Confronting Deception: A True Story of Love, Lies, & Learning - Philippines

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

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[@RayH-]

You told this story before

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

@@RayH- over the last 6 months i've gained over 23,000 new subscribers. videos that are older than 6 months do not show up in the daily feed. so for their sake i will periodically re-list a video from 8-months ago since otherwise they'd never be able to see it.

[@jeffjohnston3504]

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[@Lifebeyondthesea]

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[@MikeWood-yc1er]

Make a little plan Stan ...don't need to be coy Roy, just drop off the key Lee, and set yourself free. Great song for a great exit.😊

[@pagagaj]

You lucky to discover it! Thanks for sharing.

[@paulbeekman8979]

You are a great storyteller.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Thank you! 😊

[@bonzotalonzo9072]

Looks like she was looking for the best of both worlds.

[@zerocarbdoc]

Lesson learned, from you, so I don't have to. Thanks

[@PassportBrosBusinessClass]

First step: turn on your recording device. Either your apple watch or your iPhone. Let it record everything.

[@etfremd]

First step is give a gift of a new phone loaded with spy software and never refer to the phone as a gift…always keep the receipt…

[@Dutchy-1168]

Wow Wow Wow ‼️

[@Jaguarist]

I have dated a few Boss lady's (from West and from Asia) and they all have this upside-down thinking about relationship and who has what role in it.

[@Dutchy-1168]

I have two take a ways …. 1) Should you even tell them that ur shooting blanks ? 2) What was she thinking … usually timing is easy to figure the inception date AND doing a DNA after the birth would solve everything ‼️🇨🇦

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

my belief is, always let them know kids are not an option if you've had a vasectomy. not doing so is not only dishonest, it will eventually destroy the relationship. as for what she was thinking... she just convinced herself i would be so emotionally invested i'd accept the 'new situation'. she figured wrong.

[@michaelbond4239]

⁠​⁠@@LifebeyondtheseaI disagree about the dishonesty matter. Your honesty need go no further than to say you do not want kids under any circumstance. Then if she does get pregnant,!you know she been playing around and you walk. The ultimate lie detector. I think your approach is flawed.

[@jjwilly13]

What a bizarre plan since she knew you had a vasectomy. What was she hoping for once she got pregnant?

[@etfremd]

She did not think about the DNA test?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

she thought i would be so emotionally invested that i'd stay. even after an unplanned baby. she figured wrong.

[@franky3231]

Interesting story, Gio also told the story of him breaking up with his girlfriend and a couple of days later she contacted him and said she was pregnant not knowing Gio had a Vasectomy. She comes to his house and he tells her to do a pregnancy test while she is there. She goes to the bathroom and brings out the stick showing it was positive and she is pregnant. Then Gio goes on telling her about the vasectomy and she finally confesses she was lying. Then Gio asks then how did you test positive to the pregnancy test? She said she brought some Pee from a a pregnant friend in a little cup and used that on the stick. That story was pretty shocking to me as well as this one.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

yes, and his incident is not the only one i've heard about a filipina doing the exact same thing. others have sent an LDR expat contact the pregnancy sonagrams from a pregnant relative, blacking out the name on the image "supposedly" to be private. but all a scam.

[@marcofluff]

That was the perfect attitude on how you handled that situation. Second you bit the bullet whew . Did you go to her funeral? You are the prize there there is so many other women there. Despise mind games.

[@BjorgenEatinger]

Comnent removed? For what?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

no idea. what was substance of the comment?

[@lavonyoung2366]

I would not say that all Filipinas are bad. I think that relationships don't start bad but could shift over time.

[@ericshipley5014]

The more of these videos I watch, the more I think it's gonna be a hard pass for me going there...lol

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

it's not any better back in the West.. a lot worse from what i keep hearing.

[@Jambajuice89]

I heard this story already. Is this a reupload?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

over the last 6 months i've gained over 23,000 new subscribers. videos that are older than 6 months do not show up in the daily feed. so for their sake i will periodically re-list a video from 8-months ago since otherwise they'd never be able to see it.

[@Dutchy-1168]

I hadn’t

[@quantum273]

Filipinas can be very decieving

[@bunkerhousing]

Is this an AI-channel?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.

[@RichGPilot]

Is this a repeat story? I know I've heard it before

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

over the last 6 months i've gained over 23,000 new subscribers. videos that are older than 6 months do not show up in the daily feed. so for their sake i will periodically re-list a video from 8-months ago since otherwise they'd never be able to see it.

[@raymondjames2590]

She wasted most of her time while she had opportunities to have kids before hand even if her husband passed away sounds like normal females around the world lol

[@christopherbradley5575]

Though some men get emotional, I can totally understand why you didn't get mad about it. When someone does that to you, all attatchment for me is simply gone. I wouldn't be upset about losing someone who is no good for me. Was she upset? Did she get mad?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

she was just stunned her entire plan vaporized in less than a 1-minute conversation. she had nothing to say.

[@etfremd]

This is why spyware is required for verification of any Filipina. Buy her a new phone and load the spyware…perfect reaction…just move on. No need to make a scene. She wanted a baby bad, it’s understandable…

[@joeconrad3828]

She sounds like she must be somewhat intelligent if she can run a business. How did it not occur to her that you’d likely want a paternity test performed?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

it's possible her previous husband, who was about 8 years younger than her, was a bit gullible or easily controlled. and maybe she just assumed all men are easily duped. had she taken the time to know me better, she'd have known this would never fly by me.

[@alexbakker8785]

This is the second time where i hear you tell the exact same story. Are you just reposting old video's under a different title?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

over the last 6 months i've gained over 23,000 new subscribers. videos that are older than 6 months do not show up in the daily feed. so for their sake i will periodically re-list a video from 8-months ago since otherwise they'd never be able to see it.

[@joebassanello3441]

Your a very articulate story teller and i for one very much appreciate it ...cheers

[@garyt7232]

This on the same level as tampo - totally immature.

[@davidtesler1198]

Its gross if you think about it. I think Japanese and Korean women are better

[@Supremmo]

I would’ve bounced while she was gone, but I understand you wanted some kind of closure.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

nothing wrong with just up and leaving. with my personality, if someone attempts to do me wrong, i confront them to their face about it. not for an apology. not for any acknowledgement or admission of guilt. but simply to put them on notice that i saw what they did and it was an evil thing to do.