Covert Characters Know How to Look Good Without Being Good

[@suzannebunbury2961]

I’m happy that I found your content. I was raised by malignant narcissist and a covert narcissist. I can’t even describe the struggle. I’m almost 70 and the battle continues…❤

[@kiwicatnip]

This gives me so much closure. All of my life I have struggled living in a world full of these people and feeling like I am the only one who sees it. Nobody in my family seems to notice OR, they happen to be one of these people. It can be a lonely and crazymaking journey being in this position. And for someone like myself who had been a target of narcissistic and subtle abuse for many years-this information is invaluable. The information you put out here has given me validation and has calmed my heart mind and soul. Thank you so so so much for the work you have done and continue to so.

[@Sunrisefire]

Me2!😊

[@bonitajolie9341]

​@@Sunrisefire Me three!!

[@JustineSpider]

My heart goes to the survivors. Stay strong.

[@TheBraunzone]

I agree with you.

[@BetruetoGod]

Me 4!

[@ingrid20234]

Sadly too, too few people can see through narcissists, hence the dominance of the dark triad heading up governments and businesses.

[@MaryDunford]

..and the justice system, and clergy, and healthcare, and education.. It's pervasive and has deeply infected just about everything. I can't think on it over long. It's just too disturbing.

[@shiny7301]

💯💯💯🙏🙏So true, coverts are the wolves in the sheep's clothing. Thanks Dr. Simon for your precious contributions ❤

[@kkrenken895]

The many clear examples in In Sheep’s Clothing helped me identify what was happening to me, to get out of the situation, and to start healing. To those who are alone in this, you can’t worry if other people see what you see; you have to care enough about yourself to walk away.

[@ddean1420]

Your work has helped many people Dr. Simon, and l am one of them. Your cat analogy was a pivotal point in my journey and recovery from dealing with a very sick person. Many thanks 🙏

[@sissi8610]

Yes! Same here! The cat comparison was GOLD!

[@winter-qd4yw]

Thank you for this! So true! I am trying to Heal from over 4 decades a covert narcissist abuse. It is hell on earth. All of this resonates with me. I have your first book and will read the others as well! When you say that having good character is an arduous journey that really hit me. I have been fighting my whole life to be me; I have been punished for my values over and over again.

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

Academy Award worthy actors...

[@aubreyj.tennant1123]

First time visitor here. I love the soft spoken, simple and understandable presentation of the organizing principals on healthy minds and the characters they become. Discernment is at the core of being able to comprehend a lot of the incomprehensible behaviour of covert people. Loved the whole thing and especially the way the message is delivered in such a caring way. 🙏🏼👍

[@Bizkitlove]

Great content,there are many people of all ages who live this way,the truth will always prevail,not their twisted narratives,no matter how hard they try.

[@salutsoleil3682]

New subscriber. Your video soothed my heart. Thank you! ❤

[@carolinecarter6874]

Comprehending the incomprehensible... they are evil...this is their choice! It doesn't have to be yours! Thank you for enabling others to understand and hopefully avoid these soulless, overly entitled cardboard cutouts!

[@ladyvirgo013]

Im currently in the process of a divorce from this manipulator😈 I will give him some credit for being good at being the wolf in sheeps clothing, he blindsided me good. Thank You, being Authentic definitely matters

[@letamorgan6819]

You hit it right on the head....and it's important we look inside to see our own character and where we need to 'hold the line'...

[@Tigers999]

Thank you so much Dr.Simon, you have described the feeling of bewilderment so accurately, it’s healing to hear you say exactly how it feels to deal with these sick people. And stop second guessing oneself. It’s crazy that in these times the people who want the best for others are the ones often questioning themselves when faced with this type of person. Someone who is of good “character” is often made to look bad and the person with evil intentions and no “character” somehow comes out looking great

[@EveningTV]

Your books have helped me so much in my life. I have a question for you about this being a growing problem worsening every generation. How is it that my parents have disabled character while mine is intact despite the terrible way I've been treated?

[@TheBlondiekitten]

Yeah it’s my mother not me or my friends who has the poor character.

[@mendedandwhole]

Great question! Proverbs says we live out of the heart and the issues of life come out of there. So I think heart humility to be corrected or pride to hate correction or instruction which the Bible calls fools. I think your individual resilience and your heart moral compass also helps. Same here. Two of my siblings are full narcs, and I am not and we all had the same upbringing. Great question for Dr Simon. Character matters!

[@danovangrinnell4479]

After 45 years had to cut a so call friend.Yhat was after educating myself on the subject of narcissism.

[@lovecatspiracy]

Sometimes the sheepishest of all are the most wolfen. Thanks for your guidance and earnest devotion

[@Viktoria-7]

Thank you so much for all you do. Your book, In Sheep’s Clothing was the first book God led me to 9 years ago that has begun a journey of healing… God bless you…

[@brendaleverick3655]

Yes, you are correct. I have covert narc next door neighbors. The woman stayed slim and took better care of her body than I did. But, her character is lousy. She pretends to be good, when I don't see much goodness in her. And I got to know her a little since she moved in. She is more highly thought of than me, and has loads more friends. But me, who was very generous to her, she treats with thinly veiled contempt. I do not like her, and do not want to be her neighbor any longer.

[@sherrilynnnelson703]

It's good to be more concerned with doing than looking... thanks so much for your wonderful message ❤

[@moimeme6533]

This Man is spittin pure facts...could not agree more! 💯⚡💫

[@kerrytaggart8206]

Outstanding!

[@CaramelSunflowers]

Thank you for your work, it has helped me immensely over the years when I couldn't find a way of out hell nor find a psychologist face to face who understood. You are doing God's work.

[@patriziapanetta2021]

Thank you dott. Simon

[@SimbaAliaye]

Psychopaths. That’s what I want to know more about.

[@SoniaProteau-cj6tk]

It is easier to look good than to be good

[@gwendolynwehage6336]

Thank you so much for your work in this very important matter!!! I have found that the challenge I am responsible for is that I seek Christ to be what He wants me to be. My prayer is that He works out His will and character in my life no matter what others are doing. I have realized over the years most people will not listen and I cannot change anyone but myself. Only through Christ in us when we trust in Him can we be good. His goodness must be our goal not our own. Matthew 7:21-23

[@MariaSantana-ul5wd]

Amen.

[@lynnstervinou2530]

They try to look like ‘angels of light’. I find these character disturbed people do not have any personal values - especially honesty. I’ve met one or two people like this and it’s creepy to watch the manipulations they’re engaging in in real time.

[@nomadicsoul7]

I was one of those folks I thought I was going crazy. Thank you for your videos.

[@Sunrisefire]

Thank you so much for saying so! Nobody seems to mention or care about Character anymore. It's essential to being anything or anybody with hope in this world, even if you're not the best person. This is what Jesus meant by spiritual riches.

[@ingehanson]

There are lots and lots of wolves in sheep clothing in politics nowadays in both parties.

[@Shelley-j2y]

And in the church as well.@@ingehanson

[@sherrilynnnelson703]

I get so frustrated and confused that I yell but then I study the Bible and am encouraged immediately ❤

[@mendedandwhole]

You are a blessing Dr Simon you changed my life! With your first book and nowhere videos! You have a lot of revelation and understanding on this. So thankful for you! ❤

[@stylist62]

Thank you Dr. George, it’s hard to find people who understand the damage they do, He was slandering me when he married me, did so much damage loss in a few years, the cruelty in private, soulless person, traumatized me, took and took, never satisfied. In public completely different person, the bullying stealing, 8 months ago kicked him out, I need some direction, Working hard on my healing, he was telling everyone I was crazy and abusive, I paid for everything brought him in my childhood home, cooked for him worked, gave good for evil, nothing works, he was trying to make me crazy, brainwash me, took lots of valuables from my family he had no right to touch. So we’ll hidden is right🙏😭💔they are sadistic., I still have trauma, kicked him out 8 months ago It took me a year of studying to start being able to wrap my mind around this sadistic sociopath. I wish I could talk to you in purpose

[@ckvarnmass]

Wow, a different take on this subject. So true about character.

[@sheilabest3652]

Thank you, Dr. Simon. Your title says a lot and is entirely appropriate.

[@Maria-cd5bz]

Thank you again Dr Simon for your wisdom. Your latest book is fantastic! I see you changed the cover of the book. It's a great choice. God bless you, and Merry Christmas ❤

[@sherrilynnnelson703]

Love this so much ❤️

[@tschinzel]

Well done!!!

[@brendaleverick3655]

Yes, you are correct. I have covert narc next door neighbors. The woman stayed slim and took better care of her body than I did mine. But, her character is lousy. She pretends to be good, when I don't see much goodness in her. And I got to know her a little since she moved in. She is more highly thought of than me, and has loads more friends. But me, who was very generous to her, she treats with thinly veiled contempt. I do not like her, and do not want to be her neighbor any longer. She is married, but I have seen her coming and going with different men, and heard her say a sultry "Hello!" to the maintenance man today.

[@nugget6635]

The grandiose also knows how to look good without being good. Only the malignant narcissist never appears to look good in fact they just come across as domineering.

[@michelleburstrom2548]

I appreciate your videos and have learned quite a bit from you.

[@anndillard8681]

Totally agree.. there is no accountability.. therefore no character.. when I grew up it was the most important thing.. a book to also read DADDY THROWS ME IN THE AIR - memoir/self-help.. by Ayn Dillard.. in Part 4 are tools to assist in identification into awareness. that can be used repeatedly ..

[@curaturable]

Absolutely true 👌👍❤❤❤ Time to wake up!

[@jesusislukeskywalker4294]

🙏 shared with the Nuevo Laredo community

[@TruthandJustice-hz9nv]

This was absolutely tremendous DR Simon, Thank you so much for this, Your work is an inspiration to me, Keep shining light, And educating people, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high :-)

[@VMorgenthaler-yp6yz]

It isn't just young people. They can be in their 60s. People who grew up with money and surface breeding and status. I've been out of a relationship five months now from a covert narcissist. A lawyer! The worst combo. Her mother, siblings, and children narcissists, all. Yes, she wanted me, in the sack. Who still lies for sex, in their 60s?

[@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih]

I LOVED your amasing book. Changed my life. Thank you so much ❤🎉

[@PaigeSquared]

It's always exciting to get a website revamp! 😊🎉 I will explore the blog articles. I've read one book (WISC); the others sound interesting.

[@doriannemosich232]

Thank you so much, if you only knew dear Dear Dr. Simon how much this helps me at this time in my life. Where I have to settle my parents estate, legally had to suspend my brother as trustee, he teamed up w/other brother & his boyfriend, caused a lot of pointless sadistic personal & financial destruction , out of pathological envy sold a very valuable investment that was a shared asset I owned 50% of with my MOM 20 years ago . There behavior was awful Anyway enough & God bless & good night.

[@leanita7549]

Affirming! New subbie 🎉

[@eprofengr6670]

Great summary and reminder. Thank you so much for great books and articulation of important observations.

[@patmahgroyn6868]

Thank you Sir. Wow!!!

[@lovelysosweet8386]

💯💯💯 wolves in sheep clothing!

[@OlisticarioED]

Love your work ❤ thank you

[@celinhamaui2023]

Thank You!

[@detlefkorsen]

Exactly

[@IknowIamafool]

Happy New Year Dr Simon. :)

[@thomasdonau5140]

A very true and caring message. They are many, in my case using pretend friendship, at work or outside it, and my older brother. Any indication of moral and intellectual failure (eg. lying, hypocrisy, vanity, cheating/adultery, drug use, misplaced anger, asking to borrow money as an adult above 30 years of age who yet can afford smoking or drinking or drugs, all of these are indicators or clues. RUN and have nothing to do with such people.

[@AnnaMishel]

Well said!!!

[@SoniaProteau-cj6tk]

People omitting information is like lying

[@SoniaProteau-cj6tk]

I think being raised by my two grand mothers makes me different , honestly i really never knew my parents really.

[@muma6559]

Very true

[@LynnSandler-j9k]

Dont avoid someone that is hurting try to see if you can help them. Maybe they are hurting deep inside how bout that. How would you like for some one to not help you if they hurting down deep inside, God knows all and sees all, he created the universe.

[@Shelley-j2y]

Unless you've dealt with a covert narcissist, you don't know the damage they do.

[@bonnieromick9397]

Ive found you. Yes a definite character crisis. Society in a slow poisoning of itself by its sinfulness

[@MariaSantana-ul5wd]

Amen. 2 Timothy 3 Avoid such people.

[@LynnSandler-j9k]

The ten commandments are in the Holy Bible

[@lesliesavage9229]

I disagree. It is easier to be good than to deceive others that you are good. You also seem to be a little full of yourself in that you blow your own horn. Get to the subject, which you haven't for three minutes and fifty two seconds.

[@MariaSantana-ul5wd]

Wow. No respect.

[@lesliesavage9229]

@@MariaSantana-ul5wd I call it like I see it. He's a waste of time to listen too.

[@bigcheech1937]

Narcissism much?

[@lesliesavage9229]

@@bigcheech1937 I have no idea what you are getting at. You're going to have to explain yourself.

[@bigcheech1937]

@@lesliesavage9229 You are a narcissist and you have a bad attitude