D.U.I. Fatality Survivor interview-Peter

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Peter, a survivor of a DUI accident that took the life of his six year old son in San Bernardino, California.
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[@BoonsackBush]

The media portraying you as drunk when a car flew into you and killed your son is horrible

[@anamericanprayer1967]

Grotesque! The media is evil. Quote by Jim Morrison: “Whoever controls the media, controls the mind” No words for you my dear soul - only love ❤

[@WenchInTheTinfoilHat]

Let this be a lesson to just how easily they can be so corrupt. On every level for any reason

[@anamericanprayer1967]

@@WenchInTheTinfoilHat I like your comments.

[@anna-maelove8357]

The least they could have done is updated their stories to add he was not drinking. I looked it up and the first article still says it. Awful 😞

[@MerkleAkrunphleuphle]

It’s the media… imagine how much of the stuff written is just like that or worse… like international law requiring people to fight and resist against and occupying force but they will label the resistance as Terr ur ists… when in reality the biggest countries that spends more on their military than the next few countries combined is a fOrCe oF GoOd and DeMoCracY…. And not the T word..

[@georgecazilieris6567]

I haven’t been the best dad and watching has really touched me . I will try and be a better dad after watching this . God bless this man .

[@therealpetergeo]

We all struggle, Brother. All we can do is try to do our best. Thank you for watching.

[@landonhsmith]

I'm with you on this one.

[@Mag_mine]

What a hypocrite you are. Talking about Jesus and forgiveness here while tearing apart victims of abuse on other videos. What a complete fraud.

[@Poopoopeepeeeman]

If you have a kid it’s your responsibility. Don’t ruin their life for your own sake. They’re your responsibility, do whatever you need for them.

[@penelopeplimsoul3617]

May God be with you! I totally understand with the drugs and the hassle. The government, SEC & crooked insurance companies will jack you up. Please don't be disheartened over losing friends. Sometimes God brings people into your life, sometimes He removes them. Have hope. Pray for friends. You never know what someone else is going through. ❤

[@thepokerpilotapp]

Peter just gave us all a lesson on how to be a real man. Thank you and God Bless 🙏

[@therealpetergeo]

Wow, that is a huge compliment. I'm not sure I am that great of a person. Im human like everyone else. Thank you for being kind.

[@debrab]

@@therealpetergeo You are an inspirational man and I will never forget you and your beautiful family. Thank you for sharing.

[@therealpetergeo]

@@debrab Thank you. You're very sweet

[@sammy8402]

I'm listening to this in tears. What an amazing man you are. I have 112 days alcohol free and this story is such an eye opener of why I don't want to go back. I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your comment. Congrats on your sobriety.

[@D-Fens_1632]

I'd quit drinking about 6 months before his accident. I never got in a wreck and never got a DUI or in any kind of legal trouble but absolutely should have. More than 5 years later I still get a chill watching these kind of videos and thank the gods that my stupid selfish addiction never impacted anyone like this. They're very helpful for us former drunks and serve as a reminder to never go back.

[@therealpetergeo]

@D-Fens_1632 We are all human Brother. At least you (and some others that commented) found your way. Be safe and thanks for your comment.

[@geneoconnor376]

Congrats, and we'll done on the sobriety- kudos to you

[@pettender4229]

Fourteen years sober last month. It can be done my friend but each day we must be watchful. Keep fighting for yourself. I’m rooting for you!

[@mccian910]

I almost lost it when he said his kid sat on his side, telling him how much he loved him in the car

[@kaciwright9820]

@mccian910 SAME! I see that as a gift the Lord was giving him.

[@adamvanleer1815]

I did lose it. Cannot imagine his pain

[@lee383C]

My first thought when hearing that was, That must have been a higher power at work knowing what was in his path on that drive home.. I hope he may himself have this thought at times, sometimes it helps to believe there is something else helping along the way be it Devine intervention? or what ever the case may be, even tho it’s the worst thing to possibly happen to anyone in life (losing a child) maybe that was the sign he was so frantically searching for after losing his son. Possibly already happening in the process of what was to come.. Apologies on my long reply, I just truly hope he receives what is he truly longs for in the events his had to endure..

[@user-fy8uh7zw8y]

Oh but he completely left out the fact that "Investigators said the 6-year-old was in the car with him and not properly secured in a child seat."🙄

[@lee383C]

@@user-fy8uh7zw8y what 6 year old is still in a car seat??

[@absolutesharonulam]

This is so hard to watch. I personally know Peter, he amazingly photographed my wedding many years ago and we have kept in touch since. This situation has been beyond heartbreaking. Peter is truly an amazing, wonderful person and he was long before this tragedy. I never got to meet his sweet baby. I wish there was anything I could do to fix this for their family. 💔

[@morgangonnelly5683]

I’m not sure how close of friends you are, but maybe consider a short visit to see him if you’re able to bc It seems like friendship and time with people is one of his greatest values. As it should be for all of us. Hopefully he can recover enough to do photography again more often, even if it’s not in the form of weddings bc that is exhausting for someone who isn’t disabled. I’ve done it a few times myself.

[@user-po4gi3hd6t]

We lost our daughter recently. I needed this. Inspiration. Thank you a million times.

[@therealpetergeo]

I am glad the video helped. That was my goal. I'm sorry for your loss. I understand.

[@JoeBidensDroolBib]

I’m sorry for your loss. I bet you are a great mama/papa bear

[@therealpetergeo]

@@JoeBidensDroolBib Thank you very much.

[@karlawithakranaway6125]

❤

[@barbaraives5751]

God bless you. I hope you heal soon. Much love to you.

[@heidigotthoffer7177]

Thank you for sharing Peter. I saw your video defending Mark and I wanted to hear your story. I think you are incredibly self-aware and compassionate. I am very sorry for the tragic loss of your son. The trauma you suffered and the PTSD and physical pain you live with are a heavy burden to bear. I feel you are kind and courageous and I wish for you and your family all the best life has to offer.

[@CatherineRozanski1963]

That's the reason I came here...Now watching this first💎💎💎

[@nataliejc9630]

Me as well

[@MDcinematic]

Defending Mark from what?

[@arabspring5218]

@@MDcinematic The usual allegations from random ppl claiming that Mark is exploiting the ppl he interviews. Lots of ppl claim that Mark is making a fortune from these videos, but in reality, and he has been very transparent about it, he gives them any money he receives from the crowd funds and also the videos he makes of them. Mark made his own fortune many years ago as a photojournalist and does these videos out of pure interest.

[@geminiXcancerX]

Hearing stories like this really opens your eyes. You never know your last moments with someone. Especially your kids. Don’t take them for granted. Don’t take life for granted.

[@keemez]

ohmuhgorshk. your hair.

[@therealpetergeo]

You're right, don't take anything for granted. Gem/Can nice mix btw

[@donnae2013]

Omg yes. So sad

[@thesincitymama]

When my husband was leaving for work, I ran to the door and I wanted to call out, “I love you!” one more time, but I didn’t because it was 4am… and if I would have just done it, just said I love you one more time… he woulda turned around and said “I love you too” and then that night he would have come home with a story about how he ALMOST got killed by a drunk driver. So yeah. You never know. So say I love you again. Just say it.

[@TreyWitteried]

That part where he talks about most of your friends and relatives going silent when something horribly tragic happens to you is so real.

[@therealpetergeo]

Unfortunately it is. Thanks for your comment.

[@TreyWitteried]

@@therealpetergeo it's almost as if people have some subconscious superstition going on where they perceive the misfortune as being possibly contagious in some way. Thank you for telling your story and I wish you health and happiness on this often hazardous journey that we know as life.

[@H0kram]

​@@TreyWitteriedTragically so, as if they're not gonna get their share of sufferings and then they will be thinking about you, because now you're the only person they know who can relate to them. On top of that, there is that selfishness that masks itself into something else : " I don't know what to say ". They think about landing the perfect words and ultimately don't say or do anything just to be on the safe side of their own ego, because you do not deserve an authentic action that is not calculating how this could hurt their own image. So yes, suffering is a lonely path on which we only meet people who have been taken by similar experiences. But everybody gets there, one day or another. And this is what it takes for most people, to open their heart.

[@angelgjr1999]

Yup. 99% of people are fake

[@Sk3wd33]

Stand strong. Be that voice of support, especially when it is uncomfortable and difficult to speak. Be the one your loved one's need.

[@jullietmburu9672]

thank you for talking about living with chronic pain. Many ppl don't understand the torture one lives with. They don't understand why the depression strikes, as if you're supposed to just get over it. Thanks also for pointing out how the pain triggers memories of life's most painful moments. I hope you find peace and the internal comfort. I pray that your wife continues to also receive blessings for standing with you through this, even though she also lost a child. You are two immensely blessed people for being able to choose forgiveness, even to the friends who deserted them. Stay blessed.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank You 😊

[@nickygray8019]

This is the most moving story, I've ever heard. So real, so raw. What a wonderful man. He doesn't deserve all the pain. Thank you so much for posting this story.

[@millypooh3996]

My Mother passed away at age 54. I’ll never forget what my 81 year old Grandfather said when she died. He said he had lost his parents, his wife, siblings and friends. But none of those hurt him nearly as bad as loosing his daughter, my Mom.

[@julesgeo]

I understand I really do.

[@Kimlovesdogs]

Same. It is gut wrenching.

[@mindsigh4]

for every one everywhere, this the last part of a poem by EECummings: ..here is the deepest secret nobody knows here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can hide and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart i carry your heart i carry it in my heart.

[@TeeEi]

💔💔💔😔

[@Roger-wf8sj]

It ain't about you. It's about this guy

[@wenlav76]

Peter, you are the father that every child deserves. Your son in heaven only knew love while he was alive.

[@Toonces666]

And from watching Mark’s channel, that’s more than most people will ever get or know.

[@therealpetergeo]

Wow. That is a huge compliment. I appreciate it. I am very very human I assure you. I make mistakes all the time. Be blessed.

[@sharonhinds4808]

I’m at a loss for words…. I’m so glad Peter reached out to you, Mark. I hadn’t seen this when it was first posted but saw his video where he supported you wholeheartedly over the whole Whitaker/Tyler drama. I’m truly in awe of this man’s courage and grace to face each day. His wife must also be an extraordinary human being. She suffered not only the loss of their child as well but her husbands health, their financial security and the life path they were on is forever changed. My heart goes out to this entire family.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. 😊

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you. You're very sweet

[@chairk4119]

Grief is something our society doesn't speak about. I am greatful for you sharing your grief and all that goes with it. Grief fucking sucks and makes others very uncomfortable so I am happy that your sharing even though I know your numb and screaming inside.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching and sharing your insight

[@dennisbrown7079]

I cried during the whole interview, I cried reading the comments. This man told his story without breaking down in the fetal position. What a warrior.

[@therealpetergeo]

I appreciate your comment. I don't feel like a warrior.

[@cl5193]

I have not doubt he has cried his soul raw.

[@therealpetergeo]

@cl5193 There are quite a few people who never experienced the death of a loved one. It's hard to get them to understand.

[@cl5193]

@@therealpetergeo True. They can't understand. For them to understand would mean your loss compounded by their number. That would be even more horrific. But I do believe God saved your son from eternal death in that accident. I think there is merit to your reincarnation thoughts. I don't want to sound like a heretic, but I have had the overwhelming experience of recognizing my brother somehow in someone else many years after his death. I know nothing, and I've never told anyone that. I also know a brother is not a son by magnitudes, but in subsequent years, I have found reconcilliation and peace with his death. I pray that for you and your family.

[@therealpetergeo]

@cl5193 I know what you mean. A couple times I was pretty sure I saw my Father. I did a u-turn but could not catch the car. A couple months ago I saw him (or his doppleganger) walking down the street.

[@MikeHendryDev]

Sat down thinking I'd watch the first 10 mins but was completely enthralled. Peter forgiving that man in court is truly incredible. To show compassion like that in that circumstance to someone who has no one in their corner, wow. I think the world is a better place with people like him in it.

[@BlueAssassain]

Very kind. You make us better. Love from Sherry.

[@binaryfairy4197]

He's a MUCH better person than I am..I don't think I could EVER forgive some tweaker who ruined my life like that. I have SO much respect for this man!

[@nmitis5446]

I agree....your compassion to forgive. I hope that you are in therapy to help with your grief.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thanks Brother that is a very nice comment.

[@timebot000]

Imagine that kid who did it getting clean and repented from all the forgiveness, and peters little sons spirit working thru them towards unimaginable bonding. That boys conscience has ruined his life too unless he becomes soulless from all the punishment😢

[@tarran4596]

That kind of broken hearted sadness is a real excruciating pain. 💔

[@therealpetergeo]

It really is. Extremely painful. Mentally, physically, & spiritually.

[@tarran4596]

@@therealpetergeo I know. Time as far as I know doesn't make anything better. If I don't have anything to mask or numb it, then, I dissociate sometimes or get physically ill from every organ in my body aching. I really feel for you 💔 I hope you find a way to cope

[@therealpetergeo]

@@tarran4596 Thank you. 😊

[@catlover6801]

I looked for this video after watching your video in support of this creator. I’m so sorry for your loss. 😢

[@julesgeo]

Thank you and thanks for watching. 😊

[@northernpike56]

Hi Peter. I lost my son to a single car wreck in 2014 . He was 22 (No drugs or alcohol involved). My wife left me within 2 years... I'm at peace with my sons passing and my wife leaving now. At the time I didn't see it coming but it can happen like you said in these circumstances (95%). Just keep your head held high and keep moving forward. Worked for me. I'm in the best place I've been in 20 yrs.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you. Sorry for your loss

[@staceypilkington4310]

I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you are healing. 🙏

[@cookiemoney5565]

Suerte compa

[@lucyphillips9400]

Mark, you interview some pretty incredible people. This man takes the cake for me. The story is absolutely horrific, heartbreaking & devastating but yet he finds it in his heart to forgive the young man that changed his life in such a sad way for both his young child but also the pain & suffering he will endure for the rest of his life. Wow! Thank you Mark for sharing the stories of so many amazing human beings! And thank you Peter for being so brave to show your vulnerability!

[@blessedbythebest1003]

YES relatable for the clean people that have problems.

[@therealpetergeo]

Lucy. Thanks I am glad you enjoyed the video. Lots of love to Mark for helping me get this story out.

[@leanneadams2549]

Yes ! I won’t forget this man and his story !! A lot of incredible people he has interviewed that I will never forget ! And this man is definitely one of them !!

[@therealpetergeo]

​@leanneadams2549 Thank You.

[@lisaw3127]

I also have chronic pain, and the struggle is real when you actually have pain and need the help. It's so hard not to just give up. It was nice to hear it from someone else. I feel like I'm just tredding water being young and in pain. No one believed me for the longest time. The medical gaslighting is so traumatizing. I can't imagine losing a son. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your comment. Sorry you're in pain. Being in pain, obviously sucks. However, not getting mercy by medication gatekeepers sucks also.

[@rossrenberg7281]

Man this is a heavy interview. My father was killed in a hit and run traffic accident when I was 21 and it crushed me. I ended up on heroin, tore the fuck up for years and have been able to pull myself out of it. I’ve had two single uses during the last 7 years. I can’t imagine the strength and burden this man must carry mentally and on top of the physical pain. It’s very inspiring watching this man keep his head on a swivel while dealing with so much. I hope he can somewhat find peace one day.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your story and comment. Loss tears us up.

[@ronmexico79]

Damn it. At 44 years old ive cried maybe twice in my life, and this was one of them 💔 As a father of 3 boys this one hits so hard. God bless you sir, I hope you find some healing somehow

[@ricardocastaneda4541]

Same brother , god bless

[@therealpetergeo]

Bless you too Brother. Sorry this video made you cry. Tell your kids you love them constantly.

[@_JellyDonut_]

@@therealpetergeo Peter if this is you I'm praying for you brother! Your son is with God, and I don't just mean that in some cosmic sense. The moment his life ended he was face to face with the Lord of all creation experiencing unspeakable joy, peace, and love beyond what our brains can even comprehend. Not only is your son alright, he's in a state of peace we can't even wrap out heads around. God doesn't just love us he IS love. My prayer for you is that you can find peace in Jesus and the knowledge that, one day soon, all who put their trust in Christ will be together in eternity. Not a church, not a religion, but the person of Jesus Christ. On that day this life, with all its pain, will seem like a distant memory. Please read the first section of Revelation 21. The bible doesn't teach reincarnation per se but like you said it does teach that there will be a new creation and all will be made new, including us. I love you brother and I can't wait to meet you and your son when we get there. Trust in Jesus to get you through this!

[@4everhumbl36]

Twice crying in 40+ year of life is a bit abnormal imo brother Find someone you can cry with and cry too and let it out loved one Peace

[@jenniferneas6571]

​@@therealpetergeoPeter your story just was a gut punch. I cannot ever imagine abandoning a friend in their darkest days. I just cannot fathom what you have endured. I will pray for your strength as you continue forward without your son. I'm with you, I want to show people I care. In the end, what is life about except sharing the joy and hell of the human experience with our dearest friends. Thinking of your family as we move into a new year.

[@youngajummah]

This is so heartbreaking. My worst fear is losing my children.

[@BlueAssassain]

My worst fear is when someone takes the child. I call it hiding the child. It's when a sibling, or any baby not your own, is taken as a hostage. It's horrific. I've played this game so many times that neither I, or any of my siblings, have ever given birth or had a child. The game "find the child" will rip the humanity out of any person. Love to you from Sherry.

[@trishab2147]

That doesn't help him

[@agatamacierzynska4436]

I agree 😢

[@SlayingBullshytSlayingBullshyt]

Give them back to the Lord, pray for their safety, love, peace daily. Don’t live in fear for them that’s not healthy. Enjoy them daily. ❤Blessings

[@therealpetergeo]

Tell them you love them constantly.

[@cperm1]

I watched your video about Mark and had to come see your SWU video. I know you probably don’t feel like it, but you are remarkable. Your strength through this tragedy is admirable. I’m sure you have those break down moments, but you haven’t let them keep you down. Your wife must be just as amazing as you are. My sister took her own life at 49 years old from struggling with drug addiction. I was the one who found her and it almost destroyed me. I know it’s not the same as losing a child, but it changed me for life. That was in 2007. You will find peace and you will have joy again. It’s a gradual healing. Give yourself grace. You honor your son by continuing to try to move forward. My prayers are with you and your family as you heal and try to find your new normal. May God keep you and comfort you through this. 😢💔❤️🙏

[@julesgeo]

Thank you very much for your soulful comment. Sorry for your loss.

[@atqmra13]

Wow mark. What an incredible story. This is one of the best interviews I’ve seen. I sure this man can find peace. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through, Peter.

[@therealpetergeo]

I appreciate your comment. Thank you.

[@trinigladiator8830]

I felt every piece of, Peter's story. I could've been the other guy because, I had a D.U.I. accident. Thankfully, I hit an empty parked car. That was the wake up call I needed because it lead me to getting sober and it's been 11 years since I've touched alcohol or any mind altering substance. I hope the best for Peter and his wife. Keep drawing strength and support from each other and 🙏🏿 and blessings to your other son.

[@therealpetergeo]

Good job on your sobriety brother!

[@isaaceaglevf]

✊🏾

[@bladerunner8781]

Thank you for getting yourself help after realizing how bad that could have been

[@desireeford1999]

I am also a fatal car accident survivor and I relate so heavily to the part in your healing where it feels like everyone abandons you. “Well I didn’t know what I would say.” You don’t have to say anything JUST BE THERE.

[@therealpetergeo]

Amen. You get it.

[@nrood3821]

im sorry you and guy in video went thru that. and im sorry you lost loved ones. im here.

[@therealpetergeo]

@nrood3821 Thank you for watching and I appreciate that.

[@nrood3821]

@@therealpetergeo your welcome. after watching your story. i dont know how you get out of bed every day with just your health issues you got from accident. much less your son passing away. you are a much tougher man than i am just getting out of bed. and that guy shoulda got alot more than 14 years for that. thats some BS.

[@djfally_beatz]

That is so sad I'm sorry you had to go through this.

[@boothpohlmann]

Man, Your experience,strength and endurance have touched me deeply. I have bone marrow cancer and you frustration with the whole punitive treatment when you need pain medication is insane. I’m treated like a drug seeking character. I love you my friend. Really. I’m sending you much love,light and peace. Thank You for sharing.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much. Also, thank you for watching. Sorry, you're going through that. I love you too, my friend.

[@aliciamarie9704]

Bone marrow cancer is the most painful cancer isn’t it? Kratom helps me, Gabapentin, and CBD

[@therealpetergeo]

@aliciamarie9704 I take Gapapentin, it helps a lot. CBD doesn't work for me. 😞

[@stluka1]

As a new father this is absolutely gut wrenching. Thinking of you.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you and thanks for taking the time to watch.

[@mishkybishky]

I’m glad he survived. For his other son, for his wife & because he’s a beautiful person with a big heart. This story will hopefully help others make better choices. Sending him love & healing vibes ❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you. You're too sweet. Can I ask how you came up with your screenname? 😂

[@orianjuarez3074]

Survivor's guilt is 100% real. It takes about 5 years for a traumatic brain injury to heal. I'm a disabled former emergency nurse. I've had chronic pain for 37 years. I have 2 herniated discs in my spine (neck). They fused naturally so no surgery is indicated. I think this Dad is doing better than he gives himself credit for.❤️ Embedded in my memory is the crying wail of a parent whose infant-child has died unexpectedly.😰

[@5thdimension625]

I’m a retired therapist and he has CPTSD from this accident. I sure am hoping he knows he can get help for his loss which NEVER goes away but rather gets integrated into one’s soul. He IS a remarkable man for sharing his story with us. I wish him continued healing. DON’T DRIVE UNDER THE INFLUENCE!!

[@orianjuarez3074]

@@5thdimension625 Thx so much for the diagnosis. CPTSD is new to me. I'll read about it. Happy Holidays ☃️🎅🎁

[@BlueAssassain]

Love to you...everyday.

[@BrainInjuredTortellinni]

There is no timeframe on “healing” a TBI. I had a TBI 26 years ago, the first 5 years I made a lot of improvement but still continue to get better everyday. It took me a good 10 years just to start to learn how to function “normally” with a TBI. The biggest improvements came way after the 5 year mark. We can always get better if we want too.

[@blessedbythebest1003]

Awww❤

[@xavierbbitsui6494]

I never shed a tear in any of the 40+ interviews I seen on this channel but this one got me. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching.

[@adventurestar7777]

​@therealpetergeo hi hope you're doing ok. Thanks for sharing your story. Sorry all this hardship came into your life. You seem like a great person. Related to a lot of what you said. Best wishes to you.

[@therealpetergeo]

@@adventurestar7777 Thank you for watching. 😊

[@pullyourluck]

So many of your shows are just jaw dropping. I love the fact that you didn’t ask a lot of questions. And just let this man speak freely. Heart wrenching and cathartic at the same time. Thank you soft white underbelly!

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching.

[@carynmartin6053]

My parents lost a 9 yr old son to cancer and they gave up their catholicism. My mother eventually went back in her final elder years. She never was the same after losing my brother, even though she still had me and my other brother. Thank you for sharing your story. Ppl can learn a lot from you!❤

[@BlueAssassain]

Love, I have witnessed that. I have never understood why. No child can ever substitute for or be replaced or displaced by another. Each one is a unique miracle that no human creates. We have to take each one by blood, adoption, or association as a distinct miracle.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much.

[@howbigisyourlove]

I have a friend that lost her two children and her husband in a head on car collision .. she was in a coma for weeks and when she came out of the coma she seen her mother and knew immediately that her family was gone .. she ripped out all the tubes and screamed .. she was on pain medication for 7 years . she took an art therapy class and it helped her rebuild her life .. I remember the first time she seen my oldest son coming in my driveway I knew she was thinking .. her son would be the same age .. that was very painful for both of us .. she is a remarkable woman who has rebuilt her life beyond what could have ever been imagined .. she keeps their memories alive and has a close family .

[@rosiezell3487]

One of the best interviews on this channel & the subject matter is a very important matter. This video should go viral....even on mainstream T.V.! Your story might help stop someone from drinking or doing drugs & driving. You are a beautiful soul Peter, don't miss out on your 2nd sons life or his love.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for the love. My goal was to help stop DUI's. From the comments, I see this video has done more good than I thought it would. 😊

[@rosiezell3487]

Absolutely! Keep speaking about your story, it'll help others & you heal. Your son will not have died in vain, God is using you to get through to others. Godspeed @@therealpetergeo

[@dontlooknowbut1329]

I started listening to this just before midnight here in the UK and I pulled off the motorway to sit and listen to everything this man had to say. Sat in a dark layby with the engine off and I just looked up into the night sky while he took me on such an unthinkable, harrowing journey. We hear news reports on the radio etc all the time that are kind of playing in the background while we're juggling our days work and seconds later the news report is gone from our minds. Its so easy to completely forget that there's people behind those stories who's lives have entered into a hell hole that will never end. Just the physical pain this man is constantly fighting is enough to crush most people but having to also deal with the loss of his 6 year old is something I can't quite comprehend. Been a single father to my perfect 7 year old daughter is something so magical and happiness in its purest form I just cannot believe the strength of this guy to be sat telling his story to us. I could never have the strength this guy has. I couldn't do it. I'd have to follow my little girl incase she needed me to hold her hand again.

[@therealpetergeo]

I completely understand what you're saying. I have those thoughts daily. Thank you for your comment.

[@Paul.1088]

It’s not often that you hear Mark lost for words. I have 3 sons and cannot imagine having to go through what this poor guy is going through

[@WenchInTheTinfoilHat]

I noticed it also.

[@cashdr6]

I lost my son in a car accident. I understand. 😢

[@therealpetergeo]

He cried a couple times. I don't realize how emotional my story can be at times.

[@Paul.1088]

@@therealpetergeo I feel for you my friend 🙏🏻

[@Paul.1088]

@@cashdr6 so sorry for your loss 🙏🏻

[@lindsaychupp9936]

I’ve watched probably two hundred of your interviews and this one tore me up the most. Maybe it’s because I have a 7yo son but I physically feel sick and just wanted to keep weeping for this guy the entire time. He’s such an A+ human and he hasn’t let it make him a monster which is miraculous.. no one deserves that kind of unbearable pain but especially a guy like this. My heart just hurts. I pray this video saves many lives in his son’s honor.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you so very much. I hope that is the case.

[@jullietmburu9672]

So true & on point!! My niece is 6yrs and i paused when he talked about his son sitting closer that day.. I didn't expect myself to cry this hard... And the forgiveness he showed at the court.. I had to repeat that part more than once because it was such a beautiful expression of real genuine forgiveness. May he find peace that surpasses all understanding (& his wife too). May they experience an intimate joy between each other, because she stood by him in a beautiful way. May they find joy together despite "friends" going silent, and that heartless landlord. They have a gift many ppl don't enjoy - growing old with the love of your life. They have been through a lot together and they deserve that intimate joy and peace and security that will accompany their big hearts.

[@therealpetergeo]

@@jullietmburu9672 Thank you for your kindness. 😊

[@ladame68]

I've watched endless hours of SWU videos - this is the first one to make me cry. Sharing your normal day with your son - when you said he wanted to be near you and then in a blink it all changed. It's almost as if he knew he needed to express his love to you right then in those moments. Your ability to say "I forgive you" to the kid who caused the tragic accident...it's inspirational. Your story, your demeanor... There's no doubt in my mind that you are a rare human being. We can all learn to be better people by listening to you. I hope that somehow, your medical needs may be resolved - it's unfortunate that due to so much abuse, those who legit need help are left suffering. Our systems are broken. God bless you and your family.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much. I really appreciate your comment. I hope this video helps people.

[@madhatter2970]

Mark, thank you for posting this beautiful and meaningful video. Many of the things he talks about are words that I will carry with me all my life. Too many things to mention.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for taking the time to watch. 😊

[@pinkfeet518]

my mom’s aunt lost her 2 daughters, her only children, after a drunk driver hit them. they weren’t even teenagers yet. seeing how that affects someone firsthand changes you. there’s no words except i am so so so sorry for your loss.

[@therealpetergeo]

I appreciate it.

[@pinkfeet518]

@@therealpetergeo ♡ ♡

[@breenaklein1528]

It really does seem so senseless that someone’s kids can be removed forever so someone can party and self destruct. 😢

[@therealpetergeo]

@breenaklein1528 That is very deep I never thought of it in those exact words. Like I said, he had 0 support at the court cases leading to the final court case. 0 loved ones supporting him. That's a hell in its own.

[@pinkfeet518]

@@breenaklein1528 and what makes it worse was the car with the drunk driver was pulled over earlier that night and the cops just let them go. it could’ve been prevented and i cannot even imagine KNOWING my kids could’ve been saved. every drunk driving accident can be prevented it’s the most selfish thing. you’re absolutely correct

[@BrainInjuredTortellinni]

The coma dreams he’s talking about are not the same as regular dreams and almost impossible to describe to someone that hasn’t experienced them. I have a TBI from a car wreck that killed a friend of mine. Every dream I had in the coma my friend was there. When I came too I didn’t believe my mom telling me he was dead because those dreams were so real. I relived the three days before the wreck in those dreams but everything was perfect. In the dreams there was a car wreck but nobody was hurt. It almost seems like our brain tries to protect us from the trauma by creating a different memory.

[@therealpetergeo]

Coma dreams are a total trip arent they? At one point my Wife moved us into a rad Mid Century Modern home. I should have known I was dreaming.

[@zeitgeist909]

Coma dreams and also the Near Death Experience phenomenon needs to be looked into properly by Dr's and academia.

[@julesgeo]

​​@@zeitgeist909You're correct.

[@jand8303]

​@@zeitgeist909 they have and are still

[@zeitgeist909]

@@jand8303 I know there has bee some sparse research, mostly independently, by some forward-thinking anaesthetists and surgeons. Not much formal work or papers written. That's what I meant by a 'proper' look into it. Rigourus methodology. A serious look into it hasn't happed yet. I welcome it.

[@kristinvanschyndel1508]

Omg the picture at the end broke me. So many tears through watching this. Thankyou for sharing and giving us all the reminder to love the ones we have everyday. I’m so sorry this happened to you and your son. Your an inspiring human ❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your kindness, and thanks for watching. 😊

[@wendyrenee26]

Hi Peter. Your story has made it to Ridgecrest. Welcome! Lived here my entire life and we have a fantastic community. Thank you for sharing your story, you are inspiring others.

[@therealpetergeo]

2 others said they were in Ridgecrest as well. Thank you for the welcome.

[@jontolar6838]

I just found an article about the wreck written by Brian Day and it says “Both involved drivers are suspected of driving under the influence of alcohol”. Peter loses his son to no-fault of his own and the media immediately tried to say he was drunk with zero proof. Disgusting

[@rmh691]

Media said “ suspected”

[@therealpetergeo]

Yes it was a nightmare. People in the comments said I should be dead too. My Cousin threatened a lawsuit and they changed it to suspected or allegedly. Fake news is real.

[@therealpetergeo]

​@@rmh691yes they also said allegedly after being threatened with a lawsuit.

[@rmh691]

@@therealpetergeo I don’t know how these unprofessional media outlets get away with slandering people like this. When the facts are unknown, it’s totally fine to say, suspected or allegedly but to leave those qualifiers out is unacceptable and they should be punished for doing so. I am so sorry for what you’ve had to go through. I cannot think of anything worse.

[@chantelletrembath3345]

​@@rmh691the media SUCK

[@jefflitchford1422]

This guy’s interview was just over-the-top what a strong man he is I would love to see an interview with this guy’s wife if you think about it, she went through hell to deal with this by herself while he’s in a coma, trying to maintain him and dealing with her son that would be an awesome story

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. 😊

[@texhotwings7521]

This is so deep and raw…you’re going to help so many people through this… Thank you so much for sharing…

[@therealpetergeo]

That was my goal. Thank you for watching.

[@trishstrauss9457]

Nothing scares me more than losing a child. I felt the pain in my core listening to this interview.

[@therealpetergeo]

It is so horrible words can't describe the pain. Thanks for your comment

[@teddyrox3790]

...it's soul shattering....🫥

[@angeluva1234]

Peter….Your story hits home like a dagger right to my heart. I had a similar accident involving a drunk driver over 35 years ago. He hit me head on while passing on a blind curve. It was on a narrow two lane mountain road in So Calif. So many things you shared resonated with me…the many similarities and synchronicity. I can’t know how you feel, but I know how very fragile and precious life is and how very much I love my two sons that were in the backseat(ages 3 and 5). We were badly injured, but survived. I did not lose a child. I came so close. I can’t find the right words to say, to express the depth of my condolences to you in the devastating pain you endure. Your humility in the wake of the loss of your beautiful son simply takes my breath away.

[@Tiffany-fo1cw]

❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thanks for your comment. Where in SoCal?

[@BettyFL]

You found the right words.

[@angeluva1234]

@@therealpetergeo​​⁠ You are welcome and thank you for being so vulnerable. It happened in San Bernardino near Mentone. There will be those that hear your story, take it to heart, and make a change 🙏💞

[@therealpetergeo]

@@angeluva1234 Thanks again. I know the area you speak of. Many blessings to you.

[@patmalyszko-vp3sy]

You are an inspiration. How you handled this.myself included. Takes time to find peace as best we can..lots of love to you

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your kind words.

[@qtcarmen7d896]

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m over here crying and just praying to God to watch over my 3 sons. I can’t imagine your pain. ❤❤❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your kind words. 😊

[@Ascension-wg7bj]

Peter, you are still here for a reason. Sending you much love.

[@cr-cg7kn]

my wife’s best friend was murdered by a drunk driver in a head in collision .. he was arrested and released within a few days , his own family has reported to the victims family that he is still out driving drunk, the DA for this case is going for 12 years prison….. as of today he is still a free man awaiting his trial in 2024 ..

[@wesleyalan9179]

That is such BullS*it!🤨

[@loveusa56]

Where and when is the trial? Everyone who has a child they love should show up in solidarity with Mark and Peter leading the way!

[@therealpetergeo]

This isn't a common story. We need new laws. If this dude was in jail for the 1st time my Son would still be here

[@stephaniepantalonie]

How is it not an automatic license suspension? Im so sorry

[@therealpetergeo]

@@stephaniepantalonie Often doesn't work. They drive anyway :(

[@jessizazuinc4041]

I’m so inspired by Peter, I hope you become a motivational speaker or start a KZbin channel to help others who have lost a child or a loved one. Thank you. Keep going

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you 😊

[@kels6112]

This was about the best interview I have seen on this channel. So highly honest and so informative. Boy I wish him absolute rest and love. Today I learned a close family friend, lost their Son and helped me understand the impact of loss of a child. ❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching and thanks for your comment. 😊

[@KarlaElaine100]

My father was a funeral director most of his adult career. I sometimes wondered how he managed to be around death and grief so much of the time. He said his Christian faith helped a lot. He also shared with me that there is absolutely no grief that compares to the loss of a child! He told me he heard crying most days…but that nothing comes close to the pain of losing a child, especially when that child is still an actual “child.” My heart goes out to Peter. He was very genuine, articulate. I hope he continues to keep pushing forward for himself, his wife and especially his other son. That son needs you and needs to know that you need him, see him, enjoy him, love him.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much.

[@eternal.faith408]

Absolutely heart wrenching. 6 years old baby boy forever. Sweet soul. Rest in pure peace.

[@therealpetergeo]

He was an amazing boy.

[@lauraerskine6817]

Peter, thank you for your courage in sharing your story; I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. I watch SWU but came here specifically to hear your story after I saw your video about your experience with Mark.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you, and thanks for watching. 😊

[@kellythielen8194]

Your gratitude for what you still have, & your honesty about the pain, is trult refreshing & inspiring, thank you for sharing your story of survival.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much for your kindness. Also, thank you for watching.

[@megsblue]

This whole story is heartbreaking but the fact that this kid had a teardrop tattoo for a little baby is absolutely sickening. Like he’s proud of himself.

[@melissamartin9615]

Trauma comes from trauma. We don't know what someone has been through, or going through. Never. The last thing anyone needs to do is place blame or judgment. It's human nature but it's the negative part of human nature. We all have basic needs. When they are not met- no matter how young or old- that is a form if trauma. And the brain reacts as if it's in survival mode. This young man forgave the person that hit them. Can't we all do the same for one another?

[@elleg3651]

​@@melissamartin9615Hell no! People don't deserve it. Everyone has had some kind of traumatic event in their lives, not every one drinks and drives.

[@glousy8300]

I hear you, but that doesn't mean you know him, or his story, or how affected he is. I'm glad I'm not in his shoes. There's better take aways here

[@therealpetergeo]

Yes it was very hard for me to deal with that. However I realized he was probably trying to survive in prison.

[@tahneeyuh3382]

@@therealpetergeohe can do that without glorifying the death of the child. People survive in prison in other ways. Act tough some other way. “Surviving in prison” doesn’t mean he has to flaunt that charge- not at all.

[@lynnen264]

My beautiful Son was killed in a horrific accident in 2019. The police had to come to my home and tell me. It was the most deep pain and still is Sending you love dear man

[@therealpetergeo]

I'm so sorry. 😢

[@madannika]

This beautiful video reveals another grievous outcome of addiction. I am so glad that Peter contacted you and you were inspired to share his story. This interview, because Peter is not an active addict, though his condition and pain management puts him at risk, has a deep honesty that active addicts and alcoholics are incapable of. I wish there was a 12 step group for DUI survivors like Peter. Going through the 12 steps would help him. As it is, he has this desire to be of service, by sharing his story; that is a core tenet of 12 Step recovery.

[@katiescottagedreams]

Thank you Mark for sharing Peters story with us!

[@EmEm872]

Peter, you are full of such grace. You are a beautiful human and I hate that you have experienced what I imagine is the absolutely most painful loss. I watched my parents become old overnight when my little brother suicided in 2000. They never recovered.

[@therealpetergeo]

I know what you mean i saw what it did to my Mom but I was only 10. Now I know what it feels like.

[@EmEm872]

@@therealpetergeo smiles, I bet this is one of the very few interviews, if not the only one, where the comments are 100% kind. I know that in the USA they have MADD, mothers against drunk drivers, I wonder if there is a DADD for the fathers. These mums give talks at high schools etc to show the faces and actual impact of a moment of thoughtlessness. If you aren't already, maybe if you ever feel able to, you could give talks to teens and young adults and even to people who have been caught DUI. Showing them that the survivors lives are ruined in many ways and that the world gets robbed of the chance to see what your eldest boy and all the other people killed by a drunk/drugged driver could have been. For various reasons, I completely understood when you talked about what it's like to really not want to be here and to have to fight that desire because you have your wife and younger son and they both want and need you alive. Its not only them that wants you alive, I do as well. Mel ❤

[@stephaniepantalonie]

Absolutely full of grace.

[@therealpetergeo]

@EmEm872 you're so sweet. Thank You.

[@therealpetergeo]

@stephaniepantalonie Thank You.

[@FavoritesBeu]

I’ve watched so many of your videos but mannn this one hits different. You see/hear about these horrific accidents but you never truly see what damage it does to those left behind. I hope Peter finds some comfort knowing his son had the best afternoon with his dad.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thanks love you are very sweet

[@marypierson7899]

Peter please come back on...I learned so much and then there were many parts I could relate to.. Thank you for sharing ❤ I care that you are hurting😢- much love and peace to you-

[@rebeccanoble9875]

I lost my oldest daughter 7 yrs ago, not is such a tragic way but this man speaks exactly to a T what kind loss feels like and what we go thru, right down to losing family and friends. Hugs brother

[@therealpetergeo]

Sorry for your loss. Thank you for your comment. I wish you didn't know the pain. I would not wish it on my worst enemy if I had one.

[@danettecherry5003]

I admire this man's strength to rationalize this tragic event and to forgive and continue to love. he's an example to us all.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you. God bless.

[@michelleclark9463]

I understand I lost my son 8 years ago.I can relate to everything you said and I'm sorry your part of this horrible club god bless

[@ClaireNicole33]

We just passed our 7th year and the pain is still unbearable. Time doesn't heal like people say. To me it gets worse bc I miss my son more and more each day... I'm so sorry you're going thru this pain too. My heart breaks for you💔

[@DeeNizzle]

Sorry for both of you

[@therealpetergeo]

Thanks for commenting, sorry for your loss. God bless.

[@user-fu8nj7gs2d]

My hope is that many, many people will watch this channel!!

[@headachesandhogwash]

My heart breaks for you and your family. What strength and courage it takes to continue being a kind person with the hand you’ve been dealt. I truly wish the best for you and your’s.

[@therealpetergeo]

I appreciate your comment. Thank you.

[@shaybayism]

I never comment on videos, but I just have to just tell Peter how much I respect him. The way he speaks about his family is so touching, at a visceral level that there are just no words. I truly wish you the best and that you are able to find fulfillment out of life in spite of the deep deep pain you’ve experienced. I loved your message about friendships, I will carry that with me forever. Thank you for sharing you story with us, you’ve spread so much light onto the world.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much for the nice comment.

[@geneenmarbury8842]

@@therealpetergeoI also have much respect for you being willing to be so transparent Peter. I pray that you find the strength to go on, and that you get your joy back. May your son’s memory be a blessing to you. 🙏🏽💖

[@ashleyhill3381]

I've watched these videos a lot and holy crap this broke my heart. He's a hell of a guy, that's for sure. I hope his family is healing . He had no hate in his heart that I detected. Wow

[@CaitoPotatoe]

Out of all the interviews you’ve done, this one has really stuck with me. So many of his analogies, compassion, realness…. Man… I have not lost a child but I have lost family and the grief, the pain, physical and emotionally and mentally… and the part where he said you can count on one hand who the genuine friends are who are there for you…. Absolute truth. Peter I’ll never forget you and your son’s story. Thank you, and my love truly and genuinely is with you and your family. If I could bring your boy back I would in a split second Xxxx

[@therealpetergeo]

You're very sweet

[@neverlandproductions1262]

Ive taken so much away from this interview, Thank you so much for sharing your story

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. 😊

[@sandramixon8214]

Been watching SWU for a few years now. Mostly out of curiosity about others that are so different than myself, but this man’s strength and transparency is quite eye opening, sometimes you think surely you will die of a broken heart, but your heart just keeps beating, even though you may wish it didn’t. You are here for a purpose, you are part of a greater plan, just put one foot in front of the other if that’s all the strength you have that day. Prayers for you and your family. Thanks for sharing your story.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for your warm comment.

[@Gram72534]

I haven't had a drink in 15 years, but I had drank and drove sooo many times! Thank goodness nothing bad ever happened, I couldn't live with myself if i had killed someone's child!!! Alcohol is one of the 3 worst drugs known to man!!!

[@shaneewing5300]

Gram, 15+ years sober here too. I gave it up before anything bad happened as well.

[@bongofury333]

If alcohol was invented today it would be illegal.

[@user-yj1jt8bw6s]

Totally agree! So glad to be sober

[@TDog0412]

As real as it gets. What an amazing, genuine man. Much love

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank You 😊

[@CarolRedhead-li9ps]

This story is so heartbreaking it truly takes your breath away. Blessings and strength go to you and your family. Thanks 🙏 for sharing your heart felt story ❤️❤️😇🙏

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you. You're very sweet. I hope this video continues to help people. 😊

[@user-op4pt2zk6w]

Thank you for your honesty and courage…. Love this one ❤❤❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. 😊

[@shelbymorrissey975]

This came at a good time. I just lost a close friend and I drove by his house today even though he’s gone. When he said he would drive to the school and their old house, I realized I was doing the same thing. I was looking for my friend. This helped me with my grief and also put things in perspective. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@RampageJake]

I used to drive out to the country just to drive past my best friends house. I didn't know why until now.

[@Alaska-me5jc]

I am sorry you lost your friend. ❤

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching.

[@redhandedgirl5774]

I am so sorry. I miss my daughter and completely understand. Broken bones, no pain help, no friends left. I am so happy you have your wife and truly admire your strength. Middle of the ocean is the perfect description. You are an amazing guy.

[@BlueAssassain]

Love to you for your sentiments from Sherry.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you so very much

[@mrs.awhiggins450]

Humility and grace are the hardest of human character to not only possess but also exhibit. Bravo, Peter. You do both so well. My deepest condolences over your and your family's loss. 💐

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much.

[@kyl622]

Story hits me a lot. I was driving with my little brother in the car and we got in an accident. The other car was speeding, rushing to get to a funeral, slammed right into the passenger door my brother was on, my brother is lucky to be alive. He had bloody cuts all over him from the window being destroyed, his head was bleeding, but other than that he was fine. Grateful everyday I didn’t lose him, it could’ve ended horribly. Stories like this remind me to be thankful for what I have, because we can lose it in a matter of seconds.

[@therealpetergeo]

Things can change quick.

[@ryanmurphy9587]

The way he can communicate all the emotions and perspectives is obviously heart breaking; but beautiful. The most prayers to him and his family.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you so very much.

[@misterwallace3479]

This was incredible. This person is a sweet soul. I feel like giving him a hug.

[@terrytownsend5583]

Very original

[@karenfryberger4260]

@@terrytownsend5583 Just as your comments are very predictably snarky.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much. Hugs are nice.

[@KingofUrasus]

We all needed this. What an incredible man.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. 😊

[@jillbelanger9111]

This guy is the most level headed genuine thoughtful smart well thought out articulate person I’ve ever heard. I learned so much from listening to this guys story. I lost it when he said you just second guess everything after you lose a kid. I could feel that to my core. The fact he reaches out to people and friends even after going through this. His matter of fact attitude is admirable and the fact that he doesn’t sugar coat shit is refreshing. It also makes me not take every second w people who are in our lives for granted. I also have someone close to me who went through something traumatic and I distanced myself for fear of being faced with not knowing what to say or how to say it. This gentleman taught me that you don’t have to say anything at all. You can sit in silence next to the person, but just be there for them. Thank you for courage. I got so much out of what you shared on this video. Thank you. Thank you.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you so much for your heartfelt compliments. I'm glad this video is helping people. Thank you for watching the video and genuinely taking it in. 😊

[@vincentvermilion5909]

This video made me cry over and over again. I don't know what it feels like to be you, but your story resonated with me deeply. I respect how kind you are despite what you have gone through. Youre doing the best you can I hope that things work out in your favour soon.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you so very much.

[@haleymcgannon1669]

I’m glad I wasn’t the only one crying on and off for the whole duration of the video 😭

[@SoftCrimson]

Just kept hearing Eric Clapton's song 'Tears in Heaven' playing in my mind the entire interview. 'Child loss is not an event, it is an indescribable journey of survival'. Thinking of your family.

[@thatsomoe]

Thank you so much for this video. I lost someone very close to me due to a drunk driver. It happened in 2022 and it’s still an ongoing case. This makes me feel like I’m not alone. Thank you so much for telling your story.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. Sorry for your loss.

[@jeanjohnson6443]

Dear Peter, sending hugs and love. Thank you for sharing your heart.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching. 😊

[@luluchuchu1]

Peter is a beautiful person. I wish there were more people like him out there. He would be a great grief counselor or speaker. I believe his story will help so many. People who have gone through the same experience as well as people who are thinking about drinking and driving. I hope that this makes people think about how a split-second decision can change the lives of so many. Thank you Peter for sharing your story. And I am so sorry for your loss.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank You so much for your kind words

[@cassnate6259]

Yes! Grief counselor was in the back of my mind. He is so well-spoken and direct... I would hope something like that would make him feel like he could bring more good out of such a tragedy.

[@luluchuchu1]

@@cassnate6259 Yes, he is an eloquent speaker and Mark is right- highly evolved individual with a lot of compassion. God bless him and his family.

[@user-cd8yk3gu1w]

Everything you said about the feelings you have, the friends who are no shows, etc are all TRUE. We lost our daughter Feb 2021 suddenly. What people need to know is a hug means the world, a card, a phone call. This is about the person grieving for christ sake, not about how it's going to make someone feel " who doesn't know what to say". People puss out and run the other way instead of supporting the family of the lost. We are in a club nobody wants to be in. You're a good hearted man. You did a great job expressing everything. My daughter will take care of your son until we all meet again

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you very much for your comment. Our loves ones disappear when we need them. I learned the hard way.

[@deedeeunkefer2270]

😢

[@Skroggn]

This was tough to get through.. Thanks for sharing Peter.

[@therealpetergeo]

Thank you for watching.

[@gmoneymuthafukkas8128]

I hope mark can financially help this family out, I've watched almost all of this channels videos and this family is absolutely hands down the most deserving of help and support.

[@bjfontana5760]

Peter, thank you so much for sharing your story. I cannot even begin to imagine the loss of your son and how that has impacted you, your wife, and your other child. Your interview is fantastic and so open and honest. You'd be [well, you already are!], a great motivational speaker. Would you ever consider having your own YT channel or doing a TED talk? You have a huge amount of wisdom, knowledge, kindness, and heartache to share. The frustration about getting the opioid pain meds you need is nuts; I have cancer related pain [I'm doing fine], and I've been questioned by pharmacists: what is this for? Cancer. Are you in remission? No. This is crazy as my family doc and I discuss my pain management and I wish pharmacies would not question my doc's [and my], judgement. As for your words about friends / family deserting you, I look at it as 'Their loss!' Those that truly love and care about you, WILL keep in touch even if they can't visit you in person as often as previously. You're a true hero and inspiration, Peter! Many hugs from Canada and thanks again for sharing!