Dad's Epic Freakout: Bringing an African Girl Home!

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[@lemonaid13]

She's too beautiful for this. If you're going to be with her, then you must be able to brave the storm. If you're not ready, then leave her alone.

[@cecib2055]

I agree

[@howietang1878]

@@cecib2055 It's just a show, don't be too serious. This girl is just a hired actress.

[@cecib2055]

@@howietang1878 I can BE whatever way I like. Thank you very much.

[@nataliesparks4829]

Point of correction, if you are going to be with her. DON'T LIVE IN CHINA!. Boy move to Africa and marry your wife and have your kids; they'll treat you like a king oga. Fortunately and unfortunately for Africa. It has been colonised. They see fairness and whiteness as superior. As an African girl I hate to admit it but people be bleaching their skin😭. Your children will enjoy in Africa because they are HALFCAST😂.☻☻. But if you live in China or Korea or Japan or Taiwan 🙆🏾‍♀️your children will suffer racism and bullying. If you come and live here in Nigeria 😁... showers of blessings and favouritism because of the colour of your skin unfortunately. A word is enough for the wise

[@KK-iy7mw]

​@howietang1878 You're stupid to think it's "just a show". Taking a child to bully her is awful.

[@user-fz1ck7ft2t]

He needs to show his father the video he took with Erica’s family and let him know how welcoming and nice they were to him.

[@HouseOod]

They are Rwandan in tanzania. When the agit prop begins to justify atrocities of Chinese, the videos won't mean anything.

[@jazzyjones6375]

If his father sees the videos of how the girls parents responded to his son I am not sure it would change the father’s mind much.

[@maryarnold3743]

His family should learn to be kind. As a black woman, I would never treat another human so unkind. So shocked to see this behavior.

[@batmanvsupermanyoutube925]

@@maryarnold3743 what does being black have to do with kindness? Erica is black and a tutsi. Her family is in tanzania out of hutu reach. Hutu are black too. Were they kinder to Erica than this Chinese elder?

[@umutoni3639]

@@batmanvsupermanyoutube925 but did you have to bring up tribe shit though

[@luckylatifah5205]

As a black girl, I can relate to Erika though thats so hard to go through. We black girls from African families are so welcoming to foreigners regardless of their culture or where they come from. Our patience and learning different cultures is part of us . But its so sad we struggle to get accepted in different cultures. She needs love and respect because we also do have cultures where we come from but if we can risk it all. we need to be felt loved as people with the same blood but not a thing to be scared of because soemeone will notice a black girl in an asian compound.

[@akamoshee]

not always,maybe 10% or more african they live with hate for no reason

[@tosinojo7310]

i would get disowned if i married a Chinese men..we are welcoming but its also hard for us to marry out in many cases

[@zikxiang9161]

this father is quite stupid， it's abnomal , insane and very impolite , I feel shame about this as a Chinese.

[@netgiant2592]

You see the majority of his friends and family have no problem with Erica. It is only his dad. That is a small percentage of haters. Im sure there are also a small percentage of Africans who would feel the same when she brought him home. But they are smarter about hiding their feelings.

[@divinepower5131]

Nobody really hates nobody, it's just when they have very different cultures they felt annoyed by their inconsiderate behaviors, it doesn't matter which country you are from, but they usually could generalize people with stereotypes.

[@immortalE8252]

It's like Zheng's father cares more about what the neighbors say about him then his own son happiness

[@JoeyBlogs007]

Yes the father does seem a bit selfish and childish.

[@TheLoveweaver]

That may be but his total and complete lack of manners is abominable!

[@danielwells774]

He's like an insecure little girl who only lives his life after other's opinions. Extremely ill-mannered on top of that. Embarrassing.

[@morningsminion3242]

I'm American. Three years ago, I started watching lots of Asian cinema. Shit like this happened frequently, but I kind of thought it was an exaggeration for dramatic purposes in movies. But shit, this is for real. Asian people, especially men, worry a great deal what others think of them, for all kinds of reasons including horrible ones like this blatant racism and lack of concern for his son's feelings as well as Erica's. But it is one thing to see it in a movie, and another to see it for real like this. My heart is aching for Erica. I have to say, I do not like it that Ziheng has now brought Erica to his home TWICE, and both times she has had to experience this hateful behavior directed right at her. Being white, I cannot imagine what this must be like for her, and it pisses me off that Ziheng has subjected her to this more than once, knowing it would be the same as the first time. Is he using her for good material for the videos? Kind of seems like it.

[@immortalE8252]

@@morningsminion3242 I completely agree with you, as a black person who has had racial words thrown at me it's not fun one bit, and if Ziheng know that his father doesn't like her one bit common sense to tell him his father doesn't one her there so why bring her not once but two time to his father's house like he love making her feel embarrassed

[@mcn6541]

Sometimes parents forget that other people have parents too. I’m speaking as a mother whose child married outside our race. I lost “friends” too but I embraced it because my child is the most important person to me. Friends and neighbors come and go but the happiness of my son is a priority. Having reservations or different opinions on this relationship can be discussed respectfully with your son without hurting the girl and making her feel pathetic. No one chooses which race or skin color to be born and nobody deserves to be harassed, insulted and dehumanized for something beyond their control. It’s okay to have a deep conversation with your son but if you believe that your family is that much better, then know that your behavior reflects nothing but ignorance. Her father showed more class when he met your son regardless of his full opinions, please treat his daughter with the same respect.

[@Michael-gp4it]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@vamswolfmom4498]

Totally agree with you👍🏽👍🏽

[@marysylvery5826]

Facts👌

[@DaughterofUbuntu1988]

Imagine how he treat his son like that he should welcome him fully be happy for seeing him after years m the call him privet talk to him now our girl thinks it's because of her 😂😂😂 papa is mad shish

[@daizhongwu]

你站着说话不腰疼，很多地方不是你想象的那样，虽然是现代化，但是还是有很多根深蒂固的思想和意愿，如果是我的家庭可以接受

[@raquelespino5088]

The father obviously cares more about the neighbors opinions than his son. I wouldn't care what people say the love for my son is more important, but then again I'm a mom not a dad. His mom is a lovely caring woman.❤

[@rochellofalla4946]

Sadly yes. Like many parents too. Sometimes father's pride is their family. But when neighbors talk at their back or insulted about family members, fathers really get upset. Zhiheng may explain it well soon when things cool down a little.

[@losthaitian]

IAM sorry for Erica been in this terrible situation. How can you bring her home again when you know the father doesn't like her color or her race? She is a human with feelings and not a experiment.

[@yewliegoh3896]

I think it's his father don't like Erica not the neighbours.

[@raquelespino5088]

@@yewliegoh3896 you may be right, and he's using the neighbors as an excuse. It's sad, but at least his mother is sweet.

[@paulhu9193]

Chinese people have tendency to live their lives based on their neighbors opinions, not the way they want to live.

[@QuanPham-uq7ml]

Don't worry too much about your dad. As an Asian man, i can understand how traditional parents can be. They worry too much about how they look and do not want to lose face. In the end, its your life. Love who you love. You guys make a great couple!

[@AfricanUSA-th9ov]

Run Erica 🏃🏽‍♀️ 🏃🏽‍♀️ Dont Ever Settle For Nonsense. You Are Beautiful 😍 You Deserve Better Treatment. You are Better Off With Your Life.

[@moco5360]

子恆的媽媽好溫暖.. 感動到快哭了...😭😭😭😭

[@yatinglee733]

子恆媽媽很賢惠，人美心也美

[@dolotiti9821]

Very true 👌❤️

[@nancyhuffman5802]

If I didn't bring my friends from another place to meet my family, I would get scolded! Erica is so lovely, and respectful.

[@Mllemama1]

This is very sad that the father is so close-minded. Erika is a beautiful and sweet girl, I hope that one day he will see that she is making his son happy.

[@joyoflife6041]

When Erica said: "I am sorry" saddens me! She did not do anything wrong! But on the bright side, I am glad that Ziheng finally got to see mom and dad in China after years of being away from home! Hope that Erica can recuperate from these bad experience soon! 当 Erica 说：“对不起”时，我感到很难过！ 她没有做错任何事! 但从好的方面来说，非常高兴子恒在离开多年后终于能回到中国见到爸爸妈妈了, 希望Erica 能够尽快从这些不好的经历中恢复过来!

[@paulhu9193]

We call this 'racial discrimination' in US. I feel embarrassed that as advance in technology and industry China is, some of the people are still living in the old culture..

[@michaelmarama-de4gx]

WRONG. She did so much wrong indirectly because she's black😂

[@HouseOod]

​@@paulhu9193this is the same usa where Chinese strangers are attacked on a weekly basis by black ppl.

[@mrvx1867]

@@michaelmarama-de4gx She's a goddess and she's doing him a favor to even consider him..in time you will see who The Most High people are!!!

[@michaelmarama-de4gx]

@@mrvx1867 I am one of the most high

[@ac888]

在4:55 看到Erica 恐懼又欲哭無淚的樣子😩真的是十分可憐，平時美麗活潑的神彩全消失了，真的是惹人憐愛，子恆你要好好安慰及補償這女孩啊 ❤❤❤

[@DaniloLopez-fn6jt]

😢😢

[@alexguan6469]

还要说对不起

[@SerahMoja999]

Am crying see erica i can feel see have affraid heart 😢😢😢😢😢😢 dont worry this my words erica verry good girl how erica talk everything just out of she mouth not have anything else think just naturale she talk am crying my eyes swollen, i verry like see erica thats i chooise chanel youtube ziheng my favourite because have erica both of them so sweet eachother

[@Alysaah]

I really wish we get to a world where people cant stop hating\judging people because of their skin color. People are passing up moments to meet new people or even learning about different culture..

[@SpeakTheTruthLouder]

Agreed.

[@dahyunssmile3972]

As an African who has a brother in china he spoke of how friendly y’all are and how homey and nice people treat him seeing the matured and nice comments from some of the Chinese makes my heart beam with joy.

[@janetdundul3858]

👏🙏🇹🇿 KARIBU TANZANIA

[@user-wn5tq1ue9p]

都是剧本，不要认为是真的

[@swwong2365]

​@@janetdundul38582:15 2:33

[@engni]

Is all about bringing up traditional values and most Chinese in the Mainland still prefer the same colour to be son or daughter in law but in Singapore...it does not matter so much

[@mcn6541]

Erica’s father and family showed more class and respect to Ziheng when she took him home. They treated both of them as adults and had intelligent conversation. In African culture how you treat and receive strangers and visitors into your home says a lot about your character. You never walk away from your guests, speak badly about them in their presence. Your character and standing in the community will fall. Also, I would never humiliate my son in front of his friends. As a mother, that would make me sad. Deep thoughts and feelings can be discussed later with your son in private. Of course your son shouldn’t record and publish humiliating experiences that are hurtful to her and family as well. How will Erica’s family react and feel if they see these videos after he promised to take care of her in China?

[@swwong2365]

1:39

[@ephraimevangelisha5798]

You are very correct, although zehengs father is an elderly man but he lack manner big time

[@sunman1509]

black people don't hate , black people accept all races of people in the family, it's the racism and the weak mindset of white supremacy that they are following, its brainwashed 😮.

[@Mjfa9923]

African/black families will accept other races alot quickly than other races accept African/blacks. That is really putting down Africa/blacks as lower than the others. African/ blacks try too hard to get accepted.SMH😦

[@suzzanne222]

I think ziheng also wants the views to go high. Controversial videos and headings brings traffic to a video hence more money.

[@Miball520]

艾瑞卡很貼心很溫柔，希望爸爸可以接納她

[@user-vk8zr6gl4g]

艾瑞卡超级可爱，很讨人喜欢，我看您非州的视频中，她收拾行李非常完美，也会做菜。小伙子，如果您真心的一心一意地对待和艾瑞卡之间的爱情，我们中国人大都喜欢看到有好的爱情结果！邻居也会停住嘴，邻居的说三道四会自然消失，反而支持您！主要是取决于您自己，加油！因为您的视频中出现了艾瑞卡，让我们一直坚持热切关注艾瑞卡和您之间的发展关系。祝福您们哦！（您的爸爸的心情，能理解！）

[@user-bm8xz7hk1p]

我也是天津人，我在加拿大认识很多老乡其实天津人最不够揍啦（自大看不起人吹牛大男子主义……）主播完全是跟非洲小五学的，相比之下我最喜欢小五的视频，木头头、马提亚斯有意思😅

[@DavidLee-pw8qk]

沒辦法主要是現在還是有些父母的思想還比較保守😅

[@cindyheartful]

如果是白人肯定沒意見 問題是黑人😂

[@melloyello5390]

​@@cindyheartful Why?

[@cindyheartful]

@@melloyello5390 以前歷史遺留下來的問題及種族歧視 白人=經濟發達國家 黑人= 經濟落後國家

[@user-zy3um3ps4m]

來者是客，以禮相待即可!

[@minli9198]

爸爸可以下厨做饭给你们吃，而且大家同桌一起吃饭，说明他已经默认了Erica。现在只是好像在邻居朋友那里面子上过不去，没事的，我也感觉是演的强加的戏。不过子恒对爸爸说“一家人一起多好”，让我听出来他承认Erica是家庭一员了。子恒，虽然你从来没有承认跟Erica的关系，但我们观众特别希望你们在一起。加油子恒💪💪💪，喜欢Erica善良及对爸爸的理解❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹。

[@user-lg3hy1we7j]

可别！我可不同意他们在一起

[@loloshum8106]

子恒，你己是成年人己走出父母保護的舒適圈，奔向放飛自我的地方，但也要尊重父母體諒他們的良苦用心，你的言行很皧昧，你和艾瑞卡己同居生活數月，你其它房客妹也離開合租房，你的生活方式無人質評，既呈於人前就顯示你的决心，因生活不容易！但婚姻大事非皃戏，勿短視更要前瞻作父母能真為你自豪的天津爺們被人羨！祝平安！

[@Chen-mu3dy]

鄰居家的背後議論，你爸爸怎麼就這麼無腦？多少羨慕嫉妒恨？對你們甚至你爸個人的羨慕嫉妒恨呢？你爸的生活這麼大程度的依賴別人的言語和看法？艾瑞卡開始我也不太喜歡她，認為她太懶太虛榮。正所謂人不可貌相，看多了幾集後才發覺她真的十分的自然真實單純無心機的小女孩。外表甜美也耐看，越看越可愛，絕對非洲一流美女。原以為配不上子恆，現在覺得子恆要加油。子恆的語言表達能力還要加強。子恆的媽媽真要向她豎大拇指。子恆的爸太丟中國父親們的臉了。象子恆爸這樣，中國能算禮儀之幫？連待客的基本禮貌也沒有。太不如他老婆了。醜陋的中國老男人！

[@chloeschnitter6633]

@@user-lg3hy1we7j 为什么你不同意他们在一起？

[@yumamurakami8071]

都是戏😂说的天津跟农村一样 没见世面 没见过黑人一样😂什么年代了 都是戏，邻居才没那闲工夫搭理他们家 来了谁呢😂

[@ishubel]

I cannot say it enough. You are a beautiful couple. Handsome and beautiful. She is like a fashion model. Please love and protect each other. You are the future all mankind has been praying and working for. World unity, peace and harmony. Please take care of each other. God bless you both. God bless you. God bless you.

[@qinchao]

老兄弟咱俩岁数差不多，我也是天津人，你的儿子非常优秀，希望你尊重他的选择，爱情无国界。不要管外人胡说八道，因为你的孩子不是为别人而活。希望你的一家因为有了儿媳而开启新的生活。人生短暂。开心祝福下一代。支持他们。

[@meilimeili8052]

不需要怕別人怎么說，重點是要讓自己開心...別人什么話都能說，好話都不會說只會說壞話及謊話...Poor Erica...很喜歡母親很喜歡Erica 的態度，喜歡Erica 跟自己的女兒一樣!!!❤❤加油!!!❤❤

[@calvinnhutsve4413]

Your father needs to understand how we treat you in Africa. We love you as we love ourselves in Africa and we expect that same love when we we visit you. But i think its not his fault , its the society that speaks bad . I love your mother. And i pray that your father will understand that Blacks are people too.

[@ThanhVu-le7ec]

Haha, its not about the Black people. I think it is a cultural shock. Maybe this is Ziheng's dad first impression about his son's girlfriend in question.

[@distrustful.000]

All kinds of different Chinese also exists,not everyone the same, population too huge

[@123Bubbles1]

But they don’t treat him that well in Africa. People in Africa try to make Chinese people pay high prices for things and some times trouble him to make him pay. I think Chinese people are much friendlier to Africans.

[@DZ-bz1ww]

The overreaction from ziheng's dad makes me believe the story is made up.

[@tigerroar649]

@@DZ-bz1ww Ziheng is a brilliant guy, he knows how to manipulate the viewers, I believe this is another episode of the made-up.

[@mayobivon631]

可憐的Erica😅 被嚇壞了， 請子恒爸別生氣了，兒孫自有兒孫福，難得家人聚在一起，人生短短幾十年，一切隨緣，珍惜相聚的時光，別人講什麼隨他們去吧

[@user-cm4cr8rt3s]

他爸活着是为邻居而活，在意邻居说什么？

[@garfieldwong1426]

看過幾個中國人在非洲及非洲人在中國的頻道， 最喜歡你這裏， 生活化得來生動有趣， 内容多樣化。好不容易經營一個受歡迎受關注的頻道，正面形象建立了，帶著 Erica 拍攝取材話題會較多，內容會更有趣，然而這種工作方式未必是每個長輩都能理解，你已經做得很好很成功， 繼續努力！

[@daegoo88]

Ziheng, I will always support your channel because you are really a good person. You truly treat all people equally no matter their colors.

[@Michael-gp4it]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😻😻😻😻😻😻😻

[@moelai8489]

Avec le temps, ça va aller , tant que tu es heureux avec Érika, elle commence à parler chinois et est très respectueuse envers ta famille. Moi aussi je suis un chinois, j'ai connu ce problème mais j'ai résisté et je suis heureux avec mon épouse qui est noire et ça fait déjà 47 ans . Nos enfants sont très beaux.

[@annekasaka3100]

Wooooooow .........!!!!!!!!mes félicitations. L amour n a pas des couleurs. C est juste un sentiment. Ce sentiment lá est inexplicable. J ai vraiment pitié de la fille. J ai des larmes aux yeux pour elle.

[@akamoshee]

子恒搁这儿演戏呢，我不太相信他对这女孩是真心的

[@Kep1804]

​@akamoshee I feel the same way. I think he's using her for views...

[@pr2281]

@@akamosheeI agree. YOu can tell he is not. Glad someone said it.

[@annekasaka3100]

@@pr2281 that's true. He is user. You can see, since Erica left him, he is an unable to make video.

[@mikaeljordan1983]

As a father myself , I rather see my kids happy then worry about someone opinions .. I can care less , as long my kids are happy , I’m happy !!

[@user-jx4ll7qi9c]

世界人民一起，不分種族，不要分裂，人種都有好壞，只跟好人，遠離壞人

[@Mamamamalu]

當一位旁觀者很容易客觀看一件事最讓人佩服的是子恆媽媽不能去怪爸爸。顏色沒有對錯只要彼此情投意合就給予祝福兒孫自有兒孫福祝安康

[@boonteoh2346]

Yay, ice is broken, at least Ziheng stands firm, only the father is worried about the neighbours' talk. Slowly, the tide is turning and warmth is imminent!! Stay cool guys, Ziheng's mum is giving great morale support!!!❤❤❤💪💪

[@rogershieh3287]

爸爸為什麼只在意別人的說法，不在意兒子的想法。我快60歲了，反倒是覺得你老爸交的都是老古板的朋友，中國文化是勸和不勸離。人家女生又沒有做錯什麼事。媽媽很棒，

[@user-ri6lf4yp7l]

活在国内以不在意别人的说法吗？没有发生在自己身上是感受不到的。我相信百分之九十的父母都不想自己帅气的儿子找一个黑人，不管长的多漂亮。如果你有儿子你希望自己以后抱着一个黑呼呼的孙子吗。

[@user-dq1gp4qv4j]

你让他换个肤色试试。😂 歧视她黑人呗！ 如果是印度裔 估计也没那么重要 如果是俄罗斯乌克兰 估计开心死了😂。

[@user-lo9hx8hr7h]

确实是大实话 @@user-dq1gp4qv4j

[@user-ey6hb6cv1x]

风凉说话，人人会、针刺到别人，又不是你…谁管？谁痛？

[@sleo3720]

In the end result, the happiness of the son should be more important to his father than the approval of his neighbours, but this takes time to fully understand

[@valkb4568]

艾瑞卡好美好漂亮，儀態也很好很乖巧阿！這麼完美的媳婦要珍惜！真的很美呢！😊

[@shansyd7137]

You two are so well together and your mother is very kind and understanding.

[@chen-py7bs]

Erica進門前把鼻環去下來，是有禮貌的，另一方面也希望得到子恒爸爸的認可，這一點很棒！🤗子恒也高EQ跟爸爸溝通讚！故事怎發展...只願皆大歡喜！😺

[@ckd2629]

按照欧美媒体的尿性 这种涉及种族主义的 在视频推荐算法里应该是很优先的。看浏览和评论就知道了。但是这种东西很难把握，拍这类视频简直是在走钢丝，如果走过去可能是获得一堆掌声，没走过去就摔死了。。。

[@suzzanne222]

Ziheng should come clean on his intentions with erica. The dad is as confused as we are. Does ziheng sincerely want to marry erica or its just for making an interesting videos for views and more money???

[@cc-vj1nj]

不应该沟通时拍视频。他老爸觉得这不是沟通，心情会不好。

[@minervacubacub2072]

His Dad is wasted his time, bothering himself with what people say and he is more concerned with it. He has a a very liberal intelligent son, Ziheng is so admirable not to give in, but respect his father’s feeling towards this issue for now. I get emotional seeing Erica so sad even putting herself to be blamed, as the cause of the argument. Poor Ziheng, his plans to give Erica a great time in China ended with heartbreak. He is so hurt to see Erica in her pitiful state, trying his very best to make her change her mind. Erica in her own sensible character, knows she is doing the right thing Erica made the right decision to just leave them in peace and be a family for the remaining days of his holidaying, his Dad must be very delighted, he can be with son for a while

[@user-cs3bq6xg3o]

看戲的傻，看看就好，沒演沒流量

[@stevehoe5017]

女主人，善良而有礼貌的母亲像一个真正的中国人一样热情地欢迎和对待来自坦桑尼亚的艾丽卡。 父亲粗鲁、不友善、举止不符合中国人的方式； 不像一个人。 艾丽卡（Erica）是一位来自坦桑尼亚的美女。 欢迎来到中国！

[@user-mw4qn7yv6h]

You have kind thoughts and a good ❤ heart

[@thomaslu4071]

我兒子也剛結婚，他喜歡誰是他的人生。我非常支持。 願您父親能想通。 Awesome 👍

[@TheBlackManInTheVillage]

Loved the video. I am a black man married to a filipina and now have been living in the Philippines for 2 years now. Her family has made me feel very welcomed.

[@stevehoe5017]

Erica is a very beautiful, smart and sociable young lady from Tanzania, visiting and enjoying China; very lucky indeed! It is unfortunate that the father's old fashion and uncalled for inclination to disliking Erica were not representing the majority of Chinese people who are welcoming, complimenting Erica frequently in public. The Father's attitude need to changing like modern outreaching China. Erica is a beauty from Tanzania. In many ways she is like an ambassador representing the African Union Continent! I compliment the friendly courtesy of the mother who likes and treats Erica very well.

[@wjh3246]

说实话，要是真的喜欢艾瑞卡，就带他回坦桑尼亚好好奋斗，带给她更好的物质，好好生活吧。在中国阻力太大，这女孩，以及以后的孩子，他们面临的压力超出你的想象，在国内基本没有可能在一起。

[@dicksonhaul4895]

Which means China is a Racist?

[@hinong218]

Ziheng is a good guy. A Chinese with the value of Filial Piety. He has been well brought up by his parents. I like the way he handled his dad. Erica herself is a gem of a girl. Both of them are made for one another. It will turn out alright in the long run.

[@JaimeCarrillo-uu9jy]

I can't believe how beautiful and humble she is. That Chinese guy is so overly lucky and blessed

[@bahigani9875]

Your mother is a rare germ. Good mother ❤❤❤

[@judithkirenga9977]

Ziheng welcome back to Tanzania 🇹🇿 we will be happy to see your father and mother having the experience of Tanzania with kindness people and non will judge about other people life. I think even his mind Will change and not to care about what other people think of his beautiful family. The day of today for your son to bring a girl at home you have to thank God.

[@Spy-hp8ki]

The girl is a model for sure. She's so pretty.

[@da12641]

dam Ziheng, I thought you came from a very rich family. I'm honestly glad you're a common person like most of us around the world. Erica is gorgeous as always and she still have family values. It was nice of her to offer your mom help with washing the dish. Ziheng is "da man", he didn't blame his dad/mom. He didn't Erica. He blamed himself.

[@Livinginthedream898]

没事的子恒! 你们愛怎么演我们就怎样看. 皆大欢喜对不?

[@westpeters5174]

Your mother is really nice! She is really a wonderful mum. My warm greetings to her from madrid

[@collinsfufun]

哎呀！子恆真的也要好好照顧好艾瑞卡的情緒，看得艾瑞卡這樣很令人心疼的。

[@theresakirschner9297]

YOUR MOTHER IS SO KIND AND OPEN. SHE HAS A BEAUTIFUL SOUL.

[@jame4930]

Erica and Ziheng, you are not the problem. Hopefully open and honest communication with kindness will eventually change Ziheng’s Father’s feelings towards Erica or anyone that is not Chinese. Ziheng’s mom is very kind and received Erica well. The heart chooses love.

[@the-OSB-south-saintlucia-VRBO]

Look at how her parents treated him. Look at how his parents treated her. It's sad what beautiful black people go through all over the world

[@HouseOod]

Black killed and raped us first and is still doing it all over tye west.

[@dianewaddy1835]

She is so cute. He like her. Dad is crazy

[@rebornat6021]

Que vecinos ni vecinos,lo importante que sean felices ♥️♥️♥️

[@Mjfa9923]

Erick has traveled all over in China with Erica in these videos.Everyone seemed to smile at them or not pay alot of attention to them being Chinese & African together but the dad says that the neighbors are talking.🤔

[@annekasaka3100]

I'm so sorry for you Erika. I can feel your pain. Jis parents all the time figthing about you. I was in tears, when you say ,i want to go back in Tanzania. Be strong Erika. Quem ama sofre. I ❤ u.

[@bobby858]

She's such a sweetheart! It's unfortunate she has to feel guilty.

[@guanglin4714]

身为长辈，应该有涵养，明显的歧视，非常的不应该；这女孩多好，有礼貌教养，且聪明智慧。

[@SpeakTheTruthLouder]

赞成

[@victoriousvic23]

She’s so beautiful and a sweet girl how can dad not like her just because her skin color?

[@azmass]

We have to paint her a new

[@TheCherrytree123]

ERICA have good EQ. You can decide it is worth or not. You are intelligent beautiful and mature. You deserve the best.😇

[@raydiane1]

Erica is a beautiful sweet lady. She will make a good wife. Just give her a chance. Wishing both of you the best.

[@MrE_2023]

I'm American, I love seeing this. It is beautiful. Don't worry what people say, you be blessed. Stay strong and care for and love each other.

[@tad5624]

Son will make sure that the father accepts it. That's how Asian parents are. Girl you don't have to think too much about what his father thinks, everything is fair in love. You two should live up your life the way you want.

[@vamswolfmom4498]

Thank goodness for mom, she’s adorable and kindhearted. Dad needs to chill out and stop worrying about what neighbors think! He didn’t even confirm if it’s girlfriend ‘yet’ 😊! Dad’s ignorance could cost him not seeing his son, that’s crazy. One Love y’all!🙏🏽

[@Dearest_Kenyetta]

Yea, I hope while he has some time to think he'll have a change of heart. So much of what we do as humans is so selfish.... When you really think about it.

[@safeandeffectivelol]

Sometimes people need time to adjust and change. It's not easy for everybody

[@pourladentelle]

It’s just an excuse for him. He’s ashamed tht shes black!

[@haisonwu7292]

還是媽媽最懂事❤

[@vernaspassion4819]

I’m happy she returned home it made me really sad to see the way your dad treated her. 😢I hope in time to come your dad / parents become more open to the many changes not just in societies but in the World. We all belong to this universe 1 Race!! The Human Race

[@lucyfan5598]

女孩很懂事，很心疼她。

[@JET2691]

我最受不了的就是在乎鄰居誰如何如何....真想問句:為誰而活?你受難時鄰居會幫忙嗎?你發達時...鄰居真心祝福嗎? ( 為自己而活!家人開心最重要)!!!

[@xueshi473]

对 我觉得你说的非常有道理

[@cheesecakerice2358]

子恒脾氣真好，爸爸是要時間慢慢適應的。Erica真的不容易。

[@minli9198]

子恒有点像爸爸，有时脾气急躁些，但是心地很善良。

[@straw1berry11]

I'm hoping the english translation was wrong bc what do you mean by "Erica is not easy"?

[@Mizlena.]

Is so sad but I like how you’re comforting her.we Africans welcome people all over the world but is not same with us

[@HouseOod]

Chinese don't massacre and rape black people or bully them in school. The reverse cannot be said.

[@vjc267]

She is such a beautiful soul

[@MsMegmyster]

Zihang, you are managing a very difficult situation well. One can see your pain. Hang in there...❤

[@OguejiDavid-ey4cw]

Ziheng, pls dont fight your dad, time is the greatest healer, it happens everywhere, pls take care of erica, you are a good man and you are good to erica, I really love you two.❤❤❤❤

[@mariamabusela779]

A father who is concern about neighbours than the happiness of his son.

[@OguejiDavid-ey4cw]

@@mariamabusela779 what can I do, we should give him time to clear his mind

[@yelloworchid1840]

She's beautiful, be happy together 🥰

[@exsoba_ramen]

My heart is breaking for Erica and Ziheng. I hope they can both find happiness, love and acceptance.

[@reallyreal7630]

In Africa, if you treat someone's child angrily like Zi heng father treated Erica, your neighbors, family and friends will be displeased with you and call you hostile. In Africa, humanity first before social standing. You can't treat a guest like this. But here I can see China is very different. Social standing before humanity.

[@user-wo6fq7ti4b]

子恆長大有自已的想法，老爸顧好自已身體，年紀大了不要抽菸對身體不好，父子應好好溝通說明白就好了，加油！

[@swwong2365]

0:48

[@RayMak]

Dad cooks so well. Those crabs are super delicious!!!!

[@HouseOod]

He cooked the most expensive possible delicacy for someone he claims to reject?

[@42Laj]

​@@HouseOod He probably put something in her food. I would not trust him at all.

[@HouseOod]

@@42Laj he wouldn't. Chinese are scrupulous about no malice with food. Thats not the case with other asians or non asians but the chinese are not malicious when it comes to bio terrorism. But I dont trust most non chinese in nyc where the hate for chinese is strong. There r crazy reviews for a flushing Korean restaurant where the diners have found ... metal wire, a coin and a shard of glass. Somebody in the kitchen hates the owner. Chinese wouldn't try to hurt you with food. They went all out with the meal which was not shown so I have no idea what this video was about because he keeps inviting her but I didn't get the vibe that this was romantic interest.

[@kingjames846]

@@42Laj 😁 come on man

[@42Laj]

@@kingjames846 😆

[@lorny4u]

So glad your dad made up for his earlier stroppiness. Ericka is such a joy.

[@OguejiDavid-ey4cw]

Erica, we love you .❤❤❤❤❤❤iam sorry for whatever you are going through right now in china, 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@jasonong30]

It’s just a cultural shock to Eric’s dad. But I can most assure you when he gets to know Erica more he’ll warmth up to her. This is just a natural reaction from a conservative father.

[@etow8034]

It's not a cultural shock, but a disappointment of his son. Since China in his era still had a one child policy he doesn't have another option with another child especially a son !

[@memomgirl]

What does it mean to be conservative in China? Because it is very different from the United States? The father's behavior resembles racist ideology.

[@andrewy2662]

@@memomgirlI have to say yes, if his son brought back a white girl, the situation would be different.

[@etow8034]

@@memomgirl The US is a Wokeist hell hole ...that is why it is finished !

[@user-kk3ne4gh3b]

不是文化冲击，你要知道黑人在中国做过那些事情，这是刻在骨子里不可原谅的

[@tracy_1914]

It's hard for her too, just like it's hard for your dad to accept her... Wow you are brave person and respect for trying. I can see pain on her face, I when she said 'I'm sorry'. 😞... thanks for sharing your video.

[@42Laj]

😢.

[@okj1922]

You are the bravest man I have seen in recent times now. ❤

[@shunfengyu1531]

晚上好！👋子恒爸爸别生气，你别把孩子赶走了。如果子恒真的喜欢艾丽卡，这就是缘份，你再怎么不喜欢，也没办法，但子恒喜欢呀！你希望子恒跟喜欢的人开心生活在一起，还是要子恒一生过得不开心？别人怎么说别理他们，那是嘴巴长在人家身上，爱怎么讲就怎么讲，咱们又不偷不抢，光明正大的，还怕人家讲什么。难道你喜欢活在人家的话语下，眼光下吗？你别理其他人说什么，用什么眼光看你一家，重要的是子恒开心，幸福就好。你说是不是？

[@koyuki_mitsuki]

感覺年輕美麗的子恆媽媽就是怕萬一兒子從此不回來了，所以打從一開使始就接受美麗的Erica了。如果認真比起來Erica的家境應該比較好吧，Erica 的父親都還沒來子恆男方家看過呢，子恆爸別把ㄧ家未來的幸福因為無聊的鄰居給走沒路了😉

[@familieyang7613]

这是剧情的安排的故事还是真实发生的事情？好像爸爸是当真的了😂😂😂！

[@zhongguono1]

人家一家三口找小黑女一起拍電視劇你這麼認真😂

[@kaili1171]

1”重要的是子恒开心“不见得吧？ 你是他爸，你能受得了邻居天天背后指指点点，和有一天你牵着你的黑孙子走在路上别人看你的眼神嘛？ 2开心幸福 这种事实现的途径千万条，你换个普通女孩，子恒就不开心，不幸福了？ 3这种事不到自己身上自然轻松，劝别人大度，劝别人看开，劝别人接受，我也可以，但换到自己身上，啊？你滚，我死都不接受

[@wwl5982]

唔鍾意咪叫條老嘢自己过囉！又無得罪佢，帶個老毌一齊走，米撚理佢，因住死咗山都唔去拜。

[@observer8736]

You are a beautiful couple. Don't pay attention to father, and to neighbors. They are not going to feed you😂

[@lovelydeedlight1448]

You are a beautiful Queen there are so many who don't understand for they have no peace in their heart. Blessings to you young lady may God give you those who respect and see your shine.

[@biologiemoderne2925]

شاب لديه شخصية قوية .و الام ذكية تساعد ابنها و الاب يفكر بكلام الناس عليهم و كانه من مجتمع عربي !!!!!

[@cbarnett1135]

I'm cheering for you. It will be ok. Sometimes people just need a moment. Erica you are so sweet. Don't be sad.

[@hungchoowoo4610]

子恒希望你身体健康，幸福安康，事业会越来越好，人员也会越来越来越好。加油加油哦

[@King-xiao]

尊重子恒的选择 也希望好好和父母沟通

[@srjshapthnktl4978]

Adorable young lady

[@JinyuanPan]

（如果不是刻意演出來的） 你爸不是不喜歡Erica，反而很喜歡，他是在逼你爲你們兩個的關係給一個痛快的決定，都帶回家了，別沒説法，拖著別人，耽擱別人。這也是他的一個心結，怕你們家因爲你對不起Erica，做任何事都要有規矩，沒有規矩不成方圓。希望下一次在跟你爸聊，要帶著你們倆的關係去跟他聊，如果是普通朋友，那住家裏不好，如果是結婚對象，那你們好好準備準備。

[@zhongquancui6342]

是的啊

[@katjun286]

This was quite sad to watch seeing Erika so hurt. She needs to be stronger no need to go back just enjoy your time in China together. I would have chosen more conservative clothing a t-shirt and normal trousers. Your dad seems nice, he is really trying he just needs much more time, he got thrown out of his comfort zone. He worries about the nasty neighbors, but they will gossip behind his back no matter what, your parents can move if they surrounded by so much gossip problem solved. Your mom is so sweet.

[@Bellz972]

Thank you I was thinking about that too. Even in African culture it's very important to dress up modestly when meeting parents. She seems like a nice girl but people see the outside appearance first before anything else

[@paulcassidy4317]

非常好的非洲女生、祝福你們幸福快樂❤

[@swwong2365]

​@@Bellz9726:00

[@kikipink]

兒子喜歡就好.....老爸別氣...

[@simon671110]

現在已經是地球村了，中國是禮樂教化之邦，不應對其他國家或其他膚色的人有異樣之色，應該展開雙臂歡迎到來。現在世界科技發達，各國交流頻繁，應該要與各國多往來，宣揚我們是個仁義之邦，這才是實實在在的中國人，不要小鼻子小眼睛，甚至擔心鄰居異樣眼光。那是鄰居們沒本事找到相同膚色的人，所以不需跟他們一般見識。

[@Vicky-life]

子恒像爸爸 帥 子恒爸爸別生氣了～😂 如果子恒他們是真的… 能夠得到你的支持 我相信他們一定會特別特別開心的～

[@michaeltamares7974]

He is handsome only in china

[@Dolce_Piccante]

Even with that exotic skin Erica still look beautiful..she is pretty..chill erica dont go back to tanzania it just small matter

[@deebo8084]

He don't know how lucky he is. She so beautiful. From a beautiful land

[@davidquynguyen8853]

Beautiful couple !! All happiness & love