Crazy Guy CONFRONTED My Wife And Daughters While We Was Fishing A Public Pond

I tell you all the time that the crazy meth out guy confronted me, my wife, and my kids why we was all down fishing a public pond. Things could have went way way south in a hurry but I kept my calm.

[@rogueforge]

Yes! Be ready, willing, and able to use it. ***BUT*** You did one better.... The most important rule of carrying a gun, when you strap that gun on, you put your EGO down. The best way to win a gun fight is to avoid it all together. ( If possible ). Some people are perfectly willing to throw their life away for their Ego. We as responsible gun owners, armed citizens, leave the Ego at home. "Sorry about that bro." "You're right, I'm sorry." "Hey dude, sorry bout that I'll leave." Sure you have the 'right' in most States to stand your ground, but make sure it's a situation that you have no control over, and NOT a situation you made worse protecting your Ego. Cudos to you Dutch for thinking of your family's well being and not your pride. A++

[@suesmith5033]

Well said!

[@stevehesseltine1898]

One thing I would add is never pull your weapon unless you intend to fire it. When you pull that weapon you've already made the decision you had to do so to save your life or that of your loved ones. Otherwise if you can walk away walk or run if you have to. No dishonor in avoiding conflict.

[@Mathew_Thomas]

Couldn't have said it better.

[@larrysutton6530]

Situational awareness is a major factor in knowing how to respond to a given incident because you might have a gun but you never know if the other person is carrying or not so never truly ignore what is happening but be aware without letting on that you are watching the situation like Dutch said it can escalate fast especially if you are not ready to react if the need arises

[@dianadollar6050]

The fact that you made a statement that those instruments of protection are carried for that reason, would serve you well in a hearing should something progress further next time. You are a good man Dutch. Love you and your family. KOKO.

[@JW-es5un]

You & your lovely wife are RAISING some awesome young Ladies. Our Granddaughter is 9 & she does chores like your Girls.. They will turn into some hard working Ladies. GOD'S BLESSINGS

[@JamesTaylor-gz8le]

Yours also am I correct thankyou very much

[@shauna5466]

It takes a man to let things go, that's the attitude we need for anybody carrying

[@richardcarden4161]

A Man ignores a FOOL!

[@JamesTaylor-gz8le]

Ahman to that

[@glbell4024]

My complements to you. It takes a bigger man to walk away. God Bless you and your family.

[@caseknifes]

Its cool seeing the girls so happy and working with the animals.

[@Opinionsin3dd]

I love how wonderfully helpful your children are!!! They seem happy as well! Wonderful parenting, it shows!

[@husamnour4606]

Hey Dutch... Thanks for the constant content... I love how the girls are learning useful real-life skills at the homestead... Once again I'm sorry your family was subjected to the unpleasant incident with the crazy dude... But respect to the way you handled it, and to your constraint in such a stressful situation. You did the right thing to defuse the situation by using your head... You were packin heat and ready to defend your family, yet you used your brain to de-escalate the situation that could've taken a totally different route... Hat off to you mate... Keep safe and God bless you all...

[@1wolfpup]

You did the right thing Dutch. It’s not worth your girls growing up without a dad. You’ve taught them what true strength is. God bless your family.

[@missoutdoorinfluencer4764]

Abe is in need of a girlfriend. Thanks Brandy for your Service in Health Care ❤

[@michaeldean8989]

Also very well spoken dutch, don't let the weapon we carry make the man, like you said keep quiet is the best way to avoid a serious problem if at all possible. .. very well said 👍👍👍

[@JamesTaylor-gz8le]

Very well said aswell and thankyou. Very very much

[@arlenestokes7748]

Love to watch your girls being normal kids. So precious.

[@catfishhunter6597]

1st, love the video's... I just love that little dog it is so cute. Lol like how the younger one just continues to get the eggs like nothing happened. I think they did a awesome job on the chores. You are doing a great job with your girl's teaching them the farm life.

[@jacquelinewells7575]

About scared me to death when the girls were getting the eggs. I thought there was a snake or something in there. So cute how Abe likes to follow the girl's around. He's making sure that y'all know he's a pet for sure. I'm sure he would love to have a girlfriend. Lol. He's so pretty strutting around all the time like that.

[@sinbads.4189]

Dutch you are an inspiration to society. Do u know how many people wouldn't have kept their mouth shut? My guess is many. Thank u for your service. Thank u for being such a great dad and thank you for making the best videos on u tube. God bless you and your family my friend.

[@cashk100]

Abe wants to be near his daddy and sisters. Lol 😂 it’s funny how he follows you around.

[@parsonroy]

He needs a girlfriend.

[@KM-zn3lx]

Don't eat him! Pardon him!

[@cashk100]

K M he said won’t. Abe is a pet and he knows it.

[@IcannotstandthisBS]

Papa Roy yes he does 😄

[@zariballard]

And is freaking adorable. Please don't eat him!

[@2ladybughippies569]

Thank you Dutch great message especially in these crazy times. Keep safe Beautiful girls & love how you are raising them. We need to back to old ways. Memories of my grandparents farm.

[@susanlauber4575]

What I love most about your videos is how good you treat your animals wife and children. God Bless you all!!!

[@melissashaw3583]

Watching you working with the girls reminds me of when we were little and worked with our dad all over the farm. I love your channel and love your family! Thank you for sharing with us. God bless!

[@patsymomma1528]

OMG the girls scared the crap out of me when they were getting eggs. Lol 🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Great Job 👍 Girls I'm sure you all are very much appreciated ❤️

[@ramonashearer7241]

I was expecting a snake to crawl out.

[@patsymomma1528]

@@ramonashearer7241 Oh no I think I would of Screamed with that...

[@flyfishing1776]

Yep I thought🐍

[@sandyc6569]

lol I bought jumped out of my damn chair!!!!!!!

[@IcannotstandthisBS]

Ramona Shearer so was I 😂

[@laurabenevelli6783]

You're a smart man for taking the high ground. I love the way Abe follows you guys around. He wants to be near you. Stay safe.

[@sheilaharrison9923]

Love seeing Abe following y'all around! He is so calm and looks so majestic. It's good to see him out & about but he needs a companion. 🤗😁

[@Okie-pq2tf]

Great video of their chores!! Great work girls 😊 my husband loves Oklahoma gun laws especially having 7 kids we have a Pomeranian and English mastiff as well! Keep up the good videos I watch every day! Hope ur family is staying safe!

[@ravenmoon2041]

I love how you are teaching your children the simple things in life. Responsibility in raising food etc. Your reaction to the "nut" was spot on and also showed your kids how to handle certain things. Good job! Prayers and blessings go out to you and family to keep safe and well.

[@jodiyoung5578]

Thank you for doing the daily videos. Makes the days go faster. You were very wise in handling that crazed man. Glad your quail are starting to lay eggs. Your baby chicks are so sweet. I wish I had a farm like your family. Your daughters are so sweet and helpful, which is due to excellent parenting.

[@randawilliams9243]

Prayers, to you, and your family, from Houston, TX.

[@elainelane5998]

OMG!!! Hayden's scream startled me. I thought it was going to be a snake in the nest ( I hate snakes) not Sue hiding.🐓🐓🐓🐓🐓🐓

[@suesmith5033]

Lol! I jumped too! Thought for sure it was a snake.🤣🤣

[@deborahpacker1153]

Who is Sue, a Rooster?

[@dontneedtoknow5836]

Chickens will eat snakes.

[@praisemusic3883]

Dutch I love all the information that you give us when it comes to protecting your family or protecting your farm

[@garyblevins3532]

It's really awesome that they're still some young folks out there bringin children up around the farm life. Hats off to you and your wife as well as y'all's daughters for keepin the little farm life goin on.

[@jennygirl8849]

I love the quality time you spend with your girls.... teaching them work ethic, integrity and kindness. I'm the oldest of 4 girls (no brothers) my dad was like you, very hands on, conversing, and reassuring, building confidence showing them it's okay to get their hands dirty and self sufficiency. I always loved one on one conversations with dad, he has always made me feel important (still does). Your girls will adore you all of their days. God Bless

[@lindaduncan2954]

Hayden did a great job vloging! Your girls are such wonderful little helpers! Abe is a beautiful guy....love how he follows you around! Enjoy your videos!

[@ms.sleeper1902]

Good man! Especially during these times of uncertainty. And yes this is coming from a woman...a single mom at that! I'm all about our God given right to protect myself. And anyone who obeys the laws of the land has that right as well!🇺🇸🇺🇸🙋

[@debbyg6744]

Abe Abe Abe I just love my floating turkey. He is so beautiful I am so glad you show him past two days. And I want to tell you I think you are a wonderful father I love the way your girl work with you without complaining so terrific girls. I thank Abe you

[@debbriggs5811]

Thank you, you are correct. Thanx for reminding people to think and not panic. Bless you all. Glad you are all safe. 👍

[@kimberlyfojtik3468]

Hayden did a great job videoing doing the daily chores. Glad the quail started laying eggs. God bless you and your precious family stay safe and healthy.

[@sgttombailes3380]

Outstanding Bro !! You are doing the same thing my Dad did w/ me and my three younger sisters on the farm. He was an Old Army SGT as I am too and He was a Leader ! He taught us everything we needed to know to survive ! We could shoot, we could track ,we could hunt, we could fish and grow gardens for food. The BEST YEARS of our lives.. I'm in my '70's and my baby sister is in her 'late '40's and we all have been very successful in life ! Thanks to Dad and Mom and Our Heavenly Father. And Jesus as our Lord and Savior !! HooAH !!

[@gingerbell2326]

I enjoy and learn so much from watching your videos ! Keeping you and your family in my prayers during these hard times .

[@pambridenback5467]

This is a great channel! So glad I found it. Thanks for sharing.

[@mblake3766]

Your family put a smile on my face. My girls are all grown now. Seeing yours reminded me of good times with family. Thanks for sharing. And Abe is a hoot!

[@marywallace6383]

Oh no Dutch, Hayden did such a wonderful job on her vlog, you better watch out, she may take it over from you. Just always love watching your girls do the farm chores.

[@BigDmike24]

Yes she did a really good job 👍

[@caseyscarrotpatch]

It is so wonderful to see a dad love his daughters and teach them how to do all the things. You and your wife are doing an awesome job with your girls!!

[@MegaCazadores]

Sir you handled that very well. Good to see their is real men still out there thank you for sharing god bless you and your precious family.

[@AuntieAnn]

Hahaha Abe was following Hope around like a puppy, I think she is his mascot 😃

[@annamaybeekman5152]

Glad you were all safe... I used to be a bus driver and had situations just like that. Inever look at these people and so far Im safe. God bless and you all stay safe.....love you Dutch

[@ponygirl1073]

Great job Hayden! The girls really know what they’re doing. Just love them. Abe is such a pet. You kept your cool & that’s what saves lives. Really enjoyed today. 🥰🙏👩‍🌾🙋‍♀️

[@geoffjohnnsun7085]

Great "words of wisdom" in dealing with someone on drugs!!!! Based on you sharing your story who knows how many people, besides your family that you will save. Thanks!

[@jeriholdren1780]

Your girls are so great about helping you out with everything! Love how they just do the chores. You and Brandi are good people and especially fantastic parents raising some great kids!

[@theresaschafer]

Hayden your doing a great job with all your responsibilities. Kudos such at defusing the situation my hat's off to you bud

[@missflowerpower8724]

Thanks, Dutch for your daily connections with all of us. You are encouraging! 😃😃😃😃😃😃

[@deonnabarry3306]

As a former police officer and retired correctional officer you did the best thing you could do by not escalating the situation. I have no doubt you are ready, willing and able to protect you and your family but what you did was use your head, you put your ego a side and de-escalated the situation by staying quite and by doing that your daughters didn't have to witness something worse. Good job Dutch👍

[@athinarogers5594]

I wish cops could appreciate de-escalation when it came to human life as their first option.

[@alicelawyer3740]

Just discovered your videos. Reminds me of my childhood and the summers l spent on my grandparent’s farm. Love your interaction with the girls, they are very respectful. Look forward to watching more videos.

[@jamielang4449]

It’s so nice to hear another Okie talking. I lived there my whole life until 6 years ago. We are in Wisconsin.

[@pamelam1961]

We in Washington have been extended till the end of April. They've decided to shut down school for the rest of the year. Talking of a complete quarantine with no leaving our homes for any reason for 2 weeks. We are already going on the 2nd month of the stay at home order except for essentials. They've already closed all fishing down on any public areas. It's all about helping when you can and being safe for ourselves too. Thanks for the daily blog. It helps get through the evening. Love how the girls are so excited to help and even blog! That's exciting. She did a good job. Tell Brandy hi.... Love and God bless y'all. Keep safe.

[@kailesancez]

Excellent advice. I carry any time I go out. No matter how much training we have. Keeping your ego in check in is very important. But always be prepared to use it. I haven't had to use mine yet. But I am always aware and prepared to if I need to. Abe cracks me up.

[@NobleKhalil]

You handled that situation correctly. You maintained your composure and you protected the lives of both your family and his. I can appreciate that.

[@iluvhou]

Beautiful message. Trained professionals are challenged to communicate with insane or drugged individuals. Thank you. Your Dad (RIP) is proud of you. Happy Easter.

[@wandamorris780]

Love watching your videos and seeing all the girls helping you. Also good to see the quails have started laying eggs. Please keep making videos each day,we will miss them if youdo. Tell Hayden she does a great job videoing and Hope is a good helper too.

[@tinacox1412]

I am glad you are safe. So glad your kids like to help! And good ole Abe following you (favorite part)

[@combatmedic91-b76]

Nice daughters hard workers! What a blessing they all are thanks for sharing!

[@mimicolvin3200]

Abe’s looking for someone to love. Get him a girlfriend, lol. Take care of your family and God bless you and be safe.

[@mrs.stonecabin9588]

Mimi Colvin Abe needs a hen! I agree!

[@JamesTaylor-gz8le]

Yes he does that is actually why they gobble

[@shawndcolvin1786]

Yes

[@gloriaboutin3199]

Glad to hear you showed restraine ,my husband is a retired officer and doesn’t go anywhere without his gun . Don’t blame you for carring. Protection . So nice to see you included your kids .

[@donutdunker9877]

Thanks for doing these videos, I always leave smiling. Peace from Colorado.

[@mr.smiley4268]

Well put man, this is exactly how you handle a situation like this, f’ ego❣️👍

[@MommaJessiesCraftyHomestead]

Glad you guys are staying safe and well! Some people are just crazy!

[@cherriemckinstry131]

Enjoyed the visit of the farm.. stories of our times lets one takes pause..

[@mrssoybeanfarmer1749]

You did the right thing with you having our family with you, stay calm because the guy was out of his mind, he can't argue with you if you don't argue back, good job!

[@steveweiser2792]

You are exactly right when you said "do not escalate " and completely ignore crazy people.

[@mamakim512]

The quail must have heard you threatening their lives😂

[@killroy522]

I had a situation like that a couple months back 4 young teens came up to me while smoking a cig and started yelling about how they we're going to beat the sh*t out of me. Calling me a bit*h n-word. It could have ended badly I did what you did and didn't say anything didn't want to escalate the situation. But you're right if you carry a freedom package you better be willing to use to defend yourself.

[@KM-zn3lx]

Yes killroy! Pray you never have to use it but carry it!

[@cherriemckinstry131]

@@KM-zn3lx its sad how angry people are these days. Doesnt seem normal.

[@sandrawratten3033]

What part of Oklahoma are yall in? :) im from Norman!

[@kellyfarrell8180]

Couple of things please tell Hayden I watched her vidio on her channel it was great, Sue scaring the girls was funny,. Why does Abe's head change color never knew that before, and you taught your girls just because you have protection doesn't mean you always have to use it BRAVO on your parenting skills you and Mrs Brandy are wonderful roll models, friends , parents and just all around awsome people God bless 🙏

[@ramonacase2427]

Congratulation Dutch! Enjoyed the video. This one was the best video you've ever put out. Interesting, informative, and entertaining. No disappointing Click Bait!

[@darlenedouglas5148]

Abe seems to really love being with the girls! I just love watching how he keeps up with your girls and you out in the yard. It seemed like he was making sure that the goats were not bothering them or getting too close what all you are doing. What a fun video. Tell Hayden she is learning well from dad! She did a great job vlogging.

[@dianepewitt696]

My step son had some thing like that happen to him and he also ignored the guy, a few days later that person apologizes to him 👍😁🙏🏻. Thank God for keeping your head 👍😁🙏🏻😍

[@seedsandarrowsfrontier9224]

Im so glad that you didnt have to escalate to having to use force. That can get scary! You have some great helpers!! God bless Dutch!

[@jillcochran9794]

I LOVE that you are teaching and sharing time with your girls!! A lot of men probably, wouldn’t do that and your girls seem to enjoy it. I also, loved how all the gang ( goats and turkey) wanted to down and see what was up. So darn cute!! Abe, is one handsome fella and I think he knows it 😂

[@EdKirkpatrick10]

Good move Dutch, I've had to do the same thing, good move Dutch

[@grod5287]

So glad you were able to handle the situation without any violence which would have been traumatic to wife and girls. You rock.

[@edensgarden1775]

You are a very patient loving father. You and your wife are doing a amazing job with your girls. Love watching your homestead.

[@donnagibbs9388]

I love how all your animals mingle and follow you around. They love you. It shows you have a gentle spirit

[@Evelyn-vs3fk]

I’m glad you did the the best thing, use your head and not confront him. Your a good man. Keep up the good work. I’m enjoying following you and your girls and your wife..😊

[@KarenFann2]

Oh, I loved this video and the message. Sometimes, we just need to let things go. So glad everyone is OK, cause as you said, things can go from bad to worse in a split second. Thank you for setting the example. All my best, Karen

[@deebaker9961]

That is so true! My husband and I both carry too and we’re both members of the USSCA and have watched a lot of their training videos. That is one of their main rules too. First leave your Ego at home, try to avoid a dangerous situation, and if you can’t avoid be prepared to use your gun.

[@katnew4408]

Love how you are raising your girls, they are looking cry to have a Dad and Mom like you two, and your even luckier to have them! God I love that turkey he is soooo funny!! No thanksgiving table for him, just so you know haha Thank you for always being here for us!!

[@maryannevaught3315]

Thanks for this vlog. Your girls are so great and Hayden acts more mature than her years. Thank you for keeping a cool head and proper actions and teaching that to the girls too. So many people I know would not have had the same reaction you did. Excellent.

[@jodifryer7730]

Abe is so cute following you and the girls around.🤠❤️🤠

[@billslacum6025]

Love watching you take care of your family, teaching your kids how to do whatever needs doing. Sibling rivalry rules but they share very well. Discretion is the better part of valor. Be safe, well and blessed 🙏🤟👍🤓.

[@alicerees1286]

Hello Dutch😊 I'm a first time viewer. So happy I found your videos. You have a beautiful family. Your making wonderful memories for your girls. God bless you all

[@marciaborg77]

Loved how Abe came walking up to u. I think he is waiting for his girls to come. Lol

[@AP-bk2lq]

Sir! God Bless You and your family!!! Thank you for your Service

[@eljuano28]

I'm a fan of carrying pepper spray as well as "the tool." Lesser means means more choices.

[@bradpolmateer4965]

Good idea If plan a doesnt work Gulp plan b

[@dantesherman7924]

Good on you man, I've been pepper sprayed, well bear sprayed, (it is a LONG story) but my point is it is DEFINETLY a viable tool. IF used correctly. So make sure you folks out there practice with it.

[@JamesTaylor-gz8le]

Good tools I would reco doth tools thankyou very much

[@patcrotty6716]

You have very diligent children God bless them. They seem to enjoy what they are doing thank God for that.

[@paulapeterson4847]

love watching how you have the girls help you in projects that way one day they will know how to do things i used to always do projects with my dad when i was young

[@stephenspark9358]

You did the right thing protecting your family I pray that God protects you and your family ,Stay safe,well and vigilant !

[@skeetermalcolm1655]

Loved the video Dutch,you definitely did the right thing,you have an awesome family, Stay safe

[@whatsup7535]

Smart man. Some people have loose screws. Staying quiet diffuses the crazy situation.

[@lisareaume3857]

GLAD Y'ALL WERE OKAY! GREAT JOB HAYDEN,You have a great eye for the camera!

[@melhowell2906]

You doing a great job on taking care of your family, And your daugther done a great job on the video, Abe is something else, You know Dutch you are teaching us all something

[@gj6209]

I carry and I 1000% AGREE. NEVER inflame a situation. That “piece” is an absolute last resort in a situation where I’d be in a total threat for my life. And never pull it out and show it UNLESS YOU KNOW YOU’LL USE IT. You are taught this from day 1.

[@sueann3701]

This video was recommended to me. I clicked on it because I wanted to hear the story. And when you said I'll tell you after my daughter's chores. I was like dude just tell me the story. BUT, I'm glad I watched your daughters' video. I hit that like and subscribed. Thanks. They're beautiful, pretty cool little girls. Keep up the good work!

[@driverdan6988]

Very good advice!!!!! Solid! THANKS Dutch

[@albertod4161]

Hi Dutch 👋 this is great content it's good for kids to do this and the Abe he's awesome I believe when turkeys turn blue it means there relaxed but yeah good stuff and that's great you kept your cool 👍 greetings from LA CA