CRYSTAL HEFNER: WHAT LIFE WAS REALLY LIKE INSIDE THE PLAYBOY MANSION

[@ashleerose7770]

Everyone should watch holly and Bridget's podcast with his son. What they think of crystal "HEFNERS" Book

[@kathleenhansen4344]

I love their podcast! It’s important to remember two things can simultaneously be true 🤍

[@andreatrepasburgess8520]

A lot of truth there with the podcast with holly and Bridgette

[@zfunk56]

I definitely wanted to see both perspectives. The interview with Marston was great. I'm not disliking her as much as I thought I would. I think she believes her own narrative. She probably shouldn't have been in that environment if she wasn't into a sugar daddy dynamic naturally. I think Holly and Bridgette view things more positively and viewed being at the mansion as a family.

[@TheMattWooldridge]

Yes! Crystal is such an attention seeker. It’s really sad what she’s doing

[@elocc9570]

Absolutely agree. It is a MUST watch. It is important to get everyone's perspective. Two things are can true. That said, I really respect Hue's son, Marston. His opinion on this situation is very very illuminating.

[@KierstenFaith101]

I don't like this woman. She sent Holly, Bridget, and marsten a cease and desist just for talking about her book and marsten even said everything he says is his opinion and none of it was bad. Why did she need a several million dollar house from him when he couldn't afford it? Of u weren't in love, why did u keep his name for fame?

[@carolmiller848]

Holly said she had Stockholm syndrome too. It’s like she copied Hollys book.

[@brittanyraines8316]

“I’m an introvert “.. as I run to the tabloids to talk shit about Holly, Bridget and his son Marston.

[@melissah2848]

Spot on!

[@kimbeard756]

Team Holly and Bridget!!!!

[@LG-jm6eq]

I’m not sure I understand the beef. They were not in the same relationship as Crystal. What are Holly and Bridget’s issues?

[@Jenny-ls7hf]

@@LG-jm6eqthey are hypocrites and jealous of Crystal, Holly is a narcissist

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

Holly has also complained about abuse so why are you taking sides?

[@coffeeandtruecrime2754]

@@Jenny-ls7hfthe only one I like is Bridgette

[@charlesb7019]

Lol - is ANYONE shocked that she didn’t love him???

[@jackiedowns1266]

Why does she whisper most of the interview. Gawd I almost had a stroke when the commercial came on- volume was turned way up.

[@Lovetolaughtxgirl]

Thanks for the warning! Hahaha

[@TheRuffita]

😂😂😂😂 same

[@KarenP-zd2cp]

No kidding 😂😂😂

[@SuperBikeRacer7]

I'm wondering what hefner's children from his first wife think of this woman dragging their mom in several interviews with cheating accusations 1:50 when in this woman's own book she clearly admits to going off to have an affair with a younger man near the end of her husband's life while he was sick and frail and him begging her not to leave but she left to cheat anyway🥴

[@AsMr-km6ex]

Team Holly and Bridget. But also wish Crystal well in her recovery from trauma

[@pegsullivan2299]

Holly and Bridget both look back negatively since he died! They both have same story as her

[@AsMr-km6ex]

@@pegsullivan2299not really. Bridget makes it clear her experience was more positive than Holly’s. Crystal tried to sue their podcast. So they very much are at loggerheads. They didn’t do anything wrong and Crystal shouldn’t have tried to silence them. So as I said, team Holly and Bridget.

[@traceypalmer4249]

Still using his name though 😒

[@cbeautifulworld11]

No, she's not. Listen to the whole interview.

[@Cyn240]

It’s her legal name .. duh

[@bobbybright9334]

Who cares using his name she was his wife and putting up with that pervert she's earned it and all the fruits that comes with it

[@purplebutterfly5366]

She’s not using his name, she has her own name and her own person.

[@kriskringle3155]

It’s good for business

[@josephiaw]

“If the relationship is anything less than nurturing, run” - an important message we should be reminding ourselves of constantly, I hope she heals ❤

[@coconutty4808]

Yeah, but jeez! This man has been around for a long time and didn’t we all know more than we wanted to about who he was and how he lived? For her to make that choice to be with him… I don’t have very much sympathy 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@josephiaw]

@@coconutty4808 not everyone has the self-esteem in place to make the courageous decision to leave. The human brain is designed to remain in familiar situations as its easier to predict the future, keeping you "safe". But sadly this includes situations that are unhealthy. The brain deems the unhealthy situation "safer" than the unknown future situation if you decide to change. The longer the situation, the harder it is to break the neural circuit. Its why a lot of people (mainly women) stay in abusive relationships. Also, looking from an outsiders perspective makes it much easier to see the difference, we have no emotions in place tied to the situation. It's okay to have your opinions of course, but try lead with curiosity rather than judgement

[@HeatherSmith-ii7mi]

I'm sure the money is a big reason she stayed

[@disneyprince1]

This woman is so shady. Whispering answers, making little sense. Out for money obviously.

[@marikam3161]

Team Holly & Bridget! ✨️ Crystal knew what she was & is doing. $$$$

[@darcymoon2109]

She has that weird joker smile plastic surgery.

[@rmh691]

That’s from filler and not surgery

[@janefarrell4183]

So sad that some people think it's completely okay to invite people to a party based on the way they look, but as Crystal said... What he wanted, he got!

[@jessicab2682]

its HIS party, he can do as he pleases, just as you can choose who goes to your party and use any criteria.

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

​@jessicab2682 that's not normal behaviour, it's sexist and toxic

[@jessicab2682]

@@user-bq2ko2tb2w are you serious? That's like saying every person should be invited to every Hollywood party, every glitzy event. That's not the way it works. If anyone can step foot into private parties they lose their purpose, exclusivity and mystique. No one who finds issue with that wants to go anywhere

[@pinkfairydust83]

Jamie is so talented as an interviewer! I'm so struck with how attuned he is to his guests!!

[@Miss.J.C]

Aww Jamie you are so empathetic and understanding very positive and uplifting even watching you give the feeling of safeness to woman 🙏

[@lilyann168]

You didn’t ask her why she wanted hefs family members to sign ndas

[@anniemcdougal2249]

Don’t know why you marry someone you don’t love. I love how her sentences end in a whisper.

[@Gail789]

I just don’t buy her BS. Why did she stay and what made her come back once she left? She has no reason to whine about how bad things were now. Not only did she leave, she came back.

[@gwgfm8875]

When you got zero game plan or self identity and still want to make a buck.

[@karenmyring5478]

I found this interview really interesting and my preconceived idea of a “playboy bunny” was challenged. I think I’ll buy the book to learn more about her story. I’ve followed Jaime since his Made In Chelsea days and I’m so pleased to see his success - these are great interviews and you have such a talent for talking to people - getting some great insights from your guests whilst being positive and understanding, and not pushing an agenda. 👏🏻

[@larainememola4374]

why isn't she angry with her mom for encouraging this lifestyle her whole life? has a lot of misdirected anger and frustration toward her husband who gave her the luxurious lifestyle she is living today as she keeps his last name.

[@JoanneZarogiannos]

You might be right. However mom didn't want her to live in poverty.

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

She's angry because he was misogynistic

[@larainememola4374]

@@user-bq2ko2tb2w and her mom encouraged it

[@rmh691]

Every interview I’ve seen her do, she is always dressed so conservatively. Most of these ex playmates show up with extreme make up, boobs out, legs out, etc. But she’s always covered up with tasteful make up so it’s a nice image that she projects. She knows she has something to say, and is secure in herself, not needing to have people gawk at her body.

[@JolieF]

🤔 Great interview, and the compassion, kindness, and professionalism that’s shown to Hef’s widow is refreshing, to say the least.

[@SanchoGracie]

Is this sarcasm? I mean....

[@JolieF]

Absolutely no sarcasm 👇

[@JolieF]

@@SanchoGracie no

[@alex2980]

A person no one would care about if it wasn’t for Hugh Hefner yet proceeds to bash him now that he has passed. Stay classy

[@devina1100]

How the hell do you know she's a person no-one would care about if it weren't for him? You don't know. How dare you just assume things about her when you don't know her. Show me someone who hasn't been young and influenced and/or manipulated. Then controlled. Predators prey on the vulnerable. They can spot them a mile off and Hefner was without a doubt predatory.

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

He was very misogynistic, she is allowed to speak out about abuse

[@Gail789]

And I agree with Kimberly. There are those that keep trying to profit from their experience at the mansion. All could’ve left and some did. Crystal came back. I’ll never buy any of their books.

[@SanchoGracie]

She's so infuriating.

[@Roz-y2d]

@@SanchoGracieWhy? She seems a bland person to me. I hope she gets as much as she can out of it!

[@Free-flyBE]

People aren't taking into account the times she grew up in when girls were subjected to the bombshell persona thru glam rock, movies, magazines. It was the epitomy of the ultimate woman. Plus she was incredibly beautiful, young, introverted, needy - perfect catch for a hunter...I feel for all his women:(

[@feebeci]

Bridget and holly need to do a reaction video to this

[@elocc9570]

I would urge everyone to watch Girls Next Level episode about her book, with Holly, Bridget, and Hue's son, Marston Hefner. They have quite a different view of the situation. Crystal is REALLY rewriting history a bit. Worst of all, she changed the long standing will at the last minute. Shady shady shady.

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

Playboy is abusive and misogynistic. She's allowed to speak out about that

[@elocc9570]

@user-bq2ko2tb2w She sure is! She can share whatever she wants to.That'ss not my point.

[@bevturner2258]

⁠@@user-bq2ko2tb2w Everyone is entitled to their opinions.

[@clairemorris8368]

I think listening to marstons interview and interviews from those around him in his last year is really concerning they are all talking along the same lines i just cant listen to her without thinking shes lying and what they did to an old man in his final days

[@JoanneZarogiannos]

I glad Crystal you said --- your making money from Playboy. Hugh did make money from women and got $800,000 from the Runaway Bride. So you have a right to make money off of him. Holly is making money from Playboy and Bridgette. Why shouldn't you. You saw him when he was gone...... Good Luck.

[@Roz-y2d]

Well said. Hefner had a very unusual life and he used people, especially women.

[@norcal0076]

Great chat😉

[@ngurdingasailo]

She was in it for the money. Some of the people in the manson said she would sneaked out to see her boyfriend on the side.

[@mcooper593]

She’s had a lip flip. More subtle than fillers. Very effective

[@angelamouland8012]

Good interview. Best of luck to her.

[@Mandalynn_Bay]

I don’t understand why Holly is bashing Crystal’s book. Most of the girlfriends are going to have similar stories, issues, relationship with Hef. Remember he was a creature of habit.

[@josephiaw]

What a powerful interview

[@amber-lynne9537]

Ahhhh still rocking the Hefner last name 🙄 "I NeVeR lOvEd HiM, bUt I WiLl MaKe MoNeY oFf HiS nAmE" gtfoh 😂

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

Playboy makes money off of objectifying women which is abusive and wrong.

[@Safi-Dee]

Wow, what was it that drew you, as a 10 year old boy, to Playboy? - Freedom. I could see the huge huge freedom.

[@wth6588]

😂😂😂😂

[@user-bq2ko2tb2w]

Playboy is sexist and creepy and so is this comment

[@courtneyhabel4435]

If she didn’t love him then she used him, which is disgusting

[@samanthab8222]

I love watching Crystal process all of this, I think it speaks to a lot of people’s journeys.

[@ann_dreaaa]

I feel like she tries so hard to be Holly … even the stalk holm syndrome part

[@janes6894]

This woman makes me sick! And by the way she is still the president of the Hugh M. Hefner Foundation.

[@kavericornett6748]

Hef sounds like he was emotionally crippled & possibly crippled on so many levels

[@loveshopping67]

Narcissist love to pray on people pleaser ,nice, kind, loving people,and they can mold young people. Especially if they are young like they said metal abuse

[@kristiansven7022]

She’s clever she didn’t give to much away I want to read the book now,

[@bevturner2258]

I could read an article about her, but not a whole book. Jamie is good at interviews, but he couldn’t get much out of her. I think because she doesn’t have much to offer. Enjoy the book 😊

[@jacquifletcher6377]

She has written a book spilling all the tea. She hardly feels sorry now

[@andreatrepasburgess8520]

So she is so insecure it took her a decade To figure that out … maybe it’s the $$$$ and status put her self Interests way ahead of leaving . Holly did love him. He knew who he could Manipulate. He felt Sorry for the under dogs .. maybe that’s why she lasted so long not in love a milk toast under dog .. life long Victim. All her life even before hef poor me I am poor I am a victim .. she is a phony . She met him not at the mansion Halloween party’ . She met him at a rented event . Another embellishment

[@carlabeaton3637]

I wouldn't call that financial abuse- noone else's boyfriend gives them an allowance and no gf should be like 'I'm not getting enough money to leave you' so I'm with Hef on that one tbh

[@bevturner2258]

Definitely not financial abuse. She chose that life.

[@kavericornett6748]

Sounds to me like Hef lived a very lonely life surrounded by people & never really connecting

[@8bitplague]

"I think he only loved himself" nope, he loved Holly, you.judt filled the void when she wanted nothing else to do with Hef. You can't be honest in this interview and you can't be honest in your book, so it shouldn't be surprising

[@8bitplague]

"I don't need that name" if you REALLY wanted to change your name from Hefner, you would have done it BEFORE releasing the book. You PURELY kept it to sell the book because you know no one would give the slightest bit of shit without the last name "Hefner" and the purely fictional subtitle "surviving Playboy"

[@JoanneZarogiannos]

True but Hef didn't want marry Holly so she left.

[@clairemorris8368]

He said he made a mistake by not marrying holly he said that on the show. She left him.

[@coffeeandtruecrime2754]

How bought drop the Hefner name

[@mcooper593]

I wonder how much this lady got, financially, out of the marriage?

[@toniloper2905]

She went to Bali with her boyfriend on his death bed!

[@gengarrules777]

she deserves to keep her last name if she wants it, it's cute ❤

[@Roz-y2d]

It’s not cute but it is hers!

[@coconutty4808]

Getting £1k a week was demoralising? You could’ve made that last, lady?..

[@alexxa8273]

First time listener to this podcast and Crystals story and I must say I will be listening to more episodes from this podcast and read Crystals book! I’m in awe at how attentive the podcast host is and I love Crystals energy! 🫶

[@candyjohnson3302]

Energy?? Sarcasm, right?

[@Roz-y2d]

@@candyjohnson3302Perspective is probably a better word. They all knew why they were there, so let’s not point fingers or pull the wool.

[@RachelGratias]

What happens when you show up to work and you end up hating it because it's not for you? You leave. These women got paid and were not forced against their will. Now that he is long and gone you talk crap. The money was good though you got paid. Trust me I was a fan of the girls next door show so it's hard for me to feel sorry.

[@basia1683]

Jamie, please your wedding cost more than 400 thousands ;)

[@bevturner2258]

But he’s hoping it will only happen one time. The parties were endless 😊

[@crystalizer_]

You should interview Holly or Bridget! Holly is so knowledgeable about Playboy

[@ElvisandAmy8]

Team Holly Team Bridget

[@SanchoGracie]

Same.

[@itsthepens]

Shocking! Next she’ll reveal she’s not a natural blonde either… 😂

[@peacefulshades]

How can he think of her as loyal to Hefner? Yes, he was a misogynist, shes still icky.

[@savannafoxx6468]

Another thing how can someone that study phycology can have no idea about her own ideas and personality.....

[@bevturner2258]

Not everyone has a great personality, or insight into themselves. Studying psychology is about studying people generally, it’s not about self analysis.

[@savannafoxx6468]

@@bevturner2258 you can't study anyone in general if you don't start from knowing yourself...in sorry but that's the way it is

[@bevturner2258]

@@savannafoxx6468 When you study psychology you’re learning about other people’s knowledge and insights into human behaviour. It’s not about you specifically. You can then apply that knowledge and thinking to yourself. It gives you the tools to help you understand and know yourself. You may of course lack the intelligence and insight to apply what you’ve learnt, whether that be to yourself, or someone else. Generally speaking, insight into oneself comes with time, lots of time 😊

[@frenchprovincial9602]

The woman is all about the money.

[@danielaiovine6631]

She's beautiful

[@teresamalone8978]

She is so effing boring

[@ROYinka]

I can’t with this woman ……..

[@debbiefoster7493]

She married him for the money

[@jennifervandeusen4765]

I think Hef was sad because he really loved and missed Holly. He was very sad to his main 3 girls leave. Hef never got over them. Especially Holly. But he would never admit that, but everybody knew.😢

[@SanchoGracie]

Absolutely. Crystal was just hungry enough to take what Hef was offering. Holly had long since found her self respect.

[@TheLadypizazz]

She says all this stuff after knocking down other peoples stories. It’s as if cause she married him she’s the only one who gets a voice. And if she doesn’t want to be famous why is she still using his last name for clout??

[@NatalH859]

She looks like on something. Still uses his name money accepted ( houses ) he got her . Unbelievable.

[@janettetaylor4891]

What a liar. Saying the mansion was beautiful in this interview and in another it was damp infested with water pouring down the walls.

[@cate4338]

She didn't care that he died - leave it as that - the avoidance was irksome... she was at uni studying psychology but wasn't aware of the term nor traits of narcissism?

[@sarahschouveller1993]

Right?! Nor "boundaries" or "misogyny"?!?!

[@Roz-y2d]

It’s called’she should have known better’. How many times in your life have you said ‘ why didn’t I see that’? The bottom line is she wanted financial security and knew the sort of house he ran, but there was a lot she didn’t expect or want.

[@cate4338]

@@Roz-y2d rubbish - some people don't ignore negative facts just to avoid difficulty... you describe gutless and selfish people!!!

[@Suzy987]

She seems so fake to me.

[@lisanancollas2330]

Is she on something?

[@TeganHoy]

She still wants to be Holly so bad 😂

[@Roz-y2d]

Why? They were all being used in the same way. It was just a very plush knocking shop!

[@bevturner2258]

@@Roz-y2d 🎯

[@torialexandria7865]

30:33 crystal Hefner inspiring people to be regular great job (Not)

[@MasonLeCompte]

Club med isn't for kids lol

[@joanneadair9227]

Hef's Willy Wonker????? 😂😂😂.

[@tyjaronebouie3227]

Girl u was there for money u in Holly need to go take nap

[@oafee1053]

People choosing teams are weird. These are people with their own experiences, Its not a football game.

[@jessicatormey7851]

Nah girl

[@jeharsy]

Omg Krusty still at it 😂

[@Roz-y2d]

Tut tut !

[@SanchoGracie]

Yeah, ummmm, she's ummm, something else isn't she.

[@itdoesntmatter6142]

She’s such a scam artist

[@shannonsmith2642]

Well no sh**

[@user-ob3uu2jn3c]

She is so old looking!!

[@annieroberts8850]

You should listen to this weeks girls next level with hefs son marston talking about the book!

[@JoanneZarogiannos]

He lives like a KING. He could get some heartache from woman who did take off there clothers.

[@alinolantivoli.stitching1912]

I love it you always ask the questions we want to know! Where’s your mate is she behind the rope? 😂😂😂

[@oakpurple]

They all go there to meet wealth.let’s not sugar coat it and if you have beauty and not much else ,you gonna use to attract. Symbiotic relationships or parasites feeding off each other.

[@Roz-y2d]

Well put. That’s exactly what it was!

[@Zimbabalooba-UK]

She didn’t love him and she wasn’t sad when he died. Says a lot about what kind of person she is. Wow!

[@devina1100]

Wow judgemental much? Says more about him that he preyed on young vulnerable girls. He was no more than a dirty old man with money.

[@Roz-y2d]

@@devina1100 Well put! She probably didn’t know everything she was getting into, but her dirty old man did!

[@devina1100]

@@Roz-y2d Exactly that.

[@rmh691]

Maybe it says more what kind of person he was!

[@bevturner2258]

@@devina1100 There are dirty old men and there are beautiful young women who fall for what is on offer. Transactional love 😊

[@Cesar-e4t]

its call the not being broke syndrome she had

[@mcooper593]

I like the Interviewer. Never seen him before but would definitely watch him again.

[@pixievixen]

This Interviewer is fantastic! so sweet and engaging

[@shutthefrontdoor733]

I’m an introvert, so much so that I have to watch tv, videos, documentaries and news to see what is happening in the world. You wouldn’t get me in an interview to talk about my famous late husband because I would never have any of it because I am in INTROVERT and don’t leave my place unless it’s to go to work or go food shopping or go on my long solo walk. She is however a huge liar, loved what Hef could provide for her and talks to much smack about the girls who never did anything to her but she is clearly very jealous of them both, our sweet Bridget and Holly. Crystal is creepy here with all the whispering and bold face lies

[@Annemarie01967]

Love love love Jamie, but she’s quite a hard shift as an interviewee … with Jamie’s skills it turned out good . She is as she says introverted .

[@michellefidge4593]

So why was she with him.

[@Missy-j4i]

Holly, Kendra, Bridgett, Crystal, Kristina, and Karissa were all vulnerable to 'Hef's' narcissism, manipulation, and the culture of his cultlike group because of their backgrounds (e.g. little money, prior abuse; learning disability and drug addiction in Kendra's case too). I find the 'Team' whomever idea a little odd. Their core experience was the same; they just made different choices. I've read all of their books and watched many interviews. They're intelligent women trying to process a cultlike group and lifelong stigma. There will always be conflict between them; Hef loved to play his 'girlfriends' off each other. We can just listen to their stories and gain some insights so that we recognize narcissistic people and unhealthy relationships in our own lives.

[@bevturner2258]

Intelligent?

[@sarahlloyd4582]

So she never loved him but yet married him. Sorry but who marries a 90 year old without another agenda She is still living off him by constantly talking about him. These woman knew exactly what they were doing and profited from it. She could have walked away at any time yet she stayed and married him. These woman wanted fame and how were they going to get that? By sleeping with an old but powerful man.

[@kathleenhansen4344]

Love this interview! As a huge fan of holly and Bridget, it’s important to remember two things can simultaneously be true 🤍. Loved getting crystals perspective and I wish her the best 🌸

[@Roz-y2d]

I love your comment coz it is fair and rational.