My Non-Birth Mom & I Play Truth or Drink | Cut

[@agneshedberg9351]

“She’s the one that gave me life but you gave me growth” that’s literally so beautiful

[@metricsheep]

I say something similarly about my mom

[@TristanTheDisciple]

@@metricsheep same

[@superache427]

@@metricsheep 🥰that’s so sweet

[@haniyehnematollahi7989]

I cried to that. There should be a f warning or sth 🤧

[@bee_n0ttaken105]

that’s similar to me. my mom gave me life, my grandma gave me growth

[@TheSuperNats]

That sister wow, I’m sure her brother truly loves and appreciates her. That’s so hard to become a mom to your sibling at such a young age. Best sister ever! ❤️

[@elisaguilez7561]

You don’t have to tell me I’ve raised all four of my siblings for my mother

[@completefemboyr.n.g1308]

@@elisaguilez7561 I was raised by my sister who's 4 years older than me she raised me until I was 17 know I have been adopted I have mutch love for random passer byes because of the kindness I've been grifted throughout the dawn point in life so far

[@Jessicabobessica]

So many sisters raise their little ones.

[@luci4087]

taking responsibility for another person to this extent when you weren’t really expected to originally is commendable. these people are related to each to each other, but they weren’t expecting to raise them to this extent. respect to them.

[@LifeOfLiana]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/n3LVd5iemJhgj80 vlog :D

[@이바다-d1u]

i love the interactions between the brother and sister lmao

[@Raven28Pisces]

@༒♡Angelina♡༒ shut up

[@xxstellastarlightxx9284]

Omg these bots

[@이바다-d1u]

@@xxstellastarlightxx9284 ikr wtf is this lmfao

[@nerrisamaripane4101]

Me too haha

[@maggiecarroll8997]

i am howling at her pouring the shot and then still answering "doggy" just to piss him off

[@cozyjozie]

When she found out she was adopted: "I was like oh, im adopted? Cool whatever. Santa not real??! Santa's f*cking real!"

[@craigswanson3641]

Guys......what is she talking about?

[@JamesYeang]

@@craigswanson3641 she misspoke. Nothing to see here. Santa's fine. Move along 😅

[@palashverma3470]

@@craigswanson3641 pay no attention to her!! Santa is def real

[@tannershanksftw]

@@craigswanson3641 her uncles name is Santa. Not the Christmas Santa, he's definitely real bro.

[@lilstinker6894]

yeah we watched the video.

[@megan_sun]

If these women had not intervened who knows what life would have awaited them🥺 I am so happy to see them smiling!! edit: thank you for the love guys

[@LifeOfLiana]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/n3LVd5iemJhgj80 vlog ;D

[@ambush8707]

"women"

[@dishwasherh]

@@ambush8707??

[@bigdrefromthebay6475]

Huge shoutout to all the people who’ve taken on children who weren’t fit to grow up with they’re biological parents ! You’re the real Heroes!

[@rhondafausett6415]

Thank you!! So sweet!!❤️

[@cynthiaisako]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@rforgoine9462]

Damn she said “lots of cocaine” twice. Girl was reminiscing 😂

[@neltayawilliams5458]

came just for this comment 😭

[@heidibrenner6138]

@@neltayawilliams5458 SAME🤣

[@SeraphSeph]

Mindy st clair

[@gburrr6202]

and qualudes she was turnt

[@Rose-gq2gv]

She's one hell of a woman ❤️‍🔥🚺👩🏻‍🦳

[@GanjaNinja]

Ohhh when his sister/mom cried that was wholesome.

[@GanjaNinja]

@Yuri i fucking hate these bots

[@darkwyve]

@@GanjaNinja Same, make sure you report the bots so their accounts get banned. Sure, they'll make more, but it makes them work a little harder, and takes 2 seconds to report them.

[@MrSkeazy]

Appreciation is hard to come through, be it in family or work. The extra work she did at the time probably just seemed natural, it's not until the realization that he started to understand.

[@SolarWebsite]

1:19 "mom out of the picture" There must be so much hurt behind that small sentence. I was SO lucky to grow up in a complete. warm, loving family, and that I'm able to provide my boys with the same.

[@babybeauti96]

"Birth mom gave me life, but you gave me growth" Damn. That hits hard, but I mean it's true. I really love that. Deep word's right there.

[@theawesomedude20]

Just want to give a huge shout out to all of the non biological moms in this video. They are all incredible people

[@rhondafausett6415]

Thank you, very appreciated!❤️

[@tvtitlechampion3238]

@@rhondafausett6415 love your spirit!

[@rhondafausett6415]

@@tvtitlechampion3238 thank you!!😊❤️

[@ironshadow89]

As an adult who is in therapy to recover from his abusive parents, this hit me hard in my soul.

[@anitasewell9616]

Same bro, cheers to healing ❤️‍🩹

[@rhondafausett6415]

I’m one of the moms in this video. Sending you lots of love and hugs and the best wishes through recovery and life! ❤️

[@artuuube]

🫂🫂🫂

[@dumpsterratt]

The dude and his sister are my favourite their vibe is amazing

[@rawburtmartinez]

RJ is my favorite. He's chill, grateful, and level headed. Sweet guy.

[@cassidybrewer]

My grandma is my “mom.” I love the relationship between the grandma and granddaughter here, especially when she starts listing off all the many drugs she’s done. Gold ⭐️

[@lichi1244eva]

I'm a foster mom of two and I love my littles so much. Whether they are reunified or become mine legally and forever, I hope they think of me as fondly as those in the video. This warmed my heart.

[@rhondafausett6415]

❤️❤️

[@OohLa118]

As a now adult Foster Child i am so glad for your Comment. Theres not enough love in the foster care system. Actually was hoping to see some foster/adopt Mom who is not related to their child in this Video. So thank you so much for sharing your experience. Hope your Family gets to stay and grow old/up together!

[@lichi1244eva]

@@OohLa118 awwwww thank you, that is so kind!💕💕

[@tvtitlechampion3238]

This feels like the right place to say thank you for your service

[@lichi1244eva]

@@tvtitlechampion3238 awwwww that's sweet! The kids are so worth it❤

[@yooyoo0426]

4:42 "What's your favourite sexual position and do you think mine is the same?" *Pours a shot* "Doggy." "I don't think it's the same, I feel like you are a missionary guy or something." *High fives*

[@Ellael98]

Girl we watched it too

[@yukillyouu]

@@Ellael98 lol

[@anitasewell9616]

Epic

[@yudoball]

EXACTLY HAHAHA

[@Rose-gq2gv]

That was amazing 🎊

[@kittykat490]

The brother and sister already have me in tears only a minute or so in 🥺 idk as an oldest sibling of many younger siblings who partially raised a lot of them this shit gets to me

[@salami5801]

every mother figure here are heroes, but I would like to give an extra shout out to the sister for sacrificing her youth for her brother. she was probably the least prepared, and it can't have been easy having to grow up so fast for the sake of your brother.

[@gennydf95]

It's so funny that each of them look like their mom aesthetically 😅

[@Fred92]

Because they are relative...

[@Fred92]

More exactly: sister, aunt and grandmother

[@cycyt101]

What’s funny is my grandma that is in the video with me, is technically my step grandma, so no blood relation at all! 😅 they didn’t include that particular info in the clip

[@andrijanastojkovic6838]

My parents worked all day long when my sisters and I were kids, and the oldest sister cooked for us when mom couldn't and there was a time I called her mom, we were joking around but we missed mom. She also whooped our asses when needed😂 Oldest siblings are mini parents 😩❣️

[@p3ahy]

all these mothers are amazing

[@slixameth]

The mom in the plaid has a little swagger about herself, I dig it. This was great !

[@rhondafausett6415]

I appreciate that, thank you! This was so much fun!

[@althn]

@@rhondafausett6415 you’re an angel we love u

[@rhondafausett6415]

@@althn awe thank you!!!❤️❤️you!!!!❤️❤️

[@losersssclub_]

@rhondafausett i loved you in this video! we are so much alike in the way we talk lol i cuss like a sailor 🤣 “ this mother fucker “ 😂😂😂

[@losersssclub_]

@@rhondafausett6415 i loved you in this video! we are so much alike in the way we talk lol i cuss like a sailor 🤣 “ this mother fucker “ 😂😂😂

[@klaralee1650]

Omg it’s Jilene! 💗 I went to highschool with her. She was literally the sweetest person ever. We talked about a lot of things together back then but I had no idea she went through all of that. She’s such an amazing person and absolutely gorgeous

[@C3SIL3Y]

As someone who is adopted, I just want to say, since I've seen recent discussions on it: tell the adoptee asap they're adopted. Don't hide that from them it causes hurt, pain and a bunch of other things down the road if you don't. I've seen people go through questioning and feeling betrayed after finding out later in life, especially over something there's no shame in hiding. I am blessed I was told as early as I can remember. I love my mom so much and she always made sure I knew, "I was hand selected with love."

[@harmony1313]

i was adopted by my grandma too with a similar situation and its so nice to hear someone with a similar story as mine bc i have never met anyone who has and i always felt so alone and left out comparing my situation to "normal" families

[@strangev0id]

How beautiful how much they LOOK like their non birth parents. Fascinating how conected everything is

[@LAURENAURORA31]

I can relate to Xavier with finding out a major detail about her life, while also being told the truth about santa, &+ the easter bunny etc. My mother left my bio dad when I was two. She had good reason. When I was seven, my bio dad wanted to get into my life. I would always visit with his mother (my grandma) &+ didn't even know she was my bio dad's mom. So when I was seven, I was told that my father (the one who raised me, no difference he is my dad) wasn't my bio dad. It was a very emotional time, I remember my dad cried. I did talk to my bio dad for a little bit, but he mostly sent gifts, he never came to visit. To this day I still haven't met him in person, &+ honestly don't plan to. Anyways, in that time, I was also told about santa, &+ the tooth fairy etc. My brother knew &+ my parents didn't want him to tell me, they wanted to.

[@imjustsomeguy72]

Holy shit Xavier and Rhonda are amazing, they're so lucky to be mother and daughter for each other. That rage you can see burning under the surface when Rhonda is talking about Xavier's bio mum is such mum rage, what a goddamn lioness.

[@hellobye6364]

For some reason I thought the title is “my non-binary mom” 😂

[@themushroom9728]

SAMEEE

[@MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl]

Same, I was 2 minutes into the video & I was like "where's the enby mom??"

[@hellobye6364]

@@MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl i thought it was the sister instead 😅

[@klingeryy]

omg same

[@youjustgowomen6176]

Same 😂😂

[@applegal3058]

Ok, the ending has really brought on the tears 😢 So much love between the child who needed a mom and their parent ♥ I loved that part!

[@epileptiker4666]

i feel so bad for that older sister that had to take care of her little brother.

[@HaleHami]

Why?

[@moneymakinmitch8130]

why is that something to feel bad about lmao. That’s just human nature, the older sibling gotta look out for they lil bro/sis

[@chevweez]

"Looking out for" your younger sibling is not the same thing as raising them.

[@epileptiker4666]

@@chevweez that’s exactly what i’m saying

[@chevweez]

Because its worse than being a teenage mother, since in this case its due to the failures of her own parents that causes her to become a mother to her brother.

[@woozworldbabe312]

lmfaooooo the way she poured the shot, put it down and said “doggy” 😭😭

[@essenceoflove5093]

I like this kind of videos since my parents are traditional ,we don't talk about this at all . Thank you CUT💗

[@mannequinn_made420]

Grandma was lit, lit 🔥 on them drugs😩😂 lmfao, she done tried everything.

[@anitasewell9616]

Grandma had a good life 🤣 but back in the 80’s even earlier that generation of people die drugs like that and it was normal.

[@He-Man00]

Reminds me of my mom. She was a teenager during the 90's so naturally she raved a lot. But she always kinda downplayed the DRUG part. UNTIL: I told her I was going to a rave. And she's like: "Drink water, but not too much, buy a bag of chips or something salty, here, grab some magnesium. And use chewing gum" And when I got home she was extra comforting and kept making sure I wasnt "depressed" Lets just say she didn't READ these things lol

[@caitlynblake2773]

As someone who was raised by my aunt and uncle, this made me tear up. I resonate with so many of their answers.

[@chromeo3945]

"But at the same time I had to make sure you ate and did your fucking homework" that is someone who will *always* look out for you. Mom-sister or not, that human is absolute gold.

[@valeriehernandez8960]

I felt so much for the blonde woman when her mom made the comment about her bio mom not making much of an effort to get her back. I know it's probably true and this is only a short video, but I feel like that hurts deep no matter the circumstance. I'm so glad she has her mom now, though, she likely saved her life.

[@TheAwesomeness25]

Thank you for this, my family is currently going through something similar with my mom raising my niece, I love seeing this representation and hearing these stories. I know my family is very worried about the future and how everything is going to turn out so it's good to see people happy and thriving

[@anna-lena9313]

Hii, so my mum raised my niece as well (for 3 years) and it went very well. My now 10 year old niece is living with my brother, he has good job and got the time for his studies. And we have a relationship such as siblings and I like it very much :) (I'm 19 btw)

[@Jadzebra]

I'd love to do this with my girls, i raised them while their mothers (my older sisters) were struggling with extended postpartum and drug abuse respectively. Felt the worst pain and fear when their moms were finally ready to raise them... felt like my kids were being stolen.

[@user-db9vy2gh3v]

Curious about a my non dad and I version, would it be as heartfelt as this one

[@missjones8123]

it would!

[@itisritah]

This was so funny and so wholesome at the same time🥺

[@dakotac180]

I love these families, they are all so loved.

[@samanthasoul-ley5975]

So glad that mama/grandmama saved her/got mad at her for talking to a random in cali!!!!! See the signs and she CALLED it THAT is a MOM

[@chiara1363]

I feel actually a bit sad for the sister. She gave up a lot of her youth to take care of her brother without having a choice. Kudos to her, they seem like theyre doing well

[@ivonnevaldez7979]

As an older sister of 4, not having my 3 sisters is the worse feeling but having to help raise my little brother I definitely can relate to having to be a mom AND a sister is very hard to find that line

[@fishball12398]

My sister basically raised me as well! My mom is a single mom of 5 kids and worked 16 hours everyday so my sister was the caretaker. Seeing the brother and sister warms my heart ❤️

[@Sam-ki1rs]

Shes the one that gave me life. You gave me growth. That’s beautiful.

[@kinley.-.]

I love the brother and sister. I was a parent figure to my brother for a few years and the bond we have is so special because of that. They remind me of my relationship with him 🥺💞

[@sashaolenets7883]

Oh, man! Those brother and sister are just hilarious! So so so natural! Best friends snd more then siblings! Great chemistry. 😅😅😅 And grandmother? She's fabulous!

[@aribizajj9261]

Thank you for the bottom of my heart to all those people who having a family bond or NOT they have chosen us and loved us as we are their biological sons or daughter. I feel so proud of my step father by rising me and I feel so greatful because he made this decision not one forced him, and he still chose to educate me. thanks to all you for choosing us ❤️❤️❤️

[@izabella6136]

I felt so happy when she said mom and grandma, not alone!

[@kimmy7147]

i was adopted pretty much right away after my birth mom had me, my parents are fucking fantastic and i’m so glad they chose me.

[@chrismillan5650]

My mom had to raise her three siblings. She had to put her dreams aside to raise them. They all became very successful and give her the credit for it 🙏🏽

[@summers2007]

I knew immediately I would love the brother sister duo, theyre super fun!

[@samanthal133]

I am 31 & adopted from Honduras and my moms my rock. My brothers are from my parents but may not be blood for me but matter. my dad passed in 2005, so once that happened my mom became my mother and my father, lol even when she married my stepdad who’s pretty damn cool. My mom lives where I grew up in south Jersey & my bf and myself just moved to his hometown in south Mississippi. We just told them via FaceTime we are pregnact. So no matter the distance no matter the situation, she’s my mom!

[@anitasewell9616]

I was adopted from Jamaica 🇯🇲 hi fellow adopted friend😇

[@samanthal133]

@@anitasewell9616 hi

[@azul7401]

Aw! Have you ever visited Honduras? Or tried to revisit the culture? I’m from there!

[@samanthal133]

@@azul7401 unfortunately just born there.

[@azul7401]

@@samanthal133 one day in the future, you should definitely visit! ❤️

[@alainapristine3305]

It’s crazy how similar the personalities are with these two family members. I almost forgot that was a thing lol

[@GameFreak4Ever]

My mother was a drug addict and I was fortunate that her sister became my legal guardian.

[@rubiksqbert]

Kinda binge watching right now so excuses the year late comments, but I love this episode. Resonates pretty hard because I was taken out of my home and eventually adopted by the foster family I was put with.

[@WhitneyDeBraux-rk6vd]

I love the brother and sister because it’s the same dynamic with me and my brothers. I totally understand her feelings about being stressed and it’s tiring but the relationship I have with my brothers is the best because I took care of them and raised them 🫶🏽

[@TechOutAdam]

This was truly a therapy session for everyone. I need to do this with my parents asap.

[@questioneverything5595]

Grandma's and non birth moms save childhoods

[@_PJW_]

Common denominator 'My family stepped in'. Wholesome! 🙏 Are you really adopted when your aunt takes you back and saves you?

[@lillysimonee8504]

I’m not crying 🥺❤️❤️ I love this so much!

[@Dad-ek2vb]

The lady in the plaid is a real sister/aunty/mom really could just say a blessing Fr

[@kesetokaiba]

4:47 Doggy! I don't know why I found that so funny xD She might have acted like his mom, but only a sibling would mess with the other person like that lol

[@Leslie-hg6wl]

These were all so very touching. 🥺

[@nikkiiles1894]

Honestly I'm so glad someone these kids knew and trusted were there for them when their parents failed. Alot of children don't get that luxury. Everyone here seems healthy and happy 😊.

[@makrdp4006]

I loved the one where the grandma was like "Lots of cocain

[@sydneyelna]

4:52 that back and forth between the two of them killed me😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

[@WitheredHound]

Should do this with dad figures as well

[@completefemboyr.n.g1308]

As a younger brother raised by his sister who's 4 years older I had some heart strings pulled

[@KD-mw4jf]

I enjoyed this sooo much! Those 9 minutes went by wayyy too fast. I would love to see a part 2 of this (longer though lol) 💚💚

[@Perrygordo.n]

I read “my non-binary mom” and started to get really confused as the video progressed 😭

[@hailey_raigh2813]

I absolutely loveee the idea of this video. Need more representation for unconventional family dynamics/ people raised by non-biological parents. This is such a sweet vid and was very relatable 🫶🏻 never see families like mine in media, so this was so cool to get to see

[@hailey_raigh2813]

Sooo basically, thank you @cut for making this video

[@dennishamilton6234]

I honestly liked the one brother & sister interaction it was deep like really deep I like their interaction better

[@eetusironen402]

That grandma is awesome

[@m4heshd]

What a fucking badass, W sister. Mans owe her everything. Better treat yo sister like a queen boi.

[@lolll3360]

Fucking chill . Hes clearly very greatful and it's highly offensive to call him "boi" he's a grown man .

[@marajohnson9374]

"Lots of cocaine" God damn, granny

[@jamescamille84]

Wait... what do you mean Santa's not real! Who is giving me underwear and socks all these years?

[@lindatelevangelista7743]

This “Santa isn’t real” conspiracy was created by the government to distract us from the truth 🤯

[@jamescamille84]

@@lindatelevangelista7743 ... So the government is gifting me undies and socks.. :p lol

[@tvtitlechampion3238]

The Fruit of the Loom gnomes!

[@luci4087]

i wish they put the names of the people at the bottom or somewhere whenever they are on screen.

[@emmilyfernandes5524]

Agreed

[@missjones8123]

or their social media handles

[@elijahwilson8707]

It’s was the “lots of coke” for me💀💀💀💀💀😭😁

[@anitasewell9616]

That jawn was funny, like she was reminiscing

[@satannaida7501]

This hits close. I wish I knew more when I was 9 and helped my sister. Im worried for her future. These people are lucky they have brave family members..

[@hardwired2]

“A mother isn’t the one who birthed you, she’s the one who raised you and made you who you are”

[@oliviaholmes2705]

This is possibly the most heart warming video on the planet

[@robertolopez1537]

The older sister is hella cute

[@Pampy420]

Yo, but the aunt and niece pair was, omg! so fresh, so beautiful.

[@heavenjeriya]

5:31 the grandma is everything 😭😭😂

[@fey9915]

What a bunch of amazing women

[@pleaseparkjimininmygarage-6212]

My stepmom raised me and she's literally the kindest human being ever and I love her so much. My birth mom has been in a mental hospital since I was in 6th grade and before that, she was living near our house but not with us but I was visiting her all the time so I was close with her and still am really close to her. The only reason I am raised by my stepmom is because my birth mom isn't really capable of raising us with her illness. I feel like there should be more representation for actually good stepmoms who care about kids who aren't their's.

[@phenomenalone1737]

5:31 "Weed, acid, lots of cocaine..." *stares off into the distance* "...LOTS of cocaine..." "LOTS of pills" Aye, yo💀

[@veq_9525]

that's the content I was waiting for 😎

[@liviroberts]

i literally found out the SAME exact way about my birth dad. i found my moms old diary from when she was pregnant with me talking about some dude named william. turns out my mom left him and married her high school best friend and he legally adopted me when i was 4. i had no clue he wasn’t my biological dad until i was 14.

[@hamzapetridis206]

Did I hear correctly that as a baby that person died twice?? Damn that is crazy. Good on her to have survived.

[@jakeboellner2055]

The grandma wildin on the drugs 😂 😂 😂

[@trinityellis1963]

i hope the girl with glasses lives her dream and goes to Hawaii

[@iamReddington]

Xavia is fucking GORGEOUS!

[@StorytellerDan]

Fantastic people. Incredibly mature & inciteful. Thanks to the team again that puts these important discussions together & the participants for sharing.

[@emmad1641]

Love this! I was adopted as a newborn and my adoptive mom and I are close! Barely see things like this that relate to my life this much!