Complaining - Teal Swan

[@AaronDoughty44]

It always seems to come back to self-love and allowing the moment to be. Every situation is inherently neutral. There is no built in meaning. We attach the meaning of a situation using the filter of our mind to be pleasurable or painful based on the way we relate to the situation. What helps me is allowing the moment to be and then it will normally transmute due the fact that I am no longer in resistant to it. Great video and Much Love.

[@fibersculpture]

+Aaron Doughty well said ... beautiful and simple

[@noodilious1610]

Thanks for the unsolicited synopsis but nothing needs to said cus she already did perfectly😂😂😂 no shade but i see your comments on some of her videos and sumtimes i think its unnecessary but do you💙

[@noodilious1610]

And im not trying to be mean, i was drawn to ur comments on her videos and think I'm just a mirror shadow aspect of you so pls dont take it personal but im interested to hear your take on what i said in my 1st comment

[@noodilious1610]

Heidi ok but no one made you the police of this and if u feel so strongly then start a youtube channel and say your piece. Its a free country and teal has a right to her opinion as well as you so just leave it be

[@MindTrip888]

+Heidi The bible prophesies that religion will be destroyed by the spirit of truth which is to test as gold is tested by fire... and then it says in Revelation 18:4... come out of her my people... this is about to happen big time... peace by kindness the end of war.

[@ElMaestr0Xavier0]

Does anyone else feel like teal ALWAYS posts a video that's relevant to your life at its current state?

[@Jade-Phoenix]

always

[@crystallineintentions3045]

+ElMaestr0Xavier0 YES!

[@ardenjustice8930]

Yes! Each time!

[@InvertedSeal]

+ElMaestr0Xavier0 Haha, yeah. Freaking synchronicities!

[@theenlightenedone622]

Mercury retrograde.

[@sbeast64]

Why doesn't Teal post more videos!!! Oh, I mean, I'm grateful for all the videos she's made so far :)

[@flintrock8433]

+James Morgan simple joke. I'm sure most if not all got it.

[@novelsolutions601]

+Sbeast just actually try to keep up lol

[@LaniLayne_]

+James Morgan It took me a moment, lol

[@always-stay-positive5187]

Maybe she doesn't post more videos because she found a new boyfriend.

[@AlysN1dr]

+Sbeast I got the joke. Can I answer in a serious way, sorry to ruin the party - did you see her schedule? She's booked for so many lectures/conferences. I hope that her workshops get recorded. ... btw... again, buzz kill here - I figured the joke was that you were "complaining" and we're watching a vid about that, so now you have to ask what bothers you so much that you needed to complain about her not making more videos for us lol!

[@devondevon2454]

just setting here on the couch watching spiritual videos....been setting here all day like yesterday's and the day before

[@cosmicshindig]

+devon washburn Sounds like a great little cocoon phase? If it feels good, keep doing it!!! peace! :)

[@devondevon2454]

+Kevin Charlson tell me bout it

[@AXharoth]

+devon washburn and?

[@meghanarella8227]

Step 1 - do it with love, not to improve yourself and make yourself better just to acknowledge you and your pain to understand yourself Step 2 - helplessness, do the first next step Step 3 - whatever youre complaining about has something to say Step 4 - get someone else to feell and acknowledge your pain Step 5 - your ego is trying to feel good by making other things bad. Feel the feelings. The bad feelings that tell you you're bad Step 6 - gratefulness journal, scavenger hunt for the aspect that likes the thing that you dont. Even if one aspect does Step 7 - only a 1 hr time period where you dont complain and when you do, follow the steps above

[@martinabalin496]

Just bought her book! I love this woman 💗

[@Evefgg]

Dear Tael Swan. I've been following you for a while and I truly love all your videos. Your advice has helped me a lot to evolve in my spiritual and personal path. Thank you for your presence in my life, although I don't have the pleasure to meet you.

[@LEVIAHAN]

That background was freakin awesome!!

[@ufoufo9182]

You're hitting all the right notes here Teal and I'm not even half way into the video. Your analysis is so apt! Thank you.

[@eelkeaptroot1393]

Yes how to turn complaints into constructive action, that's the art of living right there...

[@mariaabramova4567]

I admit I have a huge habit of complaining. Trying to change that! Thank you for video and advice!

[@drchuckles1203]

Teal, I am so grateful to you for explaining this stuff. It has always been at the tip of my mind but I never had the awareness to know how to explore and figure it out and ask the right questions. Finally I feel like my internal pain and struggles are workable and wow, you really cover everything. Thank you.

[@hanankhalifa2589]

I can’t believe you have been posting since 6 years! And I just found you.! 🌷

[@bekkalove1121]

As usual, your videos come just in time with situations occurring in my life ☺️ I have been complaining so much lately and was starting to get discouraged about it. Thank you teal ❤️

[@silentsoliloquy100]

I love you Teal! Thank you for all the vids. I love how you always get me thinking. You have been a catalyst in my life to realign myself on my spiritual journey. Peace, love, light be with you.

[@EnriqueArmand]

Thank you for being You, Teal.

[@infiniteawareness1]

Beautifully done, undeniably true, so illuminating and so familiar(my parents) All the best and keep up the profound soulwork!x

[@MariliaLins]

amazing as always! this was like a balm to my wounded heart. Thank you for being such a new era master Teal! Thanks for all people involved getting this message to the world!

[@camilam8778]

There's an incredible amount of synchronicity between me and Teal's videos. Everytime that I wake up thinking about something or have some kind of insight, during the day I'll come to youtube and find some beautiful information and guidance about my previous ideais and feelings. It's out of this world, like a confirmation of my needing to change and learn. Thanks for sharing your knowledge :)

[@dianedonofrio8724]

What a wonderful, wonderful message. Sending much love and gratitude your way, Teal and Company, for all that you do to send such wonderful messages to the world. It is absolutely amazing, how this message was exactly what my soul has been yearning for, this peace is priceless, this deeper level of understanding is the true peace the world needs in general...thank you for answering that calling....the truth within you, creates the beauty within you, and is absolutely shining through you in this video...your commitment to the pain in this world, needing to be transcended, is an absolute blessing to us all...

[@bluemoon8625-z8x]

This is gold! I've been thinking about this topic recently. Such a great timing and content. Thank you!

[@dreamerdreamer9702]

I have a colleague that regularly puts down patients symptoms in complaints section, i do it in clinical notes i now understand more why we are different. Thank you Teal. I am truly grateful for people like you ;))

[@loversarelunatics]

thank you Teal! as usual your video comes in at the perfect timing for me. i love the ending of this video where you ask "do you want to be right or do you want to be happy". that was powerful. thank you

[@willdenman999]

Wow, the timing could not be more appropriate for me! Thank you so much, Teal, I think this is my next step in my journey :)

[@ArubaKamba]

Thanks beautiful Teal for sharing this insightfull and important message!

[@monalisakiti]

Fn Brilliant, I can't watch these enough, so much Vital Assistance, bless your heart Teal.

[@NessaCat444]

That was excellent. Especially her last sentence before closing.

[@lizatamayo1053]

had my phone resting on a notebook as i watched this. sync. very insightful. thanks

[@AgataKaminska84]

Teal you are helping me so much. I want you to know that even though you don't know me for the past few months you are the closest person to my heart. Although I still hustle through you have helped me with dealing with shame, with forgiving myself and how not to worry so much. I also relate to you as I was always black ship of my family being born transgendered. I love u lots xxx

[@sacmakiz]

Amazing amazing amazing video OMG 😍😍😍 Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom 💓✌👍👏

[@dariostabletopbastelecke4846]

Thanks

[@Zephyr.Lo-Renz]

this vid just so happen to be posted on the very same day i underwent a huge and unfamiliar emotional break down which truly was out of character, for myself. so, im appreciative to have heard this advice. the part about the common response, given by many, to remove others who are "chronic complainers" in your life resisnated with me becasue Teal's pov reminded me how valuable i am to another who is in desperate need of relief. however, life experience has conditioned me, as well, to accept that there are definitely moments when the best thing i can do for a "chronic complainer" is to give them their own space because i am not always suited at being someone else's punching bag. ~namaste

[@leontomalik5019]

Thank you Teal, bunch of great information. Love & Peace.

[@dariostabletopbastelecke4846]

Thank you so much for this One!

[@lanelon9435]

I'm off to the dmv first thing in the morning . But , I.m not complaining . Great ending to this lecture . The synchronicity and direct application I feel to my personal life in your lectures I have listened to so far led me to subscribe today . It does not , however , hurt my feelings that you are so incredibly beautiful . My jaw dropped the other day when I listened to an interview with Ms. Swan talking about some very unfortunate things that happened to her . I just could not imagine anyone treating her with anything other than love ,honor ,and respect .

[@potternutmania]

yay new video! and so excited to see you at the end of the month in New Zealand!!

[@alex-ander-13]

Thank you Teal!

[@doleswar]

Very timely video. Thank you very much.

[@thebeesknees1505]

Thank you, Teal.

[@dawnemile7499]

Thank you Teal.

[@sailoraqua8527]

🌙THANK YOU SO MUCH TEAL SWAN FOR MAKING THESE VIDEOS🙂✨

[@FeelGoodWithin]

Thankx so much Teal

[@krizju]

LOL at the spongebob pics and very good video thanks Teal

[@dougstevens532]

My question is , how did she get so smart and insightful, I love her videos and more should learn from her teachings

[@CockneyRebel1979]

You're so right, Teal. You've hit the nail right on the bloody head there, girl. o.o

[@BoudoirBoutiqueNC]

What frequency /HZ is the tuning fork in the opening? I feel so good when I hear this intro. Anyone, Thank you!

[@traceynguyen2743]

Thanks Teal, Bless your heart

[@tamaresca]

Congratulations!!! 1M suscribers!!

[@myPearlPride]

teal i am glad to see a video again from you thank you

[@vyaptimehra5406]

teal du knw hw much v bless u for bringing us wid dz kwoledges?!... my deep gratitude tu

[@millimiaou9105]

Like always, thank you Teal!

[@jamesk8s1]

So Brilliant again! Thank you! So Grateful to you!!

[@k.thunter7048]

prefect. thank you. I feel this was directed towards my comment the a few or so days ago.. Teal thank you. . I wish I could personally meet you. YOUR teachings & words are life saving. Literally.. I NEED help with certain areas in my life, I feel I will ....

[@ohara8845]

Complaining it's not the problem it's just a result of being hurt and alone and no one meet our needs.

[@gbledsoe001]

I needed this one!!

[@TureheneGoddessWithin]

meeee tooo THANKYOU Teal Swan 😊

[@harrytotter9530]

Thank you Teal

[@malinou1]

First things on my journal -I like your videos, Teal :) -You are also a beautiful Soul

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

God I love listening to Teal Swan. It's like spiritual chicken nuggets for my mind :D Thanks Teal! You're a star

[@Noname-hs5lx]

Thanks. My father always did to me. Totally. Yes I am victim mode. Yes I complain. 1. Felt seen heard validated (pain) beg for it 2. Need to know we have value Wow

[@s3dghost]

My mother could nag for days... Used to Make me want to put a bucket over her head 😪

[@Noname-hs5lx]

@@s3dghost being nagged makes me sad. I complain about myself

[@TheJeffreycooper]

thanks for awakening my spirit

[@harvey288]

wow this video has come at the perfect time in my life, ever since I've started watching you teal i have become more aware of negativity and realised there is a chronic complainer at work who fits everything you described, in turn he usually manages to manipulate me into thinking and feeling in the same way he does even when i don't . i feel i usually complain swell at work because i work closely with him and it seems the only way to bond with him anybody have any idea on how to avoid this situation?

[@dffulmer1]

Very constructive, insightful advice. Thank you.

[@famvoyage]

Really great video Teal, Thanks

[@impossibledreams6115]

My body from almost head to toe is filled with emotional pain and it's manifesting as physical aches and I feel toxic inside. I blame others, because they didn't have my back when I needed them most. They walked out on me.

[@CerebralAssassin]

You seem to be in my head Teal...just yesterday I was wondering whether it was therapeutic to complain or not.I agree we need to look into the deeper emotions under complaints....the complaint itself just seems to be an ego-boost.

[@OMGZOID]

thank you

[@daniellett9462]

thank you again

[@munkyangie22]

Very powerful stuff but I know for a lot of us, this is going to be very hard. I think this is one aspect of the ego we really have a hard time letting go of and if that wasn't enough lol the steps to this process takes a lot of self awareness and patience! I know for me facing this aspect of myself will be extremely hard to even admit. This year is going test us on all we have learned so far and continue to break apart the limits!!

[@MoonlitVibe]

Fantastic video. Wish I hadn't been looking at the screen for the vomit part thought...euch.

[@suzihazlove4979]

1.Do internal scavenger hunt on good things. Fueling fire of COMPLAINTS.... so hard to wrap around many peoples head. But yes low self esteem . But maybe we just are not a vibrational match to what were complaining about. I don't agree about it always is about feeling worthless,this complaining. I'm not complaining now? Am I or just not in alignment to this theory completely. Yes I agree with some points of course. Like that complaints are about priorities . I like not suppressing my emotions/complaints... Charge inwards . Ya someone or something isn't how I want it or they annoy my energy. Ask others to see and feel my pain. But what if my pain is something about them? Positive aspects journal. In my phone. That's great. I'm living in saddness.

[@luukassl]

Thank you,this is very important

[@MaKaElectric]

Thank you so much!!!

[@romykarlen6885]

True thanks Teal awesome just what l need and l can understand when l say or complain

[@mgtowmanlivefree2538]

awsome video, watched 3 times , saved to liked so I see it again, ty

[@LaraRed]

I love your videos, thank you soo much. I haven´t posted a coment in your channel before, but i feel so much gratitud, i just had to say it. You are awesome, thank you for exist

[@Trinivalts]

This seems mostly as an indepth analysis of narcissism albeit mostly the less than absolutely clinical type. I've actually did recently what you're advising here. Using that charge to counsel myself.

[@afoxislookingatyou]

I think we need a video about Karens... I feel really bad for them, since everyone hates them on social media. Trying to have compassion for that character. It really became an archetype. I am looking for answers about their behavior and why they act like that. Thank you so much Teal and Team for everything.

[@Indigoindeed]

I think Karen’s are more about judgment and getting their way. Complaining is their manipulation

[@suurhing3149]

i always complain when i miss self respond

[@madtish]

thank u teal! u always nail it... amazing... o_O mind blown...

[@dianabates9483]

thank you Teal that was awesome I really resonate with that you're so beautiful and I miss you dearly I love you

[@angelinemarsland]

thank you for your wisdom and sharing your self love with us all :D

[@Rawwwdoggg]

Excellent

[@au9parsec]

Charles Montgomery Burns. 😆 lol 😆

[@Dethian666]

Had to complain recently due to unearthed house with bad wiring resonating high emf's of the walls, it''s so high tis made sick an unable to meditate, wish i complained sooner when i knew it began to remove myself away from these probs before it snowballed.. yup the glass is half full now optimistic is a friend, dang to be positive towards my eternal disruptance from others... the guardian will show

[@jeffreymabbe9829]

she looks tired, should she be ill of the cold mayby? TEAL you still are a beautifull strong person, thanks for helpin me again, wish i could do something back.... ly xxx

[@samsung5181]

Thanks!!! 😊

[@Triton.speaks]

This another great video Teal. I will be adding it to my tool box and using it to help people transform their lives. I havent commented before, but I've been sharing your work and applying what fits my own life for years now. You have made a difference, thank you. I'm in alignment with what the other commenters here have mentioned; your videos are amazingly synchronistic with my experience and you do look, "hot". When are you coming to Washington? Much love

[@velray1231]

Hi having problems trying to open third O:-) . Have made a major mistake now in the area of third is dry chapped itchy rash flares up a lot . what to do to remedy if anything at all . Ralph V . thank .

[@agathanelson8469]

great video! thanks teal!

[@user-km5op6cn4d]

Perfectly said!❤️

[@nimuyreemu3723]

teal,pliz do a video about unmet childhood needs.thankyou for your work

[@dianedonofrio8724]

+Elizabeth Wairimu Hi Elizabeth! She has done one, called, "Healing The Emotional Body" and in that video she shows you how you can heal the inner child within you that has unmet needs and needs help, healing, compassion, and love. Much love to you!

[@nimuyreemu3723]

+Diane Donofrio thanx +Diane,i will look at it

[@brienaskyelynstarkey2815]

Very helpful..Thank you..

[@briannab4770]

My father complains all the time. SO much so, I can't even begin to describe here. It's absolutely incessant, he's literally the most pessimistic man my entire family have ever known and it's unbearable. Not only this, but he's completely deluded and calls himself an "optimist", he always says how "positive" he is and how "wrong" everyone else is. It's only getting worse. He's withering away, dying from his own poisonous negativity, absolutely consumed by it and it's only worsened and perpetuated by the fact that he's isolated because, even though he lives with us, we do what we can to avoid him and he's very excluded from our family. We try everything we can do include him and make him happy and we're ALWAYS giving him helpful advice on being optimistic and trying to make his life better, but he DOES NOT LISTEN to anyone. He shouts, he swears, he gets aggressive, he's ALWAYS talked over EVERYONE to the point where so many people have complained about his interrupting (I hear him doing it with his "friends", it's cringe-worthy). He's extremely defensive and deflective and incapable of learning, listening and communicating. He will simply resort to verbal abuse and sarcasm and then have the deluded audacity to complain about how communicationally dysfunctional our family is, when our family is actually excellent at communicating, it's HIM that's the issue. I wish there was some way to help him, but he's spiraling out of control and I feel like we've tried everything at this point.

[@corinnegodard8358]

No, it seems to me that you haven't done everything yet. You haven't done what Teal Swan said in this video : you have not validated his pain. You haven't listened to his emotions underneath his pain. Maybe he does not need advice on how to be positive. Maybe he just needs to be heard. He feels cut off from others (of course it is because he cuts himself off from others and it is very frustrating for you). He probably needs presence, connection without being judged, without the pressure to be positive. His behaviour drains your energy. So I understand your need to protect yourself too. Maybe there is a solution. Don't sacrifice yourself but don't exclude him either (or include him conditionally by giving him advice.)

[@noodilious1610]

Amazing video

[@GuiCoelho21]

It's a great subject of this video. If you could dive deeper would be amazing. With some more practical advice, because the theory I've got perfectly as you well explained it.

[@santanagoff4807]

i fine this vid a little weird over the fact that.... before you said riding it like a dragon. 3 seconds before that i was thinking of that video game Skyrim (i made a comparison you know) but it kind of shocked me. I literally said that same thing 3 seconds before you said it, also that feeling that you get around that center between your eyebrows (the third eye) acted up earlier today... just something i wanted to share. Change is the mission, but hey great vid, i needed it

[@The...0_0...]

lovin that background Teal :)

[@moreauthenticity2798]

What about when u work with controlling people who restrict your growth, development and creativity? Who are also VERY passive aggressive and make you feel anxious and angry? I've chosen to just call it a day because it's draining my positivity and wellbeing...... It is seeping into my personal life. My true alignment is happiness and feeling good so perhaps me throwing in the towel is not dealing with my stuff but life is for living and I want to be around people who inspire and respect others........ Letting go of the things that's no longer serve me........I suppose time will tell if I have made the right decision x

[@moreauthenticity2798]

Not complaining though 😂

[@leegranum9436]

+More raw Teal has told the story of my life here, but you are right, we sometimes put ourselves in very difficult positions. Leaving is surely better than stubborn resistance, but this takes more strength than we have sometimes or perhaps this is a cacoon.

[@euphoria3707]

I like teal she just shouldn't come off like a guru. She is in training too! But I enjoy her none the less.

[@FreeJulianAssange23]

Totally

[@KrislynShumard]

*~~Thank you ~~*

[@MissSynchronicity]

Amazing thank you