How To Handle A Bad Breakup In The Philippines

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[@geoffb5813]

Hi Reekay, No doubt you have given the website but could you send me the link to Philippino law. Just want to know more about the basic law. Thanks. Geoff

[@TheBinko1]

Been there done that with my first Philippa. She pulled a knife out on me, luckily I was able to wrestle it away from her. How can you trust a girl after that and within the end of the day I packed up and was gone. Honestly it surprised me because I was with her for almost one year so I thought I knew her pretty good. It's important to vet these girls for much longer than a year.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

When you just can't trust her anymore. $ #relationships #philippines #dating #expatlife

[@Rob-jd2oy]

Thank you for the advice. But who that girl in your video???????* What an Angel!!

[@TheTreasureSeeker01]

You aren’t paranoid, you are wise.

[@geoffb5813]

Love your very last comment. ‘Never let a toxic person into your life. I would say, ANYONE 👌👌

[@Giorg189]

Very good, this applies to a breakup with any woman, not just PH.

[@geoffb5813]

Hi Reekey This is probably one of the most informative and interesting posts you’ve done. I would also adopt your advice to not just Filipinas but to all people. Once you know that a person is toxic, it doesn’t matter what you say, how kind you say it, how logic you are or how pleading you are, it simply does not work. Well, rarely. Even a 2 worded text will not work. Why? Because you are only prolonging and feeding the bully or toxic person. I do a lot of counselling in my profession. Many cannot or can’t block a person. Again why? 2 main reasons: 1. They want to win and by blocking or ignoring they feel they have lost. 2. They want a conclusion. It’s innate to be curious by human nature, as to what will happen so it becomes an ‘addiction’ to keep going too and fro in the conversation. This is extremely common with younger people. You use the word ‘pre empty’. Guys, alway say to yourself ‘what if’ then have a backup. I do what you do Reekey, l minimise, and think before l jump. Great video and very sound advice Geoff.

[@MeMe-fq6ov]

Channel owner...I have nooo(no) doubt that this video has/will save a many lives. 💯% 👍

[@MichaelKloby-el4jw]

Wish I had known this before getting into my current relationship 😮

[@johnbush8254]

Thanks for a great video. I split up with a Filipino woman in the safety of my own country meaning i told her we were thru after I arrived home. Some threats were made whilst i was there. Unable to just take off i used all my existing to calm her and massage her shoulders. It worked

[@MikeHoncho884]

This video is some of the best information that I found so far about dating in the Philippines! I’d say the moral of the story is don’t take them back to your place and don’t let them follow you back to your place take a roundabout way of getting back to your place because if she’s psycho she may follow you back to your house to learn where you live . Especially if she has bad intentions from the beginning. I would say, don’t sleep with them right away not even on the third date no matter how tempting it is! Tell them your old-fashioned fashion I have to get to know you first! Have some willpower!!! That’s how I’m gonna roll !!! I’m not getting anything here in the states what’s a couple more months or more once I get to the Philippines !!! I’m not going to be desperate that’s for sure!!! It sounds like to me once you take them back to your place you let them set the hook into you. That opens up a lot of doors for a lot of drama !! Shoot, if you really thought things were gonna happen by the second or third date you could always move a few of your items over to a hotel room. Tell her that that’s where you’re staying soon as she leaves you disappear and go to your house or room . Next time you meet her if she’s looking to be a good girl, maybe you can tell her where you live then go back a or rent the same room again at a hotel. This video opened up my mind to this kind of drama. Holy crap I didn’t know what existed!!! You have to clever them !!! I thought what I’d do is get one of those bags that have straps that are cut proof for locking up my wallet and passport and valuables . Geo talks about a bag that’s on his essential list that sounds pretty interesting. Another thing you can’t trust the safe in a room if you’re going to leave the room, but you could put your stuff in a safe to protect it from a woman while you’re there. The hotel staff can open up the room safe and rob you. This is a real eye-opener to help keep you out of trouble. I thank you for making this video, sir. 👍

[@vincen.4151]

Good information! Guys no matter where you go and meet women, you need to have experience and know how in dealing with them. Women can and will be crazy if things don't go well. When going to PI and dating be very careful and stay away from low value women and their families. Watch these kind of videos and learn from them. Always be one step ahead and plan ahead in case something happens.

[@rod1147]

Great advice, only thing I disagree with is blocking a psycho this way you can keep any threatening or misleading texts/voicemails as evidence over false allegations etc for police or court settings. But just dont reply

[@caucasianafrican1435]

I think that's wise. Allow her to create a digital pattern of harassing you.

[@mrmadborg]

Thats a good idea to keep things simple and that lock thing to bed frame. Yes agree that Pea vlog was very good on that subject and worth the listen just to be aware. These kind of vlogs are good to take the sugar coating of everything for new comers, saving face over there comes before anything else. Have been astounded at the lies they make up to validate their point so i concur, it's best to just block them and move on.

[@clydesmith3437]

Very helpful information. Thanks for sharing

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Glad it was helpful!

[@RandyRhode-yq5hq]

35 years ago, in the US, I had a women I met in a bar stay overnight. Her and my wallet were gone in the morning. Found the wallet outside without the money.

[@1975normal]

Excellent advice when dealing with crazy people. Just avoid them, and move away from them

[@sn0wolf]

That’s why I love locktote. Backpack and smaller bag that lock and are cut proof and I use them I even lock the backpack to the toilet when I go out and works a charm..

[@juancarlosvaldes4538]

Informative video on toxic women! Great video Henry and hope you are well!

[@frankellis9627]

Those are amazing thumbnails, Reekey. I am blown away. 😳😲

[@jeffjohnston3504]

It would be an excellent idea to take photos of everything important and legal. Also make xerox copies as well. If anyone steals things. It would be easier to get back to normal.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

yes, and save to a cloud server. gmail offers about 15Gb of free storage.

[@michaelm9621]

I so needed this when I was 15 yrs old. LOL

[@pogopiratepete]

great info as always! your tips are indispensable for my upcoming trip! i will definitely stay at various places for my month long stay...just to be a step ahead of the babearoonies, lol

[@JohnBlackdog]

I wish there were a way to have people checked out. I suspect there isn’t anything on the web and an investigator would be expensive and there probably isn’t enough tangible to find out about someone.

[@BarnabyBarry]

Your right on-Be discreet-a-lot about us is online (house deeds-professional certifications-state pensions-divorce records)

[@ivanguban7143]

Thank you again. It’s a very good instructional video. I am still planning to meet you in person and talk to you. I am not on FB, but I will find the way to contact you. So far I am dating on line and nothing serious going on. The only thing I noticed how pushy they are, they are in a hurry to lock you, they want to meet you in your country, not in the Philippines. It scares me how quick they are in their decisions. I want to take my time, but they already talking about having kids and living in my house. I think I have to meet you first before I start dating these women.

[@gobfranklin6759]

Great content! Thanks again

[@EndlessPursuits79]

I have two cats, so that honestly keeps me from moving around freely. I'd probably have to keep the ladies out of my place unless I was dating them for a really really long time.

[@donjames3321]

Excellent video

[@jimmyg4428]

She is stunning 🤩

[@woobeforethesun]

and A.I. generated :)

[@allanfahrenhorst-jones6118]

Excellent video. This attitude is right for all the right reasons. The "monkey see, monkey do" philosophy is prevalent in all countries and has been successful for many years.

[@ppumpkin3282]

In US age of consent varies by state. Some are 16, some are 17.

[@vernondavis561]

True. In a world where men can now culturally identify as women and women can identify as men, I see no reason why a 40 year old man couldn’t justify identifying as a 16 year old boy. Therefore, it’s merely 2 juvenile’s having sexual relations.

[@mikebenge2853]

There is no reciprocal age of consent. The federal law caps it at 16 as long as the sex isn't of an illicit nature. If you visit a country where it's 15 its still 16 for u.s. citizens per u.s. law

[@mikebenge2853]

@@whiskers78753 nah. Just a fan of the law. I see it misrepresented alot. I'm aiming 21-30 years

[@caucasianafrican1435]

​@vernondavis561 That's exactly where it's heading.

[@DonDenver-r7v]

Reekay is spot on, however I didn’t have any violent issues but these girls all seem too know each other or so it seems. I couldn’t catch a break without bumping into friends I met or friends who seen me out with another lady no gf just dating. Everywhere I went I was spotted out with someone, you’d think that 8 million people in a city what are the chances of bumping to or being seen with someone else… omg .. after that I just would meet up at a hotel somewhere rather than have them come to my apartment, the dating scene is quite different in the Philippines than in the USA. Lucky for me I m good at picking lady’s with no tempers of violence. Lesson learned my 1s trip to the Philippines over 13 years ago.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

it's mind-blowing how often that happens.

[@fernandomofreita79]

I would like to know from you the following please: Do you have any suggestions for the general public as far as hotels and other venues for the upcoming new year's celebration? Thank you.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

"usually", cebu is the place for lots of fireworks display. but overall it seems PH has toned that down since the shutdown. i usually use www.airbnb.com or www.agoda.com for lodging.

[@maxingaroundtheglobe]

Great advice!

[@slavostifil2697]

Excellent video Reekay 👍👍👍👍👍condo for rent, girls for rent, motorbike for rent, all only for rent in the PHI.

[@RGL01]

Never really thought about this in the States. The Philippines sounds like the Wild Wild East!!!😅

[@MegaAlex010101]

please provide the filipina pea video about living together if it is considered married.

[@williamwilson7659]

Sir, are the pics of the lovely ladies in your video from your camera or from somewhere else? I like your videos. They are full of very interesting information.

[@woobeforethesun]

They are A.I. generated

[@MegaAlex010101]

I go by Billie Goat 😂

[@jdsim9173]

You have a lot of beautiful women in this video.

[@johnbush8254]

Oh think i will get a pet cat 🐈

[@ronaldgordon2374]

👍

[@koufax174]

🙏🏼

[@dillans]

Do the local banks have lock boxes for rent? A safe place to keep your docs and extra money?

[@mikebenge2853]

Here we go again. Age of consent is 16 in philippines. It might be gross but it is what it is

[@JB-dk8zc]

Have a relationship with a good partner. Stupid is as Stupid does. Duh?

[@nows1567]

About age of consent, is that really true. In my home country it's 15, so that would apply to me in the Ph ? if I got you right. I never really would've thought about this stuff hadn't this super cute filipina approached me the other day. I could tell she was underage, so I just gave her some money and walked away, but man, she was a sweetie. A daughter and possible gf rolled into one, and, of course, probably a scammer too 😅

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

with so many filipinas over age 20 available, there are so many reasons to avoid younger girls. especially that young. for you it may be just some passing-thing. but for her it is a life event. her expectations would be marriage. bottom line, just leave them alone and meet a filipina that's at least in her 20's.hing. but for her it is a life event. her expectations would be marriage.

[@nows1567]

@@Lifebeyondthesea Yup, Ure probably right, I could marry a young one though, but uf course, the chances it'll last are probably not that big. I've looked at some of Ur old vids. Man, you had some energy when you dated, I wish I had that too 😊

[@JohnArbuckle-tz9rg]

Sounds scary being an expat living there like you have to live like a fugitive ready to pack and run at any moment.

[@ReynaldoOchoa-t7s]

✌️🤠🇲🇽

[@VyacheslavProutorov]

Crazy women in the Philippines!

[@Abelius]

The other day I went to research about safety in the country, considering all the bad press seems to come from the old kidnappings and the time of pre-Duterte war on drugs. I wanted to know if things are better now. And yes, they are. Quite a lot. But the thing that hasn't changed is that the vast majority of foreigner murders have something to do with a girl...

[@davidramsey5952]

Gezz, I’m divorced and I know how dating in the US Is a dead nightmare!! BUT, from all your videos it seems really wild, dangerous and extremely complicated to find a normal woman in the Philippines!!?? I intend to come there in July due to the cost of living here AND I want a loving normal woman, This is confusing, seems like a complicated intense investigation I be safe and find a normal good pure loving trustworthy woman there. Like ya need an instruction book and good interrogation skills, which I happen to be a retired cop. Still it sounds really like walking on eggshells.

[@brent2438]

The more horror stories I hear, the less appealing dating in the Philippines becomes ...😆

[@davidtesler1198]

It is the Spanish blood there, just be careful

[@jurgenmiller2538]

You'll be appalled to hear about Thais and latinas so it's not about the philippinas it's about women around the word.

[@michaelcausby5762]

I just want to know who these 2 or 3 women are all in your videos 😂

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.

[@davidramsey5952]

Gezz, I’m divorced and I know how dating in the US Is a dead nightmare!! BUT, from all your videos it seems really wild, dangerous and extremely complicated to find a normal woman in the Philippines!!?? I intend to come there in July due to the cost of living here AND I want a loving normal woman, This is confusing, seems like a complicated intense investigation I be safe and find a normal good pure loving trustworthy woman there. Like ya need an instruction book and good interrogation skills, which I happen to be a retired cop. Still it sounds really like walking on eggshells.