CONVERSATION WITH OUR DAUGHTER LEHAKOE | SELF IMAGE | GOD | HELPING THE POOR

In today's instalment, Phetola has a heart-to-heart with Lehakoe in a candid conversation about life, growing up and a vision for the future...
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[@malebobrielle5912]

When hakoe started talking about how God is always with us even in hard times, i started crying because i needed to hear that. God can use kids to speak to us. Keep growing in the Lord, Hakoe.

[@darryldenemartin3651]

Spot on. I started tearing up when I heard that part too. There's no doubt that God was using her as his mouth piece and her angel voice just made everything so much more heartfelt. 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Love you Hakoe!❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaah we thank God for always being so mindful of us♥️♥️

[@makazityuluba35]

Actual l had to rewind it l so needed to hear that again

[@siphesihlemlungwana9879]

This child is definitely not gonna be of the "Streets" Phetola can relax😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kunoongavirue]

You can say that again 😂😂😂

[@bonolomasuku5896]

Mr Makhs with Lehakoe next time please😢😭💕💜

[@winniethipa4011]

Lehakoe is her father’s child even the way she reasons! She’s so emotional and has cognisance of who she is

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯💯💯💯 she really is her father. They think and look the same! ♥️♥️

[@adelheidkatjiru9402]

Hakoe is so deep,this little girl had me weeping🥹, she feels so deep for the homeless at that age, may God protect her littlest heart…she will definitely become a world changer…you doing a great job mama phetola❤️

[@serahngoma404]

This is sooo cute

[@letushilaalina]

Hakoe's heart is really for people, may God allow her to serve. Such a beautiful heart baby.

[@TheMakhs]

Amen!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️

[@ziziphonuweni_]

Omg, Hakoe is such a smart girl, she's caring, kind, aware of her surroundings. ahhh man, this video is so beautiful to watch. I can't wait to be a mom one day.

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for your kind words Zizipho♥️♥️♥️

[@tsebedaphney2678]

Yoh Lehakoe is just an old person trapped in a 9year old's body. She's so aware of her emotions and she know how to express herself❤️❤️ The God within her🙏😍❤️

[@TheMakhs]

She’s definitely mature beyond her years♥️♥️

[@kgalalelokgalie7760]

Next episode we asking Mr Makhs and Hakoe

[@sinelizwinkwali9845]

Yhooo heee, did I not cry when Hakoe cried when she was talking about homeless people 😭😭

[@lifutsotsephe7544]

I cried with Hakoe😭she is sooooo kind and loving! Already, at this age Hakoe sees and has a heart for people!

[@nomthigwebu]

It’s Hakoe being in touch with her feelings and throwing mom under the bus.she made me realize that parents mostly think about their feelings and not their kids feelings especially when the kids do something wrong and parents “discipline”

[@TheMakhs]

So so true. And most of us parent from how we were parented. We thank God for guiding us on this journey♥️

[@bonolomasuku5896]

Bathong Lehakoe😢😭😢Touching my season's prayer requests👌👏👐God will really provide👐

[@EverHopeful555]

‘I love a lot of things about myself’ 🥺😍 I hope this never changes baby girl, I just wanna put you in a bottle and wrap you in bubble wrap! ❤️

[@OnEarthasitisinHeaven610]

She is so full of the Holy Spirit 🔥Wow Amazing

[@TheMakhs]

🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️

[@sizakhambule7886]

Bulelang ngwaneo NGO nou, It is that serious !!!!!!!!!

[@katlegorammidi9047]

I cried with Hakoe😭😢😢😢

[@judithmoate5448]

Haibo am not crying you are😭😭😭😭.....why did this video touch my soul.....😭😭

[@rumbidzaimukarakate9130]

Thank you Hakoe for reminding us that God is always with us in every situation. That was powerful!

[@malebobrielle5912]

I cried when she said that

[@lisakhanyadyosi]

I think I do get what Hakoe was trying to say when asked about what parents should know about kids. Because she's a kid chances are the parent will be right, not always but just will but the child needs you to let them know. The parent's angry and the child is angry too because she doesn't know nor even get the point of the argument or disagreement and the adult is probably not going to listen at that point which is what makes the child angry, not knowing if they are right. I don't know if I'm making sense

[@OscarineMlisana]

Wooow your daughter is the most smartest kid I ever come across, I cry with her when she was talking about the poverty that surrounded the country, particularly in homeless people, those tears running on those small cheeks touched me, guys keep it up with your teachings in your kids, well done, bby girl you well answered all your mama’s questions with the respect, may God continue with his blessings in your lives,I LOVE YOU Beautiful FAMILY 🇬🇧

[@qothoasek5815]

Amen🙏🏻

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much♥️♥️♥️. We truly thank God for Hakoe. She’s such a blessing. Teaching is to wear Christ everyday♥️♥️

[@sibandaphilisani320]

I cried when she cried 😭, Hakoe you are a gem babygirl. May God help you fulfill all your dreams. I don't have a child of my own but my siblings do and this right here made me realize that we (me and probably my siblings) haven't been treating the kids so well. I feel many a times parents invalidate their kid's feelings, they expect kids to behave in a certain way (selfishness) but never take a chance to understand the kids side.

[@LethoHali]

17:43… this child is SPECIAL! Dear Lord please shield her from the snares of the evil one! Cover her with your glory and use her for the purpose for which You brought her to earth for! Big hugs Hakoe! May God give mama and papa the strength to support you into seeing to fruition the dream He has placed on your heart!

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much for speaking blessings into our lives. We appreciate it so much♥️♥️♥️

[@queenria-thesidegigsavage4738]

Amen

[@kgadiaphane177]

I really want to congratulate Mr and Mrs Makhs. You are doing great job with your parenting. You are raising God's instruments because you are ALREADY HIS INSTRUMENTS. I praise God for your marriage

[@daisyduma1931]

Sis Phetola and bro Lerato you were blessed with a smart girl as a daughter 🥺😍 just love how Hakoe is so outspoken and speaks her feelings with no fear, that's special ❤. We need another one with papa please 👏

[@lombusodlamini849]

HAKOE! I'm so emotional because she's living my inner child's dream. I'm only learning now that it's okay to express and be sensitive because for the most part, I was silenced. Even worse, these matured views she has I also had and wished to express but knew I'd be told of my little position. If I dare attempted to, still I'd be told of my child position. I'm glad you're allowing her to speak and be free. I wish more parents listen to this and understand HAKOE as a mirror of their own children's feelings. They listen, even better when not shouted at or threatened. We can do away with our mothers/ parent's parenting styles. It never was for us nor will be for any child. I remember feeling small, as I was, feeling like a failure. Like I messed up big time from the shoutings of a merely broken cup and the mistrust therefrom.

[@georginahkhesa7822]

Yoh! Just the beginning "I like a lot of things about myself" yasss wena Hakoe!😍

[@wanderingcucamber7082]

I loved it 🥰🥰

[@faithbest2639]

May GOD keep her heart this whole forever

[@zinhlendlangamandla206]

Yoooh Hakoe you're so genius.i cried also when you started crying ☹️ love you baby girl

[@chumamajova5503]

Aaaaaaaaaahhhhh Hakwe bathong!!!! Looooooovvveeee her

[@seithatintumelangsetswanap2639]

I grew up like Lehakoe, actually even now I really don't like being shouted on. But then I have to deal with my emotions. Because growing up ha ke lela will get beaten uo gotwe ke matepe🤣🤣🤣 But the love also that we get from our parents can make you forget about how they don't allow you to express your emotions. Love makes you blossom ❤️

[@napsadinaps2330]

Hakoe is so adorable🥺❤️

[@setshwanosetshogo4745]

I just loved this Mother and Daughter episode. Hakoe is too precious . You have both done such an amazing job on bringing up such a beautiful Child

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much Setshwano♥️♥️

[@ItumelengParage]

The affirmations Mama Pheto gave Hakoe after the question about helping disadvantaged people? So beautiful to watch! Hakoe will definitely make this world a better place 🤍🥺

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much Tumi♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@ghemjohnson5850]

She's just like her Dad personality wise and more like mama when she's talking...😂😂.

[@goratameswele5501]

I am going through the most and Lehakoe got me in tears when she said God is always with me through the hardest times. Needed that reminder. Lehakoe is amazing. You have a gem right there. She is so mature. I am singing the Blessing by Kari Jobe over The Makhs.❤

[@marvelousmbali8002]

You express your emotions and your words by crying I get you girl

[@Khanyisa_Ngxila]

Hakoe ministered to me when you asked her what is the one thing that she wished/wanted people to know about God. I'm in the predicament of needing God to respond and answer my prayers regarding employment. Thank smart girl and thank you mommy. I am empowered. I love you both.

[@kunoongavirue]

Me too 🥺🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@TheMakhs]

Thanks Khanyisa for your message. We stand with you believing that God will make a way for you♥️♥️

[@xsikwana]

She will thank you for the relationship she has with God, the best gift any parents can give their children, is a relationship with God.

[@espinekambato5903]

I have watched this before and I am back two years later....this girl moved me emotionally last time and I can never get over the part where someone as young as her is concerned about the homeless!

[@vkmabunda9597]

Hakoe is tooooooo smart for a 9 year old Love the questions mama, really interesting answers

[@rumbidzaimukarakate9130]

You have a big heart Hakoe. You will grow up to be a kind amazing woman. God bless you.

[@Onalenna_Thobega]

Hakwizi is my favourite deputy parent. So level headed and of course sensitive. She's amazingly brilliant. Funny enough it doesn't get easier for me the fear of growing up and responsibilities mounting up on me... I'm however taken aback that's her biggest fear with growing up at her age. she's a deep thinker for sure. I just love her. Also she's very blessed to have 'you' as her parents.

[@mrspboledi]

Oh Phetola, that “maybe sometimes it’s because I also don’t know how to deal with my own emotions”. As I’m watching this, I’m realising that being a “strong willed” woman for me is what sometimes becomes the boundary for feeling hence I feel helpless when my daughter gets teary🥺🥺

[@gloriaphasoane7507]

Very powerful!! Hakoe may the Lord continue to use you baby girl 💯❤️❤️💯 👌

[@nthabisengmaake4122]

Lehakoe is exactly like her dad Lerato. So much wisdom ❤️❤️❤️

[@euniceasaah667]

Mehnnn! I always watch, like but not comment but oh my she is an intelligent girl and I pray she continues growing up like this. Good job to Mama and Dada... oh and that prayer about finding a job? Help us Jesus and I know he has listened to our little Angel 🙏

[@kearabilwemonye4563]

GOT SO EMOTIONAL WHILE WATCHING THIS. GOD BLESS YOUR HEART LITTLE ANGEL!

[@tshepanggiftpoo7423]

The Makhs are the future guys 🔮👌This is decolonization. Black excellence

[@VEE592]

Weeping.. Hakoe is so gifted.. God will use her to change the world 🙏 Phetola and Lerato you have done such a great job raising these precious girls❤️🙏

[@consolataogola976]

Hakoe has a beautiful heart.May God watch over her n make her desires come through.😋

[@joypagare4149]

I'm so touched how Hakoe is so sensitive, it reminds me how my son used to give away his packed lunch to his less privileged classmates in primary school.

[@SergeantsKourt]

I have to give congratulations to aus’ Pheto, you’re doing a great job raising these beautiful young ladies. They’ll grow up to be strong, mindful and independent women. Keep up the amazing work. Truly awe-inspiring.❤️

[@neo_mohapi]

Bathong Hakoe. She touched me so much. Got me crying and all. Bless you young one. Such a beautiful person.

[@Goodness222]

The relationship and conversations I aspire to have with my future kids🥺

[@TheMakhs]

♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@Jibs_xx]

Hey Makhs Family, I'm such a huge fan but this is my first time commenting. Y'all have the smartest and sweetest 9 year old. She expresses her emotions amd opinions so so well. You've done such an amazing job raising her. Much love from a Ghanaian sister ❤

[@zaneleluhabe8863]

Hakoe is beautiful inside and out,wow.The Makhs are raising a leader right there.God bless the child🙏🙏🙏

[@vanessamdhluli8991]

Beautiful installment. I love how Hakoe is so in touch with her feelings. A beautiful, well-spoken, self-aware girl.

[@mapulasehowa5030]

Lehakoe is such an angel 🥰🫀God bless u baby 😍🥰

[@amandamgobhoza2882]

Hakoe and my daughter would make a great team,when i look at Hakoe i see her😂she is very responsible also and desire to be a singer and an actress but she is a bit shy.love you Hakoe❤️

[@aziziphomhlupheki6164]

Not Hakoe making me cry🥹,she’s so precious!😭

[@miggodtwala]

Hakoe is a jewel, just like her name. 😍

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯♥️♥️♥️ thanks golo♥️♥️

[@letushilaalina]

Awww baby girl, you schooled us on God right there.

[@mrspboledi]

It’s the “I like a lot of things about myself” for me🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@TheMakhs]

Right?!🥺🥺♥️♥️

[@nobuhlexulu3685]

Not Hakoe preaching to me 😭🙌🏾. When she touched on how she wants to help people, I was crying with her. Yoh, you guys have a daughter anointed with love and wisdom; she’s definitely world changer. Her self-awareness is also on another level. Kudos Phetola and Lerato for raising a well-rounded child 🎉.

[@NomfundoMbatha]

She's so adorable. I smiled throughout the episode. 😍

[@MpumiKMbonane]

What a precious soul, this Hakoe 🥰

[@lebogangmothibe2697]

Oh what an angel♥︎♥︎♥︎; when Hakoe♥︎ started crying for homeless people. I started chopping onions myself. GOD is going to use Lehakoe in a Mighty way♥︎♡♥︎. GOD bless this little angel. We need Presidents with compassion like out B'tful Hakoe♥︎ Oh when u are praying over your Babies, Skeem♥︎♡♥︎ - sooo precious ♡♡♡.

[@winnierampe5634]

Lehakoe, l love my baby,your parents are blessed to have you, you are our next president ❤️

[@zethumasuku]

I love how this bby girl speaks she speaks like a Wise woman ❤❤❤ yet she still young

[@mariatashiyashoolongo]

Oo the smart girl ever

[@sasihle3056]

Hakoe has such a beautiful heart 😭❤️❤️❤️

[@lebogangmothibe2697]

Oh Skeem Hakoe♥︎♥︎♥︎ is a loving, b'tful, intelligent & kind child. & The fact that u are raising her to know the LORD ♥︎♥︎♥︎. Wow Skeem♡, u guys are such wonderful parents.

[@reitumetsemolale6518]

No But I Was Supposed To Study Now Though…😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@angelinemoreroa1429]

Me too. 😭❤😂😂

[@tshepangmokwena8738]

This was such a learning curve, and Hakoe affirmed so many aspects I've always had, but wasn't really following them. 🥺. Thank you for sharing your daughter with us.

[@TheMakhs]

Aaaaah this is so beautiful . Thank you Tshepang♥️

[@zeekay7576]

Love how Hakoe expresses herself and allows herself to feel and cry parents sometimes don't understand I relate so much to Hakoe..She's so smart alot of great things are waiting for her..Love this family

[@nonzuzogumbi5508]

😢😢❤oeeew Baby Lehakoe when she was talking about homeless people, that was so emotional and very thoughtful of you baby❤May GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY❤

[@tmokomotoane90]

The coolest kid 😍😍

[@chantelltalbaard9278]

Hakoe is her father's child

[@advocatepuleng]

Wow! She left me crying. Daddy's girl.

[@estinafrancis]

I am undone. Hakoe is a well of compassion, and as I’ve said before, she is evidence of a child loved well. God bless you both and your family. 🙏🏾💛

[@reginamaledimo8250]

Mom and dad you are blessed with the kids God have given you. What a family!!! Aaaahhhh man

[@alinaabed6082]

When Lehakhoe started started speaking about people not understanding that she’s very sensitive I felt that coz I have the same temperament and when I was growing up my most people didn’t acknowledge it. There were certain moments where I’d cry and people will find it annoying instead of giving me comfort....I’m still very sensitive I couldn’t hold my tears back when she started speaking about helping the poor. As human beings it’s very important to understand that we are wired differently and some people are way more sensitive than others we have to acknowledge people’s individuality _ I love you dream team ♥️😊.

[@MmaNoko]

I enjoyed it honestly. I love Hakwe’s question about language. Please bring Ruo, please. She’s soo funny 😂. I wanna see Ruo on the hot sit

[@TheMakhs]

Ruo is coming soon😂😂😂♥️♥️

[@MmaNoko]

@@TheMakhs I would really appreciate 🙏🙏🙏😂, Ruo my Ruo lol

[@nthabisengkhoba1789]

I love the way she says "Mama", my goodness nothing sounds better. Ruo bathong ❤

[@masekhoanelejaha5449]

I just love how Hakoe is mature she's so responsible was watching her with Ruo on her birthday she always looks out for her its so lovely. big ups Hakoe

[@ameliamathebula6213]

Blessing to you Hakoe assisting the homeless people. It's so touching. 💕💕

[@annielehong9197]

Hao bathong! This little princess though! You are called forth by God to show His excellence, baby girl!♥️

[@doreeningabire3138]

Awwww Lehaoke,God bless your kind little soul…Oneday u will change the world..Lots of love from UG

[@lebogangmothibe2697]

What a special Mother♡ & Daughter♡ relationship ♥︎♥︎.

[@sihleteddymagagula4963]

Ooooh Hakoe😭😭❤❤ you are so adorable nana may God bless you and your parents are the best hands down yooh💯😊

[@deladelalii]

It’s Lehakoe depth for me🥺🥺❤️

[@neosjournal_]

Not me weeping chiiile🥺🥺 she’s so precious!!

[@itumelengselepe7254]

I want my children to be like her❤️❤️❤️. I was Lehakoe's exact opposite growing up, never listened even if my mum hit me i would secretly do that again, was bossy in the streets, never empathetic, I was very revengful, but I outgrew all of those bad traits before the age of 21. Literally all of them.

[@TheMakhs]

Thanks for sharing Itumeleng🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️

[@zamabhelentangana]

OMG I think I like girls 😍. I have three boys 🙆, they don't speak their minds like Hakoe. Thank you for the video ❤️

[@Nanamakosana]

Hakoe has my heart bethuna🥺❤️❤️

[@wanderingcucamber7082]

This is so precious!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 She’s so well spoken, gentle, confident, calm, old souls and self assured! Congratulations Mama and Papa🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@nomthigwebu]

Ruo is still young enough to learn,maybe speaking more of Sesotho at home could help coz at least she’ll still speak English at school both languages won’t be lost

[@johannamakwala]

Wow lehakoe obohlale..this is a much needed conversation most especially with a daughter..I really learnt alot so when I visit home il have one mine too

[@Loralou4455]

The content I didn’t know I needed and haven’t seen anywhere else. This is so groundbreaking and amazing, thank you ☺️ 🙏🏽❤️