Complaints Chinese Girls Have About Chinese Guys - Intermediate Chinese - HSK 4 - HSK 5 - HSK 6

In a recent audio podcast, Eileen discussed with Gwen complaints Chinese girls have about foreign guys. But what are the complaints Chinese girls have about Chinese guys? Eileen goes to the streets of Nanchang to find out!
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[@anonaustria924]

Very friendly made it

[@MultiSkyrise]

Really appreciate these videos, they're a goldmine for learning organic Chinese conversations and I love how you put the Chinese characters, pinyin, and English as subtitles, it's extremely helpful

[@aetherneos6438]

Seriously, I love this! I wish more languages had similar channels like this one ;_;)

[@superpayaseria]

Yes no channels like this! Best idea in the world.

[@irynpatience]

The first girl made me laugh out loud. Guys aren't easy at all. Her experience is shocking

[@Xgil2Play]

It's always good to listen to complaints, even if they don't apply to you. It'll only raise your awareness and teach what not to do!

[@kenvinfavo1533]

@@Xgil2Play Not really. Because some complaints may only bring negative energy, which is bad to mental health.

[@blueicer101]

@@kenvinfavo1533 Agreed. Human psychology suggests that we ought to focus on the things we should do as it is difficult/unnatural to think in negatives. eg. Don't think of a pink elephant makes you do it because we struggle with notes. Not trying to defend poor male figures but women do realise that they can pick who they date right? Like, instead of choosing the aggressive, domineering, sexist toxic-masculine male who won't let you out of the house, pick someone else. Again I am not bashing women but letting them know they have the power to decide who they want to date as opposed to relying on natural attraction. The same goes for men.

[@Abby-wx6kl]

@@blueicer101 i think the problem is that when women first date men, a lot of them change over time to become the aggressive, domineering, sexist toxic-masculine male you speak of. A lot of the time when they've fully shown their true colours, it's hard for women to escape. Either way, each situation has their own specific details so it's hard to generalise as a whole what women should or shouldn't do in those kind of situations.

[@Abby-wx6kl]

@@kenvinfavo1533 I think how you approach complaints is the reason it can be detrimental to mental health. Complaints can be important in order to improve and fix things, even though it doesn't feel great to be criticised. If everyone just avoided complaining because they didn't want to risk bad mental health, nothing in the world would be fixed. However I think they should be done considerately in a way that a complaint becomes more of a "constructive criticism" then just outright bashing, because outright bashing is just pointless and makes you feel bad and yes, damaging to mental health.

[@Samsung-gs4cn]

Yo you're really good with passing the microphone to two people in one interview, it's a really good talent. You pass it exactly when they stop talking, or when they need time to arrange their thoughts and ask the next person. You're a really good interviewer.

[@autumnrain249]

I love the Dongbei couple. They're so animated and genuine. That proud "I'm a perfect boyfriend with smelly feet" salute at 7:11 😂

[@NemoNusquam-mz2zh]

Yes, they were awesome.

[@nicholaskoscinski5517]

Seems like the first girl was waiting a long while for someone to ask her this exact question, she had a lot of good points that I also heard often from Chinese friends. I hope for the best for her!

[@u235u235u235]

Chinese guys have small man confident to compensate for something. It's almost a comedy.

[@orangerightgold7512]

@@u235u235u235 yeah just like the anglos that are so insecure that they feel the need to insult chinese guys on the internet. I wonder what they are compensating for.

[@u235u235u235]

@@orangerightgold7512 so you like chinese "saving face" culture?

[@orangerightgold7512]

@@u235u235u235 you mean ppl acting irrationally in an attempt to not be embarassed and or not embarrass others? That's not a chinese exclusive thing.

[@lepidoptery]

nah, she said she talks about this sort of thing with her friends and they can go all night about it; she's very well practiced in speaking on the subject! XD

[@dalay-lam2285]

21:50, Huge red flags, she contradicted herself saying men think women are more materialistic and worship money.........2 seconds later she says if you don't spend money on your gf your basically not showing love/interest in her.......then another 2 seconds later she says why does she need a guy if she makes her own money. I mean damn are men just ATM machines or something and we got no feelings? She just told on herself basically saying let me finesse you. I have heard but not realize some chinese women were that westernized. Praying for you Chinese men from Canada 🙏

[@fth2780]

that girl basically said, marrying a man is to buy car and house. I guess marriage is not about love anymore lmfao. it's all about money

[@BMB200]

@@fth2780 Marriage has always been about money though. It's only been recently that it was for love.

[@iLiekLemonade]

these women scare the shit out of me. imagine thinking you're in love, but she's just in love with your money. they'll never be this honest with you when dating, so you'll never know...

[@ZoeyMauve]

The Redpill channels would have a field day with this video. Take note of how the girls pulled away from the guys at various points in the video. Ouch!

[@MikoDnst]

@@ZoeyMauve so maybe we need to send this video to guys like Rollo Tomassi or Aba & Preach?😈

[@looking4the1]

It is incredible how we are all the same regarding male-female relationships. It doesn't matter where you live the complaints are almost identical. Great channel Eileen. I just found you today.

[@ArchitectInChina]

This channel is gold for the chinese learners, thank you

[@MandarinCorner2]

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Sometimes I read comments from people saying that one video on the channel is better than the others. I love the diversity of videos and levels, I watch them all and revisit the old ones. Thanks to this material I can keep myself excited to continue studying!

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[@SmokeyMagma]

Shift (+) comma, or shift (+) period/dot are also handy hotkeys for changing the playback speed on the go. Use "j" or "k" to skip 10 seconds back or forth.

[@anasmirza346]

你的课非常有用

[@MandarinCorner2]

@@SmokeyMagma Thank you! We will recommend this. But the "k" did not seem to skip forth.

[@SmokeyMagma]

@@MandarinCorner2 Sorry I forgot it was "L" to skip 10 seconds ahead. "K" is for pause. My mistake!

[@MandarinCorner2]

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[@assassinscreeds-xu9oo]

Lmao you Chinese girls have complaints for every guy but think guys don't have complaints about Chinese girls.

[@assassinscreeds-xu9oo]

Why are you only making Chinese girls complain videos . Why not making Chinese guys complain about Chinese girls?

[@assassinscreeds-xu9oo]

I asked my Chinese friends about Chinese girls. All of the Chinese guys said Chinese girls are toxic and abusive and they use guys for money.

[@assassinscreeds-xu9oo]

Misandarist feminist

[@assassinscreeds-xu9oo]

Chinese girls gold diggers

[@shortstory1512]

谢谢。我很欣赏这种内容。这是我第一次碰见过YT终极水平的学中文资料。而且我认为你很厉害能够让街上的人把他们内心想的事儿说出来。

[@Elizabeth-wf2xp]

Thank you for going out of your way to make these videos! It is such a beneficial way to improve your skills... I truly appreciate it!!

[@user-hc6tn2qn1q]

That chinese guy who has a wife is so lovely! He's so funny as well!! She's so lucky to have him

[@silafuyang8675]

Actually is an example of simple and confident Chinese man.

[@chafiqbantla1816]

@@silafuyang8675 how do you know?do you think he is pretending?

[@silafuyang8675]

@@chafiqbantla1816 Spent some 11 years in China...

[@smoothbanana]

@@silafuyang8675 Can we really place all Chinese raised in China into fixed stereotypes?

[@silafuyang8675]

@@smoothbanana Why not? Chinese easily place all foreigners raised anywhere into one stereotype. Actually having stereotypes is very helpful for judging people. It does not always work but it works in 80% of the cases which is not bad.

[@lynnstimler1857]

I love this video! So creative and super well done, thank you so much!

[@paulcowderoy6403]

Very good, thanks for your effort in producing this video. When you enjoy watching and listening to something, you are learning better than if it is just a dry and dull textbook lesson.

[@BlueberryLoveMuffinn]

I LOVE this episode!!! You’re show is getting better and better, Eileen!

[@tj-qo2od]

please make more of these public videos! your questions were very good and the girls made the video very fun to watch.

[@outdoorscholar6016]

“I won’t [get upset], because this is up to him” Having dated my gf (Hunan local) for almost 2 years, this phrase still scares me 😂 whenever she tells me “it’s up to you”, that’s a hint that I should do something like get her a gift or send her 红包. I guarantee everyone that her boyfriend reacts the same way

[@mime3761]

Same connotation in SE Asia as well.

[@kvcp]

ah.. similar to the "it's fine"

[@outdoorscholar6016]

@@kvcp I would say it’s similar to “I’m ok, you don’t have to give me anything”

[@lystic9392]

​@@outdoorscholar6016 That's like a death sentence!

[@voltcorp]

clearly a global phenomenon then

[@louiseives8816]

还有呢，for Chinese-language learners, I HIGHLY recommend Eileen's channel and resources. Her videos are the BEST available. She provides real-life scenarious, introducing learners to 口语 and contemporary Chinese culture. Sign up!

[@autorock1987]

I love the street interviews, Eileen! The repeated vocabulary (in different contexts) and everyday expressions are so helpful. What do you use to make your subtitles, by the way? I'm always amazed by how clear they are.

[@DXcl1no]

Tbh chinese guys have alot more to complain about chinese girls and their expectations of the guys

[@skzanagate2980]

我很喜欢这种视频。谢谢老师。

[@laurencecapelin4886]

Interesting and amusing. It’d be worth also looking at guys complaints about girls. ;)

[@MandarinCorner2]

Already done. You REALLY Want to Date a Chinese Girl? kzbin.info/www/bejne/b16sdJ2BZ7KHfLc

[@nikc101]

“Mixed messages.”

[@fargone2000]

@@MandarinCorner2 That was only one guy's opinion

[@brennathecatlover4360]

U know everyone’s gonna throw a fit right😂

[@oichiana2002]

hahaha i loved to couple on 10:30 haha the guy is flirting with the camera hahah thanks for the episode.

[@user-dp6rs1uw5w]

Thanks for another great video!

[@cocoanutte]

Great video, thanks for the hard work to share it. 你辛苦了。

[@khucsonghuong3864]

谢谢漂亮的老师。我非常喜欢您的视频，对我一个境外生很有帮助！

[@peterfireflylund]

Thank you! Btw, it’s “crush”, not “crash”, when somebody has taken a liking to someone.

[@iurivanastacio3081]

" i have a crash on you"

[@truevy]

@@iurivanastacio3081 lol🤣

[@truevy]

Crash is probably more appropriate, that’s how these things usually end ;)

[@tminus-6152]

@@truevy I laughed and died a little after reading this comment.

[@tdsora]

this is great content! i learned a lot of chinese from this

[@tahashlibek]

How can you do this Eileen? Making me watch 30+ long videos without even noticing 😍

[@mufa.7646]

haha totally man, I am sitting here like shit bro, its been 3 hours and I am still watching.

[@ezioauditore5616]

​@@mufa.7646pinyin and translation accelerate learning

[@iNovaburn]

It's 4am and the youtube algorithm sent me here. But this is fun and awesome content.

[@callospaziale]

Thank you for sharing this important video ❤

[@9493time]

Wow these videos are really helpful in learning Chinese. Thanks.

[@michaelwhitmore7160]

I really enjoyed watching their opinion's, well done .Cheers from Australia

[@lestherruiz]

Kind of funny. 😂😂. Thanks for all you do.

[@richelgeorge2844]

After watching this street interviews, sincerity is important in romantic relationship especially. If you aren't sincere and taking that person for granted, then you don't deserve to have this kind of relationship.

[@jeromebraden7364]

Fun video! I don't know why it showed up in my recommended since I have 0 interest in the topic but it was good! The interviewer (Eileen?) was very professional about following up with questions and clarifications. Excellent work. It's funny how people are so alike everywhere. As a guy watching this I felt like, "Guys can't win! If we don't buy dinner or nice things, we're 'stingy', and if we insist on paying, then we're accused of disrespecting women's independence or being possessive." Boys and girls are the same in China as everywhere else it seems :D

[@grahamyodude]

The "Ordinary but confident" one cracks me up.

[@winters4960]

普信 ； 普通且自信. Literal translation ：ordinary but/yet confident. That word seems to be lost-in-context/translation maybe. Depend on how "confident" is interpreted. Confident often related to positive trait. I suggest "overconfident" or "overproud" can be a good way to describe "ordinary but confident" word.

[@Waterbug1591]

But women have a sense of overinflated ego, they think they deserve the best men they can get but don't want to be wives...

[@alexanderkofoed9891]

Great video thanks, i liked how, much of the vocab was repeated several times, so that i could get a better grasp of the meaning by the end of it.

[@annly666]

These street interviews also help me learn chinese better with the colloquial words.

[@Jliuify]

chinese pinyin really helpful. thank you. im trying to re-learn chinese, and fun topics like this is quite engaging

[@user-pk6nk3ce9s]

哈哈这种街头采访好好玩，我不需要学中文也喜欢看。

[@DrJohnPollard]

Wow, these are super interesting Interviews and I must say this interviewer has a very good way with follow up questions. It's nice to see. I feel sorry for the women with their male problems which sound pretty typical but also very specific. However, I am looking forward to the male version where the men are complaining about women interview. I think that will be super interesting. Well done keep it up, this is really truly international and of deep social value.

[@grainovsand3229]

谢谢老师！

[@isaacreynaldodurancruz8493]

谢谢老师

[@louiseives8816]

这个视频太有意思了！内容又有意思有很有用！太谢谢你了，Eileen! 😘😊😊

[@Marcel7592]

Well done ✅👍

[@TheGretaoto]

Excellent!!!

[@blackfirehouseof3159]

I love your contents 😍❤️

[@zookaroo2132]

subscribe because of this content. Helps me to study mandarin even better :D

[@THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG]

THANK U EILEEN

[@sternleiche]

What a beautiful language it is

[@Nanancay]

Wait this wasn’t only good practice omg, ITS HILARIOUS DJDNJD that second guy LMFAOOOO

[@JettoGospel]

It'd be interesting to hear from the Chinese men about their women

[@FunkykappaCat]

They already did it

[@ayi3455]

beautiful Chinese women don't want to date poor men. average middle age fellow with millions of dollar is sexier than a poor six-pack guy....

[@g718ny]

@@ayi3455 i think just about all wlmen are like this. This is why its not wise to love them because they only love what you can do for them.

[@ayi3455]

@@g718ny I've watched a channel about refused men or women, interviews with some Chinese men and women. in China, there are more men than women, so there are more single men than single women. young poor guys from villages can't have partners, because pretty girls tend to find rich guys in cities nearby.. He lives single, and he admits that sometimes he goes to prostitutes for s3x... on the other hand, women of 35 or more with stable career also have difficulties to have partners, because they'd rather be single than marrying a poor guy. the government arrange matching between stable women in towns with poor guys from villages, but the women are reluctant. That's what I have watched in a channel some time ago. Txs..

[@fiona7651]

Ayi 34 depends on person

[@liuxianglee1433]

My complaint about my now husband is that he is the kindest and most caring, did I mention oh so handsome! Wow my other complaint is I traveled to the most beautiful country, China, to meet him and we will be married 2 years this week. Of course if anyone has my "complaints " they should consider themselves the luckiest girl in the world! My husband makes my heart race and my eyes fill with stars just to be with him everyday!

[@ChrisHaupt]

thank you for the work you put in to these videos. love it 🙏🙏🙏

[@SickStyle201]

I feel like the woman who said was ugly was pretty

[@cody-de4tt]

“女人出去只是消费，男人出去只是买单” 说得没错！！

[@marklucky4209]

Just want to say, that these kind of videos are AWESOME !!! Xie xie Ni :)

[@ZAstrayZ]

Well, a general rule of thumb: If you are looking for a 10/10 guy, you have to be a 10/10 girl, vice versa. Otherwise, manage and adjust your expectations accordingly.

[@destinyh.6898]

Exactly, well said. Their expectations are out of the roof. This is bad.. that is bad.. I prefer this… over this. This way they will never find a suitable guy. No guy wants to date a picky combative woman. Plus it seems like traditional roles are being looked down upon. Little did they know traditional mothers are the happiest. Their woman “independent, financially strong mindset” will bring them nowhere.

[@destinyh.6898]

On top of that I’ve noticed they always mention the “worst case scenario”. I can hardly believe every guy intentionally want to brag about money, when they offer to pay the bill. It’s shocking to me. I never knew feminism got into their heads. Men and women are not equal. They are different thus complementary. Seems like masculine men intimidate these women….

[@blackchineseinafrica.8895]

Thanks

[@estherandherlittleworld7821]

he doens't like to watch his foot , lmaoooo is it true. his face, i died 🤣🤣🤣

[@anasmirza346]

你的课非常有用

[@vananh8529]

真的很喜欢你 ！！！

[@monishag8974]

The girls are so mature .. wonderful

[@realtissaye]

22:45 the way she goes on and on 😂😂😂 she’s definitely speaking from personal experience

[@chestercopperpot4455]

She sounds very bitter and is very down on anything romantic or happy. I doubt she has ever had a boyfriend, or if she did, she got dumped. Horrible attitude, like the worst of the girls in Shanghai.

[@weihern9741]

She thought of herself as a product that male should buy over for a female. She don't understand love where both sides contribute....i think she might be deeply hurt by guys which makes her hate male

[@SupremeDP]

It's really interesting how each girls complaints reflect more on them than anything else. :u

[@JP-ku5hw]

It’s hard for every man to swallow their complaints, I think.

[@dukenukem3dgaming599]

ngl i think most complaints are accurate, well the paying parts still have much to debate, personally i would pay because i am the one with the semi-sable job at the time being

[@kiukk9288]

Mandarin is a suberb language wow! The gag of the guy with the motorcycle was top! ahahah 🤣

[@karenwangari4057]

New subbie here. Quite an interesting channel

[@othullo]

if every girl doesn't like 渣男，then where do 渣男find girls to date？ also that girl who said herself is "ugly" is actually pretty cute. some girls think so highly of themselves and expect high bar for guys, only to be played by those high value guys, yet still not appreciate nice guys.

[@Waterbug1591]

You don't ask the fish what they like, you ask the fishermen how to fish.

[@forzaasia2979]

Ha ha, I'm a guy, and it is so hard to make friends with other guys because they're mabao's. The first girl is right, too many mabao's!

[@jewman3972]

Beautiful simply beautiful

[@chrissycox7166]

The couple is so cute and funny! Haha same with the first girl

[@EndreaDaCosta]

wow i like these video

[@Mansplainer452]

Fck me this language seems impossible to learn😭😭😭 and I thought Japanese was difficult. Hats off to you guys who've actually come close to mastering Mandarin or Cantonese

[@stephaniele772]

the girl in the blue t shirt had me crying with her examples 💀💀😭😭

[@p.morgan4084]

我也覺得對我們外國人很有用，不會太簡單，也不會太難。謝謝你們！

[@timcrnkovic8991]

At 26:50, when she says 抠门 the disdain in her voice is hilarious. She obviously means it!

[@ranjeetpaswan5293]

Nice

[@chandanranavat.5964]

Marvelous

[@HoangTran-wu6se]

So no toxic masculinity, no stingy, no rude, no trying to act "cool", no trying to reach for high level girls while having little to none self worth, especially no control freak.

[@leoliu7840]

Yea I noticed Chinese girls don't like me, even the ones raised in Canada, but I'm also far below average

[@xonx209]

I learned some interesting slangs.

[@ardalla535]

The girl that said she is ugly is totally delusional. She was beautiful. Has she ever looked at herself in a mirror?

[@blackchineseinafrica.8895]

您好老师，关注您频道的人有不少当翻译。我们经常遇到的困难就是翻译，把工人讲话翻译给老板. 您有没有几个技巧来帮我们？尤其是把已经发生过的事情翻译成汉语. 太麻烦.我求求您.

[@smoothbanana]

Love the Dongbei accent, but I can hardly make out what speakers are saying. They seem to omit a lot of sounds. Do they do this even when reading hanzi syllable by syllable, i.e. depending on the word, they may modify of omit one or more of the hanzi? I suspect it is similar to how all English speakers pronounce "her" as "her", but in some parts "herb" becomes "erb". Hope someone can enlighten this curious person!

[@MandarinCorner2]

He has a very typical and thick Dongbei accent. They tend to drop a lot of sounds, add "er" at the end of some words, and pronounce "zh" as "z", but "z" and "zh". For example: "kuzao", he pronounced it as "kuzhao" in the video.

[@smoothbanana]

@@MandarinCorner2 Love it! Thanks for the video :)

[@alexandreduhamel-rajhi4170]

Right at the right time. I'm about to end studying "Common complaints Chinese girls have about foreign guys" haha Maybe this one is the next one I should study

[@cherry-hm2lr]

How we study the video content?

[@cherry-hm2lr]

Writing every thing down or what?

[@alexandreduhamel-rajhi4170]

I have access to the website. I downloaded the PDF and the audio file. Then I write the words I don't know and I study the text and listen to the audio

[@00MSG]

The Dongbei guy is hilarious :D

[@lecherhao86]

China has a pretty interesting culture. I'm so intrigued by the 普信男 comment. I clearly understand the few ladies who were interviewed do not represent all the chinese ladies. However, the comment kinda makes me wonder why it even exist in the first place. I believe every man and lady deserves a healthy dose of self-esteem. And no matter how you look, there's something about your look that you can be proud of. No one deserves to be beaten down by negativity. The world is already harsh. Why can't people around help each other to make the world a better place? 普信男 clearly has a negative connotation to it. Ridiculing someone who thinks good of himself is really uncalled for. Has the person affected you in anyway when he/she thinks good about own appearance? Most probably not. So why belittle that person? And that is why the western culture does alot better than the eastern culture in this area. The parents brought up the children with encouragement and support- taking a more soft approach than to bring the child down. I am a Singaporean and I was brought up by my parents in a typical Asian manner. Throughout my lives, all my parents do is to criticize and always compare with others. Thus now as a parent, I make sure I give my daughter positive talk and facilitate self-esteem building with her. 中国有一个非常有趣的文化。我对普信男的评论很感兴趣。我很清楚接受采访的几位女士并不能代表所有的中国女士。然而，评论有点让我想知道为什么它首先存在。我相信每个男人和女人都应该得到健康的自尊。不管你看起来如何，你的外表总有一些值得你引以为豪的地方。没有人应该被消极情绪打败。世界已经很严酷了。为什么周围的人不能互相帮助，让世界变得更美好？ 普信男显然带有负面含义。嘲笑一个自认为不错的人是没有必要的。当他/她认为自己的外表好时，他/她是否以任何方式影响了你？很可能不是。那为什么要贬低那个人呢？ 这就是为什么西方文化在这方面做得比东方文化好很多的原因。父母以鼓励和支持的方式抚养孩子--采取比贬低孩子更温和的方式。我是新加坡人，父母以典型的亚洲人的方式抚养我长大。在我的一生中，我的父母所做的只是批评和比较。因此，现在作为父母，我确保我给我的女儿积极的谈话并促进与她的自尊建立.

[@kylelam1291]

Couple of things I’d like to explain from my perspectives. So called “普信男” isn’t really about self esteem but more leaning towards narcissism. Original term came from a female comedian roasting men. This is not Chinese culture. It’s rather a modern online “culture” which I hesitate to call it culture. There’re many aspects we can dive in to dissect why this became popular. 1) Douyin short videos exploding in modern times. Commonly it provoke emotions and different countries tend to have different points went virus. In this case, 普信男 is. 2) censorship on media in China. People tend to label things over quick as information and knowledges are not as accessible for most ppl. To sum it up. It’s merely a temporary online terms generated in modern times due to lack of education (non-academic) or poisoned by social media like TikTok (douyin)

[@lecherhao86]

@@kylelam1291 woah! Thank you so much for adding such important information.

[@kylelam1291]

@@lecherhao86 you bet. Your input worth my time. As a local Chinese man who likes to observe human psychology makes it interesting for me as well 😉

[@mingdongyang1189]

it's obvious, inconfident men are easier to control

[@hilbert2547]

your content is great but sometimes I wish to have some grammar notes for difficult sentence patterns

[@sunnyjoe2594]

The one that says she is ugly, is beautiful

[@cppower1]

这个来自东北的哥们儿真的幽默风趣哈哈

[@sacthequeen4295]

I am not trying to learn mandarin, but it sure is nice learning what kind of guy I should not try to be lol.

[@Leaffordes]

I'm a guy, and I'd much rather prefer being a housewife; I don't like working or socializing.

[@richelgeorge2844]

House husband if that's the case. It's okay as long you both agreed to switch roles or her career and financial quite stable to support the whole family.

[@Leaffordes]

@@richelgeorge2844 Or how about calling it Houseband? Or Housecarl? You know, the Scandinavian bodyguards; as I'm guarding the children and all? Much cooler name.

[@tc98826]

Lol its funny how their 'worst' types of guys cover the entire spectrum of guys. Eg too charming is 'oily' and untrustworthy - no charm is 'straight' and boring. Loves his family is 'mama's boy'. Too much confidence is overconfident. Too focused on himself/career is bad - but not paying for her all the time is bad!

[@cmaven4762]

Saw a similar video made back in the sixties in Ireland, asking girls what they like in a man, and the answers basically covered the spectrum of male existence ... lol ...

[@noitsholly]

“Loves his family” != mama’s boy. You’re just angry and making things up lmao

[@nicklee6232]

Idk the girl at the 13:30 min mark judges guys on what they choose to wear but doesn't like it when a guy comments on her clothing? lol

[@zaritaleehetheru4753]

My biggest takeaways 1. Mom will always come first. You're #2, even if he says you're #1. 2. Be cunning and independant but don't let him know because it may hurt his ego. 3. Oily has nothing to do with cooking. 4. Straight men can still be gay 5. No woman in the world likes a common man with an inflated ego. This video made me curious to know what Chinese men think of Chinese women?!

[@oichiana2002]

maybe next video ahhaha

[@MandarinCorner2]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/b16sdJ2BZ7KHfLc We discussed the complaints Chinese guys have about Chinese girls in this podcast.

[@loopymomy2532]

Lol oh boy you’re in for a treat 😂

[@zaritaleehetheru4753]

So, I watched it and ummmmm...wow! That video made the women's complaints seem juvenile. My takeaways from that video: 1. Don't be like the women described... it's scary. 2. I actually feel bad for the men 😔. I'm really shocked. 3. I learned many new words. Too many to type.

[@eliamagri7413]

I was about to replying to you thinking that these ones were your personal opinions, but i misanderstood your irony. Hats to you lady