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[@sandymcclelland4609]

I am fortunate, two of my daughters are more than happy to “shop at moms” first and don’t balk to pay for it. My oldest who lives 4 hours away, well every year when I ask what they want for Christmas, she sweetly says “mom, we don’t need anything but I know you will do something so feel free to send a care package of household items”, I am happy to do that ! I also give items to my girls throughout the year but they always show gratitude for it !

[@tammihughes6229]

Me too. Adult children who do not coupon but will pay whatever the price I pay. Always happy when they are saving money in these hard times. For Christmas I stocked them up on deodorant, tampons, mascara, razors… whatever would allow them to spend more on groceries ❤ They laughed

[@theresaallman6959]

@KentuckyNaNasHearti

[@Cathy-pi6xg]

I once grabbed a “baby yoda bag” I had found out of my daughter’s hands that I had found… I said that’s mine!!! she laughed and was proud of me for doing so. Of course I have found several more and gladly shared them🤡❣️ like your advice, offer to teach… Lord knows I am really happy to share my passion!!!

[@glendacornett2341]

I don't let Many people know that I stockpile. To avoid this very thing. Next week I am giving a needy family a new sheet set, shampoo, body wash, kids body wash dish detergent and a large pack of paper towels. The father has cancer they have 4 kids and they're finally getting a apartment after living in a hotel room. My workplace is pitching in to help this family get furniture and everything else they may need. I think it's good to help people who need it but I have zero tolerance for entitled people.

[@vickiealexander2910]

​@glendacornett2341 💯 I'm almost in tears. What a precious gift you and your workplace are proving to this family. Thank you!

[@drgynou]

They don't want to learn, they are ungrateful and entitled. I hate that! Tried to tell family and friends about great deals and they dismissed it and then want to come around and ask do you have this or that? Nope, the stores do, go get it full price!

[@tracyhowell2781]

Very true

[@lisafalgiano114]

I’m in the same situation, I just sent a few bags of my couponing stuff to my daughter, now mind you I’m out on workmen’s Comp. So I haven’t been out couponing, well there was no thank you given. I have tried to teach my daughter how to coupon but being I give all the time she doesn’t want to learn. So either she learns real fast our she will pay full price for her stuff. I’m done !!!!

[@tdslovey]

A simple thank you goes a looooong way!

[@lisafalgiano114]

It’s sure does, I give to my son and his wife and they are so grateful always telling me how nice it is that I save them a lot of money, and by no means do they need my help but I’m so happy I can help them. But like I said in my first comment my daughter on the other hand doesn’t appreciate my help !!!!

[@shannonfromTN]

I ONLY share with those who say thank you and act grateful. If they can’t say thank you, they can buy their own stuff!

[@vickiealexander2910]

The sad part of it all is that it only takes a minute to say Thank You!

[@elisiaweimar4219]

So I gave a few things to coworkers and a few weeks I started hearing hey I could use this and that So my answer is and has been y’all know I resell this don’t yall? Pay days next week tell me what you want nd I’ll make a bundle up for you in your price range 😂

[@kimdobruck939]

I have started telling people i dont coupon anymote

[@lifegirl7]

The best thing I was ever taught was don't give something away with expectations otherwise that's not a gift it's an obligation. If I don't feel like I can give something away without expecting something in return than I choose the "selfish" route and just keep it. I've also learned that sometimes giving something to someone when they haven't asked for it first is more of a burden than a help because as someone who's been on the receiving end it feels like someone might think less of you, pity you, or are putting expectations on you that you don't want to be involved in. It's a very situational thing and it's easy for one side to get it wrong. Sometimes it burns and sometimes it's the best thing in the world to be able to help others.

[@alishacas9162]

Totally agree

[@sherryintheozarks]

Hubby and I temporarily live with his daughter. We pay her rent, as we should. We get told by her that my stockpile and coupon deals is “community” whether it is in our fridge & freezer or her fridge. She is all for helping her friends out with items I had purchased . I eventually had to stow away my items in our closet and cedar chest. I have offered to teach them couponing but, they don’t have the ambition to put into it. Thank you RK for you do !

[@kimray6202]

Yep time to get a storage space

[@sherryintheozarks]

@@kimray6202 we do have our own shelving unit in our bdrm, which, we are trying to keep built up with staples. Hopefully, we will have our own apartment soon.

[@4justmyopinion]

That is so true... Your stockpile is yours, to do as you are pleased with it. Don't be bullied. I have two sisters that live in small cities in SC. They both are nurses and almost always say, their stores do not have any of the items which were on sale when they get a chance to go. So, I'll shop with them in mind. They do pay for whatever I get unless it's penny items. I have started asking them to donate even to the penny fund😅, if they wish. They usually give a couple of dollars. Then I have three other sisters who I send items to or take items during the holidays. Many times they do not say "Thank You" via phone call or text, only if I give it directly to them. However, if they find out what I gave to the other two sisters, they have something to say. I'm almost at the point of 'Cut Off". Thanks for sharing this video.

[@deborahrichardson4050]

It’s unfortunate but there is ungrateful people out there.

[@eyhill1]

Woooooooow. Family thought I was a crazed couponer BUT NEVER was anyone ungrateful for what I shared.

[@brendaspagnola7100]

Back when we could still double & triple coupons, I had a pretty large stockpile. When my BIL's family was struggling, so we decided to gather some things together & drive it over. Pulling stuff out to put away, BIL makes a few snarky comments ( I tend to totally ignore him, so wasn't listening). Hubby was next to him & suddenly said time to go. Apparently, BIL was mad that 1) there was nothing specifically for him; 2) he preferred brand names; & 3) why hadn't we given them some of the GOOD food he knew we had. (They hadn't asked for any of it, but we knew they needed it.) Talk about ungrateful! Told the family how cheap we were because we didn't give them more! 😠 Refused to help him after that.

[@RunningKimono]

unreal, i am so sorry this happened to you!

[@nursemom60699]

It is absolutely okay to say no. I find that many of us like doing for others and not expecting anything in return. A thank you is the least they could do. I live in an apartment complex and regularly give things to various neighbors whether I really know them well or not. They always say thank you and some offer to pay me something even though I have not asked. I feel good in helping others. As many of us are people pleasers, we have to practice the word NO. Many of us rarely use that word because of our general nature. It’s definitely okay to have a voice and use it. If they are like me, I really have an issue when I feel I’m being taken for granted. No is now a word in my vocabulary. I still help others but I don’t have to hold on to hurt feelings from others not appreciating anything I do for them. Try it, it’s quite liberating. It also makes the other Thank you’s I get that much sweeter. 🥰

[@emmawilliamson3940]

Users don't have a limit button, that's why givers must know when to draw the line.

[@yolandarobinson9227]

Well no one wants to learn. But always want what you have. They don’t look at the fact that you have learned and you are the one that goes out to these stores and do all the work. I do understand her frustration.

[@marygarrison9261]

It's hard, you want to share, but things are harder now. Amazed how expensive things have gotten. Have seen the warnings on sharing less. People start to expect it from you. Have warned them cant do this all the time. That it should help them . But totally agree they need to learn to.

[@sab3295]

Omg me too!!! Like paying for toothpaste?? Can't do it but I feel I may.

[@tammihughes6229]

That is unacceptable behavior. I coupon for 8 households and they are so happy I am helping them. They pay whatever I pay. Do not ask for free… unless it’s free toothpaste 😂

[@nancysmith2874]

I don’t understand why no thank you

[@sherrywalker4129]

I taught my daughter,she is so thrilled she loves it. I say it’s her “new high” so it helps her many,many ways.

[@danafrazier7084]

My mom helps me at our big neighborhood yard sales twice a year and I always tell her not to pay me through the year bc of that. She still Zelle’s me when she gets stuff out of my bodega 🙄😂

[@ashley-ik5vm]

I feel you! I only give back to my parents now. The rest can go do their own shopping or come when I do a garage sale....

[@GigDrivingKatt]

Let me add my children and Mother are appreciative of anything I van do to help them save money. My daughter always makes me lol when she asks can she shop at moms grocerer. She works so hard for her little family. I just loo and say please yes and bring the grandbabies.

[@janwynn2731]

My friends are happy to pay me whatever I paid for it plus they usually throw in a little extra because I used time and gas. They are happy to get bargains and are appreciative of my time.

[@marlenefelipe4482]

I dont give away my merchandise. I buy enough for my family not more. Soo I dont deal with negative feedback.

[@maximizatudinero]

i tried to teach friends and family, only one friend, my husband son and daughter learned i dont give away anything to the ones that dont wand to learn. here in puerto rico is more difficult to couponing.

[@lamoreina]

I sell and yet tell everyone that if they want to learn I can teach them. I'm not a gatekeeper. Everyone deserves to save money.

[@witchypoo820]

I give my daughter exact instructions to get her own stuff. Occasionally, she my come over to get some deodorant or something small, but I decided to teach her or at least give her instructions lol

[@fluffyandbella4828]

My family has never assumed it’s “free”. They know that I sell it to them for the price I got it OR 1/2 the price of retail . Because I use that money to buy stuff that I can’t coupon and I need .

[@Everythinghobby]

I work hard for my stockpile and I have given my family some stuff over the years free and I started charging them for the items cheap and they still don’t even end up paying me! I now let them know that I don’t have anything to sell and they complain saying that I have too many for myself

[@RobinMack108]

I've received comments during stockpile sales at my home or from shoppers on facebook marketplace stating that some of my items are not 50% off Walmart prices. I do not reply or try to defend my decisions. But i would just once like to let loose and tell them: I am the one who shopped, paid for, brought home, lugged to the basement, put items in orderly fashion, took pictures, uploaded to various shopping sources, answered questions, lugged purchased items from the basement to my car, delivered purchased items or made arrangements to meet somewhere for delivery (for no charge). Bottom line... my time and efforts are worth the extra dollar, maybe two, for the heavier or more costly items (such as beauty creams) that cost more to begin with and are harder to grab for decent prices.

[@pattyd8483]

I sell at 30% off Walmart

[@brandonmorris6596]

I want to thank you so much for your videos. I am a beginner couponer. Living in a small town, a lot of the deals are hard to find because the stores dont carry them or they are rarely in stock. But since I have started watching your videos, I have saved SO much money and have even started a small stockpile of my own. Having a family of three, this helps us so much. Truly thank you for your videos and what you do. I have learned so much.

[@sandrab8814]

I pick and choose.. my sister in law wanted free gain pods bc I gave her 2 bags once! She doesn’t work!!! No excuses and she taught me how to coupon. Now she is too lazy. She buys them from Amazon now full price

[@stephanniekotalik9339]

Wow! That’s crazy how people are so lazy and expect others to do things for them and to top it off don’t appreciate it.

[@sandrab8814]

@@stephanniekotalik9339 I agree ☝️

[@preciousowusu7743]

People will do that and think it's ok and it's not.

[@elleluella4565]

I love that you are talking about this! Such an important message.

[@robinmcmahon8027]

Both of my grown children are great shoppers and they owe it all to mom. My daughter and het friends always called me the sale item mom when they were young. The girls would let me know what great things they found on sale. All of this started at about 10 years of age for them. Now all in their 30s they are proud thrifty shoppers. My son in his 40s has always been the shopper for his home and his wife rarely goes to the store with him. We always like to compare who got the best deal. For those who complain I guess they have money to burn.

[@alishacas9162]

My family is the same way. Anytime we are together it's "oh I love your top," and "thanks I thrifted it for $2" 😂

[@stephanniekotalik9339]

I just had my niece reach out to me for diapers for her 2 young children. Out of the goodness of my heart I provided her with diapers I had purchased from Wags. I drove across state lines to take them to her. She had this look of disappointment and did not even say thank you. People are so entitled.

[@nancysmith2874]

What??? Never again

[@cynthiawendell6425]

Thanks for sharing 🎉❤ Happy shopping everyone

[@GrimWithCrim]

I agree with you on all points. You don't owe anyone your things.

[@tracyhowell2781]

I know it’s always a behavioral problem. I learned to coupon as a child with my mom. But I’m more focus now.

[@lisakilbourn9164]

Im sorry that so many of you have had to deal with ungrateful people. Im very blessed that my family and friends love shopping at my prices. They are very appreciative. The way prices keep going up lately, more people need to learn to coupon or buy from someone who does.

[@buglove515]

I think you very elegantly touched on this subject. And i personal agree with you 💯

[@preciousowusu7743]

I told my family member a price for a product and the response was I can get it cheaper at Family Dollar so I guess that's when I suppose to say well ok I'm gonna give it to you cheaper in which my prices are cheaper than Family Dollar I've seen where people say it cost this much in the store so when they say that I guess there thinking well she don't want me to go to the store so she will drop the price and that's a definite no people kills me with the ENTITLEMENT.

[@laurapasco457]

TRUTHHH. UNDERSTAND… my bf and I give a lot to others in need through allllll kinds of resources…which takes our time and money … sometimes it gets to y do we even do when sometimes not always they except more or even no appreciation or an attitude of thankfulness .. it hurts one feels taken advantage of … have to take a break at times forgive and more on … BLESSED TO B A BLESSINGS ❤️

[@GMoneySaver]

🤗 I Love This Video! 🤗 You sound just like me! 👍 That’s like the crates and crates I’m giving you, all out of the generosity of my heart, and then you’re just ignoring it, like, yeah, there was zero effort to get that… 😢 I truly put my heart, my soul, my time, into providing that to you all, and you don’t even see it… 🙏 But when the crate delivery becomes less, and less, you start to notice… 😔 I still give, give, give, but the reward of giving, the “feeling,” the joy of giving “itself,” is lost, when the receivers always expect, expect, expect, instead of praise and appreciate and support the generous contributors, and their generosity, and big, sweet, kind, beautiful hearts… 🌺

[@ttidwell4412]

Not just no, but Helllllllllllllll Noooooooo!

[@lisakemplin5062]

This is unfortunate the lack of Gratitude.

[@LisaStewart-gm3iv]

Things are getting harder 😕 ❤

[@alishacas9162]

I completely understand wanting at least a thank you, but i was always taught if you give a gift, you should not expect anything in return. Of course you would think people would have manners and say thank you, but i personally feel you shouldn't be upset if someone doesnt say thank you, or expect a person to even say thank you. Thats just what I was taught about giving gifts, BUT I was also taught to say thank you if you are given gift.

[@karenhavrey1105]

Some people just take things for granted except everything for free

[@snickers65eat]

Ty. ❤

[@jeanetteparrett8726]

Amen!

[@GigDrivingKatt]

Yes yes yes. They dont realize stuff still costs money plus our time and energy. I do this mainly for my family to be able to afford regular bills and not have to stress over paper products or frozen veggies. I also have a family member I dont speak to because they are too lazy to get up and learn or at least go with me to add an account and body to save more. Oh well.

[@brokegrandma2296]

Thanks for sharing 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@Thebrickman77107]

My kids pay for stuff I get,my mother even pays and I would gladly give it to her for free but she insists on paying,she says it’s cheaper to buy from you and I do give them a lot for nothing but they do a lot for me in return

[@tracybhollis7333]

I have family members that see my stuff and they want but i work hard at what i get butvthen they say well you really dont pay hardling anything .. I just tell them to start couponing

[@Irene.42]

Been there. Sometimes even when they say thank you on one hand it's great to hear but in the next sentence it's can I have this too . Thinking that since I have it and got it at a good price it's ok to just take it too .

[@jarcha4200]

Some people today are just entitled 💩heads. My youngest is always quick to accept detergent and toothpaste but can’t manage to say thank you, come for a meal or accept a call from me even once a month. When my nephew moved out in his own last year I sent a huge box of paper towels, toilet paper, dish soap, toilet cleaner, floor cleaner, window cleaner back to with his parents. At least $100 worth of stuff. Not even a text message sent in return for my apparently “lame gift”. I now only share with my oldest son and elderly mother. I am done.

[@preciousowusu7743]

I totally understand.

[@nancysmith2874]

What a shame

[@kbart9576]

Almost sounds like they have to "pay to attend " this bday party vs others dont. Dont feel guilty.. feel sad those others have bad manners

[@denisebutcher7717]

😊

[@thotimusprime8462]

my sister came to my house to get some mail of hers i had from our mother and i have cameras in my house and she grabbed a grocery bag and proceeded to steal from my coupon items didnt even ask me if she could get anything and she was in my personal closet of more expensive harder to coupon items that i got for my personal use and i was furious, apparently my mom said she gave her permission to steal from me?!?! excuse me? Mind you i live with my partner not my family, the entire situation made me so angry i paid for these items and its my choice to give it to family not anyone elses choice!

[@RunningKimono]

im so sorry to hear this :(

[@user-tz6wy1sb8b]

❤

[@kimray6202]

I dont think my family has a clue about my couponing. I coupon for myself. If i left over or i dont use then i will give away.

[@rochinaw]

I'm sorry but I would have no problem telling that family member where she can get off and go get her own crap and not feel bad about it cuz I ain't got to give you nothing

[@aisforapple25]

We think children or family will pick up manners. Unfortunately the tv is not a good teacher of manners and sometimes we forget to teach them everything. I’m sorry but you have to be confrontational and vocal or people won’t learn and they will keep disrespecting you thinking everything is okay when it’s not. Stop giving to ungrateful people and they will catch on quick. Believe me.

[@aprilreid8748]

I have no sympathy for couponers who resale. Sorry not sorry

[@queen6201998]

Why does it matter to you, what someone does with their personal items?

[@alishacas9162]

I don't understand, resellers usually sell the product for less than what you'd pay in the store. So resellers aren't allowed to make money? Do you want them to give it to you for the coupon priced they paid?? Reselling is just like any other job, people do it to make money. You're still getting your item cheaper than the store price.

[@aprilreid8748]

It's ridiculous to even make a video about the subject

[@marjoriekane5807]

😊