AFTER 10 YEARS, I HAVE DECIDED TO QUIT MY JOB

[@rayneebranch9690]

I am so happy you get to stay home and raise your baby. There is NOTHING like raising your own child!! If I could have done it, I absolutely would. Thank you for your years of teaching. I pray and hope that the climate of teaching gets better. I volunteered every year my son was in elementary and I would NEVER want to be a teacher. Witnessing how they were treated by students and parents blew my mind!!! Add the crisis of American shootings and I can only imagine the fear. Enjoy your time home!!!! So proud of you!

[@mizzwallace1016]

You go girl! Staying home is the best decision you can make for your daughter.

[@debvw9740]

I left my job when my son was born and I have to say I never regretted it. All for the same reasons. You can't get those precious moments with your daughter and family back. Congrats to all of you!

[@meshallbe]

My husband traveled a lot for work. I made the same decision to stay home . The cost of daycare and what would have been left over helped us make the same decision. That was 30 years ago and I never regretted it. We had no family close by but had great friends who helped .you will not regret this. The sacrifices will be so worth it

[@debras9020]

Congratulations! Being a stay at home mom is the best choice. I am so happy for you. Congratulations Ryan on your new position.

[@michellecope475]

You’ll never regret staying home to raise your kids! Congratulations to you!

[@SystemxXxFailure]

CONGRATULATIONS! The states needs to have better maternity leave! I'm in Canada and I had 18 months off, paid and every right to my job back afterwards. Ultimately I did choose to stay home with my toddler until she starts school and quit my job after the 18 months was over. I think it's great to stay home with your baby! you'll teach her SO much too.

[@sopranomegs]

Yes, thankfully it’s law in Canada that you have to have a job to return to when your maternity leave is over. Less stress on Mama if she decides to return. ❤

[@ST-rj8iu]

Or maybe we should stop giving money to other countries where a one income works to raise a family. Inflation is our problem. We don't need more government spending on social programs that don't work.

[@helenelee3034]

Awe! Congratulations! I taught for 34 years and wasn’t able to stay home with my children, but I retired last year and am watching my 17 mo. and 2 mo. old grandchildren!!🦋

[@debzortiz]

Sooo happy for you! It's so sad that teachers are not appreciated as much as they should. Enjoy your time with your baby girl because time goes by too quickly. Congratulations 🎉

[@ZachandAllison]

Congratulations! Staying home with your baby is the best thing ever! It is what made the most sense for our family too and I wouldn’t have it any other way!!

[@meganeliiizabeth]

I’m still watching, but the first few times you smile and your daughter she turns her head and smirks. It’s so cute to me! Lol

[@lindsayann9856]

Congratulations to you both!!!❤ enjoy that sweet little girl and all those milestones you get to be there for.

[@lisaphillips8955]

Congrats! I am so happy for you. It’s such a blessing to have the time with our babies when they are little. They grow up to fast.

[@miward0528]

I am so happy for your family for doing what is best for you all. Daycare is something that our family utilizes and I think it is important to understand that just because we and others have to utilize it (due to the nature of ours jobs or circumstance) that we do raise our child. Daycare is simply the only village we have to fall back on.

[@adriennemartin763]

I saw the title for this and just felt so much relief for you. Being away from your baby is so hard and you just don't get those early months back! I'm really so happy for you!!

[@amandag7777]

Girl.. enjoy it (: they grow up so fast. I’m so happy for you. I stayed home with all of mine and I’d do it all again🎉🎉🎉

[@OliveandAshley]

I love how much you and your husband prioritize your sweet baby. He loves you both so much that I can see he is so proud to be able to “retire” you as long as you want so you can care for her. I love it!!!

[@hchatt8]

Just throwing this out there for those who are anti-daycare or working outside the house moms: The choice that works best for you and your family is the best choice! I’m a teacher too and love it and need to work outside the house to be a better mom. My 2 kids have been in daycare since 3 months old and they are happy and smart and we have a great bond. Yes it sucks how expensive it is (such is the US) and the sicknesses are inevitable, but they get socialization time and learning and I get to continue to do the career that I love.

Completely understand the decision, daycare is so expensive. It still makes me sad tat it's almost always the mother sacrificing her career for the family. I'm glad you are doing what is best for you.

[@mommingpursuit]

Congrats on this new chapter! It’s a hard decision to make. I wasn’t a teacher but tried the working mom gig for 2 years and decided I personally CANNOT go through the baby stage again while working.

[@mhardy225]

We too made the choice for me to quit my job and raise our kids. We dont regret this decision at all. No amount of money can buy back the impression you will make on providing a safe, loving environment at home for her for the few years shes little. Youre daughter is extremely lucky to have 2 loving parents!

[@sopranomegs]

Awwww this makes me so, so happy for you. 🥰 I started teaching in 2013 too (K-6 classroom music) and stopped after 5 years due to PTSD. You with your cake made me cry. Your husband is so sweet. 😭 Teachers are angels and don’t get enough credit. Thank you for giving 10 years of your life to teaching and enjoy your time with Carson. ❤

[@andir2143]

Hopefully this means time for more videos. Your weekly vlogs were my favorite!

[@LeeTheCatLady]

Yes! Courtney’s vlogs were the best 🫶

[@awins3032]

I am thrilled for you! No one will ever love and take care of your baby like you will as her mother.

[@user-vr6eg1lj8z]

I love this for you! I did exactly the same thing after five years of teaching. After my third child started kindergarten I started to substitute at the elementary school that all three of my kids attended. I got to see my kids during the school days, got paid a small amount, and scratched my teaching itch! It’s been the perfect fit for me and my family. Good luck to you and enjoy the time you get to spend with your sweet baby!

[@shellcshells2902]

So awesome for your precious daughter!!! Congratulations 🎊 ❤❤❤❤

[@katev24]

Aw I love this for you!!! My mom stayed home with my sister and I instead of daycare and it was so nice honestly. You guys seem so happy

[@kutie216]

I am so happy for you! I saw how sad you were in the last vlog and I know it’s hard but it sounds like you are doing what is best for you! I stay home with our 9.5 month old and I wouldn’t change it for the world! You don’t need to feel the need to justify staying home if that’s what works for you. I have nothing against daycare and I used to nanny, but it’s not the right choice for us.

[@rosiesingleton6480]

Good luck to you sweetie- I would back you on any decision you make. My daughter started her journey this year teaching Special Ed. ❤

[@amberfoster8089]

I'm so happy for you, I stayed home for my children's formative years and a little more 😂, no regreats, they are 25 and 21 now and I am years back teaching, best of both words. Enjoy your daughter ❤❤

[@jennarowell1931]

Congratulations 🥳 🎉 This is so sweet! 🤗❤️ Your family is beautiful! The days are long but the years are short and babies don’t keep! So take all the time you want to be home! 🥰

[@thruErinseyes]

I’m so happy for you Courtney and Carson! She needs mama and mama needs her. Stay home and protect that baby this world is crazy nowadays! I adore you as always. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BethBoots]

So happy that you’re able to stay home and raise your beautiful daughter 💕

[@jenniferbutler6797]

I’m so happy for you guys!!! My kids are grown now but I stayed home with them and I’d do it all over again if I had too!!!

[@kriskurt508]

You will never regret one moment staying home with Carson! Congratulations on making this wonderful decision for your family!

[@rigshigs2667]

CONGRATS!! I did the same with our 3 kiddos after working over a decade as a RN….I kept my license and have continued to work very casual around my husbands work schedule. Best decision for our family! Enjoy your little family!❤

[@nessa8679]

You made the best decision for where you guys are at right now in life. Congratulations!

[@audreysews]

My Mama was a stay at home mom and Im so grateful to her for doing that. So many wonderful memories. There is nothing money could buy that would have been better than having my Mama at home with me and my brother and sister. Im so happy that you are doing this Courtney. You're such a good Mama.

[@deborahmitchell1595]

Great decision! I did the same thing back in the old days for the same reason. I had two children but my income wouldn’t have been for daycare only. I went back to work part time when my daughter entered kindergarten. I got off in time to pick the children up from school. Totally worth it. Had to cut back on designer clothes and expensive vacation but that all came back in time. Never missed anything.❤🎉

[@dcneumann]

I tried so long to get pregnant and did not want anyone to raise my child. Best thing I ever did! She’s 28 today ❤

[@Krisxtinax]

So happy for your family. You don’t need to justify your decision because every situation is different. But just wanted to point out that if you did choose to use daycare, it doesn’t mean you’re not raising your kids. For some circumstances and families it is the only choice and that’s ok too!

[@wowzatrishiebunz]

If you can be home and you want to be home, it works! Good for you!!!

[@lilysgram5886]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Good for you and your family. You will never regret your choice. 💞

[@hillarywattenbarger3203]

Love this!! Being home with your baby is the best decision you could ever make for your daughter ❤️

[@catL156]

Well done Courtney this is the absolute best thing you could do for your daughter, being a stay at home mom is not the archaic thing people make it out to be, I chose to do it because I want to raise my children not a crèche and it was the best decision I ever made so much so that I also chose to home educate them and my children are flourishing❤❤❤

[@sarahjohnson9193]

Oh Carson you lucky girl having your mum home! Best decision for your family. We are here if you need anything!

[@Mamaforher]

I honestly don't understand why your videos DON'T get more views. #1 you have overcome so much, #2 you are the sweetest and have the best heart and #3 your content is actually amazing! I'm so proud of yall for making this decision for your family. I waited until my daughter was 7 and finally came home. Now that she is 10 I work 2 days a month as a RN, but my primary job is being the wife, mother and educator to my daughter. Life and priorities change and that is OKAY!

[@courtelizz1]

You are so very kind. I’m just blessed to have such loving people to take this journey with. ❤️

[@elizabethjames549]

Yay! Congratulations enjoy your time with baby❤and family!

[@krissiroberts2721]

Congratulations!!! You will not ever regret staying home. Enjoy every minute, u deserve it!!!!!

[@Gina01117]

I'm so happy that you are going to stay home, raising your daughter! What a gift! Your husband is so supportive! Another Gift! You two make a Beautiful team! 😊😊

[@nancyp4264]

After 11.5 yrs of working at my job, I quit when my son was 1 yr. I tried and tried but ultimately my son is the most important human in my life. And I decided to raise my baby above all else❤.

[@MsLilacLover1]

I'm a Career Nanny of 29 yrs. When you do the numbers, you are correct, it's not worth it. But nothing is wrong with Moms that work full time. It doesnt make you any less than a Mom. After reading comments, I felt the need to say that. Enjoy doing all the fun things with her

[@TheBeautySpectator]

Congrats. You’ve been through it. I watch a lady on TT who quit teaching and is now working at Costco. She’s making more money and so much happier.

[@user-gy1xo3rx6z]

Staying home with your kids is the best thing you will ever do

[@juliand7552]

Aww, im so freaking happy for you and how far you've come. Been watching you for more than 8 years.

[@hollyholstein6758]

Good choice! I was hoping you would make this decision. Your dream has been to be a mom, and now you are! Congratulations and wishing you and your sweet family all the best ❤❤

[@jayv8405]

Congratulations to you both! You will be so happy with this decision. Ryan is awesome for supporting this. I loved your old vlog style videos… your morning breakfast and dinners, and what you were wearing that day… also when you talked about your day. I loved when you uploaded, it was like, let’s see what Courtney is doing and eating this week! Also liked your get ready videos and the recipes you would share. Would love to see more of those style videos and see what you and the baby will be up to! 😊

[@marygrando4089]

So happy you are staying home. You will never regret it. That time is so precious.

[@kymberlyann589]

Thank you for being amazing parents to make this decision!! I know it was bittersweet! You were a wonderful teacher. Although I wasn’t a teacher I decided to not go back to work when my first was born. I did go back to work when my son went back to school. Best decision I ever made. We were able to be closer I didn’t feel some stranger was raising my son and not coming home every other week sick. You made the best decision! Good luck being at a stay at home mommy you won’t regret it! 💗

[@anchovy9405]

❤❤❤ I did the same thing and do not regret it! Loved watching my boy grow, and if you have the luxury to stay home and you want to then more power to you❤️❤️❤️ I worked in early childhood so was in the same field….teachings tough and lacks support from government! Behind you guys all the way!❤️❤️❤️

[@melissaesquivel9190]

I randomly thought about you from 7 years ago since ur tumor wanted to see how you were doing congratulations with your Lil family God bless you❤

[@MsV405]

YAY! So happy for you! Best decision for the whole family! I'd love to see everyday vlogs and I always like to watch cooking.

[@Renbow81]

Congrats! My husband and I came the same conclusion when our daughter was born (back in 2011). We are/were very grateful and fortunate to have the ability for me to be at home with her. Child care is soooo ridiculously overpriced. You are going to LOVE being at home and catching all those milestones!🎉

[@donnahart8323]

It was hard following this video due to that adorable baby! She’s so stinkin cute!! You made the best decision. I stayed home with my son the first four years. Treasure it, it goes by so fast. ❤

[@skipthecultureshock5474]

You have made the right choice! You can't get those all important baby years back and your daughter will thrive under your care! I am from Canada and I had my babies 30 years ago. At that time I got 6 months paid maternity leave. Canadian mothers today get 18 months paid maternity leave. Both you and your baby deserve that time together. You will not regret it. ❤❤❤

[@moriganna67ify]

I am so happy for you all. Courtney this is great. Spending time with Carson will be so fulfilling. 😊❤

[@claudiaflores9890]

So happy with your decision! Like you said it’s an investment in family ❤ love to see more day to day vlogs, makeup and beauty videos as well.

[@KimKong1011]

Congratulations to both of you! I don't blame you one bit. That cake looked delicious and Ryan seems like a sweet husband and father. So happy for you!! What a journey you've been on.

[@Tonimaroni2BeKindToAnimals]

Yay! I was a stay at home mom for my three strong gorgeous daughters. A lawyer, teacher and environmental scientist. There is no guarantee on how children will ultimately turn out but at least you know you gave it 100% ❤❤❤

[@angelawatkins2637]

Congratulations! You will never regret the time you spent with your precious baby! Congratulations to Ryan on his job changes!

[@Ariesbuddha]

I was a stay at home mum and I loved it so i 10000000% support you and can promise you you've made the best discision, life's short anything can happen I know but time with your baby growing up is irreplaceable so I'm so so pleased for you sweetheart ❤️ xxxxxxxxxxxxx

[@jadebur]

Totally understand your decision. It's so worth it. I raised 5 kids, and due to the price of childcare , it was cheaper for me to stay home. Money was tight over those years. But it was so worth it. I wouldn't have wanted to be anywhere else. 🙂

[@alwayscleanalwaysneat9533]

So so happy for you both but I’m super happy for Courtney! Happy you are blessed with health and Ryan and Carson! Live your best life girl. ❤

[@debbieg8260]

You don’t have to explain to anyone your decisions in life. But thanks for sharing. I personally think if you can stay home with your baby then do it!!!! They grow up so fast. Cherish every day!!

[@orc1459]

So happy for you!! glad you get to be safe at home with your little one!

[@karenkingrey6142]

Congratulations Courtney!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 You deserve this time so much!!! Hope the new job works out and your family is greatly blessed!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@artistforlife]

Had the same daycare debate myself 20 years ago, literally the same conclusion - what I made after daycare might have covered groceries and that's it. Good for you and your lucky child!

[@ElaineSharon358]

You have made a great decision to stay home with Your sweet girl. You have such a lovely family ❤

[@KristenEstrada-wb8hn]

Congrats!!! Being a stay at home is so rewarding and such a privilege ❤ Enjoy baby Carson!!

[@kellismetana3720]

Yeah!!!🩷🩶🩷 Congratulations BEAUTIFUL!!!🩷🩶🩷 Enjoy every bit of this time with your family!!!🩷🩶🩷 You deserve it!!!🩷🩶🩷🩶🩷🩶🩷🩶🩷🩶🩷🩶🩷

[@suzynmichelle]

You both are so sweet! You should post more on social media because of the marriage and bond you have between you.. let others see and look at you both as a inspiration and a goal.. you have hardships but you have been there for one another through them all.. congrats to you Courtney on your "retirement" and Ryan on your promotion! I was one who had mentioned to you that you should take a leave and stay home and enjoy being a mommy.. these are precious times, although they all are ❤ i personally do NOT trust daycare what so ever!! I have heard and witnessed way to many things and even at Christian facilities😢 so yes Mommy stay home with your baby girl🩷 enjoy every second with her🩷

[@dee20221]

This is amazing! I'm a speech pathologist and I quit after having my baby as well!! Being home for your baby is the most important thing you could do ❤

[@courtelizz1]

Thank you so much for what you did as a speech pathologist. I'm still eternally grateful for the one that worked with me after surgery.

[@dee20221]

@courtelizz1 Yes, I started following you around that time! Your recovery has been inspiring. Thank God you get to experience being a mother 🙌 my son is 1 💙

[@makeupqueen130]

Congratulations!! I'm so happy you guys made made this choice. It really sounds like what's best. ❤

[@KaseyK-je8vi]

I love just regular day in the life stuff. Seeing you make your meals and eat would be awesome, it would feel like a throw back. 😂

[@melrose795]

Good for you Courtney and Ryan! Courtney, congrats on 13 years! Thank you for pouring into young kiddos, teaching is such a blessing and investment, you are appreciated! I am so surprised to hear you had to go unpaid for maternity leave, what?? Wow..Unbelievable..Also sorry to hear of your lack of other support on the job and for a lack of a send-off..Makes me mad!!! 😠 Didn't know about the shooting and man, the fact that they did not alleviate the safety problem is unbelievable...Good for you for making the best decision for yourself and family for all the factors involved..Congrats Ryan for the promotion in the long term, well done...May the time go by very quickly while you are away..Ryan, you seem the most supportive and loving husband, thank you for being a good example..Courtney, you are a loving Mama and sweet and kind woman...God bless you both and keep all in continued good health and strength in every way.. Love and virtual hugs from the East Coast..❤❤❤❤❤

[@leeannemarrey]

Wishing you and your family the best!! You have made the best decision for your family, following you a few years and love your videos, would lovely to see more weekly vlogs like you used to do when you lived at home with your Mom, and maybe 1 upload a week might not be so challenging for you then say daily vlogs etc..

[@kikibe1960]

Somehow I had thought you would make that decision! Congratulations 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@EZBriezyBeautiful]

Awesome! Time to start vlogging I miss seeing your breakfast videos , the tried and true tomatoes and onions 😂

[@LE123LE123]

I totally understand. Congrats to Ryan on his promotion. 😊

[@prettypuff1]

I was pretty much at home with my son full time until he was 5… I really enjoyed it very much and he did too… I did local programs with library to get him exposed to other kids. We did do many things together…. Y’all are so cute; favorite KZbinr for years!!! ETA-Ryan is so sweet and hilarious for the cake 😅🎉

[@gigieyre]

I stayed home with both my children. My sister taught school while raising all three of her children. You do what works best for you. Life is short. Enjoy every minute you can.

[@janadickey4378]

So happy for you! The baby is so good...and adorable!

[@amielawson8344]

Congratulations! Being home with your baby is the best thing ever!

[@JaneDoe-fz9he]

Im glad this was a mutual decision for whats best for your family. ❤

[@1day4u64]

Congratulations to both of you and all the best for your beautiful family.

[@9384cows]

If you are able to stay home jump at the chance. I was a single mom to 2 and had to work. I regret it so much. I had no choice and they liked to eat. Not being there for them when they were little was very hard. I still feel guilt after 50 years. Enjoy your little one. 👍💖

[@waynerullan9467]

Great decision Courtney and Ryan! My daughter and I also had the privilege of being stay home moms! Enjoy because it goes by so fast. (Mrs)

[@kimfarris2882]

So happy for you, enjoy every minute, it goes by way too fast! My baby is 13, and I feel like it was yesterday he was a baby 😂 I just love your little family and have followed you from the beginning.....

[@lesliestephens5061]

Congratulations you deserve the break and to be with your beautiful baby girl I hope you enjoy all the time in the world with her they grow up so fast cherish every moment we would all love to see more day in the life vlogs from you ❤ and see that beautiful girl more happy retirement!!!!

[@kaybeauty2134]

Alright now I def understand especially giving all you went through that time u can’t get back ❤