MARRIED PEOPLE, STOP THIS!

[@ThisIzKena]

Thanks! Unfortunately, I have to take a temporary break from Social Media (to get a bit more intentional). This means I will not be consuming your vids in the future. I COULD write a dissertation on how your content has inspired and aspired me. But I'd simply just say THANKS. Keep at it Mahks! This IS Kingdom/Generational Curse Breaking work! Thanks for allowing me to do my part of sowing on fertile ground! Your Forever Supporter! ❤ Kena, US

[@maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093]

Marriage is a good thing for two people who love each other. You pull, I pull concept. You push, I push😊 I have been in my Marriage for 23 years, but I feel like we are still in a honeymoon stage. 🤞🏾 I reccomend Marriage if it's my kind of marriage. ❤❤

[@ceciliakunene9106]

You Two are a REAL BLESSING. Im a 70yr old woman. Who relates to everything you say about marriage. I wish the not married yet and the newly weds could cut a leaf from the Makhs.

[@ntambosemabaso2479]

I usually don't comment, but oh maan Lerato and Phetola you have no idea how much you guys are blessing us on all your installments! You are absolutely beautiful and always striving to do your best. I love and appreciate you so much, you are a model of how a Christian marriage should look like. May the Lord always help us to do the internal work and self assessments to be better people everyday. God bless you family. ❤️❤️❤️

[@michellecasagrande2011]

I love how Phetola backs everything up that she says with the sword of the Spirit ❤❤❤

[@anelezimba6515]

Wow Phetelo when you talk about the list of things you want from a husband you talking to me😂😂been married for 15 glorious years to a loving and wonderful man❤thank you guys for this topic🙏

[@Mrs_Neths]

I don't usually comment but no man, this was a good one😭. Thank you guys so much. I really enjoyed this installment. ❤️ Been married for a year and I needed this.

[@nomvuselelongalo8940]

The importance of "the health of our spirits" got me. May God help us!

[@nosisasharon3534]

Liking before even watching🫣 because you guys never disappoint ❤

[@TheMakhs]

Please ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@siviwemapekula1689]

Couldn't agree more👌😊

[@sivmdingi8950]

That was me❤

[@Glorious263]

Me too ❤ I always listen after

[@melonnelon855]

Me too❤😊

[@LethoHali]

I love that! “If my marriage does not point people to God, then what’s the point?”

[@jeisonkunene6376]

I kinda appreciate Lerato's brutal honesty at the beginning

[@TheMakhs]

One thing about Lerato, he’s brutally honest😆❤️❤️

[@lethabophahlane1453]

Another insightful episode. We are in the eighth year of our marriage and your podcast is on our list of things to do together. With many pauses in between, we always take time to reflect on our journey and have "fire" conversations of our own. We are truly appreciative of the manner in which you simplify these complex issues. You are graced for this. Thanks to both of you...

[@ntsakomavunda9018]

Beautiful episode family, as Always ofcoz . I'm not married yet but I'm a big lover and advocate for this beautiful _God_ordained_ institution so much that I usually 'tease' God that , should Jesus return before I get married then I will have to be allowed to marry in heaven, because really marriage is such a deep mystery that I we should each be honoured to experience. But I'm also one of those who adopted the narrative of 'Marriage is hard' , I align to this narrative because I have observed that part of the reason for many young divorces are because couples went in not knowing how much the institute requires selflessness, forgiveness, servings ect. So yeh to Mr Lerato's point I agree ,let's empower while balancing it with tips on how to win this war and also being positive about how Precious this gift is coming from our Heavenly Father and that there is sufficient grace to make it.

[@kegomaota340]

Its the "Its not easy Bazalwane" for me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for sharing Fam, 6 Months in, I must say it depends who we speaking to. You wanna encourage but be honest as well. I do think its also okay to say we are learning everyday or figuring it out as we go because you dont want people to take your word as the be all and end of it all.

[@joeydlaminivlogs]

Really enjoyed this conversation I'm guilty of sometimes downplaying the blessing that my marriage is. I think because you don't want it to seem like the solution to everything and also people used the title to shame others. But honestly if I had a do-over I will still choose to get married because it has challenged but also blessed me so much.

[@stj7301]

The purpose of marriage - this I’d love you guys to have a session on ❤

[@bonolomasuku5896]

Most definitely🎉👌🏿💥💥

[@daisylillian594]

I always say if you want to hate marriage stay around married people they will destroy every good feeling you have of it thanks Makhs

[@sindiswajacobs6974]

Phetho's laughter is so contagious ❤😂😂

[@natashashapolamwamba5683]

Right😂😂😂we all just tag along

[@pondsndzube7513]

I love this "maybe we are not doing marriage right", this is it!!!! Spot on.

[@tlamelomogale8529]

Wow wow wow Mrs Makhs on that self list point, that's so good even Mr Makhs' mind was blown. Marriage is of God, lets do it God's way and our testimonies will be different.

[@leanolaone6431]

Oh my word. I don't even know why,but I cried while watching this. Can we say kingdom wisdom for everyday life??❤❤❤❤ I am so inspired by you guys. And when Phetola laughs ,I just laugh through the tears & snort. I hope you guys know just how blessed & what a blessing you are. Much love fam

[@achatwithgoitse]

Was so Spirit filled, was checking if it was just me who thought that lol!

[@hopethani523]

I am currently unmarried, but this episode right here!?! Landed right where it was meant to land🎯. The tools you both bless us with are so practical and bring enlightenment on what to focus on before the blessing, and during the blessing of marriage. You are both much appreciated 🙌🏽🙏🏽. May God continue enriching the purpose of your union and your union itself.

[@prettypeyalimon6097]

When I see this my two favorite People neh, all I see is Gods Glory I swear💛💛💛 my heart warms up with every Installment🤍 The Lord bless you and keep you🌸

[@keolebilemmoke60]

Mr Makhs is so level headed tlhe and Mrs Makhs is so loveble Both are so in love and considerate of one another ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kgothatsotwala377]

📍,I’m learning so much from you guys. It’s very true that we as married people,we like painting marriages as a something that’s very challenging more than anything else in the world. Thank you guys😊,may Christ be glorified through you.

[@boitumelosetlhabi6508]

You guys! Wow!!! This is the kind of content our society needs. God bless you.❤

[@miriamamankwah9033]

Wisdom as always. So much love for you two.❤ My Ghanaian peeps, please gather for a group 🤳

[@fay8892]

Wow! I don't know how many people God intended for you to reach with this message, but this was tailor-made for me😭😭😭🙇🏾‍♀️Thank you for heeding the call to speak to me you guys😢

[@ntokozoskhosana6322]

Mr Makhs face when he said "look at your own life! "🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. You two are speaking the pure truth, I certainly learnt a lot from this episode. Keep them coming❤

[@mathtutor876]

I have been secretly stalking you guys for about 3 years now. I absolutely love and appreciate you both. May the Lord continue to bless you.

[@cynthiahillian]

I can listen to you two all day!! Especially Phetola. I love her laughter..

[@octaviamahlatsi2203]

Thank you for taking your platform as serious as you do. You guys are appreciated 🥺

[@JustLucyBrown]

Yoh guys,we need to take this talk to the pulpit cause wow 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥this is good.

[@LeboNkgodi]

I’m not even half this video but trust me, this is what I needed to hear. I love how you guys advocate for marriage. I’ll most definitely come back to this video every now and then🙌🏽🥺. Thank you so much for this 😢🤍.

[@thulinkosi]

I just love this conversation, it’s so beautiful to see good examples of marriage on such a public platform. I pray for more blessings to you guys, may the hand of God keep you and help you in all things ❤️

[@TheMakhs]

Thank you so much Thuli❤️❤️❤️

[@sasavonamuthathi3397]

I think Phetola saying she will get married again and Lerato saying he will not get married again we can see both answers positively. She would want to get married again because the current marriage is healthy Spiritually and emotionally so obviously she has faith in marriage and hoping to find someone better again.. He wouldn't want to get married again because of the fear that maybe I might loose this one as well or not find someone like her again. You guys are so blessed and please cherish what you have it is rarer to find partner who understand you, communicate openly, sacrifice and compromise everything for their marriage to work.

[@FunmiFakolujo-xv8mu]

I like it when Lerato said, marriage strips each patner of their own personal issues. And whether each person allow the process of refining to take place or fight it will signal the success or failure of the marriage. When each member willingly submit his /her baggage for the union to refine it. Then marriage becomes exactly what God had intended it to be. A glimse of heaven on earth heaven Thank you guys for your Godly wisdom. .

[@TheMakhs]

💯💯❤️❤️❤️

[@kerilengmalapa911]

Mrs Makhs I love how passionate you are about this topic. I'm ready to get married one day but I'm going to need a handbook from you to carry me through it... I pray the seed is already planted, that book should come ma'am☺☺. Also you are so pretty, my word!!!!😍😍😍

[@Remza-Luv]

I'm so glad that God is working in all of us simultaneously, to take us out of this negative talk, about our lives, marriages, age, work everything were always complaining. I'm even more happier that he is reminding us that our experiences are our testimonies therefore we should give other nuggets of survival instead of just telling them they'll need to survive. This video is amazing, I'm not done watching but I had to stop and comment cause ya'll took us to church so much so that I feel I've gotten my share of fellowship for the week.❤may you continue allowing God to use you as vessels ❤

[@wewemhlaba7593]

And we're back💃❤😊Dreaaaaammmmm Team.Thursday made.Welcome back fam

[@TheMakhs]

Hi Wewe!!! So good to see you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@chumamajova5503]

A list for myself!!! Guys the mother of the house be dropping bombs♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥

[@moremiracle4279]

Your marriage is really a blessing. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.

[@drcosnetleratorametse2384]

This was SO SO lovely!! Love you so much man!!!!!!!!!! I suggest you do a series on “Doing The Work in Marriage”!!!❤❤❤ you are doing good work for us young Christian couples , I learn SO much from you two honestly!! Especially as a Christian ❤️

[@tsebomothibedi173]

Your channel is really underrated, more couples need to make their way here.

[@musancula1016]

This is worth every second of my time. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom!

[@tsebedaphney2678]

Yoh guys 🔥🔥🔥 I am not even in a talking stage but here I am. Stayed from beginning to end 🤞 loved and enjoyed it👌❤️❤️

[@eyethumfazwe]

Me too 🙈😂 it's all good though. There's peace that comes with not being in a talking stage. Anyways this is a great channel and I'm always learning from the Makhs

[@kgothatsomosweu7358]

I was thinking Habibi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. listening to you guys is always worth it. Thanking for honoring this ministry

[@zazidhlamini9924]

Guys Phetola is a home girl, I love how you always make conversations feel like we are friends just chatting❤

[@thobekaphanyeko4358]

I appreciate your honesty. Personally, I know marriage is not for me but I enjoy your conversations. Thank you❤.

[@eyethumfazwe]

If you want to, please share how you know this? It's not many people with this calling. I also enjoy learning from people who aren't called to marriage

[@thobekaphanyeko4358]

Hi @@eyethumfazwe, sure. I spent a lot of time reflecting on the institution of marriage and how it aligns with my values. Considering that I spent a significant part of my life catering to those around me, I had to start operating from an intentional place. So I intend to spend the rest of my life on personal development, and self-actualization. What matters to me now is my joy; spending time with myself, improving my relationship with God, and contributing to social impact makes me genuinely happy. I've always known that I'm a non-conformist so I'd feel claustrophobic whenever I tried to fit into societal boxes. And this phase of my life allows me to tap into my truth. Also, I'm quite visual so I have to envision something before I move. The picture of my best life doesn't include a husband. My life is full; I am living out my purpose, and I am genuinely happy. I trust this answers your question.

[@Gold5555]

​@thobekaphanyeko4358 do you have a child, I hope I'm not out of line?

[@thobekaphanyeko4358]

@@Gold5555 I do. Why do you ask?

[@madamflames]

The best segment on KZbin 🥰😭📌 Here is a thought!!

[@thephakathiz9664]

Guys I'm with you, marriage is bliss. I always thank God about mine. Thank you for speaking about this side of marriage. People fear it because of 'the hardships' people sing more than the joy in it.

[@nthabisengmphulomasila5731]

Lerato looks so much like his dad with the beard..nkare I m seeing Ntate Neo Mokgethi😊

[@TheMakhs]

You should see Ntate Jerry’s pictures as a young man, they are twins🤞🏾

[@nthabisengmphulomasila5731]

​@@TheMakhs ❤❤also thank you so much Fam for the wisdom...you guys always make me appreciate my husband more everytime..ka leboga.

[@neliswajokweni5872]

I think talking about how hard marriage is ensures that people go into it very sober minded, yes you are inlove but there’s so much more to it and it’s important that people know these things and are not sold “dreams”.

[@JustLucyBrown]

That point on how we should ask ourselves what type of partner we should be for our partners and not what he needs to be for us yooh 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@siamisangsia6840]

Guys, we need marriage seminars from you. I convinced my fiancée to binge-watch your podcasts with me and we relate with most of your content. May God take your ministry to greater heights and make you thee ambassadors of marriage in SA and globally. We love you 😍 ❤

[@MrsKayR]

I never comment mara today I am in tears. i have been married for 6months and i really needed this installment.

[@mukololo_Lorna]

I don't usually comment (i watch on my TV mostly) n ur videos but i always watch.. And yooooo Jeso kreste 🙆‍♀️ 😭 😭 😭 you guys never disappoint shem 🤞. Your videos are profound and i learn everyday. I thank God for ypu guys. You make this marriage thing fashionable and so lovely. May God bless you more and more 🙏, you such an inspiration

[@katlegopru]

Im stuck with this installment as i enter in my marriage❤❤❤😢 Love you so much The Makhs

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

The Makhs your channel is honestly not about reaching numbers. I kept worrying about why are 'we' 😅 not going over 60k a while back but today, right now i know why, this installment just confirmed it. May God continue to give you strength to distribute his word through you.❤

[@TheMakhs]

Yoooo kgale re le mo 60 Tao Akere!😂😂😂. You’re right though, at some point we also sat down and had an honest conversation regarding the numbers. It’s great to see them, but they are not our main focus anymore. We are grateful that through our journey people are having those uncomfortable conversations and we are growing as a collective❤️❤️.

[@mookgomolisalife]

God yes ,God Thank you 🙏🙌. Thank you guys for allowing the holy spirit to use you and your marriage like this🙏❤. Glory to the most High king

[@KhanyiMsibi]

Man. This conversation 🙌🏽 it was a whole sermon nje! As always, thank you Mr & Mrs Makhs ❤ May God bless you.

[@MmatemaMrsG]

Watching this again, earlier was to push di ads, ohh P is dropping gems 😃 a re I never wanted marriage till I met you. Ncaaaaw

[@HisPrincess_]

To us singles who love this channel and listen this channels that teaches wisdom and will apply the wisdom in the relationship to come or marriage 🥂. Thank you The Makhs for the impact yall have on us as individuals, couples, faith etc 🤍

[@siyamtolo6733]

To us! 🥂

[@LETSOALO_LIFE]

😮 oooh guys. I don't even know what to say. You guys are very wise, God's wisdom all over you. I am just going to say i am not sure how people who are not rooted in Christ cope with marriage. Without him "e boima ntwee, ha e nyake chance takers"😅 What I have learned in the 06 years of marriage is that the institution gives you integrity... seriti. O a hlomphega if you continue to respect the marriage yourself. You are no longer wa strata and people treat you as grootman in a case where you are guy. All of a sudden you are seen as good advisor for relationships or new marital problems. In my own 2 cent observation is that mahlatse le mahlogonolo eba a mantši because 2 has become one. Blessings continue to multiply as compared to when you are one. Also having a life time friend whom you know where you stand with him, can call at anytime to gossip with is a blessing. It's a good one, go monate, I recommend it 💯 and would do it again in my next life.

[@TraciLebo]

You love and appreciate and encourage each other the way I believe I'm going to be loved and encouraged soon when God answers Imithandanzo😃😃😃

[@zandilembatha1297]

Wow! Another powerful installment. You guys are so rooted in God with everything in your lives ❤❤❤

[@katlegomolokoe4437]

I agree with Sis Pheto on "holiness and righteousness". God is focused on these, while we're focused on other things which brings burdens and battles. 💯

[@sheronsnethembancube2693]

Wow, you guys did this on our anniversary. Happy anniversary to me and my 🔥 Fire. Tied the knot 🪢 8 June 2010

[@ndungeuuyuni5117]

I love you guys...learning so much from you...I wish your installments were there at the beginning of my marriage...it's hard to change yourself so we start off by trying to change the spouse and you don't succeed. That's when it hits you.😂😢

[@shekudjaasteria4006]

Oh, I love you guys so much and you’re truly a blessing in my life. I have grown so much in the past 3 years all because of your beautiful conversations. God bless both your beautiful souls ❤

[@josephinetshetshema7113]

this is good and very insightful and empowering, even for us the unmarried. love from Botswana❤

[@n_.nokukhanya]

We learn so much from the both of you , May God help us to be able to Apply all that we learn

[@preciousGodsgem]

You're such a blessing to many of us...I am just like you guys and have been wanting to do this but still waiting for my companion hey...😂😂😂 I relate so well❤❤

[@sylviamohapi5857]

Thanks

[@Bravva_01]

I was just gonna listen, like and pass but you guys are just hitting it and making points. Thank you guys for this. I love you guys so much. I sure took notes. Though am still single but I hope to model the christian marriage someday.

[@asindiswemtshengu4184]

Sana nenza kakhulu ngok..even my husband has become a fan❤

[@mrsh4527]

Thanks!

[@Mrs_K2M]

This conversation has been a powerful one. I am with you!.. I agree with you all 100%.. thank you Fam❤

[@thobekavuyiswa878]

Thank you fam!🥺❤️

[@tebzlindiwe3069]

i thoroughly enjoyed this discussion. Beautiful

[@natashashapolamwamba5683]

Phetos expressions describing Leratos sentiments about how hard marriage can be sent me 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@pondsndzube7513]

Thank you guys for this ministry, I pray that men can watch this more cause there is already a lot of women watching. There are South African men who can do it right ladies

[@natashashapolamwamba5683]

Mr. Mahks never disappoints with complimenting Pheto. Love to see it.

[@leraydoo1]

This was such a thought provoking installment. Forced hubby to watch it with me coz he doesn't like watching couples content 😂but he thoroughly enjoyed this episode and we were able to discuss it a bit afterwards. So thank you guys! 🥰

[@bamekeatimilwe7925]

Thank you so much for the beautiful conversations❤. Sis Phetola o montle maaan!!!

[@aobakwepheto2502]

"I want to be this type of wife..." Drop that mic and walk sis! YOOOOHHHHHH!!!!! ❤😍❤😍❤😍 #GoosebumpsOnSteroids!!!!

[@royalqueen8679]

Ooh I'm loving this, was so hungry your next video after the leading in marriage one.woow wooow wooow.enkosi Siyabulela THE MAKHS.

[@Blackchildwise-up]

Shuu, this was a hard one 😅 was truly a blessing, so enlightening ❤ so much wisdom 🙌🏾 ❤

[@MimiMosia19]

AMEN!!!Preach it As a single person this really gave me a revelation of how i should be stepping into relationships. YOH!!

[@Lindo.N7]

🔥 Makhs! Thank you ❤ just letting it all seamer. Really, how easy it is for us to be The accuser bafethu yet over-looking self.. ay 😥.

[@sunak4896]

I alwys wish to see the day .the numbers of subscribers will sky rocket cos this is such an awesome inspirational very important channel.....🙏❤️

[@tshepisompala2236]

This was amazing OMG 🥺🥺🥺 Sis @Pheto that point on having a list of your own expectations 👏👏👏

[@kabelop9082]

Truth is some people have had horrible experiences with selfish partners both male and female, and that has breaded bitterness. Couple's backgrounds have affected their outlook and behaviour in marriages. I'm 9yrs married and based on my experiences in marriage, I've looked at social media displays of marriage and at times i would be like yhuuuu some girls are lucky (referring to areas mine lacks in). I have also viewed other peoples marriage displays (GBV, etc) and i think some of us are fortunate to not have met this treatment.

[@juzasgatya4274]

Yr conversation great as usual encouraging taking u to new level thinking helping the singles as well as married

[@cynthiahillian]

People speak of the work.. But what is the work? The work is what Lerato said.. on yourself. The revealing and healing of self within marriage.

[@LethoHali]

Love you guys and your heart for service! 🙏🏾 You’re such a blessing in the body of Christ!

[@aobakwepheto2502]

Yoh Phetola!!!! 😍 I can't wait for your book or blog. A circle for women type of vibes! Yoh! ❤😍

[@maps_t6059]

Great installment.Thank you the Makhs💕. Is it me or was Lerato out of focus throughout the video?

[@phindulomphaphuli7897]

I always learn a lot from your installments guys❤ l love watching you, I think you're modeling marriage the right way...😊

[@natalietsoka8167]

Hello to the Makhs, thank you for another beautiful and Holy Spirit filled episode, may God continue to bless your marriage as it is blessing us! Please advise how to find the thanks button as I can’t see it