What Happens If I Break No Contact?

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Coach Craig Kenneth

Coach Craig Kenneth

Күн бұрын

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@CoachCraigKenneth
@CoachCraigKenneth 26 күн бұрын
Spend 30 minutes a day on my Knowledge Creative Healing Course or Workbooks and you will feel so much better about yourself!
@MarcoCameron-f9c
@MarcoCameron-f9c 26 күн бұрын
To everyone fighting that internal struggle to break NC, DON'T do it! Listen to Coach's advice and let them miss you. Whether they come back or not is on them. If you were a good partner, then keeping your distance and maintining your silence preserves your dignity and your self respect and that's something your ex can't take away from you no matter what kind of narrative they try to spin.
@JoseCastillo-l5n
@JoseCastillo-l5n 26 күн бұрын
Amen brother!!!
@gangsterreal2209
@gangsterreal2209 26 күн бұрын
If you messed UP ?
@BeastlyReacts
@BeastlyReacts 24 күн бұрын
I legit reached out after watching this. Crazy my internal is bad.
@MarcoCameron-f9c
@MarcoCameron-f9c 18 күн бұрын
@@BeastlyReacts Hey bro it's okay. I know it's hard. Just because there was a slip-up doesn't mean you can't recover. Get back up and take care of yourself with strength and self-respect. You got this.
@icepickg123
@icepickg123 26 күн бұрын
Ive been watching your videos during the 4 months after my avoidant ex abrutly distanced and broke things off and i went no contact. I did alot of self work and a couple weeks ago i went against the advice you give and broke NC (i was at the point that I would've been content regardless the outcome). The tables have now turned and she is aggressively pursuing me and we are working on reconnecting and both becoming more secure.The power of NC is real, but putting in the work is 🔑
@brianjames9294
@brianjames9294 26 күн бұрын
Happy for you and for the work you put in but if your avoidant ex hasn't put in the same amount of work as you, I'm afriad the possibility of her repeating the same patterns is very much still present and you'll be left holding the emotional baggage again while she splits. Just take your time with her and don't pour yourself all at once. Look after yourself and your needs first. Best of luck.
@hellocrystalynn5992
@hellocrystalynn5992 26 күн бұрын
I’m a fearful avoidant who recently cut off someone I was dating and blocked them. It took about 3 weeks to start to realize how much I missed them. Craig is right. NC forced me to evaluate how I felt. I tried the indirect direct first and he didn’t reply so I called next. Point is, no contact gives the space for the person to realize there feelings. If they still have them they’ll be back.
@jimbucci7727
@jimbucci7727 26 күн бұрын
Man I needed to hear this. Been 8 days and I feel like I’m going insane.
@CoachCraigKenneth
@CoachCraigKenneth 26 күн бұрын
Are you in therapy? Doing my course or workbooks?
@jimbucci7727
@jimbucci7727 26 күн бұрын
I am. I’ve been in therapy for about 5 weeks now. I purchased your program last week. The depression has been my biggest hurdle keeping me unmotivated, but each day has been a step in the right direction. She’s frequenting my TikTok page and likely my other social media, so I know she’s struggling too, or at least thinking about me. 4x on my TikTok page in the past 3 days.
@jimbucci7727
@jimbucci7727 26 күн бұрын
Likely going to book a coaching call with you soon. My situation is complicated to say the least.
@KD-hy3bi
@KD-hy3bi 26 күн бұрын
I’m at day 55 and still have massive anxiety. Started therapy 3 weeks ago. I want to stop the obsessive thought patterns. Some days are easier than others.
@RancidPetals23
@RancidPetals23 24 күн бұрын
i only made it 5 days, now i gotta restart! lol
@jenniferl9622
@jenniferl9622 26 күн бұрын
Wasn't planning on breaking no contact today or any other day but thank you for the powerful reminder Coach Craig!
@Sosaiyajin_
@Sosaiyajin_ 26 күн бұрын
Now do an updated version about nc in the holidays coach! Thanksgiving,Christmas and New Years is right around the corner and we could use some motivation!
@N.PaulPhifer
@N.PaulPhifer 26 күн бұрын
No contact means no contacting their family or friends as well. I made that mistake unknowingly and it went terribly. I pushed her away forever. Stick it out, feel the pain, you can do it!
@bingsescapade
@bingsescapade 26 күн бұрын
So true. Listen to coach craig.. his advice really works.. ❤❤❤
@raes2771
@raes2771 26 күн бұрын
Going on 4 mos of NC. He hasn’t reached out, he took me for granted and I had to end it. I gave him a chance to repair two weeks after I left, but he was acting like he didn’t care so I left and haven’t heard from him since. He posts on instagram (which he never used IG in the six months we dated) and is always on my page checking my stories. My ex is avoidant and also has ADHD. I haven’t reached out or checked his stories even though he’s had ppl call me. I’m not sure what to do now as things are at a standstill still. We broke up bcuz he wouldn’t open up emotionally. I know his pride is keeping him away but I’m not sure what to do..
@blommigapetuniac6584
@blommigapetuniac6584 26 күн бұрын
😬🚔👮🫢😁! Great video as usual.🙏💕
@sebastianmueller8152
@sebastianmueller8152 26 күн бұрын
One of your best videos.
@mxrsfx6930
@mxrsfx6930 26 күн бұрын
Hitting 5 months - no reach out from her. We’ve seen eachother periodically at mutual friend things - so it most likely diminished the chance
@melissaguajardo5226
@melissaguajardo5226 13 күн бұрын
I broke NC a few days ago after being silent for almost 3 months. It didn’t go well 😢 he asked why I was calling and hung up. Really hurts bad, but now I know he’ll really never come back.
@louicapyrophobia
@louicapyrophobia 26 күн бұрын
I had to break no contact yesterday (after 4 months) and he really showed me he still has no interest in me whatsoever. (Just by the way he was texting) And i have to admit im kinda sure now about moving on, and not really interested in him anymore
@negativeone3691
@negativeone3691 23 күн бұрын
I've been in NC with my ex of 15 years for 17 months. I'm as desperate to get her back as I was on day one. I've worked hard on myself, lost 120lbs, fixed my mental health with therapy etc, and am twice the man she left. My question is, when I do say "enough is enough" and reach out? Do I EVER reach out? That idea terrifies me. Thank you.
@negativeone3691
@negativeone3691 23 күн бұрын
She's been in a rebound relationship since a few months after we split up
@tobirama9540
@tobirama9540 22 күн бұрын
Is she single now
@negativeone3691
@negativeone3691 22 күн бұрын
​@@tobirama9540 I have no idea tbh
@KatM272
@KatM272 26 күн бұрын
Can you make videos on long distance
@hmaroni9572
@hmaroni9572 14 күн бұрын
I need a video about when they break up and say (from one day to the other) “I want to be single again and maybe I am not able to be in a relationship right now”
@Rfernandes.
@Rfernandes. 26 күн бұрын
2 months down the nc road again... its been a rough one. I made mistake after mistake and lost the greatest girl ive ever met... Breaking up is not easy, and the weight of the guilty... We came back after 7 months, and now we are apart again maybe because i rushed things and overwhelmed her... Not sure if ill get a second chance
@youtubeaccountserio2633
@youtubeaccountserio2633 7 күн бұрын
They always come back
@mikemoney-s2x
@mikemoney-s2x 26 күн бұрын
When is the Coach Craig movie coming out?
@CoachCraigKenneth
@CoachCraigKenneth 26 күн бұрын
I have some select movies on my OnlyFeet site! 😜
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375 25 күн бұрын
Would not contact work on a short term relationship? It lasted for about a month and a half and it's long distance so Im assuming she wont reach out. She ended it out of nowhere. She said she had a long conversation with her sister and realized it was better to end it and asked to be friends. I said no and wished her all the best.
@youtubeaccountserio2633
@youtubeaccountserio2633 7 күн бұрын
Any updates?
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375 7 күн бұрын
@@youtubeaccountserio2633 Something I didnt mention is that I asked her the next day to have a phone call so she can tell me why she wanted to break up. She agreed but then would disappear then tell me the next day she was very tired. She did that 2 or three times so I stopped reaching out to her. She texted me last week to wish me happy birthday, but I never texted her back.
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375 5 күн бұрын
@@youtubeaccountserio2633 The day after she dumped me, I texted her asking her to talk so she could explain why she wanted to break up. She agreed to do it but would always end up ghosting me then apologize the next day saying she was tired because of work. She did that for two days,I never reached out to her again. She texted me last week for my birthday, but I never replied.
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375 5 күн бұрын
@@youtubeaccountserio2633 the day after the break up, I texted her saying I wanted to call so she can explain why she wanted to break up.. to which she agreed, but she would proceed by ghosting me then apologize the next day saying she was tired because of work. She did that couple of times, so I just stopped reaching out to her. She texted me last week to wish me happy birthday, but I never replied.
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375
@aristote.ruhinduraruhindur1375 2 күн бұрын
@@youtubeaccountserio2633 The day after the break up, I texted her asking her if we could hae a phone call so she can explain to me why she wanted to break up. she said ok but never reached out to me. She would apologize the next day saying she tired, she did that for about two days so I ignored her last text. A week later she wished me happy birthday but I never replied
@kj3776
@kj3776 20 күн бұрын
I broke no contact guys , after three years and my ex had gotten married and everything. Told me he missed me and wanted to work on the situation and had not moved on. Im confused because he just got married in May. That was a month ago. Been back in no contact permanently and it's died down.
@hmaroni9572
@hmaroni9572 14 күн бұрын
Well why not explore that further if he was the one that reached out?
@BeastlyReacts
@BeastlyReacts 24 күн бұрын
Watched this video then reached out. Lord help me.
@joshleo3135
@joshleo3135 26 күн бұрын
I was NC with my ex for 44 days until she reached out, she asked if she could get her stuff cause she was coming to the area I lived in, she couldn't even remember the stuff she left here which isn't much, I said I'm not in the area those days cause I have a trip, so I'd leave them where I work and she got super offended, so back to NC, been on for 5 days
@sadiqua7
@sadiqua7 26 күн бұрын
My ex broke no contact for the 2nd time this year just to tell me he was working across the street from my house but it was at 11pm after the day was done. And he said hey, how are you like nothing ever happened. It’s been over a year since he did the discard and allowed no room for discussion or repair. But he won’t let me alone and I haven’t blocked him because I’m hoping he will get to the point where he actually wants to talk for real. It’s been a week since the last reach out, and I’m tired. I’m going back and forth on whether I reach out and tell him to just let me be or wait for him to reach out again then tell him that I can’t keep allowing him to dip his toe in and out. Either take the plunge or take your toys and go home.
@mmt2310
@mmt2310 26 күн бұрын
Find someone better girl, he sounds awful. ❤
@beataimiolek4856
@beataimiolek4856 26 күн бұрын
By doing what you just said you're considering to do, you'll giving him the power. If he's breadcrumbing you and you want it to stop, do not reach out and do not engage in texting when he reaches out. You gotta make the decision, not asking him to decide 😳
@BallinTJ14
@BallinTJ14 26 күн бұрын
What if they broke up with you and they are anxious attachment style? Been almost 7 months
@IronKurdi
@IronKurdi 26 күн бұрын
@CoachCraigKenneth, we need a video about this. If the anxious dumped the avoidant etc..
@beataimiolek4856
@beataimiolek4856 26 күн бұрын
If they are in NC for 7months, they are not anxious. They either never been one or worked really hard and became more secure. Or they are anxious but came to senses and realized you're not the right person for them and therfore, are able to cut you off. Speaking as an an anxious one who broke up with them and wanted them back a month later, been rejected and went NC for a year (became secure). And I'm here now because they recently reached out and I didn't reply.
@IronKurdi
@IronKurdi 26 күн бұрын
@@beataimiolek4856 True… Or they found someone else.
@-taylor-9980
@-taylor-9980 26 күн бұрын
Srill watching my stories after 13 months. 😂
@Zemohc
@Zemohc 25 күн бұрын
No contact is easy. It's one more thing you gotta do. Accept that you don't have to do that no more. I have never broke no contact. Even when I bumped into a driver team in Iowa. Dudes wife is just about a carbon copy of my ex. "When" they come back. Hehehe.
@minhthifresh
@minhthifresh 26 күн бұрын
Oops I did it 😅
@json326
@json326 26 күн бұрын
I just broke NC a few hours ago after 20 days. Now I just hope a positive response.
@estrellalapute83
@estrellalapute83 26 күн бұрын
Me too 😭 I got drunk and emotional on Halloween and text him after 48 days of NC he wanted s3x and be friends 🙄 I resisted 😬 now I’m back and this time I’m letting go for real I deserve better.
@RCT479
@RCT479 26 күн бұрын
First to comment
@pizzicatos.7996
@pizzicatos.7996 26 күн бұрын
Sit down!
@RCT479
@RCT479 26 күн бұрын
@ y don’t u come in front if u are short
@coreysanders7140
@coreysanders7140 23 күн бұрын
I went NC. My ex contacted me twice. The first time was on Halloween. She asked me if I had trick-or-treaters coming to my house and the second time she asked if I had voted.
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