Darkside Of Cancer Man In Relationships

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KeraTheLoveCoach

KeraTheLoveCoach

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@thesun_isalive8299
@thesun_isalive8299 2 жыл бұрын
im a cancer man and im watching these vids in order to work on myself.
@HKashaf
@HKashaf Жыл бұрын
Bro, you just need to find an emotionally stable women, who doesn't mind being a women unlike most modern women who are competing with while in a relationship with you. Let me guess a few things about you without knowing who you are: Family is super important to you. You struggle with casual sex, You are over the top emotional but you hide it all the time. You need a stable environment to direct that emotion. Infidelity is a no go, trust is paramount. Career is important. Bottom line there is nothing wrong with you. Vetting women is hard and finding a high quality women is even harder. Just in case you are wondering: Friendly, feminine, fit, faithful. Bring peace to your life, non combative and she always working on yourself. As a cancer you will have a tendency to look back from time to see where you guys are and if only person is moving forward you will fall into depression. Also, you are only responsible for your emotions and she is responsible for hers. I would focus on water signs and air signs, maybe earth signs but definitely not fire signs. Best of luck.
@Thewhitepanther111
@Thewhitepanther111 Жыл бұрын
@@HKashafdefinitely not air signs. We are compatible with earth and water… I’ve dated enough air to know they are all talk no action.
@samanthajohnson5661
@samanthajohnson5661 4 жыл бұрын
I'm with a cancer man and what you're saying is true. He is very manipulative and selfish. He enjoys calling me out but let me go the same ooooh boy then it's trouble. He demands attention and fuck my needs. He takes me no where but claims to be affectionate. When dating a cancer man ladies prepare yourself to feel lonely in the relationship. Oh and friends mean a lot to him he'll break his back for them.
@Suedetussy
@Suedetussy 4 жыл бұрын
I think this has nothing to do with cancer man, but toxic man. I‘m with a cancer man, and he is the sweetest guy ever. On the outside strong, but with me soft, gentle and very cuddly. He understands me without words and takes care that my needs are fulfilled, even before i know what they are. He helps me a lot with the household. He can be a bit manipulative, but only in harmless matters. If it is real serious stuff, he puts everything on the table. I‘m sorry that you got such a bad version of cancer. I hope you can find a solution.
@diouranke
@diouranke 3 жыл бұрын
And when You finally decide to move on he will probably be vindictive and stalkerish, I had to let one go and it was not easy, manipulative, overly sensitive and self esteem in the toilet, clinging to the past, usually a drinking or drug problem too. They r capable of violence Be safe
@yinc2535
@yinc2535 3 жыл бұрын
So true..selfish n manipulating ass###e
@niecyh2313
@niecyh2313 2 жыл бұрын
@@Suedetussy I like a cancer man he’s just like what she said
@agenth2155
@agenth2155 2 жыл бұрын
WoW, everything you said is what my Cancer man is doing. I found out last week he has been cheating on me. As soon as my things are in order he's getting him marching papers. The sooner the better. I can't wait to get rid of him!
@RachelALewis
@RachelALewis 5 жыл бұрын
I was married to a cancer man. Im a Gemini woman. I was so happy, upbeat & positive until I met him after a year of being with this dark sided cancer man I ended up extremely sick & in the hospital for 2 weeks at risk of a heart attack. Ive been staying with my mom for 2 months. I am finally getting better physically, mentally, & spiritually thanks to the compassion & love from my family. Im still emotionally recovering from a broken heart. He really did me in. Almost killed from his ability to send me on my own emotional roller coaster. Im very empathic so Ive learned that I have to be alot more careful who I chose to be im a relationship with. We all gotta be more discerning. Thank you for this video. Its sooo true!
@shellyhunt4910
@shellyhunt4910 5 жыл бұрын
Wow sorry u had to go through that
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you got out from under him. Cancer men are a mess!
@haniifahrihhadatulaisy4421
@haniifahrihhadatulaisy4421 4 жыл бұрын
We are so sorry to hear that...
@jenebabaun7797
@jenebabaun7797 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm a gemini with a cancer man ...now I'm scared lol.Glad you're doing ok. I'll keep my eyes and EMO on alert lol
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that but there’s one thing I wanna say, it’s probably less about him being a cancer and more if him being a man and abusing cancers power to read people and stuff.
@SharronHaimour-ko6jl
@SharronHaimour-ko6jl 5 жыл бұрын
Here's the thing. If a Cancer is not evolved, you will see the darker aspects of their personality. I am a Cancer and I would not date or be involved with a Cancer man, as I have not met one that was . She stated all of the traits that you would likely see in a a Cancer man that is not aware or has evolved enough to behave differently. My brother is a Cancer and mean as a yard dog !
@terrycroker7815
@terrycroker7815 5 жыл бұрын
Very ! True !
@TFP-79
@TFP-79 5 жыл бұрын
I agree
@caramelkimmiekim8272
@caramelkimmiekim8272 4 жыл бұрын
Every ♋👫 i know is very jealous hearted and spiteful
@caramelkimmiekim8272
@caramelkimmiekim8272 4 жыл бұрын
@@7star7storm7 true🤣
@dennisfordii9737
@dennisfordii9737 3 жыл бұрын
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 - Seems to me all of us, human beings , are capable of hate and love , kindness and bitterness, jealousy and understanding ? We choose our responses . We choose our reactions. We choose how life affects us , how others affect us. I believe each one of us writes the story ...the story of our life . I cant control anything but me .
@tibrianawilliams8988
@tibrianawilliams8988 6 жыл бұрын
Swear the cancer male I delt with basically pretended with me the whole time... He would always say the right words to bring me back in. I couldn't help it either.. His personality & appearance were everything. However, he would play mind games with me, not keep his word, and never spent time with me. Finally I just let go.
@spicypisces2122
@spicypisces2122 6 жыл бұрын
yeah.. that's true.. my cancerian also is very busy at work and I almost need to beg him to spend me his time even just once a week..
@kellyd220
@kellyd220 6 жыл бұрын
Same.. I'm a pisces so I feel like me and my cancer ex had a connection. Like you said personality and appearance were everything! And he knew just what to say to draw me back in. He was very manipulating always playing mind games just to put me to the test I would fail the test on purpose because I could no longer deal with the emotional roller coaster! I loved him but I loved myself too so I let him go, it was hard to move on but he was too draining. And when she said bring up another man and you'll see his insecurities come out.. So true! I saw a Spanish singer on TV and I said "damn he's so sexy" and boom! I got popped in the mouth lol never again!! Cancers are too wishy washy for me
@sugafoot820
@sugafoot820 6 жыл бұрын
@@kellyd220 pisces is about the only sign that can stick to a cancer he should be lucky you did not become him
@leilo4252
@leilo4252 6 жыл бұрын
Are they all narcissistic? It's so sad. I've been married to a cancer for 22 years. It's been a painful struggle. He's 43yrs now and finally "growing up". He's so sensitive, but so "Scared" to be hurt. ...he hides behind his Insecure Ego, that's mistaken for Confidence"! He's so Vulnerable and pretends he doesn't care about "What Others Think" about him, but he really does! It's why he's Scared to Stand Up to anyone other than Me! 💔
@ladyjaz6817
@ladyjaz6817 6 жыл бұрын
All I do with mine is act the same exact way he does. I give him the same energy he gives me.....he always comes running right back.🤷🏽‍♀️😎🤣
@TheVandalboys
@TheVandalboys 5 жыл бұрын
I am a Cancer and I’ve heard these traits over the years and I guess I’m happy I haven’t been this dark..
@f.l.y.l.a.6025
@f.l.y.l.a.6025 Жыл бұрын
Mine disappears that sh@t is annoying AF. Leaves work saying im on my way...NOT! That was Friday. It's now Monday... morning now, he's texting like nothing has happened FOH
@TianaThompson90s
@TianaThompson90s 10 ай бұрын
Leave him my love
@jacobpeacock1653
@jacobpeacock1653 5 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a dark side. It’s not just the sign. It’s the person
@jassw1692
@jassw1692 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like an in denial cancer to me
@patricescott6364
@patricescott6364 3 жыл бұрын
I met a cancer man..charming..red flag #1 (lies)..he apologize..3 days after we was together-he goes silent*again*..then lies/red flag#2..I was done..his belongings at my home was trashed..he knows this, still texting me while I'm being silent.. hopefully he is moving on.
@ProjectHelpHealChase
@ProjectHelpHealChase 3 ай бұрын
A Cancer man was my greatest love and my biggest heartbreak. We loved deeply but fought harder. He made me feel so good but so bad. He knows all my buttons to push and some I never knew I had. Moody af but critical of your every move. Accuse you of everything they are actually doing. Cancer men like praise and admiration . They can be very sneaky with the side chicks and not think texting and calling others and more is cheating for him, but anything small and innocent is betrayal 0:07 and thrown in your face repeatedly. They do not take responsibility of accountability for their crappy behavior and will blame you for absolutely everything. They do not like being called out on anything. They have a reputation they show everyone and will keep it up by making you the villain. He was my twin flame, and my worst enemy. I still love him. But I hate him. They will blame switch and manipulate so they don’t have to answer to their lies. I wonder if “I love you” was also a lie because they can look in your eyes and lie and they are believable. Even if you have evidence, they’ll convince you that it never happened and it’s somehow your fault. I miss him but I’m glad he’s gone. He really screwed me up. I was there during his darkest times. But he left me because I demanded he tell the truth when I know he was lying. I “wouldn’t give him peace” so out the door he went to the girls he had on his back up plan. Just like that. Gone. My fault. I’m left with a confusion that goes deep into my soul. Deep connection and easy to love. Hard to hear those words that they can never take back, and hard to trust.
@alexnightray3204
@alexnightray3204 2 ай бұрын
It sounds like the "greatest love", "twin" flame", "I love him", "I miss him" are the parts that he wants you to see and feel, and whatever comes immediately after those descriptions are the reality of your experiences with him. I'm sorry that you went through this and I hope that you can heal and put up stronger emotional barriers in future relationships.
@alexnightray3204
@alexnightray3204 Ай бұрын
Like the saying goes: "If it's too good to be true, it probably is."
@lisacharles4923
@lisacharles4923 5 жыл бұрын
OMG. You just nailed my relationship with my Ex... it was like you were documenting my relationship. If your cancer is like this run.. it can become scary! You are by FAR my favorite astrology KZbinr👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@Alia-jn8ki
@Alia-jn8ki Жыл бұрын
Why is it soo accurate. I wanna cry. I accidentally fell in love with a cancer man😭
@balle-roblox
@balle-roblox Жыл бұрын
Sucks to be you hun.
@kyriellehenry2816
@kyriellehenry2816 Жыл бұрын
Same
@rslily
@rslily 4 жыл бұрын
I dated 5 cancer men and almost dated another... NO. THANKS NEVER AGAIN
@thiccredgyal3404
@thiccredgyal3404 4 жыл бұрын
They act like women when they are dark sided
@TheCrystallineLeoness
@TheCrystallineLeoness 6 жыл бұрын
i am a leo woman. i have a natural attraction to cancer men. they have come in and out of my life more so than any other sign. i find myself in the claws of a cancer male just now. it has been a rollercoaster for the past year with him... he truly has me under his spell.. he is so handsome, strong, romantic... but at the same time, he is controlling my life. part of me feels good to feel looked after, but the other part of me feels restricted, suppressed, tied down. i fell in love with him so quickly, and before i knew it BAM a relationship formed... and he has such a discreet and clever way of manipulating my whole mind against my will for freedom. UPDATE: he now proposed and we're having a baby together lmao!
@kemajlemerllahu1570
@kemajlemerllahu1570 6 жыл бұрын
We are mysterious changeable and handsome just like Moon 🌙
@TheCrystallineLeoness
@TheCrystallineLeoness 6 жыл бұрын
@@kemajlemerllahu1570 handsome absolutely 👏👌
@kemajlemerllahu1570
@kemajlemerllahu1570 6 жыл бұрын
@@TheCrystallineLeoness I know that we are handsome especially when comes night 🌙 but we are so moody and pessimistic suspicious to stay with cheerful positive Happy Leo is not good compatibility just like ☀️ and 🌙
@khadijaraks1594
@khadijaraks1594 6 жыл бұрын
Katrianna Mandala ohhhh tell me more ... I am a Leo myself...
@yessicaortiz3404
@yessicaortiz3404 6 жыл бұрын
Omg I completely understand you same with me I have a attraction with a cancer and I'm Aries he's been in and out of my life and it's been going on for 3 years but lately he's been sticking around more I guess I'll be in a relationship before I know it lmao 🤣🤣
@ElizabethSotiria
@ElizabethSotiria 6 жыл бұрын
Bruh... the part how you said “suddenly you find yourself in a relationship”. 💯 DEAD ASS Super sweet only as long as he feels he is in control of everythingggggg, including you! He has a god complex. He likes to make it known he’s the best you ever had and will ever have, that he makes you better and that you’re going to loved by him forever..so count yourself “lucky”. Some loonetunes shit. His up & downs are extreme. He needs to be right and HATES being told the truth about himself, don’t you dare call him out! He will lose his damn mind. Moody like the moon phases, the moon child that lives in the dark side we can’t see - and just like the moon there’s always a side you won’t see, it remains in the dark. I thought Gemini’s were the devil, but at least their reputation precedes them..and once you’ve been burnt by a Gemini you steer clear of all those narcissistic ♊️ F**k Boys (which is why they are literally the most hated zodiac 😂 lol. You won’t get it until you fall in love with one. Then you will be very much on the stay the F away from me club with the rest of us).. But cancers, they’re the most loved sign. The big old softies. The ones with the huge hearts of gold. Right? So why the hell doesn’t anyone talk about their crazy?! I’m so mad. I am emotionally & mentally exhausted by my long time cancer presence, he’s been pushing and waiting in the shadows so patiently for his chance to make me “his”.. But I am an Aquarius and a human lie & bs detector so we bump heads when I call him out. I remain calm, almost playful with it - because it’s usually over very dumb shit he lies about (unlike the Gemini who lies about everything important and ruins your whole life. Sorry, I triggered myself lol. PTSD with that shit) but he loses his damn mind! Acts like a whole child, even though he’s over a decade my senior (damn near two decades tbh!), and throws a tantrum - starts attacking my character out of left field, gets disproportionately angered, hangs up the phone, storms out... its a whole looney tunes song and dance with a dramatic finale. It’s INSANE. And his tongue is sharp 🐍 it’s venomous, he will be cruel for no reason..he will even make up shit just to hurt you and assassinate your whole character. Me, I just go silent, he does actually hurt my feelings but he also kind off turns me off.. even scares me a bit. And he does exactly what you said, just waits patiently. He will start sending sweet messages, act like he’s concerned or worried, the endless phone calls start.. and you almost give in because he wares you down and he smothers you with that overly sweet shit that you end up feeling like the jerk for ignoring him. Has me questioning my own judgment, I don’t know if I’m completely wrong or right about him!? He’s a good guy, great family... but he’s also a jerk. I know he loves me ALOT, but he also acts like I’m his property so... WTF. I NEED A BREAK FROM HIS CRAZY. This video was soooooo on point & very much appreciated, thank you !! 🙏🏼 😘
@ElizabethSotiria
@ElizabethSotiria 6 жыл бұрын
prettybelle25 💯 Oh I’m glad u can relate girl!! Like I feel like they borderline psychotic.. 👀 Run and never look back lol. These undercover “nice guys” need to be exposed 😂
@kemajlemerllahu1570
@kemajlemerllahu1570 6 жыл бұрын
@@ElizabethSotiria we are mysterious secretive moody and handsome just like Moon 🌙
@uptownksuckaz1873
@uptownksuckaz1873 6 жыл бұрын
That's a lot of girls problems. Why are you tryna be in a relationship with somebody yo mama age? Is it the money, maturity or insecurity?
@memesangmasartwork7447
@memesangmasartwork7447 5 жыл бұрын
Most signs cannot understand cancer we r mostly misunderstood I'm a cancer n I know why people don't understand us what I do is always wrong n what others do the same thing is right Cancers r never praised for their good works but if we do a little bit of something wrong it's a chaos for everybody We r mostly praised only for our good looks n our silence n well mannered cos of that ...people look down on us First of all me my dad n my mom is cancer n we all think that people r all good but those assholes usually ruins our believes that had turned us into monsters so dont turned Cancers to monster we r innocent when we r more inside our home.... its better to stay inside rather than see the cruel world Sometimes it depends on how the person is brought up in the family even the cancer person can have the traits of Gemini or any signs
@stacylarge5636
@stacylarge5636 5 жыл бұрын
Girl you are singing my life with your words example first fight of our married life was night of wedding he still had wedding license in his pocket from photo shoot and dont remember what it was over but i said nah im outta here he whips the license out his pocket says you ain't going nowhere ive got the title to you i grabbed it outta his dumb old hand and tore it in half and threw it at him oh girl he is 10 years older and everything you wrote ive been there i am capricorn they like to play head games have a roving eye girls will actually look at you like keep this fucker in check please yeah sounds bad is bad bruise his ego and it stays that way build him up and he looms over you. He cant be wrong that means you cant be right but you are and he will ask you how does it feel to be right all rhe time me not so good cause it doesn't get the results you were looking for correct him.in any way and he has a pout attack and handy excuse to do npthing you ask him too feel like im repeating things you've said already you get the idea.RUN
@shimmerveli9535
@shimmerveli9535 5 жыл бұрын
If a cancer man is going out of his way to let you know he likes you or is trying to date you and you b.s.ing he's gunna just leave you alone. Cancers don't have time to waste. 3 strikes? you're out.
@lobcdtextuel
@lobcdtextuel 5 жыл бұрын
Thats right man we have noooo time to waste!!
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
🤔
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could say that for myself. I’m a cancer man and my heart got hooked on this one girl and I can’t let go nor do I really want to I just want her to show me love again
@nomadardan
@nomadardan 4 жыл бұрын
@@elellestrange5357 simp
@zoraidacastro5403
@zoraidacastro5403 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kosmospotential1232
@kosmospotential1232 2 жыл бұрын
GURL U GOT THE GIFT
@kyriellehenry2816
@kyriellehenry2816 Жыл бұрын
Don’t she though
@Life_Rucksacked
@Life_Rucksacked Жыл бұрын
Accurate af,just dumped a cancer man for being extremely manipulative.Would beg for chances only to treat me like crap for trying to dump him and it was a pattern till he was so mean that I couldn't stand it and my patience snapped and I stopped feeling anything .I am a virgo and there's no returning back when I have been generous enough with my chances .
@percuisitsmolly8299
@percuisitsmolly8299 8 ай бұрын
Umama i didnt do like this
@tv-nm1dq
@tv-nm1dq 3 жыл бұрын
My Dad is a Cancer man the 7-7-1977 he represents corporate Power . A No Nonsense man my Dad had full custody of me. I am a 21 yr old young man. And when we walk down the road my dad still try to hold my hands to cross the road. Cancer man always the protector
@psionicpowers132
@psionicpowers132 Жыл бұрын
Lol, cancer man is a manipulative and I just dumped one..
@tiflps
@tiflps 3 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t take accountability & has gotten meaner. I hurt him because he hurt me. He’ll get over it .
@marvinpercival4717
@marvinpercival4717 3 ай бұрын
A cancer never get over a hurt ever
@TFP-79
@TFP-79 5 жыл бұрын
Idk what cancer man you are referring to but the only ones I dated were broke. The most recent one has mental problems to where he thinks everyone else has the problem including his family. He's very self absorbed and it's exhausting. He was very very attentive ,affectionate and funny. We grew up together from childhood through high school so he was a familiar stranger. Long story short he abandoned the mission to help move me from one state to the next because I didn't agree with what he was doing while we were trying to take care business. That was enough for me. I have nothing to say to this boy for the rest of my life.
@alvardorolle6401
@alvardorolle6401 5 жыл бұрын
You had a boy. Not a man. Simple
@Arya-qd4wk
@Arya-qd4wk 5 жыл бұрын
Are you a scorpio?
@TFP-79
@TFP-79 5 жыл бұрын
@@Arya-qd4wk pisces
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
Your story sounds way too similar to every woman I know who gets involved with a Cancer male. Glad you got past him. Make sure you block him from all contact with you. Crabs love crawling back. 🗣🦀
@TFP-79
@TFP-79 4 жыл бұрын
@@stellabellafontay9366 it's sad yea he's blocked lol
@rikkitheartist6470
@rikkitheartist6470 5 жыл бұрын
I’m a cancer male and yes I agree I am moody af lol I’m so glad my girlfriend is a Taurus. I am learning how to chill and relax. I have turned off my jealousy and I’m starting to trust. I am thankful for this video because it is helping me learn more about those dark qualities I would like to change. Not only for myself but for the people I love. Being a cancer is tough lol
@tamikagonzalez5010
@tamikagonzalez5010 5 жыл бұрын
I am married to a Cancer man for the last 20 years....virgo woman. He definitely has control issues and is a serial cheater and manipulator. Shows classic narcissistic behaviors and etc. I've finally decided to let this go and can now breathe. I believe if he would acknowledge his issues and get help for them he would be a great partner but at this time I'm completely done. Ready to move on to calmer waters.
@Fabian6980
@Fabian6980 5 жыл бұрын
Im a cancer i was that way once but ive changed my ways now it was just a period of time i was going through depression had alot to do with it. can i still be mean and a dick? Yes just like anyone else but it takes alot to get me to that point and nobody wanna see me once im at that point lol people can dish it out but cant take it and we dish it out better than anyone else
@helenismail6241
@helenismail6241 5 жыл бұрын
Cancer and virgo does not work together, they are both born under negative energy.
@carlousmagus5387
@carlousmagus5387 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a Cancer man, I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on - by a Virgo. I also don't go around trying to use people nor do I get jealous. I am however a Jedi when it comes to knowing exactly how you feel and why, your true intentions, and when you're full of it. The whole being the most Impathic of all the the Signs comes in handy when trying to avoid, crazy used up unstable gold diggers looking for a blue pill simp to take her and her kids that the thug she loves so much left her with.
@KonvosWithKee
@KonvosWithKee 5 жыл бұрын
Did it really need to take you being married to him for 20 years, cheating, control, and manipulation to finally decide to be done though??? You wasted ALOT of your life in a dead end marriage. Good luck.
@dollhouseq1530
@dollhouseq1530 3 жыл бұрын
August or Sept Virgo?
@eblount87
@eblount87 5 жыл бұрын
I'm dating one now and I'm a sagittarius, you're right about the part where he makes you feel special and then dont call until the day after. I've called him out on this crap and all. I love him so I'm trying but that sag trait trying to kick in lol
@HoneyBeeBee
@HoneyBeeBee 5 жыл бұрын
RUN!!
@eblount87
@eblount87 5 жыл бұрын
@@HoneyBeeBee dont say that I love him😢 I'm trying to understand him
@shhh3185
@shhh3185 5 жыл бұрын
@@eblount87 You should not have to try to understand anyone. If you can't reason with him or if he doesn't respect your boundaries, he's already shown you who he is.
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
Move past him. Now that he knows you're bothered, a Cancer male will continue with behavior that hurts you. They find it humorous. 😒
@caramelkimmiekim8272
@caramelkimmiekim8272 4 жыл бұрын
Cancers and Sag not compatible at all it won't work sweeti
@taylorstern4797
@taylorstern4797 6 жыл бұрын
OMG... you are scary on point. You described the man I was with to the exact letter. You are good girl!!!
@terralynnkesselring1682
@terralynnkesselring1682 5 жыл бұрын
Finally someone got the cancer man right. Thank you
@TheBargainAddictCeCe
@TheBargainAddictCeCe 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂I'm a Cancer and i know what you mean by that
@healthyandanextraincome4746
@healthyandanextraincome4746 5 жыл бұрын
@@TheBargainAddictCeCe Females are different, a bit , then the MALE ones.
@ebonyejohnson
@ebonyejohnson 4 жыл бұрын
I have been with my man since 2007 he is a Cancer and I am a Sagittarius. And every single thing that you are saying about this man is true. And see I mention that I am a Sagittarius and I cannot be control
@bleanneh
@bleanneh 4 жыл бұрын
Here i am too!! Sag woman dealing with a DARK unemotional cancer 🙄
@stardust5278
@stardust5278 10 ай бұрын
How did you gain his trust? How did you make him open up to you?I am Sagittarius too
@layla2027
@layla2027 6 жыл бұрын
Also, they like playing the martyr. A lot of Cancer men like to go on and on about how they’ve been “wronged” by everyone! I’ve known a cancer man for close to 30 years & we don’t talk that often. When we do, he NEVER has anything positive to say! He’s always upset about something or other. I’m a Taurus and I’m generally optimistic, so when I constantly get negative feedback from someone, it’s emotionally draining. IDK, I think some of them tend to be jealous of others who they perceive to have it better than they do.
@rosedhilamdzain6939
@rosedhilamdzain6939 6 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm a taurus woman too and my ex is cancer! For me, they are a narcissist.He always think that he's the one who's right and sugarcoat his mistakes!
@moodmusicofficially
@moodmusicofficially 6 жыл бұрын
Rosedhila Md Zain This is most men I know.
@moodmusicofficially
@moodmusicofficially 6 жыл бұрын
Layla20 Do you know other placements in n his chart?
@layla2027
@layla2027 6 жыл бұрын
Love 44 No. His bday is June 22nd.
@caramelkimmiekim8272
@caramelkimmiekim8272 4 жыл бұрын
Girl you nailed it im currently dealing with a♋his ass bout to get the boot
@jenebabaun7797
@jenebabaun7797 4 жыл бұрын
Really? You're tired huh? I don't even understand what's going on with mine.He entered his shell last week and I refuse to get him out by just ignoring him....after hearing how he feels about being ignored, I don't know what's gonna happen lol
@controlyourlife346
@controlyourlife346 4 жыл бұрын
@@jenebabaun7797 bruh
@theabundantaries5419
@theabundantaries5419 4 жыл бұрын
Dating a cancer man now and I’m Aries ♈️ Lawd have mercy I foresee WW3 literally 🔥🤦‍♀️
@aminaanimashaun6958
@aminaanimashaun6958 4 жыл бұрын
I’m curious bc I’m pursing a cancer man now. How has it been ?? I’m an Aries as well
@theabundantaries5419
@theabundantaries5419 4 жыл бұрын
@@aminaanimashaun6958 honestly better than I expected he kinda has a way of calming me down
@thiccredgyal3404
@thiccredgyal3404 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a Leo with a libra rising so I have no patience for cancer men
@joneta83
@joneta83 3 жыл бұрын
10 months he hide all his true feelings. I had to study this man... still when you think you have it, you realize it’s 30x deeper than expected. Confused him before he confuse you. 🥸😏😖🤯Like a sour patch kid. Forget the exit, the crazy house is your new home. lol... I don’t think I could be loved anymore than this man loves me.. but the catch is you have to master reality’s clue game to actually find out.
@terrycroker7815
@terrycroker7815 3 жыл бұрын
Aries and cancer ? 😳 run !
@soniaj2997
@soniaj2997 3 жыл бұрын
You are soooo right. I'm dating one right now and he's driving me nuts.
@goddessgoddess4079
@goddessgoddess4079 3 жыл бұрын
You and Me Both....Im a Capricorn Cusp Aquarius women and Hes Cancer Man....We bumped Heads a d Got Ugly and now we back as if Nothing Never Happened...I told him I think He Escaped the Asylum and Hiding Out ....Yes he is.Off His Bonkas But He says Im the SocioPath ....All because I wont Put Up w His BS lol
@burntreynolds8312
@burntreynolds8312 3 жыл бұрын
@@goddessgoddess4079 i have a cancer sun and moon so my advice to you is we are always going to being changing from this or that mood extremes. But we are loyal caring and passionate about the things that give us motivation. We go beyond being faithful and will always be on your side even if your in the wrong. If you want things to go smooth with us just dont flirt with other guys be transparent respect our family, give us some compliments here and there, dont make promises you cant keep, want kids and believe in a romantic love at first site type of encounter we had and thats the general rundown on how to bring out the best in us otherwise we cant help acting crazy or overly emotional intense etc.
@sunrisebeauty5893
@sunrisebeauty5893 3 жыл бұрын
Run away
@Alia-jn8ki
@Alia-jn8ki Жыл бұрын
I can feel you.
@kyriellehenry2816
@kyriellehenry2816 Жыл бұрын
@@burntreynolds8312how can you tell if a cancer man is cheating. What are the signs
@damianwashington6072
@damianwashington6072 2 жыл бұрын
Good job...great content...am I cancer man..I must admit...I got moody..when u said a couple things about cancer men..but than I laughed at myself and got over it bcuz it was true 👍🏿 😅 💯🙏😏
@kyriellehenry2816
@kyriellehenry2816 Жыл бұрын
Are all of yall sneaky as hell
@NorthernWolf910
@NorthernWolf910 4 жыл бұрын
As a Cancer Man who is currently single but am considering a Cancer Woman, I can pretty much agree to nearly everything said in this video. Control is a luxury that we can never fully contain, and are almost always striving for more. This is likely because we feel like we need to provide protection for our mate... to shield them from harm and preserve them as much as possible. But at the same time, provide for her, give her a quality of life that both of us can be proud of. We feel responsible for our mate. If she's not happy, we don't feel right. We feel sorrow. Cancer is a sign filled with emotions. It's a world within a world that we live in. Can any Cancer's relate to this?
@mkay657
@mkay657 4 жыл бұрын
🙋
@ryanmacdonald5775
@ryanmacdonald5775 4 жыл бұрын
Blackwolf Alpha sure can
@yasminebgm6949
@yasminebgm6949 4 жыл бұрын
Can you give guys more explaination about this « waiting games » thing ? 🙏🏼🙏🏼thank you sssoooo much
@oak4881
@oak4881 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah... We try to be better but it's a long ass process
@88mahe
@88mahe 4 жыл бұрын
really relating
@nickid3928
@nickid3928 Жыл бұрын
Wow you nailed it on all points. Dating a Cancer now …. It’s a whole amusement park. 😂😂
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
Cancer men are crazy. I have one now calling me from anonymous numbers and leaving taunting voicemails-after blocking me. He's 37 years old. I'm a ♉ and I can't deal. 🙄
@sameerbalooshi1350
@sameerbalooshi1350 4 жыл бұрын
A true cancer will never call you lol maby your one is psycho type once cancer is done he is done there is no chase games
@Lvrzoee
@Lvrzoee 4 жыл бұрын
omg same he stalks me till this day..
@controlyourlife346
@controlyourlife346 4 жыл бұрын
Lol maybe he just crazy on hls own we (cancer men) just lgnore you lf you bsn
@phil4863
@phil4863 4 жыл бұрын
He's the obsessive type (I am one too) he's most likely ruminating about the past therefore he's still attached to you emotionally
@thiccredgyal3404
@thiccredgyal3404 4 жыл бұрын
I have a cancer stalking me on multiple platforms
@Growandbloom7
@Growandbloom7 2 жыл бұрын
This is def true. I dumped mines a few weeks ago…and he’s still not letting go lbs. I’m a Scorpio.
@EvaRoscilli
@EvaRoscilli Жыл бұрын
I'm a scorpio too,and same here,he lied and cheated and said I was crazy for being suspicious, he said the most ridiculous lies and got found out and when I asked to give me an explanation he would go silent and a few days later expect me to forget all about it took me for a right fool,oh well we weren't together too long so it wasn't love but I am annoyed for being taken for a fool and giving him the benefit of the doubt,but I didn't take long to stop it though so not too bad,I dumped him in the end.
@TianaThompson90s
@TianaThompson90s 11 ай бұрын
​@@EvaRoscillisting him 😊
@S3ssion
@S3ssion 5 жыл бұрын
Cancers act as the mirrors that most people don't want to see I treat you as you treat me and if you're mad about it you're mad at yourself not me but most can't or don't want to see that
@S3ssion
@S3ssion 5 жыл бұрын
The moon is ALWAYS full it's only your perception of it that changes as we move through space that darkness you see isnt darkness it's the depths you're afraid to explore you just see it as darkness because that's the closest equivalent you can find to fear WE CAN SENSE EMOTIONS were all about love and LOVE AND FEAR DON'T MIX it all depends how you try to approach us that's going determine what you see if you approach me trying to manipulate me your going to find yourself manipulated yin and yang you approach me to be real your going to find real water can flow or it can crash you decide which side of that spectrum you want to be on in your actions speech and approach and we react accordingly
@healthyandanextraincome4746
@healthyandanextraincome4746 5 жыл бұрын
????????????, when I am mad about you, I am not mad about myself. It is because , the way who you are towards me.................
@healthyandanextraincome4746
@healthyandanextraincome4746 5 жыл бұрын
@@S3ssion Why dont you just say it like this ??? this makes sense to me....!
@S3ssion
@S3ssion 5 жыл бұрын
@@healthyandanextraincome4746 the behavior you're mad about is your own behavior being mirrored back to you via cancer meaning what you put in that's what you get out act like an asshole your gonna run into an asshole dealing with cancer act nice you get nice in return simple enough for you to understand?
@afzalhasan1105
@afzalhasan1105 5 жыл бұрын
My father is a cancer. He thinks he is always right, hurt others feelings, know it all, feels clever than everyone, always give useless wisdom, controling, arrogant, disrespectful, clingy, dramatic. Horrible personalities! Is this mirror to me lol
@pisceanrat
@pisceanrat 5 жыл бұрын
Mine is evolved cancer male. No games at all. Almost perfect.
@jenebabaun7797
@jenebabaun7797 4 жыл бұрын
Mmmmm
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say evolved I’d say a kind man with good intentions who happens to be a cancer
@kelilahzko
@kelilahzko 11 ай бұрын
@@elellestrange5357based on all of your comments. Evolved. I hope you have evolved since 3 years ago. You have only provided excuses and no accountability for how you are perceived. Ruminating is your biggest enemy. Good luck
@Giselle332
@Giselle332 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a narcissist.
@psionicpowers132
@psionicpowers132 Жыл бұрын
She's right, I just dumped a cancer..
@Nectarine333
@Nectarine333 Жыл бұрын
@@psionicpowers132good for you! I divorced mine this year
@88mahe
@88mahe 4 жыл бұрын
As a cancer, first thing: yes we tend to be... what she describes, but to the underneath the surface facts, there's so much more to explore! And pluss, even tho I do some of these things, I always remember that each one of ous cancers... are like soo different in so many ways... with that, lets dig deeper into the dark side! First, yes me thinking: everyone has one bright side and one dark side, so with that in mind its kinda reflects how humans really is behind our outside... and maybe how us cancers can be so on/off or go from kind to really mean... Still, what we really mean by our actions, is kinda just take care of ourselfs, yet try not to harm someone else, which is really difficult soo many times the whole thing just gets out of control and we just give up or back off... and this time where we are just by ourself, is like precious to us for, maybe most of us like to think and reflect to what we have done, and for the next time we can do something different and even better! What I'm trying to say is just... just leave me alone when I'm feeling like it and don't bother to contact me if I'm not in the right mood... pretty offen I also try to be on the bright side, so people don't think I am mad or something... but not like the whole time! C'mon like everone needs a break from time to time! And with that, all I'm gonna say is that yes we cancers can really be a challenge, but believe me when I say: we want something real! When a cancer boyfriend or girlfriend are like that, that just means that we really love you! Even tho we say it in a language you can not understand...
@jenebabaun7797
@jenebabaun7797 4 жыл бұрын
Mmm good to hear from a cancer. Helps us know what goes on inside..
@88mahe
@88mahe 4 жыл бұрын
@@jenebabaun7797 If it helps... Yes, indeed it is very difficult / it could be complicated to love a cancer =)
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
There are plenty of things she mentions that are true but there’s more to it than that.
@tw82rone5
@tw82rone5 2 жыл бұрын
Cancerian is basically witnessing all the different phases of the moon in person as far as moods go
@kingjari4713
@kingjari4713 5 жыл бұрын
Cancers just do not play any games. We support our loved ones but we also would like to know if those loved ones will support us too. We are not needy we can rock in our own shell. And of course if we have a partner that is disloyal to us we than become cold to that person. But for the most part we are there for the people we love and desire the most.
@robeltonicholas3070
@robeltonicholas3070 5 жыл бұрын
Amen to that!! 👏👏👏👏👍...... It's the disloyalty, betrayal and deceitfulness that turns us into Mr. Hyde!!! And the insecurity of others when it comes to love and the realm of family, anything else that that person have as insecurity we will work it out and cancereans are known for helping people in almost every way, but when it comes to cancers everyone is like don't give a damn and it hurts!!! We don't mind if you chase us off at the beginning so we'll know where you stand but to hagle us along pretending to be caring only to find out that it's just a scheme is like chaos when it comes to our emotions. It comes down to reason!!
@TizhaB33zdatfreak
@TizhaB33zdatfreak 4 жыл бұрын
Damn my cancer man does try to control what I wear and kinda dismisses my dreams
@arandomelie8578
@arandomelie8578 4 жыл бұрын
Wait he has cancer?
@TizhaB33zdatfreak
@TizhaB33zdatfreak 3 жыл бұрын
@@rachelsarbeng6476 oh I have him trained now lol scorpion stung his ass. I stand my ground and let him know I will not be controlled, he is on his behavior now
@rslily
@rslily 5 жыл бұрын
Scorpio here. I dated 5 cancer guys and NEVER. AGAIN. Let's talk about how manipulative and vindictive they can be. 👎🏽
@Lizmanson995
@Lizmanson995 5 жыл бұрын
So true, very vindictive, controlling and manipulative!
@fitnessbabe7958
@fitnessbabe7958 5 жыл бұрын
Wow, I just met a Cancer guy. There not all the same.
@tredariusthompson4972
@tredariusthompson4972 5 жыл бұрын
Fitness Babe yea imma cancer ♋️
@carlousmagus5387
@carlousmagus5387 5 жыл бұрын
They must have all sensed the Dark Side in you.
@Kweentoyo
@Kweentoyo 3 жыл бұрын
Emotional roller-coaster... And you can't be argumentative 😂 omg... This is so apt
@wandabynum6713
@wandabynum6713 4 жыл бұрын
So true. U hit it on point. Thank you for sharing those important traits about the cancer man
@jeangatchalian-music8709
@jeangatchalian-music8709 4 жыл бұрын
Cancer friend here
@Bluj__
@Bluj__ 3 жыл бұрын
For a lil while dealing with a cancer and I’m not sure how to take him in a way so this helps!! He recently ignored my messages 2x, I called, no answer etc; ..it feels like he is not interested but then he pops up again..very mellow but I can see he may be moody in his shell alot times. He mentioned that I don’t say I want to see him much”. From the beginning he mentioned how busy he is with family work etc, so ok no pressure..I just do me and mind my business as we’re both single and not dating..I just don’t like the “games” lol ..hopefully he’ll come out his shell and if not no love lost!
@ladycrillz
@ladycrillz 3 жыл бұрын
i am dealing with the same thing and i really thought we had a chance, i was so interested but i can't with these games. i know, and deserve, much better.
@iamrgenius
@iamrgenius 3 жыл бұрын
It’ll be worth it.
@Bluj__
@Bluj__ 3 жыл бұрын
@@rachelsarbeng6476 I’m hoping so!!
@kingalphaman9735
@kingalphaman9735 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bluj__ Let me be honest with you from a Man's perspective. Give him the SAME energy he's giving you because that mofo knows EXACTLY what he's doing! Cancer's LOVE for you to chase them and sweat them! He's giving you hot and cold to fkkk with your mind. He's manipulative because he acts like you're the one who isn't that interested yet he's the one playing games and ignoring your texts etc. You feel where I'm coming from? It's all games with Cancer's and it's always going to be games if you keep allowing it. Like I said, give his azz the exact same energy and when he calls you out on it just tell him that you're matching his energy! If a man doesn't make you a priority than don't make him one! After all, games are for kids and mature men know who they want and what they want! Don't let men run games on you and most of all, KEEP your cookie🍪 locked up until you know a man is actually ready to be in a relationship.
@Bluj__
@Bluj__ 3 жыл бұрын
@@kingalphaman9735 Thxs for your input!! I actually left it as is in my gentle way a few months ago!! I’ll show you I’m interested, & never been a “pick me” woman lol! can’t play slick games for to long and yes I felt like he wanted me to chase him! That’s when I was cool and no longer putting any thought towards it. No love lost for me! I’ll say at least I know a lil about cancer men now haha!
@Kweentoyo
@Kweentoyo 3 жыл бұрын
Dayummmm.... You are so right. I've had my share with a cancer man, and this is facts. I should have watched this first 😂♋💔
@kingalphaman9735
@kingalphaman9735 3 жыл бұрын
If you wanna stay sane, DON'T date a Cancer man!😂
@tanyabutler8945
@tanyabutler8945 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you I should of came here first he broke 💔 my heart
@psionicpowers132
@psionicpowers132 Жыл бұрын
@@tanyabutler8945 He never came back at all, how long were u together?
@tanyabutler8945
@tanyabutler8945 Жыл бұрын
​@@psionicpowers132two years and it was an emotional roller😢coaster
@pamelaherrera5589
@pamelaherrera5589 4 жыл бұрын
Girl everything you said on point, I knew I wasn't crazy lol thank you do much for verifying for me 🥰
@cashaunicawillis434
@cashaunicawillis434 2 жыл бұрын
Lord!! So true!! Never again!
@pisceanrat
@pisceanrat 5 жыл бұрын
Be careful with words he is hurt easily... esp be ready to marry his entire family. His mama is number 1... i know this as a wife of one for 10 yrs
@caramelkimmiekim8272
@caramelkimmiekim8272 4 жыл бұрын
They seem petty too
@stormfoxx7316
@stormfoxx7316 4 жыл бұрын
Butthurt
@stephyme1
@stephyme1 4 жыл бұрын
CARAMELkimmie Kim they are!!
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
Ya hurt very easily but only by those close to us. What a strange says may bounce off but when it comes from someone special we may crumble depending on what it is.
@13DarkMelody
@13DarkMelody 3 ай бұрын
My ex’s enmeshment with his mother is creepy. Total drug enabling. He’s obsessed.
@lisannanicorobin8783
@lisannanicorobin8783 3 жыл бұрын
I left a cancer after 2 weeks f talking.
@marc96ish
@marc96ish 5 жыл бұрын
Yooo she right my sister ex a cancer and he was exactly like this the controlling part and she didn’t like that cuz she’s a Sagittarius and they don’t like being controlled !
@Meechda76
@Meechda76 5 жыл бұрын
No we don't like that controlling shit.
@ssmyth1835
@ssmyth1835 6 жыл бұрын
Oh...you are so on point! I would think you met the Cancer I know. It used to concerned me but I have found that being strong and cruel works best in handling him. Be independent. Don't plan anything with him in mind. Ignore his pettiness. Remember you are Queen. Put your foot on him and press hard to where you almost crush him. You have to establish power. His pettiness is because he is essentially weak. Control him with sweetness and power. Snap off a pincher if needed. He'll humble himself before you. Don't take shit from a Cancer man!!
@bigmike11214
@bigmike11214 5 жыл бұрын
Im a Cancer man and let me tell you we move on our own time if you try to gain power or control us we will leave you and never come back. Good luck with all that power trip stuff there your cancer man will walk away.
@sherrywilkins7506
@sherrywilkins7506 5 жыл бұрын
You so right
@SharronHaimour-ko6jl
@SharronHaimour-ko6jl 5 жыл бұрын
@@bigmike11214 then you will have done some woman a HUGE favor!!
@bigmike11214
@bigmike11214 5 жыл бұрын
@@SharronHaimour-ko6jl Actually I would have done myself the favor of not dealing with someone with a control complex.
@lederianlake1006
@lederianlake1006 5 жыл бұрын
Bugs Bunny gon nall 👻 on you be with someone else
@dookarooka264
@dookarooka264 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this was spot tf on
@sandrabrouwers5797
@sandrabrouwers5797 6 ай бұрын
Mind games is very irritating for grown ups. For me , it will make me keep a distance from you. Allow him to go play games with his childen/grand kids period.
@ventibreeze6648
@ventibreeze6648 5 жыл бұрын
That’s the problem, their sulky moods, it’s childish, why not just spit it out and say what’s wrong?
@hawaibamkarnajit1646
@hawaibamkarnajit1646 5 жыл бұрын
But cancer is a game n there is no way cancer is losing coz cancer is the coach
@psionicpowers132
@psionicpowers132 Жыл бұрын
@@hawaibamkarnajit1646 They are losing big time
@ManifestingMagician2323
@ManifestingMagician2323 10 ай бұрын
@@psionicpowers132 💯 😂😂😂
@dambut361
@dambut361 3 жыл бұрын
Simply amazing. So true. My husband is just like this.
@kristinamacasling107
@kristinamacasling107 2 жыл бұрын
This is now happening to me...for past days. I feel distorted...its like my mind and soul and body is destroyed.😨i thought this is normal in love
@karenbarro6754
@karenbarro6754 6 жыл бұрын
I have been chatting for months to a cancer man and all you say is true.. i saw two sides of his personality one is that the first we chat all time and he is so sweet and caring and i totally find out that i have feelings for him the first we meet up is that was awsome he asking me if he can be my bf and I said Yes..and continuing this chatting and met for the second time I idk.. but after we met and hangout i feel the rollercoaster ride of his personality the second personality of him the tough one.. its kinda like he was on hard shell and it seems he's not showing his vulnerable side the first we first met.. i was too confused because of his withdrawn about his feelings and after i confess that i have fallen for him he confess that he was not ready to have a commitment. It was made my heart broke. But later on he telling me about his Ex his first girlfriend indeed and it was only a 2 months ago since they split up.. i have been dealing a emotional level that im thinking of he is just using me to manipulate me because he tell me that he has feelings for me but only as a friend.. it makes me stuck because i thinking it alot..uses my energy and it makes me exhausted sometimes and thinking if i need to get some distant from him or not..after i confess about my feelings he change his mood and vulnerability sides he often show his hard shell and idk if i did wrong to him. I need some advice.. but yeah we're still chatting as of now.. im a Leo women 24 yrs old a fixed sign and He is a cnacer man and he is 6 years from my age..can you give me more advice how to handle about this? Thank you.
@idontrecord9611
@idontrecord9611 6 жыл бұрын
karen barro be strong leave him alone. You dealing with him is blocking you from your true partner and goals in life. Love should be easy flowing💋 be strong and confident your a Leo.
@orangecloud8820
@orangecloud8820 6 жыл бұрын
The comment above is correct. Outside of star signs what’s important is to have your sense of self, know who you are and your worth. I think this guy is recovering from his previous breakup, and whatever he is dealing now is his responsibility. And you have to think for yourself what makes you feel good and happy, because clearly he isn’t caring about yours. Have some space between you guys and if there is a connection, it will come back one day.
@memesangmasartwork7447
@memesangmasartwork7447 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a cancer n m telling u to leave him right away
@Fabian6980
@Fabian6980 5 жыл бұрын
As a cancer man trying to help ive been in his position before dont waste your time hes still in love with his ex and just playing games with you trying to save you the heartbreak that will happen if you keep trying to get with him if you dont wanna cut him off completely then keep him on a friendship level and find someone else
@sanelafilurija7371
@sanelafilurija7371 2 жыл бұрын
100%accurate. Dealing with one now
@psionicpowers132
@psionicpowers132 Жыл бұрын
Have a backup plan, don't keep your eggs in one box
@melissaroberts2614
@melissaroberts2614 4 жыл бұрын
I was with someone like that and he wasn't a cancer. Maybe its just a game that both men and women play with each other.
@shellyhunt4910
@shellyhunt4910 6 жыл бұрын
Water signs seem nuts
@leannedang3893
@leannedang3893 6 жыл бұрын
Yes I agreed. Cancer has two faces, it's so hard to decide which face to slap first. They're truly great manipulate & rude.
@LoKo-ti6vm
@LoKo-ti6vm 5 жыл бұрын
Leanne Dang 😂😂😂😂 u made my day
@djwhodat-6017
@djwhodat-6017 5 жыл бұрын
No
@polo_ixn7746
@polo_ixn7746 5 жыл бұрын
@@leannedang3893 😂😂😂😂😂
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
If you don’t understand them I definitely see why you’d say that
@reneecrotty6910
@reneecrotty6910 Жыл бұрын
Okay, if he likes you PROPERLY...this will not happen!! My Cancer man is always locking down the next date and organising it alot! Is he is playing games, he is not sure about you! Also...never ever call a man if you don't hear from him. This is not right... wait and if you don't hear from him, he wasn't into you enough and that's okay!!!! There is a man who will be locking you down constantly. But yes... Cancer men is so moody and it's annoying af hahaaha
@chriswhitfield4299
@chriswhitfield4299 5 жыл бұрын
U talk to much snitched out my whole life
@AsifKhan-yi2gf
@AsifKhan-yi2gf 5 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard on hearing truth about myself... Cringy
@kingsleykpabitey1814
@kingsleykpabitey1814 5 жыл бұрын
I did the same. Too funny
@caramelkimmiekim8272
@caramelkimmiekim8272 4 жыл бұрын
Clingy👆
@sumayachannel6966
@sumayachannel6966 4 жыл бұрын
CARAMELkimmie Kim Ohh.. dont come at my zodiac.😒 your ignorant+ a bigot, pethatic. Instead of giving advice for others you judge people because of their birthday hiding yours, and being JUST disgusting. Like who you think you are?
@nahidhasan1799
@nahidhasan1799 3 жыл бұрын
Yes you are ! You people never confess your guilt only when it’s time manipulating ! Most cancers are sick in mind & head in any kind close relationships. My own sister is a complete sick woman !
@elvisnji2248
@elvisnji2248 5 жыл бұрын
I am a Cancer, born 4th July. My wife is the one in charge of our bank acct, I don't keep secrets or have secret bank acct, I love to discuss solutions rather than problems, I do not turn challenges into problems, I don't make promises that is my Yes is my Yes and my No is my No, I get upset when my partner doesn't stand by the outcome of her words good, bad or worse but I never get angry or mad because I always love to talk about it, I love to not only listen to my partner by also hear her, I am very organize, hate when places are messy and untidy, if I expect 100% from my partner then I will expect 200% from myself . Now, these are just a few things that your video does not align with me, my question is why?
@VikkiG1970
@VikkiG1970 4 жыл бұрын
Because it's the dark side...
@rashidknox6945
@rashidknox6945 5 жыл бұрын
It depends on on the person all cancers are not like that
@lupmedia4539
@lupmedia4539 5 жыл бұрын
It's true
@fitnessbabe7958
@fitnessbabe7958 5 жыл бұрын
Rashid Knox Exactly!
@jodynanci
@jodynanci 6 жыл бұрын
This describes my Libra ex fr fr! My cancer guy friend isn't like this AT ALL but we've been best friends for 4 years. Update: cancers in relationships are SO different when you're more than friends. This is spot on, it's sad. Water signs and me don't mesh well
@Fabian6980
@Fabian6980 5 жыл бұрын
Cancers are different with friends than they are with partners
@jodynanci
@jodynanci 5 жыл бұрын
@@Fabian6980 me and him kind of started dating last month and you're so right! He got even more moody and also more bossy. It annoyed me so we never actually dated.
@Fabian6980
@Fabian6980 5 жыл бұрын
@@jodynanci we only do that cause we care for our woman and take them more serious than our friends remember that. were loyal to ours we only start turning bad when our woman betray our trust most people dont understand how much we care even though sometimes we dont show it so they mistake us for being controlling or manipulative when in reality were always doing it for the good of our partner and for the good of the relationship were only like that cause we care then they wanna call us assholes cheaters abusive etc when they make us not care smh lol
@jodynanci
@jodynanci 5 жыл бұрын
@@Fabian6980 are you a cancer? My cancer guy friend started to be controlling when I told him I liked him back. He started playing hard to get and even though we weren't dating, he would be controlling. Maybe that's just him but cancerians are super moody on general
@Fabian6980
@Fabian6980 5 жыл бұрын
@@jodynanci yes we are moody we deal with mood swings alot but for the most part were nice and we show alot of love to our partner the good cancers anyway aslong as our partner does the same we match energies
@stoneydaw2406
@stoneydaw2406 6 жыл бұрын
Sorry that might be other crabs. I am not interested in dominating a woman. Instead I seek to build intimacy and trust within a relationship. Emotionally I am vunerable and sensitive. Frankly every guy despises a cheater. I know how offended it makes me feel. When I fall in love with someone I want unconditional love and affection. That's what I give and that's what I expect. In return you have a loyal partner who charges in where angels fear to tread. Your safety and your needs become my priority. There's nothing l wouldn't do to be loved with that same intensity. People don't understand a cancer man takes rejection unbelievably hard. We love with all of our heart that's why we mourn over our past loves. We can't seem to cope with a bitter insecure or insensitive female. The way you treat us determines the way we treat you. Stomp on our feelings we will try to talk to you. Ignore is and you got hell to pay. People forget Cancerians are HIGHLY psychic and empathic. We are also blessed with a elephant memory. So if you lie to us we remember and worse we can't ever forget. So call us moody but we are wrestling with what is going to be best for the both of us. Wanna know what to do to fix this? Give us a hug and a kiss. Don't let go reassure us of your love. Physical affection heals cancers wounds. That's why if you cheat on us you become our mortal enemy. We take relationships deadly serious and especially our devotion to our special lady. Chivalry isn't dead, as a matter of fact crabs come with natural armor. So becoming a knight in shining armor is second nature to us. FYI fellow crabs stay the HELL away from Aquarius women. Oh they are beautiful, but the water bearer intends to boil you. Be careful who you love. They may not love you just what they can use you for.
@styenflavoryoung4972
@styenflavoryoung4972 6 жыл бұрын
Stoney Daw .
@ssmyth1835
@ssmyth1835 6 жыл бұрын
Cancer men are bat-shit crazy. They are whiny, needy little boys. While they can be sweet at times but it is not enough for the long haul. They are Momma boys. YUCK!! Grow TF up!
@memesangmasartwork7447
@memesangmasartwork7447 5 жыл бұрын
@@ssmyth1835 u r gonna end up marrying a cheater
@gabrieljohnson7932
@gabrieljohnson7932 5 жыл бұрын
Stoney Daw my brother u deserve a standing ovation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
@sarahjoponziolifeteamprinc6060
@sarahjoponziolifeteamprinc6060 4 жыл бұрын
My man is a cancer his birthday is June 28 , he so Moody lol 😆 I am Gemini on Taurus cusp more Gemini May 21. I Sometimes tired of his little moods swings and when I talked to other guys online who is my friends and family he say you have a lot of guys on Facebook. He thought I was Flirting to other guys because I was looking so nice for church .My Hair in a bun and he said why your hair look so messy .?
@elellestrange5357
@elellestrange5357 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I completely understand your side of the story but try to understand that he let you in his shell because you’re special to him. We don’t just let anyone in. I literally have only let 1 person all the way in, there are some that I let part of the way in and they’re my close friends. Anyways point is that we get jealous because we let you in so if we feel that we’re in danger then we can become aggressive and maybe even push you away so we don’t get hurt. Like I get wanting a proper amount of freedom but just as you want that we want security in our relationship.
@thainguyen-yz7ht
@thainguyen-yz7ht Жыл бұрын
@@elellestrange5357 Please don't go about mistreating your partners bc of your inability to address your insecurity issues in a healthy way. Spend money on councelling or communicate your dealbreakers before getting involved with others.
@tianna1817
@tianna1817 3 жыл бұрын
Just started dated a cancer and this is true, we haven’t talked about being exclusive even it’s been 3 weeks...I mentioned going to Panera to do homework with w a friend days ago and he keeps calling it a “date” I told him it wasn’t a date and he refuses to stop it, he claims he’s only joking but he brings it up constantly I asked him to stop so he did now he comments on everything I do. I told him I was going out with a friend and her mom to the movies he said “getting drunk again tonight” I’ve only been out once since we we’ve been dating and it was with my aunt for a weekend celebration. And the other weekends I seen him, he is very passive aggressive I’m a Leo this is why I don’t deal with cancer men they are way too emotional and like to keep tabs
@FM-zg5hz
@FM-zg5hz 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a Leo and dated a Cancer man for 3 months. They are WAY too jealous, insecure, emotionally passive aggressive for Leos. I couldn’t deal with it and once he ended things I told him I agree. ✌️
@thainguyen-yz7ht
@thainguyen-yz7ht Жыл бұрын
Loved your video so much, especially the effective descriptions that presented with examples to go with.
@SydSync
@SydSync 3 жыл бұрын
I love the feels from this video, I can listen to you all day.
@crystalsalazar3728
@crystalsalazar3728 5 жыл бұрын
OMG so so so true I dated 2 cancer men one of them was exactly how my ex is down to the T...I was never allowed to feel because he was always upset one minute he was happy next minute mad everything was always my fault an yes they are spiteful both my men were jealous controlling but in different ways I was an emotional wreck all the time I didn't understand either one of them they were both insensitive to me but I had to baby my more serious cancer man he broke my heart the latest cancer man is very emotional is a Mama's boy is a man whore concieded and jealous but didn't like to show it. My heart breaker cancer man would play games with me but say I was the one who was playing them he messed me up bad 😂 but this hit the nail right on the head
@eboneystewart536
@eboneystewart536 5 жыл бұрын
Girl preach my story right now 😂😂
@jalenkeyray
@jalenkeyray 5 жыл бұрын
Gurrl I'm so glad I found this video. You are soo right! Thank you 🌹💕
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
Way too accurate. I'm a Taurus woman. Cancer men are a task that don't offer a great enough reward. 🙄
@yameen3448
@yameen3448 4 жыл бұрын
try a taurus man👌🏻
@Cucciolared
@Cucciolared 4 жыл бұрын
@@yameen3448 I'm a taurus and omg personally I can't get along with taurus men ahah
@jaydaignont988
@jaydaignont988 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a Taurus dating a cancer and I approve of this message!!
@stacylarge5636
@stacylarge5636 5 жыл бұрын
Married one controlling needy week lazy run ladys RUN
@stacylarge5636
@stacylarge5636 5 жыл бұрын
@MyHonestyOffends Montie is that you? Just kidding he only puts in 8 hour days and he also pays the bills himself and does a dish occasionally but that was pretty funny right? On second thought maybe you changed a few things so i wouldnt know it was you if it is you nice try. I stand by my statement RUN LADIES FAST AND HARD.....
@stacylarge5636
@stacylarge5636 5 жыл бұрын
@MyHonestyOffends whew...
@Moneyfever605
@Moneyfever605 5 жыл бұрын
Lie not needy not lazy I'm a go getter I Cook for my lady I do everything to satisfy her all I need in return is attention
@stacylarge5636
@stacylarge5636 5 жыл бұрын
@@Moneyfever605 i got gypped mine is also self centered and stingy are you getting that attention in return? I messed up in the beginning red flags all over the place my bad...better luck next time maybe if im wise.
@pisceanrat
@pisceanrat 5 жыл бұрын
I think that is the unevolved cancer dark side. My cancer husband is the best. We together for 10 yrs. He sweet caring cooks for me gives me money i dont need to work etc. He is just too sensitive moody emotional mamas boy. Other than that it is heaven.
@jcprice5424
@jcprice5424 5 жыл бұрын
So we show love and we are to needy so we give space and we are too cold. There is no Happy middle with us. We do or we don't.We don't play games with heart's we protect ours. If your good to us we are good to you. Ya must of have a bad 🦀
@tootiegreen4095
@tootiegreen4095 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a Cancer #facts
@halim1582
@halim1582 5 жыл бұрын
Well this is a dark sided cancer so it doesn't apply to all cancers.
@thiccredgyal3404
@thiccredgyal3404 4 жыл бұрын
I've been stalked by a dark sided cancer 🦀
@burntreynolds8312
@burntreynolds8312 3 жыл бұрын
I have a cancer sun and moon. Yes our motto is treat others as you want to be treated while treating others as they treat us or even worse haha.
@TheLeshegompe
@TheLeshegompe 6 жыл бұрын
wow this is spot on
@jacobpeacock1653
@jacobpeacock1653 5 жыл бұрын
Leshadego how so?
@deelightful6124
@deelightful6124 5 жыл бұрын
This seems so spot on!..dating a Cancer man . But as a Sagittarius woman ..I feel this won't last long
@Meechda76
@Meechda76 5 жыл бұрын
Sag woman myself. Was married to cancer man for 11 years. ENDED but were are friends. Now another cancer man has stepped into my life. I have no idea why I am only catching crabs with my fishing net. Lol Some of it is good, but not built to last😕
@KonvosWithKee
@KonvosWithKee 5 жыл бұрын
It WON’T! Cancer and Sagittarius are NOT at all compatible. I have seen a couple Cancer/Sagittarius combinations work, but it’s very rare. Cancers are way too emotional, whiny, crybaby, and require too damn much constant attention for the Sag to be able to accommodate. Sagittarius simply doesn’t care enough to do all that, and we do not have the patience to cater. We hate crybabies, whiny people, overly sensitive people, and Sagittarius women HATE weak men, which most Cancers tend to be. We Sagittarius can tend to attract Cancers, but, to put it bluntly, we really have nothing for them, cause we always tend to hurt their feelings. We simply don’t have the capacity for all that overly-sensitive, emotional mess.
@wakeup6778
@wakeup6778 4 жыл бұрын
Kharisma K What a messed up hater you are
@gottadropitdivas
@gottadropitdivas 5 жыл бұрын
This post is spot on. My cancer just broke up with me. Because he says I accused him of cheating. Only because he sent a random text to me at 11 o clock at night saying he was on his way to my house. I havent see or spent time with him in over a month. So yes I assumed he was messaging some one else. Then after he breaks up he asked to come stay the night one last time. So I thought he was bluffing about it being over. Then after he left didn't hear from him 2 days. I texted him told him I was deleting his number. Then he replied. Um I'm so confused what kind of game is he playing. I'm a Gemini part of me want to completely walk away. The other part cares for him help
@gottadropitdivas
@gottadropitdivas 5 жыл бұрын
@Leyla Baskaya thanks. I've moved on. But of course he's reaching out to me now
@katz1401
@katz1401 5 жыл бұрын
Had a cancer bf. Definitely a cheater here. He always blames you when it is his fault, remember that every time you'll meet a cancer male. If he broke up with you because 'you accused him of cheating', means he definitely cheated or was going to cheat and he turned on his defensive mechanism called 'how could you think of me like that bla bla I didn't deserve this bla bla I'm breaking up with you bla bla' and etc.
@Bardock059
@Bardock059 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I never acknowledge that male cancer can be that way. My ex who was scorpio nearly drove me to that point of becoming that way just by almost end up being those dark traits that I never knew I had in me which was building up and lending me over to become toxic & violent. However though, I just been dealing with family issue beginning this year, work been very overwhelming due of covid and all my coworkers been getting sick cause of it, and dealing with my relationship problems all in once. It was hard to maintain it. I just never acknowledge that I was in a toxic relationship where she just been cheating and manipulating basically narcissistic towards everything while I just forgive & move on then dealt with everything else what she can throw at me, even if I made my flaws I do admit to it and try to make atonement one way or another, yet she demanded changes but doesn't really tell me what to really change out of me so I have figure it out on my way. I feel like a fool at the end tho. But this helped me realize more & more the darkside of my sign which provides to be very aware for my future relationships
@latrinajones7496
@latrinajones7496 Жыл бұрын
Everything is so true...you hit this on the nail...i just moved on
@sorcelord65
@sorcelord65 5 жыл бұрын
After watching this I feel cancers are definitely the MOST misunderstood sign
@fitnessbabe7958
@fitnessbabe7958 5 жыл бұрын
SorceLord ex.
@fitnessbabe7958
@fitnessbabe7958 5 жыл бұрын
SorceLord Exactly!
@alwayscoca-cola6487
@alwayscoca-cola6487 3 жыл бұрын
If you’re the kind of woman that’s intrigued by this kind of man let’s leave it all behind and disappear together
@wiktoria9787
@wiktoria9787 3 жыл бұрын
i gladly will
@alexnightray3204
@alexnightray3204 4 ай бұрын
Frog in gradually boiling water situation. In your survival kit with these types of dark types, you need an ice pick and a hammer to break free from the claws.
@AdaiahBenDawed
@AdaiahBenDawed 5 жыл бұрын
Supposedly I am a cancer man and yes some of these tendencies in one form or another existed in. But after giving my life to God (a new creature) I came from under the demonic control used by the zodiac human control grid. I am now a man being shaped and formed: mentally, emotionally and spiritually after the likeness of my Creator who created the heavens and earth. I am not governed by stars, moons nor astrological projections nor it's spiritual malevolent spirits. I am governed by His Living Word. All these astrological signs have there light and dark side (tree of good and evil) whom humans foolishly believe they can bring balance to, when light and darkness are in total opposition one to another. Simply put be regenerated (born again) and you will take on righteousness truth, love and compassion and you will become whole person whom is fit to give and receive true love.
@rmoon11231998
@rmoon11231998 4 жыл бұрын
AND THAT LADIES AND GENTLEMEN IS THE THRUTH. Beautifully put sir. Shine on🌞
@kiradelarochefoucauld7499
@kiradelarochefoucauld7499 4 жыл бұрын
Profound on a very Quantum Level. The Truth shall set you free. My fascination with the Matrix Control Grid is similar to watching the weather. Knowing the forces of "nature" gives much compassion for others, and myself.
@emmasparey9308
@emmasparey9308 Жыл бұрын
Yes my relationship just ended im so broken..emitionally tied. Mind games. Roller coaster. Gutted now hwaling
@jesshall9488
@jesshall9488 6 жыл бұрын
I’m a cancer woman... yes we do that! Sometimes I don’t think we realise it.. or that’s how it makes our partner feel...
@pierre.rolex1141
@pierre.rolex1141 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t ask for horoscopes/ signs. I ask for level of education... Because educated people always find a way to communicate even through disagreements. Boom 💥 #ProudCancerMale.
@christlegreen9458
@christlegreen9458 5 жыл бұрын
Pierre. Rolex1141 Truth.
@pierre.rolex1141
@pierre.rolex1141 3 жыл бұрын
@@KJ33- I’m not gonna disagree with you. It’s true people can be deceiving no matter their level of education or their horoscope 😜
@selah5644
@selah5644 5 жыл бұрын
As a Cancer woman I have heard cancers ain't shit on a tons of video and an overwhelming percentage of the time, it turns out to be the Cancer Man. I think I only know 2 Cancer men but only superficially. Who knows what they are like in a relationship.
@kadinwilliams609
@kadinwilliams609 5 жыл бұрын
Well as a cancer man I think I can vouch for myself I look for personality and I would never dream of trying to control my significant other I let her be herself and do whatever she needs to do I don't mind if she talks to her friends or does anything like that the only thing I'm insecure about is whenever I talk to someone I've never met before and I give them the wrong first impression and that's about it but we are very sweet loyal and idk if my gf ever felt shuned bc we tell each other everything and if anything I'm the mentally stable one In my relationship
@yameen3448
@yameen3448 4 жыл бұрын
if you're a cancer women.. try a taurus or a scorpio man. 👌🏻
@MySeeds24
@MySeeds24 5 жыл бұрын
I’m like 50cent, we’re funny and annoying at the same time. And we don’t forget
@bluelotusgodspark2402
@bluelotusgodspark2402 6 жыл бұрын
July cancers are the ones that are more Moody...
@kemajlemerllahu1570
@kemajlemerllahu1570 6 жыл бұрын
Hell nah from cancer 30june
@biglou4216
@biglou4216 3 жыл бұрын
It's sooo weird that you are talking about me..team cancer ♋
@imaginethatwilliams
@imaginethatwilliams Жыл бұрын
Girl she just explained my ex to the T. It's funny because he find out what this bull was about 😂.
@carlousmagus5387
@carlousmagus5387 6 жыл бұрын
And I'm a Cancer; I didn't play " Games ".
@carolmatlakala9510
@carolmatlakala9510 4 жыл бұрын
Very very true, I have been experienced this and ask myself am I crazy omg😭😱🤞🏽
@Mzfoxy08
@Mzfoxy08 5 жыл бұрын
This video is on point
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