CONVOS WITH CARRIE: THE GAME OF WIFE!

[@imanbashir-mi2zx]

you can tell she's over the whole marriage fairytale. she's realistic with much wisdom. she probably values the companionship at this point like many old folks do. she seems to me that she's more invested in her adult children and grandchildren lives right now. you should cherish this moment with her because she seems to also be over this topic you asking her, having her talk in circles. you know she's uncomfortable. you could literally ask her anything you want but you seem fixed on this topic. most women are over marriage. this the era of leaving expectations of men behind. we don't even see them together. we wanna see this sweet lady having a good time. treat her well please

[@Nell654]

Exactly!! The obsession with this topic has been over stretched. Leave the poor woman alone. She’s in her 80s. Ask her more wholesome questions for goodness sakes!!

[@mirnabonilla7488]

I totally agree switch gears

[@Fearless4ever.]

Aww, love her! ❤

[@priscillaautrey7318]

They do this shit for content. She is the innocent party.

[@angelawatkins3406]

Why is she so concerned about her mom's marriage now They have been married for 58 yrs. TO ME THAT IS JUST NOISY. I DON'T SEE A DOLLAR SIGN ANYWHERE SO WHAT'S THE USE? MAMA SHARING HER HOME AND LIFE WITH HER ADULT KIDS IT SEEMS?

[@geraldine7101]

He doesn't disrespect her, and that is all she concerns herself about. She respects herself enough not to upset herself over him.

[@marylynch951]

Yes agree

[@Genevieve4260]

I do not take any pleasure in saying this, but I do not like her husband. I have seen him, and he is very dapper, but he is not nearly as nice as his wife. She's a sweetheart! I would NEVER last with a man with his bad attitude towards women!

[@frameyourlifewithnykohl9951]

I agree. For the person that said he doesn't disrespect her, his whole attitude towards her and women shows disrespect. His words are foolish. And in her time women were taught to deal with whatever a man did. The movie Fences yells it all. And this lady has just learned to adapt to his behavior and that's really sad. Sounds like these are words he has repeatedly said to her back in their younger days. Read between the lines. This isn't a Happy fulfilled marriage it sounds like it's one sided.

[@Genevieve4260]

@@frameyourlifewithnykohl9951 I agree with you totally. Everything you have said is true. I prefer to look at the positive side of this, and that is she is a woman who distanced herself from him emotionally and loves her children more than him. He, ultimately, is getting what he deserves: he is way down on her list of people who are held close to her heart. She is honest, loving and holds no illusions. She did what she had to do, and I love her for it - as I am sure you do too. And for a 95-year-old man, no disrespect to their children, his words, actions and beliefs are foolish and without depth. He is pretty sad to be that age and not realize what he has had all of his life and to live in ignorance.

[@11071874]

@@Genevieve4260I 💯 agree with you. I do not like Mr. Curtis because he doesn't respect the institution of marriage.

[@lilliearvizu9447]

Carrie is such a classy lady with a lot of wisdom! She has beautiful hands with long slim fingers. 🥰💅🏽💖

[@RitaBowens-t6z]

" I got sense enough to know....."❤ That statement says it ALL!! Thank you Mother Carrie 🥰♥️😍💋

[@MAMADUKES1959]

Why does her daughter continue to tell her Mom the negative things her father say about their marriage, UNBELIEVABLE!! She seems to always put Dad in a negative light, and bring Mom this NONSENSE!! They’ve been together for over 50 years, daughter LEAVE THIS ALONE!! I think you may need to focus on YOUR HUSBAND, and YOUR MARRIAGE, leave your parents ALONE!! Everything is not meant to be discussed on Social Media!

[@natalee217]

I have to agree.

[@TheOmniMic]

You think that woman doesn't know her husband? Whatever they say now at this stage of their lives, has probably already been said.

[@Peggycool351]

The daughter is so lucky to still have her parents, let her learn some of these things from her Mom ❤

[@MAMADUKES1959]

@@Peggycool351 You missed my point, everything is NOT to be shared on Social Media, and MOM knew who she MARRIED years ago, so all the negative things she’s telling Mom that her Dad is saying is not necessary. This is my opinion, and you’re welcome to yours. Stay Prayed Up!

[@Fearless4ever.]

@@Peggycool351 yes indeed. I lost my Momma last year. Piece of me went with her, thx 🙏🏽

[@annettealexander5672]

She is so beautiful and smart❤

[@dcoleman5952]

Thanks mother Carrie! This woman speaks with lots of wisdom. Why torment yourself worrying about what someone else is doing. Wasting time running behind someone who doesn't care about how you feel. If you absolutely can't live with that persons actions then leave... simple❤

[@JackieBrunson-v6o]

Wow!! She has so much knowledge!! Of life !!! Just love listening to her, such a beautiful, smart woman!!

[@TheRedthundr]

Ms. Carrie thank you for your wisdom ,knowledge and understanding. You can't think about the if and or maybe . As long as nothing that's being done don't come to the house to disrupt the peace. Can't beat this kind of wisdom. Love you❤

[@rubinaazam405]

❤she is over the concept of marriage

[@aflowe8395]

Why aren''t you asking her about beautiful memories to make her smile... OR...better yet, GO make some beautiful memories with her to make her smile💐

[@oliviab.9648]

My grandma always told me, “what you DON’T know can kill you!” Won’t bring me home an STD because you want to get your freak on with Barbra or Bobby! I treat my marriage like my health! I’m checking in on things to make sure everything is good. If not it will be handled accordingly!

[@shebbysavvas4040]

YOUR GRANDMA AND I SEE SOUL TO SOUL. WHAT YOU DONT KNOW WILL KILL YOU.

[@truthseeker5941]

@oliviab now that is the right one! Exactly, and also when some bish and her baby knock on your door with child support papers that breaks hearts and finances. I would want to know because if he is not doing right like me then we need to part ways forever. My ex-narc, deceased baby daddy, was doing all kinds of ish behind my back. I warned him about HIV and had the feeling he was going to catch it. I left and never went back, decades later he caught it and brought it home to his marriage bed. SMDH. She had two sons with his raggedy azz. Disgusting. I knew it and saved myself.

[@charlottejohnson1580]

cheating can be a death sentence to one's life and marriage..guard like someone said😊

[@pandoriamarch5717]

Daughter, Your parent’s personal life is PERSONAL!!!!

[@m.l4620]

🎯💯💯

[@rocky6965]

You can see sometimes she doesn't even want to answer those questions

[@maryannbrooks4770]

You're a Jewel and a very wise lady Ms. Carrie!! 💕

[@lisaairington1858]

As her daughter 👧 you should be speaking to her about the beautiful things in life, not always about your father, I have nothing against your dad at times he seems very full of himself, give your mother some space, on speaking about your dad. He is who he is, I’m sure 👍 your mother has a lot of other interesting conversations you all could talk about, I would not keep asking her negative things about him. Just keep enjoying her and loving her.❤❤ she is so precious.

[@lucylu4070]

True ❤

[@LYVEWYRE12000]

The same God that sanctifies the marriage, is the same God needed daily to see it through; in my humble observation 🙏🏾 This includes both parties following His Word to play their role in the marriage.

[@G2KountryGirl]

You said that. That is 💯. You can't make anyone do nothing. Period And it's always the nice one.

[@DDLady123]

Please let Carrie enjoy the life that she has left and stop questioning her in this manner regarding cheating etc. Please ask her about the wonderful life that she has led and all of the experiences that she has had in her employment, traveling and raising her children. Why do all the questions have to focus on cheating. Carrie and her husband have been together for well over 50 years. Stop bringing up the past or whatever negativity is going on now. It seems as if you are at times trying to provoke her to go out and cheat and if she did what would that really accomplish?

[@EloiseIngram-g5z]

Right Grandma Carrie, don't stress over things out of your control. That's called Wisdom ❤you

[@sandrajackson8276]

She is so wise and very truthful in her answer to whatever you come to her with, a lot of us ladies can surely learn from this wise lady!!!! Bless her heart!!

[@JusTiffD]

I love these videos. She drops so much wisdom.

[@josephinejonesbrown5784]

KNOWLEDGE WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING EXPERIENCE 🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂TRUTH TRUTH 🙏 🙌 TRUTH TRUTH ALL. MENS ARE LIKE MR.CURTIS A MAN A MAN A MAN IS A MAN A MAN IS A MAN LISTENING TO HER A MAN WILL BE A MAN NEW 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ 😺 🐱 😸 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ 😺 🐱 😸 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ 😺 🐱 😸 🐈 😻 🐈‍⬛️ 😺 🐱 😸 IS WHAT THE PROBLEMS NOT. OUR MENS BUT HE WILL TAKE MILK OVER 🥛 TO THAT HOUSE 🏠 BUT HE WILL COME HOME 🏡 KIN.FOLKS ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉

[@paulettejacobs3453]

She is a beautiful woman and I love watching her. She is a very smart and bright woman. She tells the truth about life.❤❤

[@gloriamoore-bryant-xv1rm]

She’s beautiful and her husband is blessed that she stayed with him that long with the comments and attitude they say he has. GOD bless you beautiful Queen❤

[@mommazed1]

I could listen to Carrie all day long

[@collinspaulkjr.1942]

They have such a good understanding of each other. And of life.

[@ArnitaBranch]

She has an understanding. I can bet that he has been so disrespectful to her in the past that she has resigned to not care. As she said, he is going to do what ever he wants to do and nothing she would say to him will ever matter. As a matter of fact, he said on camera that he did not say "I do" at their wedding. He said "I wii" because he planned to do whatever he wanted to do. Her 95 year old husband needs Jesus and he never grew into manhood. He is still a foolish little boy. Ms. Carrie, you don't have to be disrespected. But I appreciate your honesty and candor. Marriage should not be a relationship of convenience.

[@belindacoleman9662]

She's already let her daughter know that there's no love lost for her daddy. So, she should let it go. He's told the daughter in so many words that he had his fun and will still try to have fun as old as he is. Many marriages from their generation involved infidelity on both sides; with the man starting the cheating first. Then, the women eventually cheating with someone, too. However, some women quckly learned that women aren't built like a men emotionally and stopped or left the marriage. I've scene this in many older couples, who stayed together regardless of years of infidelity. They remain married, but they ABSOLUTELY didn't care what their spouse did; as long as it was kept out of their home and faces. But, most of men still can't handle hearing "their wife" is cheating or has cheated. So, there's always been a double standard for the woman. I'm not saying this is okay either way, because infidelity is being disloyal and disrespectful to either spouse. It shows that the guilty party has no integrity for their marriage. However, there more completely independent women after her generation; who saw what very damaging fallout of those marriages "in name and home only marriages." It was an emotionally nightmare for many the children from those type marriages. Some of us, made a conscious choice not to ever get entangled with cheating boyfriends, let alone get into a marriage that may or may not have been happy as well as, mentally and emotionally healthy. Many women now are not going to put up cheating; the first time.; because we don't have to do so. We already know, how it will end. Many of our parents taught us that life lesson. Peace and Blessings

[@connielove2551]

Every time you asked her a question, she gives you an honest answer, I Love her because she is me and I am her, she cares but she is realistic with herself, tellim Mama Carrie, and have a great day

[@TakeeshaFox]

They gotta take care of home...don't neglect home and suspect people to be there for you in "your" time of need. If you take care of home, home will take care of you.

[@truthseeker5941]

Right on! It is a reciprocal.

[@demetriusphifer6019]

I wasn't raised this way however this has ALWAYS been my philosophy.

[@josephinejonesbrown5784]

RAISED RIGHT BY BIG.MAMA THEM AND TAUGHT US BETTER THAN TO BE ALL OVER A MAN LIKE THEY ARE GOD GIFTED TO US LADIES LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAID SHE SPEAKING 🔊 ❤WISDOM KNOWLEDGE WISDOM UNDERSTAND EXPERIENCE IN LIFE LESSONS FOLKS WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@gailedmonds3389]

Well said. ❤ So soul true a man will cheat if he wants and he goes him to his wife sweeter than sugar . I love grandma . May God Bless You

[@TFAGM777]

These woman need the Love of Christ In their Lives ❤❤❤..Be so much better and its not too late..

[@kaprecepetty470]

She's right

[@lindawatson4782]

Gm here is my favorite girl I love you and your wisdom have a Blessed day so humble and honest 🙏🏽🥰👍🏾💜

[@dawannapoole8047]

You should not have your mom answering those questions. It's very confusing for her. If she has been with him that long, it's old news for her.

[@kaygee17flo]

I don't think she's confused. I think the whole point of this is to share this wise woman's perspective of life, marriage, love, etc. No sugar coating, just realistic. I think younger generations definitely could learn from Grandma. She has lived it. Period

[@Criticalthinker-t1w]

Different people accept different things.many things can make a marriage not a good marriage but just to let him do anything in the marriage no I wouldn't accept that.

[@hopewilliams7081]

That's the majority of marriages I've seen starting with my parents. Very few have been truly beautiful, like my sister and brother-in-law's marriage and one of the Deacons from my old church. Now that is the marriage I'm praying for.

[@ArnitaBranch]

Ms Carrie has worked through the complexities of her relationship (not marriage). She has accepted the reality of the relationship. She knew from the beginning that she was not in love with him even though she loved him. There is a big difference between being in love and loving someone. There are times that a marriage is no more than friends with benefits. There are many times that a man will marry a woman because he knows that she will be faithful while he is married but acts like a single man. (Having your cake and eating it too.) He does not expose you to his single life as it exist neither does he let his girlfriend know about his married life. There is also the man who manipulates a woman into thinking that he is a good man when he is scum. Women you don't have to take this. Women, you are better off being single. Leave the knucklehead to do what he will. Learn to say "I don't care." Ladies, move on. You deserve better. You deserve to be happy and you can be happy when being alone.

[@simonecodrington5515]

Thank you!!!

[@marymalloy2848]

I would not tell my parents business either.

[@irenepacker4016]

Ms Carrie is a beautiful soul deserving of God's blessings....the stories she might tell of her youth! I love her! ❤❤

[@annamariegrabski1148]

I just love her and her honesty!

[@evelynjenkins312]

Love her she keeps it real such a sweet lady as she said don't stress about it and worrie time will tell what is done and the dark always comes to the light

[@bigreg4096]

On another video she said she wanted to have children so she got married and she didn't want to have children out of wedlock. In that same video she stated once she had her children she didn't care what her husband did as long as he respected her and treated her good. So y'all don't think the man didn't see that or feel that. The kids are already here now so it's selfish for either one of them to leave. So they made it work for the betterment of the family. 58 years later and they still together.

[@MelissaLabudis]

She is absolutely beautiful inside and out God bless you all

[@blah21blah22blah23]

In a nut shell. Her husband has been a cheater but she figured that she would not leave as long as he didn’t disrespect her. So she couldn’t worry herself with what he was doing. She found herself a lil something on the side as well and she seem to be fine with that arrangement.

[@kyrunya]

I’m definitely staying single cuz all I got out of this is be willing to ignore cheating in the marriage. She’s blessed if he’s never brought her home any diseases. I wonder how many broken homes have been created with his Hedonistic and selfish way of thinking. How many children who grew up not knowing who their father is and might not have had the benefit of one… As long as he’s happy and safe though.

[@earthangel3240]

Didn't make sense to me either

[@kyrunya]

@@earthangel3240 Right. Everybody wants to claim she’s so wise because she’s a sweet old lady but, I grew up with men and women and nobody taught me to just accept cheating. Not my parents or my brothers and sisters. I can do bad by myself. The kids have to convince themselves it’s ok because they love their dad.

[@earthangel3240]

@@kyrunya exactly 💯

[@jshante1317]

You're not wrong. This lady seems sweet but this was the sad reality of her marriage and others from that era. She basically doesn't care about his cheating as long as he doesn't disrespect her and he is safe? What about her safety? I have seen enough of the videos to know he definitely disrespected her during the marriage, heck he is disrespectful now in the videos. This lady is just letting us know how she had to survive in a marriage where she was stuck and likey had no monetary means to leave. Laws were not favorable to women back then. I hope women of today are not thinking this is okay, but seeing some of the comments, they agree with her.

[@earthangel3240]

@@jshante1317 you're absolutely right!

[@dfiant5846]

And that’s how come grandma has longevity! She refused to worry💯💪🏽💖 I can listen to her all day🥰

[@ramsesofra1016]

It's the thoughtfulness and composure for me.

[@Nicky-mv7ey]

I love your mom Beauty and wisdom ❤❤❤❤❤

[@benitahunter7874]

Your mom reminds me a lot of my mom. She's obviously been through a lot, but she is a strong determined woman that refused to let anything or anyone break her or stop her number one purpose of raising her children. She even favors my mom.😊

[@marylynch951]

I love Grandma's attitude She has self respect I do believe her husband respect her too in his own way May God continue blessing her and the family ❤❤❤

[@ArnitaBranch]

That man doesn't respect Ms Carrie. He is only thinking about himself.

[@moniquegelin656]

She's an amazing woman. 🎉🎉🎉

[@olivia9408]

I think you are trying to mentally understand their marriage. With All respect thats between God, her and her husband.

[@strawberrykiss7361]

She so Amazing and real and the truth i just love her so much ❤❤❤❤she the best !!!!!!

[@MonieMoneSays]

Ms. Carrie is so full of wisdom. Thanks for sharing her lovely spirit with us ❤️☀️

[@kkw-pal1178]

😂😂😂😂I'mma about to pass out right now from what you're saying. She said the ones that act so nice ain't shhhhh. That's almost true. I don't want to put that off on each person, but it is totally accurate in MY experience. FOS!

[@TameshkiaSmith]

I think she is teaching what really being in love with a person and loving a person is

[@AdaleFletcher-xy8eu]

Grandma please give these woman lessons on not being thirsty#Thank u so much

[@AdaleFletcher-xy8eu]

#Dickdumb

[@AdaleFletcher-xy8eu]

#Dickdumb

[@SimpleTruth818]

That’s typically how the game was played back in the day. Everyone was cheating. You found out about the outside children or your daddy wasn’t really your daddy after the funeral.

[@nikkigraham6489]

😭😭😭😭

[@sonyarosser703]

She will keep saying this over and over and over. No more going around in circles. She is set. Let's move on to a brighter conversation.

[@justred5164]

She’s got remarkable confidence ❤

[@laurataylor8647]

I love this wise lady. Blessings from England lovely lady x

[@frehiwotkidane2898]

She,Grandma is a very precious,very smart wise women and also has a gentle way of expressing herself. Please handle. her with care andle gentleness like the way she is very very careful and wise to respond. We love you Grandma!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@earthangel3240]

This is not wisdom! Its nonsense!

[@naomithabeautiii5664]

I’m married and this is definitely no way I’d like to view my marriage. I like watching her because she sweet but I wouldnt take any marriage advice 😂

[@earthangel3240]

@@naomithabeautiii5664 lol 😆 exactly 💯

[@winterdame307]

Miss Carrie said she ain't gonna let nothing bother her! I hear you, girl! Too late to start worrying at this late date! You keep cool Miss Carrie!

[@truthseeker5941]

If a man does what he wants to do and it is disrespectful, then he might need to do it by himself. You can't stop them, but you can leave them. STD's ain't no joke.

[@RastaLady-z6q]

I love this old lady please do more videos with her

[@sandbii]

Thank YOU Queen Carrie, when I was married I felt the same way🥰💖 YOU can’t miss what YOU can’t measure.💖🙇🏽‍♀️😘

[@ArnitaBranch]

It has been said that one can not express love until they have experience love. I bet that her husband's father never loved his mother. He has practiced what he saw. I don't believe that he was ever committed to her or the marriage. Can this marriage be saved. No, because it was never a true marriage.

[@monicaduncan7433]

She ain't never worried about that😂😂❤❤❤went wouldn't i ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MissesNeek]

Omg finally said it!!! I’ve been married 11.5 years & I literally don’t even care about that because as long as he stays the amazing father that he is that’s all I care about!

[@deloresdaye40]

She's speaking the truth a man is going to do what he wants to do. She doesn't worry about what he is doing cause it doesn't affect her life.

[@areyoufreeenough1372]

Therebis always a way and you cannot control no one with their behavior. Love this lady ❤❤

[@OLS623]

That's exactly what my mom used to say you'll be worrying yourself to death

[@haadiyaaamon3390]

She is right. At times we give others permissions to hurt us. Anyone who hurts others hurt themselves first.

[@doraleslie8518]

AMEN!!!❤❤❤❤ Just live your BEST life and don't worry about what he is or isn't doing. No man is worth renting free space in my head or having me feel like a prisoner of his bull sh-t!!! Life is too short and I agree with Mrs. Carrie, stop being a victim and be victorious!!!❤

[@DorothySuggs-sz8cc]

Ms, Carrie ìs so beautiful and has wisdoms i love her

[@tarshaneilly518]

Sometimes I feel the dialogue is just to be humorous. If its not in the direction I'm interested in I just change the channel.

[@carrietyson6363]

My name is Carrie too and we are wise women when it comes to our husband

[@bernetajohnson3296]

Once you have been married for 58 years you will understand how some people do it. Each marriage is different so the process that works for one person may not work for another. Try it you might like it you might not. That is the risk we take. God bless Ms. Carrie and her family. 🙏

[@Confessions089]

Lord how mercy what kind of toxic mess is this? This lady should have kept her independence and said the heck with dennis or whatever his name is. 🙄 This is high level brainwashing and I can't get with it because it's abusive, and I will never support that!

[@fuzy16]

Just do you... she has outlived you, hasn't she... Curtis lived the way he wanted and he has outlived any man u will ever date... why do u have to project your beliefs...and to think that a woman that has a different understanding of life and has lived the best of her years was brain washed... just because she didn't live d way u would've wanted... You're more toxic than d word

[@hopewilliams7081]

​@fuzy16 She's saying the statement can lead to brainwashing. Yes she has been married a long time to a man who could care less how she feels or how he treats her.

[@marylynch951]

​@@fuzy16 Well said and I agree

[@mermaid2605]

This situation is an arrangement not a marriage. Different strokes for different folks.

[@benajminpadilla6360]

This woman knows what's up. This is why she's aging well. Worry will age you. Make you sick and even die early. People who don't stress out over everything little thing tend to not age well. I have seen this. I like this lady's disposition.

[@BobbieBrown-uv8wu]

I agree. I stayed with a man who didn’t treat me well. I became depressed and stopped caring about myself. I have prematurely age and because I didn’t care I became obese and now I’m very sick because of it.

[@aureliajohnson7022]

That's how you keep your peace. Adults are gonna do what they want to do, including oneself. If i feel i have to babysit yah, i don't want to be with yah. Allow folks to be themselves and decide if you can live with that.

[@rebeccawright2001]

Wise wise and wise I just love her 💕

[@southernsass2937]

I love you Gramma ♥️ It doesn't matter what you think about, they will do what they wanna do. But we can to. IF we wanted to.

[@lov3zone32]

How ironic....so iconic....2nd Carrie damn she on it!

[@lov3zone32]

Ladies....focus on YOU! Get that check...and let the chips fall where they may.... basically to have a great marriage stay #unbothered!!!

[@reneeellison6702]

Many of us know this, and over coupling and marriage. we are living our lives regardless of what a man does or doesn't do. My happiness is my responsibility.

[@brendawilliamsamenkeepthef5805]

SHE'S VERY STRAIGHT FORWARD AND FUNNY AT THE SAME TIME 😊

[@dejaiy]

It's true that their going to do what they want to do, but it won't be with me, I'm good by myself! Lol

[@zsmith7590]

Fact's, what about trust, loyalty and honesty? Why be married if your going to do what you want to do as if your single???😮🧐🤔😮🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️. Just sayn 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MarleneJohnrose-uu3sz]

I just love you grandma

[@DenisColeman-r8r]

Her husband is a trip😮😮 . I love her .

[@debralevesque2043]

I love her wisdom

[@flossyflossy3075]

Love this wise beautiful lady❤

[@yvonnenick5374]

Always words of wisdom

[@R1M1r1m1]

I've alway felt the same way as Mama.

[@sandyb.5842]

Amen...a great answer 😊😊😊

[@kimlogan1278]

I knew that at a young age that you can't stop a dog from being a dog. I never tolerated it until I lived with my I thought a good man and friend. Time we bought a home together, ALL HELL broke loose. He was quiet and so called kind, like she said, he was the CHEATER and Narcissist Devil.

[@joanaarons18]

Wisdom in the purest form

[@denieceposton4480]

Momma is wise❤️🙏

[@iamtracywilson]

They gonna do what they go do anyway... but they sure won't do it and be peacefully 'sinning' with me. You cant have your cake and eat it too as they say. Any married man that loves you will NOT do things just to make himself happy and NOT care about how that affects you and their family. Cheating is disrespecting.. ignorance is not bliss.. two wrongs do NOT make a right. It's really about who they are as a person, their integrity, their character, and their relationship with Christ. I get what she is saying, if thats the type of man she married, then you know what it is going in, but don't vow loyalty and to God and then think you can seek happiness leaving him out. Doesn't work that way...

[@preztjuswoman]

Many men in the Bible had multiple wives. Abraham loved Sarah but still became intimate with Hagar. Let's not allow emotion to supersede intelligence. There is great wisdom in what she said. But I get it, not everyone will know not to trample on pearls. Bless.

[@iamtracywilson]

@@preztjuswoman please do NOT confuse the bible with worldly thinking. The holy scriptures are clear that man will leave his mother and father to unite with his wife (not wives), and it is clear one husband and one wife throughout the scriptures. God may allow things in the old testament such as sacrificing the animal for atonement, (are you still doing that?), but allowing things (like free will) does not mean God approves of your choices. I said I get what she is saying in a worldly sense, but in no way is cheating on your spouse, (Adultery) for (your) selfish 'happiness' what God ever intended and approves for a marriage he is truly in. Have you not read? So please stop trying to confuse people with that multiple wives in the bible bit, when Gods word is clear. Unless you're going to do everything in the old testament as they did, (and its a lot!), please don't try to rewrite what God has said and defined marriage to be. God bless.

[@preztjuswoman]

@@iamtracywilson With all due respect, I didn't bother to read through what you wrote. I don't argue, especially not with strangers. Scriptures state that a fool gets angry, argues and thinks he knows it all. A wise man is humble and seeks knowledge and understanding. Blessings, wisdom and a healthy long life.

[@iamtracywilson]

@@preztjuswoman if you didn't bother to read, please don't bother to comment. You have already proven yourself ignorant to comment on something you didn't even bother to read. Also, I am not arguing, only sharing what the holy sctiptures state. The main word to read is Gods word, I definitely don't care if you didn't read mine lol... Peace!

[@daisyhenry332]

​@@preztjuswoman..that doesn't make it right

[@anjelianeuson3164]

At their age why leave, it can’t be that much happening. There main concern is being in their right mind staying mobile/independent and being blessed to see another day.

[@srobinson4070]

Can I just say , it seems the marriage had a lot of respect. Your mother is smart. Your mother has protected herself in not getting hurt. A lot of women from her era did get hurt. Your mother is smart and classy. I wouldn’t like my mother’s personal life detailed on social media. Remember a marriage is sacred and you and anyone else really doesn’t know what happens behind closed doors in a marriage. 🙏