awesome video. Thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it is going to help others. Stay strong and keep believing in your self. Big Dave

[@intub8]

Cool Coming out video. You were very brave to do so. It's a relief once it's done. I remember my coming out and it was the most freeing thing I have ever done.

[@LaurenceMartin4pix]

Wow . . that was quite a thorough blow-by-blow account, with the whole family thing ! Religion in the mix, can definitely stir things up !! But what great peer support you had !! . . . It makes all the difference !!

[@ronseidman2048]

Well done Nathan. Thanks for sharing and helping other young people that are struggling. You do a fine job in your on camera. Peace and success.

[@michaelswartzkopf6085]

Nathan, I completely feel your relief to finally open up and share your heart to the world in this manner. I too suffered since I was a boy, and now almost 52 with serious health issues, including depression, STDS and I came out to my family members after my loving mother in August 2014finally lost her battle with cancer after 20 years of chemotherapy and radiation and feeding tubes and she literally dwindled down to 88 pounds. We could see her skeleton frame and hugging her was scary as I was always afraid I would hurt her! I was living about 20 miles from her and my sad father said that her beloved Hospice Caregiver said that her time is today August 14 and I lived in an apartment with my then live-in partner of 10 years who unfortunately was dependant on strong drugs and alcohol and clung to me because I was the only real "stable" personal in his whole life. I was divorced from my wife and dragged my son Matthew into my secret life and accepted me unconditionally. And just 7months after Mom passed I suffered a very debilitating stroke and my recovery has been slow, painful and exhausting through extensive physical and occupational therapy and through the good will and support of my remaining family I was afforded gracious Ryan White funding right here in the Dallas-Fort Worth area utilizing the amazing group of professional doctors and charitable foundations associated with the Parkland Hospital System, a current international leader in HIV research and taxpayer's generosity to allow me access to very expensive medicines. I have witnessed death not only in my caregiver "cottage" but also at the Parkland Wish Clinic and extremely busy Level One Trauma ER in this city of unimaginable crimes and unpopular police relations with the constantly growing unemployment issues and having safe reliable public transportation for indigent groups of people from all corners of the world. I too was brought up in a strict Christian home and lived through generations of heavy smokers that of course I started smoking in my early 20's and finally quit as of July 2017 thanks to an eye opening seizure that put me back in the hospital for almost 2 months and then aftershocks of learning my status and the huge stigma of shame and guilt that only professionals in a community of caring, compassionate souls that had transformed my life as a child of God and born again Christian. So please continue to update your subscribers as your life progresses. As far as Love is concerned I finally found it in my inner self and am quietly and painfully learning to be and say who I am. I'm Michael and I'm gay🌈💪😕

[@mjgutierrez]

GOD BLESS

[@Mrpoulenc1899]

Thank you Nathan for a heartfelt and very moving video. hope life is good for you at this time, you deserve it so to be. would love to know how these passing years have treated you would you ever consider an update ? Kindest regards to you, Simon.

[@RobertWorthLexus300]

Nathan you are a child of the universe; no less than the tress and the stars; you have a right to be here. I am a gay man now in my 70's. I came out back in the 1960's when things were different. I am so happy to see video's like yours because I can see that it is easier now for you to be you. It makes me happy that all your friends are supporting you. I hope I and the others who came before you helped pave the way for you. All the best to you. .

[@plum_bit]

+Robert Worth "You are a child of the universe, no less than the tress and the stars". That's so nice, I love that

[@RobertWorthLexus300]

+Plum Bit thanks I'm glad that you do. it is from a poem called Desiderata.... check it out

[@plum_bit]

***** Thanks, I will :)

[@ingilizceogretmeni7874]

+Robert Worth I know i am 3 years late but i just wanted to say unfortunately where i live coming out is just as hard as it was in the 1960's of the West if not harder. I live in Turkey and since most people in Turkey is very religious (muslim) there is a huge social stigma and more than half of the population is homophobic. Even my biology teacher in my high-school is so uneducated on this topic that she said "you shouldn't be mad at gay people because they are sick." And since i am currently in the closet (except some of my best friends) i couldn't say anything it was horrible. So, yeah i just wanted to say that. I'm sorry that it's too long but i had to say it. Thanks for being patient and reading it! 🤗

[@brianw9129]

I love Desiderata. "And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the Universe is unfolding as it should. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." Desiderata, Max Ehrmann, c. 1920.

[@TheKingofRockMusic]

You are a great kid....you helped a lot of people, you did a fantastic video, it was an interesting story, and thank you for being a considerate, helpful human being....you didnt have to do what you did, but, by doing so, you also chose to help people....and you did! Thanks....

[@AttackOfTheBees]

You come across as very mature and smart throughout the whole thing, it's impressive. A good video for people to see. Congrats!

[@nicholassweazey987]

smart and mature for sure and brave to take that hard first step/ thank you

[@BigBingFan]

Going to a solid Catholic school, it does give you grounding, depth, because you study Latin, some Classical history, and humanities, and don't get politically-correct things beaten into you like public schools. Plus, God is a major factor. God loves you Nathan, and I am also a devout Catholic also. Your Faith will sustain you, as you are loved. Your Faith will be there for you when everyone else leaves you. Being gay is okay-we are all in the same boat, as far as being children of God. I wish you the very best.

[@nicholassweazey987]

@@BigBingFan you are very kind to reply. so what if you are gay? more likely that you are far more sensitive to others and thus have a bigger heart. that is what being here is all about. God bless you

[@jetlagrob]

WOW!! Congradulation on coming OUT. You are so brave to come out in Kansas!!

[@echt114]

One of the best coming out videos on YT

[@IAmRamoncitow]

I agree

[@melissamuller3509]

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[@kevinbowden3397]

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[@thegentlementor]

I hope when you wake up in the morning and look in the mirror, you see a reflection of an angel. You are wonderful. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! You made many people cry with this video. I wish you the best eveything life can offer you.

[@JesseLCH]

you are very levelheaded for a 18 year old. stay fabulous, love. xo

[@michaelearendil6843]

I hope you are still happy, enthusiastic, and feeling blessed now that four years have passed. You are a fine young man and clearly of an honest, noble character. God bless you!

[@Jprice141788]

I know this is serious and unfortunate the way his parents acted but god damn you're cute. I thought at first my dad would be against it and my brothers would be because comments they would make about things on tv and such, But it took me being gay for them to change the way they think about the lgbtq community and what they said because they now had someone they love be directly effected by them. You seem like a very strong and very well rounded individual and you made a difference in someone's life by telling your story.

[@Sport214]

I just stumbled across your video, and I just wanted to say that your story is so beautifully told. Thank you for sharing. You also give great advise: give people time. My experience coming out to my mom was very similar to yours. I was I college and she came down and pulled me off campus for the weekend throughout which she cried and asked questions and voiced her objections. It was awkwardly for a few yeasts, but last year (I can out in 1990), she sat up front at my wedding. Love always wins eventually. ❤️

[@ahrmgoos]

Hey Nathan, Wanted to tell you I think you're brave coming out. I'm training for the priesthood, and can tell you I accept you for who you are, even the pope accepts you for who you are. In the parish where I will be, all people are welcome. Yesterday I had met a gay-couple, at the presbytery, and they were great people. The Church won't judge you, and God won't either. He loves you, and I love you for whom you are. Greetings, Anton

[@h5u7p5gt9]

Lol yeah that's why he says in his text that being gay is an abomination. Keep in mind, this is a one god that drowned the world because he didn't like them. I would sooner bow down and worship Azazel before kissing the ass of a one god (that's his first 4 commandments).

[@philipzanoni]

Why is a priest watching some gay boy's coming out story this is creepy and disturbing

[@roychefets6961]

@@philipzanoni ...serious estimates by well regarded researchers are that 20-40% of Catholic priests are gay. The Church is so hypocritical!! You can only laugh at them.

[@kiranroopsharma3684]

Are you training to be a priest for Satan worshiping cult.

[@barrydavid6634]

@@h5u7p5gt9 you people are awful it's got to take a lot of courage to do what he did by the way God does not hate anyone

[@johnnybonbon25]

What an inspiring story, Nate. I can only imagine how difficult that must have been. Good for you and for others that are in the same situation to know that they're not alone. I appreciate you honesty, integrity, bravery and patience. It's so important to be true to oneself. As well, I know that it must have been difficult for some people of the older generation and Catholic as well. Sometimes it just takes us, the older Catholic generation, a life lesson from a wise young person like yourself. All the best!

[@kortelmaze]

When I came out to my best friend a couple weeks ago she said she was supportive but she's been cutting ties and asked me to stop seeing her and her family. She ended up writing a letter that told me she was in love with me and that she hopes she can turn me straight and that me being gay was just a problem that I'll get over with time. It really hurt a lot. I now have my first boyfriend. We are both super happy together. It isn't a problem or disorder. It doesn't change who I am, I've always been gay...

[@wyatttano1422]

Omg that‘s horrible what your friend said I‘m so sorry but really glad You’re happy now!

[@crod324]

Nathan, you are so very brave. Thank you for sharing. Your story of courage is very inspirational. I wish I had your bravery when I was younger. Thank you for being so strong!

[@Jamaicak7]

Gr8 video......I'm so glad you came out at such a young age. I am 43 with a wife and kids. I am in a complicated situation and don't recommend it to anyone. I have always known, but denied that I am gay. However, my generation was a lot different. There was no internet and homophobia was really strong in my area and within my family. At a high school of 5k I thought I was the only one that had those feelings. I remember seeing 2 people get beat up for being suspected. That scared the shit out of me. I also had an uncle scare me pretty bad too when I was a teenager. This past year I have been doing a lot of research about guys in my situation and I found this book that has been really helpful. The book is titled, "Frankly My Dear, I'm Gay: A late bloomer's guide to coming out" by Rick Clemons. It has helped tremendously. I also contacted the author and he is a coming out coach. He has helped me so much. I am very thankful. I just came out to my best friend yesterday (100% supportive) and am slowly going in the direction of letting my wife and kids know (honestly, I feel my kids will be the easiest to come out to because I know they are very accepting of gay people). I do not regret having waited so long because I did get my kids (the most precious things in the world to me). Seeing your video is helpful in building the courage I need to come out to my family some day soon........so thank you!

[@utrp24]

Very well spoken and well said. I enjoyed watching your video and am sure it will help those who are coming to terms with who they are. Thank you.

[@stevenstalking]

You are an inspiration.

[@donpM.A.D.4412]

Nathan , I wish I were as strong as you were. I admire you and hope you are doing well today 😊. In 1975 it wouldn't have been that easy. Thanks for sharing your story. Your very inspiring. 2023!. From Connecticut ❤️.

[@CellRus]

Hi Nathan, I've watched your video, and I realised we have very similar story. I just came out to my parents a few days ago. It was very harsh at first, my mom was crying, my dad was very mad. My family is a traditional asian family, so LGBT problem is something very exotic and bizarre. But after watching your video, I can relate so much. My mom and dad are trying to understand, which is a good progress considering they are very traditional. They said they still love me, so I hope everything will be ok at the end. You gave me hope to believe, so thank you.

[@bill99208]

While this might be a ten year old post, it shows one thing that no amount of time can change and that is that you are an honest person. You know who you are and you’re not ashamed of it. You are also willing to share your life and feelings with others who may not think the same way, but then all of us are essentially the same way, all having different experiences and opinions because that’s what makes us all different from each other. And one more thing: I love your avatar. It’s very nice to see a young man wear a tuxedo so he stands out. I too, wear tuxedos and have done so since I was in high school. I always get told how nice or how sharp I look and it is not because I expect it. It’s just who I am (a straight man who’s been on a life journey that doesn’t always go as you might think). So I say to you to make sure that you live life to the fullest measure you can and just let God take you through it all. You’re one of the happier people whose KZbin posts I watch and we all need more of these.

[@willeg6209]

you may be lucky to have good friends & family but they are the lucky ones to such a fine young man with such courage to speAk his truth with such conviction & inner strength congrats to your parents on raising such a great guy

[@SakhiShaman]

Hi Nathan. Wow. Well done my brave young brother. I am so glad to see my younger brothers and sisters being proactive in such a cool and positive way. I am 50 this year and came out in my teens. It is hard but the more open and real and natural we are around it all the easier it is for future generations to just be what they were born to be. Christs message was about love, compassion and none judgement. You are loved and held by him always. Much love to you bro. xxx

[@beeman4338]

I grew up in Kansas during the bad old days when it was illegal to sleep with another man, and homosexuality was "the love that dare not speak its name." Things have changed a lot since then, thank goodness. Needless to say, I feel it's absolutely GREAT that at least some Kansas LBGTQ kids can enjoy the opportunity to experience acceptance, self-respect, and a relatively "normal" life--the opportunity to date while in High School, for example, and get married if they choose. Of course, it still takes guts, careful planning, and great patience in most cases to "gently" break the news about being gay to friends and family. But it sounds like you did a very good job of that, and thankfully your support system proved relatively open to "the news." Hope all is going well in your life, Nathan!

[@hurricane155]

So inspiring,reminds me of when I came out,thank you for sharing Nathan, you are awesome 👍

[@localguy7333]

You're an amazing young man. I would be very proud to have a son like you.

[@mike35273527]

just finished watching till the end. You are absolutely incredible and the amount of strength and courage you had at such a young age, I didn't have until I was 35. Wish I'd have a seen a video like yours back then. Really wish you all the best for the future.

[@marcm4192]

I hate it when people say that being gay is against God's Law. We are born gay and so it's God who made us this way. I am very inspired with your story. You are the Face Of Bravery. Stay strong Nathan

[@chuck1prillaman]

Men like you have made all our lives so much better. Thanks, Man!

[@Liam_29_T]

Wow this was amazing, I literally had tears in my eyes; thank you so much for sharing!

[@patrickpregiato1794]

You are one brave, intelligent and articulate young man!

[@jordannoir1919]

Holy crap you're cute

[@queenbeez3438]

Jordan Noir i think he's cute too

[@bionicredneck6976]

Winston Charles fuck off

[@bionicredneck6976]

Winston Charles That is got nothing to do with you at all so fuck off you homophobic son of a bitch

[@bionicredneck6976]

Winston Charles, anymore slanderous comments from you, I will be reporting you to KZbin

[@craigtrish2011]

How about you comment on the content of the video and his story rather than his looks? People in youtube comments suck. Always just look at their face smh

[@MB-mr6hq]

Great story Nate. I hope that your life has been happy and positive since you filmed your coming out story. You seemed to have an excellent sense of yourself and who you are. Hugs to you.

[@timmyliang1652]

Awesome video, and hope everything is going well for you still :)

[@bojongkia123]

Wow, 5 years ago & your coming out video pops up in my notifications. Nothing much to say since a lot of viewers had said them! 😊 But nothing short of saying you had done the right thing & your religion had blessed you all the way! Lots of praises, from Asia. 👍👍

[@TheSmilecamera]

This just came up on my KZbin and I see this was 2 years ago so you must be starting college? All's I want to say is that you're a brave young man Nate. I am a Christian but unfortunately didn't come out until 50. The Bible does not condemn the nature of homosexuality or acting on your God-given feelings. Best wishes. Your's is one of the finest coming out stories. You need to be, as I finally discovered, honest and ethical on who you really are. God bless you.

[@michaelmarty7709]

Good job! Very mature & confident for your age. Your video will help others....everyone has to move forward and live their life. Good luck and keep up the great attitude, enjoy your life! Love who you want!

[@Zipster08]

Time to start posting more videos updating us on your life!!

[@trinidreamer85]

Thanks for sharing your story. I'm amazed how you stood your ground when your parents were telling you all that stuff. Happy that they came around!

[@edwardguk6288]

You are awesome your such an inspiration ! (;

[@torreyinwi]

You are wise beyond your years. I love how grounded and strong you are. You know who you and you demanded to be seen as an individual. You demanded to be respected. I love your strength and courage. Thanks for sharing!

[@videoarchiveman]

Good video. I hope everything has worked out for you. You seem like a very nice young man .

[@nicholasnorris5320]

Hey there, you don't know me but your video had the greatest impact on me. Immediately after watching your video I went onto Instagram and messaged my friend and told her I was gay. She was very accepting of this fact and I have been telling more and more people ever since. This happened last month in August, but I never really came around to thanking you for giving me the courage to be myself and not worry about what other people think. So here I am thanking you for being the kind of person that we need more of in this world.

[@AntonioRamirez-ml7el]

Awesome!!! Congratulations 🎁🎉🎊

[@k.alanball3000]

A good story. Thank you for sharing! You are very fortunate to be in your generation. Be happy!!

[@kimopuppy]

Well done....No matter what love is love

[@MrJameslsnyder]

I really enjoyed watching this video of yours, Nathan, and you did a great job. You were very brave and you did the right thing and now you can live your true life and be your true self out in the open and have nothing to hide and nothing to apologize for to anyone. Congratulations to you! ♥️

[@KevDTV]

Amazing video. I give you some props on doing this on the internet. It takes a lot of courage to talk to a camera and posting this on the web.

[@daviditalia1325]

Great job Nate.. I did the same in 2014. Hard to believe 2 yrs have passed and I'm glad to say I didn't loose any friends and family in the process. If anything, the relationships were strengthened. Feels great to breathe freer. Hope life has been treating you well man.. Ciao.

[@ikaika4430]

Nate, thank you for sharing. I'm glad people accepted you when you came out. I wish I had your courage. I'm closeted and probably always will be.

[@billoconnell1427]

Why do you say you probably always be in the closet. I would recommend to come out as it is a freedom you will never experience before. If friends don't except you, they are not friends. I thought the worse when I came out, but none of it came true. Please ask me any questions as I am willing to help people in their struggles in coming out. BTW - how old are you.

[@Randy22124]

It’s never too late to come out. I did last year at 67. Be true to yourself. There is still time.

[@sho942000]

Nate, your story is so inspiring on so many levels. I'm 10 years older than you but can relate to most of your struggles extremely well. I wish I was in a similar spot when I was 18. You clearly have a good head on your shoulders and I'm extremely envious of your self confidence. I'm very glad your good with your parents too. That's very important. On a side note, watching your video, I was reminded of Mark Miller. Your speech patters are similar. If you don't know, Mark is a KZbin personality that posts very high quality videos of his life...most of which include his boyfriend Ethan. They are a very inspiring couple and have helped me immensely.

[@patrikswim]

Well done, Nathan! I am very happy for you!

[@chrislibkie2165]

I am so happy that you came out to everyone. A lot of people will support you and a lot of other people will try to bring you down, but don't let them, be who you want to be

[@benpang2299]

man I love these videos

[@manuelgalaviz1079]

That is awesome, it’s hard for most kids to come out. My son came out to me last year and I told him I loved him and that nothing would change. That now I will have a son in law instead of daughter in law in the future. I love my son and admire him for knowing who he is. I am glad your parents came around cause you deserve to be supported and loved. You deserve to have a partner and be able to bring him home to meet your parents and have a normal relationship just like anyone else. Good luck with everything young man.

[@donaldstorm4959]

I liked your video who's awesome that you came out you had complete confidence in everybody including your friends at school and you pretty much knew your parents would come around this is just absolutely brilliant I am watching this on January 1st 2018 it's like 4:30 in the morning and I came across this and I had to watch it I can't say congratulations enough anyway take care of yourself and anybody who seems to come into your life take care.

[@mark-o1201]

You are a superstar! Best 'coming out' video I've seen on here; so inspirational for sure. It took me 5 years to find it but thanks for sharing. I know it is a tough thing to do and I hope since you made the vid your life has been awesome!

[@VreeFisions]

What a nice guy you are!

[@mike35273527]

thanks for your video. I'm sure you are helping a lot of young guys. You're going to have an amazing life

[@ryanscott2308]

Living in Kansas and being gay is not always easy. Great video and always know that you are not alone.

[@kevinmckenna7959]

I am SO HAPPY for you....I don't even know you...and I love you and accept you!!!! Keep moving forward regardless of what others say...BE YOU AND BE PROUD OF YOURSELF!!!!!!

[@rayrothermel4861]

Nate, you are smart way beyond your years. Use that same intelligence when finding a mate.

[@meezursrule]

I'm in awe of your strength. Well done on having the strength to be true to you! x