5 Body Language Signs She WANTS You To Approach Her | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I'm going over 5 body language signs that she wants you to approach her. Let's face it, women have to deal with being approached a lot more than guys do. If she wants you to approach her, there are things she'll do to let you know. Thank you all for watching and let me know what the signs you look for are!
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[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

My motto is rejection from a woman can be a way God saving you from a headache you don't need. The woman that's meant for you won't reject you. Give her a compliment and keep on moving.

[@CourtneyRyan]

💯

[@leebishop7591]

I like this one.

[@ricardogalindo8794]

AMS hinted on this belief system too. To look at rejections not personally and to see them as 1) bad timing 2) she just got out of a relationship or dealing with a personal problem 3) is on her own journey/purpose 4) her mindset isn't correct 5) protection. My opinion, I don't believe in a woman having a "type" or not finding you "attractive," especially if you're a high quality man. If a woman doesn't "like" you. It's their own mindsets and the type of mindsets they find attractive in a "type" of men. This is how a "good girl" could end up liking a "bad boy," because their mindsets are incorrect and attracted to a horrible person, i.e they're a horrible person themselves. This is why I don't believe in "types," it's all mindsets and being attracted to a person that is alike, people attract what they are. If a woman is complaining about where are all "the nice guys" or how "all men are dogs" is due to them being negative and their mindsets being toxic. Just my 2 cents.

[@rogerdsmith]

There’s a meme that goes; Girl prays to God, “Please send me my future husband.” To which God answers, “I did, but you told him you wanted to be just friends.”

[@stians.6912]

What a COPE 😂

[@Gutch220]

Going to bars is a terrible place for introverted people who aren't big drinkers, and hate having to yell to speak. It's like; be someone you're not, in a place you don't want to be, doing something you don't want to do.

[@kku6857]

Sure, instead go to latino dance parties.

[@jleano609]

@@kku6857 salsa night back in the day was indeed a target rich environment.

[@cisium1184]

@@kku6857 Unfortunately I'm Irish, and we are not allowed to move our arms while dancing.

[@masterexploder9668]

Dance is a solid idea to look for women, but for introverted man it will be one hell of a shock therapy.

[@jleano609]

@@masterexploder9668 I disagree, in a structured environment like an "open" dance class that I used to go to back in the day it was actually good because you HAD TO mix with the girls and you had a justified reason for doing so. You literally lined up, danced for a bit then rotated. Zero approach anxiety in the first instance and you could screen girls for good connection and then re-approach in the free practice phase with less anxiety as you weren't totally cold.

[@michaeldiffey3791]

I had a woman approach me and I could tell right away she was into me. She came up to me smiling and we got on the subject of what kind of food I like and what my drink of choice was. What made me know for sure she was into me is when she actually brought me the food and drink we were just talking about. I fell in love right away.

[@bobbwc7011]

LOL brilliant

[@wahlberliner]

and then you ended in a chinese dungeon.

[@MrSmoughal]

Thats so damn rare . sounds like a keeper . wish both of you the best . but still do a prenup .. we dont really have that it UK. Also dont have kids immediatey

[@JohnM...]

@@bobbwc7011it was his mom….

[@McGeistly]

Then she walked back after with the bill for the food, and said "Thanks for coming!"

[@Uns46]

Having a lawyer will boost your confidence for approaching

[@michaelscott5962]

Underrated comment in 2021

[@brownpunk1794]

Truth bomb😬👍🏽

[@greggeiger7532]

Body cam too

[@oceanhedonist265]

Would it help to have your lawyer with you when you approach women? 🤔

[@ThatMcflyGuy]

Damn that’s cold lol

[@celicacelica1]

You are a powerful force for good, innovation, creativity and progress. Instead of wasting your time trying to figure out if a girl is signalling you or just fixing her hair, go be the best version of you that you can be. Give it your undivided attention until you wake up every day, ecstatic about who you are as a person and what you can and do accomplish every day. If you do this, you will realise that raising a family and impressing a woman is not as high a priority as you have been conditioned to think it is. Impress yourself. That will make you truly happy.

[@aegisreflector1239]

Good point

[@mikeb6232]

Sounds like a Tavistock globalist influence operation talking point in the effort to further destroy dating, marriage, having children, and the family, to make America weaker and further and protect the effort to bring in global Satanic totalitarian government.

[@celicacelica1]

@@mikeb6232 are you saying there is no alternative to marriage?

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Its definitely a good point 👉

[@anonymoustoxicityhasbecomecool]

Beautiful

[@luisaguilar5343]

Guys, protip: If she breaks into your house to steal a lock of your hair for her altar, she's DEFINITELY at least minimally interested in you, but it depends on the context.

[@lb4581]

Don’t discount the demon summoning for your murder, or voodoo doll. So this tip goes both ways IMO and you really should read the situation.

[@shubaairbana]

@@lb4581 i'm calling the cops and a priest either way

[@calebray4168]

😂

[@Zirkobi]

Sounds kinda hot and kinky, doesn't it?

[@brianmcdonald7017]

Pubic hair?

[@Truekaruminmr]

Tips to ladies to approach guys: Make it CLEAR that you are interested with your actions and words. It's hard these days to know if a woman is really interested in us or not.

[@cuddlycooper8169]

I agree but fat chance that will ever happen, it seems to be part of their genetic makeup

[@iagobroxado]

If one gets to you trying to start a chat, that's a sign already. At least that's what I learned from today's lesson. But that depends on the culture of the place where you live a lot too. Here in Brazil, depending on the context, it wouldn't mean much (let's say, at work).

[@adrianchico8886]

That’ll never happen unfortunately

[@Capohanf1]

AND THEN GUYS, CALL YOUR LAWYER!!!!!!!!!!! YOU WILL NEED A PAPER TRAIL!!!!!!!!

[@MrSmoughal]

@@Capohanf1 lol yes 🤣

[@EcarrTech]

It's so true. Was talking to a girl for a hour at a party, a neighbor said hello, female, I turned my body to be polite and say hello and 2 moments later the first girl walked away. At the time it blew me away because I was just being kind to the neighbor. Live and learn.

[@mrj4082]

Did you atleast start talking with the neighbour?

[@Harry-fk5of]

Was the first girl looking for a way out of the convo and you didn't pick up her hints?

[@hihtitmamnan]

Tough lesson... Women are cruel

[@donrosen8618]

1- 1:10 The Glance - Checking, Or See you at many times. 2- 2:54 Eye Contact 3- 3:54 A Smile - Smile, Eye Contact and look away. 4- 5:27 Touching her Hair 5- 6:34 She's getting Closer to you

[@abelarvizu2898]

Doing God's work

[@venumr8089]

thanks bro

[@tomijojo]

Ty my man

[@Come_walk_with_me614]

A million thank you for time stamp bro. 👍

[@monke4632]

A true hero

[@MrCanadiansingh]

1. Do approach a girl if she is sitting/standing and looks relaxed. ... 2. Do approach if you've noticed her sending several glances and/or smiles your way. ... 3. Don't approach a girl if she looks upset. ... 4. Don't approach a girl if she is deeply preoccupied with something. 5. Try in public place airport, coffee shop, library or book store, parks

[@johnnythekid4601]

And dont approach if your unattractive because this means nothing approach a girl if she is sitting/standing and looks relaxed

[@TheCoderable]

@@johnnythekid4601 what?

[@Playboyy1985]

@Johnny that’s the spirit I can see you’re a real go getter

[@SilveeYT]

I'm gonna met my lifelong girlfriend in a library, cause most women like that are very smart and in-tune with their brain like me c:

[@cwill6491]

So from number 2 alone, never approach. Got it.

[@mikeg3439]

I appreciate your statement that you are just being realistic, people lose sight of how important it is to confront "what actually is the reality". That stuck out for me. You can either attempt to find a relationship with an imaginary girl who conforms to your preconceived notions of how they should act, or you can attempt to find a relationship with an actual girl who... is going to act the way she acts.

[@ricardogalindo8794]

Tip to women: when you go to social events as a group, don't create "gates" by seating or standing close together. This creates the idea that you are guarding yourselves and it sends the wrong message to men, it ends with many men not approaching. Instead, give yourselves some space between each other or go to different parts of the venue. Walk around the venue too, don't just stay in one spot the whole night. It gives off the feeling that you are afraid and don't want to be approach. Just what I've noticed, after going to social meet ups and hearing several women complaining about how men don't approach you. It's due to how you set yourselves up and how you set your environments and vibes too.

[@LiGHTProductions]

Or those women might be so bitchy about everything and that's why nobody wants to approach them. But for some women, yes, this totally applies.

[@jacobm2625]

@@LiGHTProductions I second this. Maybe it’s a girls night and they don’t actually want men to approach them. Maybe they are the super judgy/bitchy type and, if they are, they’re not even worth your time.

[@cbrown6848]

@@jacobm2625 great idea... girls night out at a bar to not be approached in a business designed for that... they love it cuz it feeds their egos

[@jacobm2625]

@@cbrown6848 until you ignore them, because you see them for what they are.

[@cbrown6848]

Since when do females take tips from guys on dating? 😅🤣😅🤣

[@evolicious-x]

i've started making more eye contact with females. and wow it is a huge difference. i've always been shy but have always noticed women looking at me, and now i can pretty much read if they seem to like what they see. it's crazy. i really would suggest making eye contact if they are looking your way.

[@juny1982]

Women of these days, are eye contact in the Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Post

[@hans9438]

True, i have encountered alot od those glances at bar and they were always interested..Its just about knowing shes looking at you for a reason!

[@marksherrit5874]

That also applies when you're hideous looking by the way. Some women stare at you because they can't believe how ugly you are or are laughing at you.

[@masterexploder9668]

Good to make sure nobody is behind you. It's awkward when it's revealed she didn't look at you, but at the CHAD behind.

[@mikeguidry2577]

I think eye contact in general doesn't mean much unless it's continued. Many times I'm walking on the street and will look at a woman and they make eye contact back, but I think that's just natural. Like you may have something to say or maybe they look back just because if eyes are on you then you usually look back. If they're looking at you first, and you look over, and they stay looking, that's when it means something.

[@blakeschmidt4422]

I luv that she is not a narcissist, and a college attendant. Down to earth

[@jhilladay]

When you know she wants you to approach her and you ignore all the signs so she doesn’t get validated 🙏

[@AnointedOne4God]

👍

[@Harry-fk5of]

No time to play games with people like that, if I'm not interested I'll ignore the signs but I'm not gonna do it to deliberately humble her

[@lanray1012]

They smile to acknowledge your existence 😭😭😭😂😂.. that line got me

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂💀

[@MrTruthislight]

.... if u are chad u exist

[@jkshallinheritearth3883]

Atleast be 7/10 in looks!

[@jeremiahtotele6146]

bro the way she said it was demeaning af but i found it hilarious.

[@bbyflip1]

or could be just a courteous smile 🤣! or is that gel in your hair something about Mary 🤪😂😂

[@matthewdixon481]

38 yr old single man here .. Just wanted to say I've watched quite a few of your videos and enjoy your nice calm feminine demeanor : ) You make some excellent points about the times we are in as far as dating goes. It's just another world out there : / I've always been a relationship type of guy and since I was 19 have usually had a girlfriend. 5 great women to be exact. Each relationship was truly amazing in its own way and I'll always adore each one of those girls .. They were a big part of my life as I was coming of age and each one taught me something different. As far as the times a woman ever hit on me or approached me I can count on one hand lol. I'm speaking of times a girl actually either bumped into me and talked to me or gave me a comment and not just the eye contact/glances/looks from across the room. I still think us men should be the ones to initiate conversation and or introduce ourselves. However, we really are separating ourselves from you ladies and not approaching you as if it has become not even worth it. The disinterest of men wanting to meet and talk to women especially these past few years is alarming. Almost seems as if something so innocent as a man approaching a woman to give a compliment/say something and try and see if there is a connection is a lost art or an ancient form of communication lol. The pandemic did not help AT ALL with any of this. I believe at this point we all crave a return to normalcy so bad that we don't really know exactly what to do in a sense. Kinda sad that we've gotten to this point but its on both sexes to get back to how things used to be. If you think about it we can eliminate and disregard social media from our lives and try to get back to basics. Ya know simple easy dating stuff : ) Think back to when you were young and wanted to ask a girl you liked to roller 'slow' skate with you to a sweet rock ballad lol You were head over heels and in puppy love. Nothing can replace human emotion and human contact and the bond between a man and a woman. You can't eliminate human compassion.

[@cbrown6848]

Women: I like honest communication: also women... I expect you to read my mind thru ambivalent body language 😅🤣😅🤣

[@michaelrespicio5683]

Lol right. Here we go again with American girls expecting guys to approach. Know why that happens? Think about it...it's more realistic to think some girls expect that because they lack experience approaching guys and therefore have no confidence to start a conversation themselves. If girls want a guy to approach her, she may as well do it. It must suck if a girl notices a guy and wants HIM to approach but nothing happens in the end since SHE never took initiative when she had the chance. In some cultures, who does the approaching is equalized. The world needs more of this. I don't know how guys approaching girls became so widespread and maintained this long but it's time to change, because change can be a good thing

[@m.c.martin]

@@michaelrespicio5683 It was marketed in the 1920’s as arranged marriage became less and less practiced in America and maintained itself through the 50’s. By the 60’s, it was a Cultural Norm here in America. So only the past 100 years or so

[@skylersilva6135]

@@michaelrespicio5683 exactly ,I totally agree with you...fun y how everything else is changing in today's world with gender fluids, women being more empowered and all this other stuff yet , they still want to keep this whole"let's make men still do the approaching " idea

[@cbrown6848]

@@michaelrespicio5683 yeah western women are catered to. And yet somehow still play victim

[@cbrown6848]

@@skylersilva6135 women scream equality but what they really mean is female privilege superiority and no responsibility

[@drayflem7929]

I will always remember my mother telling me " the kind of people you meet in a bar are the kind of people you meet in a bar ".

[@tomfrankiewicz4030]

When approaching a woman tell her that you don't have any money and still live with your parents.

[@Ilovescottpilgrim405]

Bro my boi tried it and got to fight her exes

[@immortalobelisk6302]

@@Ilovescottpilgrim405 This is a Seinfeld reference, kid

[@jejo63660]

“Hi, my name is George. I’m unemployed and still live with my parents.” “I’m Victoria, hi ☺️”

[@clublulu399]

That’ll only shoo her off if she isn’t head over heels for the guy. I’m sure you’re aware of the things a girl will let slide for the guy she’s into vs. the dude she’s not.

[@johnblossom8447]

I’m an older guy and semi-retired. I have a part-time job at a grocery store to keep from being bored. I see these signs all the time, between customers mostly, and sometimes directed toward me. I see men miss these signs all the time. Getting closer is definitely a positive sign. I get to see women talking to their friends, so I know their intentions. I’ve seen ladies point out a man, then look his way a couple times, then play with their hair, then get closer. It may sound strange, but a grocery store is a good place to meet people. You can tell a lot about people by what food they buy and you can tell if they have similar tastes. I’ve seen a lot of dates happen in the grocery store I work.

[@analystzorncasteel3047]

.. Or it's a good place for a man (customer) to get a sexual harassment claim lodged against him, by a customer.

[@AT-pw9dx]

Thank you for your insight!!

[@GordonFreeman.]

Underrated comment right here. And agree, there is quality ppl watching at the food store. 😀

[@johnblossom8447]

@@analystzorncasteel3047, I’ve seen that happen, too.

[@johnblossom8447]

@Ray, that’s too bad.

[@hemihead001]

I have always let women approach me . That way I know she is interested for certain . Otherwise I don't bother . It worked for me .

[@innocentrage1]

Women approach? Lol good luck

[@domjervis]

@@innocentrage1 Surmising I've been lucky. I'm 65 & that has NEVER happened. Wouldn't know what to do if one did.

[@teddychalgren]

1. The glance (and then a second glance). 2. Eye contact. 3. A smile (in combination with 1 and 2). 4. Touching her hair, brush her hair with her hand, twirling her hair with finger. 5. Getting closer to you (moving from across the room to very near your proximity). If you talk to her and she turns to face you full body, her feet are pointed to you, it's on! If she comes up and talks to you, even saying the DUMBEST thing on planet Earth, most likely, she's into you.

[@Coreisus]

Bruh, still can't tell. Abort mission

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Thank you for the tips

[@victorsong8416]

Don't even think that these mean anything in the vast majority of the cases. Not even the touching... They are just TESTING if they are still desirable for procreation. You are not a potential partner to be, but a lab rat. If you respond, it's over, the test is accomplished with success - now get lost you dumb sucker lab rat... You've been USED - and she laughs about it to her friends.

[@merkingsavage6045]

@@Coreisus mission failed, well get em next time

[@abhijayskumar1]

Nice , thanks

[@garmisra7841]

It's really important to remember that just one thing isn't an indicator, it's the cluster that is the giveaway. The more indicators the better. A smile, or a hair twirl, or proximity, or eye contact, any of these things by themselves isn't likely to mean anything. If there's three or four things going on, I'd say be open to possibilities and say hello.

[@garmisra7841]

@REFORMATTED 2086 Well, I don't have any money, so that's not an issue. 😆

[@nigeldonaldson1647]

Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, at first when it comes down to attraction.

[@themoview464]

"Having the confidence to approach a girl" I don't wanna go to jail tho 😂😂😂

[@alwnthomas_]

what is happening to our society?!?! When did approaching a women stop being normal? WTF?

[@davidmajor1508]

@@alwnthomas_ Scary, isn't it? Western society is unraveling.

[@dorkga1092]

You only go to jail if you keep insisting after she's already said no or is going out of her way to make no effort to engage with you.

[@themoview464]

@@dorkga1092 Nah, I once said " Hi" to a woman in the street when I was like 13 and I wasn't even trying to hit on her, then she goes giving me the dirtiest look. Imagine if I was actually trying to approach her.

[@ltb1345]

@@davidmajor1508 Why did I have to be born in this era? WHY?!

[@jks211]

Step 1. Be Attractive Step 2. Don't be unattractive Step 3. .... Step 4. Profit

[@ACTHdan]

You should observe couples in public. You might be surprised to learn that not everyone lives up to western ideals of beauty , and are still in a relationship.

[@TheTrooper1878]

@@ACTHdan The problem is that often you can't tell if they are actually dating, friends or siblings.

[@Alresu]

@@TheTrooper1878 I think it's safe to assume that some of them are dating.

[@TheTrooper1878]

@@Alresu Yeah some of them. Like 1 in 1000

[@johnnylego807]

This is so wrong and such a false notion. Being attractive does not do the justice. I know this for fact, there is a reason most gay dudes are attractive dudes, they don’t get women as easy as you think. It’s a combination of the two, if you have moderate or normal attractiveness , and a good personality, you are set! Personality is more important than looks. I was always out done by ugly dudes with more confidence……

[@Paducahrus]

My wife claims that I'm oblivious to flirting and terrible at picking up signs from women. I'm shy and somewhere between insecure and humble. Dating was terrible for me until about a year before I met my wife and even then it was just so-so (I understand that a large part of that was my fault). It's easy for someone to say, "Just be relaxed and confident." It's terribly difficult to actually be relaxed and confident - at least for many people.

[@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy]

Looks to me like you married the first woman that you got. That is a very dangerous situation to be in because she has lots of experience and you don't. This also happened to me with my first girlfriend. I was extremely naive and she was cooked. I got burned in the end. Be carefull !

[@Paducahrus]

@@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy Well,, I was 29 when we met, we've been together 24 years and married for 22 - so things have worked out fairly well.

[@TRUTHaintHATING]

​@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy that happened to me and I'm ready to get a divorce. Because I'm still not happy. I just accepted my fait because at that time I wasn't getting who I wanted. Now that I got married and focus on self improvement of me. Now the women I would of wanted I can get them. So I rather leave the marriage to be happy. Been married for like 3 years I believe

[@chrialivest]

Oh man, I wish I learned about body language when I was a teenager, or even in college. All very helpful tips. - Thank you! A tip to ladies. When a guy approaches, he doesn’t know how many guys have approached you previously. He doesn’t know what your day was like. So, please be respectful and kind in your response, because approaching a lady can be a very difficult event for a guy.

[@jeremesmith9266]

I won’t even bother with approaching women any more (at least in the USA). So many have absolutely nothing to offer in a relationship. I visited Poland 2 years ago and holy shit, the women there actually seem to have their shit together and enjoy life. The difference in the “women culture” (if that’s a thing) was staggering. Made me want to move there JUST to meet a partner.

[@MRSTEEL15]

Anywhere outside the US ,you'll find normalcy

[@srira7910]

Fully agree, same experiences. No American Female Laundry List of Requirements.

[@robertbargielski4332]

I agree with u guys 100%

[@ivegotcandy128]

The only women worthy of marriage on this planet are Eastern European, Asian, or Caucasian women from Latin America. They haven't been ruined by feminism like American and Western European women have. Modern feminism is really just gay women making normal healthy heterosexual women feel guilty for being normal healthy heterosexual women.

[@clublulu399]

Yea man American girls are not for the long time but a fun time. I was born and raised in Austria for the first 13 years before moving to the states. I visit my family in Europe at least once a year and the difference in women between the cultures is staggering.

[@Sign-oi4oc]

#1 1:09: The Glance #2 2:52: Eye Contact #3 3:51: A smile #4 5:25: Touching her Hair #5 6:33: She’s getting closer

[@Okunniger_Volker]

So apparently every woman I work with is interested in me.... Wild how simply being a communicative human is now the equivalent of being interested. Seems like all of society has just become completely socially undeveloped.

[@Jacque-de-Jacque]

If you can accept a rejection “standing tall”, the woman will usually seek you out later, because it is a sign of strength to be able to handle rejection with dignity and kindness.

[@PolishKnightUSA]

Another way of handling it is to avoid appearing like you're hitting on her. One time I was just making conversation with a woman 40 years older than me and she basically told me to bug off which was fine, but I found it amusing that she thought I was hitting on her when I was just practicing and enjoying basic social skills. Perhaps the worst thing about PUA training is that they encourage men who have poor social reading skills to start hitting on multiple women which not only creates itself a massive amount of social anxiety for him when the rejections occur, but creates discord and spooks the women he approaches for other men to talk to them. One of the best books I read on the subject suggested just talking to anyone and making friends. If you can make a dozen good friends (and they will have as much value as any girlfriend!), then you have the social skills to approach and meeting someone.

[@DarkAlan2]

lmao no she won't

[@friedhelminkursk503]

@@DarkAlan2 its ok buddy if youre hurt dont worry im sure youll find someone

[@DarkAlan2]

@@friedhelminkursk503 we're not buddies, you lil lncel

[@DarkAlan2]

@@friedhelminkursk503 youtube censored your comment, simp.

[@Deezy815]

Women: Communication is key! Also women: Here's how we communicate without really communicating so its on you to guess what were thinking. SMH good luck gents

[@johngalt6838]

And we mean the opposite because we're cra cra.

[@Anton5555sg]

I'm a keep saying for as long as I possibly can.... Men, Stop making the first move and trying to Read women. It's dumb, manipulative and a waste of time. It's time for Women to "Women Up" and actually speak their damn minds. They are Adults! They can Speak! 🙄🙄

[@cbrown6848]

Women talk in girl code... never the honest communication they pretend to want

[@Lord_Thunderballs]

@@Anton5555sg Who hurt you?

[@Anton5555sg]

@@Lord_Thunderballs Are you a woman?

[@konradzlu5h]

Be confident and 'make them feel comfortable" means kill your confidence in thinking how to please her to feel comfortable.

[@tramanaden]

Hi Courtney, I recently discovered your channel and I love it. It's great hearing a down to earth female's perspective on these things. Keep up the great work!

[@CourtneyRyan]

So glad to hear it! Thank you so much 🥰

[@JohnDoe-pf6qp]

And remember lads there is absolutely nothing stopping her from calling the police and pressing charges if you're wrong about any of this. Contrary to popular mythology it does not have to be repeated unwanted advances to warrant a police complaint. If you say hello and she doesn't like it that's harassment. This kind of thing is just a really bad idea if you aren't wealthy, tall, and single digit body fat.

[@paulaagam5071]

Wtf? Can you give a single instance of this happening? Where a guy says hello and is charged with harassment?

[@alexanderbeck7953]

@@paulaagam5071 yeah man this guy screams out extreme anxiety and disgust towards the opposite gender. I’m no brad Pitt whatsoever but bloody hell it isn’t that bad. Lack of real physical experience and encounters with women must be the only reason for this guys assumption. Saying hello to a woman will not result in what he’s stated, never. How ridiculous.

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

@@alexanderbeck7953 if she finds that guy ugly, then that is very possible. Just because it never happened to you or anyone you know, doesn't mean it never happened. If men are talking about, it means that it happened more than once somewhere. And even if that doesn't happen everytime an ugly guy approaches, he will face insults, humiliation and social damage, especially if her friends film and post it on social media. And in most cases the woman is average or on his level, but deludes herself that she deserves chad.

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

@@alexanderbeck7953 Wanna know what's ridiculous? A white knight insulting men for having rational fears, bc you can possibly get online sympathy points from women? No, they won't sleep with you for being their white knight!

[@eurotrash55]

See a woman you like? Say you like her in some reasonable way and move on with your life. Don't fixate on one. It ain't worth it. If there comes a time where you two cross paths again, you'll stick out way more. People appreciate things that don't normally get and a man stating his intentions and moving on immediately is not something many women are used to, especially good looking ones. Don't live your life for women.

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Well said, but it's very frustrating when it seems like every other guy can get girls with little effort, girls you'd kill to have a shot with, but you can't get anything no matter what you do. And unfortunately, some guys do much better in life when they have a girl in their life that they care about. I know because I'm one of them. Without a girl, I'm unfocused, unmotivated, directionless and adrift. But when I have a girl that I really care about in my life, I become insanely focused, motivated and driven. I know it's not healthy but it's how I'm wired. I've tried for years to find ways of rewiring my mind but to no avail.

[@98DEB]

Dating should not be this complicated and things are only getting worse. Gentlemen, the juice is NO longer worth the squeeze. Go, chase your dreams, not these women, and make something of yourself.

[@liptongtr]

What if your dream is to have a family and a loving wife🤷‍♂️

[@alb12345672]

@@liptongtr build a time machine. Even in the 90s things started getting hazy.

[@nikmorales8624]

@@liptongtr Keep the hope strategy strong, times are different now and its more of a risk than anything

[@467076]

There is a very very small percentage of men who’s dream is to have a family and a loving wife. Not to say they don’t want one but that’s not a purpose most have. It’s usually a byproduct of you finding your purpose. If you watch porn, which you probably do. Stop, hold your seed, find your purpose and the rest will come.

[@jamesinman7364]

I'm James Inman and I approve this message 👍

[@trumpetplyr21]

As someone who’s not the most garrulous person and had to do speech-language therapy growing up, this is so helpful. I’m terrified of approaching beautiful women and knowing the signs that they’re interested definitely helps. You rock, Courtney!

[@willvaughn6.395]

Just tell them you can grab them by the P

[@MaSsiVeGaming1]

There is no need to be "terrified of approaching beautiful women". Women are people just like you, and often enough, external beauty is all they actually have. No need to put them on a pedestal.

[@Smokdeel]

It means you speak gold my friend and it requires a girl with golden heart to hear the message.Good luck!

[@ASlopedRoof]

Try talking to some fat chicks bro you'll be hardened up for all the hot ones after the behemoths have tried to spit fire breath at you.

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

they probably apply too much makeup or cosmetics, don't doubt yourself man

[@BoMwarriorVlog]

1:09 "The Glance" 2:52 Repeated eye contact 3:51 "The Smile" 5:25 Playing with hair (while giving attention) 6:33 Faces your direction 9:37 Talks to you Pretty vague hints mostly, but at least I get where you're coming from. 🤷 I just don't think I'll ever be in the locations, or look the right way, to see if these work for me. 😔 At least anymore, at my age.

[@BoMwarriorVlog]

@Malice --- I think you're taking it too literally. 🤔 The one body language I have seen to be totally true is the facing the direction of interest. Try it with yourself: When you're sitting down in a somewhat crowded area (even like a classroom), and you realize you're interested in someone or something then pay attention to which way your legs are facing. More than likely they'll be facing the same way. 🤷 EXAMPLE: Someone at a different desk/table/bench is attractive to you, but you're trying to listen to a teacher/TV/concert. You'll notice your legs are towards the attractive person while your torso is towards the the one you're listening to. Now put together what is said in this video in the appropriate settings and you'll know if they're interested in you or if it's "just a glance" or coincidence. 🙂👍

[@zuhairreza]

@@BoMwarriorVlogI read and knew this “facing legs in the direction of interest” but you made it a bit more clear and easy for me to understand in some ways… thanks!

[@BoMwarriorVlog]

@@zuhairreza You're welcome! 😁 That makes me happy that I could help.

[@christopherqueen3194]

I don’t “approach” women I don’t know. That eliminates the need to guess. I’ve got plenty going on in my life and don’t really “need” romantic entanglements.

[@garmisra7841]

Yet somehow you're watching and commenting on this video. Makes total sense!

[@billybob5337]

@@garmisra7841 Some people are just curious and like reading about different things. Doesn't mean hes desperate.

[@hugofriberg3445]

After only being ignored and recieved my first ever rejection this year. I just assume no one finds me attractive. It’s easier that way

[@Darrell7777]

When a girl glances over at me I always assume that she DOESN'T want me to approach her lol.

[@ejigthompson4645]

Same it’s always hella akward

[@Darrell7777]

@@ejigthompson4645 Yep! Women have no idea how hard it to be a guy in the dating world. Two TOTALLY different realities. The amount of rejection and pressure a man faces from the jump is insane.

[@nobodysperfect06]

@@Darrell7777 yep and that can make a lot of men just not want to try again for a long time at the same time that ensures he'll stay single, too much rejection can ruin a man or any human being

[@Lightflames85]

@@nobodysperfect06 the key is not to take it personal. There could be so many reasons she was just not feeling it that day. Most of them has nothing to do with you. Your not that importent to be honest to a girl/women. She only see you if you make an effort and thats about all you have to do, then its on her to see if she bids. Its like fishing your not going to catch them all.

[@xantonify]

@@nobodysperfect06 I asked out about ~8 girls in 5 years. Some i didn't even said right to them, i gave them snapchat etc. I get much attention, people say i look good and if they knew this low number and years they would be baffled how crazy that is. They would hate if many men approached this little if they like them.

[@selfconflicteddating6117]

I had a girl (one of my employee's daughters) come sit next to me and started to talk. I basically did what Courtney did because of ethical reason. Dating the daughter of someone who works for me is a bad idea. She eventually got the hint.

[@selfconflicteddating6117]

I then reported it to my boss incase any retaliation happened

[@visaman]

Have you seen the movie Shallow Hal?

[@selfconflicteddating6117]

@@visaman don't remember much about it.

[@cbrown6848]

That girl wasn't trying to date... she was wanting to make trouble. In case you live in a cave, girls love drama and trouble... especially over them

[@selfconflicteddating6117]

@Blue collar Hero weak is knowing what you want and don't want?

[@XhibitOneProductions]

A lot of pessimistic comments in here. What this lady is saying is pretty spot on. And this is coming from an introvert who does well with picking up the cues. You either get the cues or you don't.

[@cenktoplar8378]

She wants you to approach her to REJECT YOU AND FEEL BETTER ABOUT HERSELF !

[@alanparks3402]

that's how I usually interpret it man, happened with the last chick I asked out. Chick was staring me down practically multiple different days, finally ask her if she wants to hang out this weekend to which I get, "I can't, I have a bf, sorrrryyyyyy." I felt so lead the fck on that I've ignored the fck out of her for months now.

[@cenktoplar8378]

@@alanparks3402 watch better bachelor too ! I forgot !

[@tomasdeleondominguez7693]

All kind of teasers at all places.

[@cenktoplar8378]

@@tomasdeleondominguez7693 I had one. Dutch woman here in the Netherlands and she was on my right on my left pretending like passing by but giving me hardcore flirt energy and even blocked my membership. I ignored her ALWAYS. But after a month later I had what if questions so I went there and she said she is married. I literally wanted smash her against the wall

[@woodman9083]

🐈👻👻

[@donborracho3019]

I never get any of these signs. I notice it immediately when it happens to my friends.

[@sly11benal7]

Step ur game up....cologne, clothes, workout....like the saying goes people don't fall in love with your personality from across the room. Looks 1st

[@darkmidnight818]

@@sly11benal7 nah he's finished just like me. Me and him have NO chance.

[@krish5445]

Explaining somethings like this is already fun to hear but when a beautiful girl like you do that it makes it so much more fun to watch 🤩

[@TheDavidAlexander]

None of this advise is silly - never underestimate how dense and clueless men can be with women. This advise is very helpful. I noticed your subscribers have been exploding! Keep it up!

[@giovannimarechal1387]

YES 🙌🏻

[@chrisdel3120]

As a giga chad I agree 100%

[@funkfarmer7125]

Right, because being dense and clueless is exclusive only to men.

[@discipleofdeath2517]

Nice hearing these tips. Looking back I can say more girls were interested in me then I thought. Except I'm on the spectrum and so social signals don't register even more than the typical guy. I swear I'm as dense as a anime protagonist.

[@cbrown6848]

Well if you really buy into this I guess you are dense 😅🤣😅🤣

[@alb12345672]

This could be. In college guys told me many women check me out, and I'm blind. Thinking back, many women DID give me signals, some very strong. Now, :lol: not so much, or I'm oblivious. Being on the spectrum is like a colorblind person trying to pick crayon colors.

[@discipleofdeath2517]

@@alb12345672 yeah best example I have was walking back to the dorms and a car full of girls pulls up beside me. They all just giggling and hollering my name. My dense ass was mainly confused who the fuck they were and how they knew me lol.

[@Playboyy1985]

Damn bro missed opportunities.

[@Ingisen]

With the direction the world is going, women have to learn to take initiative and approach.

[@loganpadayachee6048]

Totally agree❤

[@NASCARnCLEfan]

The last time a girl came up to me I was at the bar, she she said to me and I quote "I saw you across the bar I just wanted to let you know how ugly you are." What did I do to deserve this? I was just sitting there minding my own business

[@m.c.martin]

Some girls do that to test a guys* confidence. They think it’s cute

[@tomasdeleondominguez7693]

It would depend on the voice tone and other gestures. I could just take it as a bad joke and say something like "it is funny I think the same about you" and notice her reaction and I take it from there.

[@johnpearson3616]

Just started watching your videos Courtney and while I myself am just starting to heal from a very deep traumatic wound from being with a woman who was total sociopathic narcissist, these videos are slowly helping me to recover and teaching me the signs and signals to look and what red flags to avoid. Have a blessed one🙏🥰

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

This is my 1st time

[@fenrirreignier5020]

@@TravisAndrews-lb1kk here together boys my first time too. Total effin narcissist and we dated for 2 years.

[@SanVic]

I am terrible at reading body language. A girl practically has to sit in my lap or give me an inappropriately looong hug. Good video, Courtney!

[@thethesaxman23]

The biggest tip I would give to women would be more direct and not worry so much about “being nice” or “not hurting our feelings.” Obviously you don’t have to be mean about it, but I think it’s better to just say “Sorry I’m just not interested.” In my experience, every time someone has tried to be polite or tried not to hurt someone’s feelings, it just creates way more pain and heartache in the long run.

[@GEORGIOARCADE]

Most girls be off in their phones so if you one glances/smiles at you for more than 3 seconds at you then she really interested. Also i noticed they will find ways to get close to you. Women do things subtly so those first 2 signs you mentioned are the most important. I usually talk to a woman who is in close proximity of me. If she seems like she doesn't wanna be bothered; i move on. I usually say a friendly hi/hows your day and make a lighthearted remark about the area we in or ask for help on something at the venue we both at, i compliment her on her style and i kinda gauge her reaction to that. Women can try that with men too. I've had 2 girls walk up to me to start random conversation so i can confirm that works. You just have to say f it and go it for it. Thanks for helping us again Courtney. Have a great weekend 🌠

[@CourtneyRyan]

You get it! thanks for sharing your tips! Have a great weekend 😊

[@FreakinfreakInfreaki]

10:28 hold a giant neon lit sign that says "I'm interested in you" otherwise I will be completely oblivious or assume you're being friendly 🤣

[@rootstone9883]

Yeah, I don't think you can tell from that. Probably better to wait for a better opportunity.

[@aaronharlow2137]

Even with a neon sign I'd still not get the hint.

[@garmisra7841]

It'd honestly be better for a guy because it would make a guy feel safer about approaching. It wouldn't make a woman feel safer, because in her mind and shaped by the world we live in, she still thinks she's rolling the dice on a guy who could be a serial killer with a dungeon (of the unsafe nonconsensual variety) in his basement. An invitation to approach is just that; invitation to approach. It isn't saying yes to a date, sex, relationships, whatever. There's no way to know anything or justification for any expectations. The only time "approaching" has ever worked for me was when I had no expectations and had context for my approach; she was by herself, I was with friends, we were at a gig for a band we both liked, and i invited her to join us because I'd seen her at a previous gig by the same band and thought she was attractive. We hung out, and I asked her if she wanted to get together. The rest of my (admittedly limited) dating experience was with women I met through friends. Still the best way.

[@kevinVersus]

Who says the neon sign is for you? Can’t be too sure, best to wait for another signal

[@brandonmarcos5422]

I’ve found that when women play with their hair it’s a clear sign that they’re interested. Especially when it’s their pubic hair.

[@reubination]

I am a high functioning autistic. This advice is very helpful as body language is not something I notice easily. Now I know what to watch for and can hopefully not make a fool of myself like so many times throughout my life. Thank you for the guidance.

[@Notyourhandle777]

And the eye thing, I cannot for the life of me stare at some one’s eyes, why is this a thing?

[@Arvidje]

U have no clue how to act on these signs with woman.. (most men do not) . She was romanticaly interest in you at the point (1,2,3). U screwed that attraction up at point 5. U have to be direct with girl who giving the attractions signs. Invite her for a drink, or something to do. (at point 3) Create a meeting. hang out with her, have a fun time, and try to make out at the end of that meeting. Thats it. U waited to long, and u starting to display signs to her that u are more into her then she into you. They sense that really fast.. Never give those compliments. Your making time for her is their compliment. So the attraction was there but u blew it unfortunaly.. The attraction level of woman are fluctuating, like the weather, she can be into u really crazy and couple of days later being more cold. Being cold is attraction loss, u are making little mistakes and u should take a bit more distance at that point.. But your big fault was not setting up date and progress. Doesn't matter if she had a boyfriend, that an excuse.. a woman will always choose the most dominant male, and were she find the most comfort.. she will end the relationship with that boyfriend at the end..

[@giovanniaguilar4439]

#1 solid eye contact ,few times, my green light to go in with smile and introduce myself casually, works most time lol- good advice, jst go for it and be yourself guys, you never know until you try🤙

[@todornedyalkov5510]

This reminds me of my high school love. Very unusual case - she actually approached me. 1) She was older than me (I was 17 at the time) .I don't know how is it in your culture but in Bulgaria older students think of their younger peers as less than human. Friendship between men was possible (with the said effect still valid to an extent) but a girl approaching a younger boy for romantic purposes - no, that was extremely rare in my days at high school. I literally can't think of another similar example. 2) In my eyes she was drop dead gorgeous. Her face , her figure , her hair , her speech , her mind ... 3) She was not just an A student but also a biology champion from competitions. The greatest female mind I have been with and without bragging too much I have been with a lot with that regard. .She was the star of her class with me being just another regular A student in only some of the subjects (maths, history, english and philosophy) 4) She was by no means a Nerd. Absolutely wild , confident and protective of her freedom while being invasive of others'. She liked super hero movies and damn she seemed somewhat of an evil genius. What happened was that she came to me in the school yard grabbed me by the hand, separated me from my peers and said : "I like you a lot". There was a brief awkward moment of silence (as I was in total awe ) and then she started playing vulnerable "Oh, I am so nervous blah blah blah". Total 180 from being a confident predator to being potential prey. I had no choice but to oblige: "No ,no, no you shouldn't be ,I also like you , I like you , I like you, don't go!" One time when she was giving me a handjob in the park she ripped open a part of my penis tissue and there was a ton of blood - a complete mess. I still carry the scar to this day.

[@LatimusChadimus]

I really feel this channel has a chance at 2 million subscribers with 80% viewership from those subscribers. We must encourage people to share this video with friends and family

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you Joseph ❤️

[@michaelhowell5872]

Listen up guys. This even applies when you’re in a relationship!

[@RedloxBeats]

I went to the bar, I noticed this girl looking at me and smiling. I approached her and she disrespectfully rejected me. I was so confused lol

[@socialpsychologymantras]

“Every time we love, every time we give, it’s Christmas.” - Dale Evans

[@DanielDK909]

My god, I feel stupid now. I think I have lost many opportunities after seeing this video. I don’t get body language.

[@BrianMcNeel111]

Wow, I realize how I have literally had my walls up for so long. So many signs they have wanted to be approached that I have wondered about, and this video (don't care if I am judged) brought me to tears. So many hints that I have played away, or discounted. I really need to heal some more... Thank you Courtney. So many men need this information.

[@A6Legit]

🙏 shed one tear for all the ragretz

[@russiankodiak6849]

You need a cookie? Or you have a PlayStation?

[@johnpearson3616]

@@russiankodiak6849 real mature. Insulting someone whose been through a rough time😒

[@russiankodiak6849]

@@johnpearson3616 Nobody asked

[@johnpearson3616]

@@russiankodiak6849 ok your point?

[@michaelanderson2126]

The goal is not acting awkward. Goal!!!!⚽️

[@JaimeDurden]

Courtney you helped me so much with your bonus tip in the end. I never had a girlfriend and a girl chatted up with me for pretty much the first time in my life. I think I found someone super special and your words gave me the confidence I needed. I’m so excited to get to know her and maybe have her join my self improvement journey. Thank you so friquin much! I love you!

[@nobodysperfect06]

Sounds like you're saying she was the one that approached you which 99% of women don't do

[@Eserr7856]

Hows it going with this super special girl now? don't lie..haha

[@mrj4082]

So hows it gojng?

[@Grimwulf88]

Don't confuse a friendly nice person for one that actually likes you. I'm outgoing and most women I talk to think I'm interested. It's annoying when I notice the signs. So eventually I have to show them I'm not interested in that way by bringing up a fake gf just so they'd get the hint. Hope it worked out for you!

[@Kenny-ep2nf]

@@Grimwulf88 are they rude about it?

[@oldfriend327]

Thank you for all this Courtney and not hating on you or women for that matter. You really are a nice person. At 47 though, I don't care anymore and honest to God never thought I would reach a point in my to realize that relationships are way overrated.

[@garmisra7841]

I'm 50 and married and still don't think they're worth it. :) People bring way too much baggage into them with expectations and demands. I think the only reason to have a stable commitment or marriage for the long term is if you want kids.

[@FreShie-McGavin-009]

Just be real, and be yourself without being weird.

[@DTA-dh5rk]

My experience with women constantly glancing at me at the gym has usually been that when I finally do act upon it, they keep the conversation short and keep it moving. If it only occurred once or on the same day, then I'd probably conclude that I read into the glances wrong. But it happens with the same girls every time I see them at the gym. The not so attractive ones seem to be more receptive to conversing. The hotter ones will just initially respond and then keep it moving, and then go back to glancing over off and on

[@billybob5337]

It could be an instance that they already have boyfriends or are nervous. But the constant glancing is a dead give-away that they find you attractive. Women are just like men in that regard. They're not gonna stop checking people out just cuz they're with someone. They've always got potential targets lined up if the current thing doesnt work out

[@DTA-dh5rk]

@@billybob5337 Yet they'll have a full blown conversation with a not so attractive guy, an old dude, or the old maintenance guy who tries talking to all the hot girls

[@billybob5337]

@@DTA-dh5rk Thats because theres no awkwardness involved there. They have full control of the situation. If they're not single, for example.........your presence could be creating a constant source of awkward tension. We have little control of who we're attracted to. That doesn't stop just because we're in a relationship. So if they're attracted to you, then speaking to you is going to make them confront that full force. Then it puts them into a weird situation where they might start questioning their relationship with their current boyfriend, etc, etc. They can get away with the looking a lot easier than carrying on a 5 minute conversation with you. The other guys, they probly don't feel nervous around them, because theres no attraction involved. And therefore its a lot easier to converse.

[@mcpartridgeboy]

Its because they are testing you more, if they are atractive them liking you is no way enough to get them, you then have to have the social skills and the confidence to pass the next set of tests, guys think just because a woman likes you your in , your not, women, especially atractive ones want you to work more and work harder and be really skilled in social situations so they will deliberatly make it hard for you to continue unless your super skilled, for me this is incredibly frustrating becaue i have aspergers and i cant do that, which means i never get a gf, even if they liked me a lot because i cant pass all their tests , and i never will be able to pass those tests im just not that good socially, so im going to miss out forever, its so unffair,especially when i look so good and the girl really likes me, instead they will date players and pick up artists who will treat her like pure shit, just because they are the only guys who can pass all their tests.

[@OpenCarry2024]

​@@mcpartridgeboy​ I'm sorry dude, I don't want you to feel like I pity you because it's not the case. I'm a decent looking guy myself and I don't even have Asperger's syndrome. I still go through the whole problem you mentioned above. Literally 7 out of 10 women just have no proper social skills in my opinion(based off of my factual experiences etc). Being able to just speak your feelings is normal and healthy. But they can't... they just have to play games. It's maddening. I'm not trying to be negative but I know what you're going through - to an extent at least - For example if a girl just wants to be my friend then she doesn't have to smile and flirt now does she? No she doesn't.... Because she doesn't flirt with her female friends, guys don't flirt with their guy friends etc. It's just not normal behavior to flirt with somebody that you don't want PERIOD. I just wish they would get their heads straight. I've been going through the same thing that you spoke about above. I keep meeting these amazing women, ladies.. true ladies. Women that deserve to be treated right and they all have these crazy men in their lives that they keep giving chance after chance to. Men that make the rest of us look bad. I'm so sick of it. They are essentially the future toxic feminists. The ones that are eventually going to get driven into hating men. It's maddening.

[@RaZX6r6]

The one phrase you used that usually kills a guy's attempt to approach a woman, "she's in a group".

[@psychopad584]

For the past few months, there has been a girl at the gym that I find very to my liking. But I've never tried anything, I'm always afraid of being a little clumsy in those conditions. But a few weeks ago, she was busy on a machine that I needed too. I simply asked her if we could alternate our sets. She agreed without hesitation. We just chatted briefly about our techniques, then I went off to do the rest of my exercises. After that, I saw her several times... But without necessarily paying much attention... I was quite focused on what I was doing, sometimes accompanied by my coach... But in the last couple of weeks, I've noticed all the signals you talk about in this video, except for the hair. Which seems normal to me, since she always ties it up for sports. But for the rest... the recurrent looks, the brief eye contact also recurrent, the smiles whenever we meet... And I also notice that she regularly trains near me, which did not happen before. And now, she says hello or goodbye every time, with a charming smile. Which she doesn't do with anyone else (this is a small gym, these things are easy to check :)). Anyway, I think if I don't go for it, I'm the last of the morons!

[@TileBitan]

What happened in the end?

[@jamesalexander6417]

I'll just save myself the legal trouble and steer clear of women that show any of these signs.

[@David.El.Búho]

Girl: keeps looking at me and says “Why wont men approach me” next to me Me: “Man, that other guy is an idiot why wont he approach this girl”

[@D87943]

This girl that works at Lifetime smiles at me every time I go their. The only problem is I’m 40 and she looks like she’s in her 20’s.

[@nobodysperfect06]

As always it's going to be up to the guy to make the first move or be the initiator in starting a relationship, I never liked it but I know that will never change

[@TheObjectiveTruth0]

In this era its hard to act on those "signs", "signals" and/or "body languages" unless you're very "attractive" or else it'll end bad.

[@mikeguidry2577]

You have to be a tall, white, male, college degree, from an upper or upper middle class family, with a good looking face. Luckily, I'm all of those. I do feel like I can get any woman I want. It doesn't end that way, but I feel that way. I get many girls, but vast majority ended before 6th date because they say we're too different. I'm not an asshole, so it's not being mean. They just all say that. Then again, they all come from dating apps where there's 0 relationships actually formed on it. I think womens expectations of having someone exactly like them is unrealistic. Everyone's different. Lucky for me, it's on to the next. I even have a category I have casual sex with, and then a category I try to seriously date. The ones I want to seriously date we may hookup a time or two, but it never gets to GF/BF stage. I think women are very unrealistic these days because they have 700 guys DMing, matches on apps, and texting. Thing is they're never satisfied and too ungrateful. They will go on dates with 50 different guys and not 1 single one will make it past date 5. They'll be on the dating apps for 5 years with 10,000 matches, and 0 boyfriend. They then turn 33, start to panic because their value is lost and guys don't want them anymore. They then resort to the best option they think they can get. It's no more games for them anymore. Often this guy is less valuable than all the men they passed up in their 20s. Karma if you will. Makes me feel good there's some balance in the world. I know 1 from experience.

[@NezD]

“Don’t mistake kindness for consent”. I forgot where I heard this.

[@TheMateoFischerShow]

I wish men and women put in an equal amount of effort when it comes to approaching, asking out, etc. I'm fine with approaching women, and my interactions with them tend to go smoothly, but it's just frustrating that men are always the ones having to take the next step. I wish there was more cooperation involved from both sides.

[@nobodysperfect06]

Sadly that will never change

[@CEOnichopoppers]

the thing is, the reason it won't change and honestly shouldn't change is because if you're truly a high value man, then you should have the confidence to approach whoever the fuck you want, and you need to be the leader in the relationship or else most women will never respect you. it's an easy concept: if a woman shows interest in you then go approach her. yes it would be nice to us guys to have more women approaching us, but it's more beneficial for us if we're the ones approaching because women will cooperate with you more if you're in a position of leadership.

[@youyoutobio]

5 body language signs I have never seen a girl giving me. As a short guy I feel so blessed.

[@juanangellizarraga4345]

Women just has to wave hi w/ a smile w/ out even approaching. Men will automatic come to you! Us men we appreciate the small things like waving Hi 👋.

[@funkfarmer7125]

No thanks, I rather not get accused of something just for saying Hi. Leave these modern women alone, just like they wanted, they aren't worth it.

[@alb12345672]

It is a risk. People have all kinds of issues you never really know.

[@drjohnsonhungwell5115]

Same here I don't say much to them or take anything they say or do seriously , I've had enough of their garbage.

[@glen3133]

I absolutely don't think it's rude to tell someone outright that you're not interested. So long as the intent isn't malicious and the message is delivered respectfully, it's is their problem if they don't get it imo.

[@stephenstapleton7671]

Exactly in fact its polite

[@MichalisFloyd]

Sometimes all of these signs are there and then I approach to quickly learn that "you are very handsome but I am seeing someone". This can very well be a lie to avoid me, but assuming I am not paranoid, and I indeed see these signs and not imagining them, what would it mean? Do they just want to be approached to gain confidence but without really being interested? I would say this happens to me 2 out of 5 times I approach a girl.

[@albertoriveramena2897]

Yeah. They just want yo know they got it

[@Altair.1187]

I know it might sound weird, but there is nothing obvious, but it is chemistry, something hidden but you can feel it. When this kind of awkwardness is there, you two like each other. When it's one sided, that's a wrong feeling, maybe you need something else, not to be with this person, but you might lack something else that you need to find.

[@polowizz]

It's the ultimate match of who can better afford to pass up on the opportunity (or rather less to lose). If a girl really, really, really likes you (in the juices flowing kind of way) and thinks she's unlikely to ever meet anyone as attractive as you, she is less likely to allow the opportunity to pass her by and will be prepared to endure the discomfort of approaching you. Otherwise, if she is only meh/kinda/ so-so attracted to you (in other words, you are ok enough as long as she doesn't need to encounter any risks) she will leave the work up to you on a take it or leave it basis (with the idea that there are more and better fish in the sea after all). My point: be the first guy. If you are the second type, why waste time and energy and risk of humiliation when she is settling (by virtue of her inaction) and you don't want to not be the first choice anyway.

[@brianpineda9982]

If you catch them staring, wave at them. Good chance she will approach you. Works for me alot.

[@Littletime839]

Women will have to adapt because society has changed so much and will continue to do so.

[@gregthompson9434]

Courtney honey , you cannot say this is a sign in one breath and in the next say but it also may not be. I know you’re trying and we appreciate that but dang it can’t be both ways

[@MCOGroupNews]

I mean if that's not demonstrative of women's hot and cold nature idk what is

[@zulby09]

Advice on KZbin videos should never be taken seriously most of the time - this is one of them, just pure entertainment like movies

[@Eramir10]

Girl at the gym kept staring at me. I made eye contact with her and we smiled for like 10 seconds straight at each other. I didn’t go to talk to her, but the rest of the time she was staring at me. Next day I introduce myself. She starts asking me questions about myself. Great conversation and the whole time I noticed she was propping her body towards my direction. I came up with all the confidence in the world. A few days later I told her I’m going for a hike to take pictures I’d love for you to join me(she told me she liked modeling). She said not this week. I gave her my number and she called me immediately for me to have hers. I texted her about 24 hours later asking her a question about an exercise I saw her doing. I didn’t get an answer and was left on delivered. Didn’t see her in the gym for 2 days. Then I finally saw her there on the 3rd and she ignored me and just left. I realized it was maybe all for attention or just not actually interested. The rules aren’t always 100% correct sadly. Haven’t texted her of course and left her alone.

[@ethancooke593]

I was at a college library a few weeks ago, hanging out with a friend, and this girl sitting across the room from me made eye contact with me more than enough times for me to be suspicious, especially since she had to look to her left to see me. However, I didn't know what to do, and I was still unsure if she was even doing it on purpose. Plus, she was with a friend, and there was a full table next to us, and I didn't want to risk making a fool of myself in front of a bunch of people. Still, looking back, I kind of regret that I didn't try to talk to her.

[@Phantom-ez4zv]

did you get her been 11 months

[@ethancooke593]

@@Phantom-ez4zv Nope, never saw her again and still single

[@cooljazz94]

The most success I’ve had is with women outside the U.S. It may have been an anomaly but it held true. If she was interested you knew it. How? Because she told you! If she was interested she gave you her a phone number and said call her . . . and meant it! The next day! One woman got upset when she saw me out a few days later. “Why didn’t you call me??” Noted. When a woman wasn’t interested, you also knew it . . . because she told you! Not in an abusive or rude manner; it’s not what you say but how you say it. You knew in 5-10 minutes where you stood with that woman, with no ambiguity. Most men would appreciate knowing this instead of the games. I had some female acquaintances that would see how many drinks they could “score” from guys, with no intention of spending time with the guy. Be direct, clear, and concise and there would be no need for the Rosetta Stone to Women.

[@elvnprince]

Growing up in a super controlling religious family that didn't allow interaction with girls, and then having my younger brother always taller, more handsome, and more charismatic than me, I think I am realizing how much I still assume that invisibility is my reality with women. On a deeply subconscious level, I still feel like it's not within the realm of possibility for a successful and attractive woman to be into me. And that if she is into me, it's only the fictional idea of me she has in her head that she's into. Somehow, listening to this video helped me realize this... thank you.

[@A6Legit]

What happened to us 😅

[@johnnylego807]

Looks ARE NOT everything. You may be able to get a girl to notice you. But without the confidence your just as doomed. And the ugly dude with a personality and confidence, swoops her up. Game over.

[@stevesmyth7413]

For me I start with a very random non invasive statement and see their reaction to gauge if I should continue. For instance at the beach last night a girl was walking down the beach so I said what a beautiful night huh? She said yes yes so beautiful but kind of chuckled and her smile was a little too happy looking to just be friendly so I continued talking then agreed to meet her for a drink at the local beach bar later that night

[@alanparks3402]

how'd this end up going?

[@Coreisus]

She came walking right up to me and started joking, but yknow, we're working together... so..

[@Coreisus]

Guys, guys! We're having a baby 👶 💕

[@paulbradshaw8878]

Courtney Ryan you have just explained exactly how both genders feel at the same time with one exception , men are expected to make that first move towards the bullshit game of rejection you feel the need to play to (TEST) his self confidence , and willingness to be or tolerate being humiliated. I believe you are intelligent enough to comprehend this, that is the true reason that men are just no longer interested , the female gender lacks the honesty, courage, integrity, and willingness to show her true feelings for a man , and those that do , are happy in their relationships, because the man understands, respects, and is fascinated by honesty. End Of Story.

[@GeonusKaikun]

Man, I wish more girls were like you in regard to not being offended when someone talks to them. I can't tell you how many women wanted to bite my head off for daring to speak either to them or to their friends, sometimes when I wasn't even flirting! It was a normal conversation.

[@Harry-fk5of]

Probably have all the creepy af guys to thank for that

[@DiegoGonzalez-go2qy]

Come on, man. You are not going to tell me that all girls react bad to you. If that really is the case, the problem is you. You know when women treat you really like shit ? If you have extreme low confidence. Next time try to approach with more confidence and I am sure you will have enough women not wanting to bite your head off.

[@joeschmoe5231]

Im 6'2" and I always notice women look at me everytime I go to the store without my side chick