Put it this way. Just because she helped you through a rough part of your life dosen't mean you now owe her your life.
@christysbutterfly16122 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Best comment about this mess!!!
@TangibleReads2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@EDmazeing12 жыл бұрын
He can't satisfied her sexually, atleast she was honest to him about that instead of sneaking behind his back.
@Soloman_18002 жыл бұрын
@@EDmazeing1 Tyrone is doing all the heavy lifting lol 😂
@godsangel67able2 жыл бұрын
Definitely truth
@jenniferachternaam83942 жыл бұрын
her seemingly not being able to get pregnant is divine intervention
@amkrtchyan132 жыл бұрын
😄🎯
@demetriuscooksey71472 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine that poor kid's upbringing? Hope she never brings a kid into this world.
@angelamccrackin52432 жыл бұрын
You can say that again...
@BD-1-And-Only2 жыл бұрын
What’s the time stamp where they actually get to the part about her fucking other dudes because goddamn the interviewer takes forever to get to the point
@youngski2492 жыл бұрын
children are a gift from God. but this girl is ungrateful in every aspect.
@Jomama51512 жыл бұрын
Her being sexually abused as a child and he not being wanted by his mother as a child is the exact reason they are living like this. Trauma bonding is what keeps them together sadly.
@ansy1392 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what I think as well. I don't think either of them are horrible people...she just needs to control him as she once felt so helpless, yet is also acting out with multiple men as a result of that abuse; and he is still looking for mom's love and approval. Playing with those power dynamics but yet not realizing they are (or at least not understanding the underlying motivations). I know quite a few couples who are either poly, open or non monogamous (all are different) and such couples do and can exist and be healthy. These two, sadly, are not. Not everyone who is into any of those, or even BDSM for that matter, have been abused.
@Etheralking2 жыл бұрын
It's so odd how in the end it's like a worship of the trauma.
@boosterboy75842 жыл бұрын
@@Etheralking sadly thats how people tend to live life and im not saying im not guilty of this myself with my habits and all. i guess its just how people cope when they been through hell and basically eat out plate that hell had created. Just wished some of these things wasnt so romanticized n dis generation, truly fucked it up for a lot of ppl who had da internet growing up. idk if i got a lil off topic but i hope i made my picture clear, all in all, trauma is so damn powerful that shit literally makes you the person you swore to destroy or get away from, hopefully that summed up what i was tryna say lol, idk why im like this 🥲😔
@Etheralking2 жыл бұрын
@@boosterboy7584 Everybody has trauma imo. Varying degrees, but everybody has experiened a lack of total love and injustice from others. It's just that we've "categorized" trauma insuch a way that for most people it has to be like tangible for it to be real.
@sophiamilton15572 жыл бұрын
I guess it's your job to be sad for them, because there clearly not......have at it.
@ShaheedSmoke5 ай бұрын
Dont be so open-minded that your brain falls out.
@Gmny1MOA5 ай бұрын
Open minded...they keep speaking of "before the pandemic" meanwhile she is a walking pandemic
@benjamingschosser99504 ай бұрын
Thats is on point 👍
@DanielleValenca3 ай бұрын
Love this!!!!
@justinnegus60853 ай бұрын
accurate as hell
@Hehe-jo1zc3 ай бұрын
That is an Einstein level quote. Good fucking work 👏
@Izvitoy2 жыл бұрын
This woman is disgusting, literally not having any sexual desire for her companion, and laughing at his obvious discomfort and not seeing the lies he says about him being totally okay with this. Dakota deserves so much more.
@wardonthestreet2 жыл бұрын
She can’t help it. Her spirit has found a weaker spirit to feast on
@mehmesayed42342 жыл бұрын
Bruh the guy is the biggest simp in the galaxy
@HeyYou-ii3kp2 жыл бұрын
@@wardonthestreet spot on!
@ImChrisDeDecker2 жыл бұрын
I mean, I am cool for kinks... But the kink is supposed to enhance the sex life between the two. Not healthy in this case.
@anitaquick37562 жыл бұрын
I thought Dakota said he films her sex encounter
@Dontyellatm32 жыл бұрын
She wants a biracial kid, wouldn’t know who the father was, and wants Dakota to raise the child. I can’t believe what I’m hearing. This is so unhealthy.
@Dontyellatm32 жыл бұрын
He also said with his size he can’t get someone pregnant, that doesn’t make sense. Sperm is sperm.
@JosephSneep2 жыл бұрын
And he sucked some of these guys before
@helencarr98372 жыл бұрын
Cmon, there way worse stuff. As long as they raise the baby like a good white submissive couple then theres no problem. Dudes with Bbc has been through enough to be told they can’t give into their natural instinct
@damianjohn59952 жыл бұрын
Please don’t have kids
@Charlotte-ti6oq2 жыл бұрын
Why does she want a biracial child !? Why not just a child with the man she loves.
@brettmcculloch53422 жыл бұрын
Dakota only seems to be excited/happy twice: talking about his cars, motorcycles, guns and stuff he buys and when his wife’s partners are treating him nicely. Dude just needs some friends.
@krisa9902 жыл бұрын
I think he needs some new spinal cord,and a set of caho++n++s too plus some mental counseling,and a boatload of selfesteem.. I dont understand how any man with any tad bit of testosterone can be weirdly submissive. It goes beyound humiliation and games to be this humiliated and submissive to your partner and accepting to be treated this way. If a man had being like this towards a woman as she is to Dakota there would probably be police running up their door. This is whatever they are trying to impress here,clearly not a healthy relationship. And whats up with those fake laughs that comes about in the most inappropriate moments in the conversation,from both of them..
@Sloimer2 жыл бұрын
Dude needs to leave, find a group of friends and get into something constructive and rebuild his life from the ground up.
@TheAsianOfChaos2 жыл бұрын
I’d hang with Dakota dude seems cool as fuck, in conclusion Dakota can hang
@christophermartin9722 жыл бұрын
He perked up when he talked about doing stuff with guys too
@AlishaArlene2 жыл бұрын
He is the DEFINITION of a SIMP.
@VuDuGrrrrl80755 ай бұрын
Mother Nature flat refuses to let these two get pregnant. Praise be.
@MissIman585 ай бұрын
All Praises To the Most High God !! He wasn't having none of it
@stevenwahl34405 ай бұрын
@@VuDuGrrrrl8075 only the female can get knocked up. The other is a male but, not a man 🤔🤷🏼♂️
@stevenwahl34405 ай бұрын
@@MissIman58 Amen
@MissIman585 ай бұрын
@@stevenwahl3440 yaaasss PERPETUALLY 🥳🥳🥳
@KikermrzRemy3 ай бұрын
@@MissIman58nature , no heaven no hell
@andrecash94712 жыл бұрын
He is not ok with this. He loves her and has immensely damaged self esteem trying to please a woman that has absolutely no respect whatsoever for him. Her little uncomfortable selfish giggles were infuriating. I normally try to keep an open mind with these videos but this one was nearly impossible to do so. You can see right through his facade. You're worth so much more sir. 💗
@watitduful2 жыл бұрын
That’s not love he has. It’s infatuation and idolatry.
@dare_challenge_a_god15362 жыл бұрын
Bbc
@stephanieharper73492 жыл бұрын
I literally just commented that I do not judge people for their Lifestyles but there was something eerie and creepy behind that constant nervous giggle of hers and that I could not even make it to the end of the video. I'm surprised this is the first I've heard someone else even mention that giggle. I don't propose to think I know what anyone else is thinking because that's impossible but I do know from my education that a Sex Drive is a normal part of a person's makeup and I do understand that some people have zero sex drive . However he is saying that he does get enjoyment out of watching so to constantly be watching your partner having sex without having any sexual relation yourself I can't imagine what that would do to a person over time
@ClickClack_Bam2 жыл бұрын
Her laugh is pure evil. Fuck that. She's laughing right in his face with what she does to him & has his head so FUCKED up that he thinks he likes it all now. THAT'S THE CLASSIC HALLMARK OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. He crossed his arms a few times when she was being very demeaning to him. That's defensive body language. Meaning he DIDN'T like it at all.
@greglesny26632 жыл бұрын
the giggle wanted me to smack her in the face
@bgutty59452 жыл бұрын
Dude, if she helped you that much, imagine what someone that actually cares about you could do for you.
@Kinann2 жыл бұрын
Yep the only thing she cares about is herself. uhhump!
@ladyJustis2 жыл бұрын
Dude he's gay and loving life suckin in denial
@cashmoney12742 жыл бұрын
@@Kinann she wiped his ass for years. Most women would have left
@Juneebug182 жыл бұрын
@@cashmoney1274 would they though? I mean some people are true Devils in disguise. So why can't people be Angels too?
@maddieyk87082 жыл бұрын
Facts glad someone said it
@chaneljenkins64952 жыл бұрын
As a black woman- the Black man fetishism is unsettling to say the least in this situation. Even to the point of only seeking to have biracial child by any means- even putting her body in unprotected sex in harms way. There’s a lot I saw in this video and the nervous laughter, body language, etc there’s just more to this psychologically.
@zoe96322 жыл бұрын
Not to mention the increase spread of disease within the black community because of her preference for multiple partners at once & refusal to use condoms or dams.
@canflo60442 жыл бұрын
As a Blackman this video was very disturbing. A lot of black men will sleep anything because it’s white. Not trying to degrade this woman but she is not the physical standard of American beauty. She is just white. And that seems to be good enough for black men. We gotta have better standards. Last I don’t feel sorry for the dude because it’s basically his karma from making her his slave. She turned the tables on him and he accepted it.
@zoe96322 жыл бұрын
@@canflo6044 to be fair.... many men won't turn down no strings sex, no matter the race of themselves or the partner.
@itsmatt21052 жыл бұрын
@@canflo6044 My nearest big city abuts a very large military base. There are TONS of black guys with fat, ugly white women and mixed children in the city. Sometimes I almost have to stop myself from asking the man "I know she's white but how can you have sex with that? I can understand getting really desperate and settling but there are limits even to desperation!"
@annieseaside2 жыл бұрын
I find it Disrespectful that she reduces The Black Man to his dick, like that is all he could be good for… not for cuddling, not for any type of emotional or psychological intimacy.
@dogologyaz56255 ай бұрын
This poor sweet man. She’s gaslit and manipulated him into this lifestyle. She’s demolished his self worth and confidence. It’s so very sad.
@dlharris20084 ай бұрын
I really feel bad for him.
@JuanMoreno-hs2qi17 күн бұрын
To me it seems like its him thats really pulling the strings ...just because you "act" submissive doesnt mean you are...clearly she keeps on nervously laughing and agrees with everything he says
@itsbrittanysanner4 күн бұрын
she has brainwashed him into thinking he enjoys it
@julied64632 жыл бұрын
Dakota!!!! Unconditional love does NOT mean unconditional tolerance. Life is too short not to share reciprocal respect! You deserve that!!
@drakewoods53352 жыл бұрын
Oh leave them alone. They are happy. They love each other. They seem to have their lives figured out. Not for us to judge or approve.
@rajiv25562 жыл бұрын
@@drakewoods5335 you are always judging whether you deny it or not .It cannot be consciously stopped. Judging people actions cannot be turned off or on.It can only be ignored.Thus the reason you might not be doing what they are doing.
@AustinKoleCarlisle2 жыл бұрын
@@drakewoods5335 is he happy? look at his body language.
@joeylyons45492 жыл бұрын
Agree so much with Drake Woods Life is all about what makes people happy They have a great relationship and have come to this agreement They are happier this way than 90 percent of so called traditional people Leave them alone Stop judging
@mindfulstoic30952 жыл бұрын
@@moomoocowsly Exactly. I see a woman with plenty of options, fulfilled (as far as her desires), and a man accepting for a lack of better options (in his mind and also a little bit in reality to be honest), and who prefers to believe, he is in this relationship because he chooses to. A man with no options cannot choose just as much as a harmless can only be a "pacifist" since that's all he can do.
@00XX0072 жыл бұрын
The fact that she did all these tests and she is very capable of getting pregnant and hasn't in 12 years with hundreds of clients means there is a God
@jamileebates32022 жыл бұрын
😂😂yes indeed
@deborahdobbie2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love this comment
@jeremyariche43322 жыл бұрын
There is a saying: God won't put you through anything you could not handle. Clearly He knows a child could not handle this situation
@hef32812 жыл бұрын
you missed the part where they do it for fun, no ones getting paid so there isn't any ''clients''
@jahrassicsound3122 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure she's on some sort of birth control and not admitting to it, just to get the constant attention/pleasure
@thatwasweird9542 жыл бұрын
"I have become possessive. He's mine. I control what he does when it comes to sex..." If she were male, we would call this exactly what it is -- abuse. It doesn't matter that he's consenting to it. Lots of people consent to abuse out of a warped sense of love. Doesn't make it okay.
@davidgarth19342 жыл бұрын
Nope this is self abuse which is perfectly legal and ok, and frankly watching her have sex would be the lesser of two evils.
@bellawalker542 жыл бұрын
@@Stop.At.Nothing Agree 💯✅
@secondary9552 жыл бұрын
Many of us in the comment section see this as nothing but abuse. There is no need to feed the false women can't be abusive narrative.
@ArianaAshleeee27x2 жыл бұрын
This IS ABUSE.
@karentrader95692 жыл бұрын
Yes, it does matter that this life is consensual. He has stated other women want to "save" him. He knows he could be with another. I enjoy her nervous giggle and understand that the topic is still a bit different and certainly she is used to a different audience . Let em be.
@Steez55885 ай бұрын
A year has passed. An update on where these two are at. Would be intriguing.
@hs297-s8m5 ай бұрын
I live in Memphis and actually ran into them a few weeks ago on Grindr. They were looking for a bi black man. Their profile said they are into the “black new world order” which they explained was their belief that all whites are subservient to blacks. They believe black men should rule the world and whites must worship and serve their “superiors.” Weird stuff…
@adelina00214 ай бұрын
Frrrr
@skoomacumberdale96564 ай бұрын
Well I mean they’ve been at it for 12 years so it can’t be that big of a difference after 1 year.
@CerciRodriguez3 ай бұрын
Probably just fatter and more disgusting.
@agdistisattis69233 ай бұрын
@@skoomacumberdale9656 yeah they're probably still together
@dx120112 жыл бұрын
The fact that she says subtly "He doesn't have a choice" speaks volumes. Yes he does have a choice. He needs to start having some self respect.
@tythegodlike2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@jessiesisto20382 жыл бұрын
I am so sad watching this there is no way he wanted this
@jellyfish13332 жыл бұрын
Wow all you nerds are so much off the mark lol. What’s with you boring geeks?
@MizzCupcake2442 жыл бұрын
I think that's part of the kink, to talk that way.
@idontwantone1322 жыл бұрын
It's nothing I'd be into but being a cuck doesn't mean you don't have self respect
@caitlingrant05122 жыл бұрын
Dakota has such sad eyes. She is awful. He deserves so much better. Every time she laughed I shuddered.
@nledaig2 жыл бұрын
You have this back to front. She is still a child and he is giving her as a piece to other creatures
@mahmoodali33342 жыл бұрын
Her laugh is hideous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@bgh42242 жыл бұрын
Qué hijap*** eres no?... Vamos, él es un dechado de virtudes!!!
@helencarr98372 жыл бұрын
Lol he wants this. The comments are so stupid
@user-tk1lf5hi6f2 жыл бұрын
@@helencarr9837 But if he's not bi/gay, how could he enjoy it? Perhaps you can put your husband on and he can explain it?
@winterbaby2192 жыл бұрын
her not getting pregnant is what u call a BLESSING.
@jdawg4142 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Do not bring a child into this mess. They are both not mentally prepared to raise a healthy human.
@recherche45282 жыл бұрын
What about diseases ? She said her partners do not use condoms.
@katherinemooney43962 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@JustRaine972 жыл бұрын
@@recherche4528 IKR! They are playing a dangerous game. Smh.
@donnalawrence85932 жыл бұрын
Blaming it on size. I Totally agree. I can't imagine what she would say to the child to humidor him.
@amysnews68085 ай бұрын
Dear God, I hope this woman never falls pregnant. That poor kid!
@Max_filmatic_music2 жыл бұрын
There is no way a doctor would say Dakota can’t get anyone pregnant because of his “size or performance” that sounds like something she planted in his head to try and tear him down.
@CT-yr8ph2 жыл бұрын
He’s a poor bastard man
@Ghost-zy4qq2 жыл бұрын
Exactly I feel like she tells him these insane lies to make him feel bad and bend to do whatever she says or she’ll leave him and he probably has separation anxiety from his mom so he’s doing whatever he can to keep her instead of being left and alone again
@Max_filmatic_music2 жыл бұрын
@Caitlyn A exactly and a real doctor would then test his sperm count and testosterone levels they wouldn’t just take a look and make an outright judgement about his fertility and any doctor who would make a medical opinion based on reported “performance” in the bedroom shouldn’t have a license there are tests for a reason. it’s obvious that she definitely can’t get pregnant since she has had unprotected sex with entire swaths of the male population having breeding parties so it just seems pretty obvious that she has beaten down his self esteem to the point he thinks he deserves to never have sex again. She is the one who has most likely scarred her tubes from who knows how many cases of chlamydia.
@stevemcchimneysweep42872 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely her lol She allowed 7 dudes to ejaculate in her at one time .
@PanicGiraffe2 жыл бұрын
The real reason she can't get pregnant is because her body is a toxic waste dump.
@jovanagrahovac1902 жыл бұрын
The most disturbing part of this whole story is her proud admission that she never uses protection during sex with strangers she literally picks up on the street. In what universe is such behavior normal, healthy or fun? I'm a very open-minded person and I'm not judging, but bringing nine complete strangers to a hotel for a gang bang and not using protection is literally demonic behavior. Putting yourself in such danger and calling it fun? My mind can't process that information
@_acb2 жыл бұрын
You would be surprised how many ppl do that 😳
@jovanagrahovac1902 жыл бұрын
@@_acb Actually, I'm not. I work in the medical field and I've seen it all. I got over the feeling of disgust, I lost hope in humanity and switched off a long time ago. Now I'm just waiting for my moment to leave this hell hole.
@RayChillOut2 жыл бұрын
adding insult to injury the whole statement about hoping she would get pregnant by one of her partners because she wants to have a mixed child; followed by "well I wouldn't know who the Dad is LOL it would be his kid" *points to Dakota* could you imagine being that "lovechild" & seeing this video about your Mom & "Dad" in the future? yiiikes
@jovanagrahovac1902 жыл бұрын
@@RayChillOut As if the child will not realize one day that he has black skin and start asking questions. Maybe she hopes it will inherit her intelligence. 🙄 Btw, I don't know how many prostitutes Mark has interviewed so far but they all said they use protection because they want to stay healthy and feel safe. I also noticed that most prostitutes stated they avoid black guys because they are mostly violent and with big tools. Listening to this woman talk about orgies with ten black men made me sick. Don't get me wrong, I'm not racist, I'm just disgusted. I literally saw that scene where the men lined up on her, and poor Dakota was standing on the side filming and wishing he could perform like that and satisfy her. She has neither consciousness nor shame. Her lifestyle and sexual urges are literally demonic.
@boceboceboce2 жыл бұрын
@@jovanagrahovac190 the problemb is that your job show you these kind of people but statistically you cannot see the true coz the normal once dont need that kind of service. dont judge by the cover if all are bad an iconomic connot work. world is working only when you can trust as you trust that in every week you will get your pay check for your job as you trust to the doctor who will tell you that this medicene can fix your sicknes in case if you got. few mistakes with the wrong people doesnt mean all are bad, the only bad is that you dont find way to connect with the right person. in Buddha says theres no good or bad its up to you with what eyes you will look at it, this woman is nothing for you but for him shes everything, someone maybe dont like you but for your family you are the best, everyone look the things at difrend way.
@dphinsfan64532 жыл бұрын
Dakota mentioned his "size" being inadequate multiple times, that leads me to believe he's been emasculated so many times he's lost all self respect and resigned himself to this lifestyle. He needs therapy and a truly loving partner.
@user-tk1lf5hi6f2 жыл бұрын
Or a dude to look out for him and remind him that there's better options out there.
@eh11262 жыл бұрын
It actually seems like he might have a micro penis or something. He mentioned thinking he couldn’t get someone pregnant because of his size and that would only be if he had a micropenis.
@user-tk1lf5hi6f2 жыл бұрын
@@eh1126 Perhaps, but he used to go to swinger parties. If he had a micropenis, that would be a huge deterrent to even participating. If he does in fact have a micropenis, asking about his experience at swinger parties would be a good topic for a follow up interview.
@nhdad34392 жыл бұрын
He is a kink player: the whole "Oh me: I have a small penis," is part of the behavior. You Tube is loaded with suckers for freaks like this
@elberton942 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more. There is so much sadness in his eyes, I believe he has absolutely settled for this arrangement.
@kingoscar54474 ай бұрын
"he helps clean up" I think im gonna be sick
@tefiktasdemir56622 ай бұрын
I didn't actually think that they really existed OMG
@Jesslayc2 жыл бұрын
I would like to speak for the whole class right now and say that i would really love to see a follow up interview with Dakota
@ME-wu9dy2 жыл бұрын
Yes sir
@Nine284572 жыл бұрын
I would too. I don’t think many people truly understand where he’s coming from.
@yayascreations2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@gavinturner11022 жыл бұрын
Yuuuup
@gnatanderson55362 жыл бұрын
Without her. Her giggles are pissing me off.
@mamachey43202 жыл бұрын
She sounds like an absolute nightmare to be with. By Dakotas speaking and body language, I can also see that he is sad in a lot of ways and my heart breaks for him.
@mamachey43202 жыл бұрын
@Edwin It's not that I think their lifestyle is wrong, I just find her quite annoying, along with extremely controlling and rude. I mean, if he likes it, that's all him. But, in my opinion and observation, he looks sad.
@scottycunningham14132 жыл бұрын
@Edwin yes such people do exist, and they are not worthy of bearing children. If you are permissive of such behavior than you are the problem with society.
@JG-mt3rp2 жыл бұрын
@Edwin I'm a boring asexual, but I was wondering do you think this couple is a good representation of this type of lifestyle? I can see how someone could have this lifestyle without it be so degrading, but given this man's obvious sadness and the fact that his wife is a callous chud beast who is impossible to like, I feel like this arrangement is unhealthy. Her fetishization of Black men is also weird and problematic.
@melt29472 жыл бұрын
@Edwin I sensed incredible sadness behind his mask of acceptance. He doesn’t want to be touched by other men..he’s actually being trauma bonded into complete sexual abuse - as a grown man saying yes, but only out of fear of losing her. He knew his mother tried to abort him..imagine the psychological trauma. Then his wife reminds him of all that she’s “saved” him from, re-enforcing how powerless he is without her. Oh, and useless, apparently. Can’t fuck for shit, so along come the never-ending “better-thans”. A clear recipe for misery for this man, whether he’s conscious or in denial. She’s tricked him into a dominant “mother” worship bond, and you don’t abandon your mother..and a “son” doesn’t abandon his mother either - ever. Herself a victim of SA, she now controls him and the sick little world she’s created and now Queen of..and won’t even let the man father a child. Forget the humiliation of watching her with others, how about forcing him to bring up a child that is so not his she wants him to never forget - by making the child’s skin darker. This woman is on another level brutal. She won’t even let him CUM. She’s a very warped control obsessed, cruel unwanting, punishing mother..just like the one he originally had, only wrapped in a silly, giggling floral dress. Apologies for the analysis, but just left a trauma unit. Could be wrong, but this is what I see.
@melissasaint32832 жыл бұрын
@Edwin oh, on Only fans! Well then, of course, that's always a hallmark of good self esteem and mental health 🙄 Just because a thing is common and consensual doesn't mean it is universally healthy in ALL cases.... rather than, sometimes, a manifestation of unprocessed trauma or some other problem. Not dissing either of them, at all, I only feel concern....and I appreciate how open minded and respectful the interviewer is, as always. However, both of them have some very, very significant ACEs (adverse childhood experiences, which are now proven to have lasting physical as well as mental effects; it's a huge area of study right now. I wouldn't be surprised if her inability to get pregnant partly had to do with her having an overactive immune system, which tends to be overlooked in fertility screenings, and is often correlated to a high ACE score.) She actually says, in this interview, that if she had not experienced such a traumatic childhood, she likely would be a different person, and some of the "darkest and most sadistic" elements of their relationship (which she does not name) are probably a direct outgrowth of that painful childhood. She also tells us she is medicating depression and anxiety with "lots" of pot, which doesn't reassure me about her general health😟 (side note: I worked serving adults living with mental illnessfor over a decade. Medicating depression with pot is a common but very poor plan.) Meanwhile, he is supposed to be "getting turned on" by this, right? He tells us so. And yet he also tells us that his sex drive is dwindling and dwindling, and that he also self medicates with a large amount of cannabis and some e. It seems like part of this cycle for him is permitted emotional semi-affairs online, in which women try to "save" him from a woman who "hurts him and doesn't love him." He initially laughs about this, but later describes these conversations, which he repeatedly seeks out, as something comforting and meaningful that he enjoys. This painfully dovetails with his own childhood: His birth mother tried to have him aborted, but he accidentally survived....which means he must have been a very, very late abortion. She immediately gives him up for adoption. This is rejection in the most absolute terms from the one woman from whom every human being is supposed to justly expect love. His grandmother then adopted him and tried to replace all the love he lacked from the mother who rejected him in such an absolute sense. But we know that he was not the sole recipient of his grandmother's love: she was so loving that he had to share her attention with "every kid in town." There's just too many obvious parallels with childhood experience here for me to think they have gone to good therapy and worked through all this so they can have a relationship that is fully conscious of their feelings and potential underlying motivations. I'm also concerned that they tried and failed to get pregnant for years. That can often be a serious blow to the self esteem of either partner. Many people feel like failures, or like less of a man/woman. Maybe they would go get a year of good therapy and still want this exact form of their relationship.....but they could be happier people in their lives overall. Even if they only did the new EMT therapy that involves eye movement to help process trauma, that would probably contribute to an increased sense of well being and peace for them. They both have some pretty painful skeletons that were thrown into their closets through no fault of their own.
@kelkate7095 Жыл бұрын
Dakotas eyes are so sad. Talking about how he’s “less than they are” just absolutely broke my heart
@shelleyinthecity9 ай бұрын
It breaks your heart? Really? He gets off watching men with bigger penises than his own pound his wife.......and he enjoys it.
@soloooo34208 ай бұрын
This comment is like when somebody in the crowd gets mad that a comedian is joking about a handicap person but the handicap person is happy and laughing.
@yuuki73648 ай бұрын
@@soloooo3420 Except he doesn't look happy at all.
@dragorn32128 ай бұрын
And she likes one-upping him. Pure sociopathy straight out of a Michael Meyers movie. He just doesn't recognize her as the beast she is. Sad
@dragorn32128 ай бұрын
@@soloooo3420 lol no you are just an idiot and everyone knows it. Thanks
@pathtoenlightenment45235 ай бұрын
This man is going to snap one day and everyone will say “who could’ve possibly seen this coming?”
@Ash-ql1hp5 ай бұрын
Her kneck
@tikisinspace2 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 minutes in and I absolutely cannot take another second of her giggling. Dakota, RUN!!
@mellowcandle76702 жыл бұрын
Same. That giggling was maniacal and hard to listen to. I found myself keep saying “please don’t giggle again.”
@jodydavis62382 жыл бұрын
I think it stems from low self esteem. that is why she is controlling.
@lisakrieg30762 жыл бұрын
@@mellowcandle7670Ommmg… she’s a cackling fool!!!!
@flygemini082 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!😵💫
@annielee28972 жыл бұрын
I can’t stand that evil giggle. She’s giggling because she can get away with it. She’s a slob.
@krystalweston318 Жыл бұрын
She spent her early life being weak and invisible. She found someone who loves her enough to give her complete control. She found the perfect person to take advantage of. I feel so sad for Dakota.
@beaucephusburchel5488 Жыл бұрын
Whoever the f*** wants to eat some other dude's nut out of their old lady's p**** hey that's some weird s*** but that's Joe biden's plan for America let your old lady shower you with somebody else's babies if you're not attracted to that or if you're not attracted to trans women you're a big piece of s*** eat that s*** now swallow it can be the cut for Joe Biden that he wants you to be wear your mask though because cotton will stop the virus the virus will stop because it knows it's cotton thanks
@dianecarman1979 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it's the best thing for her screw it....
@mercutiomurphy2743 Жыл бұрын
The only reason he's still in the relationship is because he likes it. No other reason.
@ashintheblunt3292 Жыл бұрын
Her laugh is annoying but she laughs cuz she know how ridiculous it is and how wrong it is. She's a 1 star whore. Looks absolutely disgusting.
@GhostOnConsole0 Жыл бұрын
@@mercutiomurphy2743 nah, not necessarily. When a man is super emasculated to this degree and has never been directly taught how to be his own man. They can easily fall into a relationship with a controlling woman and even when they don't like it. They feel they don't deserve anything better. That mixed with whatever emotional manipulation she's spinning on him. He also probably feels sorry for her abuse she received and feels he's obligated to care for her. He looks like someone who doesn't care for themselves enough.
@1989trent12 жыл бұрын
Her giggle is sadistic, genuinely feel for this dude.
@PepeDeezNutz2 жыл бұрын
💯
@5050TM2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Her laughing almost feels like a slap to the face.
@Ghost-zy4qq2 жыл бұрын
It pisses me off so much when she laughs and dude is just sitting there looking at the ground knowing he hates doing this shit but she manipulated him so much to the point where he thinks he likes it
@brads15452 жыл бұрын
@@Ghost-zy4qq It breaks my brain that any dude could look over, see her, listen to that cackle, and think “yep, this is for me.”
@the_hothouse_flower50442 жыл бұрын
The giggling is so annoying. She seems very immature.
@dogologyaz56255 ай бұрын
Her abuse has lead her to overcompensate and now she’s abusive. Tragic.
@bubbamendy915 ай бұрын
If she was even ever abused at all... She seems to laugh her way through this interview. He looks depressed as hell and sad
@Xx56983xX Жыл бұрын
Dakota, if u read this, “I just want to say no matter what you’ve done, you deserves respect, even if you make mistakes. You’re lovable and it doesn’t matter your looks, skills, or age or your size or anything. You’re worthwhile - no one can take that away from you”.
@dubbie3202 Жыл бұрын
Wise words from Kai 👌🏼
@guyetteluster Жыл бұрын
Smash, SmASH, SMASH!
@rosemarybowser5543 Жыл бұрын
Hatchet wielding hitchhiker
@dragorn3212 Жыл бұрын
And to the lady if she reads this: you are absolutely disgusting and need at least 10,000 hours of therapy
@anastasiaphtc3515 Жыл бұрын
He needs to pin this
@tygarspace1754 Жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart to just hear him repeat that the other guys are just better than him. That tells you everything you need to know about this
@vidamariaixchel4962 Жыл бұрын
He has a small penis, and a giant inferiority complex.
@lotab2 Жыл бұрын
but they are...a fact is a fact.Not all men can phuq good.
@maraphernalia Жыл бұрын
I mean, that's a big part of the kink. The men like hearing how they can't perform as well.
@augustusbrown5320 Жыл бұрын
Wild
@kenosabi11 ай бұрын
That their both into weird consensual kinks? Both 18+ Both grown ass people Neither doing anything with kids Who cares. If he's such a man why would tell that man how to live his life?
@sycofya1677 Жыл бұрын
You can just tell Dakota isn't happy. He can lie to the audience but his eyes say it all. I hope he can let that relationship go
@carmencockfield4659 Жыл бұрын
I saw that too. The eyes are the windows to the soul. I can see that in his…just sadness
@antoinelyons5323 Жыл бұрын
@@carmencockfield4659 I agree he just using sex to escape his pain
@dragorn3212 Жыл бұрын
That fact of seeing your partner constantly get infected with hiv over and over again by bbc has turned him into a zombie
@dragorn3212 Жыл бұрын
@@timi_haze You really think heroin addict is doing it against his own will? point is sometimes people don't realize the trap they are in
@deannalola3999 Жыл бұрын
@@timi_hazeyou don’t have to judge, but we will. I actually fucking hate people like you. As long as something doesn’t affect you personally, anything goes. It’s sickening. People like you and the couple in the video ruin society. No morals. No true happiness. Nothing contributed.
@aleathanash5 ай бұрын
This interview totally left me feeling BAD.
@manar79784 ай бұрын
Personally it's more like EMPTY !!!
@evelyndavis15532 жыл бұрын
I hope Dakota is reading these comments. Don't walk away from her, run! You deserve so much more. I promise you better is right around the corner.
@EphemeralProductions2 жыл бұрын
it sounds like he don't WANT to come away from her though. He said he likes the arrangement they have.
@alysiath2 жыл бұрын
It looks like they’re both getting a sick kick out of what they’re doing. He will know how this makes her look and he likes it
@vladimir80352 жыл бұрын
@@EphemeralProductions He's literally miserable 😂 There's nothing about his person that slightly says he enjoys it. Westerners are fucked man.
@rachelk28972 жыл бұрын
It's called a lifestyle they have both chosen this
@travissys35042 жыл бұрын
Yup. It's probably right here in these comments.
@cyrc942 жыл бұрын
Typically not a fan of saying I'm happy someone is unable to get pregnant. But the fact that this Sarai is aiming for a fetish baby... absolutely not. I'm glad no child is in this situation. She is also not using condoms and that's super dangerous. They could have just been nervous or whatever but Sarai was giggling a lot. She doesn't seem as confident as she portray herself to be
@TaxMan17762 жыл бұрын
Hopefully she is ready for thr A I Ds
@madatarchives87252 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought what a terrible environment for a child a bunch of random guys using your mother like a bathroom stall
@OKBoomer2k2 жыл бұрын
They were definitely very nervous to be on camera. And I agree about the importance of being safe while going about what they do .
@AustinKoleCarlisle2 жыл бұрын
how's that different from a couple that wants to adopt?
@sallyann9852 жыл бұрын
@@AustinKoleCarlisle a couple who wants to adopt is giving a family to a baby that doesn't have it. A woman that wants a baby from a random guy as an extention of her kink is giving that baby a broken family.
@gabe-po9yi Жыл бұрын
Why someone would ever tell a child they were a failed abortion is beyond me. What a terrible thing for a child to know,
@Lambdamale.2 ай бұрын
Bud, get rid of her. She's having all the fun, and you're taking all the risk. You have no kids, you're free. There's no reason to stay.
@coltglass12702 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine the emotional damage this man has endured
@waitwhat5642 жыл бұрын
I reckon she has a bit too or plenty
@coltglass12702 жыл бұрын
@@waitwhat564 so much that her cup overfloweth… into his
@lisarodriguez69662 жыл бұрын
@@waitwhat564 yep, and he gets to bear the brunt of it.
@JonatanRonnlycke2 жыл бұрын
@Hajos Armandio-Liviu Enough with your prayers. You've spammed this on most of the comments. I encourage everyone to report this annoying person for spamming
@adrianpinder23352 күн бұрын
Yea I totally agree....
@gimmedimmy65332 жыл бұрын
She's a real piece of work. I hope he realises one day that life can be more than being gaslit 24/7 by a toxic dump.
@emilystevens63352 жыл бұрын
if he tries to leave, i bet she starts to beat him physically then
@reneegonzalez85602 жыл бұрын
No kidding!! F### up!!
@tydamon73162 жыл бұрын
And her F'ing laugh is disgusting.
@jalanit1232 жыл бұрын
@@emilystevens6335 or get him arrested for something he didn’t do
@anitakinnear67352 жыл бұрын
No woman can TAKE a man’s power, he GIVES it to her. Women in relationships with men who want to be submissive are almost universally unhappy with it.
@Agsj-mn8iv2 жыл бұрын
Keep children out of this. By intentionally having mixed children as a goal of your fetish is all levels of wrong. This is fetishizing mixed race children and is so awful. So awful.
@jennh20962 жыл бұрын
Especially considering she doesn't want the black daddy to raise the child. Nor does she want a relationship with a black man, just the D. This whole thing was just gross on every level. Thank God she hasn't gotten pregnant
@ts92162 жыл бұрын
It’s so fucking disturbing
@yvonnehall98562 жыл бұрын
I know right, what a freak
@ninam7062 жыл бұрын
As a mixed race person myself this makes my blood run cold......
@judymurray1912 жыл бұрын
I wonder if it is another way to humiliate him to the outside world to know she had a baby that was obviously not his biological child. Very disturbing to me!
@adrianbelcourt964027 күн бұрын
He was unwanted in the womb, and now living this life as an unwanted male. You can’t write this stuff! So sad.
@whoisharo46892 жыл бұрын
He looks depressed as hell through this whole thing and honestly, i got pulled down to that level through this. There is so much darkness and defect in all this.
@STN_HZ_FWNZ2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been to that low point of desperation, after words I felt ashamed that I let all that happened to me, there is nothing healthy about everything their doing and I only feel for the guy because I know if they do split he’ll feel nothing but regret
@Kinann2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she's really sucked him into this really dysfunctional delusion.
@nChambles2 жыл бұрын
She looks happy tho
@brienrichards875911 ай бұрын
This was the most disturbing conversation I’ve ever heard. She laughs about life like it’s a joke so glad she has not had kids!
@christianrivera49029 ай бұрын
Nah, you ain’t seen the incest survivor interview
@dragorn32128 ай бұрын
@@christianrivera4902 I have. This is far, far worse...
@tiptop12638 ай бұрын
@@christianrivera4902she looked just fine and well coping with it all, but this guy still hasn’t even got to the stage of accepting he’s living like shit. That girl got out of that situation many many many years ago while this guy is still living right in it
@chesito158 ай бұрын
really? this channel has literally interviewed abusers and sex offenders. I dont think this is healthy either but he is a consenting adult, he has a fetish. Plus this comments are full of misogyny, In my opinion what is bothering people is that she is a woman.
@serenapalmer12208 ай бұрын
Same thing I said. Her laugh annoys the crap out of me. There’s NOTHING funny about this interview whatsoever
@pretzelandmustard Жыл бұрын
Her snort laugh when he started to open up about his childhood sent chills down my spine. This woman is not a good person and needs psychiatric help, and Dakota needs to leave her in order to find actual love - which involves peace and respect. Life is too short for this kind of toxic abusive bullshit. This is beyond cuckolding and fetishism.
@clarawdk Жыл бұрын
Yeah that moment "triggered" me too! I was like 'huh? Was there something funny I didn't hear?'
@buttdunk1 Жыл бұрын
That's what that was? A laugh? WTF. 😂
@pbenjlo Жыл бұрын
While he was conforting towards her holding her back
@zaramichelle4613 Жыл бұрын
Time stamp?
@clarawdk Жыл бұрын
@@zaramichelle4613 1:45
@hannahb.23595 ай бұрын
They’re both F’d up but she skeezes me out way more than he does. That giggle of hers.
@cantbeatthebay47652 жыл бұрын
When someone says "it's just sex," you need to leave that relationship immediately. Being desensitized from the most intimate human connection is a horrifying trauma. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. I've heard this before, and it's always coming from people who never dealt with their trauma. Every single time. It's absolutely heartbreaking. I hope that he moves on. Stay strong, Dakota.
@WallhacksYT2 жыл бұрын
oh look, another youtube psychologist! I've never had any trauma in my life whatsoever and I'm intrigued by cuckoldry, what's your excuse for me? Fact is not everyone is vanilla with their sex life and it doesn't have to be due to some weird underlying trauma .. some people are just kinky and more open to explore sexually and some people aren't. After all, it's just sex
@weirdonextdoor1642 жыл бұрын
this Bitch should buy a new mirror because the one she got is lying to her........
@williampoole17422 жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as just sex, sex is the spiritual bond between a man and a woman, the more it's shared, the less it means. We need to go back in time morally, I hate what's happened to society
@trevor24142 жыл бұрын
@@williampoole1742 that's modern society bs saying bodycounts don't matter, and to have kids from exes 🤦♂️🤦♂️ some of us are smart enough to see past that BS though
@ytyu93732 жыл бұрын
My best friend was like that or was confusing sex for love... .... run run run
@bexxsubisti39572 жыл бұрын
“That perform better than I can.” That broke my heart for this man. If a woman said that, she’s a victim of emotional abuse. She’s a disgusting troll, I hope he finds someone else asap.
@brianc88212 жыл бұрын
I get what you're saying. But, you have to understand that he gets a sexual charge saying such things. It's exciting for him to feel lesser. He wasn't saying it out of self-pity.
@kelliestrickland76492 жыл бұрын
@@brianc8821 i don't agree did u hear his statement about the accident being small and not good enough. I couldn't see the hurt in his eyes. Heartbreaking.
@brianc88212 жыл бұрын
@@kelliestrickland7649 The basis for your argument is subjective. What translated as "hurt in his eyes" could reasonably be interpreted a dozen other ways. Where one sees hurt, another might see intense sexual gratification by self-debasement. There exist people who get off convincing themselves and others they are weaker.
@IcedcoffeeIV2 жыл бұрын
@@brianc8821 Even if that is true, this can still be abuse. One doesn’t negate the other.
@brianc88212 жыл бұрын
@@IcedcoffeeIV You see this as a parasitic relationship. I see it as a balanced symbiosis. Agree to disagree and leave it at that.
@BunnyBoiWinkWonk2 жыл бұрын
I’d like to see two separate interviews, it’s appalling how dehumanized Dakota is and I’d like to know what his true feelings are.
@NateTheGnat2 жыл бұрын
i'd like to see an interview of one / some of the men that she's getting with, and get their perspective too. it's very interesting.
@lisakrieg30762 жыл бұрын
@@NateTheGnat They are probably skells.. she. Is the epitome of a white woman overweight who has a sexual obsession with black men and vice versa..the black men like the big white gals as well. My only question is what in gods green earth is that man doing with her he seems much more normal then she does. WTF?! The gang bang stuff that almost made me lose my lunch!
@andocobo2 жыл бұрын
💯
@jacoblove28142 жыл бұрын
Some people are into being dehumanized. 🤷The knowledge that he wasn't wanted to such an extreme degree, probably pretty young, likely wired his brain permanently. It wasn't his fault, but fetishes usually get wired in that way. That said, she might be an actual demon. Like a succubus, or a vampire. Or, at least the human phenomena that inspired or reflects the idea of that sort of thing.
@nunyabizwacks67112 жыл бұрын
he still wouldnt tell the truth in a seperate interview. She got him on lock for sure
@MalaikaBarlow-lu8xq5 ай бұрын
She’s creeping me out especially with her laughing.
@charlottescully81302 жыл бұрын
Dakota seems shut down and depressed. Her giggling says everything. He seems to have sacrificed his happiness for hers. I hope one day he realizes he is good enough.
@PorscheCayenneLover2 жыл бұрын
@@deerheart87 I know, I feel so badly for Dakota. He deserves someone who loves him and treats him as his equal.
@kelliestrickland76492 жыл бұрын
He can do better.
@sharishar83112 жыл бұрын
I can’t stand that giggling…not to be mean.
@comfortouch2 жыл бұрын
I think she took a Xanax or some other psych med just before the interview. She started out as the 'shy girl' but you can see the medication kick in, her personality change and the giggling intensify.
@andocobo2 жыл бұрын
I’d be pretty fucken shut down and depressed too if I was him
@KarunaSatoriASMR2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is a one sided power dynamic although the point is to “humiliate”. That beautiful boy looks broken and I feel like this is something meant for just her and her only to fulfill some empty need she has… maybe I’m wrong but he does deserve better.
@AuntAlnico42 жыл бұрын
Yeah as the opening scene shows him I seen his eyes and they show pain she trauma.
@dakota12332 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@soeffinbadass2 жыл бұрын
Ok, I thought maybe it was just me. This WILL be a problem later on, especially at a rate of 2 a week. They are young and naive for thinking it won't be. He deserves someone who will glorify his dick, not constantly prove how substandard and unwanted his is to her.
@ossoduro77942 жыл бұрын
She is a low-class sgualdrina.
@mrs.haynes-r5z2 жыл бұрын
Exactly facts
@chrisman39652 жыл бұрын
Dakota looked like a hostage throughout this interview.
@bellawalker542 жыл бұрын
Yes 💯
@jamiestokes20082 жыл бұрын
Don’t get it twisted he eats those dudes nut out of her AND LIKES IT that’s what a cuckold does.
@meshacaudle25512 жыл бұрын
Stockholm syndrome
@nunyabizwacks67112 жыл бұрын
holy shit what a simp. Aint no way dude naturally likes this, hes made himself evolve to that point over time being a simp to this girl. Shit has to be miserable. And he doesnt even have sex at all. I dont care what anyone says, shit def not healthy for dude
@writingtotortureyou5 ай бұрын
Dude was blinking morris code trying to get saved
@emilyjane99013 ай бұрын
She was abused by a sexual sadist... and has now become a sexually abusive sadist. And she's got extreme control issues. So sad for him. "He doesn't really have a choice" is so sick.... true BDSM has a safe word & is a choice.
@undynetheundying54053 ай бұрын
This!
@MarcoNegrisEye3 ай бұрын
Yet another "expert"...you may be surprised to view their x profile. It's a lifestyle that suits them, it's only sex at the end of the day. The amateur psychiatrists on here are more worrying than the couple 😂
@MrCatatonic2 жыл бұрын
Dakota mentions his weiner size a couple times in this interview. It would seem this is a major insecurity for him & probably how this cackling succubus controls him. Dakota, if you're reading this, take your self respect back and find a woman who loves you. Your partner doesn't love you and you no doubt love her. I hope you find someone that loves you.
@AotearoaAnge2 жыл бұрын
100% agree! He seems to think so little of himself, it's awful.
@ALT-vz3jn2 жыл бұрын
Cackling succubus - the perfect description for her.
@myeyeswentdeaf62132 жыл бұрын
@Leslie Roark He mentioned he was in a really bad motorcycle accident. I’m wondering if maybe it effected his being able to perform. I don’t just mean E.D. I mean if he screwed his back up so bad that he can’t really handle it no more. That would explain him not really being all that happy about this situation but not having the confidence to find another woman. Idk, just a thought.
@wizardofahhhs7592 жыл бұрын
And that B.S. about blacks being bigger is nothing more than a myth, having been in the locker room showers after football practice made me realize that.
@freezo2442 жыл бұрын
When I taught middle school, we had a (beautiful, funny, female) campus security officer who would warn boys off weed saying habitual smoking, esp at an early age, will stunt the size of their dicks-and she was dead serious. There’s some evidence that this is true but… Anyone know?
@BabyGirl_102410 ай бұрын
She has belittled him so much he doesnt even believe in himself anymore. We love you dakota and i really hope you feel better and you realize how good you really are your completly selfless ❤
@billmitchell33297 ай бұрын
Lol!😂
@1stunna916 ай бұрын
I'm sure it was all the other girls who turned him down who made him not believe in himself and to accept this. Not just her.
@teresaorange87316 ай бұрын
So sad
@abdielleon9555 ай бұрын
Guy looks really sad, the eyes don't lie. Hope he gets something better for himself.
@stevenwahl34405 ай бұрын
You DO realize that he's doing the black guys too right? That's why he doesn't have sex with her. He wants what she's getting. And gets involved when invited. They are sick, disgusting people 🤮
@theegreeneyedgamer2 жыл бұрын
The body language and expressions of these two spoke so much louder than their actual words. I can't wait for the follow-up.
@rachelh18722 жыл бұрын
And what do u feel like they said
@danahall43462 жыл бұрын
Yeah, same question.
@jamestateIII2 жыл бұрын
Yea....I didn't see any touching
@elledix35752 жыл бұрын
Body language that was visible to me was Sarai not being able to say a single line without a nervous giggle at the end (guilt?) and the open-armed shrug Dakota often uses (surrender?)
@danahall43462 жыл бұрын
@@elledix3575 Yeah you may be right.
@christopherbell47755 ай бұрын
When they said they were 29 and 30 I nearly chocked on my tea.
@shivangi37692 жыл бұрын
Dakota needs a big hug. I just...out of words. His inner child is broken.
@joesmith92162 жыл бұрын
no, he's in an abusive relationship.
@shivangi37692 жыл бұрын
@@joesmith9216 Didn't understand the comment. Ofc, this is a toxic trauma bond. Edit: Healthy people may sometimes fall into toxic/abusive relationships but they also know to set up healthy boundaries and leave. Dakota being a good boss or biker is a wholly different aspect of his personality. He would absolutely need therapy for his issues from the past, whether that's childhood or this relationship. While Mark does amazing interviews, it's still just a snapshot of someone's life. I wrote what I felt for Dakota because I'm an empath. Cannot understand why you'd tag on to mine instead of your own comment.
@joesmith92162 жыл бұрын
@@shivangi3769 He did not seem to have a bad childhood, he's in a abusive relationship with this freak though.
@BeeKay44442 жыл бұрын
Agreed. He deserves much better
@kitler842 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree. This is beyond rough. You know he's broken
@kathrynparis2252 жыл бұрын
I sure hope we get to see a new video with Dakota, divorced healthy and living life happily.
@i.cant.sleep.anymore2 жыл бұрын
They aren't married, thankfully. Clearly this dude is into it though, otherwise he would leave.
@Addygoat2 жыл бұрын
@@i.cant.sleep.anymore exactly everyone saying have self respect but I know he into that shit
@sydnayallen67622 жыл бұрын
@@i.cant.sleep.anymore He's not into it at all... He just loves her so much that he puts up with it.. Obviously they used to do all this swinging and stuff so clearly he wants to be involved... Poor guy is just too in love with her to do anything about it... smh I mean he doesn't have sex at all anymore... Not even with her.. How could someone be "into" nothing.
@jackalope_hunter2 жыл бұрын
@@Addygoat it's so good, people don't realize how erotic it is to see a black man doing your girl roughly. have you tried it?
@Zuuh-su7oy2 жыл бұрын
@@sydnayallen6762 he says he goes WITH her to hotels. He likes and he's watching
@NotStewie3652 жыл бұрын
Mark is VERY good at being neutral in his videos and he is very open minded. But you can tell that he feels bad for Dakota and finds their relationship unreasonable. I feel so bad for Dakota as well! His confidence is clearly shattered and he deserves so much better
@TheNexusChan2 жыл бұрын
How can you tell that he feels sorry for Dakota and you said he's good at being neutral?
@TheNexusChan2 жыл бұрын
@𝑑𝑜𝑙𝑙 ⋆˚⸝⸝ I mean, wouldn't you be surprised if you're never met s cuckold couple?
@bing7play2 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%
@lukkymee20002 жыл бұрын
I agree. I loved when Mark said to Dakota that allowing that beast to deny Dakota basic love sex and affection shows how Dakota selflessly truly loves her to sacrifice his own happiness. Of course her toxic narcissistic ass wasn’t picking up what he was throwing down. She’s all about me me me me me. This isn’t a cuckhold, this is a narcissistic toxic mentally ill demeaning and brutal excuse of a human being who’s found someone to take all of her self hatred out on. She’s garbage. And he’s a sweet but damaged man. He deserves better.
@stevensonjc212 жыл бұрын
I agree , this is the first time I’ve seen him not be impartial and sort of ask questions in a way to get a response from Dakota. Dakota was the master once….and this happens where the man is sleeping with numerous women and their wife or GF is not….perhaps the woman doesn’t watch but for Him to be so concerned that Dakota is being used or mistreated says more about him than Dakota
@t00lbag715 ай бұрын
Her constant "chuckling" is a dead giveaway of huge insecurities.... And she's somehow diverted those insecurities to her "man" to make herself feel better.
@moondog90862 жыл бұрын
"Your happiness is more important than his pride." That one statement by Mark sums up this entire interview for me. I hope Dakota finds his self-worth and confidence again, and meets someone who loves him unconditionally as he so deserves. She couldn't handle that because she's still that shy little girl with no self-esteem...she's using him.
@lisaanna28992 жыл бұрын
She's the insecure one here! Absolutely would kick off if he were to bed a stunner! Because let's face it she's nothing to look at or fancy!
@stephaniesiddall30122 жыл бұрын
MoonDog. You hit that nail on the head. How horrible to climb up over someone in order to achieve what little satisfaction in yourself that you can.
@moondog90862 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniesiddall3012 Plus have the audacity to try to convince him and us that she loves him like she says she does. It's all about her & she even admits it. I consider myself a pretty open-minded and nonjudgmental person, and this is none of my business, but that's not love imo. I think they are convenient for each other, and I say whatever works for them. If they are truly happy - good for them, but their body language made me feel like he's not a happy person & he seems like a great guy. Seems like the dynamics of their relationship went south(for him) after his accident Maybe Mark will do a follow up soon lol.
@pamelakeegstra47472 жыл бұрын
@@moondog9086 k
@roselikethewine2 жыл бұрын
She’s not shy, she’s no little girl. She’s a grown ass woman and a brat who thinks Dakota is a toy who she can play with. I’m just 5 mins in and don’t like her at all… He said he likes it and she says he doesn’t have a choice. Wow.
@GL4SSHEART Жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for Dakota. It breaks my heart because his self esteem is floored. He deserves real love and for him to feel appreciated.
@iCutTrees336 Жыл бұрын
Lol all these comments saying he deserves better he’s a bitch a beta so this is wat he gets
@angelsbutterflies6293 Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely sickening and he doesn't deserve this. She is a sick woman and if she loved him she wouldn't do the things she does and that laugh omg makes me sick.
@DC1_ Жыл бұрын
@@angelsbutterflies6293 you don’t understand the fetish he enjoys this. This turns him on.
@azure8696 Жыл бұрын
🤣 we need to save this man ASAP
@miltonallen558 Жыл бұрын
Don t be. He's very happy being blacks man bitch... Lucky man when you think about it.... LOL.
@broderickoliver44502 жыл бұрын
Imagine not being sexually satisfied in your relationship. Now imagine your partner is, and with literal droves of other people. Meanwhile you’ve gotta act like you’re okay with it. And all you get out of the deal is a couple of bikes that you’re probably paying for. The fact that she tries to act like him having a couple of bikes is even with her having sex with all the men she wants, is sickening. You can tell she hangs that over his head.
@feliciar10642 жыл бұрын
Except he says he is satisfied, why shouldn't we trust him?
@amoxl1142 жыл бұрын
@@feliciar1064 can you read body language even remotely?
@AustinKoleCarlisle2 жыл бұрын
it's not just him being unsatisfied that's the problem, it's the fact that he's aware he can't please his partner.
@broderickoliver44502 жыл бұрын
@@feliciar1064 sexually he’s not satisfied for sure. He said himself that he still has a sexual appetite yet she will not have sex with him. Nor can he have sex with other people bc of how possessive she is. And he’s manipulated into doing sex acts with people he doesn’t want to bc “the sub does what the master says”. He might be secure and have some degree of happiness in this relationship but that doesn’t mean he can’t be dissatisfied with certain aspects of the relationship.
@bellawalker542 жыл бұрын
She’s evil period’T
@Chick4choice7 ай бұрын
They seem to enjoy their power dynamic. People assume her husband is being abused, but this is something he wants and enjoys. Two consenting adults can decide how they want to live their lives.
@michby7 ай бұрын
People REALLY don’t understand male submissives. When 50 Shades came out people seemed to “get it”, but if the roles had been reversed it never would have been as popular. I agree with you. This seems like a loving couple who has a kinky lifestyle. They’re brave to open up to the whole world about it and endure this kind of judgement. Dakota SPECIFICALLY said that women are always telling him he’s being abused, mistreated, etc and he laughs at that and says “hey, I’m happy like this!”
@Viper238597 ай бұрын
Yeah he's a degenerate just like her
@morganr44262 жыл бұрын
Dakota is handsome, kind, caring and hardworking... this was heartbreaking to watch. You could see in his physicality how uncomfortable and embarrassed he is. I get he's an adult and has a choice, but I feel like he's been with her so long that he can't picture his life without her. He deserves so much better, and it's very sad he doesn't see that. And her constant giggling is frankly annoying. It feels like she's laughing at him not with him...
@deadlyqueens2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I hope one day he falls in love with one of the girls his chatting with.
@CodeUnknownTV2 жыл бұрын
Where is his Viking blood? He has no heart. No balls left. He’s a good person seemingly, but he doesn’t “deserve” anything if he doesn’t have the heart to do it.
@nledaig2 жыл бұрын
@@CodeUnknownTV So is she, He is using her,
@jimmcneal52922 жыл бұрын
Lol he doesn't deserve anything better
@scottycunningham14132 жыл бұрын
@@CodeUnknownTV he's a weak poor excuse of a man. I'm glad he'll never have kids.
@riversiderambo31062 жыл бұрын
Her nervous laugh every time she says something cruel.... He could do so much better.
@OKBoomer2k2 жыл бұрын
Nervous laughter from being on camera
@Name-oz4lq2 жыл бұрын
@@OKBoomer2k the rest of it is nervous laughter, laughing directly after being cruel to him is not nerves. There’s a difference.
@pjnix56182 жыл бұрын
I don’t pick up sinister vibes from her - but I guess others might think he giggling is cruel. I think she’s just plain annoying and suffers from low self esteem.
@bohemiababy42642 жыл бұрын
She's not likable. Poor Dakota.
@bellawalker542 жыл бұрын
Yes I can do way way way way better 100%
@gunfreak10118 ай бұрын
As a black man I wish yall could all have seen my face when she said she has a “black only preference” 😞😞😞 pure shame
@shannonwireman85848 ай бұрын
Someone said in a comment that the men are using her for what they want, and disposing her like trash. I don't agree with that. She's using them like they're objects of her pleasure, and then putting them away until she feels the need to use them again. I'm sure the men are enjoying just as much as she is. But they have some major issues themselves for liking that. My husband is black, and I take offense to this. Any self respecting black man should too. She doesn't care anything about them. It's like she thinks of black men as her toys. But she'd never be in a relationship with any of them. They're being disrespected the same way that some men use women just for sex. If she were a man doing this to women, people would be outraged. It's like you see in movies set back when slavery was normal everywhere. Some white men, and women, saw them as trash, yet would use them for sexual pleasure. That's what this reminds me of! This is disrespectful to the black community. My husband wouldn't look at her twice. He respects himself. We highly respect each other. Poor Dakota. If he doesn't get away from her grip there's going to be lasting damage. There probably already is. I think this may be one of the videos that angers me most. There are good men in this world who'd give their wife anything, and everything they possibly could. But they're hard to find. Yet she finds one and treats him like this. It makes me so mad 🤬
@omatrix128 ай бұрын
the fact there’s a gang bang worth of black men willing to hit killed my soul a little
@kikimo39007 ай бұрын
I was horrified.
@Northwaybaby7 ай бұрын
@@iamantoinaythey ok with it they sleeping with her
@jerry-uy7gp7 ай бұрын
You know you want some
@kimerlyt15 ай бұрын
Not using protection with random men & tryna get pregnant??! This can’t be real life 🤦🏽♀️
@lorelei714 Жыл бұрын
I’m 13 minutes in and I can’t take it anymore. Not just her incessant giggling but the sadness in his eyes it’s too much.
@Gassy_Nooch Жыл бұрын
i. LITERALLY just checked how far i was into this hell and im 13 mins. this is horrible. so sad to watch
@Sindiswa_D Жыл бұрын
Bro literally I’m at 13 rn too wtf. This sucks.
@FireHazzard4004 Жыл бұрын
14 is terrible lmao explaining her "come fuck me " tattoo that she proudly displays on her chest
@JF-gy7tt Жыл бұрын
Its gets worse guys…. So sick, so sad
@chrisest19659 ай бұрын
I gave up a 7:56
@tb00692 жыл бұрын
Dakota, I spend money on dumb things all the time, but it doesn't mean my spouse gets to sleep with other people because of it. You deserve more and better brotha.
@maler84292 жыл бұрын
he only thinks about playstation 6. she promised it to him after she do 1000th guy.
@dumbdonny48242 жыл бұрын
That was so sad to hear and at the end of the day I know it's just a mixture between her gas lighting and manipulation and him using money and objects to fill the void
@robertwalkley46652 жыл бұрын
I bet he's the one earning that money in the first place too!
@no-lm9je2 жыл бұрын
I pray this man finds a woman to treat him well.. this is so terribly toxic.
@24tommyst2 жыл бұрын
She treats him great. He's a cuck and she treats him as one.
@triple_gem_shining2 жыл бұрын
Ya I agree. Disgusting
@flawns2 жыл бұрын
he can't. Until he decides to become a man and know what his self worth is
@mike79842 жыл бұрын
Why do u feel bad for a grown men that allows this from this nasty pig at that. I don’t feel sorry for him at all. He’s laughing at himself. Likes the humiliation. Clown.
@catherinethorpe47172 жыл бұрын
His Gay guys!!!
@zoe96322 жыл бұрын
I firmly believe the accident that left him incapacitated for over a year WAS the agent of change in their relationship. They admitted to having a healthy sex life between them prior to the accident. She nursed him for a year (he couldn't wipe his bum let alone have sex). It was within this nurse/patient time, that she went elsewhere to get her sexual needs met (with his approval) & the dynamics changed. She probably eventually viewed him in a non sexual way, possibly resentful of the lack of sex with him, the nursing she gave & morphed into the dominant partner who only enjoyed sex with black men. The problem is they didn't renew & renegotiate their relationship once he got better.
@FrenchPrinceofBel-Air2 жыл бұрын
Good assumption imo
@lovealwaysdd2 жыл бұрын
@@yarly3180 look closer
@altalty60232 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of this cuck stuff is racist in a very strange and unhealthy way. Even regular interracial porn has a lot of racist undertones. "Look at this black BEAST defile this pure innocent white girl!" It's odd that the porn/sex industry doesn't get called out for racism like other forms of media.
@ammcd20122 жыл бұрын
Excellent comment...it's a tall mountain to climb when it comes to viewing someone sexually after you are tasked with their day to day medical care and hygiene. Too bad they couldn't afford a home Healthcare nurse so that he could remain her lover and not just a patient...
@Lena-uh3ky2 жыл бұрын
@@yarly3180 not really
@jacko8592 жыл бұрын
Man, Dakota just looks so defeated. So much life ahead of him, and this woman is slowly seeping as much of it as she can from him. I just want to give him a big hug, buy him a beer, and listen to his story - without the input of Sarai.
@redman65782 жыл бұрын
When she showed that tattoo is when all hope was lost for the relationship
@savagesfortruth2 жыл бұрын
He deserve more than Her ugly ass looking troll
@Photoarchives912 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t drink😅
@davecurry56042 жыл бұрын
His cock also looks defeated 😕
@redefinedliving5974 Жыл бұрын
Hes just 30
@stilwells4 ай бұрын
These people dont deserve disgust, they deserve compassion and help.
@Officially_tiamonet2 жыл бұрын
Her obsession with control shows her insecurity. Her obsession with race, having mixed kids, it’s really weird. But it shows the trauma she clearly has in her life. Hurt people, hurt people unfortunately. I hope they both find themselves separately. Love is a beautiful thing and everyone should experience it. At least once.
@nickc19132 жыл бұрын
My guess about the race could be simply because she thinks they all have a bigger piece, which by the sounds of it they all do compared to her partner. But also maybe like a fuck you to her potentially racist family, upper middle class she said 💁♂️
@Officially_tiamonet2 жыл бұрын
@@nickc1913 yeah I get it but using an entire race to get back at her family is another reason why she needs help. She’s trying to bring children in this world, for her to raise any type of child with her way of thinking would be awful for the child. And also the stereotype of black guys having bigger 🍆 may or may not be true. But my boyfriend is white and it’s great 🤷🏾♀️
@nickc19132 жыл бұрын
@@Officially_tiamonet yeah i agree its a bit of a stereotype, if you're looking for someone with a monster on them you'll find them no matter the race i'd say haha but yeah un treated mental illness is rampant in the fetish community, lots and lots of bent ideas of what a healthy sexual relationship is, having said that, i'm sure theres definitely worse people having children out there. a healthier version of this would be him seeing other people too, she definitely has him battered down, a lot of times fetish or kinks are people actually replaying trauma, its a way of processing it.
@zuwenamcduffie7892 жыл бұрын
And thank God she will never have any
@20FreeWill2 жыл бұрын
Hurt people don't always hurt people some times they just keep getting hurt , alot of people are just selfish and hurt people or just horrible
@keepitmetal8404 Жыл бұрын
The pure joy she gets in doing this to him is unreal. Run man RUN!
@kindergamer110 Жыл бұрын
Was just about to say…”RUN, Dakota, RUN!!!”
@mad9023 Жыл бұрын
I agree w/ You. Certainly not my ideal hubby . They need God 🙏 imo
@cezarab5236 Жыл бұрын
She sounds like a narcissist tbh. No regard for his well-being or his feelings, humiliating and mentally abusing him to keep him around and only concerning herself with what SHE wants. Her answering "Like he has a choice hihi" to the interviewer asking Dakota "Are you OK with this?" The poor man is a victim of abuse. The sad part is that when I first saw them, I though he was actually handsome and he seems so sweet, so he can definitely do better than her.
@efukt6824 Жыл бұрын
You know the sexual marketplace is fucked when a conventionally unattractive woman has so much leverage in a relationship to demand cuckoldry from her husband and find numerous other men to have sex with her, while her husband cant find anyone else
@dragorn3212 Жыл бұрын
the only liking blck men part is the nail in the coffin. This lady is pure garbage
@WYOGAL1890 Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for Dakota. He has been broken down. I hope he finds someone that loves him and shares a good relationship with him.
@tonihajdaj2640 Жыл бұрын
Wow mainstream really can’t even try to understand bdsm
@jilianl40607 ай бұрын
I'll bet you she loves him more than anyone she has ever loved her whole life
@tinkhix5 ай бұрын
What is the hell did I just watch?😂
@IcedcoffeeIV2 жыл бұрын
This is abuse. She literally said, “My relationship”. This isn’t kink, it’s control.
@kckrox69112 жыл бұрын
They don’t even have sex with each other. This is something else. She’s punishing him for her childhood abuse.
@lisaanna28992 жыл бұрын
Her giggling annoys me! I'd like to know how she would feel if he went with a fitter woman! He's definitely downgrading himself with that lump!
@misterwallace34792 жыл бұрын
He could leave anytime he wants
@rossgraham82488 ай бұрын
@@misterwallace3479not how that works when you’re being manipulated and demoralized.
@misterwallace34798 ай бұрын
@@rossgraham8248 He allows it. Therefore he could walk away from it.
@dom-ru5cc2 жыл бұрын
Dakota, if you’re willing to stay loyal and committed to a person that does this, you can find a decent person who is more than grateful for your time and loyalty. If you are unhappy do not settle for this
@TRNTLU82 жыл бұрын
Beautiful thoughts!!! You are right.
@emilyk57182 жыл бұрын
This shows everything said by the biggest men's advocacy channel is true, wow. ( KZbin channel is "Fresh and Fit") They say It's very difficult for MOST men to get women. The small amount of men who have options have high-earning careers. The rest of men settle.
@networkdude13322 жыл бұрын
@@emilyk5718 What is the implication? .......... That because of this Women are treating Men in a cruel manner?
@CalvinCarter19892 жыл бұрын
@@emilyk5718 there's womanizers that are broke too. . . You don't need money to get with women.
@Idiocracyhasbecomereality2 жыл бұрын
@@emilyk5718 Dakota is a loyal man who is supportive- he helped his girlfriend pursue education. I think that’s more than a lot of men have to offer, he has lots of options outside of this.
@dennistrawick3 ай бұрын
This laugh she keeps doing is like demon possession,with this subject matter
@EpicCoolGuy21 Жыл бұрын
Every time she laughs, I grind my teeth. This is just heartbreaking and infuriating to watch. Dakota deserves a lot better.
@corporalchloe Жыл бұрын
Her laugh is horrible.
@stillcoping Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Such a piece of trash.
@yogioasis4557 Жыл бұрын
That laugh is disgusting
@melissathomas7402 Жыл бұрын
Annoying as hell!
@weegee_1996 Жыл бұрын
Her laugh is infuriating
@PANKAJKUMAR-ji4rh9 ай бұрын
Dakota is a perfect example of someone who is physically still alive but his soul evaporated centuries ago. You do not share something you genuinely love.
@serenapalmer12208 ай бұрын
Agreed
@alexia9647 ай бұрын
Something or someone?
@FXGRIEF877 ай бұрын
I dont agree. You cant do it, that doesnt mean other people feel the same way.
@Enoxificatti7 ай бұрын
@@FXGRIEF87I disagree with that. If he knew there were healthier ways of fulling his needs instead of sexual gratification through sexual-degradation, he would see an even wider world of opportunities.
@lisahernandez-cheeks81422 жыл бұрын
DAKOTA! Blink twice and we'll send help! She has truly reconditioned him because of her own self loathing. This interview pierced my soul. It was so uncomfortable from first giggle to last.
@playingwithkash21342 жыл бұрын
She got Dakota pussy whipped, that’s what that is. She started fckn other guys and he found out and was about to leave and he begged her not to and then compromised with her. Allowed her to fck all the black men she wants as long as she doesn’t leave. (And she subconsciously knows she’s not gonna meet too many other good guys who will love her like him. And she doesnt have many other options other than being used for sex, and the fact that Dakota is a bisexual man, whether he wants to admit to it or not)
@benfranklin36382 жыл бұрын
That giggle of hers is really annoying.
@Jpann3332 жыл бұрын
Her giggling is so uncomfortable!!
@marissa61132 жыл бұрын
Yeah the laugh is extremely unsettling.
@Techie12242 жыл бұрын
she giggle like me ,, i think its anxiety ,, i think they are lovely persons but its really strange that she doesn't allow him to touch her or to have fun with other women !!
@breafaith4515Ай бұрын
Being sexually attracted to black men and then wanting a mixed child is so weird to me …
@MarcoNegrisEyeАй бұрын
Yeah. Cos you seem a paragon of virtue.
@breafaith4515Ай бұрын
@@MarcoNegrisEye you don’t see how that’s weird?
@MarcoNegrisEyeАй бұрын
@@breafaith4515 honestly, there's more going on here in terms of kink play than most are failing to grasp. Cuckolding in itself is a lifestyle dating back to the beginning of time. There's different reasons why a couple will test it out and then decide if it's right for them. But you don't seem like a shrinking violet yourself, that's why I don't understand why you can't at least acknowledge the play ain't for you but it's still exciting for some?
@breafaith4515Ай бұрын
@@MarcoNegrisEye who mentioned anything about the fact that the kink they have is wrong or weird? To each their own. I said having a fetish for BLACK men and only wanting to have a mixed CHILD is weird.
@MarcoNegrisEyeАй бұрын
@@breafaith4515 I know that. Ok the child thing is a whole different story. But being attracted to Black men is weird? If you have never been sexually attracted to a Black man then ok but I don't think that in itself is out of the ordinary.
@tonysopranosduck4162 жыл бұрын
Dakota, you don’t need to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. I pray you find someone who shows you how absolutely perfect and worthy you are.
@mercedes5232 жыл бұрын
Love that saying.! I’m gonna use it.
@brooke47242 жыл бұрын
Amen! 🥺 This one is devastatingly sad to watch. He's such an angel.
@PAGL20208 ай бұрын
After watching a second time, my thought is that this couple are engulfed in a serious trauma bond. For her, it's being used and discarded by random men and then running into the arms of her boyfriend for the comfort he provides. He in turn relives his trauma by being in a relationship where he is unwanted and unloved by the main woman in his life, and Sarai has taken the role of his mother. Really sad. Therapy is what they both need. But chances are they wouldn't be together after that. This is a trauma bond, and without the trauma they've got nothing in common.
@RuskiyStandardRaw7 ай бұрын
Damn.
@G00dVib3z7 ай бұрын
😢 That’s deep 💔
@jrosner61237 ай бұрын
Correct. And this is an EXTREME case.
@busterdouglas5937 ай бұрын
I watched it again a second time, your analysis is very insightful.
@steph329137 ай бұрын
Wow!
@YungBetts2 жыл бұрын
And the noble peace prize goes to Mark for not standing up and slapping the hell out these people!
@cassandraclapp66672 жыл бұрын
You mean slapping the hell outta her. Just wait until he realizes he could get girls because of this show. Would love to see her face when he walks away from her
@cactuscallie50902 жыл бұрын
NOBEL. Sorry. I'm a bit of a grammar Nazi.
@Juahm692 жыл бұрын
Lmao right !!
@rachelhendricks29982 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀
@livefromtheground72742 жыл бұрын
lol
@Free2BeYou2 ай бұрын
You do not need her, Dakota. You can have your motorcycle even if you're not in a relationship with her.
@beckylindvall58012 жыл бұрын
I watch many interviews. I don’t think I’ve ever disliked a person as much as this woman. Her disrespect for her husband is hateful. Her inane giggle was grating.
@Angelina-pi2cc2 жыл бұрын
He likes it too he talked her into it.
@chadstepp6632 жыл бұрын
She's a selfish nasty chick that's for sure... Dude deserves a lot better... Put him on TRT already..💩💩💩
@MsTweakk2 жыл бұрын
I think that’s a nervous giggle. I don’t see her as maniacal or enjoying any true pain. I see a lot of love in this relationship. I think there’s a bit more to the story in his ability to have sex, I see Mark edited a clip out of the interview, so something they choose to keep private which is fine. This is his way of remaining intimate with his partner. People get so heated when it’s a woman with many partners rather than a man. It does still break my heart that he doesn’t seem to think his size and ability are enough to keep a woman satisfied, but I’m glad they found a way to make it all work. Very interesting interview.
@RespectHumility2 жыл бұрын
I agree but he’s just as much at fault
@chrisvSTL2 жыл бұрын
She has issues herself. To just randomly pick up a stranger and bring him into the home is absolutely craziness. They both have some mental health issues I would be willing to bet.
@passtheawksshow2 жыл бұрын
I just want to give Dakota a hug man, go get a beer, something. He seems like such a sweet and well-spoken dude. I hope he finds his true happiness.
@robynbarkley66872 жыл бұрын
Then bring him home to me. I’ll love him and let him be a man
@jellybean29502 жыл бұрын
Agree. Dakota seems like a lost puppy. He could really use a real buddy. I feel sad for him 😢
@WallhacksYT2 жыл бұрын
why don't you think this is his version of happiness? Do you know Dakota better then himself?
@100poundsdownandcounting32 жыл бұрын
@@robynbarkley6687 Same 😍
@Catchyalater_Fishing_Co2 жыл бұрын
@@WallhacksYT the man is literally seeking out degradation. the fact that hes on camera showing the world hes a cuck is a HIGH level of self degradation. its literally a comfort zone for him at this point. thats not happiness, its just the comfortable and humiliating hole hes eased into over time. he needs help and needs to get far away from this absolute train wreck hes with
@TerrorHuntin Жыл бұрын
I was genuinely getting so angry when she said she'd rather have a child with some random fucking dude than the man who's sacrificed his happiness and pride for her
@pastelyouth81 Жыл бұрын
Clearly he doesn’t respect himself so she can’t respect him and it’s what he basically wants. To be treated like trash. It gets him off.
@mollyram2997 Жыл бұрын
It's part of the kink. I know that's weird but it is what it is.
@ZFern9390 Жыл бұрын
Kink involves respect. This isn't kink.
@samartht3072 Жыл бұрын
@@ZFern9390 it's part of the kink, but this feels like a trauma bond, more so when she expressed no sexual desire towards him after the accident and continued with his idea
@puddygr698511 ай бұрын
Imagine raising a child around a sexual kink...gross.
@SouperDave2 ай бұрын
His body language and facial expressions say he does not like it. He’s a weak broken person. She’s selfish and childish and of course she doesn’t wanna leave him because nobody else is gonna let her do that shit so she gets to have her cake and eat it too.
@KittyMeow19932 жыл бұрын
Okay so I tried hard, despite how sad Dakota looks, to just accept that this is their lifestyle and their choice, but they lost me at 9:15. I know sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but intimacy is still important. It’s despicable that this man doesn’t have sex with his partner and isn’t allowed to have sex with anyone else either while she gets railed multiple times a week? That man deserves so much better. I hope he realizes that one day.
@seanjones22612 жыл бұрын
i made it to exactly 9:15 and came to the comments to see how tf you guys made it through this
@PyrexPickleBlowfish2 жыл бұрын
This guy is likely to kill himself one day…maybe not but this relationship needs analysis.
@dianakamalamars83972 жыл бұрын
I feel ya, but I suffered through and at the very end something came out that explained and gave me a deeper understanding.
@HexagonSun9902 жыл бұрын
you know that they can be intimate in other ways right?...
@arreola8912 жыл бұрын
Thee worst statement is when she said, "if your dominant tells you to suck D you suck D" I just about threw my phone across the room. So disgusting!🤦♀️
@llunaeldas80552 жыл бұрын
The sadness in his eyes says everything.
@lisastewart58852 жыл бұрын
Yup
@vdg53462 жыл бұрын
What a misogynistic world that if a man is submissive, he must be sad. He can't choose it. It can't be his personality. He is oppressed. 🙄
@EmitaiFlexi2 жыл бұрын
You're projecting, bud.
@OM-or3im2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too
@DogWithHat.2 жыл бұрын
He likes it
@djskootr132 жыл бұрын
The laughs after every traumatic experience she tells says it all. This was a hard one to watch. The world has so many dark corners we don’t usually see until it’s brought to light. Another eye opening interview.
@NetiNeti-gm5bz2 жыл бұрын
Yes every darkness must come to light. As Jesus said: Truth shall set you free. Everyone should express their trauma freely so they can eventually learn to let go and forgive
@khalilahd.2 жыл бұрын
Yeah you can just tell by her body language and nervous laughs that she still hasn’t dealt with the trauma. Breaks my heart
@nicholaspetrilli39712 жыл бұрын
@@Stop.At.Nothing thank you
@djskootr132 жыл бұрын
@@Stop.At.Nothing I will never understand, and I don’t ever want to understand, how depraved a human can be to harm a child. I look at my kids and I see the purest form of innocence and unconditional love. It’s becoming more and more apparent that there’s a lot of soulless people out there, so keep your guard up.