HOW TO PROTECT YOUR FEMININITY

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Cynthia L

Cynthia L

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@amandazplace5663
@amandazplace5663 2 жыл бұрын
One suggestion I have for all you single ladies or married ladies who must work full-time. 👉See if there are opportunities in your company to transfer to a role or department that utilizes more feminine traits. When I was working full-time I moved into an HR role, I did a lot of staff training. It allowed me to improve my listening skills, teaching skills, dealing with employees with physical and mental health absences...just areas where I could use my more nurturing side. I also highly recommend volunteering at church in childcare.♥️🇨🇦
@daniela.nuness
@daniela.nuness 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, Cynthia! I left instagram in 2017 and I don't regret it. I never wanted to download it again and my life got lot better, since I stoped wating things that I don't have and started being greateful for all that I have. Hugs from Brazil 💕
@monicalong1371
@monicalong1371 2 жыл бұрын
You absolutely shine as a mother and radiate so much joy and contentment. Such a contrast to what is seen so often of workaholic mothers schlepping their kids back and forth and all over while looking so discontent and miserable. Thank you for being the feminine influence needed today.
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Monica💛. I feel so lucky to be able to stay home with my baby
@sbahale5019
@sbahale5019 2 жыл бұрын
yess 😍 it was so lovely to hear you talking about your Catholic faith on your channel! as a fellow Catholic woman it's always exciting to hear fellow Catholics being joyful about their faith 🥰 loving the confidence cynthia 😤
@lindaleclair8938
@lindaleclair8938 2 жыл бұрын
So delighted to see you have a video up today. I consider some of my feminine FB groups and youtubers as my friends, even though we have never met, and I get inspiration. I'm blessed to have really close friends who share my faith. I've definitely cut back on social media and unfollow FB friends and relatives who post political and other disturbing posts. You are such a lovely young woman, Cynthia!
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting Linda💛. Facebook can definitely be a place where many people share their opinions too harshly!
@Selkiemama
@Selkiemama 2 жыл бұрын
Linda, what are some feminine FB groups you like? I’d love to connect with some likeminded women!
@Offthebeatenpath.
@Offthebeatenpath. 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, I’m in a season of slowing down too and it’s much needed💕
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Those can be the best seasons☺️!
@butterflygroove
@butterflygroove 2 жыл бұрын
Limited social media for sure. Trying to keep my phone in another room while partaking in my feminine hobbies (down to physically writing down recipes on recipe cards). I’ve also transitioned away from super intense workouts. Lately I’ve been loving Bollywood style dance.✨
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Love those suggestions!
@1019alisia
@1019alisia 2 жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned vocations. I recently joined the Catholic Church at Easter and I love the teaching on vocations, it has inspired me so much and gave me such a sense of purpose being a wife and mother.
@hope3894
@hope3894 2 жыл бұрын
I really miss you, Cynthia. Take your time ❤
@halcyondays8945
@halcyondays8945 2 жыл бұрын
Love this. I really appreciate your wisdom and humility. This may sound selfish to some but I find self care is absolutely key to protecting my femininity. Eating well, sleeping enough, drinking enough water, meditating, stimulating my brain and taking the time to put on something that I feel good in and doing a quick makeup routine - all helps me to be at my best. When I neglect my self care it’s really easy to lose my sense of humour and get frazzled. For a long time I thought it was selfish to take good care of myself but now I know that I can’t be my best for my family without it.
@weekend1rocks
@weekend1rocks 2 жыл бұрын
Not selfish at all! Being able to nurture others starts with nurturing ourselves.
@leaphan6141
@leaphan6141 2 жыл бұрын
This might sound kind of weird: I started veiling outside of Mass as a personal devotion. I’ve been doing it since last year using bandanas but I felt drawn to using a scarf to cover more; I started wearing the hijab (headscarf) about three months ago and it’s actually made me feel so much more feminine and much more confident as a woman. I feel like I shine and has made me love being a woman so much more. I’ve gotten comments on how pretty I look covered up. It’s been a fun journey 🌸
@etherealrosegold
@etherealrosegold 2 жыл бұрын
I already wear the hijab all thanks to The Most Merciful and His guidance, The Qur'an.And now I'm looking forward to covering the face with a veil... the next step. There's always room for improvement, we're not perfect however we're always rewarded by doing good. Let's be our best selves♡
@NotFckingBen
@NotFckingBen 2 жыл бұрын
Same!! I’m in a very liberal Christian household that forbids wearing veils (even to church) and I’ve been wondering if I should start veiling. This is my rebellious teen arc 💀💀 but jokes aside, I’ve recently started wearing lace or big flowy bandanas every time I leave the house and tbh it feels great!! Covering up is a beautiful thing that ADDS- not retracts- from your natural God-given beauty. and I think it’s time we as ladies realize that :)
@sisterfleur7523
@sisterfleur7523 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh I am a muslim who wears the veil and long dresses. I feel super feminine, modest, honoured! If I did not live in the west, I would probably wear the face veil. But here I am afraid to be attacked 😂
@orchidswithnina
@orchidswithnina 2 жыл бұрын
I love wearing the hijab it really is a protective force in my life. Glad your enjoying exploring that to 😊
@Muffin...
@Muffin... 2 жыл бұрын
Te has de ver más linda cubierta por que no se ve tu cara jaja
@whitneyirvin2498
@whitneyirvin2498 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I've been struggling some more recently with over indulging on IG and even getting headaches from constantly clicking on it whenever I pick up my phone. My husband and I aren't able to conceive children🙏🏼, and now we're actually living with my Grandparents for a time. (Their so gracious for allowing us). So I'm having a little trouble with figuring out how to flourish in my femininity and vocation as wife with this new dynamic. Thank you Cynthia for these videos of yours, they always bring extra joy to my day, and give me that sense of community; especially in the midst of so much craziness in society. 🙏🏼
@jovabarris
@jovabarris 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, social media is complex as jealous women and trolls co-exist. Thank goodness for the option to block trolls. I limit the amount of social media in which I utilize. I primarily use my phone for GPS, calling, and texting my partner. And I use my MacBook for Facebooking to maintain updates w/ fellow homemakers. Thankfully, I'm able to interact w/ like-minded traditional women. Thank you so much for updating us! ☺️ We love you!
@mrsmackenzie
@mrsmackenzie 2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy you finally posted! We miss you ❤️
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Missed you all too💛💛, it’s been a bit challenging when I’ve been focusing a lot on baby and my health. I will talk about it in an update video!
@mrsmackenzie
@mrsmackenzie 2 жыл бұрын
I hope everything is okay. I’ll be praying for you and the baby ❤️
@chanellekirch
@chanellekirch 2 жыл бұрын
I am super happy you posted this. I have been waiting for this!
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
☺️💛!!
@_C_3737
@_C_3737 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve literally been checking up on your channel and Mrs. Midwest because y’all have both been gone for a few months and are both my go to KZbinrs! Glad to see you are well! I’m very glad that you upload when it’s most convenient for you! I think overworking can reduce our femininity!
@quorrakai
@quorrakai 2 жыл бұрын
Oh we have missed you!! Great video as always. I agree totally on social media and the news. I don't watch the news, it's all fear and control. I have no social media besides YT. It's all just too much information for the human brain to process and in a healthy way. I live my life in the real world and it's completely different from the internet. 😊 Yep, just be happy and don't have a care in the world about what other people think. I'm Canadian but I've lived in the U.S for the past 12 years. You would love it here.
@gabriellebuckley4132
@gabriellebuckley4132 2 жыл бұрын
Omg so glad your back I love your videos
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
☺️💛
@Mdg307
@Mdg307 2 жыл бұрын
Difficult times. Financial struggle makes everything much harder. Glad to see you again. Hugs
@joyfulmaerose8933
@joyfulmaerose8933 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, I can very much empathize with this. I love your vulnerability and honesty when you opened the video. Thank you. When you mentioned the news I couldn't agree more. I'm a mom of 3 and realized quickly and early on that any time that news leaked into my life I would get so stressed that I would be having a hard time around the children. I wanted very deeply to only be myself around them, and not let the news influence my life with them. So I have assessed and found that I deeply trust my husband and his assessment, research, and judgement of what's going on. I've watched him closely over our whole marriage and I deeply trust his judgement, his research, and therefore what he finds important/unimportant. I've found, for the most part, I trust him deeply in it. So kind of how men used protect women from the physical dangers before, I ask him to protect me from the outside dangers. If I get a note of news I ask him about it. He's a lot less emotional about it so I really appreciate his view, especially since I've already vetted it. It has helped so much with my stress and allowed me the freedom to live in the joy of being with my lovely children and focusing on being a beam of light in their life (which we all need) rather than a ball of stress. I know it's a very unpopular stance to take these days, but: 1. I trust my judgement in my husband very much. 2. Therefore, I trust my husband. 3. My children are my top priority and anything that gets in the way of that I wish to minimize. (BTW, I love the chaos in the background. It's so much like life. And you carrying the baby later is just so absolutely endearing and connecting for me. Congrats again on the lovely baby, it's a great life. :))
@theparttimehomemaker
@theparttimehomemaker 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. Social media use needs to be limited and gradually scaling back on work also would be beneficial. I have a career and work full-time and honestly, it's tiring, stressful and unfulfilling- not matter how much money I make.
@peanutbrittle99
@peanutbrittle99 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! As someone who has to work fulltime next to my studies I am prone to masculinity because that is what is expected…I want to nurture my femininity more! ❤️
@aroyaliota
@aroyaliota 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this reminder. I run a mid to top tier Tik Tok that’s become hectic. What I find the most bothersome is the profanity or words that will eventually get my channel black listed if allowed to remain in the comment section. (Keeping it family friendly) OMGosh the trolls from dissenters is frustrating. Not because I want to change their mind, but their ignorance and deliberate rewriting of current events is alarming. Not only the time it takes frustrates me, but my language internally & externally has become more profane. Moving closer to seventy than sixty I continue to keep myself open to either a course correction or adjustments to routine and necessary procedures. Listening to your quiet but firm insistence that femininity is to be cherished and guarded helped me remain focused on what counts. Again, thank you for covering this important topic. All the best lovely lady.
@chasefam
@chasefam 2 жыл бұрын
Ugh I’m looking at my phone way too often too. I’m 38 weeks pregnant with a toddler. So exhausted but to entertain myself since I’m no longer super active I’m looking at my phone. ❤️ I’m trying to give myself grace and say this is only for a short amount of time. The news also really stresses me out. Hugs ❤️ it’s a tough time for everyone.
@elliedaisy1799
@elliedaisy1799 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the point about feminine leadership Cynthia, we desperately need more women leading in this way! Thank you for this video! 💗
@TheWellNourishedHomemaker
@TheWellNourishedHomemaker 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said as always! I’ve been struggling with some of the same things. Glad to see a video from you. 🥰
@MrsRoy-fm3sh
@MrsRoy-fm3sh 2 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you are talking about. It's been really painful lately hasn't it? I try to lose my phone. just set it down and leave it there until it makes a noise or I remember. I really think I should work harder on not using profanity. Sometimes I get a little sassy. Thank you so much for reminding me of who I am. ❤
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard these days, since the world is so frustrating lol and technology is so accessible! Definitely a struggle
@jliA7
@jliA7 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely and inspiring video💛 I'm always happy to notice you've posted something. I hope you will continue making some content, even if it is on a slower pace. You look like you are thriving and shining here, and seem so confident lately!
@cristinac.m.523
@cristinac.m.523 2 жыл бұрын
Such great points! Yes, we need to stop arguing with people and simply not engage when they try to provoke us. 💗💗
@moosemousse
@moosemousse 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Cynthia! It’s been ages since I watched your channel! I hope 2022 has been going well for you though I saw on Insta that you lost your mum. So sorry for your loss. I started work at the end of last year after lockdown as a freelance writer, it’s only several hours of work per week but it’s the best thing ever for me getting some income after ten years of being a stay home mum. So now I’m a work from home mum while my kids are at school but I’m also a volunteer at my kids school as a librarian and even do some writing for the school now! I love it so much that as an introvert I still could find small pockets in the catholic school community to find some friends and be useful. I’m so glad my family had the resources for me to take such a huge break from work but the kids are both in grade school now, it was definitely the right time for me to semi go back to my career. And it’s great that it’s work from home and fits around my kids school times. Super blessed!
@rachelsmith5643
@rachelsmith5643 2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you about cursing Cynthia. I didn't grow up cursing at all, but it's so common in our culture and with friends of mine, sometimes I pick up the habit unfortunately. You inspire me to be better! I completely agree with you about exercise too. I find if I try to jog, my energy is low afterwards, and I dread working out. However, I adore walking. I look forward to it, and I've noticed results with the way I look because I will actually keep up with a walking routine. I think social media can be great if used wisely, but I don't use it for a number of reasons. I mostly just like KZbin and podcasts. Speaking of which, I know you are so busy, but would you ever add resources under KZbin channels on your blog? I plan to read all the books you listed, and I've enjoyed all the podcasts you recommended too! I know you've always been supportive of all the femininity KZbinrs and are the type to see the good in everyone, but I'm curious which your favorites are. :)
@ladyofgrace6712
@ladyofgrace6712 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely video! Such wisdom in what your discussed. I also loved that some of these points are not discussed enough in the feminine community!
@azureloves9006
@azureloves9006 2 жыл бұрын
So nice to see a video from you! Something that I have started doing recently is not getting on Social media until after 10a, my mornings are so much more productive! Also, after listening to The Modern Lady podcasts episode on The Imaginative life, I starting reading before bed again instead of scrolling my phone. I've read such great interesting books and the things that I have learned have impacted my daily lifestyle (taking more/longer walks, getting more involved in my local community, going to mom groups, etc). Making these changes helped me realized I wasn't using my time wisely before because now I have more time for what's important to me and I'm happier because of it.
@saisafetytrends
@saisafetytrends 2 жыл бұрын
I like your bold stance on trying to reduce workload for women and minimize or end work outside the home
@jaylaw.7660
@jaylaw.7660 2 жыл бұрын
Great video/ perfect timing! 👍💞😘
@herdailyfiat8767
@herdailyfiat8767 2 жыл бұрын
Love this, Cynthia. I too have been reflecting on how often I am on social media and how it destroys peace. I am trying to spend more of my time on my hobbies and less time comparing, seeking validation, and talking with strangers rather than my own family.
@FortheLoveofOrganizing
@FortheLoveofOrganizing 2 жыл бұрын
Love these tips and appreciate you sharing and uplifting us!
@mckenzie2260
@mckenzie2260 2 жыл бұрын
Cynthia, this video is gold. Good on you for being courageous in sharing your message. It’s scary, because even women who want to be feminine could come for you for saying some of these things… hello career women 😬 all jokes aside, seriously, rooting for you, God bless you, and thank you.
@Lauren-se5bu
@Lauren-se5bu 2 жыл бұрын
I did a degree in science and was trying to get a job in that field but I ended up as a support worker (working for people with disabilities) because that was the only job I could get in this town. It's not all bad though because I do feel more feminine in that role, as it is about taking care of people. Only downside is it is minimum wage and we are trying to buy our first home.
@TheAudMom
@TheAudMom 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the encouragement!! 💝 As you said, we must never give up. Persevere and run the race with joy. Much easier said than done, but with eternal blessings for our families. 💖💖💖
@giselerose8391
@giselerose8391 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent strategies. Likewise, I am starting to shut off my phone. Also, I am starting to not taking my phone when I am running (as long as I'm on my "safe route". Amen to positive self talk! Let's speak gently to ourselves, especially those of us who are compassionate to friends, but such a harsh critic to ourselves😃 Ballet bar and pilates are wonderful! I ❤️ it as well!
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Your comment inspires me to perhaps leave my phone at home too, while I’m on a walk in my neighborhood! 💛
@emilymilzorfinger6765
@emilymilzorfinger6765 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for shining joy on what it is to be a woman in today's culture. I appreciate your voice and the courage it takes to express it!
@orchidswithnina
@orchidswithnina 2 жыл бұрын
How did I miss this video ! Glad to catch up. 🥰 keep shining your light. X
@amandazplace5663
@amandazplace5663 2 жыл бұрын
Cynthia, I am sending you all my love, hugs, and prayers at this difficult time. I pray for God's strong arms to surround you, to guide you, and bring you courage and peace. We never stop needing our mothers, no matter our age or stage of life. This is such a great loss, but I know with God's guidance, loving family and friends, you will hold your mom's memory close and take the very best of who she was with you in all you do. Love, Amanda in Alberta.♥️🙏🇨🇦
@lizw3413
@lizw3413 2 жыл бұрын
Did I ever need this video right now... thank you Cynthia for bringing me back down to earth!
@christinam.6013
@christinam.6013 2 жыл бұрын
Great point about KZbin being more of a search engine! I never thought about it that way before, or about using Instagram like that. I also fantasize about deleting or greatly minimizing my social media because I find it overwhelming too. I kind of miss the days when we didn't know held xyz opinion that they are unwilling to compromise on in any respect. I feel like this will be an unpopular opinion among today's youth, but I feel like our relationships were better when we avoided religion and politics. 😅 I also feel that I need to work on my profanity.
@karek4635
@karek4635 2 жыл бұрын
It was common courtesy to keep politics, religion, and crude discussion out of friendships and professional spaces (especially around children). As the culture began embracing "authenticity" a brash tone has gradually spread. I would love for our culture to bring back some of those old manners.
@erinnicolefranco6807
@erinnicolefranco6807 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I stopped driving in November so only interact with a few people who stop by. One of my amazing sister-in-laws who’s incredibly feminine and like minded has made a significant effort to come over regularly, but most of my influence is masculine or sparse. I’ve hired an online feminity coach with a group platform who I hope helps me stay in touch with my feminine side.
@ebonidaneen5639
@ebonidaneen5639 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this video I feel like my feminine spirt was getting striped away bit by bit from stress and I'm trying to reclaim it now with positivity and change of routine
@earthgirl7874
@earthgirl7874 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely I had to cut ties with those who caused me stress and irritation. Then soon after ,I was back to that light and gentle aurora I exude.
@gracefulhumble7248
@gracefulhumble7248 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely video as per usual, happy to see you. You install a sense of calmness. I do not have any social media, my life is all the more better for it. A few times I have watched a few youtube shots, and then really regretted it. Would you do a video for us single ladies about what to look for in a man. If you want to and get the time of course, I understand you are busy being a new mama. I do rebounding for a daily workout, but for a gentle workout/ deep stretch I watch Angela lansburrys positive moves here on youtube, I adore her and that video. Kind words yes!, even adverts have become polluted with filthy language. This video gave me a lot to consider xo
@tammyvibes87
@tammyvibes87 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your loss Cynthia! Acts 24:15 talks about a resurrection, and I hope that this brings you some comfort. It is good that you have family and you have cultivated a lifestyle that lets you hold people you love close to you. I am praying for you :)
@mafigueira55
@mafigueira55 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE this. You are so intelligent. Thank you for putting this out there ❤️
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl 🥹💛
@Jenna4236
@Jenna4236 2 жыл бұрын
I'm excited for you to post on KZbin more! You are my favorite youtuber! Way better than Instagram
@jaylaw.7660
@jaylaw.7660 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message!💭
@roseinthedesert3911
@roseinthedesert3911 2 жыл бұрын
I wish there was a way to filter the mean comments. I love your channel and appreciate your perspective. I feel like you’re having to explain and almost defend everything you’re saying and you shouldn’t have to! If people disagree, let them! There’s millions of other KZbinrs 🤷‍♀️ they can move along!
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! Some people just like to argue though lol
@roseinthedesert3911
@roseinthedesert3911 2 жыл бұрын
@@CynthiaL that’s very true 😆
@dolphindeerwolf
@dolphindeerwolf 2 жыл бұрын
Yess babe love your content 💜 I've been following your channel for a couple of years now and you share great information/inspiration
@Amber-ksr
@Amber-ksr 2 жыл бұрын
Yayy you posted again 💕
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! ☺️☺️
@melaniewritesstuff5369
@melaniewritesstuff5369 2 жыл бұрын
Just swinging in to say that you’re such a gem 💎❤️
@anvisham9189
@anvisham9189 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Cynthia ☺️ Good Topic 👍 Every woman needs some slow down time that really help n save our feminine energy. Enjoyed. Have a Great Day ❤️
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Slowing down is definitely underestimated yet so important!! Thanks girl 💛
@anneboleyn1357
@anneboleyn1357 2 жыл бұрын
one of the best Canadian KZbinrs
@iv4135
@iv4135 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I aren’t in place to have kids yet due to insurance. I really want to stay home whenever I have kids, so in the meanwhile I only work 3-4 days per week! I also work mostly as a nanny which is the perfect job for ladies in a transition between working and homemaking 💕 A lot people think I’m weird for not working a full crazy schedule, but it has blessed me so much!
@iv4135
@iv4135 2 жыл бұрын
Great video btw Cynthia! You make me feel sane in an insane world haha 💕😘
@anonymousfourth2491
@anonymousfourth2491 2 жыл бұрын
Although I am pagan,I really like how you tackled femininity.Femininity is wonderful.it is fierce and strong yet soft and graceful.
@kellyhibbard280
@kellyhibbard280 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the content you put out. It’s very encouraging.
@HaleyMary
@HaleyMary 2 жыл бұрын
I often take breaks from social media because it can cause lots of stress sometimes. Some people would comment on my facebook posts or youtube videos and start an argument with me when I didn't even care to argue. It's like there are people who just use the internet to debate people. I prefer to bike ride, grocery shop, stop at the free libraries on my biking route, play with my cat or just relax, read, write, watch a movie or listen and dance to some music.
@lindabati5625
@lindabati5625 2 жыл бұрын
I love to take femininity slowly to and enjoyy life more.I love to wake up early enough to get things done around home and enjoy my time slowly than enjoy everything in and everyone around me.I don't watch news.I do love to be pleasant and serve the people who come in the home.
@lindabati5625
@lindabati5625 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video everything 100 percent right on.
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Linda 💛☺️
@LivingfreewithSophie
@LivingfreewithSophie 2 жыл бұрын
This is so important ❤ Great video Cynthia!
@redhot654
@redhot654 2 жыл бұрын
I'm also really trying to find like minded female friends. It's so tough. Wish you lived closer Cynthia!
@jasmine_milkyflower
@jasmine_milkyflower 2 жыл бұрын
You are such a sweet person. I would love to make your acquaintance in real life! 🤗 I'm also secretly happy your channel is not too big. It's my little happy place 🤣🙏💞 And it also feels more genuine in a way. I see that even if you're putting effort in your videos you don't make them "sellable"(?). You look fine and polished but you don't try to put out an aesthetic or whatever too much... I just feel like you would look like this in real life too :)!
@ebonidaneen5639
@ebonidaneen5639 2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes social media was so toxic to I deleted it all and I've been trying to get my positivity back
@jessicahennessy7490
@jessicahennessy7490 2 жыл бұрын
Vulgar speech and negative self talk are my Achilles heel. I'm thinking I need an environment change.
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard to break the habit!
@marthekaiser3180
@marthekaiser3180 10 ай бұрын
So beautiful🌸 Love your videos🌸💕 Can i ask you what lip product do you use?🌸🌸
@WhiteCapability
@WhiteCapability 2 жыл бұрын
I make an effort to be cordial and speak thoughtfully all the time - I wasn't aware that doing so was a feminine characteristic. I think of it as being a gentleman and I do so because discussions are much more productive without misunderstandings and forceful tones.
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Being polite and cordial is fine for both men and women, the point I was alluding to is that for women it helps tap into feminine charm and softness if we focus on that. I think that men can get away with being more direct, but it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t also speak thoughtfully if they think it’s an area where they need to focus
@WhiteCapability
@WhiteCapability 2 жыл бұрын
@@CynthiaL That's cool - for me it's just a logical approach that helps perpetuate good relations. I would bet that many of the defined feminine/masculine characteristics are beneficial for both men and women. I know that I prefer that women be more direct, rather than tiptoe around things that are important to them. There's certainly a difference between being direct and being an ignorant and presumptuous jerk, though - whether coming from a man or a woman.
@RumiLoves
@RumiLoves 2 жыл бұрын
Love this video and love your lipstick!
@becks871
@becks871 2 жыл бұрын
I'm considering getting a gabb phone because I feel like having a smart phone is very negative for me right now. However there are certain things that I need on my phone so I haven't decided what to do yet
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
That’s a good idea!
@laurencecd4929
@laurencecd4929 2 жыл бұрын
I miss your videos! 😢
@Daughter_of_the_MostHigh
@Daughter_of_the_MostHigh Жыл бұрын
I find my problem is I never had a feminine woman in my life so I don’t know where to start or how to speak softly
@tanjawomack9073
@tanjawomack9073 11 ай бұрын
I am enjoying your videos😊
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 11 ай бұрын
I’m so glad! ☺️
@mrsanonymous414
@mrsanonymous414 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! Could you please make a video on mother in law - daughter in law bonding? I want to cultivate something special, but I don’t know how. Thank you!😊
@louisetooze6076
@louisetooze6076 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely video xx
@kellycristina1872
@kellycristina1872 2 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕💕💕💕
@shruthijayavenukumar
@shruthijayavenukumar 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@booksboundnoveljourneys1122
@booksboundnoveljourneys1122 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve recently had all my friends abandon me because of my beliefs and I now have no friends at all. How does one cope with this?? Where on earth am I supposed to find new friends as a traditional woman? I don’t go to church or school anymore and I work for minimum wage (only because I have to). Any advice??
@lucaschena3998
@lucaschena3998 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Cyntia i'm a new member beautiful your video. I love the video when washing dishes and cleaning the bathroom with rubber gloves, can you put on. Rub a lot I love the sound don't put any music on background, I want to hear everthing live. And you are beautiful with it. Tankyou bye Luca 😀 😀🧤🧤
@lindaliu2904
@lindaliu2904 2 жыл бұрын
Hey do you still have a Facebook page that we can follow ?
@tanaconnelly6960
@tanaconnelly6960 2 жыл бұрын
Sure have missed your videos! I pray you are ok?🌞💐
@louisetooze6076
@louisetooze6076 2 жыл бұрын
Can someone explain why less strenuous exercise is important for femininity
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
Many reasons I will talk about in the future, but it doesn’t spike cortisol therefore better helping to maintain hormonal balance, it can also give you “long and lean” muscles if you want a more delicate look, fluid movements help with sensuality, and other things. This doesn’t mean you should never do intense exercise (I like more strenuous workouts every once and a while and some women thrive doing them - I would never say that you MUST absolutely exercise a specific way to be feminine), this is just a suggestion that might help some people if they find what they are doing currently isn’t working for them
@marianamota_
@marianamota_ 2 жыл бұрын
We need Cynthia L with bangs again , please! :)
@redhot654
@redhot654 2 жыл бұрын
Singing in choirs was one of my favourite hobbies but the arts have obviously been taken over with leftist/feminist rhetoric. Trying to find more feminine hobbies that I can do in my free time.
@monabrown101
@monabrown101 Жыл бұрын
I felt no offence to the point you made about career women. I plan to reduce my hours to part time when I get married, and invest my femininity in my home. A woman’s body is built in a very interesting way and I don’t believe her body is meant to be worked like a mule🏡. No offence taken. I 10000 per cent agree with u
@melissamintah2263
@melissamintah2263 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@RoseGoldFemininity
@RoseGoldFemininity Жыл бұрын
🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@kiarnajohnson2815
@kiarnajohnson2815 2 жыл бұрын
How did you make new friends near you?
@fearnowjoan6238
@fearnowjoan6238 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, there, my name is Rosanna with UWANT, a brand from China. Would you like to try the floor cleaning machine for home? we would like to cooperate with you.
@salk2555
@salk2555 2 жыл бұрын
I like abit of this but not all. Wonder woman is the ultimate feminine woman, owns her beauty, sexuality, intuition, leadership abilities, shes strong, capable, fearless, Works out, strength etc. Kim Kardashian is a feminine woman who clearly does heavy weight training and also light training, takes care of herself, dresses well, isnt always in the kitchen, works etc. Im not saying shes that inspirational but she comes across as feminine. The most inspirational feminine women of all time are women who can do it all- business, raise kids, charity and humanitarian activities, own their femininity, sexuality, take care of themselves, lead the masses/ others, be kind, compassionate, loving, respectful, strong and tough (warrior/ true goddess spirit). Basically the Divine Feminine. They lead and work with femininity. It may be tough at first if youre used to operating from the masculine but the more you embrace your femininity in work, working with less stress etc, the more natural it should become.
@neshama2195
@neshama2195 Жыл бұрын
Nice video, I am very nice and sweet when out and about and am lucky to be a stay at home wife, scary times and am not down with someone with blue hair wanting to kick my butt because I don't agree with 80 milllion genders :(
@Princess_dio_33333
@Princess_dio_33333 2 жыл бұрын
Please make a video on how to romanticize your life and just always find your sweet spot
@cathy2142
@cathy2142 2 жыл бұрын
?😢
@CynthiaL
@CynthiaL 2 жыл бұрын
I’ll be back 💛
@mlx8019
@mlx8019 2 жыл бұрын
Hello, Are you interested in product promotion?🤩
@memthemems1026
@memthemems1026 2 жыл бұрын
Islam agrees + encourage a lot of what u says sis , regardless of some minor things u have mentioned, 1, being housewife is Not strict but **preferable** in islam. 2, not cursing/using vulgarity, Allah Almighty says in the Noble Quran: “O you, who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them, nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them. And do not insult one another and do not call each other by [offensive] nicknames. Wretched is the name of disobedience after [one’s] faith. And whoever does not repent - then it is those who are the wrongdoers.” (Quran, 49:11). May Allah bless u and guide u to the true path , Ameen
@jessafaithsorronda122
@jessafaithsorronda122 2 жыл бұрын
So helpful ❤️ thankful for women like you, Cynthia 💛🌷🌤
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