The First Things Women Notice About Men

In this video, women share the FIRST things they always notice about men.
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[@TuBui2]

I once received wise advice from an older guy, "Don't choose purely off of looks. Looks age. But choose a gal based off of her voice. You'll have to wake up to that the rest of your life."

[@thrasherdave1428]

That's good advice

[@Lo-to7zh]

Bolocks

[@_PoPo_]

Voices change too 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@nnnmmmable]

That's one of the most funniest advice a person could give.

[@whitezombie10]

Usually older guys just f*ck young beatiful women

[@drmatthewhorkey]

This is entertaining and all... but there's often a HUGE difference between what people say stands out (what they are attracted to) and what they are ACTUALLY attracted to.

[@MaadAzzGang]

Same shit i said, especially with women

[@moleahy6880]

I agree with you. These videos interviewing women are amusing but they're not really going to help the average man get dates or find a girlfriend.

[@UserRobot215]

@@moleahy6880 dating isn't made for the average guy, it's made for the tall good looking chad. The rest of us simply get screwed over.

[@moleahy6880]

@@UserRobot215 I don't think Chads really date. They just slam. LOL. But to your point - I agree it's a lot easier for the tall good looking Chad. But I've known a lot of shorter (under 5'6"), average looking, not wealthy guys who were surprisingly successful with women. How did they do it? They definitely had game - they were very funny, charming, and had charisma. But I think there's one other big point - they knew what kind of girls to go after and where. Clearly these guys would have gotten nowhere on dating apps, or in the bars and clubs. So they targeted meeting girls in person and they went after girls who seemed to be more open; maybe from experience they got a vibe that a certain type of girl would be more open to them. Interestingly a lot of these girls were pretty attractive, definitely better than average.

[@kevins2875]

@@moleahy6880 exactly. Well said.

[@SonicSympothy]

Be careful of the girls that just say "I don't care" when it comes to preference because there is always a threshold to what they would prefer having.

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

I would be careful of girls who say "I don't care"...PERIOD.They don't mean ONE $#@* word they are saying.....

[@SonicSympothy]

@@user-dy2zy8rd2t 💯 Facts

[@rytoniowendolini2793]

The "I don't care" woman contradicted herself in the latter half that she does care about the things she didn't care about before. Ha ha. That's a woman for you.

[@SonicSympothy]

@@rytoniowendolini2793 Exactly lol

[@themapleleafforever1526]

Yep, whenever they preface something with "I don't really care, but...", she cares..

[@mcneethinminiz8002]

I love how the one girl always just pops up with the "idc"😂😂😂😂

[@univuniveral9713]

Why do you like that?

[@mcgarnacle21]

Girls like that are always bat shit boring themselves too.

[@Ime_Prezime]

I think they were being sarcastic@@univuniveral9713

[@pat7785]

I would be perfect for her

[@rsiddz6849]

@@univuniveral9713 cuz its funny

[@patrickmarr7076]

I'd like to see men 's responses to similar questions about women

[@andreib4226]

Indeed, they would just get cancelled

[@patrickmarr7076]

@@andreib4226 I think men's observations about what they want in a woman would be a lot less superficial and more about her temperament. As long as a woman is "reasonably attractive" and is a team player... as opposed to being competitive, critical, never satisfied etc....(ie. an obstacle to his happiness) I think most men who want a relationship would see her as a viable option. I also think that the male responses might be eye-opening for a lot of women. Men simply don't value women for the same reasons that many women imagine.

[@patrickmarr7076]

@@yougoods7470 Entirely possible. Depends on the cross section of men in the interview. A bunch of frat boys will yield responses that are different than what you'd get from blue collar men. Hopefully such an interview would include a statistically reasonable representation of men (not just the top 10% that women tend to chase, but which have little incentive to commit)

[@jkshallinheritearth3883]

@@patrickmarr7076 let's be honest, you also want to see top 10% of Guys interview! 😂

[@postworld1185]

Were the girls asked if height was important?

[@zosterinski]

Courtney: "..not necessarily what they were born with or things they can't change, but what they do with it." Blonde woman: "Absolutely!" Same woman in the other video: if he's a 10 but he's short, he becomes a 1. Irony meter just broke

[@Lo-to7zh]

Courtney Ryan is a charlatan actually 🤣 She fits the definition very well in my opinion. Charlatan: (ˈʃɑrlətən ) noun. a person who pretends to have expert knowledge or skill that he or she does not have; fake; mountebank. Also they don’t even talk about how ethnicity matters I bet Courtney and most of these girls only date white men around 6 ft more or less but probably more than 6ft.

[@Tinigala]

We should do the same and judge women only by what they can change. But if she’s a 10 with under C cup breasts she becomes a 1. Plastic surgery doesn’t count.

[@armin38822]

short guys can do wonder if they have the right confidence...I can tell you that first hand

[@cyberlip666]

@@armin38822 yeah I don't know, nothing's worst than a little guy who overcompensates by acting overconfident 😆

[@armin38822]

@@cyberlip666 they do a little bit off that but I have a coworker who's short. Like,I feel BIG when I'm around him and I'm average in height. But the guy always had hot girlfriends.

[@truehearted2295]

Could you do a video like this with different age group girls like 35, 45 and then a grp of 55? I think it might be interesting to see the responses and how they have changed and what have stayed the same as ppl mature.

[@rorschach775]

Yeah the only reason these people aren't unbearable is because this is a first impression Q/A and they're in their 20's. Fitness in your 20's is completely pointless to talk about. Having abs in your 40's is almost impossible for anyone with a family and a full time job that isn't fitness related. That's when you actually see who gives a shit about their body.

[@yourcrazybear]

@@rorschach775Well they are quite a turnoff and their young age is not an excuse in my opinion.

[@rytoniowendolini2793]

Being in my mid-40's I thought the exact same thing. Most guys in their mid 40's are already bald or balding bad enough they have to shave their heads. Plus, most of them have beer guts or big guts too. Its part of the horrible diet most eat, the grind of daily life, and just plain old slowing down of the metabolism. So, I already know a woman in my age range won't really care about appearance as much.

[@rorschach775]

@@yourcrazybear when you're young you don't have to think about it. None of them look like they're into fitness. They just look young. Most of these girls will be the chubby person with no abs and flabby arms they currently think is unattractive. They just don't know it yet. Can't blame someone for not knowing what it's like to age.

[@kelleychilton2524]

@@rorschach775 Good point. Women usually hit 'the wall' pretty hard once they get into their 40s and by their 50s, you wouldn't even look at them twice. I graduated from high school over 40 years ago and there are only 2 women from my class that are still reasonably attractive. All the others have asses the size of refrigerators, wrinkles all over their faces, and unless the dye their hair, they look 20 years older than they are. The vast majority of women just don't age well. The same can be said of some men, also. But it seems that, generally speaking, the guys age a bit more gracefully than the women.

[@anthonycampos8057]

You dont ask a fish how to catch a fish. You ask a fisherman how to catch a fish.

[@te9591]

Clever.

[@kingBing101]

Only guys who don’t catch anything say this

[@anthonycampos8057]

@@kingBing101 did you just play the old "who ever smelt it, dealt it" card?

[@te9591]

@@anthonycampos8057 yes, he did, now you play uno reverse.

[@te9591]

@@kingBing101 you sure about that?

[@samissac537]

0:30 Arms 2:15 Abs 3:35 Feet 5:00 Shoulders 5:50 Legs 7:06 Voice 9:22 Jawline 10:25 Smile 12:44 Hair 15:20 Butt 16:15 Outfit 18:42 Hands 20:22 Eyes 21:47 Scent 25:42 Posture 28:00 First Thing they Notice

[@Introvertedalpha]

Thank you!

[@RisingChaos]

Height noticeably absent...

[@ericv5435]

I never understood why women like men's butts. It's not like they could do anything with it like how men can for women's butts.

[@cuxbux1144]

@@RisingChaos because Teddy is hobit

[@SystematicMechanic]

@@RisingChaos that was in the first video nerd.

[@darkpatate443]

message to all my male compatriots: as women are super demanding be also demanding you have the right why we should accept everything and have no demands take quality and stop looking for quantity

[@moleahy6880]

Actually men should be even more demanding since even an average man brings far more to the table than an average woman does.

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

@Laura UK Think about it this way: right now the dating market is a female oligopoly. If many male buyers stop buying by practicing abstinence, stop the simping (thirst traps on social media and @nlyfans) and by settling only for women at their looks level (which implies dumping or divorcing a woman below the looks level of her man). The market might gradually shift to benefit men.

[@moleahy6880]

@Laura UK A woman is just given her value (physical attractiveness) but a man has to achieve his value (status). Even that average man has had to work hard to achieve something and be something. He is expected to give his time, his energy, and his resources. Is that expected from the average woman? No but it damn well should be. So what does the average woman bring? Nothing really except entitlement and very high expectations. She wants this and she wants that. She deserves this and she deserves that. She's a queen, a princess, a superstar. I never hear average men talking this way.

[@evantaylor9527]

@Laura UK From my experience, the only reason some men don't appear picky, is because some men might f*uck average women, while pretending to be interested in them, and then easily filter those women out later (while they look for the attractive woman, they actually want to breed with) and they seem very choosy while selecting the woman they want to have a long term relationship with, esp based on looks, from my experience, men chose women purely based on their looks/body, age and personality, while women choose men based on a lot of factors including their wealth, socio-economic status, power, looks, resources, altogether, which is one of the reasons why women's dating market value typically goes down as they gets into their 30's and more, while men's value goes up as they hit 30's and up.

[@honeybadger6313]

That’s miss a dry right there If anything this entire videos reinforces the idea that men should avoid dating modern women. Way to demanding. But aman cannot state his own preferences

[@averageskill]

Confidence....transparency ....... At 65 I'm past my prime.... but all my high school & college friends said I was a good looking guy...I didn't think one way or the other. My current wife of 36 yrs said I was charming and could make anyone laugh. I dated a lot in my mid 20's...not that I'm proud of getting with at least a dozen women....but it did. Looking back, all a guy has to do is clean up his looks, make them laugh and let her make the first move.

[@Yadeehoo]

The "I don't care girl" interview defo saved production money

[@KristiJones-td5ty]

😂

[@apelincoln8427]

It's been tough out here having alopecia universalis where all of the hair on my entire body suddenly fell out including eyebrows and eyelashes at age 29. Huge hit to the confidence and self esteem but it inspired me to really focus on my fitness and get into the best shape of my life since that is one thing I still have control over. Gotta do the best with what you've got! I sure do miss my beard though lol

[@Yooojayy]

Very sorry to hear that Bro

[@kaidwyer]

get eyebrow tattoos, it’ll be a night and day difference. Best of luck.

[@apelincoln8427]

@@kaidwyer I had them microbladed about a year back, it really helped a lot, that shit hurts more than I thought it would but totally worth it

[@Espectador666]

Get that Saitama build, man. I'm gonna be bald soon so I'd like to get a bit of muscle for that too

[@eternity7124]

Respect to you man, you really said it is what it is

[@sombresanctum]

Having preferences is good and all, but even when I'm dating a woman who finds me attractive and I'm sitting there listening to their life story and they put little to no effort in getting to know me is a dealbreaker to say the least. It's common sense to want someone who doesn't just appreciate you for how you look and want to get to know you for you, but hey, I'm human too and that's what I also want and rarely if ever getting. Girls, just ask a guy about his passions/hobbies, and listen for once.

[@minshweyi6468]

That's absolutely true. It's a huge factor for healthy relationships.

[@x-man5056]

I've been there. Resist taking it personally. If she's telling you her life story, she's interested in you, selling herself. Good to listen intently, you don't want to ask her a question later about something she's gone over. She could test you on it but she may well be just a little giddy, very happy to have your attention. If she's yammering, shock her out of it by interrupting and ask her if she wants to know anything about you. It's a simple test. If she's interested at all, she'll say yes and come around, but if the answer is no, then plan your exit.

[@realemail2459]

@@x-man5056 100% this. I can tell ur emotional intelligence is very high

[@UltimateTS64]

I'ma be real it's kinda just how women work frfr. When I first started dating my gf she had a good balance of wanting to know more about me and sharing about herself, but the longer we've been together, the more she feels comfortable just sharing. I just learned to listen and let her go, because I know it means a lot to her to get to talk and especially since she's introverted, so I'm one of the few people she gets really excited about talking to. I also try to share stuff too sometimes and she'll listen, she's just not as apt to ask about it, but we keep an open line of communication to make sure we're both heard

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

For sure

[@odious2000]

they demand everything but give nothing.

[@TheSynisterMinister]

yet people still chase them. good for you if you arent interested. less competition in the dating market. allthough based off your need to respond I imagine women find you odious. I cant see anything wrong with a bunch of fit girls many into fitness want a fit guy who is into fitness.

[@WillStephensArt]

It’s getting worse man all I hear is women brushing all problems on to the man in situations that are obviously the woman’s fault, gaslighting to the extreme.

[@pitbolibo5365]

​@@TheSynisterMinister that's very beta of you to admit you reside in simp city.

[@TheSynisterMinister]

@pitbolibo5365 whatevs. If thinking a woman who works out and educates herself has solid ground to want the same in a partner makes me a simp, so be it. Now I'd be on your side if they had a whale who doesn't work demanding 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 inches. And yes those women exist and they are delusional. Kind of like the 300lb gamers who live with mom and want a hot japanese Waifu. Delusional. I'm just trying to live in the real word.

[@katemiller7874]

It’s not demanding. It’s their preferences. She should bring some men in as well and interview them

[@WorldofOzzy]

Thank you for this video. Really reassuring and really takes of a lot of wondering of “do they care” and questions all guys have but not many can straight up and get get an honest answer like this video. I really enjoyed straight to the point transition and flow, thank you.

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

If these women were actually being "honest",it's because they were talking to a camera. Now--I would like to actually SEE them say EXACTLY the same thing to a man in person. Yeah,just as I thought.......

[@slowrunn3r88]

As a man who is EXTREMELY insecure about his body, I honestly respect a lot of these answers about muscles and stuff. Especially the women who are into fitness. I 100% believe you deserve to be picky about standards IF YOU ARE WILLING to meet those same standards yourself. So yeah, as long as a woman herself is heavily into fitness, she can be picky about fitness so long as she isn’t rude or demeaning to guys who don’t meet those standards Same thing, a man who’s into fitness is 100% allowed to want a woman who is as well

[@hakeemsd70m]

I agree, however I will say that not every woman here who's picky about fitness is in shape herself. I believe she has no right to want a man with a six pack if she isn't decently toned herself.

[@slowrunn3r88]

@@hakeemsd70m yes, this I fully agree with. Regardless of gender, if you’re going to have standards, you MUST be willing to meet your own standards

[@ReaganMalas]

I think it’s more like if a woman is attractive (and women don’t have to be big into fitness to be attractive) they can prefer a guy who’s fit, muscular, in shape etc. … that’s kinda equivalent in my mind. Like a hot girl wants a “hot” guy…

[@dmitryshevchenko349]

It’s not how it works my friend, I sure as shit can guarantee that any man who is not into fitness , has horrible teeth and ugly mug would be very much attracted to a hot fit girl with straight white teeth and a beautiful face.

[@miltonmerlo4103]

1. Face 2. Height 3. Body 4. Dominant personality 5. Status/Money

[@copingmanlet1104]

Looked @your KZbin profile, checked out your playlists AND immediatley, before even listening to them, I knew it was over for you. Brooootal.

[@Lousfw]

@@copingmanlet1104 lol

[@JDushime]

@@copingmanlet1104 🤣🤣🤣

[@kc270352]

@@copingmanlet1104 🤣🤣

[@realdeal905]

big arms from taking out their wallets and holding doors open......lmfao

[@Bassynater2500]

Nice interview, I think people are saying “oh they’re so shallow”, but they seem like great standards. Having Good hygiene, an inviting look with a style that suits you as an individual and being disciplined and caring about your physical health are pretty great things to look for in a partner, male or female. 😊 enjoyed the insight.

[@KrisofS]

When it comes to the verbal expression (amidst the rest of positive features) Anytime my ear grsps Stella's voice, it immediatelly signals "is the woman available?" Haha. Indeed excessively soothing and romantic vocals.

[@Mr_Fairdale]

On the voice thing, my sister had a David Beckham poster on her wall when she was in high school (we’re old) and after she heard him on tv she said his voice ruined it and she took down the poster lol

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😭

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

@@CourtneyRyan can you ask them would you date/be in a relationship with someone who has mental illness personality disorder brain injury physical and or mental/learning disabilities not interested in having sex at all mirrors you like their personality,hobbies etc are exactly like yours criminal record very suggestible,yes man abusive childhood orphan addiction compulsions like kleptomania, pyromania,etc fetishes like urolagnia,coprophagia,piquerism,etc doesn't feel comfortable in their body street kid/person spent their childhood and adulthood living on the streets

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

I think we're all attuned to voices. Men can really dislike the voice of certain women too. Fran Drescher made a career out of her screechy voice,so did Rosanne Barr. On the positive side, men so often comment on how feminine and pleasant Courtney's voice is. I admire it as a woman. I always had a deeper voice, but not that I'd ever be mistaken for a man on the phone. Men did say they liked that. It helped me to get over wishing to have a real girly voice, like I did when I was young.

[@JianimalGaming]

Hahaha oh my gosh!!! Same thing here exactly! I still remember how sad I was about that🤣

[@AZ_TONY]

Fellas remember this, regarding the women whom things like "abs" or a certain physical appearance is a requirement, the moment she perceives another person to better fit that description she will not hesitate to trade you in, I'm not saying be a fat, lazy, dirty p.o.s you want to take care of yourself of course but just be weary of the women whom a certain physical appearance is a "requirement"

[@Munenushi]

this. a personality that is compatible with, and enjoyable with, is FAR more important - it is who they will 'forever be' a body is definitely not forever (take a look at yourself if you are superficial and only care about looks.....)

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

Try and find a woman who isn't that way....Yeah,just what I thought

[@rytoniowendolini2793]

The majority of women want you to be physically fit. If you have a gut, and the next guy has abs - she might lie and say she doesn't care. But, in her mind, she wants the guy with the abs 99/100 of them do. Even if its not a fit for a relationship, they will lust and want the guy with the abs. Don't kid yourself. Like I said, not necessarily for a long-term relationship, but instant sex or their minds with have sexual thoughts about that other guy and not you. I assure you this is the way it is.

[@katemiller7874]

Great advice

[@aidaneze6258]

Blonde girl with the reference on Jcole’s crooked smile had me happy for a minute. Love her 😊

[@josephisaround]

Y'all I tried a lot of the things they said, like style, scent, etc but I didn't feel a difference. I'm 6'4 " btw and not bad looking, but still I don't get looks or big attention. Girls also don't flirt with me, it's always casual and rather uninterested. My advice would be to stop worrying and overthinking if girls try to flirt with u or give u attention or not. Rather be happy, open, kind and balanced in ur mind and of course try to improve yourself.

[@jimjustjim976]

You're still young yet. Once you're a little older, 26 plus things will change to your choosing. You definitely have the right outlook

[@hasanshaikh4463]

The voice part was interesting. I’ve felt this way about women too. It conveys a lot of energy. The blonde woman’s voice is really mesmerizing. You can tell she is confident and sure of herself. Men can convey masculine energy with theirs.

[@sicckunts7069]

no ur voice is natural u cant change ur voice

[@hasanshaikh4463]

@@sicckunts7069 I didn’t say you need to change your voice. But, if you’re not confident, for example, or lying, your voice does sound different. Women notice this. People in general notice it.

[@kingjayiv2906]

@@sicckunts7069 you can change your tonality and your speed which can make it sound different

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

@@kingjayiv2906 how do you know this

[@kennethgallard7862]

They are the most shallow set of women ever assembled lol.

[@notsoanonymous686]

I think having multiple opinions is nice to hear. I like how you ask “clarifiers”: the “why?” and personal preference on overall “initial impression”. Context is just as important. I appreciate this video & your content, Courtney.

[@OladipoOmole-lt7kl]

Intriguing. I really appreciate and love your podcasts. Your subjects and subject matter are amazing. Please keep it up.

[@brandonlabrecque3175]

Appreciate these girls being honest. Pretty exhausting seeing women pretend to not have standards, and demanding men do the same, only to find that we all have standards, and that's okay. The gym one is huge. It's not shallow to want a healthy partner. Great content.

[@carl5959]

Most of the time when I fancy a girl, they tend not to fit into what I would automatically think i'd like. I think femininity and how a girl carries herself is the no 1 thing, from a guys perspective, if we're talking serious relationship. If we're talking "hook up" then it's different. I think people's likes and dislikes change depending on the ultimate goal...

[@JetWarrior]

They absolutely do. I think that's something that guys don't actually think about. If all I want is one night, then the only two things I care about are how do you look, and are you clingy/crazy. But when you want an actual relationship, then you have to worry about a million more things, like what's your personality like, can I talk to you for long periods of time without being bored, what's your family like, are you bad with money, are you messy or unclean, do you have a job, how do you act in public.. all those are things you look at when you want a relationship, that you don't have to look at it if all you're trying to do is have a one night stand or a short fling.

[@Phantom-ez4zv]

@@JetWarrior dude your name is creepy black dude and you speak like a woman , you ok bud

[@RR-et6zp]

social proof and pre selection

[@brendanpeters655]

As a guy, some ideals I've put on myself over the years: 1. Your language reflects your character. Lose the potty mouth. 2. Treat your body with respect. Exercise and eat well. 3. Control your appetites. Don't play video games until three in the morning. Be responsible with your time. Don't spend recklessly---save, etc. 4. Learn as many utilitarian skills as you can. How to change your oil, leaky faucet, light fixtures, tires, etc. 5. Learn a demographically relevant 2nd language. In the US? Learn Spanish, for example. 6. Wake up at the same time every day. 7. Dress appropriately, appropriately well. 8. Probably learn to dance.

[@herculesbrofister265]

They say treat your body like a temple, but my body's a haunted house.

[@JeffAboularage]

These are the rules I live by. I would add, your word is your checkbook and your bond! Life is much simpler and many of life’s problems are non applicable with good habits in place.

[@hakeemsd70m]

Man, I got a lot of work to do... I hate that I wasted my early twenties working in retail trying to pick up girls when I should have gone to trade school to learn a skill to improve my usefulness. Now I can't even afford school... A man in his late 20s who has no skills is useless to society... I learned this the hard way.

[@mappyLS]

27:32 "It's so easy to have good posture" while she's slouching, lmfao.

[@licklowandslitch9095]

This was a good format for this info great video!

[@Christopher-lt9gj]

“I don’t care” girl is lying 😂Edit* My first 100 Likes, I feel special lul

[@benasslick4824]

Nah, Erica is the most honest out of all of them.

[@NeelabhKhatri4]

We don't care for her opinion.

[@kboxer119]

@@NeelabhKhatri4 then why watch

[@Adrian-zu6tm]

@@benasslick4824 lmao no. the ones actually saying what they like are being honest. women in general lie and say i don't care. Take this L npc

[@NeelabhKhatri4]

@@kboxer119 Rest of the girls weren't being a sourpuss.

[@honeybadger6313]

If a group of men were saying this sort of thing such as they don’t date fat women or women with fake boobs etc etc we would be labelled artificial, shallow and sexist. But it’s ok for this lot to do the same?

[@moleahy6880]

You're right but a real man wouldn't give a damn as to how he was labelled.

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

@@moleahy6880 also true

[@evidence-basedhealthuk5271]

Yes misandry and body shaming men for what they can't help is a normalized part of society. Double standard, hypocrites.

[@rydellybanez]

if Courtney had men in her channel answering those questions, there would be a movement of some sort for her to be cancelled

[@alb12345672]

@@evidence-basedhealthuk5271 This video is like proof of the black pill.

[@mr.midgardville]

I love Stella. She's has that "Here's the facts", but chill air about here. She's there to give her opinion for people looking for thoughts and she delivers. Not that the other's don't necessarily, but her attitude is "Efficient" :D

[@peacelovenature-03]

​someone mentioned to " compare how their mom/dad is to know if you'll like them when they're older". I'm glad you mention an older relative because I actually have a take on the psuedo-sociology aspect of this. So if their dad got mean with age (and its not your fault if thats the case but i wouldnt like it if he thought that was admirable behavior), I'd be afraid they get that way too. But if their older relative is humble/emotionally-intelligent and likes to read and caring, I like more. Like I'd really like to get to know someones relatives because that someone like it or not has aspects of them and if I hate their mom or pop and they love their mom or pop than its an insult to them so yeah definitely if I get along with their parents/parental figure/whom they look up to is really important to me at least.

[@mikebrandimarte]

Never dated or really pursed girls but always find videos like this interesting

[@donjosue1000]

So why are you watching? Lol

[@mikebrandimarte]

Find it interesting it kind reminds me of a science experiment

[@SystematicMechanic]

@@mikebrandimarte are you a monk or A.I.?

[@mikebrandimarte]

@@SystematicMechanic neither lol

[@Diazlsx07]

​@@mikebrandimarte get our there, you're missing out. and lift heavy shit.

[@Light98889]

The take away from all of this is we as guys need to understand that you just need to show you care about your appearance. Your appearance is like the tip of the iceberg in that it hints at the more important and deeper personality attributes and traits. Showing you have just a tiny bit of muscle says that you actually take the time to go to the gym or are active. You don't have to be the best dressed or have the biggest muscles or be the best at any of it you just need to show that you're trying to always improve in all these areas and that you care. This shows girls that you have motivation, discipline, attention to detail, etc. It's like the old cliche that a women wants a many with a lot of money. It's not because they want all his money it's because they're attracted to his motivation, drive to be successful, financial discipline. On the surface these subtle details seem shallow but in reality when you put them all together it builds a really accurate picture of who you are deep down inside.

[@elcanaldegaming6677]

Not to show, but rather truly care of our appearence, since it reflects our self-esteem and the type of person that we are

[@honeybadger6313]

Yeah and all the whales insisting they are ok and we shouldn’t judge on how their fat cellulite ridden ass looks but insist on dating a man with a six figure salary and a great body. Women have a lot of double standards

[@rustyblonchjr8660]

caring about your appearance is based on your intent to so like you brushed your teeth so that means you care about your appearance well actually what should be said first is why did you brush your teeth do you even know why,was it to impress someone,was it because someone told you to that's not actually caring about your appearance

[@kenny1138]

IMO strength > appearance looks don’t really have health benefits (except one I can think of) all it really shows is u have lower body fat % (hey at least we aren’t overweight or underweight) plus built a lil muscle. When you train for objectivity rather then subjectivity (which training to look good is it’s not objective it’s subjective in nature) then all styles of training improve weather that be to run faster, lift heavier, jump higher, run longer distances etc etc all this done in respect to recovery all have mental and physical health benefits. Also it makes you more satisfied and confident, u have a goal and the only one you are trying to beat is yourself (unless your competing in a sport and hey healthy competition is good). This also shows you are actually useful to people. Now don’t get me wrong I love especially now getting into nice cool looking clothes (subjective I like a lot of under-amour sports shit i personally think they have some nice merch), doing my hair, making sure my oral health is on point (crikey M8 we don’t want gum disease) watches etc etc but this is because I get an hit of endorphins and it helps me to love myself. So if it gives u that boost in yourself that’s probs why looking good might be good hey hey if it helps with the ladies then that’s a win win my fellow kings.

[@herculesbrofister265]

And you should do it for yourself and the coming Mad Max times. Trying to change for someone else will never last.

[@jasonnutter2047]

You are very warm and kind. Big fan of you and Teddy. I’ve been on Teddy’s channel for a while now. Thank you..Cheers

[@adrianvanleeuwen]

I found these interviews of what women notice and like about a guy truthful, and also useful for men to work on their self image!

[@jasperlachance6211]

Bald man here... and for anyone else out there that has very low self esteem because they lost their hair at a young age, please don't trouble yourself with sadness. Women may say they like hair, but I can contest that isn't true. I ended up dating very attractive women that originally said they don't like bald men. Its a lot of factors from personality to how you are as a man and how you treat others. Be yourself and you will attract the right woman that you'll also be attracted to and build an amazing relationship. On my way to get married to the most beautiful woman, and so happy. Much love everyone.

[@iskandarbagirov8769]

I was looking for someone to talk about this. Was very disappointed when this wasn’t brought up. But thanks for the advice. Been insecure since 18 about my hairline and when I finally shaved it everyone of my co workers said it looks great and gave me a big confidence booster. There will always be that one person who will try to bring me down by using the fact I’m bald but I’ve accepted that some people are just assholes and if it wasn’t the hair it would probably something else they would use to belittle me.

[@alangarcia3531]

That only applies if you have a nice face, I always treat others well but I'm not very appreciated because of my horrible face.

[@Wza1871]

@@alangarcia3531 Yes you are 100% right my hair is now on 2mm and i still looking good because of my face and good head structur,

[@mickhick619]

I started to lose my hair at the age of 20, it used to really bother me. I used to hide my hair line with a hat. I've gotten over it (contradictory to my pfp). I've heard ever bald joke possibile. I'm 38 now, and my attitude is f it I'm bald on top I've had to get used to it accept it now it's everyone else turn to do the same. Bald is beautiful.

[@scottr3141]

I've got two friends that are bald, and they both have real hot wives. I'm mean one of the women have a perfect drop dead body , it's perfect ,and beautiful face.

[@dukefan1010]

This was actually refreshing to see just how different girls perspectives are and how not all stereotypes are the same. But overall stella an ericabwere definitely my favorite of them all just how honest she was about it and they didn't seem to care about their guys being a 10 all around.

[@SystematicMechanic]

IMO they were all honest.

[@dukefan1010]

@Mike F what makes u think she lied tho? One of my best friends not to be mean is like a 4 or 5 tops and his wife is gorgeous. But she's with him because he's a super great guy and treats her good. And he's not loaded with money either so I know it's not that. Not all attractive women only want guys for looks and money. I know majority do but not all

[@jericoba]

@@dukefan1010 There is always exceptions. These types of videos/interview is to show a general view of what women think. To me it's more interesting how the general majority of women think because that tells me what they look for and increases my chances when I know how I can improve. That there are a few procent of women somewhere on the planet that like me 100% however whenever, is of no use. That's how I think.

[@devilselbow]

"I don't think any guy has good feet." I died laughing! She's not wrong lol.

[@ChrisLagos77]

Lol.my feet are sexy...😅

[@grafica-corby]

Random clip found by case trying to fall asleep. The blonde girl - apart from her unquestionable beauty - is astonishing. Love her attitude, as a man, I find myself completely agree with her answers. So much that I soon started skipping all the other replies, just to hear her point of view on the next topic. One of a kind, great girl.

[@stephenhagen234]

It all changes as you get older, including the texture of the skin. Wrinkles on the face, arms, hands, feet etc. Hair loss, receeding hair line, it all changes, some faster, some slower, depending on your lifestyle. The goal is to be healthy, within your normal body weight and physically active. And you attitude makes a huge difference. Bigger than you might imagine. I've met some extremely attractive women and their attitudes were a turn off. However, some average looking women with average builds had great, outgoing attitudes and they were a turn on for me! Externals will change but the heart of the person is much more significant!

[@Rizzy_K]

Fortunately for me I’ve always been a stand up guy and was raised with manners and kept fit my entire life. 29 with 10 percent body fat full head of hair have a skin care routine etc. It’s not hard to have these things

[@ShelterDogs]

Right. And also why we shouldn't identify with most of what is said here. As we get older and you still identify with these things of beauty you're going to be really unhappy.

[@stephenhagen234]

@@Rizzy_K Sow a thought, reap an action. Sow an action, reap a habit. Sow a habit, reap a lifestyle. Sow a lifestyle, reap a destiny. A lot all comes down to personal choice. But some does not. Some is inherited from our family. I did not choose to lose most of my hair but I inherited my grandfather's genes and he had major hair loss most of his life. Nonetheless, I accept it and make the best of it!

[@AlexTapisevic]

I think it is more like tendencies or preferences but, the momento you know someone that shakes you you can actually even realize that he has no of your preferences are met and still you are attracted.

[@guillaumel9728]

Loved Erica on this one! I wasn't expecting she said "I don't care" so much 😅 My answer is identical to her : I notice face first on women. Also I combine my answer with Stella's one : Each person is unique, and has to find his own style to shine (type of clothes, colors combination, accessories | all of this associated to the body, face and hair). Hope we would have more videos like this (with maybe more unusual thematics discussed) ✨

[@Leonhart_93]

The repeated "I don't care" sounded insincere, or like she didn't wanted to bother answering. It would be understandable to not care about some of them, but come on it sounds like she doesn't care about body at all, which I think everyone cares about in some form.

[@penderyn8794]

Evolutionary forces make our sub conscious care

[@SystematicMechanic]

@@Leonhart_93 maybe she doesn't really care that much if a dude is overweight.

[@Leonhart_93]

@@SystematicMechanic I will reserve the right to doubt that. Perhaps it's not really important to her, but if she were to be able to choose between overweight or not, can she really say that either one is the same? And the other girls also mentioned stuff like trimming and cleanness. Clearly there are many things one looks for when it comes to body. And later on she mentioned something about how the neck indicates body fitness, so she clearly cares.

[@vorak77]

She’s the best. The rest are too superficial. “I hate to say this but…”. Just say you’re superficial. Stop trying to act like you’re not. The one that didn’t care about most things was good. She cared about the important things.

[@joshw3090]

So generally after watching this, a guy has to be perfect in every way to have a chance with 5s. 😂

[@charlesrichards1240]

Is why I say #@%--it to dating.

[@markpommett5712]

These girls are bland. Not even close to hot. Who cares what they think.

[@perioperativedreams1768]

Some of these girls are the same ones Courtney had on asking what kind of house/lifestyle they need a man to provide, and every one of them described a dream life that would require a 300k+ salary. Again they all want the top 1% man. They're young and naive, they'll learn.

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

@@perioperativedreams1768 With modern women barely able to scrape up two brain cells to rub together--I'm not as confident as you.But,WHO KNOWS? Miracles COULD happen...I suppose.......

[@ToneGore]

Going from a 5 to 10 with just straight teeth is the craziest take I ever heard

[@renaissanceman7145]

This was interesting. I appreciate the ladies taking the time to share their perspective and opinions. Two things immediately came to mind as I watched and listened. 1) I've never even heard of a woman who didn't like/demand/require a man be stylish, well groomed, straight white teeth, fit and (bottom line) attractive in their eyes. 2) 99.9% of women have never held a labor intensive outdoor job leaving them clueless regarding the effects such jobs often have on many physical features and other aspects discussed. To my ears, everyone of your guests described a white collar man. This reinforces what most men have known the majority of their lives, women don't see 80%+/- of the men in the world. Ask any man the same questions you asked your guests and 90%+ won't care about any of the specifics in your questions. "As long as she looks good to me" is what you'll hear from men. Modern women have too many unrealistic expectations/demands and tunnel vision regarding men. The perfect recipe for disappointment.

[@gregwillis7767]

Very thankful that i grew up in an era, when little boys were told to be hard working and honest. Arms? Abs? I can still carry an aluminum cased four cylinder engine (fully assembled) across the room by myself. The opinions of these young ( too young), women are very disappointing to me...

[@shutterandspeed3855]

@@gregwillis7767 Age of instagram models and unrealistic expectations.

[@shunami8571]

100% agree

[@_____......_____]

Finally found the comment i can breath here 😂😂

[@577jrock]

Yes exactly. F Roger Devlin has summarized male sex drive as wanting variety and quantity, whereas the female sex drive is only wanting one but wanting the absolute best. And now that trading up is legal and even encouraged, women are doing that in droves. This doesn't end well.

[@johnj6743]

Girls: /have a million standards/ Guys: We don't like single moms. Girls: But why.

[@maybeor1524]

Bingo amigo. This comment, right here.

[@duparcg]

Or we don’t want a woman who is big or high body counts. Misogyny , fatt shamer

[@whitezombie10]

Instead of but why you should have put: racist, pervert, monster!!

[@letalisman4341]

I've heard the "but why" in Serbian

[@bobjohnson1096]

That is why they are just objects to us.

[@Kevo_94]

I'm so proud of all of you guys who finally started understanding the REALITY! It's absolutely devastating but kudos to all of you who get it! 👏

[@thomaspaludan5162]

Hey Courtney Thanks for your videoes - really appreciate your work :-) Quick request: A video like this one, but with women that are not so young, but more into their 30s-40s. That would be amazing - for us guys, that do not really go for the young, not super experienced girls 😊

[@joegiambelluca494]

Courtney, I love your KZbin channel and you have great videos. You’re like the only KZbinr who has testimonies, like from real women. It helps break down perspectives and understanding what girls want and stuff. Thank you.

[@apachidwill]

this all goes back to what we've always known from the start before society muddied the waters to confuse us. even as a teenager I knew to having big arms & abs, then be quiet (so they realize you wont tell), feel good about yourself, keep your head up and look them in the eyes and you'll get wonen

[@Therathrive]

Women don’t care about big arms bro

[@apachidwill]

@@Therathrive you don't have to listen to me, but make sure you invest in a lot of lotion, you'll need it. I have proven that fact many, many, many times 😈

[@zerriox]

To the point of scent: On german there's (or at least in switzerland) we say; "jemanden nicht riechen können." Whichs in depth meaning refers to the natural body scent when you don't like someone at all. So actually the chemistry between two people pretty much goes back to the, animal like, instinctiv behaviors where hormones and smell, among other things, play a big role. This all happens subconsciously without us being aware of it. We only then consciously perceive it together with the sympathy and impression of a person as a whole package which then leaves the marks of someone in our conscious thoughts.. ✌🏻☺️

[@jwddwj9]

Just want to remind everyone here that your value as person has NO relation to how appealing you are romantically/sexually to other people. You have value far outside and beyond what they're talking about in this video

[@michaelbruno1134]

Very true

[@aj4377]

💯💯. It's important dudes don't base their entire value off of this.

[@evidence-basedhealthuk5271]

Hah try telling most modern women that Who judge and grade your entire value to society based on your penis size and your sexual prowess. Sad state of affairs.

[@Stanthemilkman]

Depends on what you do.

[@VLOGNOSIS]

💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

[@bilders6701]

This was a great session! Great to see the variety of preferences.

[@moodied]

How about balding. I spent most of my life having thick, dark long hair and wore it well. It's significantly thin now right in the crown. From the back it's gone. Woulda shaved head nullify the loss of hair or should I keep it long?

[@dudebrodude4388]

I'm sorry brother I will light a candle for you

[@Nesheech]

You can’t say you love big arms but don’t care about shoulders. They come together

[@wingwalker7873]

Girls make the rules for guys but will break them for the right one

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

Rules for personality. Not for looks. In order to break the former, you have to abide by the latter.

[@wingwalker7873]

@@Michael_the_Drunkard with the right per$0nality a girl like Beyonce will mary a guy like Jay Z ..lol 😅

[@miltonmerlo4103]

"Women don't care about your looks" _ The one who came out of a dumpster being pissed on by a dog

[@loading...7583]

What a great video. Thank you so much. I have a lot to work on myself 😢

[@xyfenaurelian2707]

"Make sure to have a nice hairline." Bet let me just rewrite my genetic code real quick...

[@emate8422]

In Turkey 🇹🇷

[@grb0677]

There is just something about Stella. She’s simple, beautiful. How she articulate her responses it’s even attractive!!

[@michaelperez-alicea9181]

down bad

[@Tugela60]

She apparently is not in to smiling or being expressive though. Cold B was my thought.

[@Gabriel_F4924]

I was about to comment she gave me a lot of red flags. She seems like the type of person who will argue a whole ton. I know, i'm judgy 🙄. She seems very smart but barely smiled and then had very firm calculated requirements. Especially about feet but I didn't sense an emotional side to her.

[@DiaboloMootopia]

Lexi comes across as so genuine and unfiltered, which makes her incredibly attractive. :)

[@Lucky_Luke486]

God, women are just absolute gems. Erica doesn't care about single thing that defines gym addicts. Not arms, not shoulders, not abs... But if he has a neck that is fit... Oh boy, she's in! Stella, who seems most grounded throughout the interview goes to say style is the most important, immediately followed by saying some people are mich nicer on the inside while not necessarily looking the best .. How would you know though? If they have failed at #1 thing for you? So it's the most important thing, but not a deal breaker? Still loved a video and found it helpful, more of this please!

[@Nekse]

Been using hugo boss evwryday for years as i like it smell, used to be 30€, now can get for 13€.. that prada luna rossa black seems to be 110€/100ml.. axe bottle is 3€, well i hate axe smells, but still ~30-50€/bottle etc. is about max i would put for everyday use..

[@christophere7426]

I find these interviews with your friends really interesting. It is refreshing to hear the honesty without any hype, as well as the range of answers and where responses tend to be similar and different. Great to hear the different perspectives.

[@LuckysLair]

Plus these are one on one. Every street interview I've ever seen online, the group of girls always look to each other for validation of their words, and feed off of each other. Those interview replies are not at all thought out by the respondent. This video style is a far better way

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes it is

[@kristiannoel4866]

It's always good to hear the perspective of a group of women due to differing opinions. I'd like to see more of this.

[@kristiannoel4866]

@t p everyone has a different idea of what they like.

[@ronhughes5894]

So interesting. After having seen several videos with this same cast of guests, I had totally assumed that Stella was tall for some reason. When she said she was 5'3 i was so surprised. Maybe its just her energy? I thought the commentary about eyes was interesting because for me it is 100% the first and most important thing I notice in a person, shape most importantly but also color. Personally I am a HUGE sucker for a brown eyed girl. Although I also like brown eyes in men, despite absolutely not being attracted to men lol. I guess it's an aesthetics thing.

[@raymondwatts5372]

watching these women speak just gives me another thought about how I understand that there are many women that are clueless to men that could honestly love them.

[@rennard968]

Man ur videos r useful af for us that have no idea bout something that is totally new to us

[@Danny-qm3qc]

And they say men are shallow…. 😂 😂 😂

[@Bryan48950]

We both are , it’s human nature .

[@chris_g_vibes]

Also, men usually put a heavy emphasis on looks. Women focus on other attributes and looks, for most part.

[@HughGenvoenni]

I mean to be fair it IS the complete package when seeking a significant other. Looks and personality go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other! Someone could be a 10 in looks but a 0 in personality, and that will default them back to 0…and same thing vice versa to some extent

[@jacklenihan5574]

I feel like they’re very reasonable if not completely ambivalent about all the physical traits they were asked about. I’m not sure what you’re talking about.

[@Danny-qm3qc]

Men are judged for having preferences, men are called shallow, misogynistic, etc. for having them. Women are praised for having preferences. For example, dating apps have a height preference, most women want a man at least 6 foot tall in the West, in addition to a thousand other preferences. So let’s add a weight preference to the dating apps. Oh wait, men can’t have preferences. Exactly my point…

[@jameswoodard4304]

"Why are you slouching?" As she's slouching. It works both ways, ladies.

[@charliesomoza5918]

Gentlemen's! In life one learned through observing facts not “ideas” or “opinions” The matter is: What do you see around you? Truth and beauty or untruth and ugliness? Don’t depend on annyone or anything. I know, pretty well that if you are young, specially you are going to suffer more if women don’t give a shit about you but all this reveals the true Nature of or own society.Don’t let bitter you.Life is much more than that!! Find what you love and go for it!! There is the Truth!

[@steveduranko4911]

The girl who responded “idc” to just about every question is my spirit animal

[@gerardoa9179]

She is just lying

[@ericacarlberg5516]

Lol, Thank you!

[@ArthurZ-nj8hh]

Hi Courtney. Can you do a video on non-english accents (non-american, non-english speaking countries accents) and ask ladies which kind of accent they prefer and why? I would like them to be honest with their responses. For example: Asian accent versus western european accent verses spanish-portugese accent versus french accent versus eastern european accent versus african accent versus italian accent... I hope that you got a point. :)

[@swurvling]

Interesting video! I´d recommend, you give the participants an anonymized questionnaire. The answers are heavily biased because the participants are questioned publicly. Also they aren´t interviewed each one individually, so peer pressure plays a big role too.

[@danieldurand5721]

I think you should have Teddy and the boys do the same type of video about women.

[@peterpwn9558]

Imagine the outrage if men talked about women's bodies the way the women in this video do.

[@CourtneyRyan]

That would be fun!

[@Snowkone81]

I'd love to see that, but I bet there would be SO much hate. It's a double standard these days, and we as guys have to learn to deal with it. We can only talk about it in private lol

[@aubreytraverse.]

Should definitely do it!

[@_GOING_DARK_]

They would get CANCELED

[@winfieldagonoy]

OK for the woman that says, "I don't care" a lot in this video, there is no way she does NOT care about any traits from any guy. Eventually a guy that will like her and want pursue her, I am confident that she will find something that she will not like and I guarantee that she change that mindset and she will care.

[@maximus6791]

I think she is just trying to sound nice lol

[@DarkMidgit177]

The first thing that most, if not all women notice first from a guy is their height. Now whether they care about it or not is purely up to their preference, which is not being shallow. Everyone has preferences and if she doesn’t like guys on the shorter side then it’s no problem. Be respectful and move on to someone who doesn’t care 💯

[@johndoe-hf6zn]

I feel sorry for any guy that gets involved with the Stella, the blonde wearing the green plaid...... no thanks!

[@DanielsGameVault]

Gotta love Erica - seems so innocent, apparently not caring about any of the physical stuff, just saying "I don't care" :))

[@awr2024]

Her boyfriend is probably jacked.

[@chrism4008]

She just doesn't want people to judge her for her preferences, they have to also stick to their social norms of being nice to everyone and everyone having some kind of value to *someone* just not her

[@HughGenvoenni]

Hate to burst your bubble, but despite not being overtly particular about a man’s physical attributes, she made it abundantly clear in another video that she cares a lot about money…like the guy has to make at least 500k a year for her to consider him…I’m not even exaggerating

[@F_Yale]

@@HughGenvoenni Of course, the richest guys tend to lead the most decadent lifestyles. She wouldn't want to exclude her prime clientele, would she.

[@user-dy2zy8rd2t]

Uh-Huh---and I got a bridge I wanna sell ya........

[@Cwcs4]

The girl that said “I don’t care” about almost everything is my type of girl 😂

[@ChristopherAmankwah]

Frr😂

[@Rizzy_K]

Low standards girl

[@tivasthegamer9817]

If you are talking about Erica, she confuses me in the end. It was weird that she didnt care about anything related to body options but, at the end of the video when they all shared about the first thing they notice in a guy, she said a "strong neck because that means he is fit"... So, does she care or not?

[@rotierender_lurch]

@@tivasthegamer9817 She cares about the neck.

[@tivasthegamer9817]

@@rotierender_lurch exactly! Therefore she cares about being fit, and that means she cares about things she said she didnt. It would be weird if you have a strong gross neck with no strong arms, shoulders, back and/or abs, right? Unless you exercise only your neck...

[@sheldoncooper8199]

This is the most informative Video on the Topic i ve EVER Seen.

[@nate2807]

They were asked questions and provided honest answers, publicly. That, in and of itself is not shallow - it's courageous. I think they showed a range of traits and what I noticed most was that they were sweet, driven, confident, intelligent, and yes, accepting of others in their own ways. There were some differences in standards, and that's okay. Either way, a person is entitled to have their own preferences, to choose, and they don't owe the world a justification, nor is it fair for others to judge another on such things (having a view on something does not necessarily make you judgmental). Love yourself, accept yourself, and have some self-compassion. If you do, you'd gain the confidence and contentment that comes with knowing your own self-worth is not dependent on others' opinions of you. That is, you'd be internally validated, rather than externally validated. Learn to let go of the question, "am I good enough?" And know that the answer is, "I am good enough." I could be unattractive to 95% of women, maybe all women, but if I know that I got up this morning and gave the day my best (even if some days, my best seems to me like little more than a step back), there's no reason for me to beat myself up about the day, nor should I believe that I'm inferior because another didn't find me attractive. I am who I am. I do the best I can. I'm human. I try to improve, to live a fulfilling life, and to care deeply for others (even if they showed little care for me). One day, near the end of my life, I'll reflect on my imperfect life without regret, and with the understanding that I did all I could, I tried my best, I showed love such that others knew how much they mean to me. Etc. ...other's' preferences are of no real consequence. Instead, I think judgmental behaviors are more likely your way of coping with insecurities, immaturity, and perhaps past rejection (I'm sorry, if this is the case. Respectfully. Really I am). You don't need everyone to love you. First, learn to love yourself (or at least begin with learning to accept yourself). And have some empathy and compassion for yourself and others (because you never know what hardships, traumas, or other things might have led others to having the preferences they do, and certainly it would be wrong to hold that against them). Take ownership over everything that happens in your life, instead of relying on excuses or blaming others. Do all of these things and you'll find yourself less judgmental, happier, and -wait for it- probably much more attractive to the women you say are shallow.

[@nicolaimarquez3055]

Love these videos. I see in the comments some guys who don't like being told what they need to have or do. What I learned here is that some women do care about looks, but others just care about what you do with what you have. I feel this is of incredible value to guys who actually want to be better men to the women in their life. So Thank you :)

[@herculesbrofister265]

A problem with incels is they take figures of speech as literal absolutes. "They should like me for me" means "i can play video games and watch Japanese cartoons 16 hours a day, shower 2x a month, be able cook nothing more than hot pockets and bagel bites, and someone should accept that" "looks don't matter" means "i can weigh 350 lbs, wear dirty, stained clothing, have terrible BO, and have greasy, unkempt hair and facial hair and i should be able to get Cindy Crawford "(dating myself a bit there) If someone doesn't show any interest in their own life, why would someone else?

[@nicolaimarquez3055]

@@herculesbrofister265 I don't really know if you're adding to my comment, or thinking that I meant that, lol. I obviously think men (and people on the whole for that matter) should take care of themselves. What I mean when I say girls care about looks, I mean precisely "things you can't control", like simply what you get froom your genes. And when I say "others just care about what you do with what you have" I mean precisely taking care of oneself. Doing excercise. Eaiting healthy. Dressing up nice and clean. Smelling good. These are all things you can control And that's what I mean. As of the rest you said, it just seems mean-spirited to me, lol.

[@jeravincer]

it is valuable to know that women objectify men as much, and more, than women. Extremely valuable.

[@jabbaweezy]

11:55 she's a gem for that referencing Crooked Smile. That song changed my life perspective on self image as a teenager

[@frankfromupstateny3796]

All people that work out...have some level of discipline and time-effort. It's hard work. Nice interviews; thank you ladies.

[@scotthays3101]

I love this content. I am a many yeaars married man but, this is helpful to make me better for my wife. Thank You so much!

[@wiserliving4840]

Really enjoy the panel format and believe it is definitely something you should keep doing along with your regular format.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! ❤️

[@CoolChevere]

I think a different group would be nice.

[@RR-et6zp]

social proof and pre selection

[@peterparker01676]

Hello how are you doing today?

[@filamese7298]

Courtney please continue this interview series! It’s so entertaining and insightful.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes it does

[@90candelarioL]

I Love this! Just got of workers comp so need a happy version of having my body valued by section… 😂❤ I feel like I’m getting a better rating here FYI.. 😊

[@ChrisSaur]

I love how the girl at 27:32 asks "Why are you slouching? It's so easy to have like good posture." While being the only girl in the video slouching. She is even slouching in the moment she says that. It's not that easy to notice when you being to slouch if you are not focued on it. You need to practice good posture to make it the default. Nothing "so easy" about that.

[@tompeters5903]

I love the mental gymnastics of why they are attracted to fit men. 'well its cause of the discipline and because I'm into fitness too. Def not shallow just so you know" ITS OK to admit attractive things are attractive. Don't fucking apologize

[@antoinegiron]

This videos amazing. We need more women willing to be featured on your channel like this👍🏼👏🏼

[@RR-et6zp]

social proof and pre selection

[@heavymellow333]

The lady who knew about "Crooked Smile" by Cole made some solid points. Bonus for the song.

[@DZ60]

you knoooow that one girl that just says idc is lyiiiiiing 😂

[@OvercastDaze]

I have most of these qualities. Unfortunately, I'm 5'4". I've never had a problem getting dates, but I'm aware that it dramatically changes my dating pool.

[@NeckBoneGood]

how do you get dates, like what do you do ? serious question

[@redrum8302]

The one blonde girl said “once you take your socks off.. that’s who you are” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m crying. That shit was funny.