Women Love Cheating on Men & It's Your Fault? |

[@Jay-AL]

Taja is 1 of the most solid women I've heard speak in a long time. Well done fellaz!

[@JoseRodriguezFrio]

Sounds like a man to me dawg

[@Jay-AL]

@@JoseRodriguezFrio I can't even disagree with you there my G. Now if we could just get more feminine women to understand mens frustrations, I think we will be headed in the right direction.

[@JoseRodriguezFrio]

@Jay AL you should hang around with me, this woman introduced herself as bitch fam... she's overweight... swag on a 5... come chill w/ me n mines. U won't even see this chick anymore, invisible

[@17thN.O]

@@JoseRodriguezFrio You'll learn to appreciate broads like her when you get older.

[@JoseRodriguezFrio]

@17thNO 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@agth76]

Simply loved Taja and her sensible conversation! Nowadays it's hard to find women like her who take accountability seriously. Just earned a new fan!

[@unreasonabledoubt165]

I think y’all boys just found the 4th member, women listen to her and actually take in what she saying.

[@rastaoiiii]

I was also thinking they need to bring her back, especially with younger females.

[@manvsgod6850]

Yea she the truth💯💪🏾

[@ladellmimms]

Which one???

[@boulmo9167]

hell nah,half of the shi she was sayin was bs

[@unreasonabledoubt165]

@@boulmo9167 the girl in white? What was she saying wrong? 😂

[@renechang2406]

I'm impressed with that lady in the white Tshirt. She is super honest. Spilling all the cheat codes. She also rides solo. She is a lioness that can be feminine when she knows her role. I respect her.

[@myhunny2006]

Mami in the white shirt captivated my attention she spoke nothing but facts not feelings

[@easy6427]

Bring her on the show!! Make that woman a regular! She's straight up giving the real and still coming with the female perspective.

[@Mr_Tsukuyomi]

Get Taja a 10 day contract please 😂 Absolute Accountability and I Love it 🔥😮‍💨

[@robben1640]

She's not desirable ppl won't listen off that alone

[@Mir2Nastyy]

@@robben1640 🧢 real men will listen women who hate other women that hold ‘em accountable won’t! That says a lot

[@waltersmith8125]

LMAOO

[@17thN.O]

Taja for the win. I could work wit her.

[@Chicagomademe85]

@@robben1640 what you mean not desirable 🤔? She’s a pretty woman, and very understandable. She a mature young lady. More women need to think like her.

[@21cookiepm]

I came to the comments because the episode was so good! I thought Taja was a part of the show🙌🏾 She is great!!!

[@SlientShadow]

Taja need to be back on the show. She gives great perspective on things.

[@JoseRodriguezFrio]

she's basic af

[@ginufinesanders6852]

She the truth I love her honesty and reality and discipline within her self

[@slkskate]

Im surprised by this podcast normally the relationship talks are tiring but this was very well spoken by all parties and a lot of honesty from everyone. I subscribed off this episode keep up the good work

[@zoomdirt2]

This was by far the best episode in my opinion…everybody energy was there. The vibe was there. Shawty in the white shirt was real knowledgeable.. the other 2 girls was invested in the convo..lots of laughs and jokes but key points was hit too…good stuff

[@COACH_HM83]

This video is a shining example of the difference between men and women. When you ask a women what she thinks she answers with her feelings...."I feel...." A man is most likely always going to tell you what he thinks or believes. "I think....or I believe"....The sister in the white spoke on what she "thinks" the others talked about what they "feel". Sister in the white shirt gets it and it changed the other two for the better.

[@PrettyMulaa]

I love Babylove in the white. So relatable. When you have a mindset & personality like hers, it’s so easy to attract mad people in your life, when they start hearing your intelligence and growth they move around. I definitely think she has done a lot of self growth.

[@Laoriginal718]

Thank you and I have even more growing to do. One day at a time.

[@17thN.O]

Absolutely. Self growth is the greatest thing to happen to me as a man.

[@Jokertyme]

@@Laoriginal718 you on IG? I’m tryna shoot my shot, what’s good?

[@jq.aka.polob3ar608]

Wats her instagram cnt find it

[@AnthonyDeJ90]

Found this channel from playing with the guys on COD WW2. Glad ya’ll told me about this podcast. Dope life topics

[@Thefive5]

I been watching these type of podcast for the last 5 years. I kid you not this is the first I've ever saw a woman on that believed in holding other women accountable and actually stand on that. Salute to you mam thank you.

[@ginufinesanders6852]

Yo AYOLEZZZZ YOU are The TRUTH I salute you for being honest and a mature grown ass woman you didn’t make excuses or nothing you just told it how it really is you gave the reality of the situation that most women will stray away from

[@kindware6323]

“What’s the difference between persistence & thirsty?” That was a great question.

[@berenelagenc1676]

The efficiency of this *usespy online is next level.* To juggle walk throughs of various angles on devices delivered to-camera, differnet content per app from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined access. To make a dense non tracable like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work !!!

[@HolyShytItsBrandon]

Truly we need her back she is by far the realest woman to grace the show

[@luist3756]

I love taja the positive vibes are great for humanity. It’s good to hear someone like her i think a lot of people will follow her 😎

[@MrKitts100]

Shorty in the white needs to be a regular

[@bdothoncho1871]

Facts 💯

[@Drew.q]

I fuck with her. She was losing me at first with the men and women are the same talk but she got back like 5 mins later.

[@enigmaessneo7964]

Facts Bro, she is a god send to the show.

[@mr.defyned5902]

Facts

[@DrprofessorXavier]

Nah fr

[@davidburstine9851]

The girl in the white shirt needs an award. Flat out amazing. Thank you

[@killadelphiaunderdogs7217]

Why it sound like a gang of people saying the same thing ??? The girl in the white ?? Lol like yaw sound desperate for the girl in the white ?? Lmao 👀🤦‍♂️🤣🔥💯

[@iancolvin9924]

Favorite episode so far. Bring Ms. Accountability on every episode lol

[@BiNDiViSUAL]

Taja, you are so on point, precise, and clear with your responses regarding the male and female dynamics. As a guy, I would love more of your insight. If we were friends, you would definitely be my go-to for any concerns or questions regarding women. You don't follow the girl code. You hold females accountable and hate it or love it, you say it as it is. You should be a regular on the podcast. Breath of fresh air.

[@ObjectivelyBias]

The sister is more mature than both of the other women combined.

[@Laoriginal718]

Thank you for the love but I’m also at least 10 years older than them. We were all growing and learning in our early 20’s. Those young ladies were real sweethearts. ❤😇

[@johndoe5843]

Because she’s as masculine as the three dudes

[@bigtim3248]

@@johndoe5843 you just soft

[@jefferysmith5641]

I like this lady who is sitting by herself. she is too real and not taking sides. Right is right and wrong is wrong!

[@GREGNYCE76]

Taja needs a platform whether it’s with y’all or on her own . I respect it .

[@l2ebel96]

Love that Taja brought up the point of accountability. It goes both ways for men and women. But also friends keeping their mates accountable to better standards.

[@nigelgarrison8946]

You Can Lust after two or three people, But You Cannot be in love with two people. Lust and In Love is to different things.

[@Laoriginal718]

Facts 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@17thN.O]

Real. I've lusted over broads, I didn't care about them. The ones I've loved, I really cared about them. Of course they fcuked over me. But I had to learn to charge it to the game.

[@GeekGhostGamerTop]

@@Laoriginal718 facts @NIGEL GARRISON 🖖🖖🖖✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿🤘🤘🤘

[@furiousgtribal4325]

You talking about women. Not men. If women would allow us. We'd definitely have 2 women. I could love to women

[@Gnosis639]

Why not? Love is the strongest energy and the status quo has convinced us that love is limited.

[@aykilliesheall2486]

Good show ladies and gentlemen... forreal.

[@stephendixon2365]

Woman with the white tee is a star⭐️! I see it coming.

[@dedrickpatterson9]

Told my sons before puberty that if they weren't financially able and mature enough to take care of a family or manage themselves in a household then they shouldn't even think about sex or a physical relationship with a female. Told them they should at least be 30 before getting serious like that way. That way they're mature enough and or financially stable enough to live a life of that much responsibility..

[@JohnThomas-ln3wz]

I agree and I told my son to get his passport and explore a little of the world 🌎 first before he decides he wants to settle down with anyone!

[@A-Thomas]

Exactly we men aren’t teaching out sons to just make babies. They call the young lady in the white Ms Accountability however that’s a lie. BW keep conflating their almost 80% simple mothers rate with BM’s less than 30% single father rate. Also keep in mind felons have 30% more children than non-felons. So just because BW are promiscuous and sleeping with every man they CHOOSE this doesn’t equate to BM doing the same.

[@24KLuxury]

Taja got that mindset men admire in a woman. Bring her back! She ain’t letting these immature comments slide!

[@danielduke5463]

The women in the white shirt is so real and knows whats up.. she's telling the other 2 how these women are and how it is , like they have no clue

[@JohnThomas-ln3wz]

She still has room for growth!

[@Gnosis639]

Women love to act like they are obviously to their bullshit so they can keep doing it.

[@dupreepass8544]

seriously we need to keep Taja on here i love her equality perspective and accountability take.

[@MrDre4300]

This the most honest video I seen ina min ..💯💯 well the lady is , let’s call her Ms.Honest ❤

[@UnwantedFoe]

Comparison is the thief of joy. Especially during "have you ever thought about someone else" and specifically about bringing up exes. Never bring that up unless your goal is to end this current relationship. It's such a taboo thing to do.

[@mateaukalua4426]

When you haven't been with many people and it was so long ago that you can't remember then it's nothing to compare them to.

[@dunwarry8318]

Taja is the truth straight 💯 no nonsense

[@stokesjr57ned]

Ey bring big sis back. We need more like her on

[@gregorynorth436]

💯

[@honeybadger4397]

Taja you’re dropping those gem 💎…. You go girl.

[@jethuy2]

Shorty spitting ,that self awareness is very important…she should definitely be put on the panel

[@Paparatziwill]

These conversations are underrated yall doing the damn thing on this channel keep going 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

[@thefirstprime0124]

Just judging from that intro she gonna be the highlight of this ep 👍🏽

[@robloc_cookie00]

A lot of people failed at what you accomplished, simply because they were busy finding problems while *usespy online* were busy providing solutions. Every time you do a good job, you polish yourself one more time. Shine on mate, well done. Team usespy

[@J2Fresh247]

The women in the white kept it all the way honest. We need more of that in women.

[@iwontrespond4039]

She looks like a dude acts like a dude OK she's probably a d***

[@renechang2406]

Yup all the way honest.

[@killadelphiaunderdogs7217]

So just the woman in the white ? I think the other 2 Spanish mamies in jeans was keeping it real also 🤷‍♂️🔥💯

[@jasminepriester7795]

THIS makes me wanna start my OWN PODCAST! 🔥🔮👀💪💯 .... Everybody was ON POINT here👌 👏👏👏

[@slowburnraloh1807]

Cheating on your man for emotional security is CAP 🧢🧢🧢 and women only say it because it sounds innocent

[@Laoriginal718]

FACTS. That’s what I was saying. People cheat because they want to. The same way people are faithful because they want to be. Cheating is a choice never a mistake. Leaving is always an option.

[@IWantMyVisionBack]

Women cheat for lust, don't be fooled that they only cheat for emotional security!

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@Laoriginal718 thing is tho.. Every man’s wife has an Instagram, Snapchat, FB tho 🤷🏾‍♂️ lif she’s 35 and under, insecure and attention-driven, she’s not fully trustworthy.. and that’s 98% of women in the west.. If you think ur man trusts you… he doesn’t fully.. and he’s smart because of that. Because if a woman is called out for infidelity she denies it in the same manner as the faithful women. So good women lose because of the abundance of bad women.

[@mateaukalua4426]

Exactly 💯

[@manuelshaul9244]

You caught that. But all of them wrong. Nobody be loving nobody. That's why we failing men and women

[@prod.bylvwlee]

All good questions! This a fire podcast

[@wingdragonzero]

Great episode

[@kabeya38]

Y'all gotta make Taja a regular on the show! Love from the UK, keep it up guys!

[@aakeemjones3838]

I love these open topics and these topics need to be discussed more openly

[@antbanks6773]

She keep to ultra real. We already know who in talking about. Much respect to her

[@georgeblake2187]

Well done, ladies. Great show

[@andreshaw3816]

Make sure u bring accountability back for sure she could be the first female in the crew I approve this message

[@ShottaSlim1]

@4:12 I’m glad she kept it 💯. Women cheat because of physical attraction like men do, the difference is women get emotionally attached while men don’t. If cheating was purely due to emotional stimulation that means her standards would disappear and any man despite looks, status, race, disability etc would get her😂

[@furiousgtribal4325]

You missed the convo homie. They can fuck and not want to be with the dude. They'll definitely not leave their dude who's stable and fuck a dusty on the side.

[@lakieagreen4304]

The lady in the white shirt speaking facts 💯. Bring her back to the podcast , her accountability on point 💯. I definitely enjoyed listening to this episode 👏🏽

[@Laoriginal718]

Thank you ❤

[@jamworldmusic]

​@@Laoriginal718 u pretty 😍 ncp

[@charlesyoung3357]

Yep she is real !

[@jamalchester6321]

One of the best back and forth conversations I’ve witnessed on a pod this was nice to see

[@islandfever825]

Her momma raise her well … gives me vibes her momma was raise by real traditional parents

[@Laoriginal718]

Thank you. Shout out to my mama ❤. My mom was a single mother but her parents were married and my fathers parents were married as well. So even though I was raised in a single parent household my mom was very strict and there was some form of structure in the household. Also there is no replacement for a biological father but I have a lot of uncles. Me and my dad have a great relationship tho.

[@jerseymostwanted]

Facts she deserves to be someone wife... Sad not to many women have the same values as a traditional woman but want traditional men which I don't get 🤷🏿‍♂️.

[@luist3756]

Taja Taja Taja i just came across this today and I would love to see taja again. I subscribed 🔥🔥🔥

[@jahaadscott2589]

i feel like... i feel like... i fee like....

[@useyourwords3286]

That how women communicate. Dont hold your breath hoping women will change that.

[@kerryhowell167]

YALL BEST SHOW 👍🏽

[@shawnwillis6496]

I'm glad you have a feminine women on your show shutting these girls down

[@Laoriginal718]

Thank you for the love. Lol I can be a little rough around the edges but I’m learning and growing and trying to change certain ways and mannerisms. For instance on the show I use profanity but I would like to stop using curse words all together. I’d like to eliminate it from my vocabulary because it’s not lady like but old habits die hard so I have to just try to use one less curse word each day until it is completely eradicated. ❤😇

[@pipedreamism1]

Who fem. The girl in the white lmao she was very hard

[@KedonWilson]

@@Laoriginal718 God will get you to that point if you let him.

[@hosea114]

@@Laoriginal718 you are gem my sista. May you be blessed to accomplish all that you strive to achieve.

[@availrichess]

@@Laoriginal718I loved u on this episode u spoke my heart 💯💯 thank u for getting out there and speaking real shit !

[@savastian_saul]

Taja is a breath of fresh air and a real one. Salute sis 🫡💯💙🙌🏾

[@firstdefense3789]

Taja is lit asf 💥 & on point! Make her a regular!

[@JahsonnM313]

Excellent show Gentleman 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@wingdragonzero]

Sis in white was dropping bars

[@corycolon1542]

Taja is on top of things and has a real perspective that most men will appreciate. It's hard to find women who hold themselves accountable. It's an attractive trait and makes for good conversations because you can keep it real. These dudes need to keep her on the show to put the chicken heads in check✔️🤣

[@SimpleTruths101]

The young lady that holds her own and accountability to her friends she’s a keeper. The two little birds we could of did without…. Pls upgrade the guests to the caliber of women as the young lady in the white shirt👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@17thN.O]

Absolutely them lil young birds would be useless to me. But I'm in my 40s. I could work with Taja.

[@KD-lj2pj]

@@17thN.O At the end of the day ...people go do what they want regardless.....when say don't people do...When you say do they don't..... Who listen to what a woman say do?? You as a Man will end up Homeless or something worse..... Being a single black man with no children.....aka BLESSING/Peace and quiet.....The deal of the century.... No bad ass kids to deal with No loud mouth woman etc... My house is quiet......aka. a MAN CAVE...90% OF a Woman conversations is about Men....

[@l2ebel96]

Retweet^

[@ashtinoak]

On God

[@damonwebb1680]

First thing every one isn't the same women are different and it's showing us in the conversation. We have to understand that you have to understand a person mentally before you can get attached emotionally

[@huey350]

What I see when it comes to persistence vs thirsty is that some women define those things based on how the dude looks. If he looks like somebody, it's persistence. If he is ugly to her, it's thirsty.

[@Laoriginal718]

Pretty much it comes down to interest. If she likes him and the feelings are mutual it’s persistent. If she’s not into him he’s thirsty. 🤷🏽‍♀️🙏🏾

[@Achilles645]

@@Laoriginal718 You should tell them to get some dudes that I like in incels on there especially if they are older.

[@classicrocker889]

THIS IS AN INCREDIBLE VIDEO !!!!! THANK ALL OF YOU.

[@williambrown9781]

Purple was speaking about acting like a man in the present tense & when white spoke up she changed her tune to past tense

[@andrewwebster7185]

I’m glad I’m not the only one who peeped that. She still acts like that towards men. She just changed her tune immediately after ol gurl in the white called her out. They chameleons out here!

[@alford123]

Nigga i was sayin the same thing😂😂

[@TeddyLove01]

She is the female that I need in every male space pod cast. She was equal accountability and new when women were all cap

[@TheChloeTea]

Taja is the TRUTH

[@marshallhennington4369]

Taja speaks the truth! She needs her own show!

[@iamBlackTech95]

This woman Taja ❤❤❤ she’s a gem. She is logical. Even stumped the guys a few times this episode😅

[@XxXCrafter866]

This man really hit the ground running and hasn't stopped yet. He gives us more understanding of him without interviews and negative antics he just shows us who he is through the Recovery. True living legend. We salute to *Team usespy online.* The execution, creativity, and goodness that came from it were inspiring on a number of spy levels. Cheers Alex & looking forward to seeing what you do next!

[@carl3063]

When it comes to men not wanting to wife women up, if it’s two generally healthy people, it’s usually not the stuff inside of the house between the two people that’s an issue. It’s mostly the external stuff. Like it’s social media, it’s girls wanting to be at every lil event, it’s the way they dress, how they talk, how they treat people, their activities and social interactions etc. I know I don’t want to wife up anyone that look like a risk and like it’s not worth my time.

[@JohnThomas-ln3wz]

I agree and the age difference on the panel is young as well as the western mentality playing a huge roll in today's society. Too much going in the US.

[@BucWilliamsMrEOS]

Miss Natural you are the truth. Do your thing mama. Everything you said is correct. I appreciate you!

[@CommonSense1714]

Yall need to add her to the squad frfr

[@eltonjohn4239]

Why?

[@CommonSense1714]

@@eltonjohn4239 what u mean y....did u not hear her?

[@Laoriginal718]

@@CommonSense1714 also men need there own spaces. A woman doesn’t have to always be involved. I like the fact that the platform is ran by men and men only. Us women have our own spaces.

[@Achilles645]

@@Laoriginal718 If you come back on the show with them you should definitely talk to the guys about incels and have a conversation about violence against women. Maybe even bring one of those in sale guys on the show that will probably be very interesting.

[@edbabine]

@@CommonSense1714 Honorable guest for sure Member no. Guys need their space too. How many platform there is for women only. TV, Magazine social media plenty of that. Guys need places to talk about serious issues and show example to younger guy or guy in general without always presence of women. We all know that when a woman is in the room Guys tend to naturally cuddle women for fear of backlash etc... That brotherhood in the locker-rom is not enough.

[@kcizzlewilson1260]

Taja was refreshing. To hear a woman with accountability and keeping it real 🔥

[@jabariclowers7851]

Keep baby on the show I love her 💯💯

[@maximadeofficial]

Taja made me subscribe 😍 she's too intelligent

[@yrrek1983]

38:09 This is why I don't feel sorry for young women who get played, because if the roles were reversed they would play victim if . Only the one on the left uses moral judgment.

[@tdmagichands]

Yooooooooooo! Taja's accountability, honesty and maturity is so refreshing. Did anyone else notice how those qualities started to rub off on the other women? Specifically the one in the tank top

[@lilshayin]

I can't wait to see taja on the next live she is solid af

[@Laoriginal718]

❤😇🙏🏾

[@lencurt9235]

Yo you guys helped me a lot thanks

[@plymakkayestudio1827]

Lady in the white shirt is a winner.. she needs to come back to the show

[@kgwash33rd65]

My daughter name is Taejsha and this Taja on this show is on point. Facts with no feelings involved. I love this chicks responses..

[@waltersmith8125]

This such a good episode to us cause never in history we seen a woman take accountability

[@sefakesici1105]

Hi everyone! Am extremely excited and feel blessed to click on this video. I know it super long, but so far....am loving every single second about it. I always wanted to do something in the IT filed, but with my busy schedule...I was always contemplating on where do I start, what am I going to focus my studies on and how difficult will it be for me with no IT background? However, watching this video have answered to all the questions. Thanks for taking your time to put this together for people like me to catch a my cheating BF *usespy online.*

[@chaching6072]

Bring her back ! Home girl got 💎 gems

[@vzbeatz1706]

Great show!!

[@islandpunch9465]

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Shout-out to the woman in the white (taja is her name?) Sorry if I butchered it. But I agree with her throughout the whole show, as a married woman, I appreciate her message. The two young girls were open and not defensive, they listened, asked questions. I like this!!!! I like this whole vibe. You got a subby!

[@79frankwhite]

Ol girl in the white know more about this subject than everybody in the room. I'm loving her bring her back it would definitely be better for the show. The women are more willing to listen to her.

[@Laoriginal718]

Thank you for the love but I don’t think women are more open to listening to me. I’m waiting to get dragged and called a “pick me” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@thrilla72]

@@Laoriginal718 Oh is this your channel? Let me subscribe

[@flatbush9117]

no but constant use of “bitches” and “niggas” is unattractive and ghetto

[@Mr4Pz]

fire convo fr

[@BossRossTube]

She is a breath of fresh air Honesty Beautiful

[@ToSense]

Loved this convo

[@connmoney6109]

People can grow on you. Sometimes you grow pass shallow shit, looking for deep connection. Beauty fades. I want a responsible female, that I know will be a great mother, and if something happened to me she wouldn't put a ninja over my kids. Plus I want to be stimulated by more than just looks. I need the perfect combination of brains and beauty

[@kevinkitoko1438]

11:50 facts she speking only facts protect this sisters ❤️❤️🙏🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿