10 things I wish I knew about dating & relationships before working on cruise ships

[@xyzct]

Thank you for keeping us abreast of developments.

[@travisjohnson6676]

I see what you did there!

[@dwayneplummer12]

😂😂😂. I did not hear a word she said. I was keeping a-breast

[@KonorSacks]

😂😂

[@adrianpallis4568]

@@dwayneplummer12 Its kinda difficult to listen to no good hookup stories when keeping a-breast.

[@Canedude08]

She knows what she is doing.

[@jungyew]

Wise insight and advice, especially the part about not being able to know someone as well as you would on land vs. on a ship. There's so many aspects of life that you don't deal with on board.

[@shippydude28]

I am an ex RCCL crew member and met my now-wife on board 16 years back, Now we have been happily married for the last 14 years with 2 kids, the point is it all depends on the people involved, we both were very committed to each other and here is the result, When asked I always say- a cruise ship is not everyone`s cup of tea, its a lifestyle either you have it or you don't.

[@shungite4720]

Is she from a developing nation?

[@zackw4941]

Dating is so different for women.. "If that doesn't work out, you're going to see someone else. If that doesn't work out, you're going to see someone else. If that doesn't work out..." Lady, you just described about nine years of my life.

[@DennisFeinsteinCEO]

😂😂😂 This comment is GOLD 😂😂😂

[@eggbenedict-gt7mw]

But men don't do like that

[@abril438]

Yes, but happening in three months. That´s the difference.

[@davidlarcher2464]

Thank you for the memories. This sounds exactly what it’s like to be in the military. Especially on remote assignments for only one year. Yes is not solely exclusive to the cruise industry.

[@MrZola1234]

That’s cool, I am talking men in general… you are talking a specialized situation

[@jeremiahlumpkin7601]

Yes exactly I said the same thing. I was in the Navy

[@mikeboyce7381]

You are quite creative and love how you tell the truth of how it really is on cruise ships. Wish I could meet you in person someday because I’m a huge fan of your channel. I always look forward to the next video…you are so much more entertaining than what is broadcasted on television now days. Thank you!

[@deniseyoung3738]

Lucy is every bit as delightful in person as she is on this channel!

[@cliffart7398]

I would like to meet her because she is hot and smart and fun. But I am not her type.

[@jacianisehn]

Circumstance break-ups are simply the worst kind. It’s so much easier to get over someone when it ended in a shitty way. 😭

[@infinitepower6780]

Yeah I agree. If things got really bad then the break-up is almost a "blessing in disguise". But in a circumstantial break-u, all those romantic and lustful feelings are still there.

[@SamYoungRadio]

this is why women try to make breakups the most miserable experience of your life. They can't just walk away

[@MARTY-s1u]

QUESTION: it would be interesting to see you discuss this alongside of an experienced male crew member. There are certain subjects like relationships that differ between males and females and it would be cool to see you and a male crew member compare and contrast stories and perspectives.

[@gigi9301]

Different ages as well as in 20's vs 30's, etc. I have only taken a couple of cruises in my life, so can only compare dating then breaking up when I was waiting tables and made the mistake of dating another waiter. I was young and actually thought he cared. Silly me!

[@mariiabubnova1017]

Oh, my God! You are amazing!❤ You told these dirty things in such a diplomatic way!😂😅😘

[@loribarber4526]

Wow your points are so valid! Especially about not knowing the true inside person and their habits.

[@ChickenFriedCorgi]

Really does kinda remind me of Uni. You see people daily, and don't really know how a relationship will continue after graduation when everyone got their own goals and dreams to persue.

[@Kelly12478]

It's like being in a bubble on the cruise ship then on land the bubble bursts!

[@borisbrcic4404]

That was to the point. Advice is, avoid casual relationships and hook ups and be with person you are really into. That makes your life much easier.

[@lvthud]

Many many years ago (30 something) I found myself in a strange situation, I was in the US, but had to leave for 3 months while my green card was going through. I had two choice, head back to the UK or head to a ship. Thanks to my fathers position with a line I ended up being put onboard on of the ships in a made up position of Captains assistant. My job had two parts to it, make sure the Captain had a full cup of coffee when he was on the bridge and.....Find his bike when he forgot where he put it somewhere on the ship (if you worked for a certain line 30 something years ago you may well know the Captain I am talking about).... Anyways, to make life easier for everyone, instead of putting me in the crew cabins, I got to use my dads cabin, this would be more like a suite than the 4 to a cabin 4 cabins sharing a shower type set up the rest of the non officers had. Word pretty quickly got around that the 19 year old who was following the Captain around had a suite, a shower of his own and a bath tub. More importantly, he wasn't a scumbag who expected certain favors for use of those facilities. I actually took my coffee and bike duties seriously, however, the times I ended up having in that room were something I will never forget.

[@BIGPROPELLER001]

Hi dave

[@johanndaart7326]

Lucky :D

[@Sarah_Joyce]

I met and fell in love with a man from Montenegro on my first contract. He’s getting off tomorrow and I’m getting off in about 10 days. I’ll be spending about a month and a half in Montenegro on my break and I’m so excited and nervous to see how the relationship progresses on land.

[@RajahHindustani]

He is a lucky guy

[@vincereynolds6092]

Met and fell in love on ships as well. Went to her home country. We were married for 10 years. Wishing you all the best!

[@machiavellian7490]

U would probably fall in love in a fone box if a bloke walked in whilst u were in there Think more

[@NachoTV]

Hope it works out for you guys.

[@kirkrasmussen2601]

Hi Sarah. I'm a blackjack dealer in Illinois considering dealing on a cruise. Which cruise line think is best? Hoping for a short contract. Ne hints or tips?

[@jimstone5401]

Just do it WITH the roommate too. Makes it a LOT more exciting.

[@barryfletcher7136]

Thank you for a very clear explanation of how onboard relationships work.

[@danielfelipevargasramirez3430]

Girl, you're so fun and creative. Love watching your videos.❤

[@MrZola1234]

Land relationships mostly start as hook-ups and there is very little dating. Also, the data from major dating sites and apps indicate, about 80% of the women are dating the same 20% of men, and most of their interest and activity is directed at less than 5% of men. I wonder if the same is true on ships because given the limited pool, it would be much more obvious this was happening.

[@Rohit-tp7qx]

When men meet actually women its diffrent unlike dating apps

[@MrZola1234]

@@Rohit-tp7qx no, men want sex first... always has always will be regardless of how we meet... it's just our biology.

[@Rohit-tp7qx]

@@MrZola1234 in dating sites its done through images in real life its done by actual and charisma

[@MrZola1234]

@@Rohit-tp7qx that really is off topic. She was lamenting men on apps wanting sex not relationships. The apps may add to men’s natural inclinations over in person relationships. That said, even in face to face meetings, men generally want a women physically and a desire for something more comes afterward…. It’s the same both in person and online for the most part.

[@Rohit-tp7qx]

@@MrZola1234 I worked in cargo ship we had males and females they genrally go for people who provide emotional support cause in ship its very lonely with very limited stuff to do

[@sterling7108]

Relationship ain't on my mind just friends, enjoyed the vid . Keep it up 💯.

[@stevewbolanz3539]

Do they have a church on cruise ship? If no then does anyone do the Sunday worship thing?

[@ThatGodzillaGirl]

Hi! You mentioned in an earlier video that you have a heart condition so I hope you don't mind me asking - how do people get medication on board? I take daily meds but im sure no GP would give me a 9 month supply? Do you know anyone who manages to be crew while taking daily prescibed meds?

[@SaRo-r8j]

You are such a great storyteller!

[@taxfree4]

I guess some folks are on cruise ships because they prefer new relationships on a regular basis, new contract, new love, or what they perceive as such. They enjoy the butterflies they get of new relationships where the only guarantee is at the end of 6 mos it'll end and, by that time, they'll be ready for another. Its like having an affair with a married person, in a sense, eventually they have to go home.

[@gwmarketing7839]

Wow Lucy... I would need to be watch my back... I see myself been work centric and money focused... and working my way up in the shortest period of time. Thanx again for your time! G

[@Ashanti12316]

Thanks so much for sharing about your cruise experience, So interesting to hear more about crew life!

[@Mystical-Michelle]

4:44 soooo truuuueee I live in a small town consisting majority my family (like 95% majority) and that’s like waaayyy worst then other small towns

[@slinca]

I love whoever is sleeping in the background

[@pandemicoftheunvaccinated5367]

On one of my 90's cruises,a cabin mate hooked up with a lovely woman and-to the best of my knowledge-are still together. Sadly, despite all my cruises,I didn't have the same fortune. But,later I discovered se asia and in my 60's hook up with women the same age as on my previous cruises!

[@loribarber4526]

I love your term situationships!

[@vickielopresti5767]

Smart advice! Love you mention I 95, think its great all cruise ships use that as their huge hallway, to everything crew.... I 95 , runs North and South on the Eastern coast of the US.....have been on it a Bazillion times, since it goes right thru Philadelphia. Also have been on it on many cruise ships! Vickie from SE Pa

[@fanniesackleicker9710]

Awesome video! Dang though, was hoping to hear some personal juicy stories! ;)

[@bobmattel2367]

She has a Couple of good points! I just can’t put my Finger on it!…

[@TheMcshawn]

Another great video. Thanks Lucy.

[@littlebigman6957]

I wouldn't think that people are watching this video for the verbal content. More for for the visual content.!!!

[@RajahHindustani]

Sex Sells! Which is why such information is so valuable and everyone is so curious to hear it! It was very insightful. Nice outfit too!

[@barryfish5280]

She is showing too much bobs

[@davidensign5172]

You are quite an interesting, insightful commentator in a social setting I had not considered before I found your channel. Thanks for sharing.

[@kendrawaterbury2328]

I feel like my husband and I should come work on a cruise ship… yes, please to the honeymoon phase after 25 years of marriage 😂

[@1mezion]

One of the things you said is try your best in the initial stage just to keep it a secret but I would think that's what trillion possible on a ship as you said a small town everybody knows everybody's business you sent me you have one place that you guys eat people are going to figure it out

[@davidsunde1394]

What happens when pregnancy happens?

[@SDG70]

I was thinking about applying for a job on Virgin, and I came across 1 of your videos. You give great content. I'm definitely gonna subscribe to your channel. Thank you.

[@marioselfe475]

Just discovered your channel... So much wisdom... 😊

[@jillymac0613]

Fire Butts is one definitely in my top 3 favorite gold shades. Easily top 3!

[@76Scutter]

Absolutely LOVE your outfit choice Lucy😘😘😘😘

[@sailorspills3025]

Omg the lying thing ! So true! Haha at one point I even pretended that I was a lesbian, just to get people off my back 😅 because as soon as certain people know .. they try to ruin things 😢

[@kevinfernandez9999]

Won't that just attract the other lesbians?

[@loribarber4526]

It’s different for passengers….my brother met his wife on a carnival cruise and they have been married now over 40 years and were in different states when they met on ship…4 years later they married. Ps no babies involved.

[@glenn3914]

i like your videos, very informative, i ve watched alot of them, even though i m not gonna work for a cruise line,.i still find it very informative,... i also like your accent

[@outdoorsjoe1]

First off i love the videos, keep up the good work. Second of all my family and I will be cruising out of Galveston Texas this coming summer. We will be taking our 8 year old son on his first cruise with us. We will be cruising on Carnival Cruise lines. Have you ever worked for Carnival or know anyone who has and what they thought of the cruise line? Got any funny stories of about kids being on a cruise ships? Just some ideas for some topics maybe. Keep the videos coming!

[@leonesiom]

Hey. Love is Love. It all boils down to what's more important to you. Being a 30-year sailor and away from home a lot: I've had plenty of relationships erode over time. sigh...

[@thechilledguy5922]

Are you telling me that you Have worked for a cruise ship for over 30 years??

[@leonesiom]

@@thechilledguy5922 No, US Navy Ships.

[@kath2020]

It's so sad to hear this. I still can't believe that it is really happening 🥹 anyway Thanks for your honesty 😓

[@skyy7217]

i met my boyfriend on bord and i have to say i really really enjoyed our time on bord. It was a super genuine connection and i believe that helped us alot. We spent everytime we could together and up to date were still going strong (were both at home since 3months)

[@lillyghost7883]

Hi I remember you saying you've worked with Royal Caribbean and I just wanna ask some questions. 1.How long was your process to move forward with your first contract? I'm supposed to start in January but my documents and visa isn't ready and they don't send any follow up emails.I 2. Should I be worried or would things work it self out before my assignment? Thanks a lot I love watching you a reply would be great.

[@sailorspills3025]

Oh yeah.. when they offered me a job I had to wait around for about 2 months and I’d thought they had forgot about me.. very stressful . Which department?

[@lillyghost7883]

@@sailorspills3025 I'm housekeeping department but I started sending documents in April and till this day my passport and medical certificate isn't verified. Thats almost a whole 8 months waiting around is tiring and they are not very well with communicating with you on developments with your process.

[@sailorspills3025]

@@lillyghost7883 yep it was the same with me, I uploaded my STCW and they didnt vertify it until the week I was about to go and same I couldnt communicate with them. I went though a agency who didnt understand when I asked them questions.. very stressful! Honest advice.. join another company if you can. They are 50% understaffed and have 10,000 new hires on rccl and the management dont know what they are doing.

[@yfhello]

Thanks we would like to reach at the peak of those mountains

[@arthurbuttons]

Wowzers. You absolutely don't have to answer this. I'm probably over the line but if on virgin more of you have your own cabin is it more condusive to a hook up culture or are you more likely to be able to form meaningful relationships or does it not really make a difference compared to other cruise lines? Like I would guess that there is maybe less space for maybe officers to build relationships with a big power imbalance if more people have their own cabins?

[@butchhubbard6124]

Watch twice had a hard time comprehending I was distracted for some reason😉 Keep up the good work👍👍👍

[@HariSeldon913]

For one reason or for a pair of reasons? 😺😺😺

[@enkay1849]

Awesome! This is what I've been looking for 😜

[@richardg8651]

You are fun . I think I'd listen to you prattle on just about anything . Great personality .

[@SKS8080]

Wow. Thanks for the good time.

[@josephjackson7269]

Are you a fan of the young singer Allie Sherlock from Cork ? She busks in Dublin and is sensational. She sang at Palladium

[@taridean]

Sounds like Fling Central on those cruise ships. 😄

[@bradlyc5142]

Video Suggestion: How to keep things secret. It would help

[@Liggie55821]

It seems like if you're going to hook up with a crew mate, wait until the last days of the contract.

[@umpdaddy1]

I must say your choice of wardrtobe is appropo. I also must say that you are an observant and wise young woman. I like your mind very much.

[@DiPo-ks5io]

Good point about not knowing how they deal with family.... I generally don't trust anyone who dose not get along good with their families .

[@triskalion9627]

If ur working there, just as they are, and you still think this condescending thought, it doesn't mean a lot good about you too.

[@asadb1990]

Family can be bad to the person. Toxic families are a reality for so many folks. Many families treat an expat (ship staff as well) as "mr/ms big shot" and treat the person as an atm. Which can create serious bitterness in the relationship when the family back home keeps asking for more money for inflated lifestyle.

[@chrislee6466]

Everyone will eventually be with everyone. Buffet on a ship is literally that. 😅

[@redcapote4760]

Gross.

[@discipler22]

I don’t plan on going on a cruise but you would be a fun gal to hangout with as friend in person.

[@KhayaNyambose-y5x]

This is wonderful advice special if want to be the part of cruise ship workers. I lyk to say thank u ❤

[@globaltalkline8815]

Thanks for showering awesome knowledge of your experience. 😊 lots of love from india

[@loribarber4526]

I think this video will be great for crew!

[@haroldnoe868]

Thank you, great information from a very gorgeous lady! I'm learning alot!

[@vxrdrummer]

It's the same in the Royal Navy, but its not allowed formally. No fratinisation rule is in force. You can be together but not be together if that makes sense? I had never been on a ship with girls and then moved to one and it was like HMS Loveboat! This girl is an absolute babe by the way. Gorgeous and seems very grounded and intelligent.

[@johnmacdonald1878]

Many years ago my wife used to visit me on board. My buddy’s wife came on board as well, He had spent some time on cruise ships. I hadn’t, his wife introduced mine to a new term in the bar when referring to another lady, to another common crew term. “A stripe f@#$er”

[@kelsiewilson]

Maybe the cruise lines should consider private conjugal cabins that can be reserved for those sex dates.

[@emmib1388]

your employer is not responsible for your sex life -- it also opens them up to liability.

[@krystalkrystal5017]

How do you switch positions from the cruise ship? For example you are currently in the housekeeping department but want to sales associate how to switch to that department?

[@bridmike]

Some cruiselines have a cross-training program. Almost all the shops and spas on board are concessionnaires therefore you will have to apply externally even though you are already an employee of the cruiseline.

[@krystalkrystal5017]

@@bridmike thank you very much. I really appreciate it

[@bridmike]

@@krystalkrystal5017 Feel free to message me if you have additional questions ! I've been in the industry for 2 years now.

[@krystalkrystal5017]

@@bridmike how can I get in contact with you?

[@dwightlooi]

Can't you go ashore and get a room in a hotel somewhere for a few hours? I mean people who live at home with their parents or have to share an apartment with roommates have the same problem.

[@lvthud]

You can yes, the problems are cost and time, frankly, the crew don't make much to start with and hotel bills rack up quickly and the time the crew generally have in port is limited. I as a passenger used to date a member of the crew, at the start there was no way we could see each other on the ship, it would have been the end of her job, so I would get a hotel room. After a few months I ended up having dinner with the Captain and explaining the situation to him.

[@dwightlooi]

@@lvthud LOL... if it's not worth a few hundred bucks it's probably not a good enough fuck to be bothered with!

[@Chris-qg6kc]

I know cruise ships have escape boats but do they have motorboats? I mean, it IS a pleasure ship, isn't it?

[@WhitneyKihara]

You're amazing, I love your content so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@markbirmingham4949]

Love the videos. I had a question. How do cruise ships stop people that have committed a crime from boarding a cruise ship? Such as a violent or sexual offender. Are they allowed a passport and if they falsify one how do you prevent them from boarding. Thank You

[@lorenzopoidebard4946]

Good morning, I'm an engineer there, and I know quite well how is working. Before embarking the company ask you your criminal record that is made by the police. Than in any case in someone do such crime can be arrested or closed is his cabin until port authorities come on board.

[@jons9721]

Does make you wonder that once the crew finishes cruising are they still capable of having a 'normal' relationship and settling down on land? Wonder if anyone has done any research on this?

[@sashan9565]

In my experience, I had a more well adjusted approach to relationships before my 7 years of ship life. Since I left it's been a challenge.

[@brucegordon4992]

I hope you find your glass slipper. Or maybe that would be better phrased as I hope the right guy finds your glass slipper.

[@srg6532]

Awesome video!

[@kelsiewilson]

Is Lucy frustrated. Oh my.

[@DiPo-ks5io]

I am married now for 23 years on land... before we were married we spent ALL our free time together because we wanted to... for 9 months before we got married.

[@TaxMan5x]

That's all really good advice! I bet you don't have any of these issues with relationships. 😄😄

[@Hawkeye2001]

Interesting insights. Thank You.

[@crazykev6491]

There’s also unused secluded restrooms or areas/rooms of the ship to sneak away for a little quickie. Just sayin 😉 😉

[@infinitepower6780]

Most areas have CCTV cameras, expect bathrooms and restrooms.

[@crazykev6491]

@@infinitepower6780 invasion of privacy if bathroom.

[@luancav]

Can I drink as much as I want inside my cabin?

[@emmib1388]

no -- you can't be drunk in case there is an emergency -- you have to be prepared to do your part of the rescue.

[@craigdereksmith]

Can really relate to this, particularly no.10

[@riffcrescendo1740]

Thanks: can crew use the gym and any yoga/pilates on board?

[@joshKirito]

Yes

[@morgandunk2836]

So i'm wondering, do workers ever hook up with customers? Like say you're on a cruise for a couple of weeks, and you hit it off.... is it allowed? Are workers allowed to stay in customer cabins and stuff?

[@asadb1990]

It's not allowed in most ships for liability reasons. If a crew member is caught doing so, they are fired and let off at the next port. Im guessing they get back at their own expense.

[@ptandrefabian]

Thank you so much!! 🙏🔥❤️

[@rjwalker6437]

You mentioned Yulia, was she ever on a Carnival ship? The Legend? I know there was a Yulia from Ukraine that worked at the Alchemy Bar, and she is awesome!!

[@Mr_Kukreti]

she is amazing and provide genuine information..in love with her. hope you are good .love from India

[@elvi3372]

Okay note to self, dont be in a relationship. Period!

[@joecalhoun5303]

Love her accent. Beautiful too

[@iputupedro3]

i already save this video on my favorite list

[@cruisecrazy7066]

Excuse me, but can you jump up and down for my friend?

[@ericammons9804]

The way U R dressed says it all!

[@Master13346]

Nice goodies🤓

[@goshkruse]

Where does security go to drink if they’re considered the enforcement of drinking rules

[@infinitepower6780]

As far as I'm aware, you are allowed to drink off duty, but can't drink or be intoxicated when on duty.

[@triskalion9627]

When they are off shift the other people on the team are on their shift??????

[@ayon6089]

Could you do a video with a Health Care Assistant? Or could you find out which company Virgin hires from? My friend said It’s so hard to find out online n I told her about ur channel xx