I have been grey for A YEAR || MY grey hair LESSONS AND TIPS

[@CoolSustainable]

Let me know here if you have other tips - I am still learning :)

[@charlotteortiz1233]

My hair is really thick and curly . I have noticed that my gray ,that's come in , is wiry, course,and dry looking . I use Frutise >sp? Serum that feels silky .

[@CoolSustainable]

@@charlotteortiz1233 Thanks - that's a great tip!

[@frans.8036]

You look great with gray hair! I stopped dying my hair over three years ago. I love the "sense of freedom" and appreciate my sense of confidence. However, I do mind how my normally straight hair texture has turned frizzy around my hairline especially near my sideburns. Can anyone offer any advice on how to tame the frizz? Thanks❣️

[@patriciavillegas6055]

3 months going grey. I have curly hair and I'm concern how frizzy my hair will be or not. I have to wait and see.

[@CoolSustainable]

@@patriciavillegas6055 yes, also find some Ig accounts with ladies with curly grey hair. I mentioned some in one of my videos that talks about my fav Ig grey hair accounts.

[@kathywilson9257]

I stopped dying my gray hair blonde a year ago and I'm so glad I did. My hair has never looked more beautiful. Instead of being dry, frizzy and brittle, it is very shiny, silky and soft. It looks gorgeous and I love it.

[@kandelika2902]

I went cold turkey last October 2019 and after 4 months, I did cut it to a very short (grey!) pixie. Iam so confident, feeling free and my hair is so thick and healthy. I will never look back, I got more attention and compliments, I even did find my soulmate (at 51!). Thank you very much for your inspiration.

[@CoolSustainable]

That sounds amazing!! Sometimes I kind of want a pixie cut :)

[@marinemom351]

I am 66 and cut my hair in a pixie quite a long time ago. Once in a while I grow it out some but always go back to pixie. When it’s pixie I get tons of compliments on how cute my hair is. Long hair not so much. My hair is also gray except for the area at the nape of my neck, which is the color of dark chocolate. It looks really great.

[@cortez_d3352]

Wow💘😭 omg I am 37 and I am scare I won’t meet anyone bc of my greys😭.

[@starseed8809]

Wow! ❤😍

[@natasha968]

People literally dye their hair to have the same color as yours! It's beautiful ❤️

[@CoolSustainable]

Thanks :) I’ve been struggling with yellowing lately - experimenting with different things atm!

[@AkesSamenos11]

I wonder... Just a question: why everyone runs from yellowing grey? Is that bad?

[@Clutching.My.Pearls]

When I made my decision 7 years ago, my stylist cut my long hair about chin length and dyed my hair a beautiful champagne color (my hair was dyed dark) which helped the transistion when the roots started coming in. It took almost a year to become fully silver/grey. But once it happened I never thought about going back to dying my hair again. My hair is healthier and I get so many compliments.

[@candlewax5234]

That is exactly what i did. 8 years and same as you my hairdresser dyed mine platinum to match my 2 inch roots, i kept it long as well.

[@michelleaw1325]

I agree with every poi t you brought up. I wanted to add that its so freeing to not plan my social events around my hair maintenance schedule. I can go anywhere, ANY day or night ...and not have to look in the mirror to see if my roots are showing. Now THATS freedom! woo hoo

[@CoolSustainable]

YES!!! Now the weekend is all yours!

[@rabbit_scribe]

None of us like to admit it, but most of us look our age give or take very little, whether we color our hair or not. Chances are most people would have guessed our age with a fair degree of accuracy both before and after growing out.

[@CoolSustainable]

sweet tip!

[@deborahmcintosh5182]

I agree!

[@kjo9982]

That’s very true actually!

[@missminti]

Exactly. It’s not fooling anyone. Also, dye over grey hair looks dry and brittle which actually, makes a person look less healthy. Skunk trail also makes women look kind of “nuts”.

[@seaofsolace]

LOL you have a very great point! We are not fooling anyone! 😂

[@patricemoran7469]

I'm 70 years old and started growing out my grey hair in February. Right now the grey roots are quite visible but before I started this journey I purchased three high-end wigs (all different) that I use when out to dinner or traveling and they are a life saver making this period tolerable. My sisters did this a few years ago and I really like the steel grey hair they now sport...hopefully mine will look as good.

[@ClaireBurgi]

I'm 27 and have finally made the decision to grow out my gray streaks! I've been working on a gray hair transition KZbin video myself to be uploaded soon! Lots of great tips in this video, thank you!

[@CoolSustainable]

this is great!!! you will not regret it :) thank you for your kind words.

[@rose5566]

It is liberating. Years ago, men were considered worldly and sophisticated if they had greying hair . Women would just be considered “old” and invisible with grey hair. It’s about time we embrace the greys and make it work for us.

[@lorrainegavagan3035]

Always love a women that lets their hair go gray ! Your hair looks so nice and it's a good length ! Thanks ps Iam 64 !

[@louisealain780]

Three months in cold turkey, loving it and will never dye my hair again 👩🏻‍🦳

[@CoolSustainable]

you are strong!!!

[@PeachesSkinCare]

Louise I’m so proud of you! It’s been a year and a half for me and I have very long hair. I have good days and bad. I’m always so shocked my girlfriends feel the need to tell me how grey hair makes you look older!

[@louisealain780]

Peaches Skin Care thank you 🙏🏼 I look forward to seeing my full transition and embracing the real me 🥰

[@marycarty5879]

4 months for me ..mine is pixie short,so it’s coming in very quickly...ILOVE IT !!!

[@PeachesSkinCare]

Mary Carty Keep going and don’t let anyone make you feel like you have given up or that your not even more fabulous!!! If you want to see my hair, take a peek at my channel and the videos where my hair is down. I find looking at other women that are allowing the “ Sparkle” really motivates me. 🍑Lisa Peaches Skin Care

[@Nailtheday]

I’m only 4 months in and the colour has changed so much already. I only have greys through the front so I have a very cool stripe going on. As many of us lockdown started my transition and I’m thankful for it. I’m loving my hair x

[@CoolSustainable]

That’s great to hear!!

[@jamielee7989]

I'm 54 n I'm in dat grey transition n I think it's de most difficult time to be in. It's been 4 mths without dyeing n I must say after watching a few videos where women of all ages are happy embracing de grey hair life n after watching yr video n looking how beautiful u look n dat lovely grey hair of yrs , I am convinced dat I will let it grow out grey n welcome it. Thank u😍👍🏽

[@CoolSustainable]

Sweet!!!

[@leeannisnor2877]

62 and have been official SILVER since I was 55. No regrets first time in my life I have been in chic style!

[@CoolSustainable]

super!!! i am glad you had such a positive experience!

[@06Aztecrose]

I love my gray, it’s been 1 year no dye! Some don’t like it but I don’t care!

[@CoolSustainable]

That’s the spirit! Love it :)

[@charlotteortiz1233]

I stopped coloring my hair around 4 months ago . I don't have a line or gray steak like a lot of women do , I am going gray around the entire front of my hair . I love it . I wish I could wake up tomorrow and be fully gray. As far as the rest of my hair , I have grays salting throughout my hair . I am 51. I love your hair . I love to see women with gray hair , wearing red lipstick.

[@CoolSustainable]

thanks!!! Your hair pattern sounds beautiful!

[@fredfred-kt9vw]

Thanks for the tips! My mom had grey hair so now that Im going grey everyone who knew her is excited to see how much I will look like her. I hope I do. She was beautiful

[@Freedom_and_Acceptance]

Your grey hair is gorgeous! I am not that much into dyeing my hair but now I am getting some highlights to grow out my grey streaks, I believe there will be much more soon and I'm about to turn 31 😁 you have inspired me to go grey as soon as my hair does so 💕

[@CoolSustainable]

I started to go grey at 20 and finally made the decision to ditch the dye at 31 exactly! Good luck!

[@pilorin]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us! I finally decided to stop this madness of chemicals and fakery one week ago. I still have a box dye in my drawer, but I will give it away. I'm ready for this journey!!! 💪😌💪😌💪😌💪😌

[@lvdmerwe]

Totally agree with your lockdown and going grey comments - I was so happy I had started growing my hair out pre lockdown because I would have obsessed about it. I’m still growing it out and I love the sense of freedom too!

[@patriciavillegas6055]

Thank you for this video. I'm 3 months growing my grey hair. My family saw me for the first time with my grey hair and one family member said she believes that I will not like it and dye my hair again. I thought about and I can't see myself going back to dying my hair. I'm in it to win it!! I'm very excited about it!!

[@CoolSustainable]

woohoo! you go girl!

[@Clutching.My.Pearls]

I let my hair go grey 7 years ago and had more 'you'll dye your hair again' comments than you could shake a stick at. WELL, phooey on them...I LOVE my grey hair and get more compliments all the time on the color. I'm lucky because it's a beautiful silver with touches of dark highlights. It's freeing, really compliments my skin tone, and I never have to think about roots...LOL. Don't listen to others, just listen to yourself.

[@ShimmeringLily]

wow!! I am new here and I thought your hair was dyed!! It's amazing, and you look stunning!!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thanks!!! It has been almost 3 years!

[@hawktchr8]

A young face with gray hair is just lovely I think. I am letting my gray come out during this pandemic, and I am fascinated. However, I am not young enough to not have it add to aging. So, I am enjoying it - it is coming in nicely...I am enjoying looking at it daily and watching it. The beauty of the situation is that I can fix it real quick as soon as my salon opens, but I plan to go full gray first and then decide.

[@gailjarrett6220]

Hi Maria! Your hair is beautiful! I decided to stop dying my hair in March when I couldn't go to my stylist. Just got a short cut a week ago to cut out a lot of my color and I feel already FREE FROM THE DYE!! My hair is wavy/curly and it's coming in white. My mom and her mom had white hair so I hope mine stays white, too. Sulfate free shampoo and silicone free products do not dry out hair. I have been using those for years and my hair is soft and healthy. I recommend those highly. :) I have been trying different hair masks to add moisture. Thank you for your videos!!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for such valuable information!!!

[@Evolve_with_jen]

I am transitioning now. Took 4 hours to get the 33 years of red out and how I’m a champagne color next week will be the completion of the grey. I can’t wait!

[@CoolSustainable]

Oh you will love it!

[@teresagould6987]

I love the freedom of not dying my hair. Only into 4 months of growing it outtogrey and it’s brilliant xxx

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

Yay! You look gorgeous and I totally agree with you that grey hair is so beautiful. I am four years into my grow out with another year or so more to go (I have v long hair! ) Thank you for sharing your story. Im now encouraged to share my own journey too... xxx 😚

[@CoolSustainable]

Lovely! I am so happy for you :)

[@dianneporter3350]

I am just over 8 weeks on this journey and I needed this video to keep me motivated as I'm not getting any encouragement from home. I am wanting to enjoy the process but am really scared to tell you the truth. Your hair colour is amazing and I would be more than happy if my grey turned out like yours. Thanks!

[@CoolSustainable]

Keep going! Like I mentioned, the colour changes all the time :) Even if your hair doesn’t look great now, it WILL when you are done.

[@lisaballard5215]

When I decided to go gray, I didn’t get positive responses:) it took 2 years and now I get more compliments than I have with any other style or color I have ever had. So glad I stuck it out.

[@CoolSustainable]

@@lisaballard5215 So happy for this!

[@PeachesSkinCare]

It’s hard for me because my hair is so long and not completely grey. I’m also a skin care expert and so people some how feel it’s ok to judge me and let me know grey hair makes you look older 🤷🏽‍♀️. I’m a year and a half in and I’m trying not to give up!!!! I love how your hair looks!!!

[@joannogas4391]

@@PeachesSkinCare My hair is long and not completely grey too. Being judged is my biggest fear. It doesn't matter if they are family, friend, or stranger on the street, I can't bear the thought of being judged as less than I am. And so, until now, I've been coloring my hair. Covid isolation gave me the courage to start what will be a long process. I am also bolstered by some of the comments here and am determined to keep my scalp and hair as healthy as possible by avoiding the chemicals. Good luck to you.

[@ShelleyJane]

Gorgeous! I shaved my old colour off in March. Your colour is my goal. Can’t wait till it grows now. 😊

[@CoolSustainable]

Super!!! You are brave :)

[@analys1422]

The best decision I have made is letting my hair go grey! I love it. I had a hard time the first three months, after that, it’s a God sent!

[@CoolSustainable]

Agree 100%!

[@princessmae3457]

I completely agree that sometimes it's scary to see loved ones with gray hair. My mom already have gray hair (she had a long black hair before) and makes me think how much she have aged. You're right. It's because of the reference what she looked like before. But then I look at you and other people on the internet, gray hair is absolutely lovely. I guess I only think negatively if it's my mom.

[@CoolSustainable]

Haha what an interesting perspective!!!

[@mooreandless]

I'm 5 months in. Here in Melbourne Australia it was the protracted lockdown that set me on my way. My hairdresser freaked when she saw the unruly mess when I appeared on her doorstep for a "cut only". She layered the style and it's a slightly shorter version of my bob. I'm feeling the liberation of which you speak and am feeling so much better for not using the chemical dyes. I agree about the color issues with both make up and clothes and am leaning to softer pallete. I enjoyed your video. Thanks!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you! I am so happy you got through the initial shock and are now enjoying the new you :)

[@sunflower-oo1ff]

I love my grey hair, its natural, its healthy and it looks great !

[@greytefulquadra2452]

That is exactly what is happening. I am growing my silver hair and I became completely obsessed with skincare and make up! Thank you for your videos! I am doing the same in French because I can't find a Frenchy silversister doing that 😉...

[@CoolSustainable]

oh nice I will check it out!!

[@callmeswivelhips8229]

When you hair is the right color for your skin color, the first thing you see when you look in the mirror is YOU. When you wear the right colors, your gaze will go right to your eyes. And I am beginning to think the color that best suits your face and skin is the color that grows out of your head. Both are determined by the same thing, melanin. So it makes sense that your natural hair color would match your skin the best. My favorite channel for what colors to wear is Merriam Style

[@4x4_Gal]

I wish I had just embraced my silver grey locks when I was younger. I started greying when I was 17 and pretty sure it was totally so by the time I was 30. I'm 51 now and on my way. 5 months into growing it out, but got sick of the demarcation line. My hair was a dark copper auburn color, so bleached that out and trying to matched my mostly silvery white hair in the front that has a natural dark streak in the middle front at my widow's peak (picture a reverse Lily Munster - lol) and from the top middle to the back it is salt & pepper with dark hair underneath at the back of my neck. It seems it will be very pretty once all grown out... and I will finally be free of dying my hair anymore! 😊

[@CoolSustainable]

Oh that's good that you were able to do it! I am so glad as well that I did it when I did.

[@Myover50fashionlife]

Thanks you. I am taking the lockdown opportunity to grow my colour out.

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for watching and good luck!!!

[@Pjpuglife]

You made some really good points about people wanting you to stay the same when your trying to go grey.

[@sharonpanetta5846]

Thank you for sharing! Still in lock down here, last two hair appts were cancelled and I’ve become so fascinated and intrigued, I had no idea all the sober around my face, I think I like the idea of keeping it! Sisters comments were not encouraging but....my hair is curly, wonder how that would turn out...

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for watching :) Try watching this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gmK4eHqKeLmVf9E There are quite a few curly haired ladies. My fav for curly hair is definitely Mindy Gale!

[@annaburns5382]

I have been using oVertone lavender conditioner! I like it better than purple shampoo. It comes in numerous color and shade options options. Once the hair transitions to grey, it comes in 3 different grey tones. You can use it every time you wash without your hair going purple. It has a pleasant fragrance. I really like it. It's subtle, and it is making the transition a bit nicer. Check them out!

[@CoolSustainable]

I keep hearing it but I am hesitant... not sure why! maybe the colouring factor?

[@annaburns5382]

@@CoolSustainable go to their website and look around! Also, there are lots of youtube videos on ways to use it. I was a little nervous the first time but the affects were so subtle. Some people put it on dry hair and let is sit for a while. I just use it like a conditioner, after I wash my hair, so my hair does not turn an intense color. Once my blonde grows out, I'll switch from the lavender to one of the silvers. Check it out.

[@Woman_in_the_Wilderness]

You look stunning with your silver strands!!

[@CoolSustainable]

thanks!!!

[@annaburns5382]

Thanks for not forgetting us. Please continue with your videos! I am in about month 4 of growing out my grey. I had naturally blonde hair into my adult life. It started getting mousy at about age 40! That's when I started coloring it to match my blonde. I am now in my early 60's and decided to see what my grey is looking like. It's really hard to see a line of demarcation because what's growing in is similar to the colored part. It just looks mousy, which I don't like. I made a promise to myself to grow it all out before I decide to keep it or not. Also, I have waves, so I enjoyed your demo of your products. I have trouble with polyquats, which are in the Beach Bomb. They stick to my hair and I have to wash my hair 2 to 3 times to get it off my hair! Not sure why I have that problem, but I do. Some polyquats are much worse than others. I'm looking forward to more videos!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for your continuous support - it means so much and keeps me going! I have never heard of polyquats negative effects. The video coming out on Monday is about a purple shampoo product I've been using, so maybe it will help?!

[@theblackcatmagicstore8119]

First you're stunning 🥰. From what I've heard hair oil only works on wet to damp hair. As the oil doesn't penetrate the hair dry. It can only absorb if the hair is wet to damp to apply it to get inside the cuticle. If not it just sits on top and doesn't do anything. 💖

[@pattyannelee6280]

Yes! it is freedom!!! 7 mos. into it... loving it! (and I don't plan on cutting mine til its very long, its past my shoulders now, and I use a toner on the blonde ends). I love going all natural...and after all the years of maintaining a fake color...I am so excited at just being me!

[@CoolSustainable]

This sounds so exciting! So happy!

[@Lesley22]

Thank you Maria. The behaviour points are really interesting and you are very motivational. I'm 20 weeks in and admit to struggling a bit right now but will persevere.

[@CoolSustainable]

it is a tough time but I promise if you power through it is SO WORTH IT!

[@TheOjap]

You inspired me. You really don't know, how you will look with grey hair, unless you have it. I'm going grey from February.

[@CoolSustainable]

You are so right! Thank you and way to go! Keep strong and good luck :)

[@jmk1962]

Svetlana - You can always buy a cheap grey wig to try it out at home and see how you look first

[@chocoboasylum]

I'm starting to look around at other people's hair more as well and I see a lot of women whom are older than me and whom are still coloring their hair. Obviously if they like that, then more power to them. I just don't want to be 60, 70, 80yrs old and still trying to pretend that my hair is just naturally brown

[@amandasilversister]

Love finding new silversisters on here!! Followed and can’t wait to watch more of your content!!!❤

[@kaygabriel7064]

My life choices only effect me, so anybody' else's opinions are mute to me.. I am lucky to have a strong sense of self to go through this gray journey.

[@CoolSustainable]

yeehaaww!!!

[@GFHVB4]

Affect.

[@lindameyermann5516]

Yes, the sun can definitely turn our silver hair yellow! I wear hats a lot, but I also use UV protectant sprays. Aveda Sun Veil is a spendy one and Sun Bum 3-in-One Leave-In is a cheaper one.

[@CoolSustainable]

Ooooh great tips!!! Thank you :)

[@bettyratliff7377]

Love your video! I’m only 5 months into my gray hair journey! Very encouraging and informative video! Thank you 😊

[@CoolSustainable]

I am so happy you found this useful - good luck with your journey! Won't be long now :)

[@LindaLights]

Excellent advice and encouragement. Loved how you said 'me and grey hair are friends!' So Sweet!!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you! :)

[@pamelapercle3724]

Thank you for the tips! I just turned 56 on June 5th. I’ve been coloring my hair for over the past 25 years. I have my hair in a pixie cut. A month and a half ago I decide to not color my hair and let the gray come on out. So I’m hoping with my hair with a pixie cut, it shouldn’t be too long before my hair is color fee. I am anxious to see what I’ll look like. I got my 1st gray hair many,many eons ago when I was 18. I take after my Dad, in that I’m prematurely gray. Thanks for the tip about the purple shampoo. Take care.

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for your comment! I am glad you made the change.

[@prestontowne9768]

I started during the Quentine it's so freeing dont miss coloring it. True points..

[@CoolSustainable]

Awesome!

[@deesjourney213]

Nice video. I am trying to transition so this was good for me. I turned 60 this year and am so tired of paying for the upkeep of the color. I just wish it didn't take so long to grow it out. lol. I was on the short end of the stick when it came to passing out patience. haha

[@jrpacer6355]

Yes I use my purple shampoo once a month and mostly in the summer I find I don't need it as much in the winter and my grey is alot like yours

[@lisacasden220]

Thank you for this well-timed advice! 3 months in to grow out ... focusing on freedom ;-)

[@CoolSustainable]

Yes! 3 months is hard, so be strong! It is going to be so beautiful!

[@debratrebbne7809]

Hair IS a big thing! We've got to respect the hair! But I was tired of the maintenance...resentful, almost. Cut off 14" and I'm about a year and a half in, and YES....THE FREEEEEEEDOM! Funny, people are actually telling me how cool it is, and that it actually makes me look younger! ( that's all fine, but wasn't my goal....it was to embrace my age, actually!😄) Also, I feel like I'm honouring my Crone status....by wearing my grey hair like a crown. Thanks for a great video...the behavioral/psychological component is so important to address. Change can be weird ....and fun!

[@atrinka1]

I made my decision 3 years ago after a stylist botched a keratine treatment and I can't be happier! The worst comment (from my own father): you're making ME feel old!!!

[@CoolSustainable]

ugh! i bet he doesn’t even think about it now... does it look great?

[@genna2586]

Maria, best tutorial in embracing grey hair. Love your hair and tips. Your hair color looks beautiful. How long did it take you to go fully grey? Thanks

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for such kind words! It took me 1.5 years to finally chop the yellowing bits for a short bob. I have just crossed the 3 year mark and it feels great!

[@rachealrumbo4441]

Good information. Going grey now as of 5/20/20!

[@CoolSustainable]

yay! be strong!

[@gretchensmith3981]

Great tips! I love your hair too!!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you for joining the grey hair goddess gang :)

[@marysketch4772]

Your hair looks fine (you keep saying you should have brushed it). I would give a lot for that amount of natural curl or turn in your hair.

[@Hatchatorium]

I know it's still considered rude to ask a woman her age, but I AM very curious about your age. Did you grey prematurely? The reason I'm wondering about this is because you definitely DO NOT look very old AT ALL. I'm an artist, so when I look at a person's face or body, I don't really pay a lot of attention to the surface parts (like the color of the person's hair). I'm looking deeper, at say, their bone structure, their skin plasticity, and many other things that are actually much more important to how old or young a person looks compared to their actual age. I've noticed this isn't the case with MOST people, however! The average person DOES tend to pay attention to things like grey hairs, LOSS of hair (thinning hair) & many other things that indicate a person is a certain age (or not). So when I see your face, with no apparent wrinkles, a very youthful skin tone and a healthy look, overall, to you and your face and body, my initial question is: HOW OLD ARE YOU? Because except for grey hair, you definitely don't look like you're in your fifties, or really, even your forties. Well done!

[@melinakoufalis281]

Shes late 30s i think

[@Hatchatorium]

@@melinakoufalis281 Okay. Thank you very much for that! :)

[@ladydame7527]

Thanks for this video. I am trying to go grey. 👍

[@CoolSustainable]

Super! I hope you stick through it :) It is worth it!!

[@janetkubas-furnish9253]

Love having grey hair 👩‍🦳. I have been grey for a couple of years.

[@Cherrysmith2809]

Try Olaplex no. 6 for a leave in conditioner. It is amaaazing. The shine, the moisture, and no oily look. Jack Martin, the famed grey colorist, uses it.

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you , i will look into it!

[@ritazita1111]

I have lovely grey hair that I have had for over 10 yrs...I definitely get lots of compliments where ever I go. I read an article a few years ago that stated that older women who let their hair go grey are considered smarter than those who color their hair, more secure about their looks. And therefore they are admired because of that and often seen as sexy.

[@CoolSustainable]

interesting!

[@angelicagrills7123]

Thank you for your video. Maybe a little early for me to use some advice, but I have noticed a few gray strands in my hair. I have been considering not dying my hair since I never have and don't want to go down that road and regret it. Every woman in my family has dyed their hair and have never had it gray. My husband's family has quite a few who have stopped and gone gray. And in passing when I mentioned never dying my hair as it turns gray he says he's sure I will look beautiful. So it's nice to have his encouragement. I think your hair looks beautiful and I am curious what my curly hair would look like gray and how long it will take my hair to actually gray instead of a few strands here and there. Thanks for the encouragement and tips.

[@CoolSustainable]

Wow what a great hubby you have there! He is right, you know :)

[@elisabethnordin]

Love that you guys are normalising grey/white hair for women not in an old folks home, its incredibly important because ageism is a real discrimination. Discrimination like that doesn't affect you... except for when it does, especially in life altering situations like when competing for a job and I'm assuming in the dating scene as well.

[@CoolSustainable]

It IS normal! You're right about the dating scene - I know a few friends who says the normal dating scene is cruel at the best of times but with grey hair I can't imagine!

[@Laurat103]

I'm almost 57, been with dh for 34 years. Our daughter is 33. Can't imagine dating...but I would never date a man that hated my natural look. Hubby is supportive and loves my grey and hates makeup...guess I found a keeper lol

[@littleskipperdaycare]

Lockdown seems like the ideal time to make the change. I am super excited to be done with hair color.

[@CoolSustainable]

yeah you are!!! so freeing isn’t it??

[@littleskipperdaycare]

@@CoolSustainable I am very close. I'll send you a picture when I'm there!

[@avictoryrollvintage3713]

Late to the party but I'm glad that gray hair actually is a fashion statement I look forward to getting older and rocking gray hair

[@CoolSustainable]

yeah!!! it is necessity for me now but it is trendy in some circles.

[@avictoryrollvintage3713]

@@CoolSustainable but having the trend helps me I'm probably younger than you but I'm in my mid-thirties and I've always heard that women shouldn't have gray hair but I like it. I also don't want to waste afternoons and entire days just dying my hair

[@CoolSustainable]

@@avictoryrollvintage3713 That is exactly why I stopped! (I am 34 :P)

[@marysketch4772]

I don't see the link or names for the hair oils you mentioned. Thanks.

[@louisea6109]

Really interesting! Love the subject - its how we look at getting older. In times when youth is an obsession for some all around the globe, its about time being proud, happy being just - human. The one that judge is all about insecurity among other things commercial telling us is the norm to follow. Be U! Strong and beautiful just the way U are. The inside is what matters. This video is toughing an important issue - acceptance. Every age has its time. Inside u are still U. Grey hair is no longer to be called old. Its a colour like all the other different shades and colours on the palett. Thank u for an inspiring video 😊 love my grey hair 👏🏻 take care be safe - life is so much more than ’different shades of grey’ - its living it to the fullest being proud being here right now sharing love and respect towards eachother and have a laugh 😉

[@CoolSustainable]

wow well said! b that you for your motivation!

[@francesharmon1223]

thank you so much for your enlightening thoughts on why people close to us seem so negative about our going gray. (i call my gray my covid color. )

[@pinkyinsane]

Awesome video Maria your hair looks beautiful as always in these are great tips!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you! I am happy they are of use :)

[@katalinmcewan]

I started this journey 17 months ago. Interestingly, all the good looking men in my life were very encouraging and supportive, but all the females in my life were totally discouraging and were completely against it. So glad I never listen to naysayers.

[@MyLifeInTheDesert]

Same. Women say the worst things to my face.

[@katalinmcewan]

Michael Salonga They are clearly insecure and jealous of you! You are beautiful! Unfortunately, I can relate, not just regarding going grey. I could never say awful things to anyone even if it was true.

[@giovanna8187]

There's a forum on Facebook ," Going Grey Gracefully", all women, who are offering their encouragement and ideas to one another. Many submit photos. For the most part, a really positive vibe.

[@katalinmcewan]

Giovanna Thank you! Will check it out, although, I’m trying to stay away from social media these days, but did find many groups there very helpful in the past.

[@katalinmcewan]

cat mom-vinyasinya Absolutely! It’s much more peaceful to just embrace it. ☺️

[@demelza32]

I am growing my hair out and am nearly there, and have listened to what you have said about purple shampoo. I wash my hair once a week and use it every time, I think it is drying my hair out and am getting breakage, so I have taken that on board, thanks! I have tried shampoo bars, am not sure about them? It is a very EXPENSIVE minefield out there, of all the trial and error trying to find the right shampoo, There must be a much simpler solution?. My hair is white on top and the underneath layers are varying colour, and it looks like there is even some of my original colour in it, really fascinating. As for the negative comments, people can be very mean I think, my answer is to flick them the bird. There have been some nice comments as well, they have said it is admirable to show the younger generation it's ok to be yourself and not to cover it up. I have noticed that my eyelashes and eyebrows have gone white, and I am not a pencil in the brows kind of person but I will put mascara on, oh well. Thanks.

[@theastewart6721]

Very inspiring and helpful!!

[@misssharik]

Great video, thank you so much for sharing your experience! I am starting to get grey hair and I plan to never color it. Will see how it goes :) Anyway, I wish the sound would be better, it was hard to listen with that much noise.

[@susandonovan1487]

Love your gray hair you have inspired me to grow out my gray hair, I have tried before but bottled out feel readily to do it.

[@jennibee2307]

I wash my hair once a week. It took me a few months to get to this point, but I love it. I do rinse it every few days so it doesn't get oily, but not using shampoo keeps it from getting too stripped.

[@CoolSustainable]

nice! Do you rinse it with just water?

[@jennibee2307]

@@CoolSustainable Yep, I just run it under the water quickly when I take a shower. I initially started doing that because my short hair would stick up everything and I'd have to wet it with a spray bottle. It was just easier to do it while I was taking a shower. My Mom has longer hair and has started doing it, she can go an entire week before she washes her hair. I do it every time I take a shower but she only does it a few times between washes.

[@annestep6741]

when you showed the picture of your hair up when you started going grey you still had dark hair especially underneath. You still have that darker hair underneath. The back of your head takes the longest to grow in grey. So even though you don't color your hair anymore you still aren't totally grey. You still have a lot of dark hair blended in with your silver.

[@annahoover6707]

Your hair is fabulous

[@CoolSustainable]

thank you :)

[@everyhaircolor3190]

love your hair color!

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you :)

[@grannyvroomvroom2523]

FINALLY, a video about care for those already gray, not about transitioning from dyed hair to gray! Thanks so much!

[@CoolSustainable]

thank you for watching :)

[@janeswift5735]

Going grey 4 months into transition love it can't wait to be grey 😍

[@CoolSustainable]

power to you!!!!!

[@llkoolbean4935]

Your hair looks gorgeous 😍

[@crammia]

Does your hair grow fast? I have a year's worth of growth and it's only to my eye level - I am amazed how long yours is!!

[@CoolSustainable]

Well it has been a year since I have been fully grey- it was down to my chin then. I think it grows a bit faster than most bit not craY fast.

[@wendysundstrup5940]

Same i am 8 months in and probably will be at my eye level by 12months

[@energeticsoulhealer888]

Eating raw liver will grow your hair fast, fyi

[@lillyb3588]

What can you use to stop or remove the yellow tones?

[@CoolSustainable]

purple shampoo or mask but it is always temporary. I have learned to like all the tones....

[@janicetrauzold7811]

Best way if you are growing white hair out Put white streeks in your hair very simple it will all blend together and the re goth blends togethet

[@CoolSustainable]

I tried that but did not get a skilled hairdresser! Turned out yellow haha

[@jeewanipitakotuwage1566]

I started going gray at 47,I m now 51 but it's graying so super slow.Anyway I am inspired by the process it's more of what I discover about my inner being.

[@CoolSustainable]

This is so lovely! A patience builder.

[@shonan3677]

Hi! Just starting my grow out. When should I began using the purple shampoo on my gray? Btw,Your hair is beautiful. Thx😊

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you very much :)

[@MyLifeInTheDesert]

I had two negative comments from women yesterday. One looked at my hair and said “yikes” and another one said “you’re too young to have this much gray hair”. Maybe this is because I’m only 8 months into the transition and it’s not looking great.

[@CoolSustainable]

ugh! forget them! It doesn’t look that great during the process but when it is done, it looks fabulous!

[@PeachesSkinCare]

Michael I have been going through the same !!!! We can do this!!!

[@shankeduu]

you are absolutely beautiful regardless you do not deserve that at all omg 😣😣

[@samrakhan9525]

No. It's their insecurities.

[@carolyn5938]

Do you have some tips for daytime lipsticks that can brighten your face. The one you are wearing here is lovely x

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you :) I am still using up my Mac Russian Red but I only dab it...and in the summer I will wear gloss - any cool pink tones work for my skin tone. Hope it helps!

[@barbaraplatton6652]

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[@paintnknitter]

My roots are out about an 1 1/2". I'd like to find a stylist that can blend in the gray. I'd like anyone's comments on highlights or even full coloring.

[@CoolSustainable]

I thought of blending with highlights first but was advised against it because you enter into a never-ending colouring cycle. Maybe someone else had other experience?

[@paintnknitter]

Thank you! Your hair is beautiful!

[@maritaberndt6200]

You look great.

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you!

[@teresagould6987]

Still grey and I love 💕 it. It’s grown out now into a lovely Bob length hairstyle now. Never going back. Xxxxxxxx

[@valentinamendes3791]

Ok! It isn’t polite to comment on appearances but I’m so in love with your hair! It’s so beautiful 😍 I just love gray hair and its like a curse because I’m now 33 and still waiting for my first white strand 😞

[@CoolSustainable]

Thank you. Appreciate what you have and make the best of it :)

[@jpwall]

Hi. I'm new here. I've been going grey for over a decade and it's still a mixture of colour although I no longer get it dyed. It took me more than 2 years to grow most of the dye out. What can I do if I have both red and yellow undertones? I'm medium to dark brown at the roots to dark blonde at the ends. It's quite long. Also, for softness, I recommend Davroe shampoo etc. It's also vegan and cruelty free. :)