People Start Missing You When THIS Occurs

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Do the work in no contact! Personal growth ALWAYS pays off! #TheKnowledge

[@brianjames9294]

My ex broke up with me 6 months ago over a text. After I attempted to call her that same night (she ghosted), I haven't reached out to her at all since. I loved her with all my heart and always put her first, but during these months of NC, I realized the relationship was unbalanced and she did not reciprocate the same efforts in the relationship. Months ago, I would have done anything to get her back - now, I don't even know if I want her back. Listen to Coach and work on yourself because you'll realize that you deserve better.

[@agirlfromnewyork2074]

My ex dumped me by phone 💔. Two months ago. I'm still heartbroken.

[@NullSpace0]

I'm so sorry that happened to you. Your story sounds almost identical to mine. Breakup texts hurt like nothing else. You think you're going to see them again or hear their voice again until you receive that dreaded text. Then, you're left confused, angry, depressed, disappointed, in denial, and blindsided that it happened so quickly. I'm still hurting over my ex but keep going at it and keep reaching new heights. Your dating life will benefit immensely from it.

[@Teagill]

Just block her

[@xbox_beyond]

Mine dumped me over text seven months ago. Two months in no contact, I wished happy birthday, she replied thank you. It has been 5 months since with NC. I don't expect to hear from her again. We had a very good relationship but I don't think she was ready for us to progress further than what we were. We were together 2.5 years, our children met, we met each others family. It became "too much" for her.

[@dennishaas3140]

Mine ex broke up with me by text and ghosted me, but moved in a coworker she monkey branched to. That has been a year ago, I went radio silent and don't care if I ever see her again!

[@nyzaihaf3501]

Craig is Right , it works you just have to be patient and trust the process

[@robertanderson2289]

All I can say is that when you bully the bully, it humbles them. And they become apologetic. When they realize you are truly gone, they have regrets and pick up the phone. ☎️🤓👍

[@camellia8625]

Do you really wish to reconcile with someone who is a bully

[@robertanderson2289]

@@camellia8625 The "operative" word is "HUMBLED!" Problem solved.🤓👍

[@philipleckburg8443]

It works! 80 days of no contact and I got a direct indirect text asking about her weed eater. Something that she could easily fix or have a neighbor fix. She asked if I could come over and fix it for her. She also wished me an early happy birthday. I went the next day and fixed her weed trimmer and we caught up. I kept it short and polite. We hugged at the end. I'm back in no contact and hope she reaches out again soon. Thanks Craig! I'm going about my life again without her until she misses me again.

[@carlfreiermuth5424]

what he says in this video is absolutely true, I know because I have been on both sides so I have experienced it myself. it's very worthwhile to do the work

[@glynnellis5050]

Thank you Craig. It is encouraging to hear success stories. Also, it is sad to read the comments and see the anxiety and bitterness some have. Yes, you are passionate Craig, helping so many…

[@missmo463]

I don’t even know if I want my ex back, but still sometimes I miss him so much, I can barely breathe. We loved each other so much, and we were perfect together and perfect for each other, but unfortunately his situation and circumstances with his kids, made a relationship very difficult.

[@di114n2]

Sorry to be nosey but what do you mean situation with his kids ? Is he going through custody battle or something else

[@Graham1986]

I lost the love of my life because of the my situation and the strain it out on her, women with children are just money seeking p.o.s and can put a huge strain on any relationship just because there bitter and broke. I miss my ex everyday, she is an amazing human...... and I wish her every success even if I am no longer a part of her life 😔

[@missmo463]

@@di114n2 his kids didn’t want him to date yet after his divorce, and he was just going along with it, waiting for them to just magically wake up one day and give him permission to date, instead of slowly preparing them for that possibility. I wasn’t even asking to meet them, but the fact that I was a secret, made everything so hard. I don’t want him back anymore though. Towards the end, his daughter attempted suicide as well. This resulted in him going to extremes- at one point refusing to talk to his parents on the phone/video call when she was around, to avoid the possibility that they might mention me in her presence and trigger her. She knew about me, but his other kids didn’t.

[@RCT479]

I’m with u since the beginning

[@jeremyriley2102]

Look for these videos daily. Does anyone else whistle the beginning tune like me?

[@TruckerBLW]

Yep.

[@CraigNeverSunday]

I saw someone that looked a lot like my ex walking away from my address when I was driving home today, honestly it shook me up and freaked me out quite a lot, we broke up 5 months ago, been in NC for 4 months straight, I hope it wasn't her, maybe I'm just seeing phantoms... you could say The Phantom Menace! haha! But I do still miss her, so unless she is dating someone "better" than me, she probably misses me too.

[@natalic6088]

Best part comes in the end! Yes, any attempt to contact we justify as sweet gesture will come across as manipulative f ex. I never thought of it this way…

[@Riiotking]

She broke up with me- she reached out 3 times in 4 months, finally replied after the 3rd text…. Oddly enough, I missed her so much, but when I started responding to her I realized I didn’t miss her anymore. Lol. The connection wasn’t there anymore. I stopped responding altogether. Been a week no contact again. Feels weird, but good.

[@DaveSustain]

It's been 7 months since NC and I had just about started recovering and lost 20 pounds, gained muscle, work wise I'm a bit directionless but I'll figure that out too. Of late her memories are hitting me hard, I miss her a lot, feels like anhedonia, I've lost interest in everything, which I also think is because I'm lonely, I've no friends so zero interaction with people. I want to come out of this soon. I want to find the person I was before the relationship. I still love her though.

[@narayanprasad5244]

You're doing really well. I can sympathise with the loneliness. We have to look within to address that though and have the ability to be enough in ourselves. It is only then that others will see our true value. Keep going. Get out there meet people do things you enjoy. Being sedentary fuels anhedonia so do something good for yourself each day. I am really confident that you'll do really well based on how far you have come so far.

[@DaveSustain]

Thanks! Better things ahead. You take care too.

[@baykrawler]

Your not alone bro! I'm going thru something similar! Keep going! She was a small fish in a large ocean!

[@robertanderson2289]

Fellas, listen up; if you treated her like royalty, she's guaranteed to return. It's hard to find quality guys, and this she will soon find out. And come crawling back.☎️☎️☎️☎️🤓👍

[@hallix07]

I hope this works the other way round 😢

[@robertanderson2289]

@@hallix07 Were you very good to your man?

[@birdfriday]

@@robertanderson2289I would be willing to bet the entire contents of my checking account that we both treated our exes like they were precious crystal. And put up with hell. I ultimately broke it off with him because he pushed me away so far in such a way that if I’d stayed he would’ve lost any respect he ever had for me. I told him I was moving to another country and even changed my LinkedIn to show I’m there. I’m still in the same state but another city. I don’t have social media so he can’t find me but his number isn’t blocked anymore. I doubt I’ll ever see him again

[@waqidj]

Yes she was my queen Only thing I fucked up was her love language Focus attention words I’m an idiot She’s never dated before. Married young then married me. Great sexual life as well… I know she’s attracted to me but the romance was gone when I got sick and then she got stupid sick and stuck at home I didn’t know what to do anymore I fucked up month 1. Last week or so I gave up. I realize I have to just let her process After she left my health finally got better. It’s like god fixed me a week after she was gone I don’t know why. Took antibiotics for a year is when it started to fall apart. Brain fog fatigue etc Started some high dose vitamins and it fixed all of it She knows that. She knows I am back to the guy she married and that’s what she kept asking me If I lose this woman. I don’t know if I ever want to love another woman again This is far too hard I never thought I would have to look for a wife ever again God you are listening. Please help a brother out. I am absolutely crushed and this is a soul crush. You know how much I love her and how much she loved me. Like no other woman Thank god I wasn’t an angry violent idiot with her

[@LonelyRider87]

Just wanted to give my experience as a NC "long timer." I've been in NC for 2 years now. It's been hard but very beneficial. I try to focus on my life, needs & goals & keep attending therapy & I read a ton of self-help. I really hope Coach revisits his back-burner idea of a book now that his courses are done & live. Would love to have him in my library. I still think about & love my ex but I'm able to live my life & focus on family, friends & my passion, writing. It's really helped me not only cope with this but create something beautiful, like a pheonix from the proverbial ashes. I'm not yet at the point I want to be before I write to Coach, but someday in the not so distant future I'm going to have a success story for him. It does get a bit easier guys. Use Craig to get you through the worst of it, he & his team (RIP dear Maggie Mea) were such a comfort in dark days.

[@waqidj]

If it’s been 2 years forget it Seriously stop If I have to wait 3 months or longer without her reaching out I’m done

[@LonelyRider87]

@@waqidj That's your opinion. I'll do what works for me you do what works for you. We're different people. Not every ex is going to come back that fast. If you wanna move on do it, but you don't get to order me to.

[@Theprivatepsychodelicreel]

6 months of NC LATER, still hurts just as much and very sure she has moved on and I’m happy for her. The pain is real but I’m still trying to do the work for myself, otherwise I have removed myself from almost everything. I’m the exception to the no contact rule and my ex never came back. I try to not think of her but she always creeps into my thoughts and dreams.

[@glynnellis5050]

Craig, Thank you for the coaching session today. It was a lot of information I shared with you. I needed direction and you provided it to me. Answers that makes the difference between success, or failure. I feel much more confident now. Thank you… GE

[@LeonScottKennedy7]

Thank you Craig, great video

[@problemslayer3538]

My ex didnt use time and space, she didnt need it as she had been mentally preparing for our break up months before we finished. However during no contact she jumped into a rebound relationship which is now 3 months in. She did reach out to me after 4 weeks NC. Missed me, do i have a GF etc etc. I have never reached out to her it has been her contacing me. It has never been to discuss getting back together. I havent heard anything for over a week now and dont think i will again. NC does work but when they reach out, if its not to discuss sorting out the relationship then its unlikely you will get back together. What i would say is if they are in a rebound or with someone early after the break up its super important you leave that alone and dont get involved. The way i see it is if they want to discuss things then they will let you know. In the meantime and in my opinion its best to remove them from your life and make progress elsehwere.

[@chrismartindrummer]

Been 7 month of NC after several months of casual texting. 2.5yrs out of the relationship. They are the dumper and it was brutal by text. I made all the mistakes you can make until I just stopped contact. They still watch all my stories I post and I don’t post anything to try and trigger them. I just live my life but they are on my mind a lot.

[@Naksu_99]

It’s been one year of no contact I’ve been blocked this whole time I don’t know if there’s any hope left

[@jimdemichele9067]

I have to have some contact because we have a daughter, however I do not reach out first or sometimes we don’t communicate for long periods of time. It’s tough because we were married and now divorced after 23 years. Can you address some suggestions regarding divorce not just dating?

[@whitneyalexander8203]

I have interest in this, but my ex is already with someone else, and I feel like its too late. Its been 7 months, since she left.

[@Melissaw916]

I love watching all of your videos couch craig kenneth

[@ladybird452]

Hi Coach Craig, I know a lot of members of this community are here with the hope of getting their ex back. That is one thing I absolutely don’t want. My ex was a liar and abusive and I have no intention of ever being in the same room with him again. But my brain still tortures me with memories and images and longing. All I want is for the pain to stop. How do I get over heartbreak when I no longer love my ex?

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

Have you considered my Creative Healing Course? There are a lot of therapeutic activities that help process the breakup and heal!

[@ladybird452]

@@CoachCraigKenneth I’ve been saving up to get it!

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

@@ladybird452 it's really great. We worked so hard on making it amazing.

[@misslucky93]

I broke up wit my boyfriend because he take me for granted. After 6days her sister asked me about what's my new home address because his brother is asking for it. He didn't reach out yet and I will continue NC. I am starting to change my fashion style, color and hairstyle. And planning change of job now.

[@user-hh9sp9kq4v]

What does it mean if she asks if I left flowers on her car when I am not even in the same country as her. Is she trying to make me jealous ?

[@di114n2]

I had an over 5 year relationship end 2 months ago . My x reached out about 4 weeks ago with the I miss you and think about you every day I just don’t think it’s a good idea to talk right now but maybe we can hang out when we’re fully healed . I Haven’t heard a word from her since but I did hear from my x before my most recent x who I haven’t heard from in over 6 years . Crazy how things work even though I didn’t necessarily want to hear from this x. I just really hope I hear from the one I want to be with again

[@joshsid1]

Hi Craig. Can you guys do something on long distance no contact and reconciliation? I feel like the dynamics of that kind of situation are different.

[@DMuvvy]

I’ll be watching out for that one! I’m long distance too. 2.5 months NC. And he’s avoidant. I’m dying! Uggg. I’m praying you are ok🙏🙏🙏🌷🌷

[@AnnaLicata-ml7nr]

I've gotten a long-distance ex back. It IS possible! Though it feels impossible, it does happen. Don't lose hope!

[@Vidasinvida]

Same I was in a LDR but they did reach out multiple times over the years. There’s hope for all of us 😉✨🔥

[@LonelyRider87]

Yeah same. I've also had an issue with other KZbin coaches (Not Craig) not taking my LDR seriously.

[@Zemohc]

Attached to your caregivers. So you have to unattach? How does that process work? If you're in a situation where you find yourself doubting your ex will return. Then how can you expect anyone else to return when no one has ever done so in your entire life?

[@Polynikes117]

My ex would ignore me so much towards the end.. She slept with multiple men, cheated on me throughout our whole relationship, I forgave her and she kept her affairs going. She even went to the extent to call her ex husband(12 years with him) and tell him to say she’s a good person in front of me. It was very odd to me someone would request that after being caught cheating. I am now trying to pick up the pieces. I ultimately broke up with her because she just went cold, ghosted me after we agreed to fix things. I blocked her and her siblings after being told one of her affair partners separated from his wife to be with my ex but then rejected him. She picked to be with another affair partner. Within weeks they are getting engaged building a home already. I am hurting so bad. I love her with all of my soul…

[@rwentfordable]

That's not healthy to love someone who does this let alone doing it to you. Once they cheat, that's it.

[@Melissaw916]

Me and my ex partner hroke up 6 weeks ago. He broke up with me because we argued all the time. He didnt reach out and hadnt spoken to me since so im guessing he wants to move on. He told my friend we might be friends but i gotta focus on myself before he can start friendship. I dont see him reaching out hes gone cold and distant. But, he didnt block my number which is weird

[@saudlukmanofficial3793]

It's a month ago, any update?

[@Melissaw916]

@@saudlukmanofficial3793 I decided to stop reaching out and go no contact myself which has made me feel less hurt by the breakup. He hasn't reached out at all.

[@brandonrobertkersjes]

She dated other guys? Dude leave her!

[@esslar]

Absolutely truth

[@pw2pg]

In that story Craig was telling, when the dumper said “I was extremely confident you would message me till the month and a half point, where I lost that feeling and started to feel like I would never here from you again”. It made sense when the dumper said that because it’s around the 45 day mark when they (the dumper) starts to feel that separation anxiety. Don’t know if this is dependent on whether the dumper was an avoidant or not, but I’d assume it would be the same. 👍

[@johnrevelation37]

It's been 2 years exactly this past week and I'm in love with my new gf. She's the best.

[@JorgeGonzalez-t2r]

My wife left 7 months ago sometimes I break the NC cuz I can't help it but week's pass and sometimes she Tex back nor in a bad way or good way im trying my best to do the NC

[@Braveh3artGirl]

If you believe in God, pray and ask for direction. Ask Him to reveal if He wants you to fight for your marriage or not ❤ much love

[@winterkai12]

My ex still wants to be friends because that's how he sees me before our relationship came to be (broken up twice), but he's in a new relationship. I told him to not message me because I don't want the friendship, unless he's ready to meet or we have enough space, but still reaches out every now and then. Seems like he's confident with his new relationship, but still wants the benefit of having me (his ex) around lol...

[@LeonScottKennedy7]

Thank you Craig

[@lisamaxwell777]

My ex don’t speak to but watches all my stories.. does that mean anything ?

[@patrick-huizing]

It means nothing. If you want your ex back delete social media

[@chainz7006]

it could

[@lisamaxwell777]

Why? What would that do ?

[@patrick-huizing]

@@lisamaxwell777 you show your ex growth !! And that is attractive !!

[@LonelyRider87]

​@patrick-huizing You don't need to delete it just unfriend, unfollow/mute & radio silence in addition to NC. They come to you only.

[@lak1294]

Yeah, well it's NC to the end when the other person started an emotional affair with you while being married. And that person not even realizing it. No fixing that situation.

[@mitchjohnson9240]

Let them go and don’t look back. Put your trust in God, work on yourself and move on. It’s painful and sad, but once they betray you, you will never be able to trust them again.

[@ekimsr123]

I heard from my ex but she wanted to be friends…. Unreal

[@NullSpace0]

We know that both people can just move on after a breakup. But why is it that the dumpee is able to move on more often, where, the dumper grows more anxious and is more likely to reach out and not move on?

[@LonelyRider87]

Stages. Dumpees feel worse in beginning & trend better with time. Dumpers feel best in beginning & get worse with time as doubt kicks in.

[@chainz7006]

my ex left me because we had nothing in common we were together for 3 years. It been 3 months since we broke up. 2 weeks after the breakup she told me she misses me i said the same thing back to her after that i never heard from her again.

[@dmb3428]

Don’t lose hope , 3 months is nothing . I would give yourself a year to see what happens if you want to repair it

[@chainz7006]

@@dmb3428 tbh shes prob just forgot about me now. Girls move on so fast from what i have seen

[@Melissaw916]

Will my ex reach out to talk about why our relationship ended messy? Is it possible?

[@ForestWW]

Most likely. I didn’t get closure until months after we broke up and we’ve talking very little here and there within all that time. She said we fought always (we didn’t) she loves me and misses me but doesn’t desire or want me so go no contact and let them reach out when they want you again

[@kimlarso]

Read what you wrote 👉”ended messy!” That’s all I need to know let alone you👉Move on & be thankful you dodged a bullet or they did👉Life is too short for this bs👉besides, we never miss the person we miss the person we were while w them and so, your goal should be being a better person than u were we them so u don’t repeat the relationship cycle thee are t leads to break up

[@kimlarso]

@@ForestWWNever ever take someone back that didn’t want u then 👉they don’t appreciate ur presence give them the gift of ur absence

[@winterkai12]

If you let enough time and space, most likely. But expectation breeds disappointment sometimes. Let it go for now and stick to NC.

[@michaelvideos4672]

Good afternoon

[@pandorasmagicbox]

My ex and I are back together. We broke up a year ago and got back together after 3 months apart. He said he started missing me because he saw something on TV that reminded him of me. At that point I would have been fine either way. Craig was wrong, he said he wouldn't reach out.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

We did a Skype coaching? What’s your order ID number

[@LonelyRider87]

Well, yes he's the G.O.A.T. but still human. Congrats on your ex.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

@@LonelyRider87 Well, I have doubts that I said that they did a call with me based on the way they said it. They aren't giving me an order ID number. I can easily look up all the information including any email order it may have been or my notes from the call.

[@LonelyRider87]

@@CoachCraigKenneth Gotcha Coach.

[@mxrsfx6930]

How to do no contact with mutual social circles, like friends birthdays

[@PlantDaddy1991]

Not a whole lot of options. Time to find another group of friends. If the current social circle really cares about you, they'll fill the space and understand.

[@camellia8625]

I have socialised with mutual friends separately on a one to one basis, on the condition they do not speak of me to my ex or reveal any info about my ex. This requires judgement and trust.

[@AnnaLicata-ml7nr]

No contact just means you don't reach out to the ex. It doesn't mean you can't ever see or bump into them, because that kind of thing happens. But the essence of no contact is that you don't pursue them - you withdraw your attention from them and don't ever make the first move.

[@LeviBoggs-v8r]

Mo

[@quintocreations5091]

Easiest way to spot a relationship expert, who is actually a fraud is if they spew out no contact. The moment they say that they're a fraud

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

lol what?

[@sindamaricic7369]

What do you suggest when your partner breaks up the relationship?

[@jamesphillips6722]

Sure...don't do no contact, see how well that works out for you. I take it your ignorance is what caused your break up? Coach Craig is by far the best and most qualified on KZbin to teach what works and what doesn't. Period.

[@Amylynnklh900]

Nah for reals because why do they all repeat the same thing! for views and clicks and subscribers?

[@Vidasinvida]

U just made the biggest oopsie w this channel Good luck out there