My Wife Left For a Month Long Trial w/ Her Lover, Saying She'd Choose Between Us After-But I Made...

[@ajb7530]

To take a month to mess around outside her marriage. That would be instant divorce for me. It's either she's married or not.

[@mrbeastvlogs9635]

Exactly, it's better to have a clean rag than a used and a dirty one to cleaning, the same thing with women.

[@mrbeastvlogs9635]

Exactly it's better to have a clean rag than a dirty used one

[@popstarprincess123]

The legal system is slow and cruel

[@quix66hiya22]

@@popstarprincess123one of the few things Louisiana is better at than most other states. You have to wait months separated to file in most cases unless your spouse cheats. Then it’s instant ability to file.

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

@@popstarprincess123 that's why America needs to adopt Japan's ability to sue cheaters it then teaches cheaters to not cheat or risk a massive fine

[@abdultaylor6571]

As soon as she said she had feelings for Jake, she'd be thrown out. She's already been cheating for months.

[@harryking4007]

Most definitely!

[@wlsmojo]

He got one thing wrong. She didn’t leave Jake. He probably made it clear that he was going out with a lot of other women and she was just a temporary fling LOL.

[@corinnefogarty7880]

He did let her move in. But there are too many people out there that don't think past the immediate gratification part of relationships.

[@John-wd8vm]

The biggest lols

[@toddharms4740]

Petty? She screwed a guy for a month and he’s petty.🙄.

[@ratthawks]

Because a cheating woman can't say anything else

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

remember to cheaters they can do no wrong

[@ratthawks]

@robertmancuso-e9g yeah, we are either controlling. You work too much, you can't read my mind, it's your fragile male ego....bluh bluh bluh!! Absolutely ridiculously insane.

[@hotshower695]

These stories are made up by AI. I wouldn't think about them too much haha

[@ratthawks]

@hotshower695 Usually, they are from reddit post or even reddit stories. Using AI to change bits and pieces to the source, screws them up!!

[@DCD762]

The moment she suggested such I would immediately file for divorce. Thing that women never realise about their APs is they can give you far more attention than your husband because they hold 0 responsibilities in your life, while your husband has those responsibilities. That's why they can give you all the attention you want. Because as soon your husband stops taking those responsibilities on and they shift to the AP, 1 of two things happen: 1 - soon it will be another rinse and repeat because the attention he used to give you has diminished due to him taking over the responsibilities your ex used to have 2 - he will dump you as soon those responsibilities shift to him, ghost you and start searching for the next clueless married woman

[@HeruUrAusar]

Exactly. They get the best of her, because they don't have to deal with the worst of her. Some men have learned this fact, and have decided to become perpetual side-dudes. The husband gets all of the problems, he gets all of the fun.

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

and the cycle with always repeat for women even if other women tell them not to do it, they do it

[@SilentHotdog28]

@@robertmancuso-e9g The worst part is bitter single women who cheat, telling others to cheat.

[@Alexander0108.]

I would have gathered info because the court system sucks and if he had proof of her infidelity then he’d win

[@kaitohkid7229]

OP basically did exactly that. You need to find a lawyer get a spot open gather your information and write the divorce Agreement. It Takes time 😂.....a month was fast reaction time tbh.

[@CasualNotice]

Man, I wish my first wife had been this blatant. I had six months of paranoia capped by her leaving me. Also, a one-month trial? Is she confusing marriage with subscribing to a new streaming service?

[@nicolejones3686]

😂

[@R_W_Goodson]

Laura: “I was confused. We can fix this.” Mike: “You are still confused.”

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

in her mind it wasn't being confused she was more like damn jake didn't pick me now i have to go back to the backup option i hope he can forgive me and take me back

[@dukenukem1718]

😂

[@NotSleepy-r5y]

NEVER be someone's "Backup Plan."

[@ivymerritt7577]

I'm so, SO glad he didn't play the pick me game! It's just so sad! She clearly wasn't worth it, and really self-centered.

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

if he did do the pick me game he would have been known as less of a man

[@peteh.5142]

Men need to stop letting women treat us like afterthoughts. Kings, you are the prize, act like it. Do not ever tolerate disrespect.

[@stavroshadjiyiannis6283]

How can you be the prize if the neighbour mogs you so brutally?

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

well with society actions and bad influence given out to young men they fall for it and because of that they come out bitter or broken

[@akirakaburagi5613]

Instant divorce for me I'm a one and done if she doesn't choose us and me she's gone.

[@TheSilvertrigger]

Wow 8 years down the drain!

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

she was like many girls who are in long term relationships they get bored see a new exciting guy and go to test them out only to find out it don't work out and then thinking the safe option or old life would take them back only to find out they wont

[@mgtow-balance3409]

is this pure stoopidty or sheer audacity? i just CANNOT imagine dissing someone this badly and then expecting that person to act like nothing happened

[@timmynguyen4758]

@@mgtow-balance3409you know how in movies the bad guy who’s on the verge of dying is pleading for his life then randomly starts talking shit to the main protagonist then plead for their lives again with “sorrow” in their voice… that’s how I picture these cheating scenarios 😂

[@MrCcoolg]

​@@mgtow-balance3409 You'd be surprised at the stupidity of some women. Just look at Tia Mowry. That should tell you Everything.

[@corinnefogarty7880]

Most spouses are not into the "sloppy seconds" type of relationships. Someone is always going to be hurt. If you think you're some kind of free spirit, you should not be leading people on. Have a job you can support yourself with, and get your own house/apartment. At least then you won't be the homeless one when things don't work out.

[@LeftyWilliams85]

Large majority of women are irrational beings who operate on feelings first and logic/loyalty second. This story made me smile. Good for the husband. Win for the good guys.

[@PossumLady8262]

She felt lust for Jake…no love there. If I had been op…no way would I have ever taken her back after she left for weeks to figure out HER wants. Divorce was the only option here.

[@rosebelcaraang]

Don't letting back your ex wife file divorce and move on She belong to exes who cannot move on karma and happy new year everyone 🎆🎆

[@SABIKASABIRA]

Good for Mike. Laura was self-centered, delusional and manipulative. The absolute audacity to propose such a thing and expect to come back like she's the prize is wild. 😂

[@St.CrimsonTweets]

It might be unhealthy for me just how satisfying these stories are 😂

[@rmhartman]

If you want to "figure things out" you go into isolation, not to the other man.

[@eliciabonnie]

Call a lawyer the minute she leaves and send a bailiff where she is to confirm she left the marital house and is living with someone else. At least that's what you would do in France... Even though cheating isn't important, except for alimony... And barely m

[@TheBaronQ8]

I'm in minutes two, bro. She needed a quick husband; you were a mark for her! I don't understand why many men meet women for the first time and say, "We just clicked!" If an experienced woman wants you to believe you are special, you will feel special, especially if you are a good person with few experiences. Men need to understand where, how, and when to pick a woman for a relationship and future wife.

[@silent4fail]

Kudos to you sir. You were strong and brave. So many opportunities to feel guilt, heartbreak, and to go back on your word. But you didn't. Kudos to you sir.

[@ClearTrackSpeed]

Dude handled things with Precision; honestly deserves better

[@johnbalogna803]

Nope you dont need to choose. I just did. You'll hear from my lawyer as soon as the divorce papers are ready. I'm no ones back up plan!

[@rmhartman]

"if it doesn't work out, I'll still have plan b"

[@Garanon5]

She truly did delude herself into thinking she was doing the noble thing instead of sticking it out and potentially “resenting” her husband.

[@splinteredworld]

Why do they always run into their ex at a grocery store? It's like Karma Central. 😄

[@Red_Flags_Reactions]

When your woman or girlfriend suddenly wants to get in shape, then something big is coming 😂😂😂😂

[@MrCcoolg]

Greatest win story thst I've ever heard. The ironic thing is that this guy had to jump through hoops to prove his case whereas his ex stood a chance to win on just a frivolous claim. That being said, I'm happy for him, I'm happy for her and I'm happy to know that a man got a win in court.

[@stavroshadjiyiannis6283]

"a little too good looking for his own good" 😂😂😂😂 for your own good you meant to say 😅😅

[@Kinsfire]

She didn't see him as a human being - he was just a thing she could put down and pick back up. And then the 'thing' turned out to have an actual mind of its own!

[@themandownthehall]

Love watching people face the consequences of their actions

[@mattl6300]

How can you build something lasting with someone so unstable and self-centered? You can't. But that doesn't stop a simp from trying.

[@wayne146]

Finally a good story,I would have filed the 1st moment she walked out the door.I’m glad this man wasn’t a SIMP!!!!

[@gustyicefield834]

The graphics make good visual fidget spinners as I listen to these stories. Good on you, sir.

[@AerysTMD]

'Family drama tales by Ru' = a new similar channel with better AI dictation & graphics

[@SunnyStories-j6h]

Wow, if someone’s putting you on hold to ‘choose,’ they’ve already made their choice 😬

[@captain_porkinz5129]

THE AUDACITY! Getting pumped and dumped by jake and tries to treat husband like a doormat.

[@sargepent9815]

I wouldn't let her back in nor ever even talk to her. The second she walked out, she no longer lived there.

[@AndyJMacLeod]

He should have made it clear she would not be welcome back if she left. He should have served her with divorce papers within a week of leaving. The longer you play be her games, the more entitled she feels to treat you with little to no consideration.

[@jenbrem1032]

irreconcilable differences? no thats blatant adultery.

[@LordShockwave9]

I'm just standing and applauding. 😂

[@Ramza1987]

The AI making the stories, needs to find another name for the guy who breaks marriages, it's always Jake, always a gym bro, always young 🤣

[@TalesofDeception1001]

(11:58) - Laura says she 'doesn't want to live with regrets,' but wasn’t leaving Mike for Jake the biggest mistake of all? What’s your take on this logic?

[@MrJrthereal]

Lmfao 🤣 the moment she says that I’m letting her and I’m changing all the locks gonna record her go in to his home with her shit and divorce that is just insane thinking 😂

[@Odd1337]

These stories are so well told somehow it's almost like it was a script.

[@SuperJJAlexander]

The divorce papers would be drafted before she gets to AP's house.

[@Lochee007]

Fixing things was something before her vacation. After the vacation was a two-way process, something she chose to ignore.

[@colesuqs]

I feel like something people don't seem to understand is that marriage vows arent a pronise to never feel something for someone else as long as they live, or to never find another person attractive! Its supposed to be a promise that even though there are billions of other people in the world and you are sure to find someone else attractive eventually, you're promising to be an adult and never let yourself get into a position to catch real feelings, and to never let yourself get in a position to act on any feelings. Marriage is a promise to sacrafice all others for the person you're marrying! To many people today think its just a wedding and some Instagram pics! SMH

[@hbh19hs29]

Lust is the Death of Love.

[@nicolejones3686]

You could have caught this sooner 😒

[@patrickh6571]

Cheaters shouldn't get *any* money, not even a small amount.

[@xoukilong]

Monkey branch.. Swung back.. Couldn't reach.. Fell down to the alligator. Hubby said see you later 😊

[@bennyfugazzi1054]

It just happened Right because she put herself repeatedly in that position for it to happen

[@WilliamBillyCha]

It took the dude a month to serve her divorce paper. Should have thrown her out the house the moment she say she has feeling for the other guy. Then serve her divorce papers as fast as possible.

[@quix66hiya22]

Funnier to let her think she was getting away with it until she returned. 😂

[@bradballard4588]

⁠@@quix66hiya22He handled it like a boss.

[@williambourque926]

I got the feeling he was a bit of a doormat and it took him a little longer than it would take some of us to actually stand up for himself. It's the whole reason his wife thought she could get away with what she was doing in the first place.

[@pitov110]

👎🏼 crap story. The husband handles situation like a true simp. Wife and AP never suffered any true consequences for their affair. 👎🏼

[@David-lx4yb]

She would be gone for simply making the suggestion that she wanted to do that.

[@harryking4007]

This guys mistake was allowing the female to think that she even had the option to return after leaving out. She should've been made aware that there would be no returning to discuss anything !

[@duxmealux281]

Same thing happened to me, except it was her boss not the neighbour lol.

[@SueñosReddit-q3y]

Es una situación muy complicada y dolorosa. Te envío mucha fuerza para enfrentar este momento y tomar la decisión que mejor cuide tu bienestar emocional. Recuerda que mereces respeto y amor en cualquier relación.

[@JB-bb4su]

“And I said nothing. And I still didn’t say anything. And I tried to ignore it.” Why do these guys always ignore or keep silent about the parade of red flags as the betrayal starts. This is being complicit in your own disrespect. And it’s a sign of weakness that your spouse can continue to abuse your trust and love. So many of these affairs could’ve been short-circuited if the husband had the stones to speak up when they first see a problem.

[@ashishpatra7776]

Divorce papers took one month to prepare!😮

[@Titanpenguin]

so he was willing to wait until he talked to his father? seriously 😮

[@bitze865]

Stay at home wife without kids? Na!!

[@SuperJJAlexander]

He was showing her to avoid shin splints and how to get leg splits.

[@markanthony1004]

Sometimes I hate these stories. Believe it or not most people might be shocked at first for a short while then most of us just leave. Why even try? The gaslighting is what I hate the most and then why not just be honest? People ask the cheater doesn’t get to control the narrative

[@thomasspann8678]

The one thing wrong with a lot of these stories is. What is a no brainer, those guys need somebody else to point out the obvious. Wife wants to spend a month with another man. No problem, you should go to him because our relationship is over. Wife wants to open the marriage. No problem, open your relationship, only it won't be with me because our relationship is over. Anything other than ending the relationship immediately is a waste of time and words. You now know she wants to sleep with other men. She will sleep with other men, either with you knowing or behind your back. But she will sleep with other men.

[@josephj7991]

Why do these guys cover for their cheating wives? TELL Everyone the Truth! Start w BOTH Sets of Parents! You can save this! Pay off bills w joint accounts Before you split it? Of Split and pay off with her half? She prob has separate money you dont know about? You are just her safety net?

[@jojobizarre1067]

Sh$t, just divorce her, she might be already pregnant from other man, you will end up taking care other man’s child

[@rmhartman]

It took her the entire month to come to that conclusion?

[@RashidAli-fb3se]

When it's a personal trainer you should realize that the cheating spouce the one 100% at fault and that a second chance is 100% guaranteed to not work if I was in ops place I would have filed for divorce the momment she became guarded of her phone

[@TechnoMageB5]

As soon as she [or he] suggests sorting out her confusion with another guy, open relationship, etc., the marriage is already dead. Why? Vows have been broken. It's one thing to have a spark for someone else while married. It's quite another to feed the spark, fan the flames, and pursue the other option - because as soon as you feed that spark for another, you're violating the commitment you made to your spouse. The energy you're putting into the AP is energy you _should_ be putting into your spouse, energy you are stealing from your spouse. Think of having cat food for your pet, then you start feeding a stray, while your cat goes hungry - what would eventually happen to your cat? That's what you're doing to your marriage. Her confusion is self-created, because it came AFTER she fed the spark for Jake. Every moment, every effort put towards Jake is a moment/effort denied her husband. When she reached the point of confusion, the marriage had already expired for her - because if it were alive, she wouldn't even suggest the idea of spending any time with Jake.

[@majorhavik395]

Op, you’re not the grounded one. You’re just the wallet & it was just your turn.

[@robertmancuso-e9g]

he was a safe zone when her fun time runs out

[@SilentHotdog28]

I'd say he was pretty grounded, he had his priorities set and sorted out.

[@sebbaslopez1424]

You owe jake a fist of fury

[@Brownsuga777]

Hence, women make their decisions based on their emotions.

[@brunojose7607]

This dude never questions anything.

[@Alessandro_Batistuda]

Women never stop surprising us by their entitlement

[@Craig_Murray]

Another Jake?! Why are the APs always called Jake?

[@tadhgconroy8631]

Chatgpt likes the name

[@seanbean6893]

Who would wait to be their wife's backup plan? What a selfish idiot.

[@edwardmorris8465]

She's for the streets he would be just plain stupid if this was real

[@libertasadvitam4538]

Failure to monkey branch. 😂

[@dedrickjones8109]

I would’ve said go ahead but I’m gonna go spend a month with another woman as well

[@presterjohn9088]

I know it's fiction but i don't know any married person who would agree to letting their spouse take a month long test drive with a new flame just to see what "feels better". Anyone with a gram of self respect would Immediately end the relationship. Only a spineless worm would allow their spouse to try out a new relationship and allow them to come back if the new relationship fails.

[@bassbro1]

That may be a thought, but by agreeing he knew it was over. He didn't want to believe it. On the contrary him being okay with her month long fling allowed him to get his ducks in order. He had time to store savings, talk about what's happening, and talk to a lawyer. Thinking about it like that actually gave him a better chance at coming out on top of the divorce. She dug her own hole, and he watched and recorded.

[@ifynwamma]

I hope this is a fake story because I can't believe this level of audacity.

[@deamonflowne9694]

Dude with some of the thing some of these females think is normal. She probably would have brought up poly relations.

[@Garanon5]

Unfortunately, I can see this kind of shamelessness happening in real life.

[@odysseus2656]

I cannot understand women, because they have biological clock, messing around on their boyfriend or husband when they are in their late 20s or their 30s. To get another relationship that can lead to a man putting a ring on it takes years most of the time and it is too late to start over once you are single and 30 most often.

[@deborahbutcher3933]

Wow, over-generalize much?

[@odysseus2656]

@@deborahbutcher3933 No. I am spot on. Deny much? I warned my son, who is in his early 30s, about baby trapping a few years back and he has told me that over the last few years about 5 women who dissed him a decade ago have pulled the "Hi Stranger" move. It is exactly correct, and modern women deny it. The woman settles, if the man is foolish enough to give her a relationship, then in a decade she is restless and wants to go back to the streets. But us older men are educating younger men not to wife up these 30 year olds. There are no good single women over the age of 30, who are not widows. If she were a good woman, a man would have wifed her up in her 20s. It would be nice if modern women behaved better. It would be even better if modern women realized that modern men are wising up.

[@David-lx4yb]

You’re assuming everyone wants children, which is not true.

[@odysseus2656]

@@David-lx4yb That is like saying everyone is normal and heterosexual, but they are not. The vast, and I mean overwhelming majority of women, want to have a family and since 56% of single women over age 45 are on anti-anxiety meds, we know they regret not having children before they hit the wall. Can you find a few outliers? Yes, in everything human.

[@firewindapple]

Phones should always be available in a relation

[@douglasbaty3097]

Jan2025: Husband should have changed the locks the day she left. He was amazingly tolerate. Retired in Sacto.

[@TheNizzah1]

Never marry the fun ones

[@pdl1921]

Umm.. yea….that’s what you do to a 304.

[@vinayvishwanadhan4608]

I would have asked for the same benefits. I would have wanted to mess around as well. Open marriage usually doesn't. work

[@sweeety969]

Side note: OP drop thr technique to avoid shim splints if you're real

[@user-lm9zl9xu8p]

They have a history. Yes just that history is history. Good riddance .

[@adrianmmvula8951]

If this was a true story. The guy is annoying. Why waste all that time and all those words.

[@stephanbutler7988]

Bit slow, but he got there in the end also he stayed strong, so it was a good ending.

[@dmartig1]

I know these stories are BS but women always try to hedge their bets with a “break” so they can cheat but get you back if it backfires.

[@Butterfly-wu1km]

Bet it's Jake, from state farm and he's wearing some khakis

[@scottviverette14]

Good for you

[@eskimolost2012]

Would gather evidence and make sure she doesnt get a dim of alimony or spouce support

[@TeemoMoffitt]

Stupid 304. She belongs to the streets

[@Dolomite78]

He never once checked his wife. She was obviously cheating. Pathetic. Let's see what Marty McFly wants to do.

[@teddymanguerra]

Laura FAFO! 😂😂😂