Its Not True! Emeka Ike"s PA Debola Emeka's Wife Emma Wasn't Being Honest.

[@hithere6168]

A woman who has given birth to 4 children will not quit a marriage, if it wasn't toxic.

[@SusoDaniel-bo5pf]

Dey play...

[@SusoDaniel-bo5pf]

I know someone that left 4 boys to her husband. To stay with a rich chief

[@preciousekuma7165]

Has the PA not contradicted Emeka's claim of never ever laid hands on the wife ? Now the issue becomes who beat first whereas Emeka said it never happened.

[@sistermonsornaturalremedie5149]

God bless you, Emeka and the PA are ly.ing😂

[@user-os8vm3oy8x]

Your *SISTERHOOD Mentality.*​@@sistermonsornaturalremedie5149

[@Ifeanyicosmas1773]

What is the contradiction there?, you slapped a man and you want to determine to him how to react?

[@preciousekuma7165]

@@Ifeanyicosmas1773 In case you don't know, some husbands behaviour can loose out all d nuts in your head and you do d unthinkable.

[@Ifeanyicosmas1773]

And I hope you also know that a wife's behaviour can turn a man to a beast right?

[@priscachika6797]

So this is how people would have judge osinachi matter? Chai, no wonder she chose to rest.no peace in this world honestly.😭😭😭😭😭😭 This is painful, you marry to love but receive beating at the end. So, painful

[@thetruth6396]

All women victims? All women innocent? What concerns osinachi and this case? You have never witnessed a victimized man in a marriage just like some women?

[@theapostolictribes]

it is heart breaking @pricachika6797 i have not heard emekas side but you can tell the truth if u have met or lived with a narcissist

[@julietowusuaa8260]

Very good. This is exactly what I said. This is what exactly what I wanted to type. Hmmmm 😞

[@chichiedwin3806]

May we marry well in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏽

[@elaumoren7823]

Amen 🙏🙏 God abeg.

[@udohwilliam]

Amen.. God abeg

[@angelaokoye9250]

The guy is confuse, I'm not lying, I'm not lying ,why should I lie.Oga you dey liar abeg.

[@pauletteslifestyle5584]

Even his body language showed he was lying

[@cherrymakena]

If the PA came back and saw Emma lying on the floor and ran away after he heard her speaking (as per Emma's testimony), what makes you think he is a good person even now...LOL. Of course he would refuse to having witnessed the abuse because he was either an aider or an abettor.

[@ZarMande]

Very correct

[@ZarMande]

Those people who enable the narcissist are usually referred to as "flying monkeys".

[@MwaleWaGitau]

Wisdom detected. He was probably paid to shut up. Why would he be stupid enough to speak up now? 😅

[@uzooji1678]

Or none. He may not want to be involved.

[@mardeadean4503]

All this rubbish talk, talk, can you just talk about that incident and don't go around in circles. Rubbish

[@dodula2]

Imagine God listening to all of this knowing the truth

[@dayaghadienebiwari7148]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@eunicemensah5272]

Hahahahaha, I'm sure he'll be like”ha has hahahahaha dey play"

[@eunicemensah5272]

Hahahahaha, I'm sure he'll be like”ha has hahahahaha dey play"

[@juliethuomao.samson7214]

I don't expect this PA to come say the truth. Once a PA aways a PA. That woman was telling her story, the PA is nothing but an accomplice.

[@uzooji1678]

Mh . Nawa o

[@alfredamgbakor232]

True talk. He is loyal to his master

[@ibiminaabiye257]

He's a flying monkey. Narcissists like Emeka have several flying monkeys around. These are minions who have no substance of theirs, and need favours from the narcissist.

[@cherrymakena]

Exactly! I believe Emeka Ike's ex wife. My thoughts: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hXLNl5uYgNKEiMUsi=G6bncg3vHNtneb2W

[@user-wm9oz5nk3q]

Go sit down

[@chichiasags9517]

“You want to slap him again”? From a sitting position on the ground? Common man, stop all these. I understand ur allegiance to Emeka but remember u just said u have a daughter! She slapped him first, u saw dat but U’re not saying u saw him slap her. Wat did u do seeing a man slap/hit a woman to de ground. Did u hold him back from hurting her further? U just suddenly decided to go bring the costume in de midst of the brouhaha! Whatever will make a woman walk away from her marriage without a source of livelihood esp being married to a celebrity is huge! Emeka is an abuser. The woman reacts to the abuse and she’s a monster for daring to do so. It’s well. God rewards us according to our deeds.

[@Moon-facts]

Sharappp

[@afriventstv]

Onukwu so you didnt listen to the part where the PA said he seperated them?

[@empiretvgh]

They think we don't think

[@cherrymakena]

I believe Emeka Ike's ex wife. My thoughts: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hXLNl5uYgNKEiMUsi=G6bncg3vHNtneb2W

[@TheNWABUEZE]

People who say that his son should not be involved to protect the integrity of his mother are the real abusers of this young man. Would you not come to your mother’s defense when she is treated this way. You guys forget that when someone is on drugs they ignore everything else including their children.

[@martinschis]

As a first son a day will come him to will marry and also experience what he is doing to his father because What a man sow that he will reap. He should not take side, but rather try as much as he could to be neutral and see how both parents could be reconciled.

[@Freee479]

@@martinschishe cannot experience what emeka is going through if he’s not abusive like emeka. Stop the 🧢

[@samuelnyarkotey9618]

Women will corrupt and reframe your recollection of events to suit their narrative.

[@mbahdamion1856]

Sorry to ask , do you watch and listen to the interview till the end..??

[@VictorOjeamiren]

I am sure u are staying with them in their home that u know so much...judge of the jungle... Nigerians! Use this same energy to fight bad govt

[@zainabsule9727]

But the woman in her interview said it was when she started fighting back that it became physical. Imagine putting a person down all the time she is bound to retaliate. Please always listen attentively before you conclude

[@joycelyndoe5436]

Why should we trust the PA who's pay is in Emeka's pocket

[@chiomaokrakpor3172]

Daddy freeze i think you are still suffering from PTS,from your own divorce hence the reason you are supporting Emeka,the truth is so glaring in this case

[@sath3lcooki3]

They're both bitter men

[@thomassankara2857]

I'm a man but in our part of the world, a woman in situations like this will be left alone in the cold. This explains why the woman decided to be quiet all these years until the allegations became unbearable for her. See, if anyone begins to narrate a story and then begins to say, I'm telling you the truth without being asked, that person is not to be trusted.

[@classickess2889]

U're very correct sir God will bless you for this fact

[@missdennis1217]

But the woman spoke years ago that got him canceled. He didn't reply. This is 1st time after years

[@Dorothy8631]

@@missdennis1217The woman never spoke to the public. She only spoke in court. Emeka was the one always talking.

[@tokebabs9491]

That cold lead several women to there grave!! If love me you love pop. Women pop is our behavior , And did you tell her initailly that she will be left in cold before the life journey started?

[@gabrieljosephine9040]

God bless you this makes me believe that good people still exist and understand

[@chimaobinwankwo1416]

This woman is reporting things that she claims she was told and not things that happened in her presence. Makes no sense at all. Even Daddy Freeze can do better. How can you argue about drug use with someone's wife and kids? I am not saying that Emeka does drugs but for goodness sake the wife and- kids know him better than these guys.

[@cherrymakena]

I believe Emeka Ike's ex wife. My thoughts: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hXLNl5uYgNKEiMUsi=G6bncg3vHNtneb2W

[@user-wm9oz5nk3q]

Shut up

[@ruthejemenogunwusi3243]

No man in is right Sense will do drugs Infront of his kids.this I perceive is manipulation from the wife.most men won't do joint account with their wives,emeka did joint account with an 18 year old,who has no job.haba!the woman should do better,these lies at just too much,the man has gone hiding for years ,why has she not come out to speak since,why now when the man is just getting his voice back.note: kano Nwankwo married an 18years also and has bliss.

[@bukolaonigbanjo]

😅😅😅Nor b Daddy Freeze! How hin wife sef? Ire o!

[@angelatwist8085]

Imagine 😂😂😂😂

[@augustaeze8401]

Daddy Freeze, I believe that the better way to get your interviewee speak is to ask point blank questions and insist on the answers. The interview is shabby and full of second hand opinions and not first hand witness. Demola cannot truly understand every single detail of a marriage . Even if he's proxy to them. No. Sorry but you didn't do justice to the interview. More of personal opinions than substance.

[@fluxnekta]

Using your rational witness and alibi have not value in cases or court ? If the woman had said something different when she came online then it would have been a lie for your information she’s corroborating what happened 10 years agai just to put that in perspective she’s telling you what they talked about 10 years ago so yes thier story didn’t change it’s been same the woman hit emeka first then he retaliated stop been naive and in denial

[@crimenewsindia4398]

The ex wife was able to proof physical abuse in a court of competent jurisdiction and these goons are here spinning what they know nothing about.

[@ofiliadefia]

You can prove anything in a Nigerian court if you have the right money or can suck ice-cream.

[@Creativevibeschannel2]

Is Nigeria's court a competent court of jurisdiction?

[@user-ls2ib1jo2f]

Which court of competent jurisdiction are you talking of or do you want to make her lies up for her.

[@mulemwasharonsimushi9450]

Imagine

[@gideonstabernacle1654]

Just like Emilokan proved that he won the last election in a court of "competent jurisdiction"

[@maryubong8424]

At this point it doesn’t matter. Emeka abused his wife. The court believed his wife and handed her the custody of the children.

[@user-wm9oz5nk3q]

Una done start, una done start, yeye Nigeria people

[@okorieogbonnaemenike3740]

Men will always be at fault but let me put it this way, my wife can do anything and i will take it but the day she raise her hand against me I will break it that day

[@apinkeolaniyan3281]

Laide Bakare, Emeka's telling you those emotionsl stories at location, is a characteristics of Narcissists.

[@nubianprincess766]

Did anyone notice how the PA did not answer the question about the school?😂. His answer made no sense. It’s clear where his loyalty lies. Like I said .. there are 3 sides, his side, her side and the actual truth. It is up to us to decipher it if you care 😂😂😂

[@jossynesiama4953]

this lady is relating hearsay she was not there. but he has been saying he did not touch her demage control after the woman finally spoke. this PA is talking irrelevant issues describing how they open gate. I believe the woman

[@cherrymakena]

I believe Emeka Ike's ex wife. My thoughts: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hXLNl5uYgNKEiMUsi=G6bncg3vHNtneb2W

[@billakas3223]

Remember also that if Emeka Ike was a bad employer and a bad man, this would have been a good time for him to pay him back. If Emeka was indeed an entrenched drug user as his wife claimed, he would not have been able to resist using drugs at the venue where the other female guest stated they met to discuss a film project.

[@cjanaba6912]

He was cut off when the woman said she wanted to say something.

[@unuagbafejiro4182]

The PA has not explained what happened to the school. Moreover, he has not made any substantial comment concerning all that Emeka Ike said in his interview.

[@eroprincesschannel6302]

This one Na Loyalist, abeg greet your self.

[@tokebabs9491]

Debola was a lier . He needed to be charge to court. For witnesss such degrade activities and keep quiet.

[@VictorOjeamiren]

How did you know he is lying? Were you there? I will like you to tell us the truth since u feel the witness is lying

[@tokebabs9491]

@@VictorOjeamiren i don't have answer to your request !! Because your might probably not have taken psychology as a course. And you might not understand what bipolar or prediator is all about. With the story so far Emeka was a prediator by casecading her away from her dream and deprive her from fundamental human right . We woman or wifes we a great example of a pet ,if you feed us to a satifactory stage we embrace you if there is nothing to feed us with we still embrace you. But the minute you start spanking us we strike. Emaka start everthing that transpered in that family because he fail to fullfilled his primary obligation as a man. If you can ask Debola was he into relationship as at them when emaka marriage was in the process of sinking? If is answer his yes. Did he treat is own relationship like that? Bird of the same feather.

[@maryubong8424]

@@tokebabs9491❤

[@ronsey7533]

@@tokebabs9491shut up!!!

[@vivianarchibong4150]

Debola, was only one incidence u witnessed, what of others, what of the people she used to run to, he was with the kids for 8 or 9 yrs. It’s enough yrs to create a bond with the kids, they can’t come up and hate him all of a sudden. They are adults now, they can speak up. I feel financial issues played a major role here. It’s really unfortunate. I have been married for 24yrs with 3 big kids, marriage is not an easy Union. It’s only wisdom, understanding and prayers that has kept me married

[@khalilyahhamzie8735]

The lady didn't denied in her interview that she didn't retaliate back,she said enough is enough and put up resistance and called him a jerk. She has had enough. No one to defend or fight for her. She said people were afraid to say the truth. You former PA God is watching you

[@okaarikpo129]

We're you there ? She is a big liar and manipulator

[@ayobamilawa]

Thanks she never denied it, she got fed up not having voice and she said that was when the problem started getting bigger.

[@user-dk9ul4vp1u]

Retaliating and hitting first are 2 different things. If truly she hit the husband first then most things she said in her interview would be false

[@uchennaobiajulu2022]

GO WATCH HER INTERVIEW AGAIN AND CORRECT YOURSELF

[@khalilyahhamzie8735]

@uchennaobiajulu2022 No you go watch and correct yourself too. And again understand very well

[@tee3612]

there's no way a third party will understand problems between husband and wife so that makes you a l...r, coupled with you people's mentality so all you saw was the woman's fault but not the beginning and not the entire of the whole issue.

[@akwariiroha9206]

This guy's testimony is so uncoordinated, he was all over the place, the sort of person that could put an accused's defence in a very awkward position. then the lady that came on was merely reporting an unverified information she was given from an unreliable and biased source! Emeka Ike should have kept his mouth shut, he opened this can of worms! Let us not forget that this woman was 18 when Emeka took her innocence, her youth was blatantly snatched from her, she gave up her dreams for this guy! I have seen her interview, her eyes spoke more than her mouth, there was so much honesty and pain.

[@peacendukwe]

Exactly watching that woman I did not see her telling lies everything about her during that interview showed she was telling the truth.

[@elizabethwambui9901]

Word! 🎯🎯🎯

[@martinschis]

So at 18 she was a child? Le us not take side, there are so many women who married at 18 and are still doing great. Let people not make excuses.

[@gracedomain]

When they married right

[@akwariiroha9206]

@@martinschisWould you honestly give your 18 year old daughter to a man in his 40’? An 18 year old girl is not a child, however she’s not old enough to comprehend what she’s about to venture into! that was the core mistake! I am on the side of fairness and truth! Emeka never thought this would take this turn! It’s gone straight out ugly for him, l still insist he shouldn’t have brought his business online! When you lay your hand on a woman, you lose her RESPECT! and the respect of a truck load of others!

[@basilaaliu6105]

If emeka is innocent, as a man he would not talk about a failed marriage . He is looking for validation . Trying vas usual to paint is wife black . You can even see how arrogant he is .

[@julietowusuaa8260]

True 👍

[@sweetestesty]

Laide, this is the way it works: when a man realises he's losing control over his wife who is now beginning to stand up for herself, he goes wild and real angry. The woman didn't wake up one morning and decided to be a beast. Series of emotional, physical, verbal, and mental abuse must have made her very defensive and combative as well. Emeka Ike, according to her, did not handle her with tender care and love.

[@SongCraftsmanHub]

Emeka is a better man than you. If you had a P.A can he come up in a situation like this to testify in your defense even if he is lying. People who know Emeka are coming up to testify to the fact that Emeka is a good man who simply had a bad marriage because of issues caused by men like you, and they are all telling lies. Regina Askia, Victoria Inyama, Debola, Laide are all liars. I wonder how many people can come up and stand for you when you have issues. Let us be guided. The average African man is jealous of a fellow more successful African man.....

[@billakas3223]

Women should learn to be 'independent', from the beginning if it is what they want to become much later after the poor man has sacrificed everything to build them up

[@kanveeadams9213]

Clearly these two are lying. One thing that is clear in all this is that Emeka has Anger issues. He needs to work on himself

[@SchoolOfPremiumWisdom]

Assistant God, who knows all things clap for yourself 😂😂😂😊😊

[@ej7465]

@@SchoolOfPremiumWisdomI’m clapping for her, she’s right. @kanveeadams9213, I’m giving you a standing ovation 👏👏👏👏👏

[@mila2742]

​@@ej7465let me join you in standing 😂

[@user-wm9oz5nk3q]

USELESS Nigeria women una done start

[@kanveeadams9213]

​@@user-wm9oz5nk3q Shey If we say useless like your mama you go vex? Because your mama na nigerian o😅

[@njidekaeberechukwu6789]

My mind still tells me that Emeka is the problem here

[@tamiausten873]

How does Daddy Freeze not know that the testimony of a paid staff especially a PA is not reliable? 😂😂😂 Like, as a journalist you should take certain things into account. If we don't trust the couple because they have interests in the story, someone that has taken money from any of the parties 4:54 like here "gave me a car" , is not a reliable source. Payment, romance and family relationship disqualify witnesses from being legible.

[@tobigoz]

Why don't you investigate if the children are in school? That should be your truth test rather than jumping to conclusions.

[@tamiausten873]

​@@tobigoz did you read my comment? I'm not even taking sides. Emeka, Suzanne and the son can't be believed without reliable witnesses that had or have nothing to gain. This PA or former has received money from Emeka. We need neutral witnesses.

[@zhavialocation4664]

It's not all the time that the staff are not reliable..Look at Johnny debb staff who stood behind him ..

[@finefranky]

D3mola is no longer working for Emeka over 10 years

[@oluwaseyia8548]

His ex mentioned his name and boldly stated that he witnessed the main incident so.............

[@annjoseph8197]

This woman left ten years ago, never came to social media, Emeka ike has been ranting all over social media.

[@fatiusman8676]

My prayer for Emeka Ike's son (Micheal) is that he gets to marry a replica of his mother; a wife like what his mother was to his father.

[@user-wm9oz5nk3q]

Make she marry devil, una know this woman

[@oderindemichael2006]

I pray that God should redeem the family.

[@atty7697]

So be it unto you too.

[@Train-mo2rj]

Let's look at this analytically, Whatever will make a woman slap her husband, a man who is two or three times stronger than her and who can beat her into pieces and upon whom she depends on financially every day of her life in order to live and survive must be very DEEP and needs to be looked into. For the PA and that woman denying ever seeing Emeka doing drugs , it's a pity because they' are very ignorant. Most drug users don't do it in public and are constantly in denial, especially celebrities. I know a lot of uncles and relatives of mine from real life experiences that their wives and mothers don't even know they smoke ordinary cigarettes not to talk of weed. My take on this is parents don't allow your daughters marry so young and naive especially to men who are more streetwise than them. A girl should go to college, get a diploma or degree and have a job or handiwork before getting married. Emeka Ike's ex wife must have realized how much she has lost in life in the name of marriage when ever she comes across the lucrative sides of her secondary school mates. She woke up too late to this and walked away with hopes of success on her own.

[@joshuaadedipe2284]

The points you raised are germane. However, in the course of the interview Emma had with Chude Jideonwo, she mentioned that she had always wanted to be an actress, but Emeka kicked against it stating that such a move could be a dent on their marriage. From the foregoing, Emma needed some financial freedom, and the moment she was denied further access to the joint account from St. Nicholas School, she felt caged and suffocated, and needed some form of reprieve. And this was what possibly resulted in the cranky behaviour that followed, where in part, the incidence of the daughter soiling her body and not having someone to attend to her as and when needed, occurred. There are three sides to a story: In this case, Emeka's side, Emma's side and the Truth. For the sake of their children and the need to forge ahead, they should find a common ground to make peace and resolve their differences.

[@triciatrish8541]

@Train-mo2rj 💯 👏👏👏👏

[@IamGodSon]

You have analysed properly. A woman needs some emancipation before getting married, if not the man can abuse and control her in terrible ways.

[@uzooji1678]

Storey. You have never seen women that splap their husband and even boy friends?

[@Train-mo2rj]

@@uzooji1678 Everyone knows that but the question is what triggered such behavior. Have you not heard of "I shot the sheriff but it was in self defense? "

[@maggien222]

Their dog should be interviewed next 😅

[@enjay4381]

😊😊😊😊

[@kindhearted3094]

😂😢😅

[@oseremenilens3695]

😂

[@giechiclear]

For me, when you are not the one wearing the shoe, you will not know where e dey pain pass, I am a married woman, and I understand. If you are not inside, you will not understand. Anybody who comes and goes can have their own opinion based on what they see at that particular time that they are around, but the one that is inside 2,4 and 7 knows where it pinches most. I GIVE IT TO THE WIFE FOR COMING OUT TO SPEAK HER TRUTH, WELDONE MA! What she said is her own TRUTH, and nobody has the right to gaslight her, period. Thanks.

[@olukemigbenga-ojo797]

PA doesn't live with the couple 24/7. The husband explained what happened to you people not that you witnessed it...careful people please!

[@yemmie4280]

What do you expect Emeka's PA to say? This is funny.

[@missdennis1217]

Ex PA

[@OkonUmo]

No he should say what you want to hear. You are like Emeka's wife. Keep playing.

[@Elejoweweblog_NG]

U be mumu normally

[@thetruth6396]

​@@missdennis1217do you use your senses?

[@Ekwy2023]

Honestly, see how the man even looks. What will I expect from a hungry looking man who is hoping to get some favours from his former oga that just appeared from GOd knows where; in this harsh time?

[@lovegreen6679]

I think he’s lying because his answers are not direct, they all over the place.

[@soundcollections1020]

Shut up.. That was just the way he talks

[@candicet.9565]

@@soundcollections1020you can make your point without telling someone to shut up his mouth, I wonder what kind of behavior you would have, if you can do this in the public space.God abeg ohhhh.

[@ronsey7533]

@@candicet.9565shut up! Because you reason with emotion without been logical

[@user-dk9ul4vp1u]

The fact that he is all over the place with his words doesn’t make what he is saying a lie

[@ekpedemendifon4902]

​@@candicet.9565That's how you spot an abuser and a narcissist. If you were close now, he would have hit you and next all his fellow men will justify it that it's bcos you dared to give your opinion.

[@patriciaezirike-vm3qt]

Demola , with all due respect , it is very transparent that you are on your friends side. You are not being truthful in Naija way but posterity and karma will visit the liar. Only God can vindicate the truth. This guy May be a demon at night but a saint during the daytime. Just say what you saw and stop the sugar coating to please your master for chicken change. Someday the real truth will surface.

[@chinenyeokonkwo3618]

Daddy Freeze, pls interview the son. He's in the best position to tell us the truth.

[@ogbooeberechukwu95]

No please. He is not worthy to handle that since he is also a divorce. Let a neutral journalist do that. Isn't it this kind of PA interview? Let Dr Ruffai of Arise handle them and the truth will jump out.

[@mobassey8455]

The son should go and finish his university education first

[@chinenyeokonkwo3618]

@@mobassey8455 How does that take away what he saw growing up and what he knows that happened in his family?

[@hilary8883]

@@mobassey8455What difference will it make?? Or without a university degree he can’t remember what happened?? You are not okay

[@talmacgroup7836]

When a woman is looking for a way to quit her marriage because of her personal selfish reasons, she starts to misbehave towards her husband and frustrate him to his limit. All they need is the reaction from the man to have a reason to exit the marriage. They start accusing the husband of being violence or abusive in marriage. I am a pure victim of such women. Thesame women will also go on social media to shout "say no to domestic vio£ence ". When you take them to abroad they will ruin your life.

[@txlonghorn638]

It's disheartening to hear that all this Debola man had to say to a woman that had just been beaten up was "why did you slap him?" No attempt to get her medical help? Rather he and his master were more interested in rushing to their movie site! Wonderful! It says a lot about how domestic violence is trivialized in Nigeria

[@sistermonsornaturalremedie5149]

😭😭😭

[@stanleyibadin410]

If you slap a man, wetin you see, u bear am

[@heavenlybliss7565]

See how this PA is using idea to sell his CV instead of answering a very simple question. Well done sir, I DON'T BELIEVE YOU. I believe madam Emma. Her story is relatable.

[@tankodestranger]

Foolishness

[@ZarMande]

In Narcisistic relationships there's what is called "DARVO".where the abuse reverses the victim to become the abuser sometimes. It's called "reactive abuse".After enduring so much in abuse, both verbal & physical, some people start to reactively abuse the person who has been abusing & most times the action is usually more, because of suppressed pain & anger. Emeka is a narcissist, that's why you can see how even when court granted him full custody of the children, he still abandoned them in Abuja, went to Germany to start a new family without taking his children. The woman went back to court & told court, condition of the children, court then granted her sole custody. Narcisistic people always think of themselves first, even when it concerns their children..sadly....but they always want to maintain a good public image, so people outside are always surprised to hear bad things about them since they're always nice to outsiders.

[@sarahmoige]

Unfortunately few people understand narcissists. The world is full of them .

[@dupemakewu2358]

Perfect description of some narcissist

[@femilicious]

Describes my ex husband perfectly 😢

[@auntstelovelies]

You nailed it

[@irenesimalike3962]

You will only understand if you have been through it.

[@etidobenjamin1278]

This man is not saying anything tangible. He beats around the bush a lot. They can't know much about the whole saga.....

[@abbienenyeugbeikwu3647]

That's exactly how Emeka Ike sounds! Their report is not sequential and progressive. It's just here and there. Rubbish!!!

[@donnalemmy3186]

This PA should shut up because its clear he is a paid liar. When u have done so may job they will not use u again? its not ur fault,its free publicity that ure getting that i blame. His story isnt even storying ....Oga respect ur old age so poverty will leave u

[@edwindidia2283]

Three important questions for Debola... 1. What was the cost of the school?... I watched an interview back then, cos I was a huge Ike fan, he said his school cost him about a hundred mil. At some point he said it was about 200mil. Just days ago on TVC he moved the figure to 450mil... In Debola's estimations, what was the school worth. 2. Was there a time the wife had to go live with the mother cos they lost their home?.. he was so into their lives and home like he claimed... He should know why she moved to live with Ike's mom, why she moved some of their things to the school... If at a point, he removed her from the school account, why didn't he pay the lease fee for the school?. 3. Was assassins ever after his life?. Why did he go to the police to claim invasion when the land owner got court injection to eject him... Did he owe on the land?... Was he, or did he ever have money issues?... If truly he lost his house and then the school due to failure to pay... Then Debola is covering for a friend and bros..

[@WildFlameKitchen]

Why are people saying this man is not saying the truth.... This man is telling us his experiences... He is not looking nervous... People always side the women story... Reason men die early in marriages cos we bottle up our emotions... This is the main reason Saint Obi died

[@oluwaseunabegunde9938]

That siding the women part is the most annoying part. Majority will always side women and it is sad. They are killing the men

[@janetagyeman8594]

Do you think this guy will throw Ike under the bus? The answer is a big No.He is being paid.

[@emembassey9774]

Weather he is paid or not ,see some men are really passing through a lot,i have witness about four men pass through verbal abuse and two of thrm being beat*n by their wives

[@user-bz3ms4cf9t]

When he said the baby was outside in a soiled nappy it corroborated with the nappy rash she referenced in her interview...

[@EstherMgbemeje]

God bless you. They ended up confirming her story. A PA claiming he knows about a marriage more than the two person's in the marriage is highly questionsble

[@anataderoju8853]

Exactly.. A baby can poo while the mother was busy cooking and she wouldn't be aware... besides, why will a woman slap her husband because he's curious and angry about a nappy rash. Mr Debola needs to swear in Ogun shrine for us to believe him

[@candicet.9565]

@@anataderoju8853😂😂😂😂😂

[@jossynesiama4953]

thank you

[@chinerooke8407]

Emma was wrong to have thought an accomplice will come and say the truth... Emeka should stop dragging her and let her be

[@aishayusuf2161]

Emeka should put his house in order

[@olannachi4507]

I do not understand why he brought this family business out to the public

[@peacendukwe]

Emma was very correct about this PA that he went away when she called him he was too aware his boss was physically and verbally abusing the wife. Look at the way he is cutting corners and saying things to favor Emeka.

[@Augusta_Lamar10]

One thing about a narcissist is that they try and maintain a good image outside so people will never believe your side. Yes she may have slapped him out of defence. Once you are used to being attacked you develop a defence mechanism.

[@chinomsoanyanonu2776]

Key word "maintain good public image"

[@okwuegoinnocent6168]

How can slapping yr husband be defence mechanism, God help u

[@MishaelOrizu-tt3vy]

Which good public image has Emeka maintained??? Any right thinking adult can see that Emeka needs to be medicated. He needs an intervention. Most African men will always maintain solidarity with their fellow men no matter what.

[@akpofureoreva5263]

@@okwuegoinnocent6168How can beating up your wife be a sign of a good husband. For goodness sake she is a woman. Would you let your husband stab you during the cause of an issue and just act defenseless even God did not create you that way. Nobody sit and wait for the harm that has befallen them the first time to happen for the second time. You must put up a defense . Make ona dey reason so times.

[@okwuegoinnocent6168]

@@akpofureoreva5263 it's always easy to judge someone else when it's not u, we're u there when he bit her up, people like u will do the worst at smallest provocation. Mr defense mechanism

[@OgohPatience]

May God almighty protect the wife and the kids in Jesus name amen

[@cynthiaonokah3682]

Debola, I hope in the next 10 years, you won't come out and say you are sorry when karma starts to visit you

[@yemi9196]

IF he is lying

[@cynthiaonokah3682]

@@yemi9196 definitely lying and he knows it

[@marthaasabre8476]

@@yemi9196 if he not lying then y will he keep saying 'i cannot lie'

[@soundcollections1020]

​@@cynthiaonokah3682thunder fire you.. How do you know he is lying? Bcos it didn't go the way you wanted it? God punish you for saying he is lying

[@julietowusuaa8260]

👍🙏

[@gloriaibibiawalter5599]

This breakup has taken a long time, Emeka should move on and live this woman alone, co-patrenting and working on the beautiful kids is the watchword for now. “ Staint Emeka!”

[@patriciaezinwa4901]

Why is this so relatable?! 🤦🏽‍♀️ Being in an abusive relationship whereby, all his friends and family saw him AS THE VICTIM, I knew there was no future there, because if anything should happen to this fellow, NO ONE would be on my side because he was really good at playing the good guy and the victim out there.

[@SongCraftsmanHub]

Emeka is a better man than you. If you had a P.A can he come up in a situation like this to testify in your defense even if he is lying. People who know Emeka are coming up to testify to the fact that Emeka is a good man who simply had a bad marriage because of issues caused by men/women like you, and they are all telling lies. Regina Askia, Victoria Inyama, Debola, Laide are all liars. I wonder how many people can come up and stand for you when you have issues. Let us be guided. The average African man is jealous of a fellow more successful African man.....

[@joachimifebuche6688]

If you listen to them both very well without sentiments you'll know that the wife is a big lier ... don't act woman on this matter

[@chessdetokpodcast]

I seriously hte u

[@Callys_concept]

Why am I having this feeling that this PA is lying. He said when was coming downstairs he saw the wife slap him, how sure is he that Emeka did not slap her when he was upstairs.

[@giftedchild9490]

No mind am

[@giftedchild9490]

The wife has people she used to run to after domestic violence

[@ziemusa2682]

HE IS. IS SOMEONE IS TALKING AND IS SAYING I DON'T LIE, I DON'T NEED TO LIE, THEN THAT'S A SIGN THAT THE PERSON IS LYING...GBAAM

[@monopoly9]

Your reasoning is wonderful!!! Baba said what he saw but you want him to say your imagination!!!

[@Elejoweweblog_NG]

What will you say before...see Ur mumu face

[@ikechukwuluis-bruce2908]

This P.A is just doing damage control !!! Emeka and the wife all have a hand in all this, but saying the woman wrecked Emeka is invalid.

[@Bodisere]

Was the pa the second wife in the marriage or a child in the family? Una dey play. Will he speak against his boss?

[@bintoukhan9230]

May god save her and her kids ❤

[@chinweeze526]

People who talks too much are potential liars

[@fasakinjosephine599]

You said you're always there and knows everything in the house and yet you're scared of Big dog that makes you stay outside.

[@peacendukwe]

I thought it was just me that noticed that ooo if he was always there the dogs would know him too.

[@khwesiprojectsmarketing1914]

I think the damage control contract was awarded to Daddy Freeze by Emeka. These two individuals should be charged to court for Accessories after Fact. Debola and Lade need to be subjected to lie detector machine to know the truth. This lady spoke like 'Agbero' in this interview.

[@Ekwy2023]

Very correct

[@isiedeoghon9430]

Why? You should give fair hearing to both sides. You sound biased

[@victory5274]

Very correct, Laide part is the one that is not making sense to even a senseless person. I mean she’s not even physically there. The PA said he was coming downstairs and saw the wife slapping what about if the slapping is a retaliation for the beating Emeka gave her.

[@JayBello108]

The PA will never support the ex wife. I wasn't expecting him to validate her story. But this is very sad. Sigh

[@Lordmillionz]

Ex PA

[@Moon-facts]

Sharappp

[@ogechienyioha2408]

I don’t think the PA is lying, women are so manipulative, she should allow her ex husband, Emeka to be involved in the affair of the Children, they can co parents in peace for the sake of the children, marriage is not by force, She shouldn’t get the Children involved in that drama ,it might affect them in future, there mental health is important

[@Lordmillionz]

@@ogechienyioha2408 affecting them already...... person when leave uni no be madness be that.... even when I was the verge of dropping out of school when my father died I still continue with lots of struggle... talk more of someone who is father is ready to sponsor

[@julietowusuaa8260]

Hmmmm 😢

[@wolexddk]

should the PA be taken as absolute truth without any other person's corroboration?

[@giftedchild9490]

The woman made a mistake mentioning him really

[@cynthiajuwah5849]

The man is only trying to secure where his money is. Do you expect him to speak against his ex boss and that he concealed domestic abuse? His reputation would be at stake. He may not be trusted to be a personal assistant for any celebrity ever again. It's matter of pride.

[@tiktoklovers6322]

​@@cynthiajuwah5849we don't expect you to side with the truth.. You are full of hate, Emaka is not your ex. you need healing.

[@cynthiajuwah5849]

@@tiktoklovers6322 I don't even expect you to understand. A man abandons his kids and goes abroad, and you are here defending him. The man and ex-wife are failed parents. Instead of going public with this, let them go for professional help and cater for their kids. It's disgusting how we in Africa conveniently ignore vital issues. They are both not helping anyone and we should not side either of them. The man should stop heaping abuses, take responsibility of his kids. If possible pay child support and maintenance to his ex-wife, since she got custody of the kids now. This is a matter of being responsible. You don't use ego and pride to get in the way to do what is right. It's that simple.

[@cadiensimundele2385]

This guy is obviously biased, I am not surprised at all.

[@isiedeoghon9430]

Where's your proof?

[@cadiensimundele2385]

@@isiedeoghon9430 If you can't spot out that he is very loyal to his Oga hence he is lying for him to the point of even contradicting his very "boss", then there is no point explaining anything here.

[@ronsey7533]

@@cadiensimundele2385shut up! Because he is not saying what you want to hear

[@cadiensimundele2385]

@@ronsey7533 Unfortunately for you, I have no time for your *d*otic level, lol

[@diannewilliams2325]

Did any of you listen to his voice mail to his son Micheal and threatening to go after "I'll come for your mother O" and telling his son to jump in front of a truck, proves his temper problem

[@basilaaliu6105]

That is enough to seal the case . That man is a bad narcissist .

[@ogechienyioha2408]

Why is the son keeping voice records against his father, if not for case, who keeps records against their parents? Please people should advise her not to get the Children involved,because two of them have gone there separate ways, they can co parents in peace

[@stellaayodeji2501]

​@@ogechienyioha2408The children are pained, if you listen to him ,he said he remembered that the man beats their mum but despite that he has been trying to settle them only for him to see his father on the national TV talking about his marriage and he felt why will he be exposing there family like that.

[@angelatwist8085]

​@@ogechienyioha2408I would do the same ..the man is a criminal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂a physopth

[@simsol1082]

This PA is all over the place...he doesn't sound like someone you can trust.

[@TemitayoAbass]

Tbh 😢

[@SchoolOfPremiumWisdom]

Can you be trusted 🤣?

[@patrickagori3537]

I agree with you 💯

[@ronsey7533]

Just because he is not saying what you want to hear.

[@olasanmiolawale510]

You're not serious A man love a woman and helped her to become rich now you're saying this The truth of the matter is woman don't learn submission when they have money they want to be at the same level with their husband

[@mconuwa817]

This is really very sad. I have looked at this issues from both sides and Emeka is the person at fault. A woman who you literally made, as a man you would want her to be under you forever. But when the woman tries to make a life for her own, an African man would see it as she trying to take advantage of him.

[@Enzetv]

After your objective analysis, this is what you came up with lol smh

[@richardmuluzi3718]

This issue both know the truth but in Africa when a man cries no body listens

[@izunduchristophernwokocha8376]

😂😂😂😂 you are even a better comedian than Emeka's wife. Like seriously. Nigerian women and their funny analysis

[@izunduchristophernwokocha8376]

​@@Enzetv😂😂😂😂 i am seriously laughing. Imagine

[@drtabokorobs8502]

Do not conclude so fast..

[@Robin_The_Red_Fox]

These two came to do damage control, but it's not working.

[@marthaasabre8476]

My dear,it's not working. They should get another strategy

[@cynthiaonokah3682]

I dey tell you.

[@queenrose6603]

You think any soft spoken person is saying the truth? Abeg these two has issues! My only concern is the son calling the father guy and this man.....is shows no home training

[@koladesanni9130]

It is unfortunate this is happening. I am not God, and i cannot just come out here to judge anyone. My instinct tells me this whole saga was being brewed from long ago. It has now metamorphosed to this stage when there is a lot of hurts for both. To cap it, i want to admit that the wife may have been a victim in all sense. As a naive young girl at just 18, she got into the marriage as innocently as she understood it. Growing up, and advancing in the marriage, reality started to take its toll, and started dawning on her that it goes beyond fantasizing to hang on in a marriage. At 24, a ripe age, she started having the understanding of the ingredients she needed to have brought into the marriage. Naturally, the lady may have ignorantly coped with what was thrown at her, but as she aged with instincts, she realized she was being controlled. At 30 as she said, instinctively, she realized she must have a voice of her own, and did not have to continue to be the bullied, controlled, and manipulated woman. At that point, the man would feel challenged and the whole saga starts. Witnesses or not, there is more to it, than anyone would imagine.

[@sandysglow4837]

This is me after 17 years and 3 children with my husband. He was the sweetest when we met,I was only 21, but after my 2 sons,,he began showing his real self. And as we speak,my third child is 16months old but I’m already making plans to leave the marriage but he does not know. Narcissist are never appreciative of you. They are never pleased. They will demean you till you kill yourself and still play victim. I believe everything the ex wife is saying.

[@kofo2196]

Wow, you narrated what is happening on my mind, God bless you abundantly.

[@kofo2196]

Wow, you narrated what is happening on my mind, God bless you abundantly.

[@adenikeshehu3600]

@sandysglow please the movement is not an easy one, please try to ignore him for now or separate first which I will not advice too but please be patient all will be well. They are both seriously wounded and still bitter till now who knows maybe till old age but fighting and argument will surely be over one-day with patients and understanding and maturity with prayers

[@tillytashley5777]

You are very niche right and on point. Thankbyoubforbthis break down. It really makes lot of sense .I know what that is first hand believe me. Going through one right now. At age 40 am now realizing the manipulation and control. It's not easy at all.

[@omonighoekpu6318]

Do we expect to hear the truth from his P.A. leave this lies jare.

[@Dee12Carbon]

This is PR from Emeka's camp. Even Daddy Freeze is in pay to play.

[@Moon-facts]

😒

[@tonyebiere551]

YOU AGENTS OF THE DEVIL, JUST LOVE TO DEFAME PEOPLES CHARACTER FOR AMUSEMENT

[@collinsohikhueme469]

Meaning Chude on Emeka Ike’s Ex wife PR Team.

[@oluwakemioluwatoye3748]

If she was lying, i dont think she would have mentioned his name. I just see where his loyalty lies.

[@ikkeffi711]

This so called PA should shut up. He seems unserious and it shows

[@snsn7251]

Looking for clout. I believe the wife. This guy should have kept his mouth shut.

[@yegadivine9156]

But the wife mentioned his name that he is a witness. Not everyone loves to be associated with lies. The truth is Emeka looks helpless after that womans interview. To even think that there were serious allegations of abuse perpetuated by her is so manipulative . For a moment I saw Emeka Eke like a small devil but now I see where this could be heading to.

[@julietowusuaa8260]

Thank you 😊

[@nwaobiaconfidence7743]

Nonsense... to me he's not saying the truth

[@voiceofreason9307]

What do you expect the PA to say?😂😂😂😂 Funny

[@tee3612]

most women are not bold to slap their big-son or brother more or less slapping a husband, for her to slap Emeka something really terrible could have happened before Debola showed up at the scene...again those children are big enough to know who to blame...the children not attending university says a lot about what the kids and their mother could be going through may be because they need help.

[@Eteawan]

Like seriously! The kids are not attending university ? Wow!!!

[@EstherMgbemeje]

Only the mother or kids can accurately answer that. Children can be attending online Universities or in person while working during holiday. Deborah has no first hand seat to the children's lives so he should keep his mouth shut on these issues instead of stating what he can't prove.

[@basilaaliu6105]

You are very correct . I am talking out of experience .

[@victorofeinmu7975]

Big lie, 😂… I have witness a marriage where the woman when angry , at every little opportunity will slap the husband.. break things…!!! And for the kids , if the woman is a good woman she wnt turn her kids especially the first born against the father, and again emeka might not be 100percent a good guy!!! But one thing is where man no Dey God Dey dere and see it all.. for a man to allow u have also a signatory to an account itz really a big deal…

[@tonyebiere551]

they are not in school. Abeg rest@@EstherMgbemeje

[@jay_police_herovideos1789]

A lesson to the youths...birds of same feather flock together and not all that glitters is gold. The teenage girl saw a movie star and wanted stardom. The movie star saw a beautiful girl that was irresistible. Both went into the relationship with specific intentions of what they wanted out of it. It was only when they were no longer getting what they wanted, that they both changed their tunes. As members of the public, we were never consulted for our opinion when they decided to sleep together. Neither should we be consulted now that they have decided to go their separate ways. They both should have handled their business privately. It really concerns no one else.

[@angelatwist8085]

And the way your comment is long nkt .

[@naomiblack21]

If that wad the case she could have avoided getting pregnant and and use him to push her modeling forward

[@ekpedemendifon4902]

​@@naomiblack21Thank you. God bless you.

[@aishayusuf2161]

Why please...he had money and yet could not pay for the leasing of the school which to the landlord shutting down the school

[@nonyeosi2446]

Pastor disappointed 😂 no more money naa. The Children suffer, blame the brain washing Pastor. Use and dump

[@mariamohammed6367]

THIS GUY HE'S LIAR

[@blessingszoumadreh7929]

That guy who is defending his fellow man is a liar, how can he be with couple married for 17 years, that is knows everything?

[@SchoolOfPremiumWisdom]

So you know the story more than them 😂....women as usual

[@fluxnekta]

@@SchoolOfPremiumWisdomnor mind her man defending fellow man if you use thah analogy means the women and weak men will defend the woman ……I am of the opinion they both were at fault at some point

[@EstherMgbemeje]

The woman could sign a cheque of St Nicholas isn't same as signing cheques of his personal account

[@abayomikadara2013]

That young mother of 4 probably went through a lot . This PA and laide bakre are being insincere because their friend is a A list celebrity. Y'all need to show that lady some respect!

[@fredanusiobi3435]

O she the truth calculator. They are closer to the family than you are. Your proximity to the family is your phone keyboard

[@abayomikadara2013]

@@fredanusiobi3435 so the children are not in the know? They are just statues or zombies that couldn't see. Dey play!

[@ekpedemendifon4902]

​@@abayomikadara2013Don't mind them.

[@hilary8883]

@@fredanusiobi3435So you think he’ll speak the truth to make the man look bad?? Of course he won’t

[@naomiblack21]

The wife clearly stated that the kid had a nappy rash and Emeka told her the kid had been molested and she told him it's only nappy rash. And that lady should please stay Quite cuz she neither know the truth. A lot of women go through abuse every day only because of a punks. And if Emeka is responsible why didn't he obey the court order given by the court to sponsor the kids. Why is he not training them? Emeka is a good Narcissist and easily manipulate the situation based on his social exposure and money

[@ekpedemendifon4902]

You're right. He's a very good narcissist.

[@Freee479]

Was daddy freeze really expecting this guy to be honest and unbiased? C’mon now😂😂😂 if it was the wife’s PA he or she will also narrate things from their boss’s POV not emeka’s pls let’s bffr and I’m glad people in the comments are not buying his BS

[@marthaasabre8476]

I shock give d PA n that lady oooo,wht were u expecting to hear from d PA,n the lady too shld b smart to know this. But y is d PA keep saying 'i cnt never lie',hmmm sad world we are living.

[@thetruestyletvtonia]

I'm sorry but with what I'm seeing here this man is not being honest, infact the statement he keeps saying (why should I lie, why should I lie simply means he is lying) this man and the lady are not being honest at all, what a pity, you guys should be ashamed of yourselves

[@johnterriee7224]

This story no balance at all Bros.. I know you're loyal to your oga... But this story no add up at all.

[@johnterriee7224]

She mentioned in the interview that she started to fight back..

[@bison7664]

Ehhhhh if e nor add up subtract or divide now. Ode.

[@adcenterafricahistory8819]

The husband started it, and the wife ONLY came out to speak

[@wolexddk]

the PA's account seems skewed in favour of one party, DF shld find a way of balancing issues out

[@obilizzykelechi4970]

This P.A sefffffff🤦🤦 When you were going to get the costume from the car, did you leave your eyes in the house to know who gave first the slap? How dare you say you know everything that happened in that house?? You can never be too sure! Becareful!!!

[@alaligeorge7990]

Plenty explanation...🙄 You keep saying, why should I lie, it simply means you've been lying...🙄 Only you said you're always with them 24/7, the same you is saying you were always afraid of their dog 🤣 She slapped him first, she this and that. No matter who is saying the truth, the poor woman should be allowed to live her life with her kids. She's been silent all these years, I wonder who decided to dig all of these stories. The Emeka himself should move on. He never valued his wife and kids, he should move on, why grant all these interviews if he has moved on? The last thing I'll do is marry a controlling man. It usually starts with being very controlling to abuses and eventually someone gets tired of the ship and quits. What then is the point of the entire relationship? 😒

[@chidinmanancy2161]

He said he is afraid of dog so Emeka will go in first and make sure that the dog are in the cage before he will come in

[@shenzhenmega5050]

@@chidinmanancy2161You mind that idiot? They listen with their ears and understand with anus.

[@peterillah7944]

Did she slap Emeka twice or not?! Their first son of 22 is a drop-out from the university, this is concerning to any right thinking person. Women tend to support their fellow women sha.

[@triciatrish8541]

​@@chidinmanancy2161 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Elejoweweblog_NG]

Woman slap man...woman wey u carry from village

[@godwinojimaattah5269]

It is so clear that this PA was paid to come say this rubbish.

[@juliusyalley7741]

There are 3 sides to a story. Your side, my side and the truth