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[@PrettyPrincess9609]

I learned the HARD WAY to not date based off of “ potential “. My ex ( then boyfriend ) lost his job and I loaned him money to pay his rent. He turned around and disrespected me by calling me out my name, he cheated on me with his “ best friend “, and he never paid me back the money he owed. NEVER SETTLE LADIES !

[@imjustsayin34]

This always happens I swear. They feel repulsed that you pitied them subconsciously

[@Shontiiglo]

He was jealous of you. You was able to do what he couldn’t as a man and was talking down on you to make his dusty ass feel better…the audacity of these dustiessss

[@rileahangelaweston]

Why do you women do stupid shit like this? Men would never do that for you

[@Nancybabt]

I was dumb had two babies from dusties because I felt bad and I'm in my last semester of my masters both still live at home with mom

[@quelquun2018]

Take him to small claim court for the money he owes you

[@nadanalia3000]

They tryna give leveled up women a one-way bus ticket back to the projects

[@atfi100]

😂 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

[@Ma74404]

😂😂😂😂

[@onyx.blackwood]

You hit the nail on the head with this one ☝🏾

[@cupcake2009ist]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@fruitsarelife7073]

🤣🤣🤣🤣omg

[@loveself6396]

Porsha Williams was 40 when she married Simon plus she was a single mom. But it’s impossible for Eboni K Williams?

[@UdoADHD]

When a woman actually succeeds in doing it, they’re silent. When a single woman hasn’t done it yet and doesn’t care that she’s single - they get triggered 😊

[@ThePhoenix3712]

Porsha is not great model to use, her man is a fraudulent rich man and was already married when he met her, she didn't care. No respect for porsha Williams

[@loveself6396]

@@ThePhoenix3712 height doubt she gives a flying fuck about respect from a faceless bot 🤖. She’s living her best life with her scammer man she stole 😂♥️

[@loveself6396]

@@ThePhoenix3712 y’all generationally passed down morals gets y’all literally no where in life. How are y’all not embarrassed?

[@allenieshawilliams3696]

@@ThePhoenix3712 Man you must be a bus driver 😂

[@uhuru7421]

Even if you don't care about money, a lot of bus drivers have a bad attitude. They don't like their lives so they are mad all the time. That's the problem with men who don't have a career. It's not just about money.

[@naiya.nicole__]

Exactly broke men are always angry

[@uhuru7421]

@@naiya.nicole__ They are very aggressive

[@Luckimee]

Yep and violent towards women and children

[@mslovely522]

I notice that when I get on the bus sometimes Iam in nyc they always have an attitude and aggressive. They are mad cause they broke I just😅😂

[@Fungigi]

It’s the perfect careeer path for dusties😂

[@AMoore2223]

I always felt that Ilyania is working with Oprah and Tyler Perry to keep blacks thinking at a oppressed mindset. She knew what she was doing. I’m so glad we are above that way of thinking.

[@witneeb6670]

Omg I never thought of it that way! 😳

[@m3l0nL3M0N]

So glad you mentioned this, as there's an agenda against WOC for sure. This narrative is forced on us because dust cleanses the rich. Iykyk 🕶

[@Model_Roe]

It's also white corporate America they all profit from black women being chronically single and at the bottom of the barrel in society is a political game once you see it for what it really is you understand how to move accordingly

[@KayDejaVu]

@@witneeb6670 Not Oprah though. Oprah would not say what Iyanla said.

[@a_la_drinah]

🎉

[@autumnloveent]

BLACK WOMEN ARE THE ONLY ONE'S GUILTED AND REQUIRED TO LEVEL DOWN OR SETTLE....LITERALLY!

[@Torihappyness]

But why? Where does that come from? I'm not American so if you have the answer I'll appreciate it.

[@aliyahadams4775]

^ right like I’m confused lol

[@Amelanin23]

@@Torihappyness In America black women are socially opinionated as the least attractive race of women where mixed race, white or lighter colored women are more attractive leaving black women expected to just take what they can get instead of expecting the best of what they deserve and everyone woman should set a standard for themselves btw

[@LadyGodiva7460]

It's not only black women, I'm white and they do it here too. White dusties same thing(want you to accept less, live low income to be with them, nasty and abusive if you level up) - I'm telling you.

[@Rob_uno]

No it’s just that no men want to date y’all sorry it’s hard reality. Black men are the main ones that date black women statistics prove this

[@ChocolateThunda1345]

As the daughter of a former bus driver my father was a PROVIDER. He had a successful business along with being a bus driver. My mother had the option to work. THESE MEN AREN'T LIKE THAT ANYMORE! 60% or more are DUSTY descendants and want the WOMAN to do the work.

[@ChocolateThunda1345]

DO NOT DATE DOWN!

[@imjustsayin34]

Im a daughter of a former bus driver who didn’t have a side business he chose to be a Jehovah witness loser. We were miserable growing up my mom was always stressed out working. You can learn about what you want based on what you DONT see

[@ChocolateThunda1345]

@@imjustsayin34 Jesus christ! He wasnt a provider and was only in it for himself. Im so sorry you went through that.

[@ladycrystal3293]

I’m with you Chocolate PROVIDER there it go hello!

[@Nancybabt]

Even my pet cat is a better provider than a dusty

[@deejames1st]

I think it was insulting to ask her that. Perhaps she’s jealous.

[@HuesoAmarilloAfricana]

Yes! I literally thought to myself “out of all the questions to ask, WHY THAT QUESTION?!”…. It screamed “set up” to me.

[@mollesmart]

Women hate other successful women.

[@thehealthyheaux]

When I was a little girl, my mom taught me to seek out a bus driver as a husband. She told me to make sure I got super cute and caught the bus regularly to better my chances. She didn’t even want to buy me a car so that I could catch the bus more often. She also told me that I should never tell him about my education or how much money I make, so he would feel more secure. I still haven’t married one, but I haven’t given up hope. I pray that one day a bus driver would roll up in a golden bus and take me away to his one bedroom apt. Where we would lovely uncomfortably for the rest of our lives.

[@mollesmart]

Wow, it might happen in the next lifetime. Be also prepared to be cheated on beacuse unlike you they will hit up on anything, no boundaries. Their standard is so low.

[@MagsLuv]

😂😂😂

[@nevaeh193]

i’m so happy this is satire 😭

[@gravityclarity]

Lmfao🤣

[@Msangel06]

I went to law school. I’m not a licensed lawyer yet.. My father was a bus driver. My mother married a bus driver. Bus drivers don’t make a lot of money. We lived in poverty. . My mother didn’t work, have a job, or side hustle so that contributed to our poverty. A woman who marries a bus driver will need to work. If you depend on a bus driver’s salary, and y’all get married and have 6 children, y’all gone live in poverty. We got evicted. Cars repossessed. Lights shut off, gas off. No water. No phone. I remember when the black out happened in the early 2000s, I didn’t think it was a black out. I just thought welp our lights shut off again.. as a child I was so used to lights being shut off. My father worked hard and got absolutely nowhere. It’s all about motivation. He wasn’t a motivated man. A bus driver is a start, but a man should aspire for better especially if they have children. Your career will determine how your children lives turn out. I’m still trying to get out of poverty because my parents didn’t build a foundation to better their children’s lives.

[@SonyaOutThere]

Six kids is simply too much. Your parents should have stopped at two.

[@aena5995]

what about a truck driver they do make around 8 to 12k a month...

[@nishamack586]

Housewives of orange county Heather dubrow was asked about bagging her famous plastic surgeon husband, she replied " My mother told me to be careful with what men i entertained because the heart falls in love with anyone " She said that this is what her mother taught her as a young girl! Iylanna is a St. Mamie from the past that tried to impose low standards for blk women. The gag is both of her husbands we're educators and successful. smh!

[@lf3554]

But this is a woman who stayed with am abusive man fir soo long all the while preaching the opposite when her show was on own smh

[@mollesmart]

Nope she has no abuse!

[@lf3554]

Next thing you know he is jealous of you and is gonna be mean mad and treat you bad all because you make more than him smh

[@uhuru7421]

Exactly

[@testtest2609]

Domestic abuse is higher for women who earn more than the man. Be practical. Safety first.

[@MidnightSky98]

for long time I was so confused because my own father started treating me badly, insulting me and my looks (Im actually thin, in my 20's and good looking), right after i graduated with master's degree and got my money, earn more than my parents together), I was miserable wondering what I did wrong, but this made me realize it might be that he got insecure because he is a dusty? How could my own parents feel threatened by me? sadly my mom is also pickmeisha/barbara the builder/spends on my dad/ hates on other women. thoughts ladies?

[@uhuru7421]

@@MidnightSky98 I'm so sorry for you. Some parents become bitter when they see their children doing better than them and having an easier life. This is so sad 😞

[@MidnightSky98]

@@uhuru7421 thank you

[@YayaasChannel]

“Can you pay these moral bills ?” Nah girl you funny 😂

[@Crouchingdragon]

I read this just as she said it 😂😂😂

[@nodustbunny5871]

No bus drivers who are healthy fathers want their daughters to date bus drivers, they want their daughters to date better.

[@superkitty1777]

Iyanla: ''Would you date a Bus Driver? Pickmeisha: ''Yeah cuz that man is going places!''

[@michellepalmer1160]

Lol

[@НаталиИзмаилова-ф2х]

Ladies, stay alone and independent - this way you will avoid heartbreak and disappointments. You are capable to make your own money and enjoy your freedom from any men.

[@HausOfAdonis]

I would not. Ppl are really in their feelings. It’s a matter of class. Iyanla is a fool for giving poor advice.

[@uhuru7421]

It's pure evil. They want her to be miserable.

[@Model_Roe]

I listened to this thinking Iyanla has lost her mind and what made me mad was knowing she would never in her right mind tell this to non black women but felt this was a acceptable solution for black women? Tell her on behalf of so many black women that this is a hard pass no

[@loveself6396]

Can you imagine Andy Cohen asking a cast member on The Real Housewives of Orange County if they’d date a bus driver or not on live tv? … & most of them dnt even have degrees or jobs. LOL

[@hopeak3634]

@@loveself6396 that part! Reminds me of Monique Samuels (RHOP) mother-in-law who didn’t like Monique. His mother would brag about how much she struggled to raise Chris and she hated the Monique enjoyed a life of ease. older black women from those generations are usually envious of younger women who live a life of ease like (Monique).

[@loveself6396]

@@hopeak3634 They are so bitter . I’m a millennial and I’m genuinely happy for the gen z girlies for finding Shera at such a young age!

[@kingelement4160]

@@loveself6396 i find it hypocritical of you women..yall really are not that smart and live in a world of immaturity,greed, Ego driven, shallow delusional mentality, yall have material possessions and want more of to cover up your delusional immature behavior. HVM who want marriage are waking up to this type of useless woman to wife up. Shera doesnt teach to be wife, sustain a family. She teaches high class prostitution.

[@Model_Roe]

@@loveself6396 he wouldn't and to his credit he would never say that to the black housewives either he's a little more evolved unlike Iyanla who's speaking as if she's in the Jim Crow era LoL she sounds so ignorant

[@UdoADHD]

Even if their relationship is completely 50/50 financially - he will not be able to afford to go 50/50 with her. Shoot, he couldn’t afford to go 90/10 with her 😂

[@uhuru7421]

"Y'all too broke for hell" 😂😂😭😭

[@sminno]

I think the problem is that when you escape they expect you to turn around and bring them up with you. When you do the work to be better, they want to get the come up. Plus it also sounds like a lot of peoples money management skills are either in the toilet or non existent.

[@pixieinx]

They won’t help truly help you but expect they help they wouldn’t give

[@arayaklove]

They tryna drag her. Even her interview breakfast club. Like wow they hate to see a BW with standards

[@denisereadstarot]

I fell to the floor when she showed the Dusty’s living room 😂

[@Sasha-eo6jz]

Shera, you are making me mess up my manicure. I’m trying to paint my nails all nice and you have me in here laughing at those hilarious lines you are throwing out! Good sound advice.😂

[@sherrythegoddess]

Imagine asking a successful career woman if she can date a bus driver🙄 ..ladies don't lower your standards for a man simply because y feel sorry for them ..if you're a successful career woman please keep your standards high and don't be with someone who doesn't have a career ..my mum has a successful career but married a man who didn't..guesss what the dusty man was always angry and violent most of the time because he didn't have anything going on for himself n the fact that he was violent my mum was always unhappy ..keep those standards high sprinkle Sprinkle ✨✨

[@gravityclarity]

It’s amazing to me the low standards that so many black men have and how aggressively they’re defending mediocrity. This is why black women need to stop limiting themselves to black men. If you’re highly educated, intelligent, driven, and successful, there just aren’t a lot of black men that can match you. Broaden your horizons and NEVER SETTLE! It’s perfectly normal to want a man who is *on your level* and I’m sick of people acting flabbergasted at that.🙄

[@Jasmine-eq5gr]

1000%!!

[@Nancybabt]

Your not lying I have 3 college degrees and I never met any black man that show me interest with a college degree. Only one had a 2 year degree and he didn't like to work and didn't further his education

[@hillsideonly]

A man that is gonna provide and protect is not a man on your level.

[@gravityclarity]

@@hillsideonly that makes no sense.

[@mollesmart]

Its also white men. They do the same as well. Mediocrity and dustys are universal, across all races.

[@seraiahdaniella3755]

A successful woman dating a bus driver? Really? And she's supposed to be satisfied with that? What foolishness is this?!?! A bus driver's salary isn't even close to being enough to provide for a woman. Especially a leveled up woman! Men who don't have financial means are dangerous. They're always upset and take their anger out on their women. Ladies, KEEP YOUR STANDARDS HIGH and don't lower them for anyone. Stay away from dusties!

[@Fungigi]

My ex became abusive when he started to make less than 20.00 an hour. The kicker is that he would seek out low paying jobs and the get 😡 at me because i would seek out and get higher paying jobs. He would spend 100+ a week on 💨 and then beg me for 💰 🎄 and 🥳 are the only times it’s acceptable times to give a man ANYTHING of monetary value. He just got more and more upset because i told him to stop 💨 so much weed and get his ish together.

[@surrealbeauty4520]

People don’t talk about how free it is to be abundant to feel safe secure and provided for not just from men but the universe. To have a business and provide a service or sell a product that changes lives or help people in anyway. It takes time, character, consistency, perseverance, ambition, focus, strength , creativity all traits women want in a man. Period. Those same traits are usually in leveled up women we just put most of that energy into ourselves. Expanding our mind through education, hair, nails, makeup, clothing, trips, weekly monthly maintenance. It’s all the same. Date the person that elevates you. And yes men look better having a beautiful woman with high standards around.

[@BillieJeanSoGorgeous]

Thanks to you just got paid 1,000$ last night just to show up on a date😉 next apartment hunting 😘

[@KL-qx4ok]

You just made yourself hella famous thot!

[@gravityclarity]

"I can't do *nothing* with that!" Lmao. 🤣 I agree though. If you're a successful, beautiful woman with a high-powered career, it only makes sense to date your equal. Women who date down often end up unhappy. Never, ever settle! It's better to be single.💁🏽‍♀️✨️

[@Msangel06]

My father was a bus driver. My mother married a bus driver. Bus drivers don’t make a lot of money. We lived in poverty. .

[@afrnkln]

I’ve been giving chances to a few dusty men… never again… NOW IM LEARNING

[@MzKarmaTM]

Sprinkle Sprinkle

[@HoneyHoneyBaby]

✨✨😌

[@AllyssaKatBrown]

“I cant do NUTHIN, NUTHIN but be mad” 😂

[@alley0908]

Its the slideshow of pictures for me lmaooo.. #STAYDUSTFREE but why they want us BW to struggle so bad... get somebody else to do it

[@naiya.nicole__]

Because that’s all a lot of these older women know. I had to get my grandmother to understand that ne opening my dating options as a dark skin bw is the best option because internally alot of bm do not value bw let alone deeper toned ones. She’s divorcing her ex husband who dragged her for 20 years. Yes he’s blavk and has money but she’s fed up. Now she understands especially this market if dusty bm it’s not worth it with them. My mom on the other hand I don’t even try she’s a pickme who wasted her youth and SETTLED.

[@debbyluxe]

@@naiya.nicole__Same with my mother she settled & now thinking of getting a divorce after 5 years of not being separated. She settled so much as she used to be so beautiful like a model when she was younger. I’ve learnt from her mistake & will not get married unless it’s to a provider who will build a home for me and my future children etc

[@notria6683]

The picture of the bus 😭💀😂 funny without trying

[@MorningsWithMaria]

I met a few bus drivers when I was doing a job around age 20 surveying the passengers and they are nice but … they do flirt with everyone on the bus 🤣🤣 and they are usually older like 40 + which is fine but it’s not even like they are in their 20’s getting started they are going to retire there. The worst part was then flirting with me asking for my number and thinking they had a chance 😭

[@mollesmart]

They have no standards, everything is game. Lies is just part of the laguage they speak.

[@SheIsBeaute]

It’s crazy how they say have standards ….you have standards and they say that’s too high lower it & be humble. Tf

[@gravityclarity]

“Dusty excuses!”🤣🤣🤣

[@begumd789]

GIRL DO YOU KNOW HOW VIRAL YOU ARE ON TIKTOK AND OTHER PLATFORMS? PLEASE MAKE BIG COME BACK VIDEOS YOU LITERALLY DESERVE MILLIONS OF FOLLOWERS🎉

[@scurryfunge7608]

Nah, we need that sort of confidence to tell men how it is to their face. Recently came across so many posts on my country's subreddit where some people who earn high but never let dust leave their shoulders so they are in a way financially abusing their wives. All I was thinking was that this won't be my marriage because I'll reject such brain-damage before it begins. There's no point in you earning good if you can't provide well, tbh.

[@queenchica6623]

My exact situation. Planning for my dust free escape. So empowering.

[@scurryfunge7608]

@@queenchica6623 more power to you! 🙌🏼

[@So_Osko]

The question is foolish due to her career and network she wouldn’t even meet a bus driver! She has a vehicle or a driver when or how would she meet one?!

[@dreamceline2093]

My motto: Keep your squats low and your heels and standards high.

[@stormschleicher1907]

U would be so proud of me. I basically scored my boss and he takes me shopping and everything. I’m leveling up

[@JNante]

He married you yet... come back when that happens, lol.

[@iwanttoswimintheswanepoel]

sprinkle sprinkle

[@NikkiBadazz]

Is Iyanla dating a Bus Driver...👀 I thinks NOT

[@user-ss7tg3wq6c]

Shera is the only person i can sit and listen to when it comes to serious discussions 😭 like she is just sooo funny

[@mollesmart]

We live in so much dysfuncion, she tells it as it is.

[@sashamoore9691]

Lol omg you’re so famous in tiktok !! Like everyone keeps sharing you and your on my FYP every other video!😂. Love it!!!!

[@gdisprint2928]

Iyanla stay trolling successful bw. She would never give non bw the same advice

[@cosmicalignment1015]

Your blowing up on TikTok literally millions of likes on multiple videos of your treasures 🎉🎉❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 sprinkle sprinkle girly

[@fabuloushairbymelg.6308]

Shera what do you say to him when he says “I don’t want it to feel transactional”??

[@mollesmart]

He is saying he has no money.

[@babycita3568]

don’t lower ur standards for men period

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

Love this channel because as men women will always be a commodity to purchase!!! Love it ❤ I just purchase what my buying power can afford simple ass that!

[@soulovelee_2433]

Lol, I even saw "sprinkle sprinkle" comments under the video on tiktok 😂 Shera the secret influencer.. but I really asked myself would Shera even reply "if he owned the bus" cause then what?

[@irina-c7v]

There is a distillery in our town called Dusty Barn - ladies BE WARE! Do NOT date men that go there!

[@fadi0965]

My girl has been going viral on tiktok too🎉🎉🎉

[@4givenbyf8th]

Some of the bus drivers in my area are former military and receive additional pension over top of their transit salary. A lot of them in this area are into real estate investing and are making great income. There’s a misconception about bus drivers don’t make much. I walked by one and he said I could quit my job and he would take care of me…I kept walking because that comment was definitely about control.

[@wickidgrrl]

No mam 🤣🤣🤣

[@tripleb1960]

​@@wickidgrrlshe's so delusional. Shera ain't taught her nothing 🤣

[@aena5995]

@@wickidgrrl what about a truck driver making 8 to 12 k tho and got a house but its on mortage in ? lol

[@SprucedandGussied]

Uh oh , what happened to the original live stream of this?

[@helloimok7001]

My cousin told me to stop looking for a man to take care me because its never going happen yet she makes more than her husband and she's always stressed and complaining he doesn't even help with bills im always side eyeing het because she think shes winning i rather be single

[@asmrmania5895]

The sprinkle sprinkle after the girl confused the pimp for a provider 😂💀

[@juanitafrias2696]

I’m a bus driver and all theses ugly drivers trying to get with me HECK NO

[@bellaymettes5255]

Truck drivers broke too and cheat a lot those men will have you at the health department every month 🤣🤣 MOST not ALL😂

[@mollesmart]

I have a neighbour who is a truck driver, and I can tell you all the stories. You never let anything of his come anywhere around you.

[@diamondc1278]

GREAT VIDEO!💜

[@aileenmac1]

🎶started at the bottom … and still here🎶 💀💀💀💀

[@lidiagizaw3828]

inyala needs to tell her daughters to date and have kids with a bus driver . it's all cool until it's ur own daughter and grandkids forced to live in poverty

[@Maree313]

You are funny!!! 😂I love you!

[@ummabdullah3548]

Nothing in common is truth. A high school grad with a lot of dreams and high expectations being suppressed and tamed is real.

[@rynickhenderson296]

EEE YAANN LA SHERA😂😂

[@cupcake2009ist]

If you are a good man you should have a good job 🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯

[@HannahSachie]

Would you date a homeless man?

[@beautifullEternal]

😂😂

[@rynickhenderson296]

Iyanla was physically abused in her marriage. And like me she probably was not taught to put her best interest and livelihood first. So a bus driver is a step up from probably her low earning abusive husband which all she wanted was love. We have to stop everyone doesn’t have the same wants so stop condemning ppl!

[@CaramelCrown04]

I’m confused as to why ppl look to her for advice. She’s in the wrong profession

[@ellainastorms]

Hey Shera! I have a burning question for you~ Would you be a second wife to like one of those Dubai princes if he was paying all the bills... (Granted you had to share), or would you settle for a guy that is a little more broke but can give you full attention and pay the bills?

[@Nikkik02]

I would have said hell no!

[@charity1041]

I love shera 😭😭

[@vayamann500]

Got any advice for a girl who keeps dating men on drugs even tho she's sober? for my sister

[@Soshesaysjessica]

Sounds like a self esteem and lack of self love. She's gotta work on that herself, she can do it -she has to believe that!

[@ThePhoenix3712]

Shera, you are a very smart woman, although James have money you also have your own in the same on the side

[@narutouchiha7745]

Shera, did you see the Tyler Perry interview going viral since yesterday?

[@jacpppp]

You really used a picture of a man driving a bus 😂😂

[@LeeLee-zm6qh]

What is the woman held accountable to do when it comes to her husband?

[@HattieMaeGotMoves]

Yasss keep dissing us bus drivers I can keep my paper to myself...

[@melissacharles8410]

Shera you’re so popular on TikTok ❤❤❤❤❤ we love u

[@God-Love-Freedom]

Iyanla really wore her mammy hat for that interview. Iyanla is just a Whoopie with a perm and lipstick hating on the woman that most men would find attractive and worthy over her.

[@keke8880]

This is bus driver bullying! 😂jk

[@rojaskendall]

DUST BUNNIES 😂

[@iistrawberrimuffinzii]

😂😂 Selling neck pillows like Earl

[@denisereadstarot]

But we need bus drivers lmao

[@Kaceyylang]

That doesn’t mean you have to date them. That’s supposed to be a temporary job not a permanent one.

[@ms.mtruth6169]

Applebees is like a better McDonalds

[@angelvibes8]

Sheraaa😭💀 I love you! You make my day with your content

[@rosarior.4270]

Heyyy

[@Melgworl]

I think they planned this conversation beforehand for publicity

[@toyat5940]

Yes

[@Valley__]

I knew a bus driver who owned a 5 bedroom house but he was a pastor too so maybe that’s where the money comes from .

[@SonyaOutThere]

I think Iyanla was just referring to a middle aged man who is mere bus driver making $50K/year, not someone with side gigs and additional income.

[@mollesmart]

Pastors they rob their congregration, and are the worst. Organized religion is from the devil.

[@kingkong9556]

Here’s my question ? I need honest answers please. Is an average man (a bus driver) for example in response to this movement supposed to just date a dusty women (unattractive, broke, multiple kids and overweight for example ) and date whatever he can get ?? Is an average earning man allowed have love and the ability and opportunity to have children with an average women in today’s society ???

[@Surfing566]

People who are average tend to be with other average people

[@SonyaOutThere]

The average woman is older, overweight, and has kids. So yes, that’s all a bus driver around 35+ years of age in this country can typically hope for. He cannot opt for someone in great shape, makes her own money, and has options with higher earning men.

[@mollesmart]

The problem is the money and also the lifestyle. Trashy, cheating, abusive and no ambition those are the traits we women run away from.

[@mtngrl5859]

I have a clients who are a bus driver couple & their combined income is around 195k/year. I sold them a home-I'm a Realtor- about 6 years ago for $600k. Clearly they both do overtime in their position, but when they retire they'll have around 140k in retirement income plus a paid off home. So, while it's not a high status job, it can be a solid income.

[@9darshana]

And A.I won't be complaining in the comment section like real men for driving the bus. A.I would do their job and stfu!! Yay!! 😂😂

[@Melaninmagicx]

Hi Ashera, what do you think of 9ether beings?

[@m3l0nL3M0N]

A Bus driver can do miles on Iyanla's forhead. NO 🕶

[@CompleteBeauty09]

Recognize a pimp when you see one... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sunnyrobinson2128]

I would spend that 💰 to Sheraseven vs D'Nieka or Melanie King that would be a great one‼️💥

[@kday9438]

❤❤❤ IT !!!!!!!!!!

[@leonoralicious]

Did shera get on tiktok since or am i following fake accounts on tiktok

[@kristinathomas1]

Shera does not have tiktok and says she will never have tiktok because that’s not the platform for her and the viewers are too young. She says she was on tiktok a long time ago and she encountered ppl who argued with her because they aren’t ready for her message.