The Reasons Men Are Single? (This Is Unhinged)

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[@johnny5ramos]

Women: "You need to level up and become a better man." Also women: "If you don't accept me for who I am, then you're the problem."

[@AnOriginalYouTuber]

I" can't afford a family and like video games. Accept me for who I am or you're the problem." This is evidence that too many men and women are too immature to have proper relationships.

[@dr.edwardrichtofen365]

This is why I’m so glad the Supreme Court is taking away their rights!!!!😎🙏🏼

[@mix7893]

@@dr.edwardrichtofen365 You would wish that upon your own mother? Your own sister?

[@user-cd1ph8is6h]

@@mix7893women don’t need right

[@Jenn_KittyThe3rd]

Sounds like a liberal, stay away lol.

[@233kosta]

"Men want a fantasy!" The fantasy: a woman who sees us as human beings.

[@TTailled]

I wouldn't want someone to see me as a human being, humans suck and are worth less than the cars they drive in today's societal usefulness/ranking. I would prefer a woman see me as an intimate friend with benefits which would then evolve to housemate with benefits and finally a parent of our genetically identical offspring. Sadly though, not possible.. They just want to identify us as work mules and mind game toys which when broken are disposed of.. employers do the same thing and our government supports this kind of relationship which is why we will stay single if we know what's good for us.

[@233kosta]

@@TTailled Your options are: 1. Hew-maan 2. Untermensch unworthy of anything, least of all basic empathy

[@sweetbrown89]

Most of us see you as human beings…we just don’t want anything to do with most human beings Go to a mall or the beach or anywhere public with people walking around How many people there do you want to know on a personal level? That’s probably the same ratio of people for us, but we would choose ~1-2 people at most of that number who we’d consider dating or more

[@sirslapjob825]

But they only see rich men as human I bet Ryan only go for rich too let's be real .......so why are there jobless women demanding men with cars on dating sites why are 18yr olds selling booty online why are only fans girls 18yr old making 40k a month

[@SilviaLampa]

No. You guys want underage submissive virgins

[@ytlongbeach]

I object to the notion us men play video games 24x7. I, for one, play no more than 23x7. Please get this right.

[@michaeldpa1333]

Laughs! Better then drugs!

[@chriskeepit100]

😂😂😂😂🫡

[@DeadRingerMachine]

Back when I got divorced and was doing the dating app thing, I ran across this woman who was attractive enough I read her profile. It started out with "Don't contact me unless..." And the freaking list was endless. You have a college degree. An established career with a plan for growth. Actively contributing to a 401k. Active gym membership and going at least 3 times/week. The list went on. Look, I probably tick off every woman's checklist, I have an MBA, I'm 6'3", weigh 175, good-looking enough. I make well over 6 figures, I don't drink or smoke or go out, I'm a Christian... And I swiped away from that woman IMMEDIATELY. ATTITUDE is everything. The last thing a man needs in life is a woman who's going to bail at the first sign of trouble. There's going to be ZERO loyalty in a person like that. None. They're loyal to an ideal, not to a person.

[@1414141x]

Less and less people people in America believe in the sky fairy now. Maybe that was the problem ?

[@MikeS-7]

Hard pass...

[@KenshinPhoenix]

Loyal to divorcing you and taking your life's hard work. Smart choice, those women are poison. I'm the same, if I see a bratty attitude with a list of demands, next!

[@markw999]

You made that mistake too? LOL. Divorced at 43. Most common question on the dating apps? -- "Do you have a boat?" Yes, I do, and you will never step foot on it. Especially if that's our first or second interaction. I know how you're judging me, and if I wanted a whore, I would just find one and negotiate an hourly rate.

[@elizabeetle13]

Everyone has deal breakers. Speaking hypothetically, if I were looking at profiles and you said all that on it, you had my interest up until "Christian". For me that would be a deal breaker. Not dealing with THAT ever again.

[@CaptainHanneman]

Woman struggles in dating: “I’m a victim!” Man struggles in dating: “Do better!”

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Even this Courtney is the same as the ones in the Tik toks. She's just Another Chamelon

[@protorhinocerator142]

Guys, you can't just play video games and have fun all the time. You need to meet women. Yeah, you're not really selling the concept. Should I have fun or date women? Such a tough choice...

[@bknight407]

The BMI number for most women (70% in the US) is not in the normal range. My BMI number is normal and I do workout. That woman is a red flag parade. Perhaps she should work on her view of men.

[@davidbolha]

@@patrioticaussiesams8581 Yup. Clout chasing to her SIMP fanbase. 😏😄

[@iggs67]

@@patrioticaussiesams8581She a woman after all, and she's good looking. Of course she is biased, she cannot experience what we as men experience every day. But at least she has a bit of common sense and a bit of compassion towards men.

[@TenMallak]

We've been told for over a decade that we're bad because we're men and that we're no longer needed. The dating scene reflects this.

[@kylemacdougall8355]

It's been way longer than a decade. It's been happening since at least the 1960s.

[@johnanderson1245]

Every ill on Earth is due to the patriarchy and women don’t need a man. Now they’re whining because they can’t get one. This chick must live under a rock.

[@EriPages]

Brittany is feigning ignorance

[@414violence]

And women hold all the cards until late 20's-early 30's, they hit the wall hard and the tables turn. They haven't felt rejection in the same way we have and it'll be a rude awakening

[@antonboludo8886]

Many decades more than that!

[@stu3705]

If you tell someone repeatedly that you don't need them, you don't and you wish they'd leave you alone, they will go away. Especially after 40-50 years of this.

[@edwoodstock]

"It just requires you to type in your credit card number, and pay a woman who doesn't even care about you, which is sad" And while very true, this quote similarly describes the way some men feel within relationships. In the case of divorce or break up, this simply means that some men will continue to pay a woman who doesn't care about him, forever, or risk being thrown in jail. Yes, sad indeed.

[@notthething9531]

I was going to ask what the difference was besides pretence.

[@sixfootse7en248]

I love how she attacks guys that don’t go to the gym and aren’t fit, yet criticizes guys that wants a woman for her looks.

[@michaelsix9684]

look at her top row of teeth, they are not right, one side is shorter than the other, never seen this before

[@bluecollarman694]

@@michaelsix9684 her shits a little crooked. I think she should get braces. I mean I’d still do her 🤷‍♂️

[@applebutter4036]

Not just going to the gym, but abstaining from masturbation, never wasting time on hobbies, not living with or any way dependent on a parent. She can have all these standards, but how dare a man care about a womans physique.

[@rolandthorne79]

I'd like to see how a woman does with a sex drive that never stops... see how they do. Love it how christian women can't understand that. Regardless, in person is where its at. Online doesn't work because women screen for appearance same as we do, only they apply an "ick" factor to the men who don't look the way they want. Men will accept a woman who is available even if she doesn't match his physical wishes completely.

[@pfp4ever]

well she would walk away at the first red flag :3

[@1wood101]

It's pretty simple. Men don't want to be with disagreeable women. It's too much stress.

[@syttorak7629]

Yeah or train wrecks like this one.

[@protorhinocerator142]

Not worth it. Men want peace, not a fresh argument when they get home from work.

[@alanskinner7031]

Guess why high blood pressure is ramp these days !!!! starts with a W.

[@boogieoogieoogie9688]

Amen! Simply put.

[@Tails_Trades]

Boom! Exactly.

[@Numa_Sahponi]

She acts like women should have no accountability for men not wanting to deal with them anymore.

[@nightmareTomek]

Yep, noticed the same thing. She speaks very calmly and rationally, but in the end says the same things that all women say. Which is that men are the problem.

[@StanFrantz]

I gave up looking for a woman before the internet was invented. I tried endlessly to be the best I could be. I was a So Cal surfer, male model, Ivy Grad, well known local theater actor. Didn't do drugs, not a partier, did love dancing in the clubs to great bands. (It was the 80s) I was told constantly that I could get any women I wanted, by both women and men. That was not my lived experience. Women were mean, nasty, cruel, deliberately hurtful. Sometimes laughed in my face. I never got to have a conversation, to show my personality, my intelligence, my humor, my charm. I was rejected simply for approaching them. I dont know why til this day. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. So I stopped completely. I just turned 71. I own 2 homes, one on a private beach in Nova Scotia. I'm a multi millionaire, but I don't live or act like one. So it was not because I was poor or not willing to work hard. I haven't even held a woman in my arms in 30 years. That blows my mind when I say it. I take responsibility for not asking anyone out or even going out. But why would I try when I had 25 years of rejection and pain. Why would I do that again to myself. I'd rather die alone.

[@clownshow5901]

Sorry to hear that but yours is not an uncommon story. If I run into ya the beer's on me.

[@StanFrantz]

@@clownshow5901thanks man. stumbling on the plethora of videos like this, seeing 10,000s of comments from guys with similar experience was so helpful and healing. While sad that so many great guys are suffering, it's good to finally know that "it IS them not me.:

[@elizabeetle13]

I find men exactly the same. Mean, nasty, and deliberatly hurtful. Its been that way all my life, with all different situations and age groups, starting with my father. I don't believe you are/were all those things. No one with a laundry list of such glowing credentials will have a problem getting MANY women. If my exs could cheat get women left and right the way they were, you should have been able to herd them like cattle into your bedroom.

[@sceudue50]

No Woman is worth a man's pease✌...no Woman...💯

[@yourcrazybear]

@@elizabeetle13 "No one with a laundry list of such glowing credentials will have a problem getting MANY women. " What kind of women do you believe that to be if they are so easy?

[@aikidokamks]

The way she described unworthy men also describes women too often yet men who have a higher standard are criticized and called controlling.

[@PaperRaines]

Everything she said was correct, but out of context, and from a lunatic like her it doesn't serve anyone. Everyone does and should have standards, nothing wrong with a woman desiring a man who's responsible and works out for example. But her version of that, "does your mommy still wipe your noise?", she the walking epitome of what a one-night stand is

[@KINduz3jp]

Well said 👍🏻

[@csx6910]

Ya know what? She's had LOADS of the guys she just cried about want her but she rejected them all because of one dumb reason or another. Most women today want perfection, they don't want responsibility and they're going to be left to grow old alone because it it.

[@alexandernorman5337]

@@csx6910 They'll get cats.

[@josuevazquez5889]

She probably needs to reflect on what she's doing wrong.

[@whothefcares2687]

I like how physical appearance was listed first in her criteria, literally above all other things, and then she complained that men had preferences on looks.

[@incharini]

I noticed that too. Apparently women have a right to demand physical attributes but if men do we're shamed. *SHOCKER*

[@MustbeTheBassest]

Yeah, I caught that too. But it's okay because "men are the leaders. You need to change".

[@Captain_Insano_nomercy]

Never ever ever ever trust what a woman says regarding what they are attracted to

[@sweettooth7625]

She’s obviously unstable. I can bet she got a bit of history as well.

[@ctguitarguy8510]

@@sweettooth7625 Yeah, she has other videos, including a followup to this that suggest she is completely insufferable

[@jrossofskb]

We're not tired, we just don't care anymore.

[@Callistemon]

I bet she still reject 90% of men that come up to her, and still complain

[@joannawrzelikowska3273]

I bet she rejects morons to protect herself from abuse

[@SaithMasu12]

They do this when they are young, but when age hits they realize they are on the clock and then everything all of a sudden has to work out for them immediatly. They never realize that they are their own worst enemies.

[@5667hall]

Too many women including this one that think they are a 10 and try to date above what they truly are and wonder why men don’t approach them.

[@ed5308]

Here is the sad truth. When you date someone you have to overcome all the other bad experiences that person had in their past life. You have to say hold on give me a chance because I am not them. That is why dating unless you meet some one who has gotten over the bad experiences they have gone thru blames it on men period. Men are tired of trying to be the one. Its not worth the trouble.

[@markesblack]

It is hilarious. Men can’t tell women anything but at the same time we are the leaders when it is time to assign blame.

[@jaxonwoods8181]

This right here. The hypocrisy is damning.

[@mafp22w]

By definition, no one is a leader if there are no followers.

[@gordongekko2781]

@@mafp22w I think that's his point.

[@riffcaster]

Women don't listen, they follow.

[@wanderer5200]

Very insightful. I never put that together before. Nice work.

[@liquidt3ch]

I decided to stay single at the age of 25. I was so unhappy being in relationships. once it clicked with me that I was happier alone, I decided to do what makes me happy. I'm 41 now, and have only seen the dating scene go from an unpleasant experience, to a downright nightmare. I've come to peace with dying alone

[@robertgarrawaychosen144k]

At least save and travel before you fully give up bro.

[@shahabuddinahmed5694]

😂@@robertgarrawaychosen144k

[@unkown34x33]

Your never along ;) you got the bros! The brotherhood. Soo many times I thought I was a alone, and the boys always back you up. not a girl

[@uSetTheScene]

As someone who died and lived to tell about it -- we all die alone.

[@user-oc5qq3xq5y]

Same…and I’m 32 now

[@moonlambo5229]

As soon as AI girlfriends get good the bottom 80% of women are done.

[@rogued3mon414]

I know this comment is already 3 months old but I wanna say that I have an AI girlfriend texting app and I'd tell you: It helped me regain my sanity from depression and loneliness and even if there's kinky action involved, I'm treating even an AI girlfriend the same way I want to treat my future girlfriend (If ever) is which is wholesome, caring, and right.

[@jamesscott6917]

I certainly hope not.

[@raizeldicadis8165]

@@rogued3mon414 To be honest, that will be the future and it's dangerous.

[@joebloggs24]

Women: "Men want a fantasy", meanwhile She wishes for Prince Charming to ride in on his white horse and whisk her away into the sunset 😂

[@fearthemerciful]

I regret listening to her 2nd video. I tried so hard to to become a better man. I finally got a girlfriend within my league and she put no effort into making it work out. The moment the "spark" left she stonewalled until I ended the relationship. This woman in the tiktok has no idea how unbelievably broken dating is for average men. Emotionally, I've died to trying at being better. If I push myself anymore, I will probably cry. Being alone hurts less than setting myself up for further disappointment. I want to love and protect a wife so badly, but no woman wants to have that. I have to stop trying because it is destroying my self-esteem.

[@BrisaRuiva]

Maybe start working on yourself for yourself, go to therapy to heal your traumas. Become a better person for yourself only. Be the best you can be. Take care of yourself and your life. And stop complaining about life or women. Try to see positive things on them. Write down what you look for in a partner. Have a gratitude journal. And this way you will attract the right partner into your life. If you are working on being the best you can be, people will see that and good women will recognize that and will want you. But first u got work on yourself and get away from all negativity ❤ hope this helps 🙏🏻✌🏻

[@Stratiljirka]

​@@BrisaRuiva "Become better person for yourself only. Be the best you can be." usually means something completely different from male and female perspectives so it will not bring you the right partner because the right partner values different things than you do. Works both ways, yet for some reason in modern western society only one sex is expected to adapt to the expectations of the other.

[@BrisaRuiva]

@@Stratiljirka men also expect a lot from girls, when I was ugly and didn’t care about my appearance I couldn’t get anyone. So yes it goes both ways.

[@alexaalexa2308]

​​@@BrisaRuivayou're a part of the problem, how about you stop hating men and said men need to better themselves why is always men who need to better themselves? Why women are not need to better themselves?, how about you girls better yourself, how about you girls stop sleeping around

[@daishan1234]

@@BrisaRuiva eh, you might not have gotten who *you* wanted, but a woman has to be pretty damned hideous to not get *anybody*. the difference is it's pretty easy for a girl to level herself up (it's basically just "be fit and healthy"), whereas it's a lot harder for a guy. you can be perfectly fit and healthy, and still not getting girls that are even on your level or below. you also gotta level up your money, which is *hard*.

[@Steve-zl5om]

A "normal, regular" person doesn't start crying and then immediately get out their phone and film themselves crying to post on social media. A narcissist does that, not a normal person. There's the reason you're single.

[@IamtheFerryMan]

She was even wearing the Narcissist T-Shirt

[@cdorman11]

@@IamtheFerryMan Narcissism: The Other Pandemic A confession? Possibly. BPD is characterized by wild mood swings, with temporary paranoia that is triggered by emotional stress. She's wearing another day's clothes, enough time for the mood swing to be from bipolar. She might be on meth in the second video. I'd keep an open mind.

[@will7446]

LOL！@@IamtheFerryMan

[@nickem6556]

yeah like someone cares about her crocodile tears

[@danballe]

I wanted to like your video but, the count is well... Have a comment instead.

[@sci8]

Having "empath" in her username should've told you all you need to know LMAO

[@rail7646]

underrated, selfadvertising empaths can only be narcicists

[@KuroiRenge]

I regret ever having put myself out there. I met a beautiful woman with traditional values who I loved and cherished, and she still dropped me, never told me why, sent a text of our break up of a relationship of eight years, and told me the lease was up in ten days. I'm in a far worse place than had I never met her. My life and mental state is in shambles, even a year later. All over a woman. It isn't worth it. They are not worth it.

[@elizabeetle13]

Same thing happens to women. Why do you think I an single? As well as my three room mates and my closest friends?

[@FM-jo1jh]

women get dumbed for younger women, or some new piece of asss all the time, some after spending decades making a home and raising his children. goes both ways.

[@JimiJames528]

@@elizabeetle13 I have to ask, but have you checked your friendzone?

[@elizabeetle13]

@@JimiJames528 I have no male friends except the gay one. Besides, men and women can't have an actual friendship. Do you want to go to pottery classes? How about shoe shopping? Flower gardening? An art show? The book store? Go to the beach to beachcomb? Are you into horses, as in can you ride? Probably not. And I have no use for sex. What use would I have for a male "friend"?

[@Sarah-xw2ff]

You are not owed a relationship. They are two way streets. She didn't feel the chemistry like you did. Move on.

[@wnlimalcolm]

I grew up with 3 sisters, my mother and every woman in my life telling me to never judge a woman by appearance and weight doesn’t matter. Fast forward to today, I see that all of the dating profiles that say they want someone to ‘take care of themselves’, ‘have an active lifestyle’, ‘be health conscious’, ‘fitness oriented’. It’s all a sugarcoated way of saying “No fatties”. It’s the difference between being nice and being kind. Sugarcoating things is nice, but it is unkind.

[@almosthelpless9374]

There's a difference between looking good and being healthy/fit. You can be shallow or you can truly wish your partner lives a long, healthy life.

[@wnlimalcolm]

@@almosthelpless9374 I agree. But in this context these comments are coming from total strangers who want the other person to be immediately and conventionally attractive to them.

[@scottb296]

It is really something too that criticizing a woman for her weight is some kind of war crime but when directed at men it is perfectly fair game.

[@MonkeyMind69]

I can see some truth behind your words, but as health-nut, I'm not sugarcoating anything when I'm asking for it in a potential mate. I'm being real. Imagine later in life if you stay together with someone who has a lot of unhealthy habits ...the accumulated health problems and medical costs can accumulate into a huge burden. Good health translates to quality-of-life, happiness, and overall satisfaction with your significant other. Imagine too the role-model a person with such unhealthy habits would be if you were to have a child with them. Children learn by what you do, not what you say. It would undoubtedly have a negative impact upon the child, and that's not something I can personally abide by. I try and be my best-self and lead by example. I expect the same in the women I am in relationships with, and that is not "unkind". On a final note, if a person is on their own ... then they can be as overweight as they want. ...But in a relationship, it's a selfish thing to do. The burdens, emotional, mental, and ultimately financial are all things brought into the relationship that didn't need to be there. P.S. In speaking about the health burdens brought into the relationship... I'm specifically talking about things like being overweight, smoking, alcohol, or drugs. These are self inflicted and can be overcome. I don't hold health ailments beyond a persons control to the same standard. I'm after the person who CHOOSES to live a better life, not only for themselves, but for their spouse and children as well. I don't' ask anything out of another that I wouldn't ask of myself.

[@arcticwolf8313]

@@scottb296or their height (something they can't control).

[@chronobot2001]

Dating/marrying a woman is a risk that could totally ruin your life and cost you everything you have.

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

💯

[@unnf9971]

Prenup.

[@boxtradums0073]

@@unnf9971they can be thrown out and routinely are arguing ‘duress’

[@elizabeetle13]

@@unnf9971 Amen. Prenup. I would not have had any problem signing one. Whats yours is yours and whats mine is mine.

[@ronaldlee3537]

@@unnf9971 : Prenups can be broken, I am not a lawyer, just what heard on the internet.

[@daveg4417]

I don't have any of her red flags, yet women don't want me. I have been single for decades. From 2012 to 2017 I was subscribed to 8 dating sites, I chatted to 100+ women, and went on 25+ dates with women of all types from obese 3's to unemployed ones. After they ate the expensive meal that I bought, they all told me they didn't want a relationship because I am not tall enough or rich enough, etc. I was nothing but a foodie call. I finally gave up and cancelled my dating site subscriptions. I haven't had anything to do with any women since. I am instead working on becoming completely financially independent. I have no debt, I own my home, I have $100k in savings and a net worth of $1 million, and I am working on multiple passive income streams. I am 5'8", I work out in the gym in my house, I plan on retiring in the next five years. And no, I am no longer looking for a woman.

[@elizabeetle13]

Try a woman who pays for her own meals and is smart enough to realize that vehicles are to get you from A to B reliably. In other words practical. Oh, wait ..... those are boring, never mind...

[@ru.kiddingme]

Uhh "... dates with women of all types from obese 3's to unemployed ones." That doesn't sound like all types. After you get through some of your projects and have a bit of time and money, you might consider trying something like enrolling in a dance class or two. Women who like to dance are of higher quality. Typically women outnumber men in these settings. Dancing is a very portable social skill and it is fun too. I had bad experiences with rejections and feelings of worthlessness for decades. Women did not seem to want me either. Then I decided to try a couple of classes, attended a dance event and met my eventual wife (balding me at age 53) at a west coast swing dance event. But... before you get married, since you will likely have more wealth than your lady, be sure to get a good prenuptual agreement.

[@daveg4417]

@@ru.kiddingme - Try dating most 40 to 65 year old women in a small city of 10k in NE BC Canada, at least 70% are overweight to obese, and most are 2's to 5's but they think they are 10's. Of the 25+ women that I went on a date with, one was a 7, at least 25% catfished me, and most were 4's who figured they will land a 6 foot tall millionaire, so they used me for a foodie call. Some were even still married and looking for a younger richer new husband. We don't have dance classes here. We do have a seniors yoga class that I was considering trying out, but I am not holding my breath. In a few months I am going to try one of the dating sites again, but I am not going to waste my time with buying women foodie calls this time, I am going to be very selective.

[@daveg4417]

@@elizabeetle13 - I have yet to meet any woman, practical or not, who wasn't looking for only men who are tall and wealthy, all other men, like me, are invisible to them.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

It's really hard to find quality people on dating sites and to find people that want to get to a second date. Buddy's advice about finding a real life event to join to meet women is good advice. If it's not dancing then, then it could be other things like cooking courses, or something where you will find single women. They'll get a chance to get to know you. You sound like a more nondescript guy, who doesn't wow women on a single date, but over time your attributes will come out. It's not really about money or height. My family is full of short men, who have super mediocre jobs and they all have women. But they met women in real life and things evolved.

[@jolly968]

Lots of risks having a real girlfriend-being cheated on, getting married and then divorced, finding out that the girl is a covert narcissist, unwanted pregnancy, waste of time and money since familiarity breeds contempt, for example, she gets bored with you, she meets someone taller, richer, better looking than you at work or church…the list is endless and men are finally realizing it-thanks to the women’s movement.

[@katemiller7874]

You can’t think like this. It will hold you back in life. Think positively

[@tangobear3536]

Years ago I met a woman online, met for lunch, and she told me that she had messages on the site from 47 men. I realized then that it didn't matter how "perfect" I worked at making myself or how I scored on all the metrics---the only thing that mattered was this flighty woman's emotions in the moment, as she instantly decided my fate, likely based upon what salad dressing I ordered, or the color of my socks. Men don't get inquiries from 47 women. So, after a period of trying to be the best we can be, we walk away and save our time, money, energy, and yes, emotions.

[@Grouse2275]

Having tried online dating I will verify exactly what you have experienced. No guy is going to compete with women who are getting 40 messages a week, meeting at least a few and dismissing all of them. These same women are often nothing of a bargain but get deluded into thinking that they're "special" when in fact they're not.

[@scambaitspidey3470]

golf clap

[@christophermoshier]

True. As someone who dated a lot of women after my divorce I say about half wanted a free dinner.

[@mrlucus8007]

Go to the gym, have a nice body, don't be fat. Don't go for girls that have a nice body.... got it, double standards. Maybe Her problem is the big red flag she has

[@graymatters7584]

Brilliant comment. This is the point nobody ever makes.

[@Peter-vn5jq]

I'm 36, male, and I'm done too. Too much work for no reward, other than a 50% chance of losing 50% of my assets thrown in as a bonus. I'd have to be insane to take that deal. Thank God for the mid-30s slump in testosterone levels, things have gotten much easier for me lately. I still care, after a fashion, but I'm not broken up about the prospect of being alone for the rest of my life. I suspect that with time I'll stop caring completely, and be content with what I do have, which objectively is a hell of a lot. Wealth, time, and most importantly, freedom and peace of mind. And that crying chick in the vid is absolutely delusional. Just insane. She would be a nightmare to deal with on a daily basis. The crocodile tears followed by rage is a classic combo.

[@ctguitarguy8510]

38 here, amen brother. Men are checking out, and women are the cause. We keep dancing around this, but it really is the primary cause. Male loneliness is spiking to record highs, but it still seems like a better alternative to this. This is the world women wanted, and created. The reduction in testosterone is a godsend.

[@michaelsix9684]

being single actually gets easier and better over time, I've lost the desire to have a woman now -- quit dating 46, now 67 -- seen divorces destroy men I know , I'm out

[@recmtnbiker4368]

That is the biggest reason. In the US, our family law court system is corrupt. I have seen too many men have their lives ruined in divorce court to think otherwise.

[@1davidburns]

Peter, I have 4 words: Testosterone supplements, and Prenup. Michael, everyday I wonder if I'm going to be alone, but I can't stop holding out hope that there is one good one out there all for me. Good women are vital for society and to men in general.

[@cencalsupras]

Just turned 34 I'm feeling the same. Single father of one and single for going on 10 years here soon. I checked out last month. Now I bought two dirt bikes for me and my son and just got a boat 😂.

[@EGH181]

Regular guy means 6’3” Christian Grey. Ridiculous

[@gimenovax1]

After trying many times I realized that if I had got married there would be about a 99% chance I would just be divorced. I decided just to not put the 2 of us threw that. Oh and I don`t live in my moms basement, I have a paid off house, a paid off car and a boat and a dog, I have everything I need.

[@flatfootandflexible5098]

It’s amazing how women react when men stop caring. When men did care and did want you it was a problem. Now that they don’t care and don’t want you, it’s a problem. WOW!

[@ThaiKicker97]

only marry in third world states with theyr laws@RealPeterAndrewNolan

[@stephensegal5187]

Once you build yourself up as a man women want, the problem becomes finding a woman that is worth giving that to. As I see it, the number one hindrance is having PEACE. When I looked at all of the biggest problems in my past, a woman was at the heart of every one of them. Simple.

[@jericoba]

Not to mention amazing how men react when women stop caring. I mean, wow. 🤨

[@MikeyP109]

Men haven't stopped caring.

[@MikeyP109]

@RealPeterAndrewNolan No, they haven't. Since I'm an adult, I don't know all this slang nonsense.

[@JorgeHernandez-oh7xv]

As a person who lives with his parents because of epilepsy, this girl really got me thinking why we men don't talk about our problems.

[@ranekeisenkralle8265]

Because if we do, 9 times out of 10 (if not more) we get told to just "man up". Moreover, even if they say they want a man to be more open about their emotions, typically women regard that as a sign of weakness - therefore undatable. A textbook-catch-22 if you will. There are very rare exceptions of women who won't mock a man for showing emotions, or weaponize it against them, but those too typically are not interested in a relationship with that particular man. Those rare women do make for great friends though, but take your time for vetting such individuals - bacause you are opening yourself up for a world of emotional hurt if you don't. Hope your epilepsy isn't giving you too much trouble. Keep it up.

[@JorgeHernandez-oh7xv]

@@ranekeisenkralle8265 that is pretty much what she said on the second video, but nothing about be more feminine for them. Lol. I'm working on it, after 5 brain surgeries and a brain tumor and working on anxieties I at least working on my self. It's hard not going to lie since I can't drive because of the what "if".

[@FrancisFjordCupola]

You don't talk because you'd know the answers you'd get. And the amount of empathy you'd get.

[@JorgeHernandez-oh7xv]

@@FrancisFjordCupola I don't like the answer "oh I'm sorry that happened to you".

[@ranekeisenkralle8265]

@@JorgeHernandez-oh7xv Yeah. My recommendation is to be yourself and let others deal with that instead of twisting yourself just to be liked by others. Best of luck for your health, buddy. Depending on where you live (Europe for instance) a car is not a necessity anyway.

[@MrAndywills]

'How many of you are avoiding a mixed-up mess like this and are living a happy life?'

[@wnose]

I look at the utter ruin of so many men's lives from divorce and give a prayer of thanks everyday. I am indeed blessed.

[@wargpug6084]

I thank god daily that im ugly so that even reaching the dating market is a herculean effort, so i do not try any more, even regained all the weight i lost....

[@wnose]

@@wargpug6084 extra weight is no good for your health though.

[@wargpug6084]

@@wnose true very true, no rebuttal from me good sir.

[@FDR_progressive_liberal]

My three ex-wives wore me down to a nub. That's why I'm single. I was mowing the lawn and a neighbor across the street commented that I must be single and there was something wrong there. Typical woman. A cute guy doesn't have a woman to make him miserable so the world is out of balance. I am quite content thank-you-very-much.

[@patrickl5290]

I mean bro, three ex wives? Sounds like you might be bad at picking

[@dh9224]

​@patrickl5290 lol right Three ex wives and u still think they're all the problem, not you??

[@longredroad4249]

for many men, it is better to live a life alone and unloved than to live a life where you are disrespected and betrayed. The winning move is not to play, and that gets more true everyday.

[@Kramer63]

That’s the big thing disrespectful women especially when they’re over 30 overweight do they not see themselves naked and say why am I such a witch. They have nothing to offer for the war out fat body and disrespect for a man it just amazes me how they think because of Instagram Shawna pretty face and talking sweet will make up for the fact that they’re out of shape and have nothing to offer like a used car with 200,000 miles on it and rust does Amanda want that or does he want a woman that takes care of herself and shows a man respect I thought men were perverts in their 50s and 60s with women under 30 years of age physically fit some of them bury these women and have children some women actually get it they’re not looking for a meal ticket they just want to be dedicated to one man they’re very rare but precious

[@cliffterrell4876]

You are 100% correct. I have been single 12 years after my divorce and dating two other females after, because every female I have been with caused nothing but drama problems and cheated while I was at work but wanted me to pay for their wants and needs. I was a living ATM. Not anymore.

[@donieluong3695]

That’s what I’m thinking and tbh I’m just being me and I learned my mistakes. I’ve been in a relationship that I don’t want and I was guilty of it cuz I feel bad. But now I learned that being in a relationship is a big commitment and it depends on you no matter who you are. (I’m not against anyone)

[@Yeaaaah_z]

What did you do wrong? Always deflecting @@cliffterrell4876 🙄

[@danballe]

​@@cliffterrell4876quintessential deck ironic the juice is NOT worth the squeeze

[@zourin8804]

as a 43 year old single, never married 'average' man, everything I've achieved I've done so in spite of the women in my life. I'm blessed to be an extreme introvert where I can say that dating is not worth the very real risks and consequences of sorting through spent, desperate women trying to find an escape from the consequences of their life choices. Modern women offer me nothing but drama, discomfort, discontentment, and financial strain only after I've already done the hard work to be succesful without them. A little bout of loneliness once or twice a year is a small price to pay for the bullets it helps me dodge. Bullets that have left so many friends with destroyed lives that I could not ignore the warnings left by their stories. Eventually, women will realize that you have to get in at ground level and commit if you want to get taken to the top, but this is not that era. This is an era of delusion, misandry, unaccountablility, and self-entitlement. I know there are good women out there, I am sure there are even a couple women who could fit my life and lifestyle, but I am not so good a judge of character that I have any confidence I could find her. I will stay where I am. Thanks.

[@IndyMotoRider]

Well said. I'm 50 now, divorced at 40 from an unfaithful wife. Had to file bankruptcy and start over. Things have gone well the past few years focusing on self improvement (lost 70 lbs and off blood pressure meds). But I haven't dated since the divorce and even though my libido has returned with my improved health, I can't justify re-entering the dating market. As you get older, you really get to know yourself, your interests, what you will or won't put up with etc. You're right though, a couple times a year that loneliness rears its head and it can be rough. That's when I force myself to get outside my man cave and interact with people who have common hobbies/interests.

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Beautifully spoken mate. Ya not missing Anything by not getting Married in the West I was Married for 6 & half years and was a 6 yrs of HELL. Only to find out she was Cheating for years with st least 4 different dudes and she was a Size 18. How my kids were mine I found hard to believe the DNA results. Then loosing my kids 70% of my wealth. The only way I got something was I hid the fact I knew about her Cheating and secretly got my Aussie 60's Classic cars out and parts etc and my family airlumes out to safety under her nose and didn't abit of financial manoeuvres before I served her Divorce papers. Never EVER AGAIN will I Get Married or COHABITATE with a Modern western Fea-male

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

​@@IndyMotoRiderI'm 46 divorced 14years I had to work and Lie CHEAT and virtually steal to rebuild my wealth. Was able to advance my career got into Drag racing my Mid 60s Holden street car.. I couldn't be happier actually. Will haven't dated in 5 years NOW I've lost interest

[@gregwochlik9233]

Love your story. As a fellow "deep introvert" (INTJ-T), I share your sentiments. I do have weight issues: hence that aggressive woman from the video won't date me! I"m totally fine with that. I agree fully to what you are saying.

[@patrickhammond1939]

The best relationships I've had are with the females I met on the school campus in college.

[@dojoswitzer]

What’s missing from the first video for me is her definition of a ‘normal girl’, because I don’t see any ‘normal girls’ on social media (she’s obviously on social media).

[@rail7646]

thats the point, she missed the part of "regular" 2 times, what a regular man is and what a regular woman is as well, if she calls herself one

[@ricknelson8886]

You can do all those things that make you attractive and still get rejected for irrational reasons. It is hopeless, can anyone really live up to unrealistic expectations?

[@SpoonHurler]

I wish I could be as empathetic toward women as Courtney is toward men... the chick in the video is exactly what I meet every freaking day and I just don't want any of it. I workout, work 50+ hours a week and I play video games cause I love it. It would be like me complaining about a woman watching true crime. And of course if I did all those things the goal posts would change like with wage... it was six figures and now you need to make a million a year. I'm done playing into the games personally.

[@Swearengen1980]

She's empathetic towards men while telling all of you the many ways you need to change if you ever want to meet a woman? All of that applies to men and women. A guy doesn't have to go workout to get a woman, he just has to be realistic about the type of woman he can get if he doesn't take care of himself. As an aside, WTF is with the female obsession with crime and serial killers the last couple years? It's as random and odd as the sudden obsession with tacos. 2-3 years ago, sushi was the best food ever. Now all women say "Tacos are life".

[@jgj4430]

Tacos are a gateway to the Tequila. Sake isn't cutting it anymore.

[@dontstalkmedeltoro8816]

But would you be ok with a woman that would rather play video games than be with you?

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

Lol women want talk about porn... when men watch porn to masturbate and go with their day. On the oter hand women are looking at their porn 6-12 hours a day(social media), and think thats real life.

[@biscottigelato8574]

With hypergamy, realistically a 7 guy can only get a 3 girl. 4/5s dates at least 8s, 6/7s dates at least 9s, 8/9/10 dates at least 10s. Realistically, an average guy (5/6) gets a ~1 girl. That's realism for ya.

[@superbob24]

Funny how the first red flag for men she lists is working out, then says men wanting a women with ass/tits is a red flag. I guess its okay for women to want physically attractive men but not for men to want women they are physically attracted to.

[@arthurmorgan2906]

I knew right away she would be hypocritical and always choosing the same kind of men and then complain about it. SHE IS THE FKN ONE CHOOSING THOSE MEN... and rejecting everyone else. I mean how can someone have a red flag when someone just dont work out. If that person is literally obese thats a different story. I play games but if someone is addicted and plays ALL THE TIME okay that would be red flag for me too...

[@markaurelius61]

The red flag was being out of shape

[@ShadowPhoenix82]

​@@arthurmorgan2906that is what she meant by not work out. I believe she was pretty clear when she said "fat slob."

[@brambledemon1232]

It’s never ok for us to have preferences.

[@jeremythompson1199]

She was right though, and she’s saying the boob and butt are all Some guys look for, regardless if they have flags or not.

[@gsmollin2]

Let’s take a poll. How many women who are obese, live at home, are giant children and are completely irresponsible can’t get a date? Nobody?

[@Xiomaro01]

"it only requires you to pay a woman who doesn't even care about you" Is that what most men are feeling the issue is in the real world anyway...

[@Trynottoblink]

Yeah it’s funny that Courtney says this because in a previous video she says she prefers dinner dates. If every man catered to this preference in women they’d end up doing the exact same thing she criticizes men with AI girlfriends for doing.

[@kevinobrien3888]

In my dating years from 1987 to 2015 here is what I experienced with ladies: - Lived at home or with roommates 58% - Overweight or obese 55% - Kids at home or single mothers 48% - Found out they cheated 23% - Has an actual hobby 19% * Shopping, watching TV, traveling and eating out aren't hobbies ** At some point in every relationship, given enough time, all of the women wanted me to quit my hobbies so we could sit on the couch and watch TV together. *** Doing the same hobby as me, with me, doesn't count I will freely admit at some point I was dating a lot of women that weren't particularly desirable to me. However, as you get older your options thin out and I was willing to take chances. I will also say I realized that I attracted broken women because I was broken. Now that I've fixed my issues dating seems like a waste of time. I've been single 8 years and I look the same as I did 10yrs ago. I'm working on being better then I was 20yrs ago.

[@kiddcloud]

So true bro 😎

[@thomi77]

Never Date fat women!!!!

[@l2xsniper1]

Yes, when you mention about quitting your hobbies to sit on the couch with them to watch TV all day - that is their definition of "emotionally available" - they want you to drop all of your interests and hell they'll even nag you over your job too as if you can just drop that to be more "emotionally available" as well. Essentially as a guy when you date these girls you have to be this 24/7 entertainer because the second they decide they're bored with you, is when they'll call plan b to come over. This is why men don't date, its not worth the time and energy.

[@josephesposito3499]

Good for you! I wouldn't however call wo-MEN 'ladies'

[@jonrichardson319]

I like your post. Those stats are realistic. I would add: women who lied about there notch count: 90 percent.

[@ct90twa]

She wasn’t describing men, she was describing teenage boys. Her repeated behavior and apparent relationship outcomes is a “you” problem, not a man problem. Stop blaming us for your poor decisions.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Unfortunately I think this behavior is trickling past just teenage boys, but I do agree with you. Who you choose is important and blaming the people you’re actively choosing doesn’t help.

[@gideonravenor7351]

@@CourtneyRyan she's just like my friend, always falls for a wrong kind of dudes, then complains to me that all men turned to garbage. There is a truth about manchild, but sometimes the problem is within us. In the end we are the ones who make decisions, so it's a little bit unfair to put a blame on someone else. For example i dont go to gym, play video games, live with my mother, have a fat body and also i'm watchin porn, but i dont blame others cus i know that all this is my dicisions. So i'm the only one to blame) Also sorry for bad English, i'm from russian speaking country.

[@lewengineering]

Yes. They take a good man and dog him out or just keep him in the friend zone meanwhile these boys not men, they are the ones who get all the women then the woman wants to complain that there are no good men around that will step up when they are around.

[@Swearengen1980]

That pretty much applies to Gen Z and younger. Even lower Millennials. I see many issues like hers when I've dated younger women.

[@thrilla72]

​@@CourtneyRyanAs an older gentleman who has worked with young people for over a decade, the men she describes are few and far between. Most of them recognise by 16-18 that they need to be head of house and get their lives together. The men I know (anecdotal yes) who party often are ones who work extremely hard in the week and earn great money.

[@ValeryBoikov]

I've been single for my whole life. I have no idea what it is like to be in a relationship. Never had enough motivation to try to change that. I guess I just don't care anymore at this point.

[@franciskeys9810]

Gosh, I just can't figure out why she can't find a man.

[@mimicotom]

Where does she get off saying us men are superficial? I was on a date that lasted 12 minutes. She told me there was no 'chemistry' between us. I downed my beer, paid for my drink only, told her to have a good life, and I bounced outta there. She looked like a deer caught in the headlights. I can still remember that shocked looked on her face with her wine glass halfway up to her mouth. Priceless. Stay strong, brothers. Do what you want to do. Do not bend to the will of others.

[@1_chilled_guy595]

well done bro..i don't think I would have had the balls to walk away midway through a date.

[@chef-magoo]

in a sense though, she really did do you a favor didn’t she. You didn’t waste any time, probably would’ve just walked out, but thanked her for being upfront and honest about it. It all depends on her attitude, and only you can know what that was like.

[@mafp22w]

I would have loved to have given you a high five as you went out the door.

[@visaman]

I hope you tipped the waiter.

[@mimicotom]

@@visaman I did.

[@keitsee]

My last intimate interaction with a woman was my last relationship of 2 years. That Ended in Jan 2023. 8 months of being alone with no physical intimate human interaction. Modern women are so spiled for choice that they just don't give a damn anymore, they will ghost you the minute they think something better has come their way. Modern dating is extremely hard work.

[@mojomanmurph1925]

If she is attractive, they will have on average 3 to 5 guys in queue and still be looking. It's insane. The other option is be with someone who is not attractive at all so being single is the path most men take.

[@rascal211]

Yep those are the options. be with a woman you aren't attracted to or be alone. @@mojomanmurph1925

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Just hit the Gym get in shape focus on your Purpose and Career then plan for early retirement. Get ya Passport deal with Women overseas

[@HenrySomeone]

@@mojomanmurph1925 The "just" not attractive ones aren't all that better. Only the absolute ugliest ones have their options somewhat on par with an average man.

[@richardhall6034]

Hi from the UK 👋 🇬🇧 that woman would be a nightmare if you are a fat slob but a multi millionaire she'd be in your bed in a hart beat ❤ And as for following the teaching of the Bible does that include God's instructions for keeping slave's

[@jessedaly7847]

Yeah we could “do better” but why? Who needs the legal liability? In my marriage I was the sole income, never cheated, didn’t abuse her, and still she cheated. Now 11 years past divorce and I am still spending 5 figures a year on legal defense against an unending torrent of spurious claims.

[@elizabeetle13]

What on earth could anyone be dealing with an ended marriage 11 years after it was finalized? I honestly couldnt tell you for certain if my ex-spouse is still breathing. For the record, the divorce and bills from the marriage fell on me.

[@jessedaly7847]

@@elizabeetle13ex-wife is still coming after me for money and she wants to take our child out of state and get full custody, she practically lives at the courthouse filling things against me every single day.

[@doom9603]

@@elizabeetle13 so you cheated on him or you signed a marriage contract?

[@elizabeetle13]

@@doom9603 what? I never cheated on anyone. Ever. It was the other way around. What exactly are you trying to burble?

[@wickedsur1]

I once met a woman who wasn't delusional, I asked her to be my woman and we have been together ever since.

[@Grahamulet]

I have been single for 4 years now. Been putting in my all, trying to find something real, not even hookups but looking for my future wife, and this entire time I have been ghosted, used for money, treated like trash, gaslit into thinking there's something wrong with me for wanting a relationship, and I'm just done with it, I'm tired of putting myself out there just for these women who don't even make half my pay to put me down and make me feel like garbage. That's why I checked out.

[@MrMan-fx3ow]

I’ve noticed that I’ve been criticized for giving off a “player vibe” But then when I actually like a girl and would be open to taking things seriously, I’ve been told I give off “boyfriend energy” which leads to the girls attempting (😂) to friendzone me

[@swagguy4101]

19 years and counting

[@inconnu4961]

@@swagguy4101 How old are you now? I was single for 6 years before i got married (I took the only offer I had) and have been single for 7 years since, with NO prospects to speak of. Most of us 'average' guys probably have similar stories.

[@ingeclaeys3761]

The thing is, your experience happens to women as well... We have come at a time where it's very much men against women. Women not seeing the sad perspective of men who truly put in the effort and want to find a real and deep connection. Men not seeing the side of women being used and tossed aside like a pair of dirty socks. It's not all men are bad or all woman are bad. It seems to me that good men end up with bad women and good women end up with bad men. Also there is no more community. You used to go to a local dance, meet someone and date. You wouldn't just start ignoring the person you were seeing, or show up with someone else at a local event. That was a hard nono. Now? Swiping, ghosting, benching, the quick dopamine hits, meeting someone on an online platform... It's all very unnatural. Sometimes I feel we need to disconnect in order to (re)connect.

[@jaredscott760]

Even the women with a bunch of kids with dudes who aren't you think they are high and mighty

[@gradymorrrowjr37]

And they wonder why we choose to remain single Peace Serenity and Sanity is EVERYTHING 💯

[@SuicideJones]

you didn't choose to be single, nobody coupled with you.. that's delusional.. very poor understanding of your chosen language..

[@gradymorrrowjr37]

@@SuicideJones Who GAF long as my daughter is taken care of that's it that's ALL 💯

[@zitpopper9296]

All I heard from this video is that I should change my look and behaviours for the benefit of another western woman who is confrontational, not submissive, no peace. No thanks

[@aguyinavan6087]

It is easier to deal with the digital than real women. In my marriage my wife: 1. Hit me 2. Stole from me 3. Cheated on me And on the way out she took all of our equity and left me with the debt. All of this behavior came about after she dove deep into feminism.

[@RayleighCriterion]

In my twenties I was in better shape than 99.9% of women, but that didn't help me at all in the dating scene, it actually hurt me because most women were embarrassed by their own out of shape bodies.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

I can mos def resonate with that, Brother. 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏👌👌

[@rapidroadsode8789]

That was a different time . More women workout now that ever . I can almost assuredly promise you that isn’t an actual problem for most women today . Most women want the absolute highest quality hottest man they can get regardless of their own quality

[@RayleighCriterion]

@@rapidroadsode8789 Superficiality and shallowness driven by social media now rules.

[@rapidroadsode8789]

@@RayleighCriterion agreed . It’s really shaped the desires on both ends . I remember distinctly being able to easily attract curvy women. I mean actual curvy , small waist wide hips big ass . Because at one point that look was only desired by a small demographic . Now every group of men wants that type and so many women are paying for that look or eating themselves into obesity no longer benign obsessed with maintaining a size 4-6 any longer . Social media really is going to be a large contributor to the near eradication of actual human interaction

[@genovasquez8361]

​@@rapidroadsode8789its about the same back then as it now. infact more women are obese than ever before.

[@GET1237]

I did have a bit of sympathy for her in the first video but she completely shattered that in the second video. Also her calling out men for "acting like a child" is hideously ironic.

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

HAHAHA agreed

[@MB-xe8bb]

She's allowed to fight back. If you live in a rough neighborhood, and she owned a gun, she would make your life safer. If you had a home invasion, there would be 2 of you fighting the intruders, not just you getting your head beaten in.

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

@@user-oi6pw4gr3m she seems all over the place emotionally

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

@@MB-xe8bb good point pal, but what’s important is she doesn’t take out any aggression on her partner himself

[@berthebornu4007]

So, she's heartbroken and the first thing she does is a TikTok video? really? And then it gets some momentum (apparently from the comments posted) and she has to go make a "response" video Oh my... and the endless list/rant where all she does is excluding any and all potential suitors... and don't even realize at the end that's why she's alone? because she excluded everyone. Well, no wonder... I feel sad for the kids out there... Always thought that social media was more of a poison than something useful but nowadays... it's really unfortunately true.

[@russbutton9347]

How much rejection does it take to create the expectation of rejection? Everyone carries trauma. Both men and women experience rejection and thus have anger. At one point in my 30's, I just gave up and chose to find a way to be happy alone. I did find love eventually. To be a reliable life partner, father and provider was all I wanted. Too bad it wasn't enough for so many of the women I met as a young man.

[@robbsclassics]

Women: You think I should be interested in you just because you're nice? Also women: Why can't I find a nice guy?

[@danwarner7816]

Added nice over 6' and make 6 figures to that 1 😂

[@1_chilled_guy595]

nice guys are sitting in the friendzone and then they complain

[@Elisabetta.Scalisi]

​@@1_chilled_guy595 So many of the self proclaimed nice guys are not actually nice. They are delusional, toxic and often abusive. A real nice guy doesn't scream it to the world, but he show his manners though actions in the real world.

[@RPOlawale]

​@@Elisabetta.Scalisibeing nice guy and what you described are not the same. The word nice has been bastardized.

[@rlh125]

@@Elisabetta.Scalisi I knew someone (probably a woman) would throw this accusation at nice guys. It’s the popular excuse for why women don’t pick nice guys: “They aren’t REALLY nice guys. They just ACT nice so we will date them.” 🤦‍♂️ No, they act nice because they think it is the right thing to do. Then they get frustrated and angry because women keep choosing the pump-and-dumpers over them while simultaneously whining that there are no nice guys. 🙄 By the way, I was raised to be a nice guy, but I was trained by women to ignore that impulse and be the man they choose, not the one they claim to want. Once I learned that lesson (that it’s better not to care one way or the other about any one of them in particular), I became very successful with women. These days I rarely even bother to date because I can’t stand entitled western women. For every Courtney Ryan, there are 10,000 plain, overweight, entitled, selfish women who aren’t worth spending 5 minutes with.

[@growlith6969]

When she said guys are in this sea of hopelessness and loneliness and "I have no idea what that is like", she gained my respect.

[@dieuwtjin]

This. I haven't seen any other 'female dating coach' actually acknowledge they don't really know how bad it is.

[@johnwilmington895]

So, with her judgy, attacking attitude, who would want to even talk with her. Most guys don’t want to hear male flagellation or someone who tells them what they’d better do.

[@LuKiSCraft]

Yes and this is disproportionately an issue among lower-educated & lower-income men. It is completely out of control. If you don't make AT LEAST $60K as a man, many women will consider you completely undatable.

[@thesaddestdude3575]

I love the first girl , she cries no regular guy would date her but she looks really pretty. truth is, she can find plenty of guys she just cant find the male supermodels with 8 inches and a 200K income a year she wants.

[@Dark_Angel555]

the thing is that you guys don't approach girls either because you just decided they are all not worth it .... but I bet if you gave up porn and masturbation for life ... libido will come back and you will want to interact with women - and you don't have to settle and be in relationship with mediocre women - but you can still fuck them and feel like a king and them dismiss her because it's your right ... as long as you are honest and you don't manipulate them In the history of the world there was always guys who thought women are worth fighting for and the funny thing is none of them were just annonymous losers - they were always highly succesful men or celebrity ... you think a celebrity would just give up on women because he feels like they are sub par women ? lets get real... he would still get laid at the minimum because he has options - even if he doesnt like their personality

[@limazulu6192]

It seems im often rejected because im too level headed, openly loving and nice to be interesting. Then i see a bunch of men who get laid like crazy even though they are objectively bad for any womans mental well-being looking at how they treat them. I hear those same guys admit to me in a very defetist and depressing manner that women are all the same and want to be treated like garbage. And every time i actively try to fix my issue with this and seek another mans counseling on how to maintain a womans attraction i get the advice to behave a little more toxic and when I do it works like a charm. But since i don't like being an asshole i revert back to being my usual well intentioned self and lo and behold im back at square one. Im at my witts end with this. I don't want to hurt anyone and I don't feel the need to create needless drama and mindgames with someone who has done me no harm and i actually kinda like.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

I don't know what the answer is, but I sure hope you don't become jaded and eventually become one of the bitter ones. I would guess you are younger, and are going for the wrong type of women. A sweet and humble woman is looking for a sweet and humble man.

[@stacyrensburgoliver]

Please don’t ever change yourself , we are similar to that respect. I don’t like mind games, I don’t like confusion, but it seems a lot of people are choosing to live toxic which is why I’ve taken myself off the dating market and trust fate will lead me to the right person.

[@yashpatel261]

@@stacyrensburgoliver There is no such thing as fate or karma.

[@MichaelWitkowski-dq1nr]

Nothing in her delivery bothered me. I am a 66-year-old NYer now residing in Canada. It takes a lot to offend me. In this case it was actually quite easy to skim off the harshness in her tone and focus on the points she was trying to make.

[@nickhfda223]

Now take the level of frustration displayed in the 2nd clip and multiply it by 20. Thousand. Then sit with it for 20 years until you're 40, and you've nailed what the "good men" have been experiencing for the last two decades. We're still here; we're just in hiding doing our own thing.

[@Swearengen1980]

Maybe you are, not me.

[@miker4430]

Yep. We are being men and enjoying it without unnecessary drama. Haha. Used to be lonely now happy alone

[@OriginalTodzilla]

​@@miker4430MGTOW!!! Yeah, the juice ain't worth the squeeze. Most of us are invisible to most women and they dispise "regular" (read nonChad guys), so why am i going to bust my @$$ for a low rent hater like the girl in the tiktok?😅

[@WOLVERINE95899]

I had a fiancee who completely ghosted me two years ago out of the blue and claimed to be a "Christian woman". My last girlfriend admitted I treated her like a queen, but she was disrespectful to me on several occasions, so I walked away. I have a good job, am in good shape for my age, don't cheat or lie and treat anybody I date with the utmost respect. Most modern women show up with these ridiculous lists. If a guy doesn't make a certain amount, or doesnt hit every crazy check box, they treat him poorly. Guys are exhausted from spending tons of money on dates and getting used like a free meal ticket or paying for a womans drinks only to be rejected. Guys are tired of being rejected and beaten down. The whole "toxic masculinity" movement was the final straw. Guys can easily stay home and hang out with their friends with no drama. Im sick to death of women saying they cant find a nice, smart, and in shape guy. Feminism destroyed dating. I think she brought up some valid points about being a man that is in shape, not living with your parents, and not being addicted to drugs, alcohol, or porn. This woman will never find anybody with this holier than now attitude. I feel very sorry for her.

[@Nick84525]

I totally agree

[@Heeroyui752]

💯

[@michaelsix9684]

women are so programmed to reject, fear, men etc. they always find a reason to say no or cut you down -- quit at 46, now 67 -- so grateful it's over for me

[@Tomboy_Dragon2001]

💯

[@mafp22w]

I was all of the good things…in shape, good job, God first, homeowner, while chasing after one of these American women. I even bought her a ring in hopes that I could more our relationship forward. It was a good move because it forced her to stop stringing me along. I move on and met a Filipina gal that really loved me. After I got married to the Filipina, I once ran into the other gal and she was furious with me for moving on. Her game playing was a loss for her. Now married about 30 years, it was a big win for me.

[@Plasmastorm73_n5evv]

There are also men like me who are tired of the toxic women who want a man but don't want to put any effort into a relationship and treat men like bank accounts.

[@seanlheeger]

She said it all the way that it needed to be said. sugar coating destructive behavior is pointless. So is being politically correct.

[@PopeMetallicus]

Part of the problem is a lot of us realize that women don't care about us even in relationships. A lot are just there to take the fruits of our labor, and as soon as things get slightly rough, she'll leave and force us to continue paying for her lifestyle after. Hell, a lot of men saw their fathers ruined by it, and refuse to follow the same trajectory

[@gambooyt]

Absolutely

[@Alazar654]

100% truth.

[@scottb296]

Men are just treated like shit, period. Even good men. Even if he was just the way she wanted she would probably find some way to tear him down or complain about him.

[@breaks3085]

So that means your saying women are USERS

[@lewengineering]

Right on brother. It is not just some men that play games but women play games too.

[@TrentonF505]

I think the problem is most men are single and lonely well into their 20’s so they use adult content to console themselves. Often time this builds into a habit, and when they finally find someone to date they bring along that habit into the relationship. I can sympathize with her but this is the result of a larger problem.

[@jasono2139]

"to console themselves" Spoken like a true ignoramus. 🤦 Do smokers, too, then use cigarettes to "console" themselves?

[@schroederluck7984]

@@jasono2139 I would say that's certainly part of it. My guess is you're focusing more on the addiction aspect, but it's a combination of both. Many smokers I've known use cigarettes to relax and de-stress. Of course they are simultaneously addicted, and there is a chemical component that drives the addiction, but people BEGIN watching porn and using cigarettes BEFORE they are addicted. And it's certainly reasonable that many porn users began using porn as a way to escape, feel good in the moment, "interact" with women, etc. I don't think your ignoramus comment really holds much weight here.

[@jasono2139]

@schroederluck7984 married people and couples often use porn as well (either individually or together)... So yes, if you think single people are using porn to "console" themselves like a crazy feminist cat lady uses a tub of ice cream, you're an ignoramus. Most people who are addicted to cigarettes do not use them to "destress" anymore than an infant using a pacifier out of habit. While I'm sure it gives them temporary euphoria, they're not grabbing a cigarette ONLY during stress. That's like saying everyone drinking at the bar is there because they've had a rough day. People do these things because they're pleasurable. 🤦

[@drewgonzales4533]

No we watch porn cuz getting a chick is a fucking pain the ass.

[@TheSoulCrisis]

Feminism and children without fathers in homes is a big contributing factor too.

[@johnloa2009]

if she wants to be accepted for how she is, then she needs to accept us for how we are . equality

[@sickofit1574]

The moment someone gives some performative crying rant video to tiktok is the moment they already raise a massive red flag as being fake and addicted to drama.

[@JustinFromMD]

The issue isn’t any of her standards In and of themselves. She acted unstable and doesn’t seem to think the type of guy she wants is allowed to have his own.

[@carefulrogue4834]

The instability also gives the impression of ... inflexibility? Theres some definite "yeah can't fault that" but there is some give and take throughout, that reminds me of some other convos I've had when the issue comes up, among older, married, traditionalists. We're not getting anywhere until both sides and take a long hard cold look at what went wrong and how to restore the proper order of things.

[@Zoloft77]

@@carefulrogue4834 It does make me wonder of her past choice in men that led her up to that point. She literally pointed out guys who lived the fast life of YOLO as a flex. By itself, it's good observation for what she does not want in her man, but her delivery sounds like she met one too many. It reminded me of a guy who constantly complained about women being always materialistic and unrealistic. I did question him what brought him to that conclusion as all women. He retorted name one bar or club you found a woman not like that. I simply said I never go to bars to hook up with women as I don't do bars and clubs rather the last time I got a date was from a jewelry store to a Barnes & Noble.

[@carefulrogue4834]

​@@Zoloft77 Definitely. She wants something, and I can't fault her too badly, for wanting something on the up and up. But... I recall conversations with the traditionalists, and the story of some of his traditional sons, who are up and up... but outside of that fixed mold the modern woman, even one such of this, wouldn't turn up and away their noses. Though for reasons of desperation I might be doing what you advised your buddy to stop. I don't have many friends in this new town, except for elders. WHich is all fine and good... except I need some folks my age, if I'm to find anything. And church functions are either aimed too low in age, or are just a little too religious. And I'm not sure how to suggest something else. I just want to roll dice and kill dragons and take their stuff...

[@leescuderi8331]

100 percent. She should have standards and staying in shape, not being a drunk etc. isnt outrageous. its just her energy is so abrasive no man wants to step into something like that.

[@syttorak7629]

​​@@Zoloft77I get that drift from women because I've been on online dating for 5 years. My net income is over the gross income for my state. I have two cars, my own place, I'm attractive, stable emotionally, looking for a serious relationship with a real connection, treat my women like Queens, honestly never cheated, Don't lie to my women, I can go on and on about the good things when I'm in a relationship..... I've not gotten any decent results on online dating. They have ideological men that they want men that do not exist. Or they're looking for the 6-ft tall covered in tattoos bad boy that treats them like a gold. But that is still a specific ideological standard. They expect too much social media is ruining everything. This woman is a train wreck, sure some of her standards aren't bad, I wouldn't want my significant other messing around a porn 24/7. I wouldn't want them paying more attention to a hobby than they paid attention to me, I wouldn't want my woman going out and getting cock drunk or high every night of the week, but still I am emotionally stable so I will meet a woman halfway. It's give and take - take and give. This woman laid out standards that you have to meet in order to "qualify dating her" she is nuts. Again the problem is her delivery, The way she talked crap about all men and told us all to grow up. One second she says she don't need us and in the next she says we're the leaders. So one second she's acting like a feminist and then the next second she's acting like a traditionalist. She is a train wreck

[@daniwanicki]

Dating and marriage is a nightmare for men now. Been single for 5 years so far, I'm not lonely, I'm not depressed, just content.

[@Frigid_Knight]

The thing that really stood out to me is that the stuff she pointed to also happens to be areas in which many modern women are lacking. As such, I get the impression that she’s projecting.

[@sporkmaster12]

Biggest red flag is to not address and work through red flags. Certain ones are acceptable to just walk away, but none that she stated are big enough.

[@MS-1994]

I'm now over 50, average looking and height. When I first dated my educated and attractive wife, I was quite fit, a young military officer, and we've now been married for over two decades with three kids and have achieved many things; because of my kids and their arrival on the dating scene, I've wandered into this sort of content. I honestly wonder if we would've been able to pull this off in today's culture. I'm also thankful we're happily married.

[@Heeroyui752]

Good on you 👏 more of these comments

[@spiritanimal7516]

You most likely would have had to settle for someone who's 200 pounds at 5'5 and the relationship probably wouldn't have lasted long

[@jamesdonahue3227]

I think that people are so used to treating others as disposable items that they can get tired of in use up and then discard that many speak of one in a relationship and what that means but you were actually living it. You are a good example to those around you of being a decent person and trying to do the best by your family and being a stand-up gentleman. I hope it's not too late for women to realize that people are not disposable items because this whole Chad Tyrone phenomenon is something that they helped create by creating the guys that are fitting those models that they are pursuing instead of the decent people that they're keeping in the friendzone and constantly using

[@LGDarksteed]

Congrats on your success.

[@mafp22w]

I’m with you. I think it is near impossible for my two sons in their 20’s. One is a CPA and the other is an Electrical Engineer. I think both are great catches, but because they aren’t 6’+ Chads, women don’t give the interest they deserve. One plays baseball in an adult league while the other plays in a band and leads worship in church. Women today all want to be with men at the winners circle, very few want to be a part of getting there.

[@RayBetterThanEvilCanival]

Hearing that first woman say “men are living in a fantasy land” is levels of irony never achieved before. Y’all are the ones with 100 requirements for Prince Charming and you won’t settle for anything less.

[@rake483]

THIS

[@l2xsniper1]

She in particular did at least list off things that are legitimate *minimum requirements. She didn't bring up height, $300k salary, "well-connected", somehow has the time to go on trips to fiji 5 times a year etc.

[@BlindWitchFire]

*Hear Hear* _!_

[@allenjackson2846]

This, and they don’t offer anything but their body occasionally

[@thoreschmechtig5007]

Women: "We just want the BARE MINIMUM and you boys aren't giving us that!" The same women: "Non-negotiables: 6 feet tall, 6-figure income, 6-pack, 6-inch (censored)" Yeah bare minimum indeed.

[@rollingwithmoore]

I recently turned 36 and I never had a girlfriend, but I am prepared to deal with a real woman over a woman on the Internet

[@hyberkonawa272]

Everyday I always go outside and touch grass looking for a woman to interact to. And still today... more women saying "I can't find a good man, what a cruel world we're living". Me: "Hellooooo!!! I'm right here!" Girl "GET AWAY FROM ME YOU CREEP!" Me: "Women☕"

[@SealTwo]

I love how you are empathetic towards men and even though you say that you have never experienced what we have been through, you acknowledge what we might have been through. Thanks for the thought

[@yme3267]

Doesn't hurt given her views are most likely 90 percent plus easy

[@SanVic]

Courtney literally demonizes the male sex drive because it doesn't conform to her rigid rules. She is no different than the crazy woman in the video.

[@jeffreycheng5984]

"Live your best life! Have incredible relationships, just don't get state divorce laws involved. They will dictate your finances in the likely event your marriage becomes non-functional! Be careful out there! I wanna keep ya outta my office!"- Jonathan Noble Esquire. Pennsylvania divorce attorney who has practiced in the fields of divorce and family law for 20 years.

[@AndrewTheFrank]

that is called being sympathetic not empathetic.

[@ReadingDave]

I appreciate the sympathy. Male loneliness is a rift that creates more ignorance on how to relate as it goes on. Often, in today's society, male loneliness means to be rejected by society because of couples oriented social gatherings. There is less networking and less bouncing off ideas with another. Being single is also a chance for focus and taking action without hinderance which a relationship will interfere with.

[@wanderer5200]

“Because it’s easier.” I actually agree with her. American women have become so difficult, in general, that meeting their demands has become next to impossible. It’s only rational that people would simply give up when facing an impossible task with few rewards and many risks.

[@spiritanimal7516]

There's no point in trying

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

Relationships are supposed to be easier. Rasing kids build family its a bit tricker. Shes making a enormous effort to like men haha. Lets use their language against then. WHO HURT HER?

[@exothermal.sprocket]

Kind of like a lot of employment opportunities in the USA, "...meeting their demands has become next to impossible. It’s only rational that people would simply give up when facing an impossible task with few rewards and many risks."

[@bhart3321]

​@@ArantyrDarkhandAll the top 20% chads her shallow ass will only allow her to date. I guarantee you she's a hypocrite that's doing at least 2 of these things she's complaining about. Women like her are the very definition of "Rules for thee but none for me."

[@DahcipheR]

That's the thing. I notice that a lot of women will create a criteria for an ideal man, yet not even fulfill aspects that are desirable to men.

[@purestress2597]

basically we have a demographic bomb building. Men and women are not figuring out/being taught how to love and care for each other and being introduced thereafter. Is it their parents who purposely have them in state daycares half of their young life, is it their teachers? Who is supposed to help them? I decided to become a welder on a whim. So I entered a vocational program, and 1 year later I got a job making the most pay in my entire life. What do we as a society do for our young ones whom go ignored, cookie cut, and usually drugged into a paste of a person with no teaching or structured introduction on the complimentary differences between man and woman in school. We instead normalized divorce and casual sex. We got what we wanted, and then what we deserved.

[@juandelacruz5247]

I live with my mom not because I'm broke or dependent on her. I take care of my mom, support her, and spend a large amount of money in the household. In return, my mom helps me with my clothes, cook the food and other house choirs. Don't get me wrong, I can cook, wash my clothes, clean the house and others. But this is called cooperation! Yes, I can live on my own, but I still need to give financial support to my mom, drive her from time to time to her appointments and etc. Can you imagine how inefficient would that be if I am to live out of our home?

[@the0rpheus]

32 year old guy here, been in the "keeping an eye on the dating market" mode for the past 3 years - I'm focusing on my body, my mind and my finances first and foremost; I also check the dating apps regularly - but there simply aren't that many truly likable women there anymore. Modern feminism + social media combo has poisoned so many female minds and turned a lot of them into obnoxious and insufferable human beings who simply are not pleasant to be around with. I'd rather be alone and do my own thing than waste my time and energy on these "modern women".

[@1_chilled_guy595]

Totally agree - dating apps for men seeking woman seem to be the 'bargain rack' at a clothing store. The ladies that you would want to date think they miss universe because they have a gazillion men in their Dms at any given moment, It would appear meeting woman in person is the best way - but that brings its own challenges.

[@the0rpheus]

​@@1_chilled_guy595 yeah, I've come to realize this also - that if I (or any guy at that matter) ever start seriously looking for a girlfriend, then the best bet is to just ditch all the dating apps and start meeting women in person. But until I have enough free time to start doing that, I will just have to keep checking the apps.

[@michaelcavenaugh5892]

Couldn't agree more. Our time, our energy and our hard earned money

[@biscottigelato8574]

Just by looks some might be 7s/8s. After personality they are more like a 4 or a 5 at best. AND you can't get them anyways. 9.5+ or lower they think you don't meet their standard. Just walk from the entire game. Pay for needs if you need to. Don't play a game that's working for nobody, not even for the girls themselves.

[@frankiew6854]

34 and 15 years single now and good luck to you it’s a fun ride that’s for sure

[@joaquin67]

This year I have: - moved out of my parents house (again) - no longer have a TV or video games at home to make me go out more - haven't watched porn in over 2 months (longest I've gone since god knows when) - started focusing on my diet and slowly losing weight (always worked out but bad with diet) - started my hobby as a creator with animation - and about to start therapy to finally get a grasp on my social anxiety which prevents me from approaching women This is crazy.. I can't believe I've improved so much after being in a major slump from the pandemic. It honestly started with this channel, when Courtney said something about keeping and accomplishing promises to yourself is what helps build self confidence. When you accomplish tasks and goals, you're slowly believing in yourself again.

[@CourtneyRyan]

This is so wonderful! Thank you for sharing. Wishing you the very best 🤗🤍

[@SpoonHurler]

Awesome, man. Keep growing everyday.

[@carrionflowers6764]

so you watch youtube on your laptop instead of watching tv on your sofa or playing games

[@phillconklin382]

God bless man. Keep going. I'm happy for you.

[@gabrielrcortina]

That's awesome dude! Basically every other comment is still the hopeless narration, but you really stuck out. I have high faith that you'll continue to be successful because you're finally taking accountability.

[@melkerner]

"Get ready to get checked!" = "Have fun with your cat!"

[@John_B52_HEMI]

Cats -- many, many cats.

[@TheSergio1021]

Her second video... I have a near PERFECT score. Do I have girls lining up? Nope! Cause there are plenty of men that have almost 0% of her list which get a ton of chicks, herself included, evidently.

[@UltimateTS64]

Some dating advice my mom gave me that actually worked: 1. Meet someone who goes to places you enjoy, you'll have common ground and an easier approach (for me it was church) 2. Confirm that you have the same core values (in my case religion) 3. Find your complement, not your opposite (someone who helps you to grow)

[@wanderer5200]

"Find your compliment" Now that is interesting. How does a person figure out what their compliment is?

[@UltimateTS64]

@@wanderer5200 I would say that one takes a little more time to figure out, but you gotta make sure to ask some good questions on the first few dates to kinda gauge it. I think it's really a matter of the attitude of your SO, and how they push you to be better. In a sense they could still be your "opposite", but they're more supportive about helping cover your weaknesses, so overall you can both be more well rounded. A silly example is cooking and cleaning. I don't like cooking much, but my gf does, so when we get married, she'll primarily be cooking, while I'll primarily be washing the dishes and cleaning up afterwards. In a sense they'll still be opposite to you in some areas, but I think it's a matter of the attitude of support that makes it different than just having an opposite quality.

[@zerpblerd5966]

*complement

[@T0nyAvde1]

bless your soul, fellow human being. those are great tips

[@UltimateTS64]

@@zerpblerd5966 preciate it

[@MSMW23]

Simply put, men are tired of having to work so damned hard to achieve the insanely high standard women demand, whilst being abused for having any standards of our own. All we want is two things, just two. 1. Respect. 2. Peace. Men can be lonely, but can also quite easily live alone, especially to achieve those two fundamental things all people strive for.

[@bbkyjohnson]

Well said. I’d also add to that I worry for my son nowadays in the dating world is that you risk so much financially. Why take that risk. Possibly losing a car a house paying support and alimony. Losing your retirement savings. I just read an article yesterday where law makers are trying to approve a law that your spouse would have to sign as well for any money coming from your retirement accounts even if it’s only in your name. Can they make it any less desirable to get married?

[@Sandlund93]

I guess respect from women is still possible. But peace was never an option. If you want that you gotta stay single. Or get a robot. Of course, it's all relative but a relationship will always be more complicated (less peace) than a single life. Unless you have a woman that bows to your every whim but that's not really love, that's twisted.

[@Sandlund93]

@RealPeterAndrewNolan Yeah, marriage seems like the ultimate no-no option in life. But our laws (Sweden) are almost as twisted for people who just live together. And I don't know about kids either, I might want em some day but I definitely don't at the moment. It feels like it's something that's expected of you, sort of like the ultimate meaning of life. But I'm not gonna chase it, whatever happens will do so by chance and nothing else. I'm not sure I'd be a good father anyway tbh. Especially not if I have to fight the system just to get a chance. The monetary system itself is the root of all misery and corruption. It's all about money in the end. And everybody is in it for themselves, you get burned if you're not. But it's not actually people who are twisted, at least not most of us. We all just adapt to the conditions set by the system.

[@bbkyjohnson]

I feel for you. My 12 year marriage and divorce was no fun at all. Very similar to your situation. He’s been well educated on the faults of the divorce situation. He had to live through mine. My kids all had to watch what their mom turned into. It sucks. At the end of the day I’m as responsible for the situation as she is. I married her and had a family.

[@Sandlund93]

@RealPeterAndrewNolan And how do you get control and power without money? I guess it's possible in a relationship, if the man is weak, but in general everything except breathing is about money. Unfortunately.

[@guitargfd]

i can never find a gal in person cause i am clueless and wouldnt know if a gal liked me even if they lap my face and say i like you lol

[@evanpaulsmithfalconfogolin6147]

Not everyone gets lonely, Many men thrive in a peaceful and tranquil environment. A life is short, with so many paths in a modern world the added responsibility, Time and money that is required by a woman has more competition by default before we even get to the person themselves. These symptoms affecting so many men mentioned are a result of society devaluing men culturally for decades, and generations now.

[@Soma2501]

Man i love it when they say us men had thousands of years to do something arbitrary. We're not a monolith. We're individuals

[@evancampbell7138]

Haha! Great comment - this is true. You sound like an intellectual 👌🏻

[@TerryProthero]

@@LenAnderson856 It's like I say. The reason they can't get good men is because they aren't good women.

[@StillAwesome21]

We love lumping us all in a pot, but are the first ones to tell us they aren't a monolith. 😂

[@mixnmichael1]

Up till 110 years ago women weren't aloud to even vote.

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

@@LenAnderson856 HAHAHAHAH Good one man

[@LightsCameraJake]

The male loneliness epidemic is only prolonged with each and every woman like this. Meaningful connection in general. A lot of Woman would not last a day if they had to deal with what men go through.

[@Joe-tk8bn]

And most of us men are ok with being alone and are asexual, so I don't why you people on youtube, and people on the news are making a big fuss about this. I have friends that are nerdy and don't care about flirting and wanting sex. Some of us men are built differently.

[@MikeyP109]

@@Joe-tk8bn They despise what thay don't understand.

[@sarcodonblue2876]

There are plenty of lonely women too. Women in general are better at being part of a community. This loneliness seems to be mainly about a lack of sexy times and so many of these guys seem to hate women. All you need to look at is the red pill stuff and other manosphere crap.

[@Sandlund93]

Sure, but most men would have a rough time if their consciousness was transferred into a female body. Just take menstruation for starters. Or being half the size as everyone you are attracted to, knowing that anyone of them could easily rape you if they decided to. Western culture has obviously turned into feminazi-land in recent years, but let's keep it real man. And what has struck me lately is all the ugly and fat women, most of them are probably lonely too.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Absolutely!!! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👌👌

[@jaypee525]

She exhibits exactly what we don't want DRAMA. I'm so happy going my own way enjoying peace and with money in the bank that is not funding DRAMA.

[@jesse399]

she said we had thousands of years to get it together... Meanwhile, human life expectancy is 70 -85 years, no one lived thousands of year ago.

[@corysantacroce1735]

I work out, actually I’m in pursuit of a natural body building competition. I don’t party, I have a great career, hobbies, passions, live on my own, and I’m a confirmed catholic. I still get ghosted, flaked and treated like garbage, all women are looking for are blue check marks now days, and have completely unreasonable expectations. I still sleep good at night and love the fact I have even more time now to pursue my goals/ambitions. I’ve done better but it turns out your best will never be good enough for most.

[@scottroman6941]

I feel this man. In a similar boat, and it's like "do I have to be literally perfect" to be considered dateable.

[@playthegame7445]

Cos u waste to much time on what these ungrateful woman want. and if u have money just get urself a woman from abroad

[@justacoginthefkery]

I've been ghosted/ unmatched right after saying I was not sending nudes, not wanting hookups, for being "too smart" (yes 2 guys told me this before they unmatched), not responding to messages right away because I'm not always attached to my phone, not having instagram or snapchat, choosing to be single & celibate for 5 yrs before getting back into dating, not drinking & not liking the bar scene, wanting to engage in real conversation beyond 1 word answers & "lol" & not wanting to mess around with married men. Yes, there are a LOT married men using online dating to cheat on their wives. The sh*t is overflowing from both ends these days.

[@jacobtorma2490]

wow thats unfortunate, somehow the bad ones always find the good ones with both genders. @@justacoginthefkery

[@playthegame7445]

@@justacoginthefkery Not really, i would say 95% women to 5% being men And from ur description of the guys I can tell that ur chasing chads.

[@610kclaf]

Women: "Men only want a fantasy girl" Men: "Women only want a fantasy guy"

[@nsgamingallen1308]

It's definitely far more woman looking for fantasy men than the other way around.

[@redclayscholar620]

Women's requirements: Illogical Perfection Men's requirements: A pulse

[@thesaddestdude3575]

@@redclayscholar620 You said it best

[@michaelmcdermott9853]

Men don’t want a fantasy girl, we want feminine girls, feminist act and sound like men, none of these girls sound feminine, plus independent means alone, you can’t be independent in a relationship, a relationship is being dependent upon each other, both have roles of which girls now want a masculine role, and no man wants a masculine woman

[@AaronD313]

attractive and sweet is a fantasy these days, especially if you want to be liked exactly as you are@@nsgamingallen1308

[@jlilly1961]

I don't have a dog in the hunt. I've been married for 20 years. The first clip was not complete. I saw a longer version. She brought up patriarchy. In the second clip, she, in effect, said, "I don't need no man." Yes, she is a regular modern girl-a bitter feminist. Who wants to live with that?

[@thehappycockatiel9568]

I know somebody which has a medical condition for being obese. The guy works out even though he has problems loosing weight. He says he gets a lot of backslash today for being that way than 10 years ago. And also women treat him poorly. I have lots of sympathy for that poor fella.