Dad is very upset and angry he can’t find his motor home 😡

Dad used to travel all over the country in a motor home. He hasn’t mentioned it in years and then out of the blue this happened. It’s a tough conversation but you see him calm down by the end.

[@patpeters6331]

This explains why Ed is always looking for his keys and wanting to drive. He obviously loved driving and drove all across the country visiting family and friends. It's a bitter pill to swallow when you can no longer do the things you love. 🚘 Damn Dementia.

[@dsalnorcal1434]

💯🥺

[@TeresaWatkins-tn3ru]

Aww, he makes me sad😢😢😢😢

[@missykae]

I agree this would be so hard for everyone to swallow.

[@missykae]

Love his sweatshirt!! I understand how hard this would be, I love my motorhome and dread the day I must sell mine. Thank you for talking him through this.

[@eileenhaslof1696]

😢 You've got that right!!! 💯😢

[@habibawest9253]

I love how he ALWAYS remember his birth year and says it with pride.

[@lhale9176]

My dad used to do the same...plus TIME born..so sweet. Omg miss him sooo much❤ they so lucky hes still around😢 ❤❤❤❤❤

[@laurel7704]

Everyone remembers his birth year, lol.

[@susanmorling9699]

Dementia is cruel and he is still trying to rationalise it bless him ❤

[@Matty12787]

Mate, your a rare breed. Non of this new generation would give a shit other then a few visits a month to a nursing home. Very few people will reverse the roll our parents did for us and return the favour and that's keeping them out of an abusive Nursing Home and at home where they belong! ❤

[@user-gz5yk4me8j]

Very much agreed...

[@user-ye3sx8ev4e]

Yep…😔

[@Insectoid_]

That’s not true. There are still plenty of good people out there. I’d look after my mum if she ever lives to this age. My gran is 96 and she’s well looked after. I’ll make sure my mum is too :)

[@Gracewins1974]

So very true. I worked in one of the best nursing homes. A bit of advice to anyone putting their loved one in a nursing home. No matter how nice or expensive a nursing home is, most of the CNAs may seem nice, but when you aren’t there, they are playing on their cell phones, not answering call lights, letting residents sit in wet pants, so another aide spots it and cleans them up. I was an activity aide and would have to get on them and I would get eye rolls, etc. these young girls have no drive and most of them were working as a CNA while going for their RN degree. It was so sad. My advice would be to visit everyday!!

[@Whoever68]

I think your statement is only partly true. Not everyone has the ability to take care of their aging parents due to finances or not having close relationships with their parents. I was fortunate to be able to look after my mother with three children under five. Easy? Absolutely not but I had the support of a wonderful partner. Things got done when they got done and if they didn’t get done then they’d get done eventually. Despite how difficult it was I would do it again in a heartbeat to have her back. Financially I lost a lot because I was not able to work (I was in my thirties at the time) but I was lucky to not have a mortgage or other debts at the time.

[@hildyr1052]

One thing he never forgets is the year he was born, God bless him

[@cherryclift6914]

I could cry.. what a sweetie Ed is. He loved that motor home.

[@rebeccabailey7995]

If this is as upset as Pop's gets, y'all are fortunate. He's so diplomatic and sensitive to other's feelings. ❤Becky n MS ❤

[@evelynschmidt7194]

This makes me cry…it’s so sad…such a highly intelligent man not knowing where he is and what he’s doing 😢 Thank goodness you are taking care of grandpa Ed, Dan and family. God bless you all and thank you 🥰

[@susiewoodard6863]

Make me want to cry too☹️

[@catherinejohnstone5397]

​@@susiewoodard6863Could be us one day. Thus situation it not respectful of persons unfortunately.

[@nancyadamson286]

Hahaha. You are being optimistic. I was a good mother, supported both kids in sports, music, organized endeavours. Had love and laughter in our home. Their both live in the same city as I, I see them three times a year: Christmas, their birthdays,...

[@evelynschmidt7194]

@@nancyadamson286 there must be something wrong with your family!!! My children both live far away but we see each other regularly. My son drove over 300 kilometres so that I could be with my youngest grandson on his first day at high school. My son bought me my apartment so that I have no rent to pay. Every day a few times daily my children give me a call. I couldn’t imagine it being any other way …this is love, life and happiness. I am sorry to say this but as I mentioned before…we all get what we deserve…

[@trudyramgren8817]

Me too!!! One must have alot of empathy for people with dementia. Knowing that they are no longer who they were is crushing. Love you Ed ❤

[@liddyvasquez7919]

This saddens me because, the spirit is still young. 😢

[@kb-vw9ix]

My Dad wasn’t as nice about not being able to drive anymore…. It was so difficult, one time he tried to hire someone to drive his car and him from NH to SC… lol…. He always thought we had forced him out of his home to live with me🫤 The hardest thing for me was going from being his favorite to being considered his jailer, while I cooked and cleaned and took care of him til his death… I missed the guy I loved before his mental/physical health declined…. He missed his life too😢

[@john-brady]

Poor Dad. He wakes up in another land, in another time and another realm but God knows he’ got spunk and spirit. As a much younger old geezer I find him to be an inspiration. He’s got that spark of life !

[@user-kh6oq9oe6t]

I know, it has got be incredibly hard to constantly wake up in a different era and place! Wow, that would be tough! Thank God for Dan, the best son ever! He helps to let his Dad know everything is OK despite the confusion.

[@darla218]

When he said he appreciates the concern of his age and driving… the fact that he could reconcile this in his mind is impressive. ❤

[@joanquattrocchi8023]

' in the meantime I don't have a motorhome '. It sucks but that line made me chuckle

[@debrabradley7227]

Longterm memory loss is not great but short-term memory loss is so awful 😢😢❤

[@judychristian5499]

So hard when they are so sure they know the facts.

[@teresaclark2179]

It is frustrating to the patients with Dementia, when they can no longer do what they did in years past. Tonight my father asked his nurse if I had left with my father. I was sitting behind him the entire time.

[@Klwjjj]

😢😢😢 it’s sad to watch such an intelligent man forget the smallest things. But you and your family take wonderful care of him. Thank you for showing the world both sides of memory loss - god bless you and your family. Big hugs to your dad.

[@BelindaShanle]

Grandpas always ready to go. He obviously loved traveling around. Its sad seeing him miss the life he thinks he can still live. Dan you all do such a great job talking him through these moments.

[@karimazzarelli5258]

I love Ed so much without even meeting him once. He touches my heart every time I watch him.

[@ellaphant7510]

"You take me anywhere I need to go? I need to go get my darn motor home!"

[@triplebbb291]

The patience you display is so impressive and inspiring, Dan!

[@SilverToes756]

I'm hoping the patience continues when off camera

[@pattyespinoza1217]

@@SilverToes756why wouldn’t it??

[@seriouslyreal2693]

@@SilverToes756that is what I have been saying

[@seriouslyreal2693]

@@pattyespinoza1217people act differently when being recorded that’s why!!!!!

[@StarryGirl10]

It’s his Dad! His Father!! Of course, any respectful, loving child would be patient with their Parent!!!! What is so surprising? Geez

[@raoulduke2625]

Thank you guys for these . My wife is going through this right now with her mother (early onset dementia) and it shows her she’s not alone . Love you guys

[@lisalauridson7982]

I too went though this with my husband at age 58 hmm I looked after him of course it is hard as are APPT was small and when get to the store I took him it was hard, now my mom has this at age 87yrs and now I live with her hmmm 4yrs ago I lost him of the and yeah God Bless your wife tell her she needs time for her self because U don't caregivers burn out so please tell your wife too take care of her and it is not selfish it's wise to do so!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nneeTT30]

Unexpectedly I'm in the early stages of taking care of my mother. I was so depressed until I began watching these videos. My stress levels are low, I'm calmer. God bless everyone for sharing and even though I don't know you guys. This is my little support community. Blessings

[@lisalauridson7982]

@nneeTT30 If I can help U just ask us we are all together in this hard,hard Disease so please 🙏 ask us we may not have all the Answers we can support each other ! God Bless us all !

[@remi7932]

And I love your name, Raoul! :-)

[@lorisheheen2198]

This is the hard part. Boy brings me right back like it was yesterday with my father. It's been almost 4 year's now since he passed. I stand right in your shoe's watching this Dan. My father did the same thing. I can't imagine how My Dad felt or your Dad feels. With Dementia my Dad forgot thing's but he still had feelings. I pray every single day for a cure. God Bless Grandpa Ed.🙏❤

[@janerosdeutscher790]

My Mom had dementia and she lived to 90, at the beginning she would drive and get lost. My brothers and I would go out looking for her so scary. After 3 times of doing that, she ( we) sold the car. I also pray for a cure I think scientist are getting close.

[@bridgetgilbow]

Me also I misses my dad so much it will be 7 years 😢

[@lorisheheen2198]

@@janerosdeutscher790 🙏❤️

[@lorisheheen2198]

@@bridgetgilbow🙏❤️

[@GodsSon7770]

I lost my grandpa because of dementia, he took his cows out to feed in the sierra like normal every day, but one day he got lost, and it got dark, and he fell off a cliff, and they found him hanging upside down, and his head was decapitated and picked clean by scavengers, only the skull remained and his body was stuck up in tree branches😢😢 I never got a chance to hug him or talk to him.... I guess my dad never wanted me to meet him, maybe he was embarrassed of me😢

[@mcc9040]

Losing the luxury of driving is something everyone will struggle with one day, God willing. Much love to you all ~ 🚗🇺🇲

[@glisaswoke7151]

Hearing your Dad say, "Pardon Me?" while wearing the shirt that says "Pardon Me?"......Priceless!

[@Bobthebuilder.69]

Dr. Ed may have trouble remembering things but he's a go getter. He's also a blessing to watch. I pray for him daily.

[@stevedemoe1359]

Looking for his motor home now. Good god. Bless your heart Ed 😞

[@queenbandy3669]

WOW!!! He remembers his motor home🥰 That’s right Grandpa keep fighting Dementia 🙏🏽❤️

[@mymotherwasright3079]

Dan it was cute when your Dad said, "Pardon Me" with the Pardon Me shirt on. Your patience Dan is a virtue.

[@alglen9208]

Ed still has that alpha spirit. The old wolf wants to roam! Can't blame him at all. Dan & Danielle he sure wouldn't be doing this well in a nursing home that's for sure. I know it's not easy but everyone would be lucky to have family like you. ❤

[@audreyguilbeaucalhoun5713]

Awwww… he said he wasn’t going to argue/ I appreciated you telling me/ I feel like I can do it! What a sweet heart, I can’t help but love him ❤

[@rebeccaproulx6767]

When was your dad diagnosed with dementia? I am a nurse and have worked with dementia patients whose children had nothing to do with them-it always broke my heart when they would ask for a child! You are the best son-thank you and bless you!!❣️

[@rwmccollum]

He hasn’t been officially diagnosed but he began to show signs when he was 80.

[@michellebehr7669]

Grandpa Ed was accepting what his son Dan said. This was precious and heartbreaking.

[@daydreamer1560]

So patient. If in a nursing home , they would just probably close the door to his room and give him quiet time meds. ❤God bless you!

[@vickiefinney6073]

My Father at almost 83, just got diagnosed with dementia. Watching these videos had helped me so much

[@PastorIhaza]

Really Nice Dan... You validated his emotions for his motor home, at the same time, expressing it's no longer possible. 🏆👍🏾

[@leesashriber5097]

He really misses driving. Bless his heart. It's hard to become totally codependent when you've been independent for so long. It's a difficult task to overcome. Losing my lower leg in December has been a totally new world for me. I'm so glad Grandpa Ed has you and Danielle. ❤️🙏❤️

[@lou3065]

Ed might enjoy looking at pictures from some of his travels in that motor home. It shows how much he enjoyed it. Such a gracious man!

[@user-zz1ty4ie2x]

That's a great idea. I sure wish they would share more of the activities they do together.

[@katherinemitchell9003]

I can imagine it’s so scary for him. He realizes every time they say 91 that he just “might” be 91! He throws 1932 out there to double check!!! I so appreciate Dan and Danielle sharing him with us. Grandpa is a true joy!

[@Jessica-ml6td]

A lot of people would not have the patience and be quick to lose their temper. You and Danielle have patience and always treat Ed with courtesy and respect❤

[@morsecode4036]

He had cool stuff, he took care of his cool stuff, he did cool stuff. Cool man who thoroughly loved his life. Thank God he created a cool family who cares deeply for him. ❤

[@monicadouglas954]

Then he had to go and live with Dan and the woman ,,don't know her name??

[@chadchiappetta4440]

Man when you showed him his room and you read the back of his shirt that is pure gold you have to laugh my grandfather & grandmother both suffered from this disease it’s a cruel one for sure

[@SisKrys]

I love when they remind him of his age, and he replies, "I was born in 1932." Bless his heart!😊

[@MelB868]

If he knows the year he was born he should know his age

[@kristinamilner6654]

Makes him feel younger

[@cremebrulee4759]

At least he finally thought it through for himself and understood, at least briefly.

[@natalieedwards_0415]

I hate the disease 😢. The frustration is so real. Great job Dan. Keep up the good work. The Love you have for your father is absolutely AMAZING ❤

[@dsalnorcal1434]

Thank you

[@user-kt7rx2em7o]

So sad... dementia sucks!!!😢

[@monicadouglas954]

Ed always wants to run away and get away ,maybe not happy?

[@natalieedwards_0415]

@@monicadouglas954 why do you think he's not happy? He's in the best place until further notice. He's a very happy person. I took care of dementia patients for 40+ years I think he's fine ❤️ Be Blessed 🙏🏽

[@monicadouglas954]

@@natalieedwards_0415 I cared for my parents for 12 years ,no camera needed

[@ritakidney2970]

I love how you acknowledge everything he says to you. So important. Doing it countless times is above & beyond. You are a wonderful son.

[@delightfuldesignsbydenise9710]

Kiss my Grits, Dan…I’m NOT 91!!😅 I would NEVER sell my Motorhome! Let’s get Pop a Scooter. TFS, U Bless us ALL!🥰

[@janetewing8910]

Bless him and you all for your patience.

[@brenekins314]

Number one thing a care giver needs is patience to constantly have to repeat things- I know what you are going through as my husband and I cared for his parents both had dementia (Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia). You all will have no regrets when your dad passes as you did your best for him! 🇨🇦

[@stevenrogers8939]

What a great man ED is and his greatness was passed into his children

[@tinabeaver]

You have the patience and compassion of an angel. I'm sending you comfort, patience, and humor.

[@doivs1979]

Awww 🥰 when Dad was reassured regarding him not driving due to his age touched my heart. Dan you are doing an amazing job with your father, keep inspiring and touching lives with your content.

[@lakitaperkins8669]

Dan thanks for being so kind and patient with Grandpa! I enjoy watching these videos daily. Grandpa is a kind man no matter what he is well mannered. These videos add joy to my life watching your family laugh and interact with him daily. Thank you I can only imagine how happy Grandpa was when he was doing his traveling in his motor home.😊

[@lindastjohn5007]

Grandpa is precious. He is really blessed to have Dan and Danielle.

[@h2osflow618]

He’s lucky to have a great family to take care of him!! ❤

[@singergirlly]

Yes, you’re right because from what I’ve seen most people don’t take care of their parents like this. It’s sad but true.

[@dorothywright2743]

❤

[@godisgreatadeola9323]

He is reaping what he sow.. He care and love his kids and family so they giving him back.. am proud of his children especially Daniel.

[@Cherish..2]

When he reasons it out he's so good about it ❤

[@squidman9401]

You handled that absolutely perfectly wow your a good son best wishes from UK ❤

[@JointDecisions]

My granny had dementia, it’s almost been 10 years since she passed. She would travel the world in her prime - your videos remind me of her and make me wish I had more time to spend with her now I’m older. Keep doing what you do

[@cheukyanna7987]

“Am not that old” - love it!

[@ReneeLowery-yc1nu]

I can’t find my motor home either pops. He is so precious ❤❤❤❤

[@kathyarcher5350]

Dan, you have such patience with your dad! What an incredible life your dad lived. He remembers it too! Sad, but so wonderful he has his family. ❤

[@user-om5ju6ud7g]

I love how much you and Danielle care for your dad. Please make sure you care for yourselves, too. It’s so very important ❤

[@pynklion]

I was waiting on "I don't know what the h*** is going on around here 🙆‍♂️"😠 It wonderful to have such a loving family to take care of Ed and remind him who he is everyday.❤❤❤

[@bababaker2657]

Bless his heart. He always remembers Danielle

[@denzelkhonje3327]

Now this makes sense, what a man.. He went to all the states, a traveller, a man full of life ❤

[@user-zz1ty4ie2x]

I'm so glad Grandpa has you to walk him through these conversations. It's so important to do the best you can to keep a loving and warm tone and you did a great job here and also sympathizing with him/validating his feelings. He really needs that and not just constant direction... Thank you for what you do. ❤❤❤

[@sixteezchild]

Bless his heart! I know it is so tough to watch this happen, especially someone who has always been so responsible and capable and honorable. That's how I felt about my mom. She had always been a nurse and nuring instructor and she raised me by herself. It was so very hard to watch her decline. Hugs to you all! Your family's love for your dad is so awesome to see. I pray that others learn from you how to be a caregiver! You guys are so great!

[@snickerspayne4929]

Your patience is the gold standard in caring for your dad. I wonder if you dream these conversations with your dad over and over again. May God bless you and your precious family. Thanks for teaching me how to care for my elderly parents. A million thanks is not enough.

[@joycoughlan1262]

Aww "I still feel like I can do it!"

[@larrynelson3329]

Ed is in the best hands with Dan and Danielle. He's a lucky man to have a son that cares for him.

[@dankerns171]

Ed is a genuine good human. And Ed would say "You could be right" hang in their Dan ur a great son

[@kef103]

Don’t get him worked up . Just Give the guy a hug .

[@christinaball7742]

I just love Grandpa and how much patience you have with him! Love you guys!❤️🙏🏽

[@glendareid2470]

Don't worry, Grandpa, you're in good hands ❤❤❤

[@mbakrinjaniofficial3737]

My eyes wet watching this video, Viva Den for your patience to your Dad Dr Ed

[@hendrickadalm3294]

You could ask him to tell you the favourite places he's been or where he would go now if he could. It helps to relive happy memories. 20 yrs in dementia care❤

[@Joyfully8888]

Grandpa is in good hands with You and Danielle. Dementia is a horrible disease!! Dan you a loving wonderful son and you certainly have my respect! You’re an awesome man. God Bless You ♥️!

[@KarenEbbs]

Dan you do a great job with your Dad.. you always calm him down and redirect his thoughts.. Dan you and Danielle are great caretakers for Ed.. Dan you can see why he wants his keys so much he loved to travel... Ed trusts you Dan... Dan you do a great job with your Dad... Ed always stays humble, and loves his family... Hope y'all have a great day!!

[@seemakhan5885]

First time he is questioning about his motor home, he always asks about his car and house, but still he acknowledges his age related lagging of memory and skills, he is really a gem of a person❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

[@user-jz3ui9fl8l]

Amazing family! Alzheimer disease’s is hard. But the way how you deal with your dad is wonderful. And he seems to be a great father. Such a cute soul! Respect! Blessings from Europe.. ❤

[@SuperJacklyn7]

Dan your patience with your Dad is incredible. Really calmed him down. He makes me feel really sad that he remembers the things he loves and enjoys doing, but he cant do. 😢

[@rainelady]

Dan you are so patient with your dad. You will continue explaining to him about his car, car keys and now possibly the motor home! You’re a lovely warm family. Your dad is so lucky to have all his children who care so much for him and his grandchildren. I don’t know where you got so much patience from but you do a truly fantastic job of explaining and repeating your explanations without showing any irritation at all. Danielle is so kind and patient as well.

[@CATNAPREAL1188]

Dan got it from his DAD ! Even with dementia he remains, respectful, kind, loving and Dan walks him through it all. Go Dan.

[@shannonchavez3420]

You make it hard for him to be mad at you when u r so nice to him. U do a really good job of handling him Dan!❤

[@unounv]

Haha 😂 Ed is so board! He’s ready for another adventure! Love You guys!

[@geriannhorton1256]

The extreme level of patience this conversation required!! Dan, I hope I can be like you if my husband gets memory loss/ dementia! His Dad and my Dad both died with dementia. It isn’t easy to watch this exchange,let alone to think about being in your shoes! May God bless your home and heart with peace and may you and your Dad have more good days than bad days! Thank you for being a wonderful example of a caregiver! You and your Dad are blessed to have each other!

[@trudyramgren8817]

Ed is so endearing and lovable. I often wonder what is inside his mind. Dan, you do a good job of patiently explaining his condition. God bless you all!!! Love you Ed!❤

[@tylernelson1993]

You can tell he gets frustrated and knows he needs to sit down. You can tell he doesn't like confrontation.. I'd love to see photos of his traveling and see a video of him looking at those photos too.

[@karenk3458]

Grandpa says he could still Do it! ❤❤❤😊 I ❤it!

[@debbyschweighardt5810]

Dan, you have so much patience! It's so hard to have to keep answering the same questions over and over again. Clearly you love your Dad. I so wish that we had a cure for dementia.

[@micielago]

Dude Dan! you're an amazing person to be able to cope and take really good care of your dad the way you do. You're his angel, he's truly blessed!

[@dundundun5866]

Thank you! My mother has had Alzheimer’s for about 8 years. I miss her so much.

[@thisdollslifejenna3841]

Poor G'pa. 😢 I'm sure this is hard on you too, Dan. Hang in there, Y'all are doing a great job with him! 🙏🙂

[@user-oh4vi7tv4f]

Bless his heart its hard to except when the older u get the less u have and the less u need.

[@jadelove-yw2mw]

Gosh dang it Dan, he loves you so much and you calm him down so well!! I love this! ❤️

[@sherriew36]

Ed remembers the year he was born like clockwork. He said he appreciates your concern for him not driving due to his age. Even though he's disappointed, He's such a sweetheart💖💖🥰🥰

[@CLAttorney]

Poor Pops. He needs his keys, checkbook, and now the motorhome.

[@patchesblack7490]

Bless you Dan. Your dad is so lucky to have you guys. You really are all great people. Grandpa is the sweetest and deserves all the love that you all give him 🙏💗

[@mattbrown9841]

Dan, the patience you display is incredible. What can you do, his mind gets fixated on a certain thing, and he just won't let it go.

[@larettacoulter2547]

A big old hug for Ed

[@abmelvic5066]

Whats not to like about Ed. Even with dementia, he is still checking his own life.