Composite Mars Square Saturn- Differing Lifestyles

[@4000angels]

@ 8:13 I've seen most of Jewel's videos at least one or two times, and that is the first time that I've seen her laugh like that. Wow, Jewel, you have a hell of a nice smile. No kidding. Thanks for the great videos as always.

[@lor4ito]

In bed the timing issue may show up as a sudden loss of arousal or a feeling of being blocked for no apparent reason. Outside circumstances could often impede any common activities/goals; one of the partners feeling off or seemingly working at cross purposes can create tension that leads to repressed frustration in the other. Passion is quick to cool off. I think it may also come up as the male partner witholding affection at certain times and could be very much intended, as a form of control or as a perceived need to limit or restrict the relationship in a way. I think this aspect is also very accident-prone - mishaps will probably be a theme.

[@buenavidaestates-livingthe6333]

yep :(

[@Ruhma.]

sigh

[@bcupcake]

Lora could it just be a wide age difference where each person is at a different stage in life hence making the relationship very difficult in a day-to-day scenario?

[@MsSexyAngel29]

Withholding affection is more a Saturn-Venus thing.

[@pinsmagoo604]

bcupcake I’m 19 years older than my partner and we have this aspect

[@lshin80]

That necklace is uber-cool!

[@hollycourtney221]

It would be really funny if when someone goes to search this specific interpretation and then when they click on the video, it’s just the clip of the lamp crashing down….. that pretty much sums it up in less than 30 seconds! Love your sense of humor, Jewel and your brilliant insights! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

[@ayeshaasma5646]

Thank you Jewel! ❤️ Very helpful. Exactly what I needed to hear about one relationship - that we will never be at the same life stage at the same time, and put a former friendship into perspective - one person (me) did all the compromising and then felt resentful (and truthfully walked all over).

[@mdk2901]

Same. Its killing me

[@brittniebelcher3341]

This aspect is hell, especially with Venus Square Uranus and my Mercury Square his Saturn.

[@xuan5469]

Composite Mars opposite Saturn (4deg) with partner of 2 years-- This wasn't quite as obvious toward the start, but yes it does show up and is really the only obstacle in our relationship, which is generally an amazing one. And it is true that we have other very good/strong aspects alongside strong Uranus (Jupiter sextile Uranus, Sun trine Uranus). It has been the best thing we have ever experienced, super healing and have molded us into better humans. We came into the relationship knowing that we have wanted different things from our partnerships because we love each other so genuinely. I'm polyamorous and wanting kids, and he's monogamous and childfree. We also sometimes just think about certain habits/things really differently. I think over time it's smoothed out a bit, but quite a bit more time would have to pass for it to smooth out to a point where it's harmonious. The tension of not wanting to give up our individual lifestyles, but it not being impossible is pretty real. I can see myself adopting his lifestyle if it ends up being the best option for me, but it's really not my ideal. He can probably say the same for himself too. The heavy Uranus allows us to just hang free in the moment and enjoy whatever comes our way.

[@starriew]

My relationship has this, but also composite sun conjunct mars and composite sun trine jupiter. Also, composite saturn trine uranus. I think this might be what you mean by having positive aspects that tip the scales.

[@aspiretoinspire8098]

Jewel can you please please do conjunction or opposition of mars and saturn in composite?

[@sacredearth2806]

Would love a conjunction video of Mars and Saturn too!

[@fionaphilips6565]

Brilliant as ever!

[@Mashiris]

True aff I had a thing with a guy and I always thought it couldn’t work because our lifestyle is too different, I’m in med school and he already graduated as an engineer and we’re always busy in different stuff, also I feel like I’m way too dominant for him and he’s too soft.

[@charlenew8685]

Will you do Composite Mars OPPOSITE Saturn please?

[@witchymama3439]

Please!

[@levinasun]

Hi, Jewel 😊 what about mars opposite saturn in composite? could you do a video on this one, please?

[@bletila]

I've met a very problematic couple with this aspect. They were together for almost a decade; she was younger than him and they were very different in terms of tastes/goals. So the guy would cheat on her with women who were more his "type" and more close to his desired lifestyle and the girl would forgive every time.

[@Nimigato]

Have this with both of my parents, could never be natural and terrible childhood

[@ConstantlyCurvyxo]

so true! our song is actually aint it funny by J-Lo!! Words are so true!

[@52cardsoftruthHU]

How about opposition? I heard that Opposition is Saturnian aspect and Square is Mars aspect.Dynamic comes from Mars longevity frim Saturn,

[@kaiafg]

Is this very similar to how the inconjunction between mars and saturn in the composite would be?

[@Nimigato]

ChromeHearts wondering the same

[@palakala6437]

Does good aspect from Jupiter mitigate this?

[@katharina1439]

What about: Composite MARS CONJUNCT SATURN❓

[@darkcharlie7087]

Jewel......... "Moon Square Neptune " In The Natal chart!!!!!!!!!!

[@celestialadornmentsllc1498]

Can you do the opposition

[@beaa2018]

Does Pluto square Venus in composite negate some of the effects of this square?

[@carlys_lit]

Yes this!!!!

[@funkrates4778]

What if mercury, Jupiter, Venus, and Sun conjoined in Taurus and Jupiter in Aries all trine ascendant and Mars and Venus conjoined in synastry? Doesn’t that help? Does it have to be with sex? I see it money and friends and working at different hours. One works the graveyard shift. These are natural significations of planets but need it be so? Everything else in composite is amazing. Seems like other factors of rulership, eg Saturn in Libra with Moon further away in libra and mars in cancer. Et ceterra Wouldn’t this make a huge difference? Vertex conjoined ascendant? Ps. Mars sextile ascendant and that’s it (not including Saturn) and the only other aspect with Saturn is to part of fortune 6th house

[@terryrobinson8975]

Does this work the same way in a Davison Chart?

[@vgloveforlife]

Yes

[@rohanarora3287]

I have this mars-saturn square with someone with a very long orb 9 degrees. Timing is off! We are not yet exclusive. And at the same time we have venus-mars conjunct. Uranus sextile Mars and venus at the same time, within 5 degrees.

[@ZizYoubizHERE]

we also have mars square jupiter in composite. would it make it easier? we have mars conjunct uranus and neptune. the main thing i can relate to from this is that our lifestyles are different.

[@minuit6305]

Such a shame. I have this aspect with someone and it manifested by him being unable to "preform." We've spoken on what he likes in bed and it's completely opposite to my tastes. I guess I'm not his type or something but imma head out before I catch any feelings.

[@ProverbiosOcho]

What if this aspect comes with venus in pisces, moon in virgo (trine jupiter and neptune)? I am thinking the selfless love can make both partners to be willing to adapt to the other. Also, sun in aquarius in the 4th house, mercury in aquarius, hm. In my relationship, we have had problems regarding bedroom stuff and we have talked about it, we have worked together to improve our timing, and I have tried to adapt to what my person finds pleasurable. I think my person has adapted to my timing, hm. We don't have sex that often, but when we do oh man, we both feel like it's an spiritual experience. We have in synastry lilith conjunct moon. My person is lilith, I am moon in scorpio. Also, my scorpio pluto trines my person's cancer moon.

[@simonebalazova3160]

Thank you Jewel 👌as always very helpful. Can you please do conjunction of mars and saturn in composite? 🙏

[@destinychild4659]

Really hoping to see saturn conjunct pluto in natal someday...

[@TheRaike24]

@destiny child if you want an example of such a person Henry Cavil is one such a person. His saturn is conjunct pluto

[@erinfroehlich]

What if Jupiter is conjunct Saturn being squared by Sun?

[@Lisa-xy9cw]

Great interpretation! Could you also do composite Mars-Jupiter aspects?? :)

[@aspiretoinspire8098]

Yes, I would love to hear about it, too!

[@annieshera]

Jewel I've been with my partner 2 years. We have this composite aspect. And I do get the sexual timing thing. Synastry we have venus trine mars, moon trine mars, pluto trine mars 💋 is this enough of a balance? 😅

[@ori9278]

But how does this translate if in natal chart of both and the synastry the aspects to mars from saturn are easy and then in the composite mars is squaring saturn?

[@devans2254]

Anyone knows how this shows up between parent and child? My daughter is my everything, but life has been so hard adjusting to parenthood. 😩

[@alexandra.8912]

please Jewel, i have this square with someone but saturn is also conjunct Uranus so Mars square Saturn/Uranus Will it be different? Is it worst with uranus or better? (Sun conjunct Mars squaring Saturn/Uranus trine jupiter) thank you :)

[@TheRaike24]

Same here! Let us know how it turned out for you, please.

[@TheGoanv]

With a Venus/Mars conjunction too in a same composite, is this square be fell weaker ?....

[@Devi_Seona]

If Venus and Mars are conjunct then Venus is also squaring Saturn, definitely worse.

[@isabelasevero1114]

He's 4 years younger then me.

[@RippleDrop.]

Too bad. Rings true.