COUPLE SHARES ENGAGEMENT STRUGGLES

[@lauradohm7522]

Ya girl just wanted to get down The aisle😂 I heard the same thing Tori🤣

[@abio.195]

Tori, I LOVE your FAITH about not stressing about the prediction of RAIN. Which eventually didn't happen.

[@ToriAndChad]

YESSS!!!

[@suziedeschene5069]

All I want for Christmas is the wedding video. PLEASSSSEEEEEEE

[@jenasisortega2851]

I would love to hear about your premarital counseling and other advice!! Love your videos💕

[@mikaelasundt3117]

Yesss

[@estefaniaramirez6626]

do they did a video later about this? Im new to the channel and Im interested too. :)

[@kgothatsomosweu7358]

I've been binge-watching your videos for a week (I've been a subie for 2 years, I'm catching up on the videos I've missed and the videos I have watched but feel the Lord leading me to watch). The sit-down videos have been really helpful. I thank the Lord for you guys

[@tusekilejoy]

Clearly her love language is physical touch😂😂😂

[@selahe4764]

This series is so lovely 😭 You guys are so lovely! The way God is encouraging me through you both is an answer to prayer

[@paigesglittergloss]

y’all are so beautiful and sweet. could you talk about boundaries in dating and engagement? like helpful tips that really helped you two?? thanks for these awesome videos ✨

[@Rhoades24eva]

A really great book about dating with purpose is Holding Hands, Holding Hearts. We also talk about dating boundaries and our experiences with this in our videos, as we made the decision to wait until marriage.

[@clarahanson4942]

Love all of the advice! 💗 I'd love a video on how to prepare for marriage while you're single 🙌🏼

[@alittledisciple4606]

i love how u believed and knew it wouldn't rain. it's very hard to convince other people when u just know but they don't.

[@HelloKeianaS]

Literally LOL-ed at minute 5:10 😳😂😂😂. I love you guys!

[@hanneliebremer7692]

I really love this. I am for sure feeling the struggles of engagement and I've been so hard on myself and my fiancé thinking that engagement is supposed to be this fairytale. Can totally relate to "feeling like you married but not exeriencing the fruits of marriage." We may have to be engaged longer than thought (circumstances related to covid) and it's really taxing.

[@InvisibleMe9330]

Same here. My fiancé has been married before and this is my first time being engaged. It’s definitely not what I thought it was going to be. I thought it was going to be blissful and exciting and it’s just been really hard and we’re definitely going through our rough patches.

[@johannaibolya2510]

yesyesyes would love anything about dating, being engaged & being married!🤩 thank you so much for opening up! you are amazing role models💛

[@mariahfedosov1516]

I just got engaged before Christmas! Thank you guys for making this video. Im going to try and upload my engagement process on my channel as well! Congrats on your marriage 🤗

[@sgwiedenheft]

I always feel so much peace and so much of God's presence watching your videos.

[@Lafilledlapluie]

I appreciate your story so much. The honesty has taken weight off my shoulders

[@TreasureLovely]

You are both such an amazing inspiration for me. You're such a fun couple to watch and your strength in Christianity and faith shows how it could and should be. I love your videos. Thank you for sharing such great things with us ❤

[@camillevalenza1832]

you guys are literally the cutest omg i just love how you talk to eachother!!

[@claudiat232]

I really like everything you guys share with us .Thank you for all the advice ! You definitely are an inspiring couple, God bless your marriaje 🙏

[@annieemalhotra]

Loved this! Totally agree on the engagement period length point. & would definitely love to hear about your pre martial counselling. God bless you two!

[@TheVirtualBelle]

Gosh! This is so timely. I badly need some advice. I cant wait for the next video about finances especially on how you talk about it without awkwardness and pride that whoever has low income wont feel condemned.

[@ellengeorge9471]

You guys are so amazing! I love the way you love God! I am sure God is doing amazing things through you. God bless

[@wilnacordier3721]

God bless you too❤️❤️❤️

[@AndreaFalet]

my fiancé and I totally contemplate getting married in the court house and still having our wedding on November! Can totally relate!

[@charissa6648]

New to the channel!!! I thank you very much for the warm welcome! Praise Jesus for His wonderful grace, love, and wisdom! He Is AWESOME! And so are you (both, ya know; one flesh 😁)! I can feel the joy of the Lord watching you both, and that is so special to me!

[@sharzzie]

Love love love this, truly appreciate your content. God bless you! And We are here to support you!

[@kathrynandtanner3773]

We are just entering this season, so we LOVED watching this. Thanks for sharing, as always

[@mikayawhitehead6014]

Thanks for this video guys! There is so much pressure and expectation around weddings. So encouraging to hear the focus can just be you and God. Blessings

[@MrIce-xq5ci]

Thank you for your videos! They really saved me. You are both awsome! God Bless you guys!🙏

[@chloeadams02]

I just got engaged this past weekend!! Thank you for this video, we will definitely be using y’all’s advice. I love y’all’s relationship and your channel💕

[@clarahanson4942]

Can't wait for the wedding video 😍

[@lizcastlespalace4534]

Love your videos on any topic or style (talk or vlog). I can't wait to watch whenever a video is up! Thank you for sharing about your love for each other and Jesus!

[@JesseAflleje]

We love everything you share...bring it on!!!

[@mthesaint7]

Chad I’m with you man I thought she was saying the same thing😂😂 @5:10

[@tweetylover1970]

Can't wait to see the wedding video 💞

[@jessicacarpenetti6479]

5:08 lol I laughed so hard 😂😂

[@bellasam795]

So funny

[@MinnieMoo48]

Engagement sucks. We've been to pre-marital counselling, we've got everyone's blessing, we know we are committed and ready, we're just waiting on a calender date when people can meet.

[@merylkasie2244]

Gud stuff and very real. U are a real blessing to young couples out there.

[@joshkaye5303]

"Not what I can GET from you, but what I can GIVE to you" - a quote that belongs in the Bible itself (although its still there in essence).

[@karissadole8173]

LOVE all these sit down videos! I have watched so many of your advice videos and it has helped me SO much in understanding life stuff with God incorporated in the conversation! Keep doing what you're doing!! :)

[@sammimata]

Would love vids on how to handle/ discuss all things finances for newlyweds and boundaries!

[@frankyb4249]

would really love to see y'all wedding:)

[@juanavicentfanconi9532]

Loved it! 😘😘 from Spain!!!

[@ellacampbell8619]

Hey y’all!! I’m in love with you guys, your the cutestttt!!! I would love if you guys did a qna talking about future plans and stuff like that etc!! Love you guys!

[@emelynhall87]

I'm engaged at the moment and have been for 3 months, and still have 6 months to go. Engagement is such a tease :( like you're committed to being committed to each other and are constantly talking about the wedding and marriage, but don't get the "benefits", as you said hahaha

[@LillyBrowtteworste]

could y'all start a devotional series or recommend devotionals?

[@Rhoades24eva]

Hi Lauren, there are lots of great free devotional resources like the Youversion Bible app, Faithgateway.com and Biblegateway.com. We did 2 videos on prayer resources and devotional books we love.

[@LillyBrowtteworste]

Rhoades24eva Thank you !’

[@ananyasharma1302]

kinda crying happy tears a little 🙈 Superficially all feels so good but underneath it , there's the real win win suitation .🌟 Loved how humbly you guys walked together , maintened the communication ❤ God bless you guyss 🌟 loveee yaaa

[@alexandriacarter9969]

Hey there! New subscriber here! I cannot tell you how much I have been able to relate to you guys in this series. My fiancé and I have been engaged since June of this year. We were 3 hours away from each other since we met in October of last year, until I moved close to him in August. Funny story about us: we also had a serious conversation after I got very overwhelmed with planning our wedding. We decided we wanted to elope with a very small group of family members. Basically, God said, "No." He was so loud, we could not disobey, even if we wanted to. The week we were supposed to get married, I got COVID and he did shortly after me. However, God showed me just the kind of husband my fiancé would be. Through the sickest part of my life, he cared for me like I had never been cared for. Following being sick, I still chose to move into "our" condo closer to him, while he continued to rent from a friend. Then, he endured a very low mental health point I was experiencing from moving to a new place, being sick, lack of social interaction outside of he and I, not working for a month, etc. He went down into yet another valley with me and we have only come out of it with more of a solid foundation. God is amazing with His timing, truly. We returned to our original plan to have a real wedding in January of next year where we can have a big celebration with family and friends. Although, we are also planning to have a legal marriage for tax purposes in December. Great minds think alike. I say all this to tell you guys thank you for sharing your story with the world. I look forward to watching more of your content. Bless you and your marriage from this girl in Florida.

[@untameyourflame]

haha love your Welllllcommme Tori, just all the happy to be here wholesome vibes :)

[@charlitessier5534]

You guys are such an encouragement! But what are your thoughts on fighting? Do you “fight fair”? Or are you just really good at apologizing?😅

[@Donan95]

Eventually Tori finally got down.............. the alter😂😂😂😂

[@Digiclub101]

😂😂 . Aisle, you made them think that 😆

[@youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884]

No His & Mine...just OURS👌🏾Great decision!!!

[@averylake5974]

would really love more on finances

[@PrettyInGrace]

yes...😇🥰🙌please share the apology vid! Thank u!🙌🙌🙌

[@shaughnsmit2076]

Awesome video guys, thank you so much for sharing with us! Giving me a glimpse of things that I need to be thinking about now already in preparation for marriage :) Praying for you both, for continuous pursuit towards each other like when you first stared dating and that God will reveal some new facet about Himself to each of you individually as well as a spiritual couple together. May you both grow in your gifts and in wisdom each day! and ponder just how extremely much Jesus loves you! P.s thanks Chad for being vulnerable on your recent instagram post, appreciate that you share what God is working on, in your life, makes me think and become more aware what He is working on in my life and it looks different for everybody. Pp.s thanks for reading my short story! haha lol! ;]

[@hoiliswu6070]

Awesome video guy thank you so much for sharing with wedding prayer for both continously

[@iuliagindila463]

Hi. Blessings from Romania. I have a question. You mentioned the fact that you tought about going to City Hall so you can move in toghether. I consider that God blessing is required fot two people so they can consider themselves married. Can two christian people live toghether just after signing the docs but before reciving God blessing on christian wedding ceremony? Sorry for my english! It's not so good! Thank you verry much!!!

[@emerdinelennon3916]

How long was your engagement again???

[@kassimiller8669]

Love this!

[@Melissa_Hoffman]

I would love s video on how you guys handle confrontation! I struggle with this area of my life big time. I really hate confrontation and try to avoid it as much as possible and am a big people pleaser. So I guess just how do I break out of my shell and have a healthy confrontational approach versus hiding or attacking.

[@shalomonyenekwe8695]

Hi I watched a video on this :check out the video how to stop caring what others think on actualized.org KZbin channel! Don't worry it's a process you'll get the hang of it 😉

[@mobashiraakhter977]

Hey tori! I really like your makeup can you plz make a makeup tutorial plzzzz♥️❤️

[@mariacharach6736]

How old were you guys when you got married?

[@codypaulfilms]

Oh my gosh, so cute! Love the intro 💕

[@aurorap.7578]

All of the topics you suggested are yes please share

[@Barelo]

Can You explain to me where the wedding took place? I mean it was outside near some lake and I wonder what one needs to do to prepare for a wedding in a place like this. Was it a public place or some private place? I'm not from America but from Europe and I come from a catholic church so I don't understand how it all works.

[@loveGodforever7]

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and we want to get married after I finish up college at the end of this year. How would you recommend we do premarital counseling when we live over a 1,000 miles apart? BTW love your guys channel God bless you 😊

[@eliceiam_]

I looove the intro

[@suryadisurya9953]

Nice

[@laaaainz]

Who is "Britney" and where can I find that post?

[@untameyourflame]

yesss! that's what I share a lot about, having a good relationship with self/God first your relationship/marriage with the physical other person will match and mirror this

[@chloefischer4143]

Have you guys ever done Dave Rasmey's Financial Peace University?

[@ToriAndChad]

Tori did it! I have read his books and listened to the podcast!

[@dzifianuafi957]

This video I cannot stop laughing

[@good03boy]

I wished that my late older brother would've been more ready/mature enough before he married. The only great thing about his 2 marriages (yes, 2 marriages) was his 3 children. Even my father wished he had been more prepared before he married my mother.

[@myramaria507]

He died young, right? I think we are never prepared to fully love and understand someone, I was never married, but I think we try our best... We learn even to love and understand ourselves... after a long time...

[@good03boy]

@@myramaria507 My brother was 35 when he died. I don't think he was fully committed to being married at all. But, at least he had 3 children (2 daughters and a son) that are healthy and functioning as wonderful people.

[@champgaz]

Can you talk about conflict please?

[@averylake5974]

roll tide

[@jameebelle]

What do you mean you don’t know how they do it LOL they’re not practicing abstinence 💀

[@marinaschuh1165]

Twenty one pilots 4 lyfe

[@elinicolemontero1185]

First 💖💖💖 Love u guys