Conversations with Kanwal S1 | Episode 1 | Domestic Abuse

This is a sensitive topic but also the unspoken story of many households. In our first episode, Adeela tells Kanwal the story of what went on for 10 years behind closed doors - before she finally stood up with her father's support for herself and her children.
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[@muhammadinamulhaq5786]

I just watched and I love that you are giving a voice to other women. I feel like because of your efforts my sisters future will be safe

[@Kanwalful]

This is the best comment I've ready today! 💖

[@Mumsiken]

I pray that no girl gets to be treated this way.

[@Darcyyyyyyyyyyy]

SHE WILL!! Give her strength courage and lots of love, and tell her the world has changed, and she can be whoever she wants to. Encourage her to learn skills and be and live a happy life💗💗

[@anamtakhanam]

Sadly its 85 now

[@SangitA]

Good to know that you care.. warna bhai toh andar hi andar behno se nafrat karte h

[@naveedmulani]

If the mother in law slapped her son back instead of hugging her daughter in law, this problem won't be exist . We have to teach our men's to respect not to dominate .

[@kanyacolours]

Yeah right

[@kashishgoel8474]

She was getting beaten too I think because she said “all men do think when they’re angry”. It’s a vicious cycle but luckily this lady broke it so her own children don’t learn the same.

[@sanji546]

My mother is just like this My mother can’t stand violence and abuse towards women

[@RimshaKazmi080]

Once my brother and SIL had a fight and my brother raised his hand. That was the first and last time he did so. Everyone was in complete shock. No one supported my brother's actions. He went to his in-laws and sat on the floor in their feet and apologized. Even my mother didn't talk to him for months saying "kuch bhi Hua, jis Ki bhi ghalti thi hath Nahin uthana chahiye tha" I think this treatment from both sides makes a man overthink his actions and help him to be a MAN in true sense.

[@NK-kx9lx]

Slapping isn’t the right approach. We slap kids without thinking about their self respect. Then those kids grow up to be aggressive husbands and fathers. Better teach them violence is never acceptable, not even a slap will be tolerated at home because it’s also a form of abuse.

[@SteelRaider17]

Girls, please put your education before marriage. People can take away your money from you, your self respect even but not your knowledge. You may never know what obstacles you might have to face in life and it is only appropriate that you have enough qualification in life to rely upon. Never let a man, or "ishq or pyaar" destroy your aim and ambitions. Never let anybody step over you.

[@pallusvlog5195]

Very true... Every women should be independent

[@shysensei2348]

Truly said. 👏🏻

[@mangalkatkar8502]

True very true

[@maimamohamed2226]

I wish I got this advise 6yrs ago but thanks

[@SteelRaider17]

@@maimamohamed2226 it's never too late ❤

[@sshadabkhan9023]

I am specialist trained dentist in UK, I had partially arranged marriage 7 years ago, I tolerated him for two years, and left him with my 6 months child without giving him warning because they dont deserved that, it took me 5 years to recover from that trauma and Alhamdullilah my child is the happiest child. But the thing is even you are educated or not they draw you to the edge of psychotic depression and it's only your mental strength that make you stand again. I have fight alone in all journey with myself and the society.

[@lifewithAysha]

I went through same thing and it's hard to convince family for divorce

[@sadiaali9448]

I am in the same boat. I had to fight against not only with my husband but also with my own family. Instead of believing me, my family believed on his false stories. Even though there were open proves of cheating and abuse but my family still wanted to forgive him and give him a chance (which i have been giving him for 6 years) Finally i took a firm stand against everybody and got seperated with my daughter. Now i am a professional and sponsoring myself and my daughter. Most heart breakning is that your own family dont support you and trust you.

[@sanobermalhotra6307]

Stay strong. Keep your financial independence. Being a single woman or a divorcee is far better than being an abused wife. Good Luck.

[@dlosha]

Alhamdulilah u r out of it.stay happy many prayers fr u

[@barshana6231]

I am proud of you...

[@asthasingh2779]

She's brave. I'm proud of her and her father too. I've heard stories where girl's family never help her because she married against their will. But this was not the case here and I'm happy about that. Being independent, being educated is the biggest weapon anyone can have. There are instance where parents force their daughters to get married. But everyone should understand that making her independent should be on top of any parents priority list.

[@gayathris71]

Such cases are across the globe. When a woman is in love, she gives the longest rope to her man. But when it snaps, it snaps forever. Some men think that women will be slaves for life or are so dumb that will bear abuse for a lifetime... Which shows how dunb they are actually. Im proud of you both :) I feel proud again to be a woman...

[@CuisinesByMom]

Gayathri Gangapuram Sharma absolutely! I agree to you word to word

[@lavanyak7145]

Brave Woman 👈she was about to cry but she didn't ...I salute u

[@AK-dg5bw]

Lavanya K the inability to be vulnerable and not cry means you are weak ,if you can cry in front of other and be vulnerable is what makes one strong

[@akankshagrover7327]

If you are not crying then you are weak

[@bridgetking4553]

@@AK-dg5bwYES!

[@geek7227]

Funny its from Pakistan but Indian men are same. I was strangled & beaten up too. Trying to get out of this situation. Majority of desi men are abusive.

[@marwoyusuf906]

G K I am from somalia i used to see my neighbors it happens all over the world but desi ladies they are more patience than others most of as we call our friends and beat him so badly and after that we claim divorce

[@geek7227]

@@marwoyusuf906In most situations friends won't help. Here people think its normal to beat women. If you call for help they will tell you too compromise. Systemically women are made to be dependent on men. Most have little to no education and no financial aid plus too mucj social pressures to stay in abusive relationship. I'm glad Somalian sisters have help. I hope we all get the help that we need.

[@hamnahteli990]

@@marwoyusuf906 Wow! thats mindblowing! I agree desi ladies are told to be patient and live with it, a concept I truly dislike.

[@freedomfighter3655]

Not all men are same Bad guys exist in the world But great guyz still exist in this world Stay blessed all❤

[@Grea76]

Every woman must learn to help herself. After which they shall receive additional support if they need. Himatte marda madade Khuda.

[@sairahb855]

She is bold enough and her scars are healed now. 😇 Bad days were gone. 🙏

[@shivanimalik9156]

Scars are never healed, it's just we move on with time

[@aayess3863]

Aik cheez in videos say dekh k pta chalti ha k maa baap ka saya kitna anmol ha. Ye kesa ajeeb rishta hai. Hmari hazaar ghaltiyo k baad b sab say zyada hmari tkleef ko smjny wala agr koi hai toh wo maa baap hain.. jahan sab dunia mun morh lay wahan maa baap hath nai chortay apni aulaad ka. Please sab (meray samait) is nehmat ka jitna shukr adaa kar sakty hain karen, inko har khushi denay ki koshish karen tab b ham in do azeem hastiyon ka haq adaa nahi kar saktay.. Allah meray aur sab kay maa baap ko lambi aur sehat o tandurusti wali zndgi ataa karey aur jin k maa baap is dunia main nahi un k darjaat buland karey ameen sum ameen.

[@babilabub]

As long as women teach their sons to be respectful towards their better half, understand they are human just like themselves and treat them equally, these stories won’t repeat. If you want to make a change, start with yourself first.

[@B.entries]

Sons learn behavioral patterns and habits from the father. If the father does not respect his wife and the son sees that , he will do the same coz according to him that is 'normal'. Its not only the mother responsible . While the mother teaches her son through words, the father teaches the son through his acts and children usually pick on visual learning first. By the time they are old enough to understand the mothers words, it'll be too late.

[@CuisinesByMom]

This is what in real sense means woman empowerment! Certainly this is one of the most beautiful channel I have come across which brings out the real heroines! 😊 Hoping to see much more inspiring stories of the bravest women!

[@batulfatimah6279]

Omg this is heart wrenching, please Allah keep every girl safe from these kind of families. Marriage can be so beautiful if it's with the right person and it can be so crude as well if the other person is insensitive

[@bilqueesparacha9639]

Ufff she was lucky that her father cane to rescue her sub kay sath aisa nae hota love u kanwal fir this brilliant initiative

[@roxy4963]

Bilquees Paracha , absolutely right. My parents told me to put up with it!!!! Her father was truly a father, who helped her.

[@pearlstars977]

Adeela I'm so happy that you came out of that situation. Please love yourself for twice the time you stayed in that situation. You have no idea how much hope and courage you have distributed by sharing your story. ❤️

[@vivrozario9202]

No relationship is ever worth sacrificing your dignity or self respect for.

[@ranjitsreeram]

👍

[@sybilk9132]

Yeah if that happens it's no longer a relationship but abuse

[@liah401]

I completely relate...I was abused by my husband. I was able to finally leave when I gathered the courage and strength. For the sake of my child future and my safety. No one deserves to be treated less than.

[@parnakolay4531]

That last line from the son wins for me!Hats off to these beautiful ladies for taking drastic steps against these kind of beasts who call themselves "educatd men".Love from India❤

[@sandyrao1151]

74 dislike maybe bad husbands 😅.... ... stay blessed and strong 💪🏻 woman 👩 🤗

[@rapunzeladrees6371]

I just want to tell anyone who's reading my comment "Don't ever hurt your parents for ANYONE" They truly selflessly extremly love us. At the end there are only our parents who save us. Go tell them that you love them a lot. Hug and spend time with them. May ALLAH bless our parents with healthy long life ameen sum ameen.. ❤ and those who have lost their parents do pray for them and send them loads of asal e sawaab. Make them proud of you. ❤ near or far they are close to our heart.

[@szsherazi3630]

Ameen... i agree with you

[@cleo421]

Such a beautiful comment. I agree with you completely. Thank God for parents 🙏🏼 ... Brought tears to my eyes

[@rapunzeladrees6371]

@@szsherazi3630 SumAmeen. Shukriya :)

[@rapunzeladrees6371]

@@cleo421 you know these are the feelings that we all hold yet forget because of the problems of life. Thankyou for speaking your heart out regarding what you felt. It was important for me to know. and yes blessed we all are. 💫❣️

[@pinkee1981]

Aameeen

[@azzuitsjustme]

We should be applauding not only her but also her father, mashallah she is lucky to have such a nice father who stood up for her when she needed him. I have heard stories where fathers have told thier daughters " mene apni beti ko ese pala hai k woh sab seh sakti hai" and then dropped the call

[@sanaishaq6003]

This massage is dedicated to all indians k jinhony ny yaha p itny achy comments diyea hn piyr dia h is episode ko dekhny k bad or itna acha salute dia h i really really very happy nd i appreciate to awll thanks nd love you awll 😍😘

[@sehrishnadeem2684]

Hats off for your father . Who was standing at ur side after ten years . He thought of you and your kids too . Mostly fathers and brothers leave girls on their decisions in our society .

[@wasiaaamir]

Kanwal I had same story but with a happy end. Although it took unbelievable efforts from me by the blessings of Allah I transformed my husband from a guy addicted to hash, alcohol and May be girls to a pious, five times praying and a successful professional. I can share how I won this nearly impossible war and now living peacefully with my 2 brilliant daughters and son alhumdulilah with Allah's help and my education I myself working as a successful professional. But without hurting my husband and in laws I can share privately in niqab without naming anyone.

[@wasiaaamir]

@Anaya Khan anaya talk to me in private on fb id aasma aamir with pink logo this is my daughters account

[@literarureislove7244]

Bara acha kam kiya ha jo bata rahey hu

[@shakilarehman9234]

Ye dil Allah k muhabat ke ilawa hr muhabat k liye buhat chota ha first Allah ke qareeb ho jao phir wo tum ko kisi zalim aur musebat k qareeb nhe kre ga

[@hirasohail8606]

wasiaaamir how???

[@eshaskitchen3762]

wasiaaamir please share how u did it ... i have my fb account with dresha shamim.. i will try to search u on fb and send u request

[@sadafbaseer1911]

Cannt stop my tears when I heard her son said we r free today omg

[@funtime5958]

Sadaf Baseer 😭😭

[@Heart1430-z1v]

So much better show than those mindless Nida yasir and Sanam Jung's morning shows! Thank God for digital medium in Pakistan!

[@rainabashir6254]

The last line her son said "we are free today" very emotional

[@anniebasit5220]

Uff I still thank till to date sometimes Allah give you that light dimagh ki bati in short. I was engaged to a psycho path my family didn't know was arrange engagement. We didn't talk to each other but started talking some how a yr before our marriage and I told my parents he doesn't sound right to me at all. There were so many indicators like verbally abusive, non stop blames on my character for no reason etc. and I am happy I recognised them at an early age. My family supported me and broke the engagement which tool us another 1 yr due to continues threats social pressure and all. But alhamdullah married to a very loving person now and thank Allah each day for helping me take the right decision.

[@bismaahmed5136]

The last words of her son made me cry... Kids suffer the most in such abbusive relationships

[@nabeehas2201]

Ah!! It's high time women understand third respect. If someone slapped me. I wouldn't even give a sec and leave that person. Sara Pyaar gaya bhaar Mai. Pehle izzat do and izzat lo. And if these people really think hitting women is manhood. Please don't hesitate to hit that person between his legs. He will surely remember all his manhood. P.s to all those ladies suffering. Kindly kindly please leave your husband and live a better life! If you are thinking what society will say. Please through the society in hell because those people are not suffering with you And worried how will your children live without a father. Really! These young innocent souls will live a 100X better life without third father. Imagine your kids learning the same abuse from father. Don't really want your children to stay with such a man!

[@uzmag3079]

True. I left my husband after 14 years of abusive marriage. And thanks to Allah now I am happy.

[@nabeehas2201]

@@uzmag3079 amazing! So so proud of you

[@nadiam.k2601]

@Prathamesh Adsul exactly because leaving them just like that means he can still be abusive with his next wife.

[@saadia4009]

easy for people to say but the woman is gaslighted and has stockholm syndrome, it is not easy to leave and even if they do they go back

[@saadia4009]

@Prathamesh Adsul I wouldn't call them husbands

[@nikitarawat5539]

She got great guts........ God bless her and her children 💜💜💜💜 she is blessed with such good parents... Aj k time pr bhi ldkio k ghrwale itnaa support nhi krte...

[@friyaivy3818]

Please do a episode on the society's pressure of marriage on girls.

[@sayshamor834]

You know what! God has literally made women with I don't know what!! Such patience?!!! Impossible to find anywhere... hats off

[@charugupta6527]

Such women are real superheroes 🇮🇳 love from India

[@baljeetasingh738]

This show gives power to all women raise their voice against crime as it explain the stories of women god job mam👍

[@pinkysah22]

Bohat dar lagta h sadi k nam se

[@zikrakhan503]

Always keep praying... Dua se badi taqat koi nahi

[@kakafrrkhbdfreelancewriter3590]

All r not same miss pinky.....

[@kakafrrkhbdfreelancewriter3590]

Ji bt agr understanding acchi ho or pyar ho toh aisa nhi hota hai bs insan wali soch rakhoge toh sb accha hi hoga mam@khushboo gupta ji

[@sanobermalhotra6307]

I hope you have ensured financial independence for yourself. Educate yourself, get employed, earn and save money. Keep it safely in your name. Then think of marriage.

[@aakritisrivastava7785]

Hats off to your courage ma'am. We should not become the victim of our childhood or past mistake and should not let it define ourselves. Our parents are there for us forever.

[@profilnamn9657]

So touched to watch this. An inspiring and strong woman and I am so happy for you that you had a father like that who called the police for you without caring about the society! And that you decided to love yourself.

[@sanobermalhotra6307]

An earnest request to all parents. Please educate your children especially your daughters. Allow them to get out into the world, take up a job, a career, where they can earn and be financially independent. Teach them to save and establish themselves before you think of marrying them off. Financial independence gives you a voice, it instils a feeling of self dependence which no one can take away from you. When God forbid you find yourself in a bad relationship, you find the guts to walk out taking your children with you and live a life free of stress and abuse.

[@davidnewsham6860]

A v brave lady, may Allah ease her difficulties and grant her peace and serenity, Ameen. Kanwal keep up the good work to expose the fault lines in Pak society.

[@davidnewsham6860]

Dave 1977 @ Fave 1977 There is, has been and always will be ALLAH. He is ever living ever subsisting and there’s nothing like Him. However, there no Dave either Newsham or 1977, and once they’ve spent their time on earth, they’ll be no more BUT ALLAH will always be.

[@tanvir343]

My best friend is suffering from an abusive marriage. She just had a baby girl. And she is too coward to walk out of this marriage. I hope she realises this soon that such men won't ever change and she decides to leaves that asshole. My heart cries for her 😢😢😢

[@majestic6303]

Send her this video

[@tanvir343]

@@majestic6303 I have tried everything in the world to help her. Made her meet lawyers, therapists, doctors. She thinks that her husband will change. In the end she is fine with the beating and torture.

[@abdullahsajid4742]

That is because such men are emotional experts...they emotionally manipulate women to think that the torture was their fault and also the period of torture is followed by a series of apologies and love which makes the victim trapped in there forever.They fail to realise whats happening to them is ABUSE

[@tanvir343]

@@abdullahsajid4742 Yes. Women fail to understand this narcissistic behaviour of such men ! Even if they do, some aren't financially independent which makes them stay back !

[@uzmag3079]

Many women can't take this kind of bold step without the family support. I really hope that parents and siblings should support their daughter or sister in such case. And plz plz don't listen or pay attention to the so called "log kia kahengay? ". A human suffering is a lot more than such garbage talks.

[@ShahEumi]

This is not a bold step. This was the most necessary step that she had taken late. She must have taken that step quite earlier.

[@uzmag3079]

@@ShahEumi true it was a necessary step but for many women it is still a bold step because of our society. I know many women who gone through many obstacles when they chose to live their lives(including me).

[@majestic6303]

There are some family that will tell her daughter to stay because of the stigma of divorce

[@sadiaali9448]

Even if you realize that you are in a disasterous marriage, your own family and siblings would not let you take this step. If you go against them then they will start lashing you instead of that moron you live with. We live in a sad society.

[@sabeenqamarkhan9499]

Wow ! It literally brought tears .. no woman or child should ever suffer like this. Am glad she took a stand !

[@diaryofseresha]

This is what happens when you give full control to a "man" and become dependant on his ass!Every man is the same from inside. Dominate him always never give em control

[@farheentq]

diaryofseresha worst advice ever. Domination never works from ANY end.

[@dipishabhattacharya1751]

Domestic abuse can happen with anyone

[@shivanimalik9156]

Fully agree

[@diaryofseresha]

@@dipishabhattacharya1751 It can happen to anyone. But what you doing bout it "matters".

[@diaryofseresha]

@@farheentq It will only work if you be mentally, emotionally, financially free n not be relying on some douche bag for your pennies. Tbh why would you even wan rely on any man for any type of source at first place.

[@mashqesukhan9962]

Thankyou so much ,now i realize how important studies are.men are not worth your love.

[@pujasarkar8190]

Yes sister. Aur kuch aurat hote v aise hain jo ye sab seh lete hain aur mardo ko aur license mil jata hain. Like her mother in law tried to defend her son by saying "husbands gussa ho jate hain to aisa karte hain".. i wish her mother in law slapped her son and taught him where he was wrong. Ek aurat jab dosre aurat ka dard nahi samjhi tab society aur v nazook aur kamzor ho jati hain. We should fight for our oen rights. Atleast the ones we deserve.

[@umairahmed1874]

Please stop saying men. When you say men you imply all men are evil. There are many men out there that are willing to help such women, who are willing to stand with women who have endured abuse.

[@hopeful5738]

@@umairahmed1874 The problem is that Pakistani society condones violence against women and does not provide protection to the victims. Nobody said in the video that all men are bad, but they have created a society that's extremely intolerable to women.

[@queenr6423]

Mukesh Mishra women in any countries need as many rights laws etc they can get as they give birth so they are vulnerable to the sperm donors and sometimes monsters who get them pregnant

[@queenr6423]

Not all men are bad it’s the 20% that are that spoil it for everyone else who’s innocently trying to find love especially the woman and the mothers god bless u all women

[@bhavanishankar7182]

Hats off to you ma'am for standing up for yourself and taking a stand. God bless you and your family.

[@mahrukhfarooq]

Such a brave woman to stand up for herself. I have seen women spend their entire lives with such people. I am glad she got out even if it took her ten years.

[@ayeshakashif4323]

Kanwal hats off..ladies another highlighted point shd be our parents ,see her father was there so he came forward to help we must keep praying for our parents well being bcz they are daughter's biggest support.Alhamdulillah

[@farzananadeem2289]

If theirs NO RESPECT in a relationship then get out of it immediately.

[@Aasminspace]

I don't understand what is in dz video that people can dislike.... i am so proud of ua effort sister(anchor), ua doing great.. love from India

[@sadiaanam8634]

Finally something worth watching from this country

[@parveenakhtar2758]

Girls are always meant to suppress their feelings no matter what the situation is. Its so brave of her to take the difficult situation that the society never accepts and Allhamdulilah, she will be so happy being free from prison. Afterall we all needs to be respected and loved coz relationship are always based on this. Sadly, but I'm going through the same situation and hope that it becomes a little easy which would never be, but we will fight till our last breath.. Lot of love from India, this is really a great show and I'm glad that I got to come across something like this ☺

[@dr.p.kanawat4215]

Kanwal u r doing good job...exploring true society.😞....lots of appreciation from india

[@komaldaoud3445]

i spent just two months in an abusive marriage and my mental condition is like hell. I AM AMAZED how she survived all those years...

[@jmudikun]

Even in my own family, there are so many stories about women being mistreated. It often comes down to women being dependent economically on men, but even when they are educated and professional and economically independent, I have had female relatives staying in violent relationships because they're worried about what people will do

[@jerry1stpakistanicatstar886]

I loved my greedy husband but had to take the step of leaving him

[@socialroamer7381]

This is my request to all girls..... please become an independent.... nd most important.... whatever decision taken by your parents is in ur interest.... don't let down ur parents trust.

[@Spiritmantra]

The way she said after all this ‘ “Because I LOVED HIM” . This is just so heartbreaking 💔. I pray to GOD that may we receive the same love we give to other person .

[@yunoospatel7583]

Wives shud walk out from such abusive zalim husbands. Divorce in Islam is a way out from irreparable marriages. Sad us muslim societies hv gone so low.

[@AB-no2he]

Man are maintainers of women they are NOT owners of women kindly re-read and try and understand surah AL- NISA and the Arabic understanding this surah unfortunately gets mis interpreted multiple times by people with ulterior motives or ignorance

[@yunoospatel7583]

Amandeep Wahi Saudi is Muslim country and so Pakistan but government and citizen both do not practice Quran an sunnah in mashrat, mamulat . In Islam a husband is not allowed to beat a woman. Most he can do is just a tap of miswaaq on her shoulder just as gesture of displeasure. Pls find out from an Islamic expert on islamic laws on rights of wives. Pak/ India men hv attitude of hindu culture bcs of ignorance and inheritance of Indian Hindu culture b4 Islam. Having said that a man is not real man who beats his wife on face and on other body parts , same delicate body which he never is reluctant to use when it comes to his desire. Husband is not even allowed to demand to hv sex if wife is not willing to sleep. He must win her consent and willingness to give him her feminine pleasure.

[@sleepsleep8609]

It feels bad that women around the world goes under so much pain but Yeah one strong decision and anything could be changed ...Ladies be strong because its not only you who undergo that Pain but your loved ones also undergo the same...Be strong love yourself and live the days with full life and Dignity..., God blesses u with peace love 💕

[@vinikalra234]

Thank you for sharing your abuse story. Kudos to your bravery and realization that domestic abuse is not normal. There is nothing in this world that can justify domestic abuse even if it is in emotional or mental forms!

[@rubyshresthapokhrel1808]

The more u ignore & let it go, d more u will be suppressed. Pls be financially independent before getting married. If ur hands r empty, love won't lastlong for long time. Men do not give respect to poor wives. This is truth. Even how Beautiful u r ....

[@humaarain1149]

ALLAH hum sb k naseeb achy kry bht Ameen

[@backupfordata9878]

You know! I had no clue this was a Pakistani channel..its really awesome! Good to see women of courage. Keep it up my sisters! Love from your Indian sis

[@eve88sh]

Such a brave person she is, amazing plateform for people to let their voices heard👍🏻

[@amnashah7375]

To Everyone who is suffering, you don't need anyone by your side because Allah is with you he is watching everything you are going through. Be strong ❤️ your self respect comes first

[@arfaakhan7214]

Adeela me ap ki story daikh k bht roie .bcz same story i m suffering .aj b meray husband ne mujai bht bht mara hy k meray her jaga neel numa nishan hn .ap ki story ka end acha hy .bcoz ap ka thikana hy tha baap ka ghr .but mera to koi b ni dunya me .chor k jaon b to jaon kahan apnay bachon ko le k.

[@arfaakhan7214]

@@iqraarshad9607 true.

[@nadiachaudhry9747]

Allah aapki mushkil asaan kare aur apke aur apke bachon ko apne hifzo amaan mein rakhe. Aameen.

[@arfaakhan7214]

@black sparrow wahan ka mahole wahan pe majood rung rung k log .aur wahan kya kya hota hy ap soch b ni saktien .thts y me khud to zulm sah sakti hun but apnay bachon pe ni kr sakti.

[@YourAIhehe]

Leave him , run away if your family Dosent support you. Kisi ky ghar jharo pocha krlo …..yahan sy bhago ….zindagi bohat khobsorat hain! Agar bachay hain apky to don’t worry about them . Trust me bachay apko maar khta dek ky koi achay nahi baray hoon gy . Leave em all khud thek raho ge tabhi bachoon ko sahi bara kr pao ge.

[@shas400]

You have a loving father who support you❤️ you are very strong person👍

[@usmanmughal1348]

m watching your videos very late,but at accurate time. You know what kanwal, your face is peace in itself... m happy and feeling something which i can't explain... it is something like encouraged,motivated, peace,humbleness,being polite and so many things are running inside my mind... after this all... m missing my ami g.. so that i may able to share what i have inside my heart and mind... you a truely beautiful soul and lady... love you soo much kanwal... may u be blessed with everything thing because you are distributing peace and satisfaction for what we are... love love love and love... ❤❤❤❤

[@supriyakrishna2930]

Women seriously leaving there family and marrying a guy and with the belief that he will take care and love her more than her family but unfortunately it never happens with 90% of women.we women have teached us from our child hood . Adjust everything .it's all our fate

[@momomirza]

She was a very strong woman. Maybe it took her 10 years to realize the abuse she was going through and gather the strength to leave, but she did it. To all those people that said they would leave on the first slap, they are not in her shoes. How incredibly difficult it is to leave a situation that may clearly look like abuse from afar, is only known by the person experiencing it. They are going through a lot of emotions, gaslighting, trying to make things work, believing in change and the inherent goodness of people. Abuse is complicated with layers - it is not just simply a slap in the face. I have never been physically abused, but her story resonates with me on many many other levels.

[@fakharunnisa4617]

I hope people would understand that ya mardangi nahi hai k aap aurat ko peeto. I hope that parents will also understand that k agar wo kisi ki beti lay ayain hain to uski hifazat bhi karain. It's Soo heart breaking. K aik aurat apko apni poori Zindagi day or aap usay izzat tak nahi day saktay... She did right. You should leave that home which is not giving you the peace. Which is not giving you the safety. and you should let go that person who is not even playing a role of a human ! Safe yourself first then safe your relationship because you are more important ! More power to you 💪💯💕

[@ziep7865]

Let our daughters be out strength today,and our bys our security

[@aliaasif580]

Love from india ❤️ JAI HIND

[@arshi359]

Big message to society ...kudos to strong women ,kudos to strong society! love this show

[@aannuuable]

I am speechless.... i have so much regard for this brave woman...so much respect to you Madam. People don’t understand how you feel when you are in that situation. I am glad this woman came out of this situation, not many do thanks to our pathetic patriarchal culture

[@birbal1981]

U are lucky ur father stood for u atleast . Allhumdulliha still islam is followed in some places . I feel good for ur kids may god bless u

[@Purple-sx8us]

Jis aadami ka character khud kharab hota hai wo hamesha apni aurat pe shak karta hai ... hamesha dhyan rakhna !

[@twoteasandonecoffee3734]

As a man, I’ve no problem admitting that this is one piece of proof among billions that women are capable of showing strength in unimaginable conditions. More power to you

[@Letsbehumanbeings1999]

My heart goes out to you. I have a first hand experience at this. My mother was a brave brave woman. I grew up in such a household. With beatings as harsh as being constantly beaten with a stick, very frequently. I can’t sum it all up but the trauma for a child is enormous and it is so hard to fight for divorce in countries like india and pakistan.

[@rakshaharishetty]

A couple of silver linings I gather from this story... 1. The courage you mustered to stand up for yourself... And eventually standing up for your children...most times I suppose mother's suffer for the welfare of their children... But it's always better to be really happy... And this would be evident to your children... 2. Am so glad your father stood up for you. Respect and love to him. I hope you are happy. I wish you had done it way before... Left him.. as the saying goes better late than never

[@farhanazm]

We stay in bad marriages for our kids but don’t realize our kids are also getting affected by it. By the time we realize we may think it’s too late but IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO MAKE A CHANGE FOR YOUR SELF, FOR YOUR CHILDREN, FOR YOUR LIFE! Don’t think about what others might say. They will say for couple of days n then they’ll forget. But it’s your life your pain. You will feel the pain for the rest of your life if you don’t make the first step.

[@nirmalathakur6547]

Thank you mam you told us to choose carefully don't go with the flow of feeling

[@uwu13501]

More power to you girl. ❤️

[@tastyandsimplerecipeswiths2243]

I had quite a same scenario.My ex used to abuse me and always told me that without him no body will except me in future and he was doing a favour for me by staying in a relation with me.He used to abuse my parents for not raising me well.He was ashamed of me.He did not allow me to hang out with my friends and put restrictions on my dressing,my life style. Even he didn't allow me to cut my hair or leaving it loose.But the sad part was i tolerate all of his nonsense.I know I was in love but i did so wrong with me.I always live in a guilt that I am wrong.But one day I took that courage and left him. And I always thanked God that I left him.It was the best decision that I did in my life.This type of men are treat women as a object.They don't love anyone they think they bought a showpiece on which they have only right and they can do anything with them.Whenever they fell good they treat them nicely and when not they can do with them whatever they want.They think this is so masculine.They are not human.There is no humanity left in them.So who ever reading this I am just telling you no matter how much you love your partner if you are in this kind of situation just leave that toxic relationship and live for your own self.Never let anyone to hurt you just because you love them.Always remember that.

[@indian9907]

I hv tears in my eyes Allah aapki pareshaniyan door karey or bohot si khushiyan de Ameen

[@charupandey4526]

Ma'am i have watched all ur videos i really loved it from: India 🇮🇳

[@scorplon6926]

I really can't understand the sick mentality.. How can u dislike this .. Its a person telling about the misery she went through..

[@jennyfersyiem5372]

Excellent!👍good example to other women who face domestic violence.stay strong God bless you.

[@wanderersplanet4311]

I went through the same.. I was beaten so badly that I was paralysed and caught a high fever while my husband totally refused to take me to the hospital

[@cathycathy3506]

saimi sami How are you now? Are you in a better situation now?

[@wanderersplanet4311]

@@cathycathy3506 not better but also not worse... I left him now I live with my son.. But I have some financial crisis .. I'm doing diploma in computer science in order to get a job abroad... So that I could pay for my son n me...

[@wajihahraja6004]

Uff jab he meri maa bohat darti ha n worry hoti ha meray lye but thank GOD me ksi bahir kay bnday kliye apny parents sy nahi fight karo ge...Allah sb larkiyo ka naseeb acha karay ameen

[@homeandgarden6938]

Parents mein disputes ka effect kids k upper sabde jayada hota hai... I saw such thing with my one friend. She in her parents house now with 2kids n very happy.

[@bhumibalyan8424]

Hello kanwal .... this is d second time I watched ur episode... I m truly in tears👏👏👏 nd shocked about people's mentally towards women.. now a days I heard about many domestic violence nd dowry cases with my friends and want to take a initiative to start a community on which want to publish such brave ladies interviews to empower nd strengthen other women who are suffering from same situation. Now a days everyone is copying other person vdo and share it and make it viral but i want to ask permission from you for publish some of ur your videos on my social platform to make a tremendous change in society towards women. Plz give ur suggestion it will be very beneficial for me

[@shubhraUtube]

Every female living with abusive husband should take decision to come out of this type of marriage like her. Same dialogues are being spoken by husbands that his wife is having relationship with doodhwala, chawkidar etc. Actually they should be sent to the asylums.

[@DileepKumar-kb1bk]

Madam, Doing great work.... Learning to respect women.. Keep going..

[@ismatfatima1392]

Apko first slap ky bad hi leave kr dena chahye tha husbnd ko. Himat h jo itna guzaar liya. Hatss off to u. :)

[@aishashaikh1207]

You are a true symbol of bravery.. hats off to u.

[@uroojwaheed955]

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[@humerakhan1885]

Bht himmat or bardasht chaiay yai step uthanay k liay main JB pregnant thi to JB main nay yai step uthaya mgr at bht dard hota hai...........SB say bari parents ki spot hoty hai.....

[@urxmh7484]

Man that women is the strongest ❤ Stay strong x

[@nirmaljitkaur6098]

@Kanwal mere pass words nai hai express krne k liea YOU ARE DOING UMRAH for women... Blessing Mam Blessings 🙌