Finally a black man who can tell the truth and keep it real about the discrimination going on in the black race against black women from black men.
@Mptappin122 ай бұрын
Yeah, but that’s not the full side of the story. At least in my experience 😂 the dark skin women never wanted me
@divinemessenger203010 ай бұрын
I dated a dark-skinned man and one day we were talking and he was saying how he’s glad I’m light-skinned. I questioned him on it which led to an argument and needless to say we broke up shortly after that. I’ll never be with a self-hating black man. I’ll never be a man’s “prize” just because of my skin complexion either. I guess he thought I would be happy over his statements but I was straight up disgusted. 😭
@Nikkychosen19 ай бұрын
The self hate is in both dark skin men and light skin women. The most allot of you light skin women date dark skin men because you all wish u were darker that is why u got offended when he mentioned you being light skin u are light skin and that was why he wanted to be with u
@Alexandria.Washington11 ай бұрын
Black men Who taught you to hate yourselves? ~ Malcolm X
@emorytraylor2 жыл бұрын
Im a lightskin man and i get bashed alot from darkskin men.
@Solitude6332 жыл бұрын
What they be saying?
@Ejejesksjs2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for y’all. Why do they bash darker woman and lighter men?
@emorytraylor2 жыл бұрын
@@Ejejesksjs well for lightskin men we are viewed as weak while darkskin women are seen as masculine.
@thatshot8 Жыл бұрын
@@emorytraylor ...when these dark skinned men are getting ran through on the low, the irony.
@keepingitreal532210 ай бұрын
My uncle went through that. And my husband. We have to remember we were separated in slavery. We have to remember we are beautiful of all shades. We don't need white approval of that.
@tristanroyal377 Жыл бұрын
I'm a light skin black man I love my dark sistas
@Truthbetold19909 ай бұрын
They don’t love yo mf ass
@Janiah_isthatgurlАй бұрын
Not me
@ChiquitaMia-ci2vg10 ай бұрын
lol I’m Jamerican and I will say American colorism has nothing on Jamaican colorism.
@CarlNicholson-j6d15 күн бұрын
Jamaican worst
@muhammad-bin-american6 күн бұрын
Funny! Come to Africa and see how bad it is over here.
@Alexis19251 Жыл бұрын
We're not bitter, we're hurt, tired, disappointed and in need of a soft place to land. Great video tho. Many dark skin men need to heal and decolonize their minds.
@Monicaj6292 жыл бұрын
I love lightskin/mixed men they’re just sexier in my opinion…
@Monicaj6292 жыл бұрын
@Horizontal when it comes to the men HELL YEA IT DO LOL!!!
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
At least you are honest. You look like the girls I grew up around who were dark and loved the Mulattoes. I don't know about this supposed looooove of dark skinned men. That was only when gangsta rap was hitting
@melvonjohnson57114 ай бұрын
Hell, yeah--they also look more approachable than darker skin men.
@hey-br6lo4 ай бұрын
Cause ur dark skin and want lighter kids
@TurnSene2 ай бұрын
What about darkskin mixed-race men?
@rahzikashiharris95392 жыл бұрын
JAY LOVE I SEE YOU ARE BACK ON YO SHIT, MUCH LOVE BRO, I BEEN LISTENING SINCE 2008 OR SOME SHIT
@reebrooks96962 жыл бұрын
Back in the day every black female wanted a Lightskin men I remember that even in school a darkskin men would get clowned every black females wanted a Chris brown now the tables have turned
@Solitude6332 жыл бұрын
Because Chocolate thunder is back 🍫 ⚡
@Ejejesksjs2 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy because now black woman are being bashed, shamed, and stereotyped on every single social media platform. We just have to do better as a community.
@jamilljones2264 Жыл бұрын
Dat was jus a fling. Dey never took us serious like dey do wit dsm
@Alexandrias.Washington Жыл бұрын
I only prefer light-skinned men and I’m fairly light myself. I feel most dark skinned Black men are EVIL! They really hate their dark skin color and are the biggest colorists like Kanye, Kevin Hart, Neo, etc. My son is extremely light-skin.
@psionicpowers132 Жыл бұрын
Tables are not turning against dark skin women, we are actually ascending spiritually in this Aquarius age, while black men devolve like Yakub who grafted these pale race. Remember without us, u can not be created nor exist.
@diasporaman54197 ай бұрын
So true brotha!!!!!Many brothas need help mentally…but don’t forget the programming like, “ Don’t marry too dark we want light skin babies “ said by many black mothers till this day !!🔥
@Mr_Nigeria1002 жыл бұрын
Another thing about BW’s looks is that they don’t age as quickly as WW. This is not merely a question of wrinkles as even WW without wrinkles look older than comparable BW. It’s about their facial features. The softness of their features makes their faces more “plump”. It is the loss of “plumpness” in the face, which is associated with youth, that makes a face look older. Because young WW often begin with hard features, they are already older-looking to begin with and therefore age that much more rapidly. BW will often look like a teenager into their 30s. Also the science of beauty has nothing to do with whether your features are broad or narrow. The symmetry of your face is how close you are to phi, period. You can have the widest nose/lips on the face of the earth and as long as the portions on your face are symmetrical, you would be relatively close to phi and still beautiful. Great video Jay. Great to see a brother give some balance because this "redbone" "white women" worship is outta control to the max and these are young cats doing this. And this is no hate towards white women. I do think some white women are attractive. Beauty is beauty but they're very-very over-rated and their beauty is enhanced by social conditioning. Sorry for long post.
@philtoner262110 ай бұрын
I'd rather look older than have big wide features and sheep's wool nappy hair any day 🤢🤮🐑
@SharayaMW2 жыл бұрын
I'm just a little surprised that it's taken YT this long to recommend a video from your channel because this is the type of content that I watch, fa sho! Yes, curvaceous is a word, but unfortunately, not all of us (black women) are born that way. That aside, I do appreciate the conversation from your perspective. You, brotha, ask 4 of the hardest hitting questions that I've heard anyone on the platform ask of black men and I'd love to hear some answers to: do y'all think white men are more attractive than you? Do y'all think that their daughters are more attractive than your daughters? Do y'all think that their mothers are more attractive than your mothers? Do y'all think that your white male counterparts produce better looking women than you produce? I'll wait. Shoutout to you, Sir!
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
They want the body but not the face and hair
@rayclarenc2 жыл бұрын
I love how you breaking this down you see the image and reflection of your mother or like family tree or something I love the so-called woman of Color that resembles me and I always say that if I have children I want my kids to look like me in my woman that I’m dating i’m not attracted to no other woman but black women colored women women of color I always said I don’t want nothing that looks far from the original woman of color black woman
@BoooHooo2 жыл бұрын
Stop saying black when you clearly mean light skin or light brown women.
@letashaphillips58832 жыл бұрын
Jay you BETTA tell the truth 🖐️
@keishabrown6817 ай бұрын
It’s not just the young guys It’s men way over 50 also
@TheLifestyleHooper10 ай бұрын
I’ve been attracted to dark skinned black women my entire life so I’m new to this convo
@ylive1922 жыл бұрын
Africans can tell what tribe a black American comes from by looking at your facial features
@Solitude6332 жыл бұрын
They can tell what tribe I'm from, people f*** it up all the time
@mpoohda94742 жыл бұрын
So
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
Are you African?
@shaytaylormade52442 жыл бұрын
I love this video This is a much needed discussion
@supersaturn9562 жыл бұрын
Hey Jay, have you ever heard of the backhand compliment some Black men especially DSBM say that a woman is "cute for a darkskinned woman" or even saying the female is "too dark?" I have heard this numerous times, and I don't get why men even overanalyze each other's complexion, hair texture, and facial features like that within "The Black Community" makes no sense at all.
@JAYLOVE472 жыл бұрын
Yes it means that you're cute for a person with ugly features aka dark skin!
@supersaturn9562 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 Do you remember the actress Camille Winbush from the Bernie Mac Show back in the day? I always thought that she was nice looking, but other Black men would disagree with my notion and saying that she was too dark or she was just ok (probably hinting about her complexion) You can look her up, if you don't know who I am talking about; she is grown now, but played Vanessa on the show.
@principalitycidade43232 жыл бұрын
@@supersaturn956 i heard she got fans only
@hiddenbeauty2828 Жыл бұрын
Yes. I have gotten that compliment before.
@margaretgabriel99512 ай бұрын
I just came across your channel and I agree with everything u say. You make a lot of sense. They behave the same in Europe.
@justinquiah8058 Жыл бұрын
I'm a Light Skinned Man and I find Light Skinned Women Attractive. I wished Dark Skinned Men found Dark Skinned Women Attractive. I never bashed my hue counterparts.
@JAYLOVE47 Жыл бұрын
All black women are your counterparts
@justinquiah8058 Жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 Nah.
@thatshot8 Жыл бұрын
@@justinquiah8058 ..nor are the men.
@justinquiah8058 Жыл бұрын
@@thatshot8 What do you mean?
@thatshot8 Жыл бұрын
@@justinquiah8058 ..."Too dark a hue makes a coward." -Aristotle
@ylive1922 жыл бұрын
In the state's Creole is a family with different shades. But in Africa we all have different shades. But we all still black
@keystastanciel-tx3jl5 ай бұрын
One black woman saw my dad years ago and she knew he was mixed too she said it good my parents stayed in their race too though.
@brotherted92122 жыл бұрын
I think this is very wise. The only different thing I’d say is that we should all reject obesity as unattractive.
@superduperfanman27618 ай бұрын
Ppl are naturally curvy and some are naturally thin and then there’s actual obesity which is like my 600 lb life obesity and if you’re trying to say all black women look like that you’re wrong not everybody has to like thin white women
@benh64522 ай бұрын
I like my fat bottomed girls
@leestell166010 ай бұрын
I. LOVE. LIGHT. SKIN. FORVER 1,0000❤
@PsychicMedium47472 жыл бұрын
You mean mixed race women like Alecia keys, Halle Barry etc…
@a.k.williams97752 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your honesty.
@keystastanciel-tx3jl5 ай бұрын
I am light skinned and my dad is mixed and my mother is brown skinned but myself I want a brown skin woman with black features. Most women I talked to over the years were white though I only remember going on a date with a black woman once she was brown skin but I wasn't interested in her I met her off a chatline though. But it all depends on what you interested in. But most people I see where I live in my neighborhood are white people. I live in a white neighborhood. Most my friends ended up with white women one is brown skinned and the other is dark skin. But myself I rather end up with a black woman though.
@shaytaylormade52442 жыл бұрын
Facts but they ain’t ready for this video tho uhoh they going to call u a simp for this
@PsychicMedium47472 жыл бұрын
When you got on your knees like a dog…I died 😝
@puppetsandpeople17 күн бұрын
Preach!
@Free_Snooki2 жыл бұрын
I'll never bleach or anything, but it does however make me sometimes not want to be gay anymore b/c you can tell many gay dudes don't like us immediately b/c of our complexion.
@pyscez932 жыл бұрын
Lol it’s not a gay thing it’s a BLACK thing
@dionneking82 жыл бұрын
thank you we need healing tooo black men have not been healed
@PsychicMedium47472 жыл бұрын
Omg I am lol soooooo hard…damn you are funny as hell.
@ylive1922 жыл бұрын
Paper cut thin lips 🤣
@Cocoarunway2 жыл бұрын
Right! Kitchen counter asses 🤣
@horatio63137 ай бұрын
Black people really need to understand WS.
@TravisTheMobileBarber Жыл бұрын
Where does these Black women reside/linger at?In my personal experience: Dark skin women prefer a black man who is/has a lighter complexion than their own.
@Nikkychosen19 ай бұрын
The majority of us dont that is a small percentage
@brianfreckles85422 күн бұрын
@@Nikkychosen1 very true- please pay no attention to my wedding pic- my wife is the .0001% that do😅😅😅
@NN-jd5ul Жыл бұрын
Over the years Serena Williams has been gradually lightening her skin, look at her as a child and look at her now it's so obvious.
@JAYLOVE47 Жыл бұрын
It's just makeup
@NN-jd5ul5 ай бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 At this point she's lightend her skin sooo much she'll soon be looking biracial
@trinitypaulson824211 ай бұрын
Fantastic video. You made great points!
@elite49169 ай бұрын
Yo great video keep preaching
@RobinetteWortham9 ай бұрын
Black. Is. Beautiful. Love it. Or. Leave. It.
@muhammad-bin-american6 күн бұрын
I struggle to find a good human being.
@8thWonderr12 жыл бұрын
I think its a combination of things. Societal conditioning or just opposites attracting. Light skin men and women tend to go for dark skin while dark skin women and men tend to go for light skin. Honestly speaking I think the contrast is beautiful and interesting. Furthermore small, delicate facial features are associated with femininity and broad, fuller features are associated with masculinity. All in all this world is full of preferences which is gonna put some whom have certain attributes and characteristics over others. Right or wrong it is what it is.
@JAYLOVE472 жыл бұрын
Yeah well why don't white people think this way about black people especially white men when it comes to black women? 🤔 And as I stated in this video that's stupid because Afrocentric features are not masculine Kelly Rowland is masculine? 🤦🏾♂️ She has Afrocentric features! Are white men feminine because they have eurocentric features? 😂😂 Like I believe there is a feminine and masculine version of Afrocentric features and the same with eurocentric features
@craiganbrooks14852 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 Great question.💯
@8thWonderr12 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 White men are looked at as less masculine than Black men. The only reason they are considered the most desired is because of there socio-economic status in society. For instance, the ideal male is described as being Tall, Dark and handsome...does that sound like a European man 👨 lol Furthermore, If the ideal man is described as Tall, dark and handsome wouldn't the ideal woman be the complete opposite of that...just a little food for thought. Love your channel by the way. Very intelligent and insightful.
@shinelil12 жыл бұрын
@@reginakc spot on
@JaysinSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
@@8thWonderr1 the term “tall, dark, and handsome” doesn’t refer to bm. It’s a phrase that pertains to WM with dark hair……
@Still_I_Ride2 жыл бұрын
Preachin
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
Nat Turner was yellow
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
But I get your point
@trinitypaulson824211 ай бұрын
He was talking about his African facial features.
@Rogan20511 ай бұрын
What majority of Black Women Darkest of Dark to Lightest of Light wear straightened hair? ..........A huge majority.
@MissAmeriNegro5 ай бұрын
I hate the term “Eurocentric” features because we are Aborigine. We are the original people. Big features do not equate to just “Afrocentric”. All features big and small are original to us because we are the Aborigine. And all melanated people are not from Africa.
@craiganbrooks14852 жыл бұрын
I really hate the way that things are Jay. I don't like for black women to try to look like white women with all that fake weave and stuff. I'd like for black women to be natural and wear their natural hair they are beautiful to me they just got an attitude problem most of them do anyway.
@ReignSupreme69 Жыл бұрын
I LOVED THE VIDEO ❤
@nathaliesuazo5882 жыл бұрын
I agree. Great video Jay.
@user-msjazzy Жыл бұрын
💯
@ny3papi3 ай бұрын
You can’t bashed brothers for liking what they like, attraction is primal, just like you can’t bashed sisters for not being attracted to shorter men
@zena71092 жыл бұрын
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@princessk71575 ай бұрын
❤
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
I'm brown skinned why am I watching this.
@PsychicMedium47472 жыл бұрын
Lmfao 😂
@rayclarenc2 жыл бұрын
I meant to say the dark race came out of ham that’s the youngest son of Noah and the so-called blacks Hispanics and Navy to American people came out of Abraham Isaac and Jacob according to the Bible shim would be the Hebrew race Genesis chapter 9 verse 26 that’s the race that the Bible calls the Israelites the chosen people of God came out of shim The dark race came out of the youngest son of Noah which would be ham that’s the same race that the Ethiopians come out of Ethiopians African Canaanites are all the same people that was enemies to the Hebrew Israelites the Bible is a history book not a religious book The dark race sold the Semitic into slavery if you want some extra information on it i’ll be more than happy to give you the information
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
What are you talking about? The dude in the video is dark skinned
@supersaturn9562 жыл бұрын
Hey Jay, out of curiosity is your dad lighter than your mom like brownskinned or lightskinned? I've known guys like yourself that have a brown or lightskinned dad with a darkskinned mom or vice versa. I have seen women around your mom's complexion with men Ice-T's complexion or lighter. Our genes skip and are randomly assigned. Two darkskinned people can produce a lightskinned baby and vice versa.
@JAYLOVE472 жыл бұрын
No my mother is very chocolate like me and my dad was Lebron James complexion.
@patricksimmons7312 жыл бұрын
You sound kinda freaky talkin bout "we look for our mother features in other women". I personally don't look at my mother in that way. If anything, when Im being intimate, I want someone who don't remind me of my mother at all.
@JAYLOVE472 жыл бұрын
You're apparently too dumb to understand the point that was being made so don't worry just ignore it. Some people are just too dumb and thick-skulled to indulge in certain discussions
@craiganbrooks14852 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 😭
@KNichelle2 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 😂 keep it funky up in here.😂
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
Subconscious means it's not in the front of your mind
@benh64522 ай бұрын
Yup. Read some psych sometime damn. Your upbringing affects your sub conscious heavily
@WinstonLorde2 жыл бұрын
So what. People have their preferences. And that's not any of your business.
@JAYLOVE472 жыл бұрын
It don't need to be my business to talk about it and anything involving or pertaining to my people is my business. Look like we have a self hater here. You be dating those big old blimp shaped white women?
@craiganbrooks14852 жыл бұрын
🤔
@KNichelle2 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 I just love how someone is going to tell you “it’s none of your business “ on YOUR platform! Wow the ignorance is REAL.😮
@JAYLOVE472 жыл бұрын
@@KNichelle Petty childish dumbass response... what I said applies to him which is why he said that dumb shit.
@KNichelle2 жыл бұрын
@@JAYLOVE47 👍🏾
@kevinhewitt50778 ай бұрын
This dude so stuck on color like they usually are.
@officialnamerartist84457 ай бұрын
It’s his whole identity.
@tonydecentblackman13272 жыл бұрын
More complete nonsense. Firstly, tell me a black male celebrity with a wide nose who black women regard as handsome; there are none. It's pretty clear who we as a group regard as attractive. Tika Sumpter is beautiful anywhere in the world. We made 'booty' part of the standard but have not come up with a different standard. Secondly, what you say is a lot of nonsense unless you provide links to black women who you think is beautiful.
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
Don't they like Morris Chestnut? To be honest I don't know who is supposed to be the hot Black actor right now. I can only go by what was cracking when I was young. Bobby Brown? Keith Sweat, KC and Jojo. R Kelly. Wesley Snipes. Those are some of the men I remember BW liked. But to be fair they may have liked other things to about them
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
Its not complete nonsense because dark skinned Black men don't have a pet name for dark skinned women who look like homeboy in the videos sister. Is any dark skinned rapper with a dark skinned chick?
@maazi.naaniya9158 Жыл бұрын
Jeezy ? No Gucci! No Other celebrities? Tyrese Gibson No Ray Jay No Eddie Murphy No Denzel Washington Yes Don Cheadle? No It's hard to find a Black man who is famous and not a couple shades lighter Bill Cosby No Dave Chappelle No
@tonydecentblackman1327 Жыл бұрын
Don Cheadle, Eddie Murphy, Dave Chappelle are heartthrobs for black women? Since when? Point me to a black actor who black women regard as handsome and who has a wide nose. Go.
@Alexandria.Washington11 ай бұрын
@@maazi.naaniya9158Michael Jordan? No
@jesflow97215 ай бұрын
😂 you guys got some issues man😂
@ShatterR-il6yz2 ай бұрын
So true these rappers do scream they like lightskin and white women true