CURRENT MENTAL HEALTH UPDATE (SPOILER: I’M NOT OKAY) | Katie Carney

**CURRENT MENTAL HEALTH UPDATE (SPOILER: I’M NOT OKAY) | Katie Carney**
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[@moonlighter6]

"I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that." - Robin Williams

[@elenavivi2662]

Wow. Yes!

[@theresamitchell2111]

Absolutely!

[@rachelloretto4833]

Agreed

[@jenniferornduff7835]

That's heart breaking! I was shocked when he died.

[@marthafazzini9835]

That is very very true. Lucille Ball. Carol Burnett. They made us laugh. Yet they had incredible sadness.

[@davidpickett9133]

Severe Depression. General Anxiety Disorder. Chronic Lymphocytic Leukemia. 5 years ago my wife died. I get up every day. we're all just finding our way.

[@splolsp]

David Pickett sorry to hear about your wife. We’re all finding our way. Keep on getting up. 💕

[@davidpickett9133]

@jerry conlee God Bless you

[@stephie640]

Truth. One day at a time.

[@brookem4904]

So sorry for the loss of your wife :(

[@nicdee3444]

I just lost my mother a week ago. I am literally trying to find my way now. I have a 2.5 year old son that forces me to get up every day. I so wish I could find away back to my parents. I know it cannot be but I just miss them so much :(

[@sandrap.6530]

I am an old woman & the one good thing about getting old is you stop obsessing about people or things, start seeing situations in a detached yet empathetic way, like all the sharp edges have been worn down & expectations are somewhat lowered. Unless a person is physically or emotionally hurting you, don't write a person off because you can learn & grow from every encounter, every relationship. Maybe they can grow from knowing you, too. Nobody is perfect, nothing is black or white, everybody has their own issues, and we are all on this journey together - crossing paths.

[@lindajoysparks436]

Sandra P. Love this comment

[@sc00b3rt]

This video just hit me hard. My son is horribly depressed. It scares me. I sat with him until 3 am. Just sitting with someone who is struggling can help them through a tough time.

[@AwkwardAnxiousJennifer]

Thank you for being there for your son. My mom has gotten better, but when I was first diagnosed with depression, she told me to just stop feeling sorry for myself. It makes a world of difference when your loved ones try to support you, even if they don't understand.

[@elnoraligon]

I been depressed my self he might not tell you but you being there makes all the diffetent

[@youngmemories1351]

my daughter (23) has been suffering for 12 years. Therapy once a week for 12 years and I have gone my self to learn how to deal with it. Its been amazing. Hard to find a good therapist, but worth looking for one. Good luck and Ill be thinking of you!

[@sharonhutchins5784]

sc00b3rt I also have a severely depressed son. I’ve been on the phone for hours with him for hours because he lives in another state. Just because someone doesn’t talk about it, doesn’t mean they’re so much better, as Katie is saying. I tell my son to call me anytime 24/7. I’m here for him. Same for my nieces and nephews. I’ve been terrified for my son’s life and well-being. I’ve been on the phone hours with my nephew ... and I’d do it for anyone who needs it. It’s draining, emotionally for me, because I just want him to be better and I can’t fix it. I’m leaning hard on God. I always will, and I thank God for all progress made.

[@lizbonita5289]

Elnora Ligon very true it’s hard to tell anyone how depression feels just having company can make a difference ❤️

[@formandy22]

The one way you can get out of a rut is to get your focus off of your problems and do something to help someone else in need...

[@heyodi3092]

CZ Lee Yes! My depression always worsens when my focus is on myself. An idle minds creates problems to solve.

[@Ali-er1dt]

CZ Lee true

[@rhesahaylee5824]

Sometimes that works for me and sometimes it doesn't. I have flashbacks and sometimes being around other people scares me and produces more anxiety and fear.

[@melissasturgill6817]

I'm a bit of a recluse due to my mental health issues, and it's so difficult for me to make friends. Thank you for reassuring me that someone understands. I don't feel so alone when I'm watching your videos. God bless you, Katie.

[@tammyjackson5927]

I have depression & panic attacks!! I lost my hubby in 2014 & my 20 y old daughter in 2019! I miss them so much & the struggle is very real!!

[@manhattanmama4192]

You nailed it!!! People that don't have mental health issues just don't understand. Period. Like you, I suffer from anxiety, depression, OCD, and let me tell you....people think I'm the life of the party, the extrovert, the comedian. Here's the real truth: WE SHOULD WIN OSCARS FOR BEST ACTRESSES AND BEST PERFORMANCES EVERY SINGLE DAYS OF OUR LIVES!!!! They don't see the real us. The anxiety, the worry, the fear, the repitition, the ruminations. They will never get it. I hear the same comments all the time. I've learned to just smile and say "whatever." Thanks for sharing.

[@katiecarney]

❤️❤️❤️

[@spellingbee2000]

Manhattan Mama agree!

[@manhattanmama4192]

@@katiecarney back atcha girl 💜💜💜

[@lizbonita5289]

I couldn’t have said it any better ❤️ and there are some actresses who suffer quietly

[@lcecka8805]

Well its not necessarily acting as in the job...….the way I see it is that one needs to have an acceptable presentation to get along with others. For example having manners, saying please and thankyou in certain settings. It doesn't mean one is an actor but that one knows how to behave to get along.

[@lcecka8805]

The emotion of happiness is not connected to mental health in any complete way. Many people don't understand about clinical depression

[@katiecarney]

Exactly!!

[@burnice3901]

I like this. Thankyou. Just because youre depressed doesnt mean you wont have moments of happiness. 🤗🤗

[@Andy-bu2oc]

The apartment is a test. Do what ever it is that makes you the happiest.

[@InspirationalExpress]

I've struggled with depression for years! Trust and believe, you can laugh and have a great time with family, friends, co-workers. etc and be so deep in a pit it's scary. People who suffer with depression are some of the best actors on the planet. It's not always an act, you can have moments of happiness...but as soon as you are alone, depression is right where you left it. That's how after someone commits suicide, people end up saying, "I never knew they were depressed, They were such a happy person, They had such a great sense of humor, or They were so much fun to be around!" Depression just IS, doesn't have anything to do with where you are, what you have or who you know...IT JUST IS!

[@faycollins6055]

I have had depression and anxiety on and off for all my life...just because u look fine don't mean to say you are..people say pull yourself together..its not that easy..keep strong..and big hugs from fay in the UK.. love your channel ❤

[@BTmomma]

I absolutely hate it when people tell me to get over it, or just be happy. Oh hey, thanks for that, I've never tried that genius! You mean I could have avoided therapy and medications for the last 30+ years by just telling myself to get over it and be happy? 🙄🙄

[@carpenterbytradechristianb9080]

Remember: the Day; Remember yesterday! Ephesians 6: have the heart to understand; it is the spirit world that hunts the lamb....... Stand: Righteous to discomfit them; when they say other! 100th meridian, 40th parallel: lamb in the meadow; where is the shepherd! I tarry on: as did John, as did Paul; tares in the valley, tares in the field! Bee safe! God Bless!

[@connie6545]

@@BTmomma Yeah! Doncha just LOVE that? ;o)

[@whatterrisees6246]

So true...

[@CyraGetsFit]

There is also the placebo effect that happens when a major change happens. It is a temporary change in situation, which can cause a change in perception. BUT that doesn't necessarily mean a true SHIFT in happiness or mental health. It is just a temporary shift.

[@melissasaint3283]

Im not one of the people who has been saying/thinking that. But....isnt being in this apartment the reason you are *able* to see family and friends so much more steadily/spending less time alone? Because of the logistics? Im not saying you should be there forever. Your needs clearly vary and you know what you need best! But it seems like the apartment facilitates being closer to more of your emotional support system right now. I have worked in a supportive therapy program for 10+ years, entirely based around the clinical observation that (though everyone needs a different ratio of socializing vs alone time) when people are alone *too* much, they dont get better, no matter how steadily they take their meds or go to therapy. Our program was designes to help people make peer-friends and do relaxing, fun things with them because it can be a HUGE boost to the effectiveness of traditional mental health care. Do you think you might regularly spend time in a stationary home base, when you feel you need it?

[@kitten103083]

As someone who also struggles with depression and anxiety, here are a few things I do to combat it! Stay active, go on a walk, be in nature, go to the beach, go see animals/walk at zoo, make sure you are taking all of your meds, be around people who love and lift you up and try to stay busy. Music always helps! Stay strong!💜 take things day by day and be kind to your self! You got this Katie!

[@tori__1510]

One of my favorite things I’ve read was “Instagram is a highlight reel”. (This can obviously apply to all social media’s and KZbin). It really put it in perspective for me that it IS a highlight reel and like you said, we’re only seeing what people choose to share and we can curate our feeds to only look at things that make us happy or feel neutral about.

[@lindacrouch9611]

Honestly I don’t think people thought you weren’t having mental health issues. Obviously it doesn’t go away. But those videos were good to see. I enjoyed seeing your friends family in an area that I am familiar with. We all aren’t bubbly and happy all the time either. Have a great day! I hope I never hurt your feelings.

[@WhyNot-kq8gb]

have to force myself to brush my teeth sometimes. All my love to you

[@theninth5691]

Same 😑 or my hair etc...

[@daniellebudick9485]

Not alone on that one...

[@6248cjl]

Yep. The struggle is SO real...

[@deborahisaacs5541]

I know what's that is like, have been having days like that, just trying to get out of bed by noon is like climbing Mt. Everest, hang on, we have to hang on, we are the only ones who understand.

[@super66craig]

Katie I'm really conflicted about what you said and a bit angry. First of all with an audience of so many followers hearing what you say and taking it to heart you have a responsibility to not mislead, misinform or relay poor information about mental health. I understand what your saying having battled mental health in the form of bipolar 2. Telling people to not say encouraging or flattering things because it doesn't validate what your feeling or want people to know is just your choice. Don't speak for all the rest of us please. Over 35 years of treatment and medications, longer than you've been alive has taught me that my insight is skewed by the illness and shouldn't be trusted. What people I trust and have my best interest is what's to be trusted wether I like it or not. Einstein said, "the same mind that created the problem cannot solve it" What's more I've learned that others opinion of me is none of my business. When I put so much emphasis on who likes me and for what or how much I'm feeding the beast of the "victim complex" a type of peculiar narcissistic martyr process that would have me enjoy others validating my "woe is me" desire to be thought of as a poor victim in my circumstances. According to psychologists, victim complex sufferers employ these “safer to flee than fight” beliefs as a method of coping with or completely avoiding life and its inherent difficulties. As noted behavioral scientist, author, and speaker Steve Maraboli puts it, “The victim mindset dilutes the human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.” It's been my experience in group therapy that most people suffering mental health disorders are of above average intelligence and function at very high levels especially during hyper manic states. It's like drug when you are more creative, more motivated and have many plans. Then as always comes the swing to depression as we burn up those extra neurotransmitters and end up on the couch watching tv, sleeping too much and even battling health issues as a result of being so driven. The bottom line is this, unless you are actively involved in mental health care and medication along with good accountability a person has no business using a successful social media platform to tell others how to treat or what to say to the majority of us that WANT ENCOURAGEMENT AND PRAISE FOR AN APPARENT GOOD PLACE IN MY MENTAL HEALTH. God bless you and keep you safe during your current struggles and understand your not alone. Craig in Chicago.

[@laclulola4988]

You read my mind with this comment. Spot on !

[@exposingfalseteacherreneer6821]

The chemical imbalance myth was invented to sell drugs. The documentary "Making a killing the Untold story of Psychotropic drugging." It's quite informative.

[@prestonwesner5067]

@@exposingfalseteacherreneer6821 it's a cop-out to say that people can't change who they are and they can't fix their own problems. The only time they can't is when they're hearing voices and they're completely psychotic which is usually not the case

[@MaxPower-nq8hp]

Pretty much what i saw. I don't really follow Katie much, but the 6th week of quarantine has me bored enough... Sad to see, she, you Katie, are still stuck. And nothing will ever move you forward except yourself.

[@dalepointer9312]

I feel rain/ Sometimes I smile/ I feel pain/ And I visit awhile/ I am neutral/ Sometimes fire/ I am ice/ In this mire/ The wire I walk/ Sometimes has no end/ But I inch forward/ Again... Again... And... Again

[@abbypaysen]

I sometimes can’t make it through these videos. It’s okay to not share your whole life, but I just can’t get on board with you being so upset at your followers for making assumptions based on the content that YOU choose to put out. Your mental health journey is different from mine and from each and every one of your subscribers. It’s never okay to imply that we should just KNOW how you’re feeling or where you’re at in your journey. If people are happy that you make yourself appear happy, it’s not such a horrible thing. We’re rooting for you, even if you want to twist the positive comments into people’s negative “assumptions”.

[@Ali-er1dt]

so true！she was being so defensive.

[@lauragb3677]

You shed such great insights here on mental health, depression and other emotions like judging and jealousy. You are encouraging to others that may suffer, but haven’t done the work you have to understand it. I am thankful you have sought out the resources to assist: doctors, medication and a therapist.

[@annarice1461]

Omg...take a breath girlfriend...

[@kahagirl123]

It's ok not to be ok, but don't go out of you way on a daily basis to create your own misery.

[@laclulola4988]

In a nutshell, you said what I was thinking. 👍

[@fineweaver]

It's called not seeing the "big picture", sigh!

[@shiobhankelly5007]

This maybe one of the most honest video’s out there. I completely understand everything you’re speaking of. I suffer myself, but it’s not a 24/7 feeling of being laid up in a fetal position, crying, and just plain uneasy. We have great moments of being happy, with friends, family etc. But we also have great moments of our heads running the show, depressed, anxious, nervous, and just general uneasiness. God Bless you, Katie. Thank you for sharing snippets of your life with us.

[@sharonhutchins5784]

My son suffers from depression. He also smiles through his depression. I’ve learned that just because he’s appearing happy...that’s just situational. He can sound good, seem good but be breaking apart inside. I’ve been on the phone with him for many hours. He thinks ppl are tired of hearing how he feels, so he won’t share it. But, he knows I’m his safe place. He can dump all his anger, tears, depression, etc ... he can even be angry at ME because I don’t take it personally... I know he’s transferring. He acts happy, and sometimes truly is happy. But there’s always the underlying issue. I completely get what you’re saying.

[@just__celia]

I'm sorry you are struggling right now. I get it. I have had anxiety, depression and PTSD most of my life. I get up and go to work everyday so a lot of people don't realize my personal struggle.

[@jonnijohnson1006]

Been there- done that..have periods of times “ okay”, other days (weeks) can’t answer phone, doorbell, get out of bed. Good friends love you “anyways” and there are very few, but also precious..you are so precious to me, Katie 💞

[@glennyglennglenn.]

I’m proud of you for getting by everyday, and for sharing your story. There is such a stigma to mental health because many people are afraid to talk about it. I’m glad you’re not. You’re making so many people feel less alone and lost. Thank you, Katie!

[@tamick2000]

We edit our life and smile at times to avoid having to discuss or explain ourselves. When you are struggling it is exhausting to have to deal with others. Its a protective mechanism. I wish something as simple as a living arrangement resolved mental health issues. God bless you.

[@julieciarcia3428]

I suffer from mental health issues as well. Thank you for being honest, as well as being willing to put your story out here for others. I am always willing to be a shoulder to lean if you need it.

[@maryoflondon2075]

No one knows who is suffering within. you could sit beside someone who is falling apart..

[@tonyawallace7900]

I totally feel ya. Iv been on my couch for the last 6 months. I cry every morning bfor I go to work and I love my job. But cry because I don't wana go. Depression sux so bad. I love ya. Keep pushin u got this. 😘😘

[@katiecarney]

Love you, babe. ❤️

[@sylvestr79]

Omg same. I’m actually on leave from work and literally 5 minutes ago sent my resignation letter. Depression and anxiety suck.

[@MrBi1166]

I'm right there with you Tonya. Haven't been able to make it into work on time for the last two weeks. Keep pushing, you got this. 💪👊💪

[@kellyannecoll]

💙💙💙 to all of you

[@PurpleHaze929]

My adult son lives with us because he has severe OCD, PTSD from bullying in school & depression. The therapist he saw did not help at all. He is actually healing himself. I have been up many many nights with him. He is so appreciative of this & said you are the only one who cares. Breaks my heart. I would do anything for him.

[@jeffshaw4039]

I hope you figure things out for yourself and look on the bright side of life.

[@PYC000]

You are so right, Katie. It does not help at all to tell a depressed person to, "Buck up." It only makes them feel misunderstood. Depression sometimes even slows down people's motor skills. The "blues" is not the same as clinical depression. So hard.

[@laurenvanderske4763]

I’m so thankful for these updates. Makes me feel like someone else understands. As always, I want you to know that I’m here for you. That’s not gonna change. ❤️ Edit:: I also think that (along the lines of what you’re saying) people really seem to want to put people in a box and unfortunately pretty much no one truly fits into those boxes. I’ve had such an issue with feeling guilty when I am smiling and laughing because I’m worried someone thinks I’m totally fine or that I’m faking when I’m sad or having issues with my mental illnesses.

[@katiecarney]

Love love love you. ❤️

[@laurenvanderske4763]

Katie Carney I love you! I was just thinking (commenting while watching the video) that if people thought about it this way, it might help. People reaching for their camera are wanting to document something hilarious or something they’re wanting to remember. So, when you have mental health issues, you don’t want to remember those moments. You want to hide from those moments and deny those feelings. Which grabbing the camera to document feels forced and unnatural. That’s how I feel at least.

[@amandamilsho2767]

As a single mom with mental illness, it's like I have to put it on pause to be functional. I'm not okay singing with my kids in the drop off line at school. They still have to go to school, I still have to take them, still have to feed them and care for them. It's not fake either way. I love that you talk about giving yourself grace. There's been days when I fake it to get the job done and go home and crash. I also have a special needs 5 year that requires loads and loads of supports and drains me emotionally. I think you are spot on with everything you said and it needs to be said and talked about. It's hard but so strong and brave and putting a voice out there for those that can't.

[@lynettereese993]

I think what is important is that u continue to get help. I hope u r still seeing that therapist u talked about when u had that sponsored vid.

[@moments007]

I have be fighting against SAD since last November, I am so looking forward to Spring.

[@terrystonitsch8223]

You talk to fast, slow down a tad

[@le1103]

I have suffered from severe depression and anxiety for years. I am so thankful that you are here to give a voice to all of us who suffer. Thank you Katie!

[@ericar8525]

Katie. Maybe you should show us more if your down days.

[@ihavenewsockson8744]

I sensed. You and I are twins in this way. I sensed and I hoped and prayed. Good days and bad days. You know all this. Hang in there sweetheart. People can't really help, but a lot of people do care. You matter.

[@sherrythomas3028]

As someone with an invisible illness I loathe it when some tells me 'Well it can always be worse.' Ugh!!!! Something that helps me sometimes is sitting in the sun and listening to music or read a book. Or just lay in bed and watch Friends.

[@lcecka8805]

A person needs to have a presentation in the world to be among society. One cannot just put every real thinking detail out there, as it would not be safe nor fair to others. Privacy is needed.

[@pamdecavit8360]

Boy! You have hit the nail on the head. Now I understand what is going on with me. Don't want to leave house, don't want to clean house, don't even want to do my crafts. Trying so hard to get better. I am with you girl

[@ericjacques1]

the stigma associated with mental health issues hit me every day. I do some volunteer work for my hometown but my depression and anxiety issues are my worst problem. My family don't want to be there for helping me, I do everything in my power to make my life the best possible but it's not easy. Happiness is what I want but I need to find out a way to be happy without meds that controls my life. I deserve a better life and people should be more open minded about mental health issues.

[@Red.Christopher]

Wow Katie. I just have to say these are by far my favorite videos of yours. Not because of the subject matter, it sucks as reality often does. But, because of the vulnerability that you are willing to share and that I have come to greatly admire and respect you for. You are an intelligent and insightful human being and these videos are where I have seen that really come out. No kidding, It inspires me. So thanks for that. For you and all of us I hope that things get better; I accept that they may get worse; I know that they will inevitably change. You taught me that.

[@ermercado31]

Katie people now days are not only very judgmental but they assume.. I to live with bipolar disorder and anxiety disorder so I truly feel with what you are saying! You should never have to explain your deep personal issues unless you want to!! Peoples judgement yes can hurt but you know you and keep being you your a beautiful person!!

[@leelak9763]

rebecca mercado yes girl! Well said.... it’s hard for people to understand invisible illness when you don’t suffer it or have someone you love suffer it.

[@sayeednmb]

Katie, remember you’re never alone. There are always people that support you and willing to help you. If there is anything I can do, let me know.

[@margauxv25]

What an intelligent conversation. I was wondering how you've been. I've really been struggling myself. I completely hit a wall and now have to figure out how to dig myself out. Hang in there, girl. Much love. It sure isnt easy. I sure related.

[@scorpio7938]

I always say when l go to different channels some don't feel real to me nobody is happy 24/7

[@BranMuffin365]

I'm feeling that seasonal depression bigtime right now.

[@ColoTobe]

Definitely understand the anxiety and depression. I've been knee deep in both for the last 5 weeks or so.

[@maneatingbunny1]

Good on you for being self-aware. Good luck to you on your journey. Good on you for sharing mental health struggles, triumphs, and the every day mundane nature of it.

[@nawlsone586]

Thank you for having these mental health segments, they really help me out. Also I think it's very important to keep an open dialogue about mental health issues. Thank you so much.

[@knitspired]

Your honesty is refreshing. Sending love!

[@brookem4904]

I love how you blow the lid off the fake Instagram/online persona many people present and remind us that we're only seeing small snippets of peoples lives. You have a gift, you are very calm and speak about mental health issues with empathy and intelligence and are comforting to listen to and relatable. Thanks for sharing girlfriend 💛

[@sharir1679]

I am 63, been dealing with this stuff most of my life, people will NEVER understand unless they have been there. I ALWAYS put on a smile and seem fine but down inside it's a different story. I love how they always say do this or do that it will be better for you, they do not know. Thanks for the update :)

[@MsWillow84]

I actually really miss you on the road & look forward to you in the car travelling again. I think it’s great that you are taking a little break over the winter to recharge but definitely miss your car videos. Definitely some of the happiest looking people suffer the most! Like Robin William. Take care of yourself! Lots of love from the UK 🇬🇧

[@darlathediva6643]

I understand what you’re saying. The people at my job tell me that I’m the nicest person that works there. It’s a testament to my professionalism that they don’t known who I really am. I put on my work face when they see me. They’ve never met the real me.

[@xcreativechristyx]

I suffer from mental health issues too and totally understand. One of my fav songs is called maybe it’s okay if I’m not okay, and that song usually helps me when I’m feeling down.

[@melonie9605]

There is a big difference between having a fun day, and being happy and mentally healthy.

[@katiecarney]

Exactly!! I’m so glad you understand.

[@missLeamon2023]

Yes!!

[@manditurner86]

Praying for u, sending u good vibes my aniexty messes with me alot

[@upallnight2646]

Just a thought: I'm assuming you are gluten free due to Celiac Disease. Many of us with CD or leaky gut syndrome suffer from anxiety and drpression. If you have alot of food restrictions, it can cause vitamin deficiencies. When you are deficient in certain vitamins, it can trigger anxiety and depression. B vitamins are important for proper nerve function, Magnesium relaxes the muscles and has a calming effect on the mind/ body, low iron can cause weakness, brain fog, low energy etc. I can not believe how much better my mental health is with proper vitamins and supplements. Best of luck, sweet lady.

[@Nikki-fl6op]

Having a dog really helps me w depression I cry alot all the time randomly and when I do or feel depressed for literally no reason my dog comes up and nudges me to pet him and puts his head on my lap and just knows how to help and I'm wondering if u decide to stay in an apartment u should maybe get a dog if u want :) their just great company companion for mental health at least in my personal experience:)

[@paisleyjane9606]

Maybe there are ways to include animals in your life without the responsibility of pet ownership, like offering to walk friends' dogs or volunteering at a zoo or animal shelter.

[@sophieleanna9391]

Depression is usually worse in the winter, at least it is for me. I’m dealing with a chronic illness and it’s similar to what you’re talking about. I can feel so sick, but I don’t look sick, so people think I feel fine. Lately I’m also struggling with anxiety and depression. So I can totally relate to what you are saying. Sending you hugs and love❤️

[@lavonneward6068]

You have been given a tremendous “gift “ of wisdom especially in the mental health arena . Stay BLESSED!!

[@Maryqueenofairs38]

Things can seem different on camera and I think we all struggle with some sort of mood disorder, whether it is recurring or sporadic. The issues can hit hard in your thirties especially mid. I am in the same boat, unmarried and single. Doesn’t exactly help when everyone else seems to have someone and it makes you feel alone. Just know that you are not alone. So many of us suffer from the same problems as you and it sounds like you are dealing with them in a positive way. I think it’s good that you are so honest and forthright about your life and you make it clear that you are not trying to present this perfect image of yourself. It’s not beneficial to follow someone who edits every photo with a filter and airbrushing. They may not be showing their real selves. Social media is full of people who are looking for attention and will do anything to get it. It’s a competition of sorts.

[@KRXZY_JK]

I miss your road travel but I get why someone would say that about your happiness. You are only showing your happy times. Now I'll watch the rest of the video.

[@PrimalChiro]

Happiness has nothing to do with mental health, when did people become so misinformed?

[@jen1403]

Amen

[@twylaroddy4307]

They have never been informed.

[@jessbowling3565]

This is me, I just keep going, and going. There is no other choice sometimes.

[@lesiGayle]

I love that you talked about this. I am the mother of a daughter with severe depression who lives a successful productive live and on many days just fakes it till she makes it. She is currently even off on FMLA for some mental health recovery. You remind me of her in that you are very self aware of your health. She also has spent years trying to combat her demons and many times with a smile on her face. Thanks for sharing!

[@layla0665]

Your message resonated so much with me. I've never commented on your channel before so this is new for me. Bear with me please. When you mentioned the negative thinking it hit home so much. I can appear smiling and happy, when in reality I can't stop those thoughts! I consistently have to distract myself. Thank you for reminding me that I'm not alone. That others sometimes suffer in silence and/or laugh on the outside, but are sobbing on the inside. May God continue blessing your channel and your much needed messages of understanding and compassion. You are a true gem!

[@Alessastarz]

This is the genuine Katie I love. Please stay like this rather than that clickbait crap. You may have won me back over with this. Mental health issue def arent fixed with housing. I'm proof of that. Just like NF was able to make his dreams come true and hit the worst depression of his life. Theres 2 types of depression. Situational depression can be fixed by life changes but major depression doesnt work like that the depression comes out of nowhere and overrides anything.

[@dottiegerekgardus1997]

I suffer from severe depression n anxiety too. My symptoms are the same, not taking care of myself or things around the house. So I know exactly what you are going through. It's not good or bad days it's moments at a time!

[@sarahwood1985]

Thank you for sharing your story. I struggle with depression and anxiety and it's not easy.

[@sheilamoehlenbrock9599]

You’re really an amazing person and I appreciate your honesty so much...we all struggle with issues in our lives and it’s so comforting to hear someone who truly gets it’s and know s it’s okay to not always be okay..God Bless and keep doing what you’re doing...it means a lot to so many😊

[@claireesummers5802]

It's so good of you to share so much of yourself. As someone who has wrestled with mental health issues for most of my life, I think it's really helpful that you explain how someone's illness is not always 'on show' and that even during periods of the deepest darkest depression there can be moments where you can enjoy some things. Mental illness is so complex and labels are not always helpful to the individual. I can see how they can be helpful to clinicians to group certain symptoms under different diagnoses but for people living with complex sets of symptoms, labels can be misleading. This makes it easier for people who don't necessarily understand the complexities of mental illness to make hurtful judgments. Thank you again Katie for sharing your knowledge and experiences and I hope that your health begins to improve again soon. Much love x

[@allyfain]

hobbies can pull you out of a dark place. be into something that feeds your soul. the depression label is 🙄 because in adult life we all go through it. be that bright light to all of us that i know you are, katie♥️

[@duncanmacleod2382]

about what you said about vacations.. I get to go on vacations all the time, all I do is travel, mostly internationally.. it actually becomes stressful and lonely, and becomes a burden after awhile..

[@samtsmith74]

I struggle every day, so I understand where you are right now. I hope you know that we love you! Thanks for sharing your life with us..it helps so many!

[@itsliterallyericka]

I love this. People would never believe how tough life has been because I share all the good things! It's not fake, it's just me making a conscious effort to only "keep" the good things. Thank you for being so transparent, I hope you have a Charleston meetup!

[@MegaBpop]

Katie; thank you for sharing. It takes courage to open. Believe it or not, your videos help me as a mom to help 2 out of our 3 with depression. They both are in counseling and other items that helps their own individual depression.

[@homehelpheart7440]

This was an outstanding video Katie! I totally agree with you on many of your points, especially that we need to talk about mental illness more so that we can finally erase the stigma that is holding people back from getting help because they're to embarrass to talk to the doctor. But I totally get you on the perception Thing too. In my social media life, it seems like people are always assuming that I am having this Grand life and I don't have anything near a grand life, but I have a good life and I'm largely content. I also have depression and mine is usually worst from December to March because I also have seasonal affective disorder. Do you know if you have SAD? I ask because even an inexpensive therapy light can really help me. I have gone back to using it daily and I had two or three days where something was wrong electronically and I couldn't use it and I could really tell difference without it! To be almost through January and not be super depressed is a big deal for me so I'm really happy that the light has worked. I may have told you this before in a comment but, my KZbin Channel really focuses on positivity and positive self-image. And one time maybe two years ago I was having a really hard time with depression over the winter and I talked about it in a video on my channel. And a couple people said oh man you're bumming me out oh, you're usually so positive! And I felt really unsupported and misunderstood.

[@slsilver481]

There is so much misconception around mental illness - there are good days and bad days just like physical illness, and you can sometimes feel better and act happier with company or an activity... but you may pay the price later. A few years ago, an insurance company here in Canada cut a woman off disability for depression when she posted pictures of herself on Facebook celebrating with friends at a bar, and posing in a bikini on a tropical vacation. Would they have cut her off if she had a physical illness and posted these pictures? Like, no, you are smiling and you go out and have fun so you cannot possibly have a disease? I have major depressive disorder and I work and pay my bills but there are people who can't - like anything, mental illness has levels of severity. I've had to go on leave from work in the past and I hate the knowledge that some (not all) of my coworkers are second guessing my need to be off work because they've seen me at the mall or something and I seem normal. It would be better if people left the diagnosing to the professionals.

[@heidihokes7789]

Katie, thank you SO MUCH for using this platform to share these types of things so that HOPEFULLY the people that don't have these issues can at least learn more about it, so that they may develop better understanding & empathy for those of us that do struggle with these issues/symptoms, etc. Sometimes we can feel VERY alone with these issues, feeling like NO ONE understands, which just exacerbates the whole situation. I REALLY respect you for being open & honest, even at times when it can get rather raw! I totally get what you were saying & my hope is that it helps other people understand or recognize they are NOT alone in their thinking & coping. Hang in there, kiddo! I'm proud of you for sorting through these things. Together we can all get through these times😉👍💞

[@RichieThe13th]

Wow Katie. I have been watching your videos for about a year now since I had lived in my car for a time. I really resonated with this video and I felt deeply touched by all your words. You came with a serious message and because the truth of it all was so eloquently and profoundly said it had a very, very deep impact on me. This isn't the first time you had that impact on me. It reminds me of a quote I heard recently, "The wound is where the light enters". Love you lots, Katie! Keep ❤❤❤

[@colinlawrence2186]

Katie i totally understand wear you are at this time my eldest daughter suffers with OCD anxiety and extreme depression my heart goes out to you you are always in my prayers God-bless you and keep you safe always 🙋‍♂️🇬🇧

[@DarlingAngel666]

This video is soooo important. I smile a lot. No one would ever know.

[@ElicBehexan]

I've been depressed forever. I had a counselor say that I was probably a depressed child. I remember seeing a lady when I was 13. Add to it the fact that I've lost quite a number of friends in the last few decades. Heck, I've lost 13 cats in 3 years - granted most of these are the remnants of a cat rescue I used to have and a number of them have had good, long lives. Add to it that I have fibromyalgia and migraines, other things you really can't see, and can affect the quality of life. So, I'm always glad to see you when you are out and being cheerful. I have noticed that all these times you have been out with other people. I know how hard it can be to drag yourself out if you aren't feeling good. I finally got the weather (nice, not cold and/or rainy), the household (my wife spent 2.5 months in the hospital and rehab last fall and is only now getting strong enough to feel I can leave her alone for hours) and my health to come together on Sunday to go visit a friend's grave. It was the 3rd anniversary of her death. I had wanted to go back on the 6th because it was her birthday, but that didn't happen. It always is best to be kind to yourself. I understand making yourself get up and get out, when I was working I really worked hard to get myself off to work.

[@sikkinixxmc]

Great video. Ty! Sometimes what works for ourselves works sometimes and not others. It’s like I have a list of things I try when I’m depressed. You are so brave.

[@elainelouvierre2168]

Sweet KATIE You are more than right....you and I are living the same life My depression and anxiety has been going on for over 35 years ... you are a gift by sharing I am so grateful and I asked my family it watch your videos ...Thank you and God Bless

[@Torrrrrrri]

I relate to this 100%, thank you for sharing and creating a voice for invisible illnesses💗

[@rudfil]

You're amazing Katie to open up like this and I'm sorry that you are in this situation. Living with depression has to be very difficult and I can't imagine what you go through every day. I hope one day you'll get rid of these demons and live the rest of your life happy and healthy.

[@MsTerra24]

First, as a viewer, I am so dang proud of your for being so open. It’s scary. Being vulnerable with complete strangers takes a level of courage and strength many of us will never know. People still shy away and get uncomfortable with this topic. Second, it makes my heart happy knowing you are willing to show the big picture. You are so much more than your mental health journey just as well as you’re more than beautiful bubbly self. You are more than just one facet of your personality and I love that you’re willing to show that. “okay” has a different face EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. So thank you, Katie. Thank you for showing us what “okay” looks like in different phases of your life. Keep doing your thing! 😊

[@USOFYG62210]

Keep being you! You’re an amazing and bright woman! You’re an inspiration to many and so courageous for being and open book. Keep fighting the good fight and never let negative Nancies get you down

[@katiecarney]

You are so sweet. Thank you for the kind message. Love you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ya472]

My wife Nancy does not enjoy that saying, 'Negative Nancy'. Especially when I use it........

[@fortsmithdentist]

💜Praying for u today. Glad u have an outlet to talk it through (audience and therapy both!) you have a lot of good insight that I need. Thank you💜