Confronted My Boyfriend's Mom For Breaking Her Own 'first Come, First Serve' Rule For Bedrooms An...

[@TheMovieOracle]

She said they broke up a couple weeks before Christmas. So in the span of a couple weeks, she got engaged, got dumped, got a new boyfriend and met his family for Christmas and introduced him to hers and yet is convincing herself they're moving slow?! She might as well have invited his family on their first date, that's how fast she's moving.

[@FrostLordOni]

Story 1: Girl goes from having almost getting married to meeting her new boyfriends parents in less than a month? This girl needs therapy

[@Iamdark1234]

did you not listen to the story? she literally said she's been going to therapy for 3+ years already. plus its people's lives and they can choose what they wanna do with it, judging others over a lot of information you don't have is crazy.

[@yahirzavala-nm9ur]

@@Iamdark1234then she needs a new one cause she needs help

[@yahirzavala-nm9ur]

@@Iamdark1234how you go from being excited to get married and buying a house to sleeping with a whole different dude and meeting his parents in the span of less then a month

[@susannana6729]

Wow that last story was so sad

[@keishagolightly12487]

Jack and Jill didn't want a water "air bed 😂🤣.

[@octoberalvarez3490]

That second story made me cry. I've been there. To this day, I still harbor that guilt and anything good in my life that happens to or for me, feels completely undeserved. I think about disappearing a lot

[@onyxdragon1179]

Yeah, that 180 in story 1 makes me think it was all fake lol And she's taking things slow with her new bf... uh, do we have the same definition of "slow"?

[@thepolticalone961]

Story 2 dude got ghosted and then got really mad and anxious about it.

[@destinytownley5594]

Dude, story 2, this guy is so blind... she used him all the way to the vacation then dropped him. She's not afraid of him, she's just annoyed that her old wallet could be interrupting her new wallet, I bet. Classic gold digger.

[@emmavrijburg6676]

if you really think like that, you might be part of the problem. in no part of the story was money mentioned so ifk where this "gold digger" thing comes from. also OP crossed her boundry many times. that girl had every reason to be scared he might do something to her

[@destinytownley5594]

@emmavrijburg6676 Thank you for your input, though it was a bit rude in the beginning. I'm basing it on the part about how she started off asking for things now and then, and then started asking for more and more. That was mentioned in the story. Now, I do not condone how OP went about doing things, because it did get bad over time, but some of the things she did were major red flags. Either way, I can see what you're saying as well, and I apologize if I did cause any offense in what I said.

[@emmavrijburg6676]

@@destinytownley5594 no harm done. it's just that (fake story or not) women (people in general) are being stalked, intimidated and victimized every single day. it's frustrating to then scroll down and see comments calling the victim "gold digger' based on a - in my opinion still top vague to really judge - mention of asking "favours"

[@destinytownley5594]

@emmavrijburg6676 Fair enough, as i said, I understand your point of view on this as well. I've just seen too many people (men and women) who have been tricked and given the wrong idea just for personal gain. Maybe the main issue is there isn't much context given to really know the situation. The story is pretty vague, and it's only one side of the story, or one point of view. So honestly, it could be anything. (And the fact that it's reddit, so it could be fake altogether lol)

[@emmavrijburg6676]

@@destinytownley5594 in conclusion, the story is probanly fake but some problems are real i gues we're just agreeing at this point lol

[@minutemuse]

Story #2: 13:16 Even the raccoon knew she ain’t sh-t. But seriously the dude needs therapy. It was definitely wrong of him to continually harass her, but then again I don’t have much sympathy for someone that took advantage of a desperate, lonely person. The fact he sees his time with her as happy memories is pretty tragic.

[@ElecticalCheetah]

2end post: basically op was used and discarded when someone better came along and she ghosted him basically if it didn’t work out with her new victim she would fall back onto op with a bs excuse

[@Yannie-vs5hb]

so from bedroom/MIL problem to new boyfriend?

[@ericworley4361]

He didn't do anything nearly as wrong as he seems to be feeling like he did. Sure, if someone tells you to stop contacting them, and you keep trying to do so anyway with the intention of apologizing, that's not great. After she said that he pumped his brakes and reserved his attempts at reaching out for specific special occasions such as the birthday card rather than escalating his attempts to stop her from creating space between them like a true stalker would do. He didn't do anything harmful ill intended or controlling, and was just deeply hurt and confused because she did a complete 180 with no notice or explanation. What she did to him is far far more ethically questionable than what he did in response.

[@jdjsksbsvsn]

s2 ngl she kinda did used him but he asked for it