Hello my dears! Thank you so much for your concern and kind comments on my last video. I appreciate it so much🥹❤️. I’m still adjusting to my new place, new environment and new challenges but don’t worry I can do it.🙏 Please include me in your prayers that God will enlighten my mind and leads me to the right path. Again thank you my dears and have a wonderful week ahead 💕🤗
@toniwright-ro6tk10 ай бұрын
Praying for God to move you along your path to success and happiness quickly. 🤗💖
@Roxy2022710 ай бұрын
Great video!! Many of us here in Japan are far from our families. Me included. I just love to travel & remind myself to be thankful. P.s. I love your striped skirt and long sleeved top. Is it from UniQlo or H&M?:)
@Will2getfit10 ай бұрын
Sending prayers and positive energy your direction 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@jackiebennett376210 ай бұрын
You will find the right path Lou. I will keep you in my prayers. I like your skirt and Toyko is beautiful with amazing views.❤
@Елена-д2ю7р10 ай бұрын
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@philstreeter970310 ай бұрын
Lou, I understand what you are saying. Your old company doesn't understand what a work-life balance is. You cannot have a healthy life if you don't have it. Something will eventually give and it's usually your health. You are such a brave young lady. You're an inspiration to all of those you people that want to see the world but are afraid to step out of the protective umbrella of their parents. Stay safe and take care of yourself.❤
@eveboyle10910 ай бұрын
What the heck are you talking about? In one sentence, you make two negatives, which make a positive! Smart, independent, ladies do not need any heroic rhetoric, or a pat on their heads, or may I say, a bloody, protective umbrella!!!
@KT258510 ай бұрын
As a foreigner who lives in and loves Japan, the workaholic culture is absolutely so heartbreaking to see. If you don’t work overtime, then it’s frowned apon. No vacations, long hours day in and day out. Just no happiness in the work and not enough coworkers to distribute the workload. I am so glad you are putting yourself first. I don’t think many people do, and to live years and years like that is not a good life. I hope you find happiness. Being paid should be a bonus. Going to work doesn’t have to be torture. ❤
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
That is, when you have a job, which she doesn't anymore....
@KT258510 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadaI am aware.
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
@@KT2585So what does it matter the job culture, when she doesn't even have a job to begin with ?
@KT258510 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada I was referring to the Japanese work culture as a whole. From a foreigner living here, it is heartbreaking how sad everyone is and I am glad she quit. I’m confused on why you are trying to argue over my comment?
@sbrowni10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your insight. I can imagine that it’s especially tough when you’re not able to spend much time with your family-which is Ms. Lou’s case as a foreigner, then the feeling of anxiety when requesting time off to spend time with her family.
@kasiapetruk673010 ай бұрын
I really admire you had the courage to stand up for yourself and your basic rights to have holiday without explaining it each time. I am sure you will find something better eventually.
@barbaraayala780810 ай бұрын
Japan is very frugal about working. They have very strict working ethics. I have a cousin in Japan and he once told me. People that don't want to work, another one is standing in line waiting for that position. He made it seem like it was easy to let people go. I hope everything will work out for her. Everyone has some struggles going from job to job these days and moving from one place to the other is very stressful. I will keep her in my prayers because Lou is a smart cookie :-) Everything she has accomplished she should be very proud of herself.
@ej301610 ай бұрын
not sure why the young think things they want should be their rights - a good job is a privilege and keeping it requires hard work and understanding what’s required of you - time off from work is a privilege and of course your employer should know why you want time off - my father worked 42 yrs for the same company and even with the seniority he had achieved - he had three weeks off each year as well as sick leave / family leave (funerals / emergencies) - there is a time and a place to “stand up for yourself” - being mistreated at work is one of those or having to work overtime without adequate pay is another - taking time off without explaining yourself may not be - changing jobs isn’t about getting something “better” - it may have to be just getting something - praying that the stress and anxiety of being unemployed isn’t worse for Lou than figuring things out with the job she had 🇨🇦🙏
@kasiapetruk673010 ай бұрын
@@ej3016 holiday is a right, not a privilege. I understand you may be from a different old era. People in company are an asset, not children that need to be controlled when they want time off - time off is your bloody right, not a privilege. I can only pity employers who cannot recognise there is a life outside of work.
@shalinivarma23710 ай бұрын
@@ej3016employees are entitled to annual leave it's a simple fact. Japan's working culture seems toxic if you do quick Google search you will find this out! You work to enjoy life not the other way round which is Japanese culture. Lou has done what is right for her
@lisad838810 ай бұрын
I'm 61 and I can say with experience; your job is a JOB, not your life. And you can be enployed anywhere. You're young. See the world and enjoy life. 😊
@franciscabernad782610 ай бұрын
Ya te esperaba desde hace días espero que todo te vaya bien a ver si te veo más amenudo❤❤
@eaglevision99310 ай бұрын
Yes he is right. A job is just a job. It is not your family or your main reason in life. It is just there to make money for things that are your real life. Never see a job as an important part of yourself unless you are self-employed and love what you do.
@Icry4us10 ай бұрын
Do you know what she does? She is an Engineer. More to her situation honestly than office work. 😅 I am 62. I know high end extremely skilled professionals are not run of the mill commonplace, easy to land careers. You do not just pick up and leave for "possible" other positions. The reputation follows.✌️🇨🇦🙋 She helps her family in the Phillip Ines. Hers is not your typical life or work. Young or not.
@MariaKades10 ай бұрын
she is no engineer@@Icry4us
@rebeccagilman202010 ай бұрын
I agree! ❤
@ItsYvette1110 ай бұрын
Lou I’m sorry to hear of the recent discord in your life that resulted in your having to move. You will persevere! Hang in there and know that you’re loved and supported by all of us as you go along in your journey of Japan. Japan is so beautiful and as an American who has never been there, I looove watching your videos to see how you navigate the great country you’re in and follow your journey. My dear THAT is your business. You are a “Content Creator” and a “You Tuber” and you have thousands of followers who are watching you navigate Japan! That’s what your business is. Create more content. Post more videos of yourself doing things in and around Japan and your business will grow even bigger!! I know for me I love seeing what you’re doing, where you’re going next in the city and how you’re easing through it all as a foreigner. That’s wonderful content and you’ll never run out of things and events and experiences to video. We’re here for you and support you! I’ll pray for you to have peace through your transition and through the changes. It’s exciting!! What comes next?!! That’s what we all want to see! lol 😂
@morgansides29410 ай бұрын
My husband and I are lifting you up in prayer from Jackson, Missouri, USA. Wish you all the best and that God would open doors for you to a great job and apartment ❤
@maryjeanettewalton366310 ай бұрын
Lou, so happy to see this new post. A job is not supposed to hold you hostage. It is there to allow you to grow and thrive in a challenging and supportive way so you can bring your intelligence and life experience thereby helping your employers business to thrive and become stronger and more profitable. We are all sending our love and prayers to let you know that you are not alone. Keep believing in yourself and find a little joy in every day.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤
@edithdiaz733710 ай бұрын
Hi, Lou: This’s is my first time posting. I think you’re brave. It’s not easy living alone in a different country away from your loved ones but you’re doing it. Life can throw you curves and many of them are scary but you have the strength to do it. God bless!
@Ben-yt9nu5 ай бұрын
Most important thing to realise is when you know something "feels wrong", life is too short to be stressed and work forms 75% of our day to day lives! Always love your videos they are my go to video for me and my wife for any background TV!
@roxyrosenthal719510 ай бұрын
Hi Lou, you are a pure, nice and sincere person. I am sure God Will help you in the right way
@MDotJean10 ай бұрын
You're doing great, Lou! You've visited Tokyo many times, and now you live there! Thank you for being vulnerable with us. I've noticed over the years that a lot of commenters don't realize how much courage that takes, and all they can do is pass judgment on someone who needs support, not criticism. It's not easy to be so open with one person, never mind thousands! I appreciate you. ALL of your dreams ARE coming true, in little ways, a step at a time. Take good care.
@vickyk969410 ай бұрын
We sold our house and moved to another city and bought a house. It took me 6 weeks to find a good job with a great company. I have been there 6 years now and still love my job.
@rosettagrey285110 ай бұрын
I am surprised that you didn't search for a new job while you were still employed, since you said your visa depends on your employment status, but I am wishing you the best of luck. I hope you find a new job that meets your needs and a new apartment soon ❤ Feels like maybe there were other factors too but we aren't entitled to every detail of your private life, you don't need to explain your decisions to strangers online. We're rooting for you! 🎉
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
She didn't do it because she is stupid or not telling the truth. Maybe she was fired and doesn't want to say it ??
@Rosepetalscreations10 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadaI think everyone needs to mimd their own business and not speculate on things they have no way of knowing about. I find your comments rude, please respect her and her right to share whatever she feels comfortable sharing.
@girlofsunrise10 ай бұрын
I'm sure there were other factors as well. Every time I quit my job without finding another one, it was always due to psychological abuse. You can say it is always an emotional decision but here no need to wait until you get physically sick
@becciemarshall679110 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadaHow rude!!!!!!!
@Nautinthislifetime10 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada You are being extremely rude to people on here. You are speculating, making assumptions instead of being supportive. I think you need to check yourself.
@CaroleCanada10 ай бұрын
I’ve been anxiously waiting for this video so that I knew you were OK. You left so suddenly and it was worrisome. Many people don’t get a chance for a fresh new start so think of yourself as lucky to have this opportunity.
@2MuchPurple10 ай бұрын
Hello Lou! When I was your age, my life suddenly changed in major ways. I moved from California to another state where I lived temporarily with my mother again, There, I went to technical school to train for a better job. After that I went to work and met my future husband and I joined him in his small software business After a few years we married. I was 36 by then and had never thought I ever would get married. So life can change in unexpected ways, often good ways that one never expected!
@sagreenaidoo0410 ай бұрын
God has you in his hands my dear Lou. Everything is going to work out exactly as you planned. You are I’m my prayer. Enjoy your new city and be safe. Take care 🤗🥰
@masoomamuzaffari761110 ай бұрын
Plz pray for me too I'm having a hard time too
@MsKReads10 ай бұрын
Lou - There's a quote I think of when going through challenges: "Tough times don't last, but tough people do." Good luck in your journey... you've got this!
@Silverbird61010 ай бұрын
Liebe Lou,ich kann gut verstehen, wie es Ihnen geht.Ich lebe schon lange bewusst alleine und weiß,dass es nicht immer einfach ist,für alles selbst sorgen zu müssen.Aus den vielen Schlachten,die ich schon schlug,bin ich stärker hervor gegangen.Hinfallen ist keine Schande,aber liegen bleiben.Ich wünsche Ihnen,dass sich alles zum Guten gestaltet.Übrigens bin ich durch Ihre Videos neugierig auf Japan geworden und auch Ihre Mahlzeiten,die Sie kochen, haben mich inspiriert.Ich hoffe,dass Sie in Ihrer neuen Stadt, eben so schöne Orte finden wie zuvor 🙏
@lisnappier916310 ай бұрын
Lou, u are young and smart. Smart enough to know your mental and physical health no is number 1. Its just a door closing and another one opening. You will do just fine. Patience....much blessings to u Lou...
@lindapendleton917610 ай бұрын
A journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step. Boost your confidence by focusing on what you have accomplished. Setting small achievable goals will help. You will do well. You have a good mind and can learn anything you choose.
@johannainprague10 ай бұрын
Hello Lou. It’s visible how full of heavy feelings this vlog was. I am following you for a long time and I like to feel that I connect with you through what you are showing - your simple life. No matter how hard it will be for the following months, don’t give up and keep praying. I also left my country to a new one where I had no job in the beginning. I remember how hard it was, some days were better than the others, but in two months and a half I was able to find something. Even if that job was just for a year, it really prepared me for the one I have now, I am am currently 5 years in my company, plus over time I got inspired by you to vlog my life. I’ll keep you as well in my prayers, you are an inspiration ❤
@na-oori10 ай бұрын
My younger sister is currently unemployed after quitting her prev job in August 2022 (in Japan too). We were also worried about that 3 months rule, but she stayed anyway while still looking for a job here. She went to her city consultation center (I forgot what it’s called in japanese), and after talking to them, they said that she could stay even after the 3 months period passed, as long as she can provide the imigration a prove that she’s actively looking for a job, and that you can afford to pay the bills and stuff. She still lives here in Japan, and is still looking for a job, and the immigration hasn’t once asked her to leave :) I suggest you try going to your city consultation center and confirm this w/ them, so you can be sure and at least remove 1 of your biggest worries, because what happened to my sister has been affecting me really bad too mentally, so I can totally understand what you’re feeling. Also, if you haven’t done this already, I’d recommend you to write down/ journal what you’re worried about, or what you need to do :) It’s not exactly the same, but back when I was about to move out, or when I was so stressed out from having so many problems and thoughts, writing everything down in a journal totally helped me. Because when you worry, your problems and thoughts would get piled up inside your head with no way of letting it out, so when you journal, you’re letting all your worries out and enable you to have a better perspective on what you got to do. Creating a to do list, organizing what the problems are, finding a step by step solutions for each problem would definitely make you feel better, because even by just jotting them down, it can help make you feel like there’s a progress. I worry and stressed out a bit less every time I dump all my worries and problems on my journal, and it definitely makes me be more positive, knowing that these problems are not something I can’t handle. Really sorry about the long comment. It's just that I can relate to what you said in this video, and would like to share how I dealt w/ a similar problem and what I think might help you. I hope things are working out for you 😊
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
In Japan and unemployed since August 2022....I rest my case.
@fideliagnzalez95510 ай бұрын
A mi tambien me sirve, gracias!!🙏🌹🙋🇦🇷
@lavane694310 ай бұрын
Sometimes, we experience crisis because our lives are unbalanced. For what I've seen in your videos, your life was reduced to work and help your family abroad. But what about love or a partner to build your own family? What about friendship? To quit your job abruptly may show that you were emotionally exhausted and drained. Hope you build a better life after the storm has gone. Wish you the best.
@bethquaranta656610 ай бұрын
Lavane- She already has a lot of friends and a good social life. Why would she need a “partner”? This is 2024 not 1924. What an archaic way of thinking you have. Keep doing what you’re doing LouC - you already are ENOUGH!!! Don’t let anyone tell u you’re not!!
@catea255110 ай бұрын
also she just went home to visit family so maybe the company was irritated as she mentioned. when an employee goes away for a few weeks the company suffers if they do not have backup. its not the employee's fault but it would be upsetting every time you want to vist your family to have the company mad at you.
@missgahan793510 ай бұрын
She shows clear signs of depression, she needs to check her mental health ASAP
@janemalpas259810 ай бұрын
When will the Japanese learn? You work to live, not live to work. I look forward to your videos. Every good wish for you.
@barbaraayala780810 ай бұрын
@@catea2551 Wonder how many days a year you get in Japan? When I was working and being a vet, my job I received 6 weeks a year and we had carry over if we didn't use it. My brother job he only received 14 days a year. I guess it would depend on how much you can accumulate. If you have days they shouldn't give you a bad time about using it.
@TMoses-rj1og10 ай бұрын
I am a re-subscriber. I think you did the right thing by quitting your job. Work is not the only thing in life. I wish you the very best in finding new employment or starting your own business. You do already have KZbin, so that’s a big plus. Don’t give up. I will definitely be rooting for you.
@andreamcgrath84719 ай бұрын
God will reward you sister. You are staying on the right path. Keep nourishing your body with all those nutritious vegetables and fruits
@Magpie90010 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you listened to your heart and decided to make this change! Life is so precious and short, and it shouldn't be filled with unnecessary stress and anxiety. You will find your path. You are very strong and brave.😊❤
@mollymollie604810 ай бұрын
Dear Lou, I have loved your calm and soothing videos, filled with your spirit of determination for a long time. I’m glad you made a change. No one should have to work in a place where they feel like they are so unhappy because of how the company treats them. It isn’t your fault at all! I agree with other commenters that say YT is a business (not sure if that counts in Japan) but you could also sell merch, talk/write about how to move to a foreign country, teach Filipino customs and traditions…that’s educational videos. You may have another type of business completely in mind for yourself, and that’s fantastic. You are an amazing, brave and determined woman…you will succeed. I will keep you in my prayers to the universe that everything works out the way you are wishing, and I admire you for never giving up the fight. We have the same motto, “knock me down, I get back up again!” We’re all rooting for you and praying for you, you dear soul. Thank you for all that you share with us.
@StormTrackerWV10 ай бұрын
I LOVE your idea of her selling merch! Or even developing her own line of skin care products, cooking accessories or spices/sauces, clothing, home decor...the sky is the limit with her!
@jacquelinemacdonald656610 ай бұрын
Some times things happen for a reason and maybe this is your opportunity. It is important to balance having a personal life with your work commitments, so happy that you are focusing on your wellbeing 🤗🤗🤗
@kimvoorhis448110 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing with us Lou. You were right in saying that God wouldn’t lead you to leave your job without having a purpose for it. Keep praising God in the storm. He will show you where your next path leads. Praying for you! God bless.
@denisegreen112810 ай бұрын
Lou, This Too shall pass. Your strenght, courage and faith will cause you to soar and ride out your storm of destiny. You are such an inspiration.
@SarahLouiseUK8 ай бұрын
I was always taught never to quit a job unless I had found another new one first. That advice has always served me well and caused less worry and panic. Always best to stay in a job until you’ve found another one. ❤
@deindeutschprofi_nadine10 ай бұрын
Dear Lou, to me it‘s perfectly clear that you don‘t really want to be employed. I‘m a business owner myself since 2014 and it‘s the best decision I‘ve made. Do it! It‘s worth it! ;-) Your videos are amazing. In my opinion YT could be your business. Lots of love from Germany!
@haguiah.50010 ай бұрын
The fastest way that you can get employment there is teaching English! There are always job postings for English teachers/ Assistant Language Teachers. You don’t need to be proficient in Japanese to get that job. I was an English Teacher in Nagoya and Mie area for 7 years. Even if you don’t end up loving it, it should give you ample time to find another job and not completely lose your visa.
@mistyvioletconservative.388910 ай бұрын
She’s told us many times she’s not proficient in English, she uses translate app to translate her messages for us
@itakenaps10 ай бұрын
dont they usually prefer people who were born in majority english speaking countries. ie: uk, australia, canada and the us
@haguiah.50010 ай бұрын
@@itakenaps They do, but not necessarily. I’m half-Filipino half-Japanese, English is my second language. There are so many Native-level English speakers from the Philippines teaching in Japan. I taught at one of Japan’s biggest Eikaiwa companies with branches all over the country. It’s worth a try for foreigners who need a job right away to keep their working visas.
@SailorMoonFan9210 ай бұрын
@@mistyvioletconservative.3889 Huh, weird. English is an official language of the Philippines. Most people there can speak English and Filipino fluently and you get taught both right from a young age.
@-greentoad10 ай бұрын
@@mistyvioletconservative.3889 Not sure that's exactly true. Lol.
@neilthomas566710 ай бұрын
Hi. So sorry to hear of you having to leave you job and life as it was. But yes you are certainly doing the right thing as when your employers are interrogating you like you have mentioned its time to stop. You are extremely brave as most people me included have carried on and just fallen further down the black pit. With my very best wishes for the future,at least you have Faith and that will see you through and guide you. Keep up the videos. Neil.❤
@miriamdiaspinheiro79 ай бұрын
Lou continua com teu sonho.. não desiste...o início é difícil,mas o resultado é maravilhoso!
@annieferte431010 ай бұрын
Bonjour Lou, je vous suis depuis longtemps. Vous avez très bien développé votre chaîne youtube. Continuez à la développer et faîtes nous découvrir toutes les facettes de la vie au japon. Sa cuisine, sa culture, etc comme vous l'avez fait jusqu'à présent. Certains arrivent à vivre financièrement ainsi et j'espère que ce sera le cas pour vous. Vous avez démontré que vous avez une grande volonté, vous allez réussir. Bon courage
@joykay237110 ай бұрын
Everyone is proud of you Lou , I'm very impressed by your experience and doing this alone. Great job sweet woman. I look forward to all your videos and praying that you will be very successful in all you do. 🎉
@catherine5922610 ай бұрын
It’s so lovely to see you! We’ve missed you! 🩷💜 You’re in my prayers daily and at weekly Mass. I’ll light candles for you at the altar. 💜🩷
@LouCslife10 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏💕
@lambchop196010 ай бұрын
God does love you and you are in the palm of his hand. I pray for you to be blessed. I love watching your videos.
@anjelahj134710 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@LouCslife10 ай бұрын
Thank you very much 💕🥹
@NightclubAngel10 ай бұрын
Lou, there is something very special about you. I adore watching every video of you and know you will do great in Tokyo.
@13trix6310 ай бұрын
In Germany we have one important working rule what every parents tell her kids, before you quit have a new job. Searching can become a long time Periode.
@Rosepetalscreations10 ай бұрын
Every case is different let’s not judge another without all the information because it can make us look unkind and rude.
@13trix6310 ай бұрын
@@Rosepetalscreations pls nobady say here any to harm anyone. If I judge I would say other things. It’s only a thing what German parents really say if we say we are not happy with our job. The long time period I know from myself. It’s the reality not any bad thinking. Pls be more patient to me before you judge
@cindyp.36510 ай бұрын
@13trix63 I agree with you. I don't feel you were unkind or being judgmental. Some of us feel it's super important to have another job before you quit one, it's not a big deal.. it's an opinion and you seem to know this by experience.. Some people are concerned too. I disagree with that other comment... you are fine.
@13trix6310 ай бұрын
@@cindyp.365 thank you very much 🤗. It’s so good to hear. A lot of people think with such comments oh look at me how nice I’m but it’s only show. I feel so much better thanks to your comment. 💜🙋🏻♀️
@cindyp.36510 ай бұрын
@@13trix63 You are very welcome. 💖Be well my friend. 🥰💫
@spoteasy10 ай бұрын
You are so good at making meals. You would be a great help to someone who cannot cook for themselves due to age or infirmity.
@Skywarp-kr4ft10 ай бұрын
Sending hope and good vibes your way. Don’t blame yourself you stood up for what you believed was right and your fans will always have your back when times get tough
@LouCslife10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🥹💕
@Skywarp-kr4ft10 ай бұрын
Anytime 😁
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
I don't have her back...what she did was simply stupid.
@tisa619310 ай бұрын
Then don't watch she doesn't need your negativity@@aguantecanada
@AllSeeingScorpio10 ай бұрын
You can kick rocks! It's not like her decision impacts YOUR life in any way @@aguantecanada.
@Jackie-n9p10 ай бұрын
I hope that you are enjoying life in Japan 😊 your videos inspire me as I suffer from anxiety and since discovering your channel I’ve adopted many of your habits , like eating well , keeping g my home clean and tidy and I feel so much happier A big Thankyou from me in the UK Jackie x
@martid10 ай бұрын
Hello Lou. 🙂 Happy to hear you found a new place to live. You mentioned you might look into getting a business manager visa and I immediately thought about your KZbin channel; there may be a visa specifically for KZbinrs (content creators) living in Japan that you can apply for instead. I enjoy watching the King Kogi channel and the creator is a Canadian living in Japan, perhaps reaching out to her and asking her what visa status she is using to live in Japan might be helpful. If you prefer to try another business, what about a virtual assistant for businesses in the Philippines trying to make contacts and/or do business in Japan with Japanese companies. You understand the customs and business culture of Japan and know enough of the language to help companies in the Philippines make contacts, run errands in the city and help with any other tasks that need to be done there in Japan (or the reverse, any Japanese companies wanting to make business contacts in the Philippines). I hope you don't mind my suggestions and I wish you every continued success in your endeavors. GOD bless. 🙏
@LololovesFrodo6 ай бұрын
Hi Lou, I just discovered your channel a few days ago (and subscribed). I have been going through a dark time, but the cooking bits and organization in your videos have provided me with such comfort. The more I watched I learned you went through a dark time as well. You are so strong and you have many fans who support you. I am a permanent fan now, please never stop practicing your craft and making your lovely videos
@Momof7cats10 ай бұрын
I will continue to support you! You're doing an amazing job. I've watched other people in Japan and their work places are the same. Remember your health comes first and the rest will fall in place.
@lorrane217710 ай бұрын
I’ll keep you in my prayers Lou. You are a smart gal. It’s hard to work for a Japanese company. Hopefully you will find one with more kindness.
@curlyD9310 ай бұрын
So happy to see a new video!! I've been looking forward to your new journey and apartment! I must say... It takes someone with alot of courage to do what you did.. And well done for! God won't take you away from something if He has better in mind for you! Good luck with your job hunting! Thank you for still making time to make videos for your fans! 😊😊😊
Dear Lou. What a brave and smart decision to leave the old workplace. This shows, how strong you are and that you listen to your mind and your mental health. This is not a luxury, (mental) health is the most important thing we have and no job in Japan is worth it. You've come so far all on your own. Even if you decide do leave and find a job somewhere else, you did not fail. ❤ I'm just a woman from Switzerland, but I'm really proud of you. What about an other country (if everything fails). I mean, you speak at least 3 languages you could maybe work in customer support or something like that. Or teach other people from the Philippines on how to manage bureaucracy in Japan and so on.
@romanahilenkova299610 ай бұрын
Jste velmi odvážná žena, že jste učinila toto rozhodnutí ❤️. Držím palce, ať je Vaše nová cesta úspěšná 🙏❤️❤️❤️
@girlofsunrise10 ай бұрын
You give me courage, Lou, so that I can also deal with difficult life situations while being all alone in a foreign country and not to think about leaving immediately when something goes wrong. I am sure that with all your experience you will find something else. I am rooting for you and thank you so much for sharing ❤
@tchosea10 ай бұрын
Change is hard but you will grow for the better because of it. I’m so proud of you. You can do this. I’m praying for you. You are not alone. God is with you always. ❤
@paulasisco220710 ай бұрын
You are stronger than you know and braver than you think. One foot in front of the other. Head up, shoulders back and always march forward with determination. You’ve got this!!
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
She is also more screwed that what she thinks she is....
@carolevohra330410 ай бұрын
I have only seen a few of your videos and they made me feel so sad and really sorry for you. You are such a sweet, kind and caring person and don't deserve to be treated unkindly. I truly hope you find a new job soon, or continue full time as a youtube creator/influencer promoting japan and products. May all your dreams come true. Never lose your sparkle.
@MikePowder10 ай бұрын
Hi Lou C.I'm going through a similar time. Hold on and believe. Everything will turn out well. I like the way you prepare the food. Your videos are soothing. With those quotes, you reminded me of the famous Rocky movies. It doesn't matter how many times you fall, but how many times you get up. That's the only way to win. You are a strong personality Lou.I wish you happiness and love.
@KassMoffett10 ай бұрын
The uncertain is always so scary! But you will get through this! We all love you and believe in you! Thank you for letting us be a part of your journey and life, and thank you for being a part of mine!
@carolarmstrong64410 ай бұрын
Dear Lou, I love your videos so much and always feel very happy when you post a new one. All the very best to you in your adventures and I know the good Lord is holding you in the palm of his hand. I am a 67 year old grandmother from the UK and I have walked away from a few bad work situations in my time. Work/life balance is so important. 🙏♥
@meg769910 ай бұрын
GO LOU GO!! Yes these times in life can be so anxiety producing and scary but KNOW YOUR WORTH MY FRIEND! set time each day for looking for jobs yes but also take this time to explore and be young. You really should be so proud of yourself! You make great content btw and have a real talent there. I am so rooting for you and wish I could ease your worries but truly YOU GOT THIS LOU!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@mari-gu9li10 ай бұрын
Video editing... Give it a try!! You're very good and this channel is the background you need.
@kitkit551510 ай бұрын
I never clicked so fast! Lou I would have done the same and left that job. Glad you stood up and faced the uncertainty so that you can be free of worry. It’s scary but you will persevere. Things do happen for a reason. Prayers for a great job soon or best outcome 🙏🏼 also you have a good heart don’t feel you have to explain personal things you do in your life either to people. It’s your life
@drlarryjohnson788010 ай бұрын
You have taken a courageous and healthy step. May God bless and keep you as you chart your new course.
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
Healthy ? She is jobless...she won't even be able to eat !
@Sky-tl1ke10 ай бұрын
As an immigrant, I went through a lot of mental abuse and toxicity at work and still would not quit while on temporary status. Now when it's permanent, it's a different story. Getting myself out of work and home not having a new job arranged while still uncertain about my status would be the bravest thing for me to do. Depends on personality and goals I guess but I thank you so much for sharing your story and your perspective. I've just subscribed. One of my favorite channels so far. I'll keep my fingers crossed for your new job or own business. Whichever way you go, we are here and support you.
@Елена-д2ю7р10 ай бұрын
Рада вас снова видеть! Пусть у вас все получится, как и задумали! Удачи и успехов в поиске работы!❤
@denisbaranov136710 ай бұрын
Hej Lou, found your channel just couple days ago and already love your content. So I decided to drop you a short, and hopefully encouraging, comment about relocation. I'm from Russia, and back in 2016 I moved to another country -- Sweden -- for work. And to say that it was challenging is to say nothing. Luckily I didn't have any uncertainties with the job, nevertheless, the first year was real hard. I was alone for the most part, without my friends, beloved places, beloved routine, beloved everything. I was left in vacuum. I was miserable and seriously considering to finish my contract and move back to Moscow. Think what? Those 4 years I stayed in Sweden ended up being one of the brightest, vivid, and memorable period of my life so far. The challenges will be overcome, you'll find and you'll love new places, new views, new activities that will fill up your heart. Fingers crossed!
@chartaviafuller402710 ай бұрын
Hi Lou C! As long as you are meeting expectations at work, you should be allowed time off to visit your family. Family is important and you have to set boundaries and there should be a work-life balance. I commend you for having the strength to walk away and find something else. The world is so big and I’m sure there are many opportunities out there for you! You’re already successful with your channel so that’s something to celebrate. Keep going and don’t stop! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
@susanowen371410 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you made the decision to leave , this decision alone will make you stronger. Well done you! ❤
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
Are you gonna pay for her rent and her food from now on ??
@susanowen371410 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada no KZbin will help with that.
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
@@susanowen3714No it won't. You can't compare youtube's income with a salary !
@susanowen371410 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada we all don’t have to take the same path in life. She has made her decision and it’s not up to you to worry about it.
@kerryofarrell658110 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadaPlease have faith in Lou, she is a strong, capable lady, and already has a Plan B if she cannot find a position. She feels the hand of God guiding her, she does not need a negative Karen pulling her down.. If you cannot say something positive best to say nothing, imo.
@painiacs8310 ай бұрын
My dear Lou, i hope you find your dream job and a great apartment. Most of us have been in your shoes. You can do it. Hugs and prayers. 😊
@dawnrouse243910 ай бұрын
Enjoy your time off. I hope you find the perfect job for you. You’re so brave quitting your job and moving to another city. You’re way stronger than me. God bless you. My prayers and thoughts are with you always. Love you Lou!
@FrancesLark10 ай бұрын
I agree with several posts below ( I didn't read them all!): you do already have a healthy, thriving business in this channel. It is fun to go shopping, cook with you, etc. Since I started following you, I've begun cooking many more dishes. I got rid of my microwave because it calms me down to 'slow cook' as you do. I LOVE your pans without handles, the ones you clamp the handle on when needed. Love those. When you settle in again somewhere, please buy a second chopping board That way you'll have one for raw meats and one for veg and non-meat items. I've lived alone for thirty years now! I see friends and family but found I was losing my own sense of self when I had house mates or partner. It seems maybe that type of situation at your job was robbing you of joy and happiness. Please continue to post, to cook, to create sparkly pictures, and stay in touch with your friends in Japan. It makes me happy to see you go to parks to look at flowers and trees. Take care of your self !
@mistyvioletconservative.388910 ай бұрын
Me too.... that is why I prefer to be alone at home.... same reasoson u gave here...😊❤
@FrancesLark10 ай бұрын
replying to the kind words from mistyviolet thank you I was nervous about putting myself out there in hyperspace!
@MGE943610 ай бұрын
I live in Australia. When I was young I worked for Toshiba, a Japanese company. I was shocked at how disciplined the japanese staff were. So rigid, serious, and dedicated. Being the young at heart, full of fun type person, I lasted 6 weeks there. Never again and I still have no desire to ever visit their country. Good luck Lou. Mayb the Philippines is calling you back. Don't bust yourself for a country that is not your scene.
@Женя-ю1с2я9 ай бұрын
У меня сестра двоюродная вышла за японца и ни разу не ездила домой в Петербург😮представляю как ей тяжело.
@mochastwocents890810 ай бұрын
Walk by faith not by sight. As a older women living in America, I love your videos and am proud of you. You are strong and living a life that most of us couldn't even have dreamed of and never had the courage to do! You will make it!
@silke-120310 ай бұрын
Liebe Lou Deine Videos sind immer sehr schön .Danke dir für deine Mühe immer und das Du uns Teilhaben lässt an deinen Leben. Ich wünsche dir aus Tiefsten Herzen das du wieder Arbeit findest. ❤
@laibasumbal385610 ай бұрын
11:22 you can do it, just keep your head strong and be ready for the challenges. May you succeed in everything.
@maverickflint199110 ай бұрын
Those are not fails those are step that you take to find the place you want to be in life!!!😊👍
@tinamerrill248410 ай бұрын
Well said! ❤❤❤
@АнастасияКовалева-й7ш10 ай бұрын
As someone who recently quit and was looking for a new job, I want to support you from the bottom of my heart. I know how emotionally difficult it is. It's hard to part with a job that you've already gotten used to. But believe me, it was worth all your worries.❤❤❤
@montymontridge10 ай бұрын
There is power in prayer and you have at least 184K also praying. You got this! God has a plan you you. Keep believing and doing what you feel is right. *Hugs* from the US.
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
I am not praying for her...I think what she did was simply stupid.
@hasselbuschm10 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadayou and your negativity should be blocked
@rosebrown700210 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada you seem hell bent on responding with the same negative energy to everyone who is trying to be supportive. Some people actually put their mental health and family life first. Shocker to you, yes I know but get this. Some people actually wish to be happy in life and take steps in that direction instead of 'oh, I can't quit my job because... reasons'. If her quitting her job is so devastating and detrimental to YOUR well being give her one then, yes? Start a company and carve out a position for her. Can't? Then give her the one you currently have. Still can't? Then shut up. Not everyone is as whiny, unpleasant, unhappy and annoying as you are. I enjoy watching people enjoying their lives and/or making effort to do just that. It seems odd that your goal in life for today is to be this unpleasant. DO better. BE better. FInd your happiness and stop being... you.
@etainapgwynnedd82710 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadaNo one cares what you think, honey. My advice? Shut up and stop looking like a fool. Your comments are bordering on harassment, and I have reported you for such.
@shalinivarma23710 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanadayou are so rude and disrespectful please stop commenting if you dislike her videos stop watching
@sondrajohnson256410 ай бұрын
I have moved many times - for school and jobs. I've lived all over the USA! I have learned that having a positive attitude and trust that the best good comes to you opens every lovely door for you! I believe you have a great deal more abilities and skills than you think. Also, you have an open mind and desire to learn and grow. You also have courage and determination. You WILL find a wonderful, prosperous new path! Leaving the old toxic company allows you so much opportunity and freedom. Many blessings!
@mandymorgan995110 ай бұрын
I couldn’t wait for this video❤, so excited for you!! Always believe family first, no one has the right to make you feel bad. So proud of you and praying for you😊… lots of love Lou ❤
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
So proud for her now being jobless, and in the future being homeless ?
@rosebrown700210 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada you seem hell bent on responding with the same negative energy to everyone who is trying to be supportive. Some people actually put their mental health and family life first. Shocker to you, yes I know but get this. Some people actually wish to be happy in life and take steps in that direction instead of 'oh, I can't quit my job because... reasons'. If her quitting her job is so devastating and detrimental to YOUR well being give her one then, yes? Start a company and carve out a position for her. Can't? Then give her the one you currently have. Still can't? Then shut up. Not everyone is as whiny, unpleasant, unhappy and annoying as you are. I enjoy watching people enjoying their lives and/or making effort to do just that. It seems odd that your goal in life for today is to be this unpleasant. DO better. BE better. FInd your happiness and stop being... you.
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
@@rosebrown7002Why would I give a job to her ? She being jobless is HER problem, not mine ! 😂😂😂😂
@snoozebutton999610 ай бұрын
@@aguantecanada for someone claiming to be soooo uninterested in her situation, you spend one hell of a time to respond to everyone in the comments. Imho, you're just a bitter little person, with no success in Life and deeply unhappy about it, even if you claim otherwise in the comments. You're pathetic and rude. Otherwise you would be supportive or at least don't give a shit and don't comment in such a manner you do. Grow up and get a Life!
@delainecearnel721010 ай бұрын
When I have a bad day your videos help me relax,,don’t worry we’ll be there for you,,everyone enjoy you. Just take time for yourself,leave the other stuff behind you 🌹
@alexissense10 ай бұрын
Welcome to Tokyo! All the best in your new journey in life! I'm also a foreigner in Tokyo and totally understand the toxicity of the Japanese work culture. Sending you hugs and good vibes! You WILL find a BETTER job!
@mari-gu9li10 ай бұрын
In Italy we have 21 days in a year and we need to use them. How does this work in Japan?
@shalinivarma23710 ай бұрын
@@mari-gu9lithey get not many holidays, and for foreigners it might be less days. I remember Lou saying at her previous company she got 10 days holiday! the culture is not good, taking hols is frowned upon, its work, work which is no life. There is also a lot of suicide apparently due to this. I also dont know if they have bank holidays/ public holidays so here in UK most people get anything from 21 to 25 days holiday then we have 8 bank holidays.
@mari-gu9li10 ай бұрын
@@shalinivarma237 we have bank holidays too. That's not good, I feel so sorry for Lou 😢
@glad248610 ай бұрын
Bonjour Lou, Tu n'as pas à t'excuser si tu es malade, il faut bien te soigner surtout. Tes vidéos peuvent attendre et je serai toujours là pour te suivre car j'aime bien ton contenu. Rétablis toi bien et à bientôt ! 😉😊
@mariosagastume588310 ай бұрын
You are extremely brave - some of Us are still stuck in a job - anxiety it’s not easy to deal with ! BRAVE! BRAVO❤ YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION 🎉 thank you
@aguantecanada10 ай бұрын
Or extremely stupid....
@SniKenna10 ай бұрын
You said it yourself, there’s a reason you felt compelled to make this decision now. In my experience, even if it feels drastic and scary in the moment, it leads to better days ahead. You’re on the right path because it is yours! ❤
@bobbijodubelaar615110 ай бұрын
I wish you all the best in finding a new job or starting your own business. Having faith that things will be ok is the best attitude. You have got this!
@JoannePelletier-w3p10 ай бұрын
Hi Lou! I am thinking a lot at you since viewing your video. What a couragous lady you are. Everything is going to be ok. Relax, breathe and God will look after you!😊
@Torbis10110 ай бұрын
Dear Lou. Thank you for keeping us posted. We wish you lots of good luck, happiness & all the best for this new stage. Sending you my hugs from Sydney
@toniacraig475310 ай бұрын
You are a strong woman. Don't sell yourself short. You're a lot stronger than you think you are. Hold your head up. You have a little setback, but that's ok. Everyone has one. Like the saying goes, " When one door closes, another one opens." Everything will work fine. Lots of hugs .
@kellyj.azania437110 ай бұрын
My dear Lou C., you are not the problem. You've done right by removing yourself from a stressful situation, which no doubt is affecting your physical wellness. No relationship, be it with an individual or a group is worth the sacrifice of one's mental and physical health. The best is yet to come. I hold high hopes for you! Stay strong.💖
@lylyd539110 ай бұрын
I’ve been through so much anxiety and sadness today, and your vlog really soothed me for a little while. Thank you !!
@marvadrozell512810 ай бұрын
Thank you for your latest video. It definitely makes me feel better for you. I am so proud of you for standing your ground and holding strong to your faith and values! We all support you and think of you often. You are very strong and brave with great resilience. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. We are pulling for you my friend❤
@desertwitch960810 ай бұрын
All the best Lou in your new adventure. Remember not to just settle in life but always strive for something better. Take care and we’re rooting for you.✨
@darlenebrown399310 ай бұрын
Been wondering how you were. Figured you were adjusting to the new place and city. Good to see ya.
@ezevetv10 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to you, Lou 💗 You didn’t have to tell us why you moved, but you did and that shows how thoughtful and kind you are. I agreed with everything you said. When you shared your story I instantly knew that God has something great for you, and it’s all apart of the journey. We are rooting for you! 🙏🏼🤍✨ with love from Guam 🇬🇺
@courbry12310 ай бұрын
I wish you all the best. The right job will come. Prayers for you to find your happiness. 💕
@heatherreiner167110 ай бұрын
Hi Lou! I’m so glad you took this step! The old saying “you work to live, not live to work” is so true. I have no doubt that you will thrive in Tokyo and be very happy! Prayers and good thoughts are coming to you from Pennsylvania!
@I_am_fim10 ай бұрын
All my best wishes for you. We all have a lot to learn from your resilience. Good news is just around the corner. Sending prayers and good vibes.