“Dad doesn’t want to see me” | The Riveras | Universo

[@Jc22ny]

Its heartbreaking how both Jacquie and Chiquis crave a father so bad that they are permitting this individual play mind games with them.

[@FGirl-pm4ry]

JuanCarlos C agree!

[@esthermtz4300]

Yes, I hate it

[@annaburgos7271]

Its sad. They need therapy and to stay away from him. He’s so dangerously fucking with their head

[@Savagemode09]

obviously it's hard because you want to be forgivable. But that kind of act is unforgivable.... I don't get it os wrong.

[@messy_me]

I think he knows chiquis is smarter and IMO he is just using jacquie and if chiquis goes she will notice his real intentions.

[@ceemeebee15]

Yes I was thinking the same

[@anabeltorres350]

I understand all about forgiving someone BUT!! I will never understand why they want to build a relationship with a man that did so much harm to them their mom and family.....

[@genieNotinabottle]

I’m glad you don’t understand! We definitely don’t want understand how their brain works! I do believe their self-esteem must be very very low! I feel Horrible saying it but it’s the truth because a strong mind would not allow that !!!!! What happened to strong Hispanic women? Gross!!! If these were my daughters I would be spinning in my grave!!!!

[@grahamjonesfamily1634]

My sentiments exactly.

[@nikkinick6762]

Exactly!! I’m there with you.

[@miriamanaya4781]

It’s her dad.

[@jessicatrevino7158]

That’s what I was thinking this guy not only molested her but her aunt to ... abused there mom why are you giving him the satisfaction of telling you when he’s ready to see you .. sometimes I feel like they might have made it up to put Trino in jail to get him out of Jenni life ugly to say but if anyone had been harmed by someone why would you talk about it as if it was no big deal

[@Melisit83]

He is so toxic even from jail.... ridiculous!

[@elizsanz]

Hes a narcicist. Its all manupulation. Hes using them 😩🤮

[@feamen6919]

I wonder.. if he had sexually abused one of Jackie 's daughter she would be so forgiving? She's being so incosiderate with Chiquis.

[@messy_me]

AA Nwosu exactly she is too pushy with chiquis..

[@messy_me]

Chabelita Rico she was..

[@chabelitarico4526]

messy me then I don’t see how she is being pushy to her sister, they both lived the same hell. And they both want to talk to piece of shit of a dad, I feel sorry for the mom. Poor lady all that she did for these girls and now for nothing.

[@marilynmonroe588]

AA Nwosu fuckyn true

[@AnnaLexi]

Fe Amen *_Ikr?!! Well Chiquis says Jenni was very forgiving & told her that when she was ready she would take her to the prison to see him.._*

[@mckayfam3090]

He knows what he did and he knows chiquis remembers the most. I pray God Grant's these girls peace with this situation.

[@alondra7ify]

I get the forgiveness stuff but it feels like they are begging him for a relationship. And why is Jackie pushing her to do it!??😡

[@IM562MG]

I am glad Jackie healed and doesn’t HATE him cuz that must be hard too but idk why she so pushy about having a relationship with him and pushes chiquis to do it

[@busaboi4669]

Totally agree wit you!

[@chicbxbecerril6985]

All of a sudden he is making her look guilty for what he’s done to her🥺He’s such a narcissist👀👀shaming her

[@ilsesolis9982]

yo creo que chiquis ni siquiera quiere verlo...solo que jacquie la presiona mucho...el viejo le lavo el coco a jacquie quien sabe cuales sean sus verdaderas intenciones

[@nayiimoneyy8217]

Neta que si, porque no quiere ver las que se acuerdan de lo que paso...

[@emilee9053]

Poor girls are so messed up in the head This is super fucken weird that they wanna see him

[@lunaverseI]

even though their dad did such a disgusting thing to them, at the end of the day, hes their dad and they have the right to want to talk to him. they grew up with him as kids and its understandable. That doesnt excuse his actions at all though and i understand why people are mad, makes total sense.

[@natalata1435]

Y'all just need God and some therapy. Yes forgive, but how do you trust someone who has betrayed you in such a way? Even if ge is your father. As a mom myself, my kids come first and there's no point on rebuilding a relationship with someone you can't trust to to be around your children. I pray that God blesses you with the wisdom, strength and ability to see what his real intentions are. Sending positive vibes, you girls are so strong and brave ♥️

[@dbsofuxbzks]

He has accountability with Chiquis and Jackie doesn't remember so he can manipulate her.

[@monicalulediaz]

It's one thing to forgive him but it's a whole other game that he is playing with his daughters. This man is trying to play games and make himself seem important and manipulate them. Chicas . . . . get your closure from this man and move on. He is a toxic person that may never change.

[@SintiaMencia2011]

Siento que es bueno perdonar pero no olvidar , aveces es mejor alejarse de personas así aunque estas sean alguien importante en tu vida , porque aunque lo perdones nunca olvidarás el daño que te hizo y solo arruina tu vida , esas personas que te an echo tanto daño solo quieren estar en tu vida para dañarte para dar amargura y malas vibras a tu vida , en conclusión de mi parte me alejaría de esas personas y viviría mi vida, es solo mi opinión.

[@hectormanuelpinales3368]

Luribeth Mencia sin duda alguna. Tu comentario me hace sentir bien Me da un asco el simple echo, que Jackie lo visite. Perdón pero, probablemente ellas lo puedan perdonar, pero lo que le hizo a 3 mujeres y 2 eran unas niñas. No tiene nombre... Y peor si es el hombre que te dió la vida, y las estaba criando, como si las quisiera.. perdón, no Qué coraje

[@SintiaMencia2011]

Hector Manuel Pinales si Manuel gracias por comentar en mi comentario ,y si siento tu mismo asco yo se que dios es amor y perdón pero no se vale lastimar y arruinar la vida de tus hijas yo pase por algo similar no con mi padre gracias adiós pero con personas cercanas a mi y aun a mi edad no puedo verles la cara es algo no se puede pasar nunca se olvida 😔siento mucho pesar por chiquis pero tiene que olvidarse de ese hombre y seguir adelante con personas que si la aman y la quieren en sus vidas.

[@cecialonso5850]

Ese honbre no merece que tu lo veas puedes perdonarlo pero eso no quiere decir que tienes que berlo y Ablar con el para que lo metio tu mami ha la carcel si despues lo ven y le Ablan pobre jenni tanto que sufrio por eso y ahora ustedes ir ha berlo como que lo que paso fue una gracia ustedes ya Estan grandes y no lo necesitan jaquie no quieras que chikis lo vea tu no te acuerdas de nada pero chikis si , yo no lo quedria ver nunca por lo que les iso

[@hectormanuelpinales3368]

Luribeth Mencia la violacion es un tema muy fuerte, y si tu pasaste por esa situación, lo lamento mucho. el privar de la libertad de una persona y hacerle ese daño, causa un terrible miedo.

[@SintiaMencia2011]

Hector Manuel Pinales si es muy difícil creo que esta es la primera ves que lo digo en esta forma es algo que te marca de por vida pero hay que seguir adelante la vida sigue así que para adelante amigos bendiciones

[@angiemagallanes5611]

Que valientes mujeres yo no podría verle la cara a un monstruo así Jamás, bendiciones para ellas 😘

[@gali1440]

No son valientes Son unas descaradas y marranas

[@victorabustamante7207]

No valiente, stuuuupid is what I'm talking about

[@rubychavez4997]

Chiquis don't go no es sano✌💕💗

[@jazzlynvelasquez8369]

Y porque no es sano?

[@iperezable]

@@jazzlynvelasquez8369 por que ese hombre es un manipulador es, una. Abusador sexual, el saldrá de l cárcel un día se acercará a sus hijos, y el el muy vengativo y podrá hacerles mucho más daño. Es una persona muy enferma. No deben estar cerca de él.

[@fercho6848]

@@iperezable lo conoses ? 🤣

[@amyarevalo3859]

not your choice

[@sonyareyes9596]

perez exacto

[@tyheclayton473]

I don’t like Jacques behavior pushing her sister To see her dad

[@palomanegrethe6251]

TÚ DEBES DE DECIDIR SÍ QUIERES VERLO CHIQUIS!! 💕TODAVÍA LE DAS LA OPORTUNIDAD DE QUE TE PIDA PERDÓN POR EL BIENESTAR DE SU CONCIENCIA!! Y SE DA EL LUJO DE RECHAZARTE!! ESPERA QUE NO LAS LASTIME CON SU ARROGANCIA!! DLB❤️

[@reygomez8917]

Wooow very purrrrty

[@conniez.taylor8782]

He is a sikcko! and playing games with you ladies and he does not wan to apoligise! be careful! he feels confortable not apoligiszing even to Jacky! esta jugando con su cerebro y su humildad Jacky! ya te pidio perdon? No esta arrepentido! para nada! Ni de corazon! y sycologicamente va a Jugar con los sentimientos de Jacky primero! Mucho cuidado con ese violador!

[@danielle_abrams007]

You two are so brave. I love yall. Sending positive vibes, hugs and kisses for the Riveras from Texas.💗🌸💗😘

[@loveluck1989]

You could forgive someone and never speak to them again peroid!

[@adrianamolina8682]

I would never let my sister go by herself

[@futuremd40]

Damn I have to watch the riveras. They put some real stuff on T.V. ❤️

[@ZHab336]

DON’T ASK A HOMELESS FOR 100 DOLLAR BILL!!!! HE CAN’T GIVE YOU A FATHERLY LOVE ONLY YAHWEH CAN GIVE YOU THAT TRUE PURE LOVE.

[@lalag6766]

Why would you guys want to see him🙅

[@lisasilva9677]

This annoyed me about Jackie in the movie!😖 How she wanted to always see her dad. I understand about forgiveness, And it comes easy to Jackie because she doesn't remember but she needs to remember how much pain he caused Chiquis, tia Rosie, mom and family. Now that she's a mom she needs to understand how her mom felt. If he did this to his kids, he will do this to his grandkids, and when he gets out of prison no matter how old he is, I wouldn't bring my kids around him! I feel bad for Chiquis, she knows that her dad is still mad at her for telling and now he is in prison because of what he did. He isn't sorry! He's only mad that he got caught!

[@jaquelynvazquez3539]

Trino raped Jackie when she was younger so she doesn’t remember everything like her sister but her mom told chiquis and Jackie if they wanted to see their dad, they could but to be older and ready to see him and they did it when they were older and ready.

[@gemini0808]

Que diria Jenni si estuviera viva... yo jamas perdonaria a un monstrou como su padre de ellas.

[@ivelisseortiz2527]

Es que no entiendo no debes de buscarlo no se lo merece por algo está en prisión ya ellas están saliendo adelante sin él tanto que sufrió su madre para meterlo preso por lo que les hizo y ellas buscando lo que es eso en realidad que se olviden de él todavía le da la gana de decir que no quiere verte para que veas que no ha cambiado realmente manténgalo fuera de de sus vidas de seguro Jenny no hubiese querido esta situación con todo lo que sufrió por culpa de ese hombre

[@Yrodriguez5]

I will never forget that famous video when after the trial when Jenni is wiping away Chiquis tears... like girl your mom wanted to murder this man for harming your sister and you. WHY would you ever do this? He’s a sick individual! He did it to them both and it got known but who knows how many innocent victims he harmed before he met Jenni.. If Jenni were alive she would be against it!

[@veronicagonzalez2815]

Jackie, just don't ever leave him alone with you children, oh my goodness why? 😑

[@kelleymariejones6388]

The woman that was with Trino after Jenni left him had a little girl, he didn’t molest her? I bet there was no investigation on that situation?!🤨

[@saunsiaraybroussard9967]

It's crazy that he didn't want to see y'all at the same time!

[@emor5221]

Chiquis has the biggest impact cause not only was it the aunt he violated his daughter. Her, she wants her dad regardless of who he is and what he’s done.

[@victorabustamante7207]

Sick!

[@migdalialittle6515]

Chiquis you need to do it on your terms not his he has no right to tell when he will be able to see you he will forever be your abuser

[@Claudia-xp1vn]

I would never talk to my father even if he asked for forgiveness if he rapped one of my sister's ! Jackie is an idiot for wanting to even give him the time of day ! This is sick !

[@jaquelynvazquez3539]

you need to understand these girls lost both of their parents. Now put yourself in their shoes. Yes their father did horrible things but their mother did tell them “if you wanna see your dad do it when your older and ready” and they did do it when they were older and ready. So Jackie is not being an idiot she’s doing what her mom wanted her to do when it was time.

[@Zamstein]

I’ll tell you why girl.. he wants to gaslight you guys and he needs to separate you to do that!

[@kelleymariejones6388]

I never thought anyone besides myself would use the phrase Gaslight, I love it! Isn’t it the truth, his mom jacked him up so he feels justified in anything he has done. I am not sure whether trino’s one sister who cared about her nieces knew what he was doing. Other than that one sister the whole rest of his family was a bunch of freaks ! Like what grandma doesn’t love her grandkids?!

[@martharubio616]

LA VERDAD .... NO ENTIENDO SU NECESIDAD DE VERLO ... UNO DEBE DE PERDONAR , PERO OLVIDAR UNA AGRESIÓN TAN GRAVE SE ME HACE MUY DIFÍCIL ... UNA PERSONA QUE NO AGREGA NADA POSITIVO A TU VIDA ES MEJOR TENERLA LEJOS .... AUNQUE SEA TU MISMA SANGRE ... YO DESPUÉS DE VER LA SERIE DE SU MAMA , NO CREO QUE ELLA ESTUVIERA MUY DE ACUERDO CON ESTO ..... PERO CADA QUIEN SU VIDA ... PERO LO ERRORES SE PAGAN CAROS ..

[@thv199]

Soy la unica Méxicana,aqui?🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽

[@mariasanchez1497]

Jacquie .. let chiquis decide ... it seems like you're pushing the situation

[@kelleymariejones6388]

It seems as though jacqie has always been selfish and manipulative I hate to say this but a chip off the ole daddy block! I know she doesn’t remember, but the brother doesn’t either, just hearing what happened to his auntie and sisters, he can’t stand the man. So hearing that your aunt and sister were molested, the girl got no conscience?!😱😱😱😱

[@idk8280]

Yo creo chiquis que debes de saber si en realidad lo quieres por qué se que lo perdonaste y se que tú lo quieres ver por tu hermana jacquie pero debes de pensar en lo que tú en realidad quieres hacer y se que es tu papá pero te iso mucho daño y no es malo perdonar pero si en verdad te sientes preparada para dar ese paso lo puedes hacer pero si no lo estás no lo hagas para todo hay su tiempo pero bueno eso es solo mi opinión para eso estamos los fans ❤😁💕😍I LOVE YOU

[@irenesocasio6830]

Q nunca se te olvide lo q dijo tu mami. Tu no hiciste nada para merecer eso. El lo hizo queriendo dañar a tu mama, lo hizo sin piedad con todo el odio del mundo hacia tu mami. Asi q duele todo eso pero Dios se hara cargo de el en persona. Tu sigue tu vida hasta ver donde llega su descaro. Quiere relacionarse con jack pq ella no recuerda el daño q le causo de nlña. Quiere informarse de todo lo q esta pasando en la familia para alegrarse, burlarse, y sentirse grande. Pero grande era tu mami q logro hacerles justicia a uds. Aun cuando no se la pidieron. No es q lo odies, pues el q odia se enferma y se pone a su nivel. Mas bien siempre habla con Dios pidele q te revele sus verdaderos sentimientos, e intenciones hacia ti y los tuyos. Una persona como el puede ser capaz de tomarse la peor venganza, de la peor manera, a cualquier precio, usando si es posible hasta su propia madre. No te olvides q el odio y el rencor q siempre le tuvo a tu madre tmbn va contra uds, y contra todos los rivera. Un abrazo fuerte.

[@kika9176]

I'm writing him a hateful letter, there's no reason he should sleep peacefully. I hope those walls close in on him and don't grant him parole. I know we should forgive but they shouldn't degrade themselves either

[@Owlsbecool]

Jacky shouldn't let her daughter's be around him

[@renetarango9886]

What I seen in the movie your father was not a good man he hit your mom called her ugly names and when you three were born he said he was not the father he will never change

[@EllaLaStoner]

Jacquie is his daughter. Both of them are so manipulative and carry a dark souls with bad intentions.

[@anabellvasquez9321]

Es traumante lo que vivieron si yo fuera chiquis yo no lo vuelvo a ver nunca... el está donde se merece estar puedes perdonarle pero mo tener ninguna relación con el xq el no se tocó el corazón para hacerles el daño a sus propias hijas sus propia sangre 🙄🙄🙄

[@carmenvazquez852]

jacquie dont tell me ur are messing with ur ears plisss no

[@dayfigueredo9173]

Chiquis, ni vallas encima es el ofendido

[@windalizmaldonado3000]

There’s no need for them to meet up with this man, he doesn’t have good intentions it’s ok if they want to forgive him but he’s not a safe man to even have their children around. It’s sad they crave a relationship with a man who hurt them and their loved ones so bad😕

[@Zamstein]

I believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ and that includes forgiveness. But you don’t put yourself in harm way! You don’t stay with the wolves! Trino is not to be trusted... he’s very manipulative!

[@samanthahernandez9951]

Yo these girls are trippin! 💀 forgiveness is one thing but trying to build a whole ass relationship with this man is doing to much! Way to much!

[@karlamorice8715]

Yo me pregunto Jackie a fuerza quiso que hablaran con el y lo perdonaran pero habrá trino aceptado lo que hizo y decir si la cague y perdón por todo el daño que les hice y los golpes que le di a su madre. Tanto que Jenny luchó por justicia y todo el sufrimiento para que ella a fuerza quisiera que todos sus hermanos lo perdonen. Jackie perdonaría al padre de sus hijas si les pasara lo mismo?

[@normacastro357]

Jackie es tan estúpida que sí lo perdonaría y hasta seguiría viviendo con él. Osea haría lo mismo que hace ahora con chiquis

[@msestrada5183]

💔❤

[@thegarciafamily5733]

He wants to meet you separately bc you and him know what he’s done and he’s too much of a coward to face wtf he did in front of more people .

[@Babyduzzit]

Chiquis LITERALLY wants to see her dad for HER inner peace, it’s something she needs to resolve nomatter anyones oppinion.

[@lisyyj77]

I cannot believe they want to have a relationship with their dad. He sexually abused them both and their aunt. I get they were little girls but how does a dad do that to his own girls?

[@alexahernandez6373]

I don't understand how they can forgive someone who sexually abused them? Their father. It's strange I get that's their dad but why would you want to see someone who did so much to you and your family. Weird

[@spiceg1rl668]

Me exact thought! Its weird too that their so excited

[@dionysdelacruz3814]

Tan bella mi yagui

[@mariahh2114]

Little sister is being pushy. Let it be

[@henriettagarza2733]

With everything Jenny went through to defend them from this monster why are they even trying to see him

[@kencinas2603]

Espero que Chiquis ni se arrime. Si Jackie lo quiso perdonar pues alla ella. El solo les esta lavando el cerebro y creo que es para beneficio de el. No se, tal vez para que le reduscan sentencia por Buena conducta y vaya y diga que ya cambio y sus hijas lo perdonaron. Pinchi viejo si es mas diablo que el mismo diablo!!! 😠

[@4Realkevv]

He Aint confessed yet why go see him the way u heal is when he admits his wrong

[@brendasanchez2322]

Like why go tho. Jenni is so mad right now..

[@jessicafranco3329]

The fact that they call him “dad” 🤮🤮🤮

[@alondrajosefinarodriguezmo8187]

que me perdone dios, pero yo nunca quisiera volver a ver a una persona que se que me hizo tanto daño, pero pues cada quien su mundo

[@disneydame7850]

This is sad but the fact is that he took his parental rights away himself these girls should never blame themselves for his actions he should be the one begging them for forgiveness but that is not what he is doing. I understand they want to be forgiving out of their kindness from the hearts but you can still forgive in your mind and soul from a distance but I don’t think they should reach out to him ever.

[@elizabethsalinass9652]

Que valor de querer verlo despues del daño que le hizo . tu propio padre abuso de ti te arrebato lo mas sagrado que teniaas y peor que fue tu padre , el hombre que debia protegerte con su Vida . me parece muy mal de jacky ya que Ella Tiene hijaas y el solo hecho de pensar que conviviran me parece algo asqueroso . si abuso de sus propias hijas que les hace pensar que no de las nietaas? Jacky debe pensar en el bienestar de sus hijaa s no en lo que es bueno para Ella . esto me parece totalmente fuera de si....

[@La_unica_estrella]

Open your eyes your chester dad aint ever going to change. 👎

[@jasmineg5045]

Wow their mom would be so disappointed 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@mayluortega6613]

no she wouldn’t tf , jenni was very forgiving and she even once told chiquis that whenever she was ready to forgive her dad, to do it wheneve she would like. stupid internet , y’all love to talk but don’t even know the real story behind it all.🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Mirandapinklove86]

Jenni told them in one of the episodes of I love jenni . That she wouldn't get upset if they would want to go see their father in prison . She was ok with it .

[@jasmineg5045]

@@Mirandapinklove86 oh okay that’s different then !

[@mariamercado6948]

El tiene miedo ver a chiquis. Pork chiquis si recuerda El abuso.👊.. Jackie no pork estaba muy chikita... Eya solo kiere cariño d Padre... Mas aora k no esta la Diva

[@Sunflower-bi5sf]

Chiquis you should not be scared that he never wants to see you he is a narcissist

[@milyortiz1504]

Ok perdonarlo está bien si a ellas las hace sentir mejor peerooo de eso a querer verlo o tener algún tipo de contacto con él ya está de más no? Perdonen chicas pero alejense de ésa basura lo más lejos posible.

[@proudmommamrs.p7908]

sounds like manipulation

[@angelicabermudez5841]

Why waist yiur time and energy on a man that caused so much damage to your family and mom and then he molested yiu guys like hello what is wrong with this picture

[@graciegrace1133]

Why girls!! Im sorry but he dose not deserve you guys!! He is a bad seed, and your momma did so much for you wont suffer!! Its not fair to all her hard work!!! He is bad and he scared you guys for life, would you let it go if that would of been your lil girls instead of you(that happen to)? I don't think so, you would (yeah you kmow)

[@mercedesmercedes4445]

Q no lo vea ninguna, no se lo merece, fue el peor padre del mundo

[@lydia9161]

Leave that man alone I would never trust him...hell no

[@kelleymariejones6388]

And here goes trying to put the FUN in dis-FUN-tional!🤪🤪🤪🤪

[@natalieterrazas2747]

If I were them I would not go because first of all that’s why he’s in jail secondly how dare he ask who to see first bro like get real dude like healing? Trino you stole there innocence thanks to you 👎

[@adahir4410]

Trino says that he always see’s chiquis on tv and other prisoners call him suegro lol but like he feels proud of herand thats creepy bc like people know he abused her and hes proud. Idk

[@citystyleboxing8234]

Jaq is a sick individual..I feel so bad for chuikis.

[@desisarod]

WTF??!

[@lislopez3979]

First comment!💕

[@MariaFernanda-gn3nu]

This guy is legit mind fucking them. Jackie wants to make excuses for him so bad

[@fireflamez52]

Just watched this and are u kidding me he molested u when u was two and Chiquis plenty of times like how dare him or dare them... I swear if it wasn't for the doctors papers it almost makes u think did it even happen.. Wtf I wished I never saw this clip 😤😤😤😤 May jenny be resting in peace

[@stacygarcia3810]

Why would you go see him I don’t understand then why did you put him there in the first place?

[@aracelybracamonte1544]

This is not right... very gross whyyy

[@natalieterrazas2747]

Also chiquis is the older one so I would of said no jacqui don’t go

[@roksesh4731]

Divide and conquer.

[@gcelisa7513]

Washing brain thant is it..

[@busaboi4669]

Why the hellll would u wana goo see a man that molested you!! And even care wat he thinks and hows he doing!! This man is in prison because he abused you as a kid! And you care that he is mad at you and doesn't want to see you!! Wtf!! Wat the hell is wrong with them!! SMH!! Wow!!

[@juniorgil541]

😏😕

[@isabelvelacabral3518]

He prob hates on chiquis nd cant stand her cuz she her momm twin

[@techguylos213]

So fake n scripted

[@oohmydi3407]

This is disgusting, what kind of Stockholm’s syndrome is this? He molested you and your aunt, why the hell would you want to “mend a relationship?” Sick

[@victorabustamante7207]

Why would you ever care if he rejects you? You sound as if you are very co dependent and that sounds very sickening, quite frankly. Get help!

[@KCdaCreator]

Hes a coward that's why

[@juliaportillo6845]

Jackie is annoying 🙄-- least favorite child of Jenny

[@yadiramercado2755]

He doesn't want to see Her because who knows He might get a hard on 🤮👎 Why the hell are you trying to fix your relationship with a man who's sick and molested you, this is Discusting, it's ok to forgive for your own sake, but nah you're not going to convince me that it's safe and a normal thing to be around a child molester.