People Call Their Ex to Ask "Why Didn't it Work Out?" | Just Calling To Say | Cut

[@_C20H25N3O]

ayo respect to the dude for actually telling the girl he had feelings for someone else instead of doing stuff behind her back

[@anonymous-yp9he]

babe that’s bare minimum

[@maui30000]

@@anonymous-yp9he in a situation like that what would be the alternative.. ? Bc if he wants out of the relationship then its best to be honest abt it & he didnt even have to be honest abt the reason for him doing it.

[@anonymous-yp9he]

@@maui30000 it shouldn’t have gotten to the point of him having feelings for someone..and i didn’t even say anything about things could’ve been different. i said it’s the bare minimum.

[@maui30000]

@@anonymous-yp9he But the reason behind the breakup shouldnt determine what is the bare minimum or not is what im saying. Ive seen both women and men breakup with each other for trivial reasons but secretly its because they are interested in someone else or want to live the single life.. & so the point i was trying to make was thats actually above the minimum (which means below average) considering most people are not genuinely honest about why they want to break up.

[@surbhii.k]

@@maui30000 my 3years of bf broke up with me bc after 3 years he found out we aren't compatible & he doesn't love me anymore. 2 days after our breakup he started posting about his new gf :) at that moment i understood he was cheating on me I'm still heartbroken about that fact i imagined my whole future with him , i fought with my parents just to be with him .. now he's regretting for what he has done and asking me to come back but i just can't trust him anymore.

[@libbyskitchen327]

The dude who was like “are you alive?” You could instantly tell they not only used to be bf and gf but they were best friends.

[@mrvlacp]

came here during mid video for this comment lol

[@spookynoodle3919]

You can tell they still love each other

[@attytiryaki8504]

That one killed me!

[@kayperez8260]

ahhh literally!!

[@unnamed-aaaaaa7646]

3:10 and she was actually more alive than ever ^^ so cute to see

[@haleyb6402]

The military guy and the woman who called had my heart all mushed up. I hope they can find a way to work things out or even stay close friends in the future. I truly wish them the best

[@jasmim6612]

i just came here purposely to see if they were still together after watching past videos.

[@snowmaniq3476]

are they?

[@beatrizpires4879]

Same! I actually almost ended up in the same situation with my man but in the end we eventually end up talking knowing that we love each other and we can past through it if we wanted and we did They probably could work out if they tried it again

[@kazinayeer]

@@jasmim6612 sameeee

[@tg73188]

she looks a lil like selena

[@marvinap.3586]

I love how so many of the ex's are self aware and know what they did wrong

[@anitasewell9616]

Right, but then me call my ex’s and they say it’s all my fault😭🥴

[@danicagibson1886]

They know the phone call is being recorded they just don’t wanna look bad all over the internet 🤣

[@Momo2804.]

@@anitasewell9616 probably with mine too😅

[@kayladion2337]

i fucking wish

[@avablairrr]

“oh cause i was cheating “

[@50KV57]

The whispered “can we do this later?” she’s already moved on 😅

[@moochimichimoo]

Bet she was in the middle of something

[@christinecannibal844]

Lmao 😂 that had me rolling

[@jisooinyourarea6751]

She was in bed with her mans

[@inaworldfulloftrashbagsbet2023]

@@moochimichimoo she was probably in class

[@rastaa3x787]

I doubt it because why would she answer a call from an ex while she’s with another guy physically.. Actually nvm😂

[@smitha5022]

Dont EVER ask an ex if they would consider dating you again as a hypothetical. That gives them false hope and it's just cruel.

[@sandrajackson709]

Or it could make the person who is asking look foolishy persumptive to think that their ex has not moved on.

[@timwhite1783]

Maybe she deserved it :P

[@BeansWorst]

Shut up

[@juliangomez2308]

Not necessarily. If I asked someone that question, it would be because I would like to learn more about how they've changed since our hypothetical breakup, NOT because I want to hook up again.

[@Eurocoo]

⁠@@juliangomez2308then ask them how they’ve changed. Asking if they would date u again makes no sense for what ur trying to figure out, just weird

[@nicoleweir9582]

the guy admitting he wasn’t supportive when his ex wife had post part depression… jesus

[@ElCap1van]

People don't realize at the time only after

[@korn3701]

He said "enough"

[@gaybetch]

Clarity comes with time.

[@deniseguzman160]

@@korn3701 noticed that too! More like probably not supportive PERIOD.

[@icecreambodyrolls]

brooo... I was shocked to say the least.

[@sakshamtyagi9652]

Loved that the Indian dude accepted that he was in the wrong. That's rare tbh.

[@littledudefromacrossthestr5755]

How u knw he's even Indian

[@lotuscoma4127]

yeah i think a lot of people would say "she felt i wasnt being supportive" instead of just admitting he wasnt being supportive

[@_apoorva_07]

Hahahaha I was thinking the same lmaaaooo.

[@jonathanxavier2026]

He actually wasn't in the wrong. This is a classic case where the guy is expected to be nothing short of a therapist when women are having mental health issues. Yet, when men suffer similarly, the overwhelming response is "go see a therapist". Men are required to do huge amounts of emotional labour that women are not expected to do. He was not in the wrong, she had a responsibility to see a professional about her issues.

[@sakshamtyagi9652]

@@jonathanxavier2026 you don't know what went down in their relationship so you are not in a place to comment on it with little to no information. No you cannot be a therapist but the least you can do is be there for them and give them the emotional support you'd give any loved one in tough times.

[@avatierney675]

i feel for the girl who got cheated on, her heart literally shattered. she deserves the world and so much better than what she got.

[@Blueline1221]

why does she deserve the world? What did she have done? Do you know how she behave in the relationship?

[@yukilu602]

@@Blueline1221 jesus dude, why the background check, do you do this to all your friends when something bad happens to them? she didnt mean it literally, she just meant she deserves better after being cheated on. its just a way to show sympathy.

[@Mossyangel]

@@Blueline1221 figure of speech

[@Blueline1221]

@@yukilu602 i know, but i came to the point, where i think, that it's just hypocritical. Sorry for being so negative, but there are way more people (little starving children) on this world, that deserve the world. And yea, i do this to all my friends. My first you question is: Do you want comforting or help? In the end, there always information hidden in the victim role :) When you have a different perspective, than feel free to tell me, because im always open for learning. But i just can't stand superficial empty phrases, that helps no one.

[@babyvanillas]

@@Blueline1221 bffr what does this have to do with starving children...

[@b2kzangelalwayz]

“Nancy from Maryland?” He had WOMEN WOMEN

[@hugecake4178]

Guess, she's not the only Nancy he's ever been with 😆

[@TheBiggBaby]

Lol 😂 right

[@loveleyyyyy]

Fr! At first I was like, homebody know exactly who that is but then I was like waitttt 😂

[@aura5944]

Giving serial vibes

[@cillamorales6274]

Wth.....recent lmao no way

[@xvnn_]

Kurtis unblocking his ex to call him and then blocking him again immediately afterwards 💀💀

[@lea-ou8qx]

“are u blocking him” “yes” “laughs”

[@peaceandsolitude]

🤣🤣

[@marissapastor6030]

Ilyyy 💀💀

[@Princessm1320]

Me af!!

[@minadaggett1229]

That would’ve been me lmao

[@user-li4sv1rn2f]

Not Curtis calling the ex, say “love you”, then blocking again. I just died laughing 🤣🤣🤣

[@wb7079]

I love Curtis

[@mrblackmamba117]

Nah man i found that to be sad. Just broke up today and got blocked lmao

[@angelanatasha4418]

Something I'd do lol

[@ufreshblood]

lmao it was the ily and then gagging right after for me

[@oponomo]

the ex clearly still had feelings for him, that was such a knife to the heart. Hope curtis has his heart broken so bad he wakes up under a brige.

[@JavanDeCarlo]

“Oh cause I was cheatin” *facepalm*😭😭

[@naaj2slimee]

😭😭😭

[@lea-ou8qx]

😭😭😭

[@s.m815]

that's funny and sad😭

[@riri4883]

It's the nonchalant way he said it for me💀💀🤚🏾

[@makkiewakkie9267]

Fr so funny

[@LovergirlT]

The girl that said she was going to marry him really dodged a bullet

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

Yup he was dusty af

[@s.m815]

ikr especially the way he said it, kinda rubbed me the wrong way, like imagine all the crap she would've dealt with

[@Reymiyaaa]

She is too pretty to go through that-

[@kyieronmcmullen7717]

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 🤣🤣🤣

[@Clara0888]

Yes! I was so sad for her especially when I wantched another vid where she called her crush and he rejected her

[@commentforthealgo5383]

"when i break up with somebody, you and everyone you know is no longer in existence" ............ god damn poetry

[@o_o-lj1ym]

“Hold on” “Are you blocking him again?” “Mhm” 😂😂😂

[@JohnDoe-lj8yc]

o_o

[@cashdollzyy3730]

He’s me asffff

[@MADZOUA]

THAT KILLED ME

[@lindagatwiri869]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nicoletabalno4322]

Ily

[@Slappys]

*“Nancy from Maryland?”* I would’ve hung up immediately! 😂😂😂

[@kazoonoises3686]

Seriously lol, I know it probably wasn't intended but putting emphasis on the Maryland part makes it seem like there were several Nancy's 😂

[@itssskeylaaa5164]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im dead

[@olivermerth5179]

Lmaoooooooooo

[@dulcer4734]

I mean, it’s a common name I guess lmfao

[@Hashpotato]

the funniest shit out of this vid no cap

[@veritasaequitas2192]

"I wanted all the good things in a relationship[ but i didn't have the maturity to handle that." I respect that.

[@emmacherry2093]

Yup me too

[@markchristianlopez6739]

That post-partum depression made me really sad. I have seen people go through that and I can only imagine how difficult it is that you are going through something like that but there’s no one to hold on to. It might have been devastating if you ask me.

[@PHlophe]

Chico, its misunderstood by us men . Qué Triste !

[@bubb102]

As a woman whose been through this, can confirm, it's devastating and then some. Props to you for noticing and having heart for the mamas 💜

[@dezdesiree5783]

Yes

[@econ9028]

Yes, completely wrong. It's not like there's no such thing as therapists or someone who is actually studied and licensed in the field of those such areas. 🖕

[@bubb102]

@@econ9028 If you or someone you know is dealing with or has gone through PPD and you actually love them, just shut the fuck up and hold them. That's it, that's the whole story. There are some things therapists, etc can not provide.

[@itsmeeandrea]

The guy immediately blocking his ex again is a mood 🤣🤣🤣

[@candice11-f8]

😂

[@Stallchild]

When the man said he didn't support his wife during PPD, that broke my heart for her. I suffered SO badly after I had my children, to have a spouse not support me during that time I probably wouldn't be here anymore. I hope they're both okay now

[@User61918]

tf is post partum depression? ppl come up with more fake shit everyday

[@oponomo]

Did you regret becoming a mom? Would you suggest for young people to think about not become parents now-a-days? I'm wondering for myself.

[@Stallchild]

@@oponomo I do NOT regret it at all, my children are absolutely wonderful and they changed my life. I absolutely love them with my entire being. Becoming a parent is absolutely nothing to take lightly but I would never suggest anyone to not become a parent. Everyone is different and if someone suffers afterward there are many outlets and support systems that are available.

[@ericab1302]

SAME! My partner was literally the person that made the call for me to see a doctor and get on anti-depressants ❤

[@katarzynamariamuszynska2811]

At least he admitted

[@CurlyQueue_]

Can we give big props to the guy who decided to break things off before cheating? I always suggest trying to work things out but if that's how things end up always talk and communicate before being sneaky about it!!

[@hoosierhiver]

No doubt, some people's MO is always finding a new partner before breaking up.

[@ashe5167]

i agree that it’s good to communicate, but big props for not cheating? the bar is in hell 💀

[@aus-li]

Cheating is legitimately one of the things I hate the most. Literally the only thing you have to do is communicate, and if it doesn’t work out, then so be it.

[@wavxvxbes3957]

No we aren’t giving props to someone who did what your supposed to do in a relationship

[@earthhquaakee]

absolutely not, shouldn't have entered a relationship to begin with if u have a propensity to cheat. just stay single

[@serenabynoe3606]

the guy that said his family thinks is his fault and he fucked up🤣 sounds so genuine with that fact and i think he feels that deep down, both of them have came a long way and matured maybe down the road things can change🤞🏽 either way wish the best for the both of them❤️💯

[@ElCap1van]

He was in the military and knew his girl was getting piped up

[@hand__banana]

@@AxxLAfriku ah sweet a schizo meltdown

[@_CL]

@@ElCap1van maybe he was the one doing plumbing in the military...

[@ElCap1van]

@@_CL simply not true

[@Avi-tq6fd]

@@ElCap1van to be honest, she admitted to cheating. Don't know if it was this one.

[@samanthaleisher397]

They got balls. I could never call my ex. That would instantly start an argument.

[@tabithareyna3201]

The girl with the bangs genuinely seems like she had a deep connection with that guy. It just feels like there really could’ve been more with them two. Also the lady with the beautiful braided bun and how just upset she was at the end like it wasn’t your fault boo you didn’t need to marry no man who ain’t ready to commit.

[@PisCean]

"I was actually going to marry him, but he was a serial cheater!" LMAO

[@midaphkaolibrice6485]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Social_Pugatory]

I mean she dodged a bullet with and that one…I mean how nonchalantly he said “I was cheating” seems he’s still cheating and will continue to cheat it’s a lifestyle for him. 😂

[@blessed6477]

Oh that hurts she was so sad

[@PisCean]

@RusaForever I'm not laughing at her pain, just thought what she said was funny lol

[@ItsKDen.]

1:58 He was straight forward instead of going behind her back?! Respect

[@diroysama8558]

Damn great to see some people actually know what accountability is ☺

[@cyna866]

Right! So refreshing!

[@anitasewell9616]

Right!!! Made me happy

[@diroysama8558]

@@cyna866 100% ❤

[@diroysama8558]

@@anitasewell9616 absolutely 💯 👌

[@AmanKumar-ty8kc]

Men know accountability, women don't.

[@StudentDoctor94]

Curtis a Savage. Unblock and calls ex, says some regrettable cringing "Ily" and then reblocks ex 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Ilah looking radiant af btw!

[@dontdoit2207]

FOr a gay men he had such straight shoulders 04:30

[@manialord1699]

@@dontdoit2207 Huh what do gay and straight shoulders look like? Are the shoulders attracted to armpits if straight or other shoulders if gay?

[@evcarlos13]

@@manialord1699 boi

[@manialord1699]

@@evcarlos13 👦

[@mikalaybourn]

I fucking love how hilarious Curtis is AHAHAH

[@zabby25]

“Im not doing this shit” LMFAO damn.

[@jasonbeatty831]

Respect to him.

[@chrisruddick2493]

“Hey, it’s Nancy” “Who?” “It’s Nancy?” Nancy: 👁👄👁

[@nellitojames1738]

🤣🤣🤣😹 Nancy drew

[@nataliazapata9769]

“From Maryland”💀💀😭

[@loveyloveydovey]

nancy from momoland

[@strwbrrys]

he was like which nancy ? 😃

[@cloudsurfer73]

@@strwbrrys that was cold 🤣

[@jesschadlowe7271]

me who has never dated and doesnt have an ex 👁👄👁

[@carbon...]

Hahaha same 🙌🏻😂 Btw, I'm just 16.....so there's hope for me

[@samgourhan207]

I had my first @ 22 im nearly 24. She was a tumblr femenist with no idea of how the outside world actually was. Trust me its better to be single than to settle

[@elleann1776]

You’re not missing anything I swear being single and not heartbroken is better

[@marianabravo5903]

Yeah me too 😂😪👏🏼

[@marianabravo5903]

Who?😅😂

[@krys6491]

i loved the conversation with the military guy it felt real. and yk just how he said "Are you alive" right after picking up says a lot

[@SuicidalCatz]

I'm really surprised it turned out good for everybody who participated. If I had to call my ex I think I would've broke into tears

[@Moonfrog000]

No cuz same. He and I message each other sometimes but hearing his voice again would be like a knife to my heart LMAO

[@ashytashy]

if i called my exs we would just be vibing cuz were still bestfriends

[@beautifulj2952]

Facts

[@MelancholyRequiem]

Oh that's 'cause all of the bad ones end up on Dateline.

[@AS-on1fz]

Like fr. I'm actually still crying lol. I have bdp 🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@MojeZycieWSkrocie]

I genuinely respect these people. I could have not been able to call an ex mainly because I can't figure out whether they'd be thrilled or disappointed lmao!!

[@TiaPumpkin8421]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gprRpqNpfbt9ecU 😘😘

[@DoubleMonoLR]

Hmm, many of them are basically just exploiting their ex's for a youtube video.

[@MojeZycieWSkrocie]

@@DoubleMonoLR that’s one way to look at it. 😄

[@summerbarnes5027]

The girl who had the ex who went to the military, they are so cute… they clearly still have some love for eachother or atleast didn’t end on such a bad note as some others did

[@poisonmusic8354]

I hope everyone gets their closure and moves on, find their happiness(:

[@justjuuun533]

Though, as someone who didn't have a proper closure, it did take me more than a year to finally get up but I definitely am more happier now so thanks :)

[@thepianist6515]

Me too

[@Tanique]

The fact that he blocked him right after is so funny lmaoo😂😭

[@sarahpeterson9422]

What I like about this is the people taking ownership if the relationship failed. But to also see those people realizing that and then getting back together "possibly". You get a lot of shit for going back to an ex but people grow, learn, and change. Its always possible to do it right the next time.

[@AminosWorld]

this shows that communication is fucking key in any kind of relationships

[@OKBoomer2k]

I have much respect for the people on the phone who admit where they were wrong.

[@AK47BLACKice]

At least some of these people were mature enough to nicely explain why things didn’t work out. The others simply confirmed why things obviously didn’t work out. They didn’t know it then but they’re probably glad they at least got some closure. Not everybody does.

[@HayleyEstep]

The maturity thing with nancy's ex, I felt that on another level with my ex

[@ke7145]

“Ily byee” 😂😂 i like that they made ily a word

[@elfiee1659]

It's nice to see most of these exes are quite calm. If I were to call my ex I'm sure we'd get into a huge argument 🌝

[@Sweetbunniez]

😂😂😂

[@AS-on1fz]

Lol same

[@Nat-wi1ro]

right all i was thinking about was if i called i wouldnt even get a hello just straight screaming and insults that led into an argument and if he knew i called for a video i wouldnt hear the end of it lol

[@K.I.A22]

All your fault, too.

[@hvcky]

I relate to military guy. As a person who grew up as an introvert, talking to people and communicating was one of the hardest things for me.

[@sola_a]

That's not the Definition of an introvert mate

[@hvcky]

@@sola_a introvert - a shy, reticent person. Reticent - not revealing one's thoughts or feelings readily. like I said, an introvert. I normally don’t like revealing my thoughts or feelings to someone because I always thought “no one cares, so why waste the breath” I was shy as well, i just didn’t like talking to people. I always thought I was bothering people if did or say anything. In a relationship, communicating is key. Try dating a guy who doesn’t like to talk and make conversation. It’s boring basically right?

[@sola_a]

@@hvcky not what an introvert is. Introvertiert and extroversion is all about energy. An extrovert gets his energy from being around people and feels drained when they are not. An introvert can interact with others but will feel drained over time and has to recharge by being alone. Being introverted has nothing to do with being shy or being bad at communication, there are other words for that. As an introvert, I'm just annoyed with people misusing the term for there awkwardness. About your problem: I'm going to assume you're a minor/teen (correct me if I'm wrong). Trust me, most teenagers are like this. You'll grow our of it to an extend as you grow and experience more of life. I was like that too, still am a bit. What helped me was realizing that people don't actually care. Think about it, how many times a day do you think about one specific person and analyze their behavior? You don't right? So why would others? Everyone has their own issues to face, so why would something as stupid as your awkwardness be something that bothers them? The only one who actually cares is you. Stop caring. We only live on this earth once, it's too short of a time to be shy. You are correct, you won't have a good relationship before you fix your communications problem.

[@hvcky]

@@sola_a well I’m not a teenager. I’m an adult but I guess misunderstood this whole time. Maybe I’m just a person who needs confidence or something. I just always think my existence bugs people. With that mindset, I just stay away from people as much as I can. Maybe “introvert” isn’t the right term to label my “problem”. I’m sorry if I upset you.

[@swiftt8546]

@@sola_a it is 💀?

[@michellemolefi5191]

The amount of accountability in this video is unmatched.

[@livelaughhowdy]

I honestly love how they were all (mostly) self-aware enough to say on their part what they did wrong. I love how they explained their part rather than jumping at them saying "you did this wrong".

[@Maggot_infestedd]

This can be heartbreaking as hell.

[@breathing_helium_art]

The issues with the military guy spoke to me, my boyfriend has a lot of the same issues and we have the same beautiful friendship. I hope we work out watching them reminded me even more of the blessing I have 💕

[@howdyyall4335]

I pray things go well between you guys. God bless 💓

[@sassyempress7916]

Respect to everyone who actually answered the question. That takes balls to tell the truth. It shows a level of maturity as well as how much someone has grown.

[@AaMmack]

This and so many of Cut’s videos should get more praise because of the norms they’ve exploiting. Like many commenters here, I am and always will be a major believer that communication is the key no matter the situation. If something’s going on, communicate. If you’re feeling a certain way, communicate. Doing so can be easier said than done, but even the simplest of calls/texts can provide an amount of closure to someone in need of it. Even though that person may not be as present in your life as they once were, they’re still a time stamp in your life. Thank you Cut and keep it up!

[@DoubleMonoLR]

The video(and some of the callers) is exploiting the ex's for a youtube video, I personally think it's a terrible example. It would be much different if they did it privately, but if people don't already know why they broke up, there was huge problems in the relationship.

[@sarah-sandres]

True

[@BipolarVirgo]

All they had to do was be accountable and honest. Glad some people still know how to be mature and communicate.

[@inhobiswinecellar9571]

we need more channels like cut. they always find the most chill group of folks to do these interviews. like the bravery to call an ex out of nowhere. oml.

[@joasadhae]

Ilah is like the person everyone wishes they had in their life. At least as a friend, or even as an enemy. She just has to be there. No cap.

[@felisasininus1784]

So that IS Ilah! She's awesome. Glad to see the past three years hasn't made her into any less sweet of a person.

[@musicislife2106]

It's really refreshing to see so many exes understanding their part in the relationship ending

[@Handle6278]

Everyone talking about the military dude and the best response to me was "I wanted all the good things that cane with a relationship but I didn't know how to handle that". That was real af.

[@badguytalks6655]

I definitely delete exes numbers, text threads & Socials i leave no doors open lol i always thought it was weird when people keep all that

[@callhard]

nahh, that feels immature. you can still be friends with your ex unless shit happens then yeah ill nuke everything of theirs

[@squimbwarftestiballs]

I do that when they deserve it. Had a manipulative ex that kept trying to rope me back in cuz I was weak. Then my first ex immediately after breaking up with me starting being petty and posting pics with a new person.

[@miasakura1933]

@@callhard depends from which perspective you view it. Generally speaking a break up equals to move on. Breaking up as in Breaking off of that person. If keeping text threads, pictures and so on drag you down then getting rid of them is pretty mature and reasonable. But I agree, to keep being friends with your ex is possible and awesome. Though some circumstances do not allow to make such work out and that is perfectly fine as well :).

[@Akamai_25]

I purge everything after a breakup also, delete numbers/block them on everything. I want nothing to do with them when it’s an official breakup. I remember people saying “that’s so immature of you to pretend he doesn’t exist!”…like ok? SORRY if I don’t want to be best friends with my ex’s?? Like wth? Mind your business because this is how some people start moving on

[@aus-li]

@@Akamai_25 I thought like that too, but if you considered your ex a best friend when you were dating them, and you had similar personalities…then why not give it a chance? Just a thought.

[@diana.forgodsglory9224]

To the girl at 2:30 please don’t out with that guy again . The only thing he said was “having sex was fun” 🙄

[@mariaeckles4302]

Kind of happy for the girl who's getting a fresh start. All exes are just decent people! Love it!!

[@breathing_helium_art]

The lady who had the serial cheater broke my heart, those relationships are so draining. Where one person is giving it their all and the other person is only saying they're giving it their all. That is the definition of stringing someone on and it's so hard to go against the hope of what they're telling you and trust they're shitty actions instead. It means giving up on someone you'd do anything for, including waste away by their side. It's hard to choose your own wellbeing when accepting relationship breakdown would cause you so much pain short term. Know that the average female gets over a breakup in 3 months. That's an average of 84 days. We feel all the loss and pain and then we stand up stronger. My heart goes out to you and I hope your inner healing is still going strong 💕

[@Nat-wi1ro]

yep i felt for her since my abusice ex is also so nonchalant. ive learned that some people are just givers and some are takers and a relationship with one of each will led to resentment and heartbreak. we keep making excuses for them which only makes it harder to detach and move on. Im glad she didnt marry him i could only imagine how much more toxic that relationship might have become when adding in marriage. its so hard giving up on someone and your relationship but you are giving up on yourself when you stay. I hope shes healing

[@wsawyer350]

Wow this hit me so hard , a lot of them now know what went wrong but back then they had no idea . You have to meet the right person at the right time , otherwise you don’t have the maturity to hold on to the good things that life offers to you. We learn from the history and become a better person but we no longer have a second chance to stand by each other’s side .

[@norapeace6526]

Exactly why I did not want to get into a relationship with this guy I fell super hard for. Because I know that we wouldn’t have lasted and I care about him too much to have let that happen

[@wildhoneyhome]

It hit me hard

[@wsawyer350]

@@wildhoneyhome guess we all have the same experience lol , gotta move on though

[@wsawyer350]

@@norapeace6526 I feel u , god bless u

[@norapeace6526]

@@wsawyer350God bless you as well!

[@taurus0362]

They got some of these people back together with their exes. 😂👌🏽

[@ingaxnathi]

he said it with such ease 2:20 like oh yea... bc i cheated, next question.

[@hillelkita2354]

Yeah it already happened, no need to deny if both people already know

[@isabellewhite3505]

The ex girlfriend was hoping for a different explanation. Why??? He's a serial cheater. He cannot commit to monogamy. Dear me

[@svilendenchev9984]

City Boys Up!

[@juss_danii]

@@svilendenchev9984 tb4l😈

[@saraparis8186]

the people who owned up to them being the reason the relationship didn't workout are so mature.

[@hollybitterman8679]

everybody seems so mature and they actually owned up to how they hurt the relationship other than blaming the other person

[@orangeoranges6727]

awww ilah & the military dude rlly seemed like they have great chemistry! hope they reconnect & become friends again :)

[@bachopinbee5991]

The last one is called an assist! Blaine is a fuckin genius

[@coralei_reid]

“Are you alive?” 😭😭 that’s too funny and cute

[@gabemcmenamin6232]

I really relate to the bloke who said he was in the military. I was living in Japan through the pandemic and tried to keep a long distance relationship going but ultimately the biggest problem on my end was communication. The idea of a long distance relationship is great, but it’s a lot easier said than done. Hope they’re both good now. 🙏🏼

[@gothicherie6691]

Takes a lot of trust and effort :/ but possible

[@Leo-hc3yy]

I recently broke up with my first bf after 2 years and 9 months . We had been in the long distance relationship and only last few months he moved to a place further away and he had been struggling a bit. One reason was that we dun have much memories together & We only had less than a month of staying together in our entire relationship. he is also going to move to another country so much harder to meet up. So he couldn’t keep the relationship. I couldn’t give up but he did in the end. I am grateful he did cuz I could never even when I know it’s not working out. Broke up just few days ago and I still cry myself to sleep. Long distance is a lot harder than it’s said, I got much more respect for people making LDR work.

[@Leo-hc3yy]

Being satisfied with only few days of meeting together and then miles apart is not everyone’s piece of cake

[@aewtx]

I will never do a long distance relationship again. That led to the downfall of my engagement, I'm pretty certain. But stupid me, I thought our love had been strong enough to withstand the distance for one year. Two things I learned: 1) Love is not enough. You need to constantly reinforce that foundation, and when you're doing it from far away, it's not going to be as stable. 2) It can fall apart surprisingly fast. Don't take it for granted that the relationship is as strong as you think it is.

[@sharknado623]

I was in Japan during the pandemic too! Were you in Tokyo?

[@Ms_show]

The girl with the bangs needs to consider her ex again. The lad sounds genuine, perhaps he’s better with communication now?

[@selqtvi]

3:07 “are you alive?” “I AM ALIVE” my favorite part LOLS

[@scoobie8amg]

Kudos for the people who said they were the problem.

[@Jonila.b]

When they ask the dude in 4:52 “are you blocking him again?” That is soooo me

[@georgerothenberger9236]

The woman who said she didn’t have any numbers from any of her exes ……… she’s the one I would love to date. I am amazed how many people do have their exes numbers in their phone

[@WoahhTeamJacob]

My two favorite cut members Curtis and the dude that always wears a suit w/ the curly hair. Keep them forever

[@sir.stayton6269]

And Ilah they all chill

[@jamescallagher5876]

Nah Curtis is annoying af

[@sambatra6162]

@@jamescallagher5876 nah he isn't

[@nextbigthing2917]

He lost feelings for her and decided to let the person know like a normal human being.

[@brir2333]

Love the level of maturity and self awareness in some of these people

[@felicityconde2721]

Ilah looks so good 😍 I didn’t even recognize her at first , this hair fits her for sure

[@butterflywings2606]

This kind of videos can either help the ex-couple make up and continue their past love or continue the treatment they have with each other after their breakup

[@robertfreestone414]

I didn't have EXs, just dates that either didn't show up or canceled it. Other people who knew them told me that they were either trying to make someone else jealous or their friends, including the person talking to me, convinced my "date" that she can DEFINITELY do better. No trials and/or tribulations. Just straight, "Nope!".

[@bella_oio]

There no way… my ex would be this mature and calm.

[@breannahenry4873]

I think the girl and her ex who was In the military were the most genuine and open.

[@MizBoriMoon]

I know right? I think they’ll find their way back together (if not already) 🥰

[@rnk1127]

I love how Cut always tries to end every video on a good note.

[@Allison.Stonee]

I would love to do this with a former ex, but I would be way to shy and nervous to ask him those questions. I’d throw my phone as soon as it starts ringing

[@sylviawaindim3143]

I am you. 😂

[@butterflywings2606]

I like how some admitted they're the one at fault why the relationship ended instead of pushing it to the other partner.

[@rmm505]

6:05 her voice is so soothing

[@teggyegg]

5:40 - with his family blaming him, the way he telling it he makes it sound funny but I bet in reality it really hurts.

[@ourcore]

I'm with the person who didn't have any of her ex's numbers still in their phone

[@thihal123]

The guy at 4:57 - he’s adorable and seems to be such a genuine and honest person.

[@xtcharmed]

that guy that admitted he had feelings for someone else and was honest w her about it omggg thats how you do it ppl!!! just be honest before you go and cheat like we appreciate that honesty!

[@SonLe-gh3dz]

I don't like how ex's basically become strangers

[@tslover865]

Ik, it’s so sad how someone can be your everything but can then quickly become a stranger.

[@avilla4013]

Sometimes you have too because if you remain friends they still think there's a chance with the relationship. Almost like you have to do it that way for both to fully move on with the least amount of hurt

[@augustrosepriv892.]

@@avilla4013 That's not true, sometimes it's better to stay friends with your ex, and never date again...sometimes love works, and sometimes friendship is better...

[@avilla4013]

@@augustrosepriv892. I tried to keep it cool with my ex but the more we talked the more she wanted us to continue. Had to cut off the communication to move forward

[@KRD89]

The last phone call in the vid had the most enthusiastic hello I''ve ever heard...

[@bellastellalove513]

The way 'ily' was said as a word..AND THE TONE. Is sending me 💀I've been saying that all day to my bestfriend in the same tone 😂

[@Tanique]

"I'm not doing this shit. Call somebody else" *hangs up* THAT WAS RUDE!

[@bustinjieber9539]

the lady whose ex was a serial cheater looked sad after that call. you guys definitely brought back unwanted memories

[@AnnaM4rieMillerLite]

I love the relationship that has built between the cut team, Curtis, and fan that have seen him countless times. please never stop featuring Curtis.

[@samanthas3248]

ilah looks so good!!! 🥺

[@mariegarni7563]

She really did a glow up from her already glowing face

[@samanthas3248]

@das das 💯 true!

[@sandra112390]

My pride will NEVER let me call my ex with this kind of question.

[@ilah_dizon]

Thankful to have met Anthony/Matt through cut- we are still friends 5 years later!

[@paigerudd9207]

Ilah you literally look so stunning in this video!!

[@AJ4LYF95]

Hey Ilah, you seem like such a good craic :)

[@ilah_dizon]

@@paigerudd9207 Awh thank you so much!

[@ilah_dizon]

@@AJ4LYF95 why thank you Aaron 🤗

[@mj._xo3899]

The new hair looks STUNNING ON YOU.