Dad wouldn’t stop looking and asking for his deceased brother so I had to tell him the truth. These are the most difficult conversations we have with him. Dementia Sucks!
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@WendyQallab2 ай бұрын
I took care of many people with dementia and most of their children barely visited let alone care for them. This is a amazing son.
@uzumate9976Ай бұрын
Son is well taken care of his father, and dad is very gentle old man with memory problems. Some people with dementia or any memory loss problems hard to deal with them so have to lock them in the room.
@JillianCoff16 күн бұрын
Patients that is the key and U have a lot of patience dan
@user-mq5dr1jh5t9 күн бұрын
my friends mom had ''walking dementia''. she was always looking for her sister who passed years ago
@realtalkwiththeking78627 ай бұрын
The dog sensed he was upset and wanted to stay by him. I bet it hits hard every time he hears this. Love you Dr. Ed!
@DaisyAnnabelle652 ай бұрын
🙏✝️❤️😭
@GabrielaMartinez-pn5wl7 ай бұрын
Hi Dan, I am a nursing assistant and I work with people with dementia. I would suggest that you print out the obituary of his brother Bill and a picture and put it in you Dad’s room where he can see it everyday. Perhaps also place a picture of his other siblings with their names and their contact information as where they live.❤
@breakingewes13167 ай бұрын
That’s a great idea! ❤
@babyrenee65377 ай бұрын
Yes as someone struck by senior moments in midlife (lupus brain involvement) my working memory is not as short lived but even I've had to relive, and regrieve, the news of lost loved ones. Yet just as photos, videos, email, and text threads "reset" the timer I'm sure this could help preserve his memory of the loss of his bro. Every blessing in 2024.
@Jaxismom7 ай бұрын
This made me cry sorry Dan that's a hard thing for you
@_trismegistus6 ай бұрын
I agree, it would be good to have laminated sheets with various info and reminders around the house.
@jena91766 ай бұрын
GMTA I WAS THINKING A POSTER BOARD WITH PICTURES OF ED'S SIBLINGS/FAMILY AS SOMETHING TANGIBLE FOR HIM TO VIEW WHEN DESIRED ❤ A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS. 👍 BLESSINGS
@hilariecalijo46437 ай бұрын
The dog knew dad was distressed , comforting him. Bless dad’s sweet heart. You’re a sweet, kind son. ❤
@LisaRobertson-pq1tz3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your patience with him. I know your tired but you won't regret it.
@lenom12897 ай бұрын
When I saw him pet the dog, when Dan first told him that Bill has passed, my thought was, he's trying to sooth himself. Wonderful man.
@jeanniemayer21747 ай бұрын
I thought the exact same thing! We find comfort in our pets! Coco wasn't budging when Dan told him to move. Grandpa needed Coco!❤😢
@Gabriel-oi7ex7 ай бұрын
Yes, my thoughts as well. Also, it was so good to see Grandpa Ed smile at the end of the conversation. God's blessings to all.🌻💗🙏
@inekeschmelter33487 ай бұрын
What a difficult situation. I feel so sorry for him but also for you. I’m in the same situaton. My mother is from ‘31. Turning 92 on christmas day. I admire how you interact with your dad. Give HIM a hugg. My mother needs huggs very much. To feel that warm connection. See feels lovely very often because she forgets we were there. She’ s living in a home 5 min from mine. Wish you all a very good and warm Christmas from Holland! ❤
@pattijohnson81977 ай бұрын
Exactly! 😢
@superluca787 ай бұрын
I thought the same. He was taking comfort in the lovely dog.
@cherie85okc3 ай бұрын
He’s so tender hearted. What a sweet man. ❤
@mariadesouza55057 ай бұрын
coco is a very smart dog, he knows when grandpa is sad good dog.
@DorothyWilloughby-co5nc3 ай бұрын
The Gerrman sherpards is taking good care of Ed...... it's like a service dog like disabled people have. They're the best. He's standing at Ed's door wait'n to go inside with him to comfort him..... SOOOOOOOOO adorable; loveable n LOVELY. So sad yet he's blessed to have a VERYYYYYYYYY good family members to take care of him.
@DaisyAnnabelle652 ай бұрын
The dog is so wonderful to have with him! I love German Shepherds they are the best dogs, I had 4 in my life. Coco will definitely give him love.
@Tidda866 ай бұрын
What a guy!!! He may have some memory lost but he never forgets how much he loves and cares for his family.
@stacymalone85394 ай бұрын
Soooo HEART MELTING ❤
@keepingitrealalways21182 ай бұрын
Same as my dad. He is 91 with dementia. What a blessing for this family that they can stay home to care for their Dad. Such a sad illness.
@HobbesnCalvin1242 ай бұрын
My dad had dementia. My mom passed away during this time. When he would ask for her we said she was shopping (which she loved to do) and that she would be there later that day to see him. There was no need to put that grief on him over and over and over again. He was happy and by the time mom would have been there to visit him he would have forgotten and moved on to something else. Just no need.
@TheSouthernLady777Ай бұрын
Agree. Sounds like a good idea to have her shopping instead.
@paulaegraham17 күн бұрын
There is a video where they do that for half of an hour.
@HobbesnCalvin12416 күн бұрын
@@paulaegraham Well that’s sad, and completely unnecessary. ☹️
@user-lc6to1rf8j2 ай бұрын
I think all those years of being a Doctor and showing respect to his patients is still there in showing love and respect for his family ❤❤❤
@Godagaba99077 ай бұрын
This man is the true definition of being your brother's keeper ❤️
@shannonchavez34207 ай бұрын
Also, i think you might want to say "died", instead of "passed" because he seems to have a harder time understanding "passed". Bless your dad! Hes a sweet man!!❤
@ameliawilson10537 ай бұрын
I love it when Dan tells Grandpa his age, and he says I was born in 1932.
@carlitaperry1591Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your interactions with your beloved dad! So reminiscent of caring for my 95 year old mother-in-law who also suffered from dementia. God bless you and your family!
@user-zg3uc4el4xАй бұрын
Dan my Dad passed 3 years ago at age 97 after a 5 year period similar to your Dad. I recall the day Dad began crying uncontrollably, out of the blue he thought he’d killed all his children and was a bad man😥 It wasn’t until my wife convinced Dad, I was his son, in his presence and alive, and it was just his mind playing tricks on him. We were able to change his thinking and he eventually settled down. A day I will never forget ❤
@veevee1117 ай бұрын
Coco is Dr Ed's comfort animal whether he likes it or not ❤. God bless you, Dan and thank you, Coco, for your unconditional love.
@comfynlux56957 ай бұрын
Coco is always looking out for him
@tayawhiteside42567 ай бұрын
Coco is amazingly in tune with Grandpa, so much love in your home Dan 💞
@hilariecalijo46437 ай бұрын
I thought the exact same thing. Coco knew dad was distressed and was there to comfort him. ❤❤❤animals are angels , so sweet🥹🥹
@resolution13 ай бұрын
German shepherds are the best. They quickly pickup on their hooman emotions and are very protective 🤍
@daddycrawla126 ай бұрын
The smile when he heard he’s 92 and says “that’s pretty good” ❤ bless you guys 🙏🏻
@kabobtater99826 ай бұрын
4:10 this part of the conversation goes to show that no matter how old you are, your younger siblings will always be the baby’s to you. when you were explaining how it gets harder to travel in old age he started to say she wasn’t old with his “oh no she’s not that ol- she’s younger than i am” so adorable. our elders must be protected
@Blissful.17 ай бұрын
You should ask him stories of his childhood, those beautiful memories may need to be remembered for his comfort 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 God bless y’all!
@grandmaoldschool70113 ай бұрын
I would also like to hear about his childhood.
@King_Of_Paintsville7 ай бұрын
I couldn’t imagine having to break the news to him about his brother over and over again and relive his sadness. Bless you guy!
@mamacindyrogofsky4957 ай бұрын
Only thing is ( if it can be considered a blessing.) He won't remember a few mins later.
@Marie.b6 ай бұрын
@@mamacindyrogofsky495yep and that's why I'd say Bills gone out on an errand or something believable.
@lwh73013 ай бұрын
@@Marie.b He has the right to know the truth.
@si0027 ай бұрын
The good Dr Ed is always polite, despite everything he goes through, he never forgets his manners to say thank you 🙂
@fataturchina5289Ай бұрын
He' s always so sweet and very polite, no matter what he forgot and what he asks. Congratulations to you all as well ❤❤❤.
@cindysmith49782 ай бұрын
I’m heart broken watching this. I know exactly how you feel , dementia is so cruel. My dad passed last year and had dementia but my grandmother had really severe dementia like your dad, we told her everyday several times that her husband passed. It’s awful to watch the heartbreak over and over! Thank you sir for taking care of your dad, you’re a great man❤
@ruthhibbett5957 ай бұрын
My mom is 97 and I’m so grateful that she still has her mind intact. The body’s not in very good shape but the minds good. God bless you all for the love and support you all give your dad. Is very special. ❤
@mymillionaireclub75917 ай бұрын
That’s great
@dandm207 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for dad and when he said thank you, I lost it and the tears that had been building fell. I wish I could hug him. You're a good son Dan. Blessings to you both.
@samroger7 ай бұрын
I really felt the same way 😢
@Sara-ry4vc7 ай бұрын
I have also wished many a times, I wish I could hug grandpa Ed! Truly a gentle, kind, caring soul💞
@Blessed_by_Yeshua7 ай бұрын
I feel like I know you. My mom’s in the same boat as your dad. So tough. The worst for my mom is that she’s losing the Bible that’s been etched in her heart since she was a tiny child. She can’t remember her favorite passages. Good thing she told them to me so many times that I can now share the passages with her. Thank you and God bless you for sharing this with me. It’s tough to be in this situation. And I feel utterly alone on this planet.
@susanhill31006 ай бұрын
Awww... God Bless You and Your Mom!!... You are not alone... The Good Lord is with you both... Please hang in there 🙏... My thoughts and Prayers always!... ❤
@user-zz1ty4ie2x6 ай бұрын
Oh rest assured they are still in her heart!! Guaranteed!!!
@teodescartes17712 ай бұрын
Shit, your dad’s teachings are so deep! I weep when he says “nothing you can do about that” because I still don’t understand as much as he does about life and death. So true!
@alphashanahan43237 ай бұрын
He is just so adorable. His “thank you” at the end was like a signal that he is okay now and is back to the present. Much love to your whole family.
@troylooper6 ай бұрын
Grandpa is such a good hearted man! He loves his family so much❤
@wdestrempsmecke7 ай бұрын
You are amazing with your Dad. My Mom is a little further on with her dementia. These are excellent examples of how to handle difficulties of communicating with her. Thank you🙏🏼
@roxannemoreno20127 ай бұрын
Wow this is the most heartbreaking part in my opinion. Forgetting loved ones past and grieving over and over again. You're so awesome Dan!! ❤❤❤❤
@claudettemalespina607 ай бұрын
Hi Dan and Daniel. I think the reason your dog is standing behind Grampa is because hes trying to protect him from falling. He sences your fathers stress. Such a sweet pup. Take care From Ontario, Canada 🇨🇦 🐕🦺🦮🐾💞
@loraleemason46986 ай бұрын
Gosh, I just had a phone call with my sister who has dementia. She was lucid, we joked and had a beautiful conversation. The in an instant she asked, who are you? It’s so hard. I love Ed, and you and your family are precious. ❤
@claudinehedam.12975 ай бұрын
🤗🤗🤗
@alisaloria72636 ай бұрын
I absolutely love Grandpa. I adore this man. I can see what a good man he is. True to the center of his soul. Than you for sharing this precious soul with the world. You are doing such a wonderful job full of love and patience.
@this.is.pointless7 ай бұрын
I love when he says "pretty good" after you mention his age!!! Always. ❤
@saraschneider67817 ай бұрын
Dan, I would love to hear stories of Bill and their sister. Grandpa Ed clearly loves them deeply so we've gotten attached to them, too. I love hearing about the special people in Grandpa's life.
@geristracener52537 ай бұрын
I love this Dr. Ed. What a swell man. 😊
@JULZ_RULZ3 ай бұрын
My oldest sister took care of my mother when my mother had ended up with dementia 😢 It is a cruel part of getting old. My mom made it to 98. Listening to you and your Dad makes me sad and happy at the same time. He is lucky to have you. My mother used to always say to me, you're not gonna put me in a home, are you? We never did. My oldest sister had her full time. My other sister would take my mother out to dinner (she worked full time) and I (the youngest @ 59) would bring my mom to my house to stay for 3 or more days to give my oldest sister a break. I totally get it. Dad sounds so much like my mother and other relatives that had dementia. For 92, he walks better than I. I have R.A. and Osteo. My foot is messed up with hallux varus but I am chicken to have surgery. ❤ to your dad. He is too cute!
@kc_25256 ай бұрын
The range of emotions in a 5 minute time span. 🥺 My heart goes out tho this family fans every family dealing with these issues). It has got to be heartbreaking on another level bc of the repetition. This man went from telling his son the year he was born, to questioning the year he was born. I can’t imagine the turmoil he must feel when he doesn’t know where important people are and doesn’t understand why he can find them or doesn’t see them. Truly a tough battle and this family handled is with like a class act. Inspirational and educational. You all are greatly appreciated. 💜
@allie38047 ай бұрын
So sad for him to have to keep reliving the death of his brother. 😔 Love you Dr Ed ❤
@cassandradiaz76517 ай бұрын
Thank you, Dan, for all that you and your family do for your dad. Coco seems to know grandpa's fragile state, so Coco chooses to be close to him almost at all times. Such a sweet dog. ❤
@DedeMager-ig6he7 ай бұрын
And, I noticed in his grief he reached out to pet Coco comforting himself when it seemed to him nobody else was there for him...
@stavroulapsiharis83577 ай бұрын
You handled that well so sad to see his face when he realizes his brother Bill is no longer around 😢.
@lewis17176 ай бұрын
God bless this man he reminds me of my grandfather, you are an amazing son Dan. Big respect from Manchester uk 🇬🇧. X
@OhHellMichelle7 ай бұрын
Your a amazing son Dan! That’s my sons name too & I hope if I go threw this he is as amazingly cool calm & Collective as you are with your dad. Keep up the amazing way of being his son ♥️
@ramonacardona14307 ай бұрын
Awww, CoCo is protecting his Grandpa. It's so sad that he and you have to go thru this over and over. Your family has big hearts! God bless you all!
@zamiadams43437 ай бұрын
My grandpa was the same asking about my gran who had died years previously, all the best to you Dan, we all love grandpa Ed.
@CoffeeCrazy7 ай бұрын
How long do they continue to ask? Is there ever a t8me where they forget the person ?
@berrymaswikiti30287 ай бұрын
Seems like they only temporarily forget about the person, but then after a while they start asking after that person again. My mum, who turned 94 two days ago and has dementia, has been constantly asking about my dad who passed on in 2008 at 92 years old! But it’s been two months now that she hasn’t asked for him, instead she’s asking for her sister who we don’t know coz she passed on years ago when they were both young girls!😢
@joyceh39767 ай бұрын
@@berrymaswikiti3028 Mom died 2001, and yes she said things also that scared her, and made no sense at time. Like Ed it was right after she had been a sleep, The only thing and it's just me. I think Dan should say dad Bill Died, instead of passed, Ed always seem to not understand Dan. I always say my older son died. He died in 2016 after a back operation, I just made up my mind I had to accept he was dead, so never use the word passed. I may catch trouble over this comment, but I hope not. I know they have it very rough with Ed. The one thing I noticed also is Ed always knows Danielle's name.
@eleenilagan7 ай бұрын
@@berrymaswikiti3028Yah it's like they remember things when they were young. Dementia makes their brain smaller only to remember the past more than the present. It sucks really 😢
@gabevillarreal47797 ай бұрын
Simply cant get enough of this precious Dad!🙏🏼💙🙏🏼
@jocelynelongchamp13917 ай бұрын
Dan is a gem. Taking time to create videos of substance, to acquaint us with the family taking care of his Dad 🙏🏽. I love the way Dan loves his Dad and family. I wish for continued blessings on this very special family. I Love Dan's patience.
@PhilMiCoochie7 ай бұрын
That was definitely heartwrenching... I must admit though I chuckled when he said he looking in the cushions for his brother. Good bless you and your dad
@rachelender29057 ай бұрын
Bless his heart that is very heart breaking such a kind gentleman
@shirleyanneking52532 күн бұрын
Poor Ed. This clip breaks my heart. My husband also has dementia. At 81, he's the last one alive in his family. His 2 youngest brothers just passed 7 months apart. He asks me every day how many of his siblings are still alive. His youngest brother just passed on December 27th in his sleep. The second youngest brother just passed on Jult 21st. He's having a hard time to accept these two deaths, but he seems to be getting it that he's the last one still alive out of a family of 10 children. I'm so glad I still have him at home and he can get his questions answered as he thinks of things. I couldn't imagine what it would be like for him if he was pit into a care facility. His doctor keeps recommending that he be placed in a facility as he loses his balance and falls. I thank God that he hasn't injured himself when he has fallen. With the dementia, he also has an aortic aneurism, colon cancer and is on oxygen 24/4. He wants to go back to where he was born and there are a couple of other places that he wants to go. I checked with his doctor and was told to take him and ket him have fun, as he doesn't have much time left on this earth. So, that's what we're going to do. Road trips and hopefully, they won't be too much for him. I know when we're finished our travels, it's going to be recommended that it's time to move to a facility. I just don't want him to think we are throwing him away and don't want him around anymore. Dan and his siblings are doing a great thing by taking care of their father. I wish more families out there would do the same for their loved ones. Dan...I totally respect you abd your siblings fir raking duch great care of your father. Maybe others who watch your videos will follow by example. God bless you all. You're such wonderful, caring people! 🤍🤍🤍
@Spartacus457 ай бұрын
Just loved your pops smile when you told him he was 92 and his response, "pretty good uh?" Bless him!! Stay strong for him buddy, its hard but he needs you. I went through exactly the same with my mother before she passed. 🙏
@PYT76827 ай бұрын
You even see Coco trying to comfort poor Grandpa Ed. Dan you're doing a great job. Please hang in there. Wishing you, Danielle, Grandpa Ed, Mark and the entire family many blessings during this holiday season. ❤
@AngelaKSellsHomes7 ай бұрын
My heart breaks 💔 knowing he relives his brothers passing. My dad is just starting down this road. This channel helps me so much! Just knowing you're not alone helps. I'm getting great tips from the comment section too. I wish our country was more set up for this.
@berrymaswikiti30287 ай бұрын
There’s Dementia Caregivers blog that’s very good, it has really helped me understand the condition better and give better care to my mum and also made things easier for me as well!❤
@BLUEBELL2582 ай бұрын
What a distressing illness for the poor person suffering and for their family. Ed is so very lovely. So sad.
@nickelliott31387 ай бұрын
You’re an incredible son. It’s heart warming more than sad. You’re father clearly means the world to you and your paying everything back. Bless you both. I’ll be there for my dad just as you are there for yours!✝️🙏🏼❤️
@rmh6912 ай бұрын
What are you talking about? This guy is incredibly cruel. Geez.
@nickelliott31382 ай бұрын
@@rmh691 sorry
@rmh6912 ай бұрын
This is the only the second video I have seen by this creator so my comment is based on these only . They were probably suggested to me because my father has dementia. The son has no training how to deal with a parent with dementia. He should go to the Alzheimer’s Association and get into a support group. You never correct them and repeat the facts over and over the way this son does. You meet them where they are, and that often involves white lies to help the person feel a level of comfort and safety. The way the son deals with his father only creates anxiety in the mind of the dad. If you think about it, it’s really just common sense. The other video I saw was about the son needing to fly the following morning and the son just kept going around in circles with his dad, which just heightened anxiety for his dad. When he should’ve done was distract and deflect. He was only heightening dad’s anxiety the way he was interacting with him. So I don’t know if the guy is just plain ignorant or cruel, but It’s just all so wrong.
@BelindaShanle7 ай бұрын
Bless Grandpa, having to relive that sadness over and over, he was initially in panic mode, not finding Bill. He must have been a watchful, good older brother. You do a good job, Dan, as hard as it must be. I was glad to see his smile at the end. Even if it was in frustration of not having his siblings right there and learning again, he's 91, soon to be 92
@scottmarek13917 ай бұрын
Dan you are so gentle with Dad and I can relate to your conversations and although it’s hard I really miss those conversations with my Dad…❤
@kathrynbarker79675 ай бұрын
I love how respectful you always are to your dad, Dan. You are a wonderful and special man, just like your dad. God bless you
@lovelyshirl6 ай бұрын
Bless your Dad's heart. You do a marvellous job caretaking him. He seems like such a lovely man.
@randallgee42327 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for Grandpa Ed.May Bill RIP.Sending love and blessing to you all.
@keelane25757 ай бұрын
Mines too. They must’ve been really close ❤
@ameliawilson10537 ай бұрын
I really appreciate how you take the time out and dedication to making all these amazing videos.
@Kennyporterstoppedmyfight7 ай бұрын
Money 💰 🤑
@mickmcgill52347 ай бұрын
Sad last comment no need for it
@krista17356 ай бұрын
Dan, I don’t know your dad, but I so adore him. Such a warm smile and kind spirit. You are so blessed to have such a father… and so is he to have such a son. I want to hold his hand and hug him every time, and especially in this video. You are very kind and honoring of your father as we are lovingly commanded to do. God bless you and your father and your entire family.
@andrealaforgia4 ай бұрын
Dan, you are such a wonderful person and your dad is so lucky to have you. So much love, so much care. How you deal with your wonderful dad with patience and grace is just amazing. It should be an example for everyone. The way he smiles and says "Okay..." at the end... I just want to hug him...
@shaneo54367 ай бұрын
Sometimes I wonder if we only get to see the best of him because he's such an exceptional man. I can't imagine anyone handling their situation better than he does.
@surelyiamlove11777 ай бұрын
Coco can feel his distress😢
@brandyclifton5 ай бұрын
Bless you for helping and loving your dad!! You never falter in explaining no matter how many times or how long it takes! Love that your dog could sense his pain and that’s why she was there with him
@lilliancloutier68036 ай бұрын
An uplifting channel as we approach our "golden years". Appreciate your patience & strong connection with your father. So glad that you & your family are taking care of him now.
@kaliasiegrist72117 ай бұрын
Awe he really LOVES his brother Bill... He reminds me so much of my peapaw.. I love watching ur videos it brings me so much JOY & happiness... Much love from Indiana
@AlwaysChristyJ7 ай бұрын
❤ Dan, I've been where you and your family is. My dad was 91, fell broke his hip in April 2022, had surgery and was never the same. 5 months later in September became unresponsive and died peacefully in assisted full time living center. It was like ground hog day everyday explaining to him things and watching him relive and grieve each tradgy all over again. I totally get it and know the mixed emotions you go thur. My heart goes out to you and Danielle and it only gets harder as you travel down this path. May God lift him up during this transition and give you all peace knowing his fighting a hell of a fight. Your patience is absolutely beautiful and unwavering.
@StefanoBrigo2 ай бұрын
We have a lot to learn from this family. Much love from Italy to this beautiful, beautiful family.
@barbaranelson51777 ай бұрын
This shows just how much loved he had , your a great son and the love your dad has for his family is just outstanding
@shelwhitfield19057 ай бұрын
This man has my whole heart. Thank you, Dan, for being such a great son.
@eligioortiz57837 ай бұрын
This is so sad . You could see the sadness on his face . DAN , you’re doing a great job with your Dad . God will reward you and Danielle . God Bless .
@user-ls1yu7cz2d5 ай бұрын
Yes God will bless you and Daniele for all the love and care you give your dad! I love your whole family. I took care of my mom for 9 years. She had short term memory loss, so I know how frustrating it can be sometimes. I did like you. I would just tell her things over and over lovingly. You are so awesome and patient with him. My mom went home at 90. She would hear the singing from heaven about 5 months before she passed. The angels were singing “When the Roll is Called up Yonder, I’ll be There”. Of course I couldn’t hear them! She even told me Jesus came to see her one day when I came home from work. She even described what He looked like! God took care of her until I could get home. I had to work! I love you all. Keep up the good work! 3:51
@jr-nh2hn6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your Dad , and the horrible disease of Dementia and what you all are dealing with . It helps many people to learn how to deal with others with the disease and the patience needed and how to redirect to help them. I love your Dad . Blessings to you all 🙏❤️
@janiscalaba49327 ай бұрын
This brings back so many memories of my mother. Bless his heart. You do a great job as a his caregiver. As caregiving children for our parents. We learn so much. #1 Patience! You will never regret all you have done for your dad! God bless and Merry Christmas to you are your family! ✌️❤️🎄
@lisad.3497 ай бұрын
Dan, if it is at all possible for Ed to see his sister, please make that happen. If there’s even a remote possibility that he can remember or retain the happiness that he gets from seeing his sister you want him to have that before it’s too late the days are not promised to us. All the best to you and your family.
@kimstewart357 ай бұрын
He saw her last year. He does not remember it. If he saw her now and she left he wouldn’t remember it an hour or two later. She is about 82. Ed doesn’t travel anymore.
@loveshell69457 ай бұрын
And possibly record it so he can watch it on tv when he asks about her. He can see that she’s well and remember that he just saw her, in a sense. ❤
@nadinewolfe4057 ай бұрын
You could face time❤ 5:09
@kimstewart357 ай бұрын
@@nadinewolfe405 really, the man has been dead for over 15 years 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@marieross7 ай бұрын
@@kimstewart35 all these comments are about Ed’s sister. Read before writing a sarky comment.
@elizabethwright37767 ай бұрын
Aww it is heartbreaking... my dad went through his book and tried calling people in England that had passed many years before. Bless you xo
@dsalnorcal14347 ай бұрын
So sad
@alwayslernin44007 ай бұрын
@@dsalnorcal1434I'm really feeling for you. There is nothing sadder in this life than seeing the tears welling up in your parents eyes.
@Dasha171775 ай бұрын
These videos are truly amazing, I really appreciate you allowing us to be a part of your life with your amazing Dad. He is very lucky to have you.
@monipelaez72267 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing Dan. Your Dad and you are helping a bunch of us in different ways. Thanks again
@saraho95687 ай бұрын
I love that he was proud to be 91. Made him smile after a sad convo.
@1gcoe6047 ай бұрын
Ooh dear ...this is sad💔 Grandpa even teared... 😢 Bless you Dan for being so patient ... glad he lit up at the end❤
@-J-S-P6 ай бұрын
You go through dad’s pain with him every day.Your compassion is to be commended l know how much you all love him thanks for this update ❤❤
@twerpy198 сағат бұрын
Dan you are so patient with your father I just love him!!! You're such a good son!
@YolaineBFortune7 ай бұрын
The way he says "thank you" just melts ones heart. Grandpa's a gem I love him...🌟🌹❤
@elizabethgarvey6937 ай бұрын
Coco knows that Ed is struggling and is trying to stay close to him.
@oilnurturelady23472 ай бұрын
Its sooo beautiful that your Dad clearly loves & cares deeply...Wow! Since there are no filters, you get to see his truest self! What a gift!💕
@kirstieoconnor10546 ай бұрын
Wow, the love, patience and care you give is amazing!
@casperdelo77777 ай бұрын
Your love and patience going over things over n over every time is admirable sir
@gabba54237 ай бұрын
He never forgets the year he was born.
@jojozep78207 ай бұрын
I adore your Dad, his smile is everything. I take my hat off to you. It’s a huge undertaking to care for him and having to repeat heartbreak over and over again must take its toll. Your Dad raised a true and wonderful man.
@msdawn57207 ай бұрын
He’s so dear. I love how you ride him through these memory lapses and bring him back to real time and land him safely home Dan. It’s must be so heartbreaking for you both but what you do is really beautiful.
@janac28817 ай бұрын
God bless you, Dan. Sweet Coco so comforting 😢. Hugs Jana - Texas
@onthecasejeannie7 ай бұрын
His smile when he realizes that he's almost 92 is EVERYTHING !
@sarat35557 ай бұрын
“Pretty good 😏”
@suenichols61367 ай бұрын
Thank you for loving and being so kind to your dad ❤
@botanicG7 ай бұрын
We love you both very deeply thank you for taking time to teach us all.
@ADVENTURESOFBZ7 ай бұрын
You're an all-star Mr Dan!!! Mr Ed is lucky to have you and you are lucky to have him. That's tough
@grandlaphi7 ай бұрын
I love that you ALWAYS tell him he was there! As many times as it takes ! Been following you all a long time. It seems like this hard conversation gets harder as time goes along!
@krissypissygrandma7 ай бұрын
I just want to hug him every single time I watch these videos. What a wonderful man. He reminds me of my Dad. You're a good Son, Dan. I love your patience!
@beverlypearson53327 ай бұрын
God bless him, and the whole family. You’re all doing a great job with Ed.