pls miss maam youre so pretty 🥺 ❤ i get so much older sister vibes from you and youre videos are super fun to watch 🥰 im sorry you have to go thru these things tho, stay safe 💖
@KinaAcosta59114 жыл бұрын
It’s so frustrating that some men don’t understand NO. It’s so infuriating that as women we have to tell them we have boyfriends, even when we don’t, just so they can get the picture. And even then some are too stupid to get it. Why is “No” not enough.
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Preach girl
@christenm32004 жыл бұрын
This! I'm a naturally polite and easygoing person. I've never had serious conflict with anyone. I hate that some people (mostly men) force me to be rude with their complete lack of manners and respect. I've never resorted to the boyfriend excuse because I absolutely refuse to let some imaginary person be the reason you finally leave me alone, but I've sure felt like it. Instead, I find myself losing my patience which sometimes ruins the evening (once I'm in a mood, it's hard to let go lol.) I've found that subtle sarcasm and insults with a polite undertone work well- I once asked a guy (very politely lol) if he had hearing impairment as I'd already loudly declined his invite to sit with him twice. He gave me a dirty look and walked away lol.
@casluvs4 жыл бұрын
Ugh right! So sad :/
@christenm32004 жыл бұрын
@@925lexi Please do! I've found that insults like that with a completely natural tone come off harder to them than just being rude and saying fuck off or something because they think you're being nice or flirting, but then they process the words. It's quite comical to see the expressions when it finally sinks in.
@yeeee8594 жыл бұрын
Don't want to come across as a simp but as a guy I feel so bad that shit like this happens because I'm naturally empathetic and I know if I was in their shoes I would lose my fucking mind because I don't even like when girls or guys try to talk to me in a non sexual manner when I'm with my friends. If I had a friend that behaved like this I would chew him out. It's so unfair that some people can't just enjoy themselves when they're out
@almapineda74464 жыл бұрын
“how are you gonna disrespect me and my imaginary boyfriend??!” LMAOO sooo me 😂😂😂
@SSBMA19944 жыл бұрын
The nerve! 🤣
@blah_blah_blah70644 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@lawyerwhohelpsfanswhowantt79853 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@sleepyfairy9984 жыл бұрын
I told a guy "I had a boyfriend" and he said "Well, I have a girlfriend." Pretty much it didn't matter to him. So stupid.😡
@PHlophe4 жыл бұрын
as a guy its not always clear cut. we are socialized into making the moves when we are interested in a particular gal. This is not excusing the creeps or those that are either rude or clumsy in their approach. I am in the mindset that if you are not interested, really and truly you should straight up say you are not dating AT ALL. Now about the time of the day when you approach women. I can't see why some dudes approach women at night outside of safe places/zones where people are congregating. there will never a universe where this is appropriate. It is it is intimidating . The dating approach needs to be modernized and revised entirely.
@DominicanQueen073 жыл бұрын
This happened to a friend of mine. Mind you, she’s been married to her husband for over 20 years and she works at a grocery store and this very handsome man would always go in and try and talk to her and just exchange harmless pleasantries. Until one day he had the balls to ask her out. She politely declined and said, I’m married. This pompous asshat said, “and I have a wife. Who cares?!” Like WHAT?!
@itsgengreen46833 жыл бұрын
I guess that makes men entitled 🙄 Sike no it shouldn’t as a women I get the struggle we can never go somewhere alone without precautions
@somename1523 жыл бұрын
I don't have this issue because I saw "f$#k off" ;P works like a charm [leaves zero room for doubt] It is sad that we have to do this though.
@haileyjuliasuarez69882 жыл бұрын
@@PHlophe um
@TheJazminitis4 жыл бұрын
Its just insane how we have to deal with being harassed all the time and it changes us, even when we're trying hard not to not let it. Like I was speaking to my grandmother, who is in her 70s, she says only now that she is an "old lady" she feels comfortable enough to allow herself to walk naturally and sway her hips. She has been altering the way she walks her entire life so as to not try to attract the male gaze.
@CheCheCheree4 жыл бұрын
TheJazminitis that makes sense! Now that I think about it my body language always tenses up when I’m around men
@visa93134 жыл бұрын
Oof... That is so sad to hear
4 жыл бұрын
Happens to both genders, although not the last part. Only the part about harassment/
@otomeleifu4 жыл бұрын
@ u keep on posting in the comments of this video that it happens to both genders like that’s somehow changing anything. Men do not get overwhelmingly harassed and assaulted by women like that fam. And yes we can talk about the abuse men face, but when you try to mention “both genders” you’re actively trying to shift the very concerning issue of men and their lack of respect for women.
@komrad79073 жыл бұрын
@@otomeleifu couldn't be said better. This problem mainly exists for women, this guy is trying to lesson the severity of the problem-
@barbararamosgomes76214 жыл бұрын
That first story was SCARY!! Being a woman in this world is definitely a challenge
@Tony-ol5hs2 жыл бұрын
exactly... 😔
@NessaShumirai4 жыл бұрын
Its absolutely insane men are the same across the world 😬😬.
@MsMusicAholic14 жыл бұрын
Ikr!!
@liaavv_49594 жыл бұрын
yep, trash
@toouniquetobe4 жыл бұрын
Not in the Northern Europe though 🙂 and Estonia, if you avoid the foreign creepers looking for a local shag 🙄
@Ripcraze4 жыл бұрын
haha, trust me, it applies to both genders.
@sokkababy14874 жыл бұрын
its absolutely insane and ridiculous men are across the world
@tanishka48484 жыл бұрын
first story starts around 2:30 if anyone wants to know!
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
I need to stop rambling 😂
@tanishka48484 жыл бұрын
Annie Nova I’m just so impatient lmao I’m so sorry 😂 love you 🥺
@KandyCosplay4 жыл бұрын
@@annienova I ramble too...hard core lol don't worry
@soniaoliveira53624 жыл бұрын
Too bad you have to say you have a boyfriend so that they live you alone. Why dont they respect your wishes? That should be enough!
@galaxys60714 ай бұрын
@@annienovabut you didn't pinn this comment? Thanks
@Bnice2any14 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad the fact that a simple “NO” respectfully, isn’t enough. It sucks that we have to make up a “justifiable” reason at some point, most of us been through that. Why must we act like we’re taken or belong to someone (usually male). Ever since that one time that “reason” stopped working for me from that one stranger that insulted me with “you’re ugly anyway” after I pretended to answer my phone “ hey dad, I’m just around the corner, you can pick me up by the x store”. I wouldn’t give any reasons anymore, I’d just straight up and say “I’m not interested, no means no and if I have to say it again then I would yell”.
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I’m so tired of pretending I ‘belong’ to someone else. If you’re rude to me by not accepting my no then I’ll be rude to you back
@suricats32034 жыл бұрын
Yeah I hate the boyfriend lie because for me it's like, why having a boyfriend make you respect me as a person and not being a single woman that says NO :(
@raymonds74924 жыл бұрын
He's respecting another man's territory because it can get ugly if he doesn't. basically he only respects violence.
@komrad79073 жыл бұрын
@@raymonds7492 sad really...
@komrad79073 жыл бұрын
I also hate that that's my "go to" statement. I need to try out her idea! You can turn someone down in noninsulting way, without lying about the "boyfriend". For me it's habit One would hope they get get the hint, but some don't 😒
@theforgot3n13 жыл бұрын
It's more complicated than that. These guys who are insanely persistent are actually successful with women, which is why they continue, it's just that it only works with 1/10 girls. So this tiny minority of guys behave like this with tons of women, severely inflate the negative experience women have with men, and in the end they get laid with a tiny fraction of girls who happened to be extra horny that night or have mental problems of their own (daddy issues, etc.) at the expense of everyone else. Many women speak of "the guy I regret banging" and often it's these psychopathic, non-empathetic men who really don't give a shit about the girl but she was horny, and he always is. This is an unfortunate side-effect of hookup culture, and there's really no solution to it. I'd also say the fascination and elevation of fuck-boys is a part of the problem. Fuck-boys are essentially guys who don't give a crap about the woman's boundaries, but because he is so attractive she can't help herself against him. Take the same fuck-boy behavior and put it into one of these badly socialized and/or sociopathic guys - or even just an average guy - and it's gonna produce a situation exactly like she describes in the video. Guys look up to other guys who are successful with women. They see these fuck-boys treat girls like crap and get laid. They want to emulate it. Girls in the comment section complaining about "how men don't respect women" don't understand this problem. It is only a fraction of men who are psychopathically uncaring about women's boundaries. The vast majority of the rest of us guys are not like that, but we don't go out to nightclubs 2 times a week for 5 years approaching an average of 10 women every night. A guy like that has 100 interactions with women every year. What do I have? Maybe 5, 10 at max?
@alisia9704 жыл бұрын
Well about the creepy things guys are doing... a male friend told me that men's never experienced this fear of being followed in dark alleys... This is why they don't know about our fears... He was also such a person until a female friend told him that all women's walking faster, pretending to be on the phone in night when we walk home and somebody is like following us, now he tries to switch the side of the street when he notices that a women feels uncomfortable while he walked after her...
@PHlophe4 жыл бұрын
I always keep a whole 10 feet of space between me and women when it gets dark. and when i walk under the tunnel near my home if a woman is there i';ll let her disappear entirely. if she hasn't noticed anything i'll switch the light on my phone. The bridge near my house, the exit is set up in a way that makes it easy for people to be either snatched when they exit the bridge or robbed even. even i feel funny when i am under there. There was a similar one where i used to live as a kid and i remember being ambushed there by racist white kids. it left me with a strong PTSD that i still can't shake off. and its been decades at this point.
@kamiri39864 жыл бұрын
I think that depends on where you live. In my neighborhood, my male friends run the bus at night for fear of being robbed. Here, there are people who are capable of killing you for stealing something from you. So from childhood, adults teach us to "have eyes in the back". Sorry for my English, it's not my first language ;)
@danielazafra41373 жыл бұрын
@@kamiri3986 in my country is the same but it has a different connotation if it’s a woman.... this taking in count that since you wrote “male friends” you’re a woman too, I feel like we are not only running cause someone is gonna rob us but also of something wayyy worse happening... if you know what I mean...
@kamiri39863 жыл бұрын
@Daniela Zafra well yes, i know what do you mean. But the point of my comment is that everyone, at least where I live, has some feeling of fear. The fear of being robbed, raped or killed. Children, women, men, elders, everyone.
@danielazafra41373 жыл бұрын
@@kamiri3986 yeah I get you, and you’re absolutely right, where I live too
@happysmiles43394 жыл бұрын
Sidenote, you look amazing! Your makeup is 😍
@laurenosborn2604 жыл бұрын
Taurus Brit her eyeliner!!!! 🤩🥰😍👏🏼
@kyakatz78553 жыл бұрын
When I was living in Korea I once had a guy follow me home from work. I didn’t have one of those fancy automatic locks and didn’t lock up because I was only coming in to get my dog to take her out to walk. He actually opened my door just as I was about to open it and it surprised him so much that he just went to my neighbor’s door and fiddled with his keys. I think he was scared of my dog. After I left the building I hid behind a car and saw him come back out and look around for me. Be careful- Korea’s not as safe as you think. I lived there for over four years and things like this happened to me multiple times.
@annienova3 жыл бұрын
Omg that makes me so angry! Glad you’re safe
@Apieceofgarbage Жыл бұрын
@annienova call 112. Always be prepared for it. Once my sergeant told me , he couldn't understand Korean cause I ate while drinking. But you dont find it weird. I am glad for that
@JM-ve7sm4 жыл бұрын
The classic “we can be friends” why are boys/men like this..
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Literally thooooo 😂
@tamarrartis29183 жыл бұрын
Because someone said sure let's be friends and then it didn't stay like a friendship. so because of that 1 person they think they can do it to every girl they meet.
@iammar11592 жыл бұрын
@lonelypotato jin never found what a loser
@jadziak69974 жыл бұрын
Honestly sometimes you sense you are being followed around when you're just grocery shopping...I mean I'm not even all that but still happens! :-/
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s like a 6th sense kind of feeling!
@AP-jz1eh4 жыл бұрын
@@annienova its called female instinct
@maryav53964 жыл бұрын
It's called a gut feeling
@toouniquetobe4 жыл бұрын
Yup, happens often, popping out behind a shelf again and again, trying to cross ways, comes close, stares. I just ignore and they usually give up so, doesn’t bother me.
@komrad79073 жыл бұрын
Omg I've had this happen to me, at the grocery store for example...You can tell when someone is lingering Like dude speak up, or keep it moving- I'm all about a man trying verbally, but just respect someone's decision after.
@chiiblossom4 жыл бұрын
There really are men like this all over the globe.. I spent 2 weeks in Seoul last year and was up skirted TWICE. Really dampened my excitement :((
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow I’m sorry to hear that :( stay safe!
@Paola._.Flores3 жыл бұрын
They lifted your skirt???
@parkjibuns6383 жыл бұрын
@@Paola._.Flores Korea has a problem with perverts taking pictures of under a woman's skirt or dress. So that's perhaps what she means.
@SazaBo4 жыл бұрын
💯% agree that the „i have a boyfriend“- line should not be necessary. Even when having a bf, a simple „no“ should always be enough.
@cosmicreef58583 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@debbinskiii37814 жыл бұрын
I'm too mean for this....like I would legit cuss all of them out with no regrets. I've been close to physically fighting men in NB2 and other bars so yeah, I don't play😂😂
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Bruuuuh I’ve been wanting to hit NB2 for the longest time but I’m scared hahahhaah
@debbinskiii37814 жыл бұрын
@@annienova You just have to say fuck it and go! First time was soo fun with me and 2 of my girls. I recommend going on a Sat but prepare for potential grabbing so SWAT THEM LIKE FLIES!
@theBakinNoob4 жыл бұрын
i love you!!!! Srsly sometimes you gotta react differently for sake of your own safety
@melon15904 жыл бұрын
Hmm what is NB2? XD
@solarriix4 жыл бұрын
@@melon1590 a night club in korea B))
@yoonsteph_4 жыл бұрын
honestly, can’t say that I’m not jealous at how ethereal you are and how soothing your voice is 🥺❤️
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
s. r. Awwww 😭🥺🥺❤️
@vanesa54604 жыл бұрын
the way I couldn’t stop looking at you girl youre so pretty 😭💕
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Omg you’re so cute 🥰😭❤️
@crichy4 жыл бұрын
You’re so good at telling stories!! 😭💜 I hate that women have to deal with this. I was having a conversation about this with my aunt and she was telling me about a time when she was sitting on an empty train carriage, and a creepy man decided that he wanted to sit RIGHT next to her. He kept staring at her and putting his leg right next to hers. She told me that she knew she should have moved, but she “didn’t want to seem ‘rude’” or make it awkward. I felt so bad for her, but I understood where she was coming from and I’m sure most women do too. Society really makes women feel like they should just ‘smile and deal with it’. It’s so manipulative and I hate that. I really want to teach young girls that they don’t owe these men anything. If someone makes you uncomfortable, you don’t owe them the privilege of ‘politeness’. Some men feel so entitled to our bodies and it’s so awful because they know we won’t say anything.
@AP-jz1eh4 жыл бұрын
true, i feel like we should never just let uncomfortable situations slide, always speak up, take action. being quiet will just let men think its ok to do again and again, to more girls and women
@charlottehunt2944 жыл бұрын
I hate that we have to go through this, it makes me scared to go out sometimes because I get beeped and shouted at by weird men in vans all the time. I wish men were brought up to respect women
@samchoon48644 жыл бұрын
Blame their parents for bad parenting.
@adventuresociety5884 жыл бұрын
@@samchoon4864 some parents teach their sons to know better. It's their choice whether or not they choose to exercise that knowledge and a lot choose not to.
@skillbopster Жыл бұрын
How is them finding you attractive them not respecting you?
@charlottehunt294 Жыл бұрын
@@skillbopster I think you’re completely missing the point here… correct me if I’m wrong but I’m going to assume that you’re a guy and you’ve never experienced street harassment from men before? It makes you feel like a piece of meat and not a human being. I’ve had men record me because I was wearing shorts on a hot day (and no it wasn’t revealing), and when I asked them to stop they looked me up and down in the most degrading, sexual way possible and then laughed in my face.
@Tamimt1534 жыл бұрын
Damn sis I’m from germany and i have to study in korea in one year as I’m an international student but all these stories creep me out and these club stories damnn
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Honestly don’t let these stories scare you 😭 they happened like within a year. There’s creepers wherever you go in the world!!
@Jasminekuwonu4 жыл бұрын
Rim_su same💀
@shenadarling504 жыл бұрын
Girl there are dangerous people all over the world. Korea is very safe.
@loen26294 жыл бұрын
@@shenadarling50 true. But I do think that misogyny is a bit more of a problem in korea than it is in germany so I understand her worries. I am german myself and I was in shock hearing about all the incidents involving sexual harassment happening in korea, like the cameras in the motel rooms for example. Of course there are many german guys that are creepy and misogynistic and things like this happen here too, but I do think germany is one of the safest countries for women.
@CanopusLux4 жыл бұрын
Please stay safe. I'm from Germany too, so if someone is harassing you I swear I'm gonna whoop his ass even I'm a girl. The ticket is booked faster as he can say kimchi
@KrisyKreme4 жыл бұрын
The disrespect 🙄 No means NO
@serenakapoor67414 жыл бұрын
I just say that I’m on my period. Most of the Korean guys left after that
@user-bi8uh5fq3q4 жыл бұрын
Girl that works wow lol
@visa93134 жыл бұрын
The whole Oppa idea is so messed up
@shrutiverma36373 жыл бұрын
IIII KNOW RIGHTT
@camillap101013 жыл бұрын
i grew up in Denver, and EVERY time i’ve ever told a guy i have a bf, they literally never cared. they kept pushing every single time. saying stuff like “that doesn’t matter, do you want a new one,” etc. back when i was 17, even telling them i’m underage did nothing. it’s just gross.
@mimiknow294 жыл бұрын
I have a habit of whipping out my pocket knife whenever I feel threatened. Tends to thoroughly scare the living shit out of people as you might imagine.
@chhavigoyal34473 жыл бұрын
thanks for the idea . i'll also do this.
@JaelH73 жыл бұрын
Weapons, yes!!!
@worldview7304 жыл бұрын
memo to Annie: stay out of those damn dark alley's and go with your first instinct; beat the crap outta that creep!
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Roger that
@worldview7304 жыл бұрын
@@annienova LMAO, over & out! 🙄
@dana24604 жыл бұрын
I haven't had a physical encounter, but I went to Hongdae a lot, and one time I took a selfie in a cafe and tagged the cafe name in the location bar, and then a few hours later I had some guy comment "I saw you in Hongdae! You looked so pretty so I wanted to find you!" so then I blocked him and set my account to private lol
@sinanikperogi26514 жыл бұрын
That's a little harsh lol😅
@dana24604 жыл бұрын
@@sinanikperogi2651 I did look into him before doing so, I looked at his follow list and he had only followed foreign women and commented pretty much similar things on their photos. I think it was necessary as im not sure what normal person would comment 'i wanted to find you' hahaha
@sofiya38544 жыл бұрын
@@dana2460 it sounds like he fetishizes foreign women yikes
@dana24604 жыл бұрын
@@sofiya3854 haha yep, still creeped me out though
@sofiya38544 жыл бұрын
@@dana2460 people are literally complaining when white women fetishize asian men but the way asian men fetishize white women... insane. I have a crazy story: When I was back in elementary school, I had an east asian man living next to me. He was about 25 but no older than 32. He would always watch me and other kids behind the trees. I live in Singapore where most people are Asian but I am Russian. I was about 9, so he came up to me and liked to caress my hair and say what beautiful blonde hair I have and how he can't wait until I have. I was scared so I called my mom and she told me to stay away. Growing up, I stayed away from him but I still saw him watching me which was very scary, he ended up r*ping me :/ Traumatic story, I hope it doesn't happen to anyone else
@Jordannnnnnnjones4 жыл бұрын
OMG I judt thought of a really good line to get rid of them .... MY DADS A POLICEMAN and IM a blackbelt in taekwondo (they scared of taekwondo girls in korea)
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Omg perfect Hahahah 😂
@musicmusette20144 жыл бұрын
That drinking one sounds so annoying. I probably would have left. Btw I love your videos, I have been binge-watching them. Thanks for the great content!
@gabybop3 жыл бұрын
It’s sad how the best way to get creeps to leave you alone or respect you is to make them think you already “belong” to another man. Because we aren’t anything more than objects to own to them.
@wjk004 жыл бұрын
When someone is persistent and offers you a drink, take it and give it to someone else in front of their face. If they keep trying to talk to you, tap the shoulder of someone near you and tell them "this" person wants to talk to you, then walk away. If all else fails, pour the god damn drink over his head.
@chromancess37762 жыл бұрын
But it will be dangerous as we don't know the person plus we are foreigners. He maybe a gangster or whatever danger so it's better to avoid them...
@kathryn-anon4 жыл бұрын
As another woman who lives in Korea, I can attest to similar experiences. I used to live in Hongdae, a very lively student area in Seoul. TWICE I was in my apartment and some guy started banging and shouting at my door at like 2-3, in the morning. What terrified me was he was obviously a Korean guy (by appearance and accent) but he was speaking broken English, trying to get me to open the door. He stayed for nearly an hour each time-- one of the scariest situations I've ever been in. There was also once where I was waiting to cross the road with my friend and-- I kid you not-- this guy walked in slow circles around us like 3 times. Up-skirting is a very big issue here-- why I ALWAYS wear leggings, no matter how hot it is.
@kay32654 жыл бұрын
I honestly wish America had CCTV everywhere like Korea does. Imagine how much the crime would decrease...
@lesyayarmolenko14014 жыл бұрын
I remember that once this guy got mad at me for "leading him on" when I got tired of saying no and just lied about having a boyfriend. This other guy called me a bitch for not budging from my "no" answer and repeatedly telling him to leave me alone. Lost and am the bad guy no matter what I did. I wish people could just accept the word "no" after one go. I just wanna be on my phone and stuff my face with chips in peace!
@shivaanmotilal68564 жыл бұрын
"Theres crazy people wherever you go!", very true. I have two sisters and I can not always be around to protect them without encroaching on their personal life. So I am glad there are people like you spreading awareness :)
@sinabonz81084 жыл бұрын
"I'm gonna leave you two to bond over the fact that I'm a beautiful woman" if that doesn't emit bad bitch energy-
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha 😂😭❤️
@maddyluv87794 жыл бұрын
The fact that she didn’t finish her second story 😭
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
I’ll make a part 2 theres too many stories like that 😂
@who_knows.cc0-04 жыл бұрын
Yes,we all have that one(or more)imaginary boyfriend(s)😂
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Skater21Loverboyz4 жыл бұрын
15:36 Yeah, for real-- No way will I accept a drink from a stranger! This is the third story time I've heard where the men insist for the visitor/girl to let them buy a drink etc.
@iamthatijele78023 жыл бұрын
In South Africa 🇿🇦 especially in such situations if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he will straight up say “ Did I ask you?”😭 sometimes they will even say “ He is not a mountain he can be moved”
@annienova3 жыл бұрын
Omgggg 😭😭
@lawyerwhohelpsfanswhowantt79853 жыл бұрын
This story remainds me of the creepy incident happened in Korea couple years ago " the girl being followed till her house "
@squiddy_bee4 жыл бұрын
yoo the first story reminds me of that CCTV footage where the guy follows a girl up the stairs and literally has his hand ready to force the door open as she closes it behind her. I’m pretty sure he turned himself in because people got so pissed off tho... but that kind of story is really the scariest bc u have no idea what could have happened if you’d been a second too late. And the thing is, even if you notice that creepy behavior, besides continuing on to your apartment, if there’s no one awake/readily available in the building, what can you do? You probably don’t want to exit the building again after realizing someone is following you. You don’t want to let the guy get too close. It’s so fuckin creepy dude
@minyoonji96614 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna go to Uni in Korea with one of my best friends and basically we only have eachother for a big part of the many months we will be in Korea. I really hope we won't be approached by any creeps and if we do, I hope we will have eachothers back causeeee oof it sounds scary especially because I'm a bit shy so it's difficult for me to say "no" to someone, especially if they seem stronger than me (men mostly seem stronger than me cause i'm quite small and so is my friend).
@jessicadraper79264 жыл бұрын
Self defence is key, you should always stand up for yourself if you need to and not give in to men because you're intimidated. By allowing them to think their actions are right is allowing this to happen to more women, no matter who or where, you need to stand up to them.
@CanopusLux4 жыл бұрын
Wow cool. Good luck
@peacelife4 жыл бұрын
I feel like this happens alot in Korea. I even saw it was a big news about this and the guy was caught but didn't get hard punishment 😞. It is really scary to have that feeling someone is following you and chased you at the end. I would have anxiety attack!!
@annieadelina37664 жыл бұрын
I hear that sunny side up in the background ☺️
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Yessssss
@BreeElisexo4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you for telling the managers about that guy though! Always listen to your gut even if it ends up being nothing because there is always a reason you feel uncomfortable, so don't feel bad if it ends up not being dangerous. It's always better to make some dumbass guy think you're afraid of him than to actually let a dangerous guy hurt you out of fear of offending,
@amanda.jill97623 жыл бұрын
Men respect the idea of a man more than a real-life woman standing in front of them. So depressing.
@annienova3 жыл бұрын
Sad but true
@alyxskyler4 жыл бұрын
I’d love to see a video on this makeup/your everyday makeup! So cute! 😭💕
@milenagarcia1324 жыл бұрын
I’m in love with your hair, please do a hair tutorial 😂
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl! I just wash, blow dry and curl it sometimes that’s it haha ❤️
@boredomsentmehere4 жыл бұрын
Ur videos havent been showing up in my subbox for ages, glad to finally stumble upon ur content again
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Awwww ❤️❤️
@arianna49814 жыл бұрын
Is that red velvet’s sunny side up playing in the background?? IM LIVING. But seriously, it's sad that you had to go through this.
@toouniquetobe4 жыл бұрын
“I have a boyfriend and we live together happily”, he: “Oh, I have a girlfriend and I cheated on my ex a lot, cheating is okay” 😳
@cynthiags32874 жыл бұрын
Hey this is the first time I watch your videos and I love them!! Keep it up girl ❤️
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl ❤️❤️
@Jjasleung4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you're safe! It's scary how these things happen a lot more often than we're told.
@miriamwatchingyoutube7 ай бұрын
It's so annoying when men can not take a no, even when you say you have a boyfriend. I was on exchange in Korea last year and I remember in particular this one man in Hongdae (during the daytime) that asked for my number. First of all he looked like he was in his early 30s. (For your reference I was 19 and people always tell me I look 2-3 years younger than my actual age, so there's no way he thought I was older.) So, I tell him no sorry. I proceed to walk towards the subway station. He walks with me and asks why not. I say I have a boyfriend (which I don't). He still keeps walking with me and I repeat that I have a boyfriend and am not interested in meeting other guys. Then he says; "I don't see your boyfriend" Uhm like wtf? So I ignore him and keep walking. Then he asks for my number again, stating that we can just be friends. AGAIN I say no, sorry I'm not interested. He kept stalking me for a bit and then left once I entered the subway. I had similar instances multiple times, especially with older men (like 30s and 40s) while I clearly looked and dressed like a teen. It was kind of scary and I was just weirded out. Plus it was all in public spaces in clear daylight. Like are you not embarrassed?
@Raaaaven4 жыл бұрын
I saw your collab with Sisilessthan3 and had to subscribe! I’m planning on going to South Korea next summer with my best friend so I’m trying to gather as much info as possible before we go. These story time videos are really helpful. Do you have any suggestions for a good goshitel?
@ariah4574 жыл бұрын
Could you do a makeup tutorial or skincare video because your soin and makeup 😍 also maybe a video on advice on how to plan travelling to South Korea
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Okayyyy I’ll add it to the list!!
@maybememory14 жыл бұрын
Omg, so scary! Glad you're ok. I've seen CCTV footage of men in Korea doing this, they follow women up to their apartments then try to get in before the lock. Yikes!
@evie94353 жыл бұрын
They asking photos from foreigns to sharing with others males and said,"look I sleep with her" I heard so many experiences about that girls take care 🙏
@annienova3 жыл бұрын
Omg ewwww
@Teodora4537x4 жыл бұрын
The “I have a boyfriend” thing bugs me so much, I don’t say it even if I do (unless there’s no other way out). It’s like you respect this man you’ve never met and isn’t even here more than the actual person standing in front of you telling you NO
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@youtubephan24274 жыл бұрын
girl, that first story is crazy creepy...be careful at 2am or just don't crave anything until suns up.
@salma-ns4lg4 жыл бұрын
omg yay you uploaded 🤩!!
@bekindtokindpeople79834 жыл бұрын
Keep you safe!! Dont trust anybody!! As a girl you need to walk with 4 eyes!!! 👀👀 everywhere!!!
@Ferreneh4 жыл бұрын
You're a great storyteller! Although these creeper stories are horrible, I enjoy hearing them. Absolutely, guys don't know when and how NOT to approach a girl. "Where there is a will there is a way". Just no
@mjandthgirl4 жыл бұрын
Serious question: What kind of lipstick do you have on? I love it!
@jaemin53314 жыл бұрын
i went to korea last year and everyone kept asking me if i am korean. all of their attentions were on me and it was awkward
@nomadnoor3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I agree with you. No one should have to fake a partner or spouse to have someone leave you alone. Same experience in Egypt - I had to fake a husband.
@ashyhart39714 жыл бұрын
you are such a fun storyteller and i just love your personality !
@Anna08371 Жыл бұрын
Oh girl I would’ve went off at the restaurant 😂 I’d cut it and be like “ I don’t this man”. I’m moving there with my husband. I’ll make sure to learn the right phrases. Thanks!
@toriballa20633 жыл бұрын
Man you’re an amazing storyteller😭
@yunamaru19834 жыл бұрын
its so scary this is happening in korea. in our country, all buildings have guards so if they know you are not a resident, ID will be given and who are you visiting.. its really hard to be alone, be a female in other countries.. you really have someone with you..
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Yeah the sad fact is, wherever you go you'll always have to be extra careful because you're a woman
@jaritomariajanicec73064 жыл бұрын
This is scary...when u got no one and then there's this person who 'follows' u... absolutely scaryyy
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Very true
@sandyg.83184 жыл бұрын
1:19 who said dat? I heard that Korea is rude and judgmental as hell especially to black people.
@bushcoo13 жыл бұрын
I have a question...does aggression work to rid of these creepy guys? Like a really mean face and straight up rudely dismiss..would that work?
@abby94353 жыл бұрын
Problematic side to that option is they could get aggressive, especially when alcohol is involved
@Zinkynut.Airpod.Quiloardioause4 жыл бұрын
Don't they explode when they get close or sumthn?
@elinab223 жыл бұрын
You are so funny...the way u present everything is so entertaining :)
@icecreamcookie96774 жыл бұрын
omg i laughed so much... we need more videos about this
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Part 2 coming soon 👀
@Chanelatlaast4 жыл бұрын
Girl I stumbled upon your video and subscribed cuz sunny side up was playing !
@huhtj42344 жыл бұрын
I'm planning on getting aligners pretty soon! Are you wearing any in this video?
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
You mean for your teeth? Nope I've never worn braces, just a retainer when I was younger to fix my underbite
@marmotisha4 жыл бұрын
just saw this video, try to read the gift of fear, it's about intuition, take care of yourself ♡
@1greenbunnyqueen4 жыл бұрын
LOL as you said it can happen anywhere I live in Wales (UK) my story is similar i had this guy fallow me around in a club he almost followed me to the Womens bathroom (WHY????) i do not know how many times i told him no thank you and that i was there with my friend who i had not seen for a long time so we wanted to spend time together and catch up but it did not sink in to his head i even told his friends because he told them to come over but they did not care so this had been going on for a while and i am a very calm person and it takes a lot for me to get angry (That is why i do the job i do) but it came to a point that he flipped my skirt and went to grab me so i pushed him away and told his friends that if they do not move him away from me i would punch him and them if they did nothing. it worked and they left the club
@ariah4574 жыл бұрын
As women we always have to have to be careful it’s unfortunate but more need to teach their boys no is no and that this kind of behaviour is never okay Annie you look so good👌🏾💗✨ I’ll be visiting next year I won’t be sacred to cuss people out honestly ._. I remember being followed off the bus lmaooo not funny at the time just ugh
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Sad but true and yesss we as women need to feel comfortable to get loud and put these boys in their place 😤
@scullymariam19224 жыл бұрын
Hi Annie, what do you do in Korea?
@yourlocalcrackheadarmyonce91364 жыл бұрын
What I would do: always keep a ring in my pocket and when something like that would happen i would slip it on my ring finger and say please leave me alone I have a husband
@暧昧-u8e4 жыл бұрын
Does that really work?
@tamarrartis29183 жыл бұрын
I totally understand. you saying you have a boyfriend should not be some kind of no. no should be no. I love Korea but I fear that the day I go to a restaurant or bar I'll run into a persistent person like this and I'm going to have to yell and hurt their feelings. Then again since there ignoring my boundaries I guess they deserve to be hurt.
@christinemaebalanghig72234 жыл бұрын
when i get angry.. i get to lose my manners and talk endlessly with a cuss as a period. -_- I really really and i mean really disrespectful i almost got a fight in a club with a guy soooo.. not new
@quinn774 жыл бұрын
NEW SUBSCRIBERRRRRRR!!!! you're amazing 🥺🌸
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥺❤️
@laniarejula96864 жыл бұрын
Also omg I missed these longer videos💛
@yaliaaaa.4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to 7th grade and I’m going to college in Korea with this close friend of mine and heading your experiences in Korea kings creeps me out but for the most part, Korea sounds peaceful and a fun place to live and be in. ❤️The first video I watch if you and I’m already in love🥺💛You’re too pretty. Btw, you give me Maddie Ziegler vibes🥺🦋🤧
@yaliaaaa.4 жыл бұрын
hearing*
@yaliaaaa.4 жыл бұрын
kinda*
@samanthasam29874 жыл бұрын
I would've been so mad in these situations also Damn girl you're gorgeous
@camilacruz21744 жыл бұрын
I love her makeup!
@annienova4 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu ❤️❤️
@anna.ganzelevitch3 жыл бұрын
we totally get youuu!!! If we say no, we should be respected!!
@haweyaabdillahi74834 жыл бұрын
How old do you have to be to live in the places you said??
@yamomainshi75814 жыл бұрын
I lived in korea from the day i was born nothing like this ever happen to me.. but i have seen a lot of vids of bad experiences here. I go to the convenience store at 12 am just me?
@kuilatemo52473 жыл бұрын
Tell me more How did you get there
@somename1523 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! There's footage of guys doing this type of this in Korea on KZbin too. Do not go out alone at night. Maybe you could call someone as you walk to the store at night incase so they will think twice about it or even make friends with a girl on your floor and call each other if you need to step out for like a few mins together. I feel like if you have proof or footage of someone doing this on a CCTV, it should be law for them to have their "junk" cut off. It's like are you even human....? It would only take a few occasions for word to spread and men would think again before trying this disgusting type of thing.
@em-i-love-you4 жыл бұрын
you’re so lucky that you live in korea. i’ve always wanted to go to korea. how long are you planning on living in korea?