5 Ways To STOP Being a Simp | Courtney Ryan

[@justody1]

Quick and easy scheme but do enjoy the full video 1: Unsubscribe to only fan. 2: Unfollow on social media (Instagram). 3: Stop chasing (find a hobby and build urself). 4: Stop always saying yes. 5: Don't put people on pedestal. (Don't idolized them).

[@leoclips2179]

Ia would give you a thumbs up but I got superstitions but thanks for the summary

[@NsIX3]

MVP

[@batdude811]

Join MGTOW.

[@travis6694]

@@batdude811 that’s who guys who can’t get girls or have been screwed over

[@batdude811]

@@travis6694 Yes, to guys who have been screwed over but not those that can't get girls, oh nooo. There's a different word for those types of guys

[@LEVIAHAN]

Courtney doesn`t like doing "simp" videos, but she still makes a video to prevent it. Now that is pure dedication!

[@kuschizu1280]

@surprisedpikachu Wow can you pls stop simping around ? ... jk ^^ just wanted to call somebody in the comments a simp :D

[@arifsenpai1495]

@surprisedpikachu No joke Even girls nowadays turns 18 on their birthday and starts doing Onlyfans. 😬😬😬 Dying food [Dyfo] and swish sniper was right.

[@gwanza]

@surprisedpikachu preach😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@arifsenpai1495]

@surprisedpikachu Simp changed the beauty’s of men by accident. No way. Must’ve simp has special trades towards men’s

[@harrym859]

No she was just clarifying WHAT a sumo is bc red pill community snd guys have taken out of context. It’s not what u so that makes u a simp, it’s WHY you do it. If u buy ur wife flowers when she’s being amazing to you, doesn’t make u a simp. But if u send a girl flowers when she’s rejected you, to win her over… that’s what makes u a simp.

[@kathom67]

In addition to 4: Stop being available all the time. If you do, you will end in the friendzone, even worse, in the category of a "convenient friend". Been there, done that, suffered from it.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Understanding how not to overinvest in someone who isn’t giving the same energy back is crucial. Relationships work best when there’s mutual respect, not when one person is constantly sacrificing their self-worth.*

[@roningaming_1]

Update: I just deactivated all social media like Instagram, Facebook and Twitter to focus on myself and better myself. I’ve been able to identify feelings I’ve been numbing from focusing on the fantasy world of social media. I’m starting to see my worth.

[@vandalosalvaje9957]

This video is pure gold. We often forget to love and respect ourselves, just because we think that a random person will do it for us.

[@roddokyan96]

Courtney is the friend we all need

[@therisingsun4828]

I love her for telling the simps to unsubscribe from OF. And telling folks to unfollow people on social media. Take the power back, y’all. Wake up.

[@mister_cjw]

Only Fans is 🤮

[@mjsteward5508]

I agree 👍

[@rburbr0171]

Courtney gives such great, real advice! So appreciative for the guidance. Sometimes you know what you need to do, you just need someone to sit you down and tell you how it is. Letting go is hard, man. Thanks!

[@CourtneyRyan]

That’s my goal! Telling what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear is important lol thanks for being here! 🥰

[@nickcox1408]

@@CourtneyRyan let me ask you something? What exactly makes you so different than the woman you speak out against? How do I know the person you present yourself as is the real you? Or are you just another salesman? What do you care whether men succeed or not?

[@sebastianziernicki8641]

Really great advice. As someone who spent his teen years trying to please everyone, these words can save men out there a world of hurt.

[@jbRoma]

Courtney thank God you decided to start this channel i love it it's so peaceful and honest at the same time this is how girls should help guys out

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥰🥰🥰 thanks for being here!

[@KerrRobinson]

I remember being guilty of a few of these things. The road to self respect is not easy, but its so worth it. It's like being free'd from the prison in your own mind.

[@Tyler-gq7on]

I got burned before for not knowing this stuff. I made myself so vulnerable. Its so refreshing to hear this and be reminded that I have come so far. Thank you Courtney.

[@moolis]

Most YT girls offering men word of advice are honestly pretty trashy and basic, like "be yourself." Glad to see a gal finally offering advice that's based and legit.

[@asianmasculinity3811]

True that 💯

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Be yourself is necessary advice though. You just become a shell of yourself if you change yourself to try and impress women.

[@KingDayDayDay00]

@@ilikepancakes2368 disagree. sometimes you need to hear the truth and realize that your current self needs to be built up. "be yourself" tells you to stay stagnant. You have to grow, especially when you aren't getting the results you want in life

[@batdude811]

@@ilikepancakes2368 Just be yourself..is bad advice. Be the person you would like to be... is better. Because the strongest version of yourself...is the best advice.

[@adamcrookedsmile]

@@ilikepancakes2368 if "be yourself" is necessary advice, that's what I will tell the next woman who talks about her problems in life.

[@DariusLong]

The people pleasing part stood out to me, and that's been my hurdle. Great advice Courtney, thank you

[@self-helpnathan6557]

For years I’ve been scared to be seen as argumentative and disagreeable so I would agree with everything that was said. Now I realize that having my unique opinions and sticking to them is not being a jerk

[@DariusLong]

@@self-helpnathan6557 yeah exactly, that's how I am too. And I'm noticing that people respect me for being genuine and saying no, to this or that. I like to keep the peace so I totally feel you on that.

[@lestendsouza9395]

Courtney is what I needed in my life. She just gives her honest opinion and tells us the things in terms of Female perspective. Love ya babe

[@mevinlettchernongkynrih5914]

Courtney is officially my favorite female KZbinr🙏🏼 She imparts very useful information to us.

[@CourtneyRyan]

You guys are the best!!! ❤️ thank you!

[@fedor6595]

Simp

[@Mogamishu]

She is my least favorite.

[@tallking7777]

@@Mogamishu Why are you on her channel then? Now get lost boy

[@unstablerupture6983]

*Cocks shotgun* Smells like SIMP in here! I'm just playing around, I didn't get whooshed by the point of the video

[@jag9981]

I learned the hard way to stop simping: heartbreak 🙃

[@CourtneyRyan]

Ugh sometimes we have to learn the hard way lol at least you learned!

[@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854]

When i stopped saying yes to everything, my confidence became bigger and i started feeling better with myself

[@hotsaucemtkb575]

Speaking this clearly is such an attractive thing So many people mumble and are too lazy to worry about being heard and understood

[@IceHibiscus]

It is because Courtney actually has skills to succeed in the real world. It really is that simple and it sets her content apart by leagues. A lot of advice influencers don't exactly have a proven track record on that account. And usually it shows, eventually if not immediately.

[@joshing_]

Summary: 1. Unsubscribe from OnlyFans 2. Unfollow her 3. Stop Chasing 4. Learn to say no 5. Don't put her on a pedestal

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yes sir!

[@bjwkusgxjdks]

You just saved me 10 mins. Thank you.

[@AmritSingh-nk5qm]

I get you're trying to help out, but Courtney puts a lot of time and effort into her videos. If you don't have the time to watch videos, simply watch them later when you do have the time.

[@blakemolina9419]

Thanks bro

[@jambajoby32]

@@CourtneyRyan I see a few cats like Alexander Grace who give up the goods & that gets me to stay tuned for the whole episode as they elaborate on their points!

[@rohitrnaidu]

Your videos hit hard. Real words. Painful truths. All we remember is how many times we have settled for less. Also reminds us of our own value. I'm owning more these days. Thank you for your videos

[@joeuchiha1342]

Ngl, that sigh Courtney gave after saying “unsub from Onlyfans” really got me. You could feel the disappointment in that sigh 😂 My friends and I have been rewinding time to see if we’ve been simps at some point in time and unfortunately, we’ve all been guilty (except onlyfans. Not there in my country hallelujah). Though quitting all social media except KZbin to study has actually been a huge blessing lol. Great video Courtney.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Lol it was the “i’m not mad... just disappointed” sigh 😂 As long as you learn from it you’re fine.. glad you’re here! ❤️

[@oliverarrow8431]

@joe Uchiha where are you from?

[@conmankryscio]

Onlyfans+ adult content😂+ social media+ people= a lot of social problems

[@liptongtr]

4:50 , this part really spoke to me not even just in regards to women. When you put your self worth in the hands of others your inevitably going to be dissapointed and open yourself up to depression.

[@15blackshirt]

I'm guilty of doing most of the things on this list, and I paid a heavy price for it; I've learned to put myself first, focus on my own well being and not let anyone or anything distract me; my life has vastly improved, and I've been able to focus on achieving my personal and fitness goals

[@KingDayDayDay00]

First one is the biggest. Invest that money in yourself. Buy some quality jeans or chinos that can last you for years or some gym equipment.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly..... 🥲

[@johnnythekid4601]

Day 1 People don't understand that in some cases no matter what amount of self improvement a guy does it wont help his cause. Women have a way of spinning anything an unattractive man does towards the negative. IE oh hes not trying to improve his wardrobe or physique because he truly wants to look better. hes just trying to so he can try to get laid

[@keithscommunityanddomestic9513]

or cheese cake, with extra dipping sauce, awwwwwww yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeah jks

[@barcuh23]

You don’t need a relationship to be fulfilled. I try to treat people by seeing them as human and not focusing on their genders. Just be a genuine human being that’s what the world needs.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly!

[@barcuh23]

@Richard Schiffman great mentality buddy, show them that you’re better because you have more money than them, pathetic. This is why you’ll never win the lottery. Be humble man and treat everyone with respect

[@mcpartridgeboy]

You do need a relationship to be fullfilled, women who have had loads of boyfriends and are often with people say this dumb shit, you wouldnt be looking up dating advice if you didnt want a gf, the other thing is your comment is very uch like a simp, your saying what everyone else needs you to be withut looking after your own needs, and courney who said dont do that liked your comment , lol.

[@ahmed2527]

Thanks a lotttt sis. I am doing these things for past 3 years and gradually everyone started hating me and now I am all alone. No friends, no girlfriends, no family member but still I am happy. Because I found my true self and I am embracing it.

[@tallking7777]

It's so dope to have a woman giving men advice on fashion and dating switching things up then just hearing it from another dude.

[@anthonycrowley9920]

Thanks

[@ericv5435]

I already don't do these. #5 was the one that I had the most trouble stopping but I've learned to stop putting her on a pedestal.

[@jonb8633]

good advice!! I have to see this video before approaching ladies I consider 9-10/10. its easy not to SIMP if the level is 6 or below

[@suliashraf8046]

Wow, the first point of unsubscribing from OnlyFans had me for a while... I know it's 2021 but to think that so many guys are subscribing to that stuff shows how behind we are as a society. Our morals and values as men are diminishing, for what? To get some sort of gratification from such girls? It's disgusting, glad that you have bought it up, keep up the good work.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Agreed... 😬 and thank you! ❤️

[@suliashraf8046]

@@CourtneyRyan You're welcome, could you possibly cover the topic of 'high value' men in a future video please?

[@jackarrington3293]

Courtney, honestly you are one of the most mature and understanding girls I have ever seen, especially for how young you are. That will serve you well in life as I'm sure it has already have a good day

[@willfrancis6941]

It’s funny because when I started watching this channel,I didn’t think Courtney would be this blunt.So many you tubers say things like be yourself and the friend zone doesn’t exist.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😎

[@willfrancis6941]

@Cmndr Roy Fokker Female you tubers I mean.

[@NYKgjl10]

There is a big difference from being a nice guy and simp and this video explained it all. Thank you for this vid Courtney.

[@roningaming_1]

🤦🏾‍♂️This video was so truthful it hurt really really badly but I needed this. I literally unsubscribed to all the girls and deleted my onlyfans account. I’m currently deleting all the girls aka Instagram models I gave too much attention too it’s a lot of accounts so it’s going to take some time sadly. Feeling ashamed that I fell for it all but better that it’s going to be gone and I learned from this. thank you😌

[@hugoyuugo1300]

I was so happy to see that I got a long way with the 2 first advices which are now far behind me 😂 So true Courtney what you say about s!mping! I also think it's not respectful to the woman a guy will eventually date. For this reason I unfollowed every NSFW girl on instagram. And another point, if a girl interested in a man sees that he follows such profiles, oh wow this is such a turn off... I'd even say a small red flag... Basically, s!mping is self sabotage in a very destructive way.

[@billhuss]

Being a simp is not simple at all. Nice video courtney!

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼

[@ironmanfan853]

Thanks!

[@jtstill423still8]

When Courtney talked about Onlyfans, she had a face that looked like “I really gotta tell these dudes twice.”

[@bartdegryse9345]

I'd really had to search up what this "only fans thing was" and i'm 25. I'd shoulda known that by that point, but since i'm not the "active social media guy" i'm not even on IG, snap etc..... just some quick few min on fb daily. For not missing events to go out to with friends etc.

[@shady_the_one]

@@bartdegryse9345 eh, you ain't missing much, I wish I didn't know what it was.

[@Wamboldt96]

Over time the red flags I didn't see or stand up to in my current relationship wore me down over time. Once a young, moderately confident man at the beginning, slowly became the simp I have been for the past year or so.. My eyes are slowly opening.. Thank you for what you do Courtney 💕

[@thegrandstory5186]

Maybe you could do a video on how to know if a girl is using you or taking advantage of you. I’ve had a few instances where girls act interested to get free dinners, drinks, trips, etc but never want to be exclusive and pull the trigger on dating.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I actually did a video about this already! It’s called “How To Tell She’s Using You!” 🥲

[@ppulse1122]

wish i could find someone like you, honest and straighforward

[@mediasawdust2458]

Get hobbies, they become like a drug. No time to simp when you’re focused on something else.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly 👏🏼👏🏼

[@ilikepancakes2368]

You need hobbies that actually interest women though. Movies and video games aren’t going to cut it.

[@davidh5101]

hobbies are just a distraction from your problems or just your hum drum life.

[@mushroomsteve]

Get drugs. They become like a hobby. No time to simp when there's a fractal movie playing on the backs of your eyelids.

[@mushroomsteve]

@@ilikepancakes2368 Lots of women are interested in movies and video games.

[@NCICRESQ]

Hey guys, STOP being a door mat, respect YOURSELF, learn “boundaries.” Thank you Miss Courtney excellent video, as usual. Jeff

[@Kami84]

I was afraid that I might be a Simp, but I'm not even close. I used to chase girls but I don't do that anymore. I also never let girls get away with disrespecting me. It has leg to breakups but I feel like respect is like a bare minimum requirement for a relationship. I'm not going to put up with being belittled by my own girlfriend.

[@shady_the_one]

Yeah, them's the words of the opposite of a simp. You pass the test. +100 Respect

[@jimtart4271]

I didn't like Courtney video's at first. Now, I've got new respect for her.

[@DavidZMH]

I respond back to women so little that they think I don’t like them. They always tell me how sad they feel when I don’t text them back. So I don’t ever over pursue the way its mentioned here by Christine. I rather have them feel sad I don’t respond then to be annoyed I text too much.

[@matto6019]

I love it

[@stevejhkhfda]

Well done for pointing out that being nice to a woman doesn't make you a simp. I would add that some men weaponise the word simp because of their own insecurity, and insane jealousy issues of seeing another guy interact with an attractive woman. So overall I can understand your reticence to discuss the term which tbh is so frequently abused to even be useful. Fundamentally appeasing deseprate male behaviour should be called out and we can call that being a simp perhaps...

[@CourtneyRyan]

Sooo true!

[@rijubhatt8366]

Typically, people have limited, if not absent, sense of personal boundaries. Saying no to them is an exercise of caution. They feel their personal right to being "RIGHT" every time is being taken advantage of. Yes, this actually happens.

[@SoldierPoet]

And it's on to 100K! You're a hard worker with your channel and you deserve it. Have a wonderful weekend and God bless you. 🤠👍

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much! 🥰 you too!

[@thomasedwardpatrickbradyjr]

SIMP! Just kidding

[@rutube007]

I used to like giving genuine complements to both men and women but since I came across the word few years ago, I only did it to women if I knew no one else is listening. But then I thought. women themselves must be thinking the same way. So considering the risk/benefit, I have stopped giving them completely. So much that now it doesn't even cross my mind.

[@susovanchakraborty4486]

You are the sister I never had.

[@JohnJunior-l9z]

Don't be a simp when you simp she doesn't respect yourself.this video was very powerful.courtney tells it like it is.

[@g.banderas1242]

Really appreciate your advice. Been chasing a girl for couple of years. At one time it was awesome but then she moved away to another state and I tried to rekindle what we once had. Never really could get that back. Had her on a pedestal thinking she would be the one 🙄. So I'm glad you have opened my eyes and realized I was chasing a dream🤔. Thanks for sharing your advice. Need to move on. Really tell it like it is.👍😮

[@thatboringblenderguy]

I had a similar, well quite similar issue with a girl from Target...

[@eaglesfan109]

So much truth in this video, especially the bit about chasing. Anyone who gets off on people chasing them isn't worth your time. The internet needs more content like this.

[@ryangilley8764]

Me, gives Courtney's video a like. Everyone else: "SIMP!"

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hahaha everytime 🥲

[@ultimateownsz]

It is what It is I guess🤔

[@brachiosaurus6541]

I liked your comment, so I'm now your simp!

[@Raymond-rr5iv]

Lol !! Kiss my..... ;-) !!

[@donkeykong1234]

so, if i click on Courtney's video I'm a simp and if I click on Tucker Carlson's perpetual scowling face - i'm an alpha? k.

[@robkxo1945]

Courtney, you have such a sweet spirit and a great direct, no BS approach to your commentary. I hope to find a lady as beautiful and intelligent as you. Seriously.

[@Halpin2006]

Courtney, I wish I had this video when I was a child. But in the 1980s, this advice was written in a certain book that was hard to find!

[@halfpastblog]

I clicked on this to find out what a simp is and kept watching because you make some extremely insightful observations. Kudos on having the courage to state things plainly but gently.

[@JosueExplores]

Courtney: hey Teddy let’s cuddle and chill Teddy: I can’t, I’m hanging out with KEVIN O’LEARY

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂😂😂 I’m laughing so hard

[@patrickpeters298]

There's a tactful way to tell some painful truths to someone being taken advantage of, but that's what separates true friends from fake friends. True friends won't tell you what you want to hear, they'll tell you what you need to hear. If someone's disrespecting you, you must have the courage and the conviction in your values to walk away from either a toxic person or a toxic situation. Courtney brings more value to guys than any OnlyFans woman ever could. She is like the wise sister that gives guidance to her younger brothers. Peace. 😇

[@chuckstemm443]

I prefer these videos as opposed to the ones with the other girls

[@Franklin-dk1fr]

I'm so happy to be free. Im glad I found your channel. I subscribed. I also really like Anna Jorgenson. And Marni is great too. Bobby Rio is pretty good as well.

[@haggs2014]

“Unsubscribe from onlyfans” and stop following their Instagram accounts that are the soft core version of their accounts

[@THOR_THE_GOD]

I started this video with dread of the possibility, and after watching I realized how much of a simp I was and I'm proud of how much self-respect I've accomplished! Because none of this applies to me now, I started chasing money and looking better instead of women. Then like magic women hmu more.. Courtney is absolutely right guys, DONT EVER SIMP! 💯

[@vinblack85]

"You have to stop dm"ing her 20 times a day" Sooo how about 19??😁

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂 you guys kill me lol

[@johnjuarez8005]

LOL

[@dakshc06]

lmfao

[@gordonjamesedward1639]

@@CourtneyRyan 😜😜😝

[@Honestandtruth007]

Courtney is directing to people who don't have Common senses

[@Guardian49811]

Great video Courtney. One of the best pieces of advice I read in a book many years ago even before "SIMP" was a common thing is that the most important person in a guys life is himself, then someone he is seeing/with, then everyone else. The example he gave was if there is only one seat on the subway the jerk will take the seat and make the girl stand, the simp will give up the seat for the girl but the best approach is to take the seat yourself and have her sit in your lap.

[@aseman84]

You have a soothing voice. If I were you, I would try to read audiobooks or even produce a podcast. Would be a waste of talent/ blessings, if you would not go for it. Greetings from Germany

[@alosthindu3059]

I love the way how you maintained your eye contact throughout the video.. Amazing video..

[@AriDeleuze]

Notifcation Squad !!!!😎😎😎Where yall at?? Anyways Courtney recognizes me now 😏

[@CourtneyRyan]

You rock!!

[@AriDeleuze]

@@CourtneyRyan you rule!!

[@mohammedfaraaz6949]

Siíiiiiiiiimppppp 😉

[@reddevilparatrooper]

Thank you for making me self evaluate my current situation now. I went through 2 bad divorces and a dozen near marriage situations which all were all horrible. Currently I have what I see an Angel walk into my life. With my background of bad choices. I feel a pattern of uneasiness coming. I shall see what she says when I start to say NO!

[@machupikachu1085]

my experience : no should do. It should rarely - if ever - get to NO! Also - this may be useful on your new journey www.livingbetterlivesnwa.com/blog/2020/3/2/15-how-to-identify-toxic-relationships Hope this helps. Best of luck, my dude. Cheers!

[@halfers83]

I will remain single FOREVER!!!

[@immanuelkh]

There are a million people on KZbin who give advice on how to attract the opposite sex (exaggerating, but only by a little bit), and you are one of the best I have seen. Keep up the great work

[@JoeMercersWay]

why do you need to pay to talk to a girl when Courtney talks to you for free every day?

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly???? 😂

[@Firesword534]

Courtney once again coming through with not exactly tough love, but real love. Great way to talk about this and still encourage guys to be the best versions of themselves.

[@MrCanadiansingh]

You boost so much confidence in me that i have blocked a model having 3 million followers on insta

[@CourtneyRyan]

I’m so proud!!!

[@MrCanadiansingh]

@@CourtneyRyan you should be ! 🚨my beacon of hope

[@mikeg3439]

Thank you, you are dead on right. It's okay to be a good person, doesn't mean you are a simp. You define simp very clearly, that is helpful.

[@renemontenegro6143]

Im a Sigma Male my Colombian woman loves it 😎

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼👏🏼

[@jleano609]

South American girls are pretty special. I worked it out a few years ago with a Peruvian girl who was a mate's squeeze. And I've noticed it with Brazilian girls too. When they talk to you they look directly into your eyes and focus all their attention on you. Are they taught this in childhood? It is really captivating.

[@habsom1406]

Psychologically healthy authentic advice delivered in a non judgemental way, very refreshing.

[@strongholds12]

Simps is the comments "you're beautiful. Your content really helped me alot"

[@nicolasboehm1673]

this video should go worldwide, stop following women on onlyfans, courtney is being brutally honest, when i say brutally, i mean it in a good and very hard way, i had a phase in 2016 and 2017 where i was following girls on instagram, liking their photos, i now limit myself to instagram and Facebook once a week where i put just photos of me running, easter last weekend, I'm actually in a sense scared of women, yes women scare me, they scare me mentally

[@Joe.Brown2120]

THANK YOU!! I was at work kicking it with my male coworkers and here’s there logic... “If I buy my guy friend a snack from a vending machine, I’m a bro 😎. If I buy my girl friend a snack from a vending machine, I’m a simp.” I looked at them like they were thee DUMBEST individuals there 😂

[@jdr6128]

Very good video Courtney, thank you. You're simple sincerity and calm demeanor are very refreshing. I wish there were more women like you, you are a diamond in a sea of broken glass. Sadly I know many "men" (I use the term loosely) that could take a chill pill and learn the value of honesty. Keep up the good work.

[@davidj.espino2435]

I don't even know what an only fans is🇵🇭

[@airtec87]

Yes, the power of walking away. Only works if you can do it without feelings. Practice makes perfect.

[@omotayosatuyi252]

Ways to not be a simp: don’t be a simp

[@CourtneyRyan]

If only it was that easy right lol

[@omotayosatuyi252]

@@CourtneyRyan Haha

[@jackcarraway4707]

Note there's nothing wrong with being interested in someone and making a move. We're humans with emotions. However, if he/she says no or tries to take advantage of you, move on.

[@kokotheclown2588]

She's like the female version of alpha m someone who's looking out for u while being honest

[@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854]

With the differences that she's not very intense, and she doesn't put many sponsors on her videos 😂😂😂

[@kokotheclown2588]

@@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854 true but alpha it's the right amount of intense but yeah the sponsorship it's a bit on your face

[@thatboringblenderguy]

5:15 Yep, been hitting the gym for three months now... My confidence is improving every time I go

[@DJSmith575]

Great advice as always. Your voice sounds like a warm hug with a pat on the back. Thank you. 🤗

[@oliverrodriguez5481]

I must say I am a new fan, Courtney seems like she genuinely cares and gives a different point of view from some other content makers I follow. Good job

[@rarissime7]

After.. some hard mindset.. I became what I want.... And ever one can be........ Thanks Courtney❤️

[@ayroneman34]

Yes to being a gentleman, aka a man with masculine frame and self-respect. No to simping! Thank you Courtney

[@michael-dy8tz]

I needed to hear this, this has been me, thank you Courtney!

[@johnnyboyyyyy]

Thank you for this. Taking a hard look at myself, I realize I’ve done this too much. I’m going to start taking a stand for me and implementing these things. I don’t do OF lol cause I’m not that desperate, but I’ve been overly giving to try to win women over sometimes and it’s gotten me used.

[@diax14]

Number 3, Stop Chasing, is very important. I think you have to go with your own thing and life, and if you meet someone then fit the time with her into your schedule

[@suryajithkumar8172]

tanx a'lot ma'am for ur precious words it's important for those who hadn't noticed this way of thinking

[@GCP25]

Much needed for all the simps out there. I see wayyyy too many. But good advice for many guys even if they aren’t “simps”.

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼👏🏼