YOUNGER men and OLDER women: why this is one of the best matchups

[@terrykelley5012]

I was 26, she was 40. Everyone said we’d never make it, 11 years in, still going strong. 💪 ❤

[@thekimberlyanderson]

Love this! I just put out a video on this very topic and would love if you could share your valuable experience! ❤

[@shanandananscoo]

Wow! The comment section is much richer in context than the video, Thanks to all who shared!

[@ritasjourney]

I’m getting where I don’t watch the videos anymore and just read the comments. They seem more sincere.

[@Ra-rg1vk]

@@shanandananscoo but without this video being posted, comments wouldn't be possible

[@kasondracory4]

This is the most refreshing comment section ever!

[@goldentiger4435]

I know right!, these comments boosted my confidence in pursuing the Relationship with a woman who's 10 years older than me! screw social norms

[@LongNgatia]

Super satisfying..

[@mrparis98p68]

Real. Im almost 18 now and my girlfriend is 22. We have soulmate connection but her family have problems with our age gap, we'll have to see what happens. Personally, I'm down to marry her.

[@kasondracory4]

@goldentiger4435 love it!

[@kasondracory4]

@mrparis98p68 that's interesting, 4 years isn't much in my opinion. Wishing you all the best for your relationship!

[@denisedenise9530]

I was 60, he was 45. He took me by the hand and I lost 15 lbs, he improved my entire physical appearance. He was in excellent shape . We had the best time together, he was never happier, and so was I. We worked together and improved our lives. He passed away before me a few years ago. I miss my happy man.

[@tresjolieme81]

He passed away before you? This is why you just never know what life brings.

[@dlandrews1]

@@tresjolieme81Exactly. My first husband passed at 26 from a brain tumor and I was 25.

[@VickiHansen-k4x]

My husband and I have the same age difference.

[@TheJoaneD]

So sorry for your loss.

[@tammysoley2953]

so sorry to hear this. Perfect example of why we shouldn't care what others think and why we should live each day to the fullest.

[@_ARIZONA_MAN]

I was 29 and she was 48. To this day, she is the best woman I’ve ever had the pleasure of being in a relationship with. She truly made me feel loved, respected, and appreciated. Just an all around amazing woman. Things didn’t work out and it was ALL my fault. Nowadays, she’s involved with a man in her age range but we remain somewhat close. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t hoping for another chance with her one day. She changed me for the better.

[@jfaustin1742]

🤧 beautiful yet sad

[@josefhospital]

What was your mistake and your learning out of it?

[@adkldy8158]

What did you do to ruin it

[@_ARIZONA_MAN]

@@adkldy8158 Unfortunately, I played the fence between her and a younger woman I was also dealing with. The younger woman found out and told the older woman about it. They both came to my house and confronted me. Not proud of my mistake but luckily, she wanted to remain friends.

[@_ARIZONA_MAN]

@@josefhospital I learned that honesty is truly the best policy. I learned the value that a great woman can bring to your life and the pain and regret that loosing a good woman can bring. Hopefully, I meet another as good as she was.

[@BR-zt6vy]

I was 35, and my husband was 22 when we met. We have been married for 21 years. Unfortunately, we did not have children because of our 1st year of marriage, I had severe endometriosis and had to have an emergency hysterectomy. Not having children did affect our marriage, but we worked together through the acceptance of being childless and got dogs to be our children. I am now 60 and he is 46, we are still together.

[@David109-iw5ok]

You can always adopt if you want, I know it might not be the same But there's A LOT of children waiting to be adopted as well it can be a noble thing to do..... but warning " be prepared" cause children are a responsibility Of course you are kinda aware cause dogs already are a big responsibility

[@Dcm711]

@@BR-zt6vy wow amazing

[@Moviefan2k4]

God Bless you both - truly selfless and dedicated marriages are seen as ridiculous by most of the world these days, and I think its truly sad.

[@Nzia-zq2dm]

I didn't expect this long term marriage an older woman could be possible. This Is soooo beautiful❤

[@Moa-u7f]

You should have adopted children who need love and a stable home. You still can. Animals are not the same thing and you will be leaving him alone at the end of the day. Also, its not fair to burden him with a nursing role alon3 with no support when he is older. Don't be selfish.

[@sonjalalelu3667]

When the attraction is mutual, age means nothing. It is not only the bodies that attract each other, but two souls.

[@nickyannajones]

This! 👏

[@annelouisemaclellan485]

@@nickyannajones feel good nonsense

[@sonjalalelu3667]

@@annelouisemaclellan485 Whatever you say.🤷🏼‍♀️

[@philipcollins408]

Thank you Sonja. Very timely and thoughtful insight.

[@sonjalalelu3667]

@@philipcollins408 I'm glad that the idea makes sense.😌

[@christinemarie007]

I am an older woman, and my husband is a young man. We are soul mates. It is not a relationship based on fun and sex, it is pure lov. We get along extremely well. We are very happy. He is not superficial and he cares about values and kindness. It is about who we both are as a person, regardless of our age. The physical appearance is not on the top of his list. I agree it is very rare...he is an old soul, a wonderful and wise man. We are lucky to have found each other.

[@divinelovestar]

That's awesome and congrats for you as a couple 💓

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Do you guys have kids from this marriage?

[@brokenbones1632]

I am 40 years old, and I am madly in love with a woman 22 years older than me. We've been good friends for five years now and I came out and told her how crazy it was about her. But the age difference seems to be an issue for her. Everywhere we go people assume we're married. Everyone we've talked to about the topic, agrees that is the right choice. And they urged her not to pass up this opportunity. But she's still hesitant. How can I get her to see that is a good idea??

[@christinemarie007]

​@brokenbones1632 - She is reluctant to marry you because of the "age difference". This is very general. You have to address it with precision. What bothers her about the age difference: 1- poeple judging you, the eyes of poeple on you. When you dont fit into the box, people think they have the right and give themselves the power of making you unhappy by being judgmental. 2- She is afraid you will have an old appearance when she will still look young and having an husband looking old will ambarassed her. 3- She is afraid you will be too old to raise your children, have less energy, and less patience. 4- She is concerned about her family approval. 5- Maybe feels too young to make a life commitment. 4- or something else. You have address the reason behind her decision. It is amazing how some poeple think they are allow to take away someone's happiness by telling them this is the box where they have to stand. They think they have the right to take away your freedom and your happiness. Don't let them, this is your life.

[@christinemarie007]

​​ @@cheekymonkeygirl3378 - No, we don't have children. It wouldn't be fair for the children. We have a cute little dog.

[@AntwonPugh]

I’m 26 and my fiancé is 54. She’s everything I could ever want and pray for. I treat her as the Queen she is. We are getting married end of this year too 🙏❤️💯

[@goldentiger4435]

how are you dealing with the social judgement? I love a woman who's 10 years older than me, I'm 24, but kind of worried about the social reaction/judgment, how to deal with it?

[@AntwonPugh]

@@goldentiger4435 for me I don’t care about the judgment. You got to live your life for you especially if you have a good woman and you love her. If you spend your life worrying about others opinions your just going to miss on the best opportunities God can provide. My woman is everything I prayed and wanted. Once you know what you want and have that, cherish it, pursuit it and block out anything negative. We live in a negative world and people are miserable more than ever. You gotta do what’s good for you and don’t even lend a ear to the negativity 🤝💯

[@nikkiross128b]

Great! How did you solve the children problem? Asking for myself.

[@AntwonPugh]

@@goldentiger4435 gotta live your life for you and not worry about what people have to say. Life is too short and people will have something to say no matter what. Especially if you really love your woman, be all the way in and block out the haters. 💯

[@AntwonPugh]

@@nikkiross128b I was fine with adoption and still am and she is too. But for me, kids were not a make or break because even if we were the same age and she was infertile I would still love her the same because I don’t put a condition on that. It’s true pure unconditional love I have for her and that she has for me ❤️💯

[@crazydmd]

At 30, I married my wife who was a 53 y.o. hard-bodied fox. After 20 years, she's still a fox and we're just as happy if not happier with each other. I get her and she gets me. For a years I felt insecure in public and even avoided my family, but I no longer care what people may think, if they think anything at all. If older men can marry younger women, why not the reverse? I should also state for the record, I'm also the "breadwinner," so I didn't marry her for money.

[@67Stu]

More power to you two. It only matters what you two think; not what anyone else thinks.

[@ashton1952]

@crazydmd amazing story, love this

[@ashton1952]

@@autumnauston weights at the gym, good nutrition, avoid processed foods

[@elainieish]

@@autumnauston Got to hit the gym, I am a 57 year old one, I had a baby at 45 (naturally, a one shot wonder) with my now ex husband who is now 40 and have only been with younger men after him as well. It's all about eating correctly and working out.

[@mtngrl5859]

I met my husband when he was 37 and I was 52, we are still together 15 years later. Best relationship of my life.

[@thomasjamison2050]

I got into this type of relationship while rebounding from a rotten and short marriage that ended in a very bitter divorce. The relationship was absolutely wonderful and only ended when death did us part. She was an amazing and highly gifted woman.. I am quite sure I will never find her equal. We were together for thirty five very happy years before she unfortunately passed.

[@hardstyle3196]

Jesus Christ bro, that's an insane loss right there!!! I'm going through last phases of mine, you know, in a way I envy you because if it was absolute, then I wouldn't have the burden to see her out there or even know that she's around. We were like magnets, always finding excuses to be around

[@ewoman3584]

Sorry to hear that and for you loss.

[@manyplanets]

How old are you now and how big was the age gap?

[@thomasjamison2050]

@@manyplanets 72 now and the gap was 14 years. But at age 70 she could both out ride all the young riders we knew and her figure always looked better than theirs too.

[@mythoughts238]

You are a very lucky man! Stay blessed!

[@LisaMunoz-n6m]

I am 55 & he is 41. We enjoy each others company. It’s also a lot of fun!

[@trx3264]

I was 38 and she was 48 - we've been happily married for 30 years now.

[@romancox5386]

10 years is not an age gap. You're both from the same generation.

[@insideurwalls3758]

@@romancox5386 The woman is older which is the point

[@user-bj2lu9qt3o]

@@romancox5386 10 years is usually a lot when you get older.

[@Nzia-zq2dm]

Waouh! Amazing and soooo beautiful

[@quinncreel6091]

@@romancox5386 Anything more than 5 years and there will be reference differences.

[@windsongshf]

I had a mid life crisis at 40 with a 23 year old!!! 😆 We've been married for 22 years now. 😊

[@kerrycrandall6472]

is this true? what about kids?

[@windsongshf]

@@kerrycrandall6472 He's step-dad to my son, but more like a friend as my son has a good relationship with his dad. We've had the talk about him not having his own, but he's always said, he went into this with his eyes open, and can't imagine life without me. Yeah, I know on paper it's strange that it worked out in the long run, but we're very happy and honestly people just don't bat an eye. To be clear, I'm aware it's unconventional. I don't need this to become a thing. Lol! We're just a bit odd.

[@PeterBarry-bm8hd]

I think that is wonderful and congratulations for having the presence of mind and beauty to attract this younger man. I think the way you have both approached this is a wonderful lesson to all. I salute you from the bottom of my heart.

[@TheDieseldiet]

Weak men with no option will accept what they get. Rich high value men have options and choose wisely like Leo...

[@TheDieseldiet]

@@rubyredjeans Wrong! Older women for most parts have tons of baggages and emotional out bursts. The whole older woman is mature is a myth. Pretty much every Karen video is an older woman. I do not know a man who is successful and has options marry an older woman.

[@celestegarvey-petsch8303]

It was the closest, deepest, multidimensional relationship. He was 25. I was almost 40. We fell in love. I said I am older than you his reply was "numbers do not matter. I am in love with who you are." Together we did music,art,theater, animals, spiritual exploration. He married me on his birthday so he would never forget the anniversary.We were married for 13 yrs. He died in my arms on his birthday at age 38 from an aneurysm in his lungs. Ages, numbers, do not matter. It is who we are inside.

[@masteryoda498]

I’m sorry for your loss, may your Late husband, Rest In Peace.

[@SonjasStars]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Heavenlycharlee]

So sorry for your loss

[@Badobadee]

God bless his soul 🙏🏼❤️

[@chixbleau7321]

So sorry

[@Aisha-ej8lj]

I was a single woman aged 46 and for 3 years I dated guys ages 26 to early 30’s . They were the nicest , most gentlemanly guys I ever met . Smart , respectful , had amazing sex and I felt like a real queen with all of them because of how special they all made me feel . Plus , they were vibrant , enthusiastic, had energy and drive in all areas of their life . I don’t regret a single moment with any of them . I’m now in a relationship with a man 12 years my junior and vert happy 😊

[@business9989]

Waw Alisha great I also love nature women really I'm 33

[@Danneman92]

So you dated SEVERAL younger guys in that age group, who you seem to think very highly of. That leads to the question: If they're so "great", how come you aren't with either of them now? Clearly something didn't work out, or you'd be with one of them now. That said, glad you're happy in your relationship now. Hopefully it works out well.

[@Aisha-ej8lj]

I am with one of them now ! Been in a serious relationship for over 2.5 years and still going stroke ❤

[@peetgikeri5245]

She for the streets

[@kgan4733]

​@@peetgikeri5245free

[@NixonsFarm]

Younger women have dramatically unrealistic ideas about love, marriage, and responsibility. They're also immature. I met my wife when I was 21 and she was 30. I married her 6 years later and it was the smartest thing I ever did. That was 45 years ago. She still looks fabulous and the sex is still hot.

[@bluntweirdo]

I feel super nosy, but I am definitely curious about yalls life 😅

[@jordy885]

Key point "45 years ago" may have worked back then, sure doesn't now. Easy to research the statistics on that.

[@User4739]

you are 40 she is 50 you are 50 she is 60 you are 60 she is 70 you are 70 she is 80!!

[@Wen6543]

@@jordy885 Stattistics my ass, statistics say that the average height for males is 5´9 yet i´m 6.1, statistics say that average, average, etc. I don´t give a F about statistics, it´s all about me and the women i choose, individuals.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

​@@jordy885statistics actually show that older woman and younger man relationships are one of the happiest types.

[@normawileman3470]

I am 8 years and 11 months and 2 weeks older than my husband. We had our two daughters when I was 38 and 40. We now have a 2 year old granddaughter and a 2 month old grandson. Life is blissful for us. It’s been a great partnership, friendship and marriage. We celebrate our 33rd anniversary tomorrow, Jan 20th. It’s a true love match. ❤

[@FransceneJK98]

How was it having your first pregnancy at 37/38??

[@normawileman3470]

@@FransceneJK98 both pregnancies were amazing. No issues at all. I ate really healthy and “ate for 2!” at times. I only gained 22 lbs with each of them.

[@catherinegreen-iq9vb]

I was 71 in Oct my man will be 52 in Dec. He is the love of my life, makes me feel secure about myself is my best friend and we each others support. Emotionly and physically we click. He suffers with CPD but we work through the bad times, knowing what we have is too good to lose. Older women can handle this problem better than our younger sisters so go for it and enjoy a remarkably union this can be with a little hard work and maturity.

[@hethpadmore4167]

My Dad & Mum were 10 years apart& you're right! 55years married He was at her bedside even at death & still speaks of the treasure trove of wisdom she's left him because her patient manner in life

[@kewlchik3194]

I am 56 and the man that I am in love with, who is my genuine twin flame, is 29. I'm glad I came across this comment section and to see the happy people on here with such a big age difference making it work. This gives me hope! Age truly is just a number when the connection is soul deep.

[@octaviaria8081]

My husband is 25 years younger than l am. We have been married for 25 years and still going strong ! 😊 So whatever anyone has to say is utterly irrelevant !! Love and respect concers all !!

[@dragodraco7511]

You dropped this👸

[@huldahchayah8799]

❤

[@joyful610]

Good job!

[@yemedemure414]

This the comment I was looking for because it speaks to my situation!! I’m not sure how things going to play out between us. I’m older than his Mom. I have 2 Sons his age 😩 Like ppl say if we make it about age then it’ll be about age.

[@dragodraco7511]

@@yemedemure414 it depends,if you and that person are adults and considering he is an independent earner,no matter how much he earns,its not a problem But dont leave him if you both are happy.Btw whats the age difference?

[@justinthebeau2590]

As a younger man I will tell you why I prefer older women and ill use bullet points. -they are alot more respectful and easy going. -They actually know what they want and aren't afraid to say it etc. -They aren't after my money and I'm not after hers. -They actually appreciate and respect traditional/chivalrous men -Older women actually like sex and they actually know how to please and satisfy a man.

[@inettawalker9387]

I just crushed the button here.

[@marianneporter26]

I am 14 years older than my husband. We started dating when he was 29 and I was 43. We’ve been together 10 years and married 7 years. Best decision of my life!❤

[@justinthebeau2590]

@@marianneporter26 I've been with my wife for 12 years married for 9 I'm 32 and she 49 was best decision I ever made and we have an 8 yr old son together

[@MarvelousSeven]

Ben Franklin agrees. Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745) June 25, 1745 My dear Friend, I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entering into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient. But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these: i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable. 2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman. 3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience. 4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes. 5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding2 only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement. 6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy. 7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy. 8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!! Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.

[@millicentschneider4255]

I am 39 my new boyfriend 26 yes in 2023 🎉❤ passionate love making is the energy, respect and listening so far within a month,I am working on fear of losing him because of our age difference,we should fear nothing else it will attract,I know what you are talking about in this video your words and pallegram is true.we are awesome together my Ben 10 and I.

[@monzurulhasantuhin6831]

I am 29 and she is 47. I found my love of my life in her. We are happy

[@jona-io6uy]

Wish you guys a happy long life together ❤

[@pradeeprai7606]

@@jona-io6uy love you😘😘

[@nikkiross128b]

Love this. How did you solve the children problem? Asking for myself.

[@Mr.NotSatisfied10]

Crazy! We're the same age and your wife's same age as my wife

[@Curtis0826]

That’s so cool I wish it works out with me. I’m 19 right now and like this girl that’s 24. I know it isn’t much difference but I hope it works out.

[@desireeclaire2044]

You are spot on with the age bracket! When I met my husband he was 24, and I was 42 - we will be married 14 years in Feb.!!! Let me add that I had hoped to find a man in my own age bracket after a failed previous marriage. The ones that were my age and single- let's just say there were many reasons they were still single, and it began to feel like all of the good guys in my age range were already taken. When I met my husband he had just finished his second tour in Iraq, and I had no intentions of being more than friends. It did not seem realistic to be more than friends, and I think this is where dynamics play a part with big age gaps. He did not want biological kids- and I did not want to have more kids. Fighting combat in war makes you mature fast , so he did not act like most men do at 24. Neither of us were financially secure when we met so there were no feelings of being used for money. Like all couples we have had conflicts along the way, but none of them were caused or attributed by our age gap. Thank you for offering an objective view on this, it is refreshing not to be judged unfavorably!

[@tamikascales888]

I’m 42 and have a 24 yr old hot and heavy after me. The age gap is a challenge for me but he is emotionally and intellectually mature for his age and owns his own business. Im nervous but seriously considering giving this a chance. Congratulations on the success of your relationship.

[@desireeclaire2044]

@@tamikascales888 Same ages we started !!! Running his own business shows that he understands responsibility, that’s a good sign, and only the two of you can know how well the dynamics line up. To have, or not have kids, is the larger consideration for age gap couples, in my opinion and if you are both on the same page with that, there is no reason this union cannot evolve into a long-term, happy relationship. If you are young at heart, by a decade, and he is mature by a decade, there is no age gap at all anymore! It’s nice to hear from others who are on the same journey and I wish you both continued happiness and all good things in your lives together.

[@Rebecca-m3s]

I was 42, he was 24. My kids were grown, he never wanted kids. We became friends first, then lovers. This year we will celebrate our 31st anniversary. Of course we have had conflicts but never let them be more important than our relationship.

[@desireeclaire2044]

@@Rebecca-m3s I’m beginning to think the 24 with 42 is a lucky combination number for age gaps lol You and your spouse are further proof that age gaps can, and do work for many couples! If the motive behind the relationship is love, there is no reason a relationship cannot last a lifetime, just like any other! Congrats on your upcoming anniversary, may you both enjoy a lifetime of anniversaries to come.

[@stephanie7572]

I'm in my late 70s and my longtime lover is 30 years younger. We feel happier with each other than we ever have. When it works, it works.

[@emmaphilo4049]

It's as simple as that! Thank you for sharing

[@erinues7._-]

yeah, that's called gerontophilia

[@Kaizen747]

Woaaaaah

[@fancysonja]

🥰

[@07CS]

@@erinues7._- don't be so envious just because nobody wants you

[@hoteleandoconlafamilia]

My husband is 7 years younger than me. We've been married for 22 years and have 4 children. We are from different nationalities. We are an orthodox religious family. It has worked out so far. We have many things in common too.

[@romancox5386]

7 jears? Thats not a age gap.

[@maniya6830]

Your story is truly inspiring, I want to know more about how you guys got together and when you started having kids.

[@sucram1018]

@@romancox5386 It is one. Not every couple has to be 10 years or more apart. Stop trying to dictate people's relationships.

[@Cycology_Major]

@@romancox5386 Certainly could be when you're in your teens and 20's but beyond that into the more mature adult years, it's barely a blip & not even noticeable.

[@istarhabeen]

@@romancox5386 what about 8 yrs?

[@Stefan-br2cf]

Im 35 an my Girlfriend is 62, we are a couple since almost 10 Years. And never ever could have happen anything better to me

[@SheIsTired]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@edasmorante]

A great uncle of mine married a woman 20 years older than him. They kept married all their lives.

[@TheDieseldiet]

He was probably low value and unwanted by women his age.

[@manyplanets]

How long did they live?

[@macadamia668]

I mean, I'm pretty sure a lot of men in their 20s can agree. Its the lack of Mind games, emotional maturity and confidence that makes Older Women much more attractive. Good luck seeking that with younger women

[@viktoriax7228]

looking for your mom's love. You are used that way , no father figure and get lost in your childhood trauma

[@macadamia668]

@viktoriax7228 Ahh look at the poor little bro talk. lol, no pfp detected. Opinion rejected

[@katiejon17]

I’m 44 and my husband is 34. We met when I was 35, had our children when I was 37 and 40. It was unexpected, I did not initially seriously consider his advances, but I’m so grateful I have him a chance.

[@FransceneJK98]

How was it having your first pregnancy at 36/37??

[@katiejon17]

@@FransceneJK98 for me, it was perfect. Both pregnancies were perfect. By “perfect”, I mean pregnancy-wise. The only issue I had was with my first born, laboring for 36 hours, then needed an emergency cesarean. The only lingering issues are with c-section scarring and adhesions - other than that, pregnancy (for me) were wonderful experiences.

[@tahaniosman2617]

I was married to a man who was 17 years my senior for 15 years and they were awful ones, now I am married to a young man who is 17 years my junior and oh, what a big difference! We're so happy together he always wants to bring me a star from the sky, so caring and loving, there's a great chemistry between us both sexually and mentally. I live my most peaceful years with him now.

[@RAD_Director]

That's amazing!!! Many more years of happiness to you. How did you both meet?

[@outoforbit00]

I had a long term relationship with a man 8 years older. Years later I was with a man eight years younger. At times I would look at the younger one and think, fuck, now I can see what the older guy had to put up with. Eventually I got back with the first one.

[@joyous2346]

I am thankful to have found this video. I am 48 and my lover is 37. We have been together for 4 years. I had no idea so many others were in the same boat as us. Your comments have been so helpful and encouraging, a permission of sorts that this love really is a blessing to enjoy every day.

[@kgbintimacycoach]

Today, it's men in their 30's that are loving women in their 50's. And as a single 51 year old - I'm loving this dynamic!!

[@aligenc659]

Would you date a 26 years old guy? 😅

[@kgbintimacycoach]

@aligenc659 I don't think that many in their 20's are mature enough for an older woman. Your 20's are all about exploring, learning about life and adulthood, it's a huge learning curve as you develop and start to learn who you are and what you want to do in life as you approach 30 and beyond. Connection is paramount, when you are truly connected, age is just a number.

[@manosijroy8282]

​@@kgbintimacycoachso if 26 is young for you then what would feel about 23 haha? I turned 23 a bit over a month ago

[@DeRussellMasina]

I'm age 36, most of the time I'm dealing with women in there 50 definitely. They communicate better, are more open minded & bring less drama or head ache. Don't get me started on the secs 😅

[@aldomonti813]

Totally false. Statistics refute your comment completely. Most men prefer younger women and women overall prefer older men. A society that encourages unnatural unions is bound to sterylity, decay and to its own disappearance.

[@Officialpaulsimon1]

I’m 78 my boyfriend is 55. He and I both had previous marriages. Neither one was a good marriage. He treats me like a queen. He loves me, more than my previous husband. We agree on so many things. He’s a Christian, and my previous husband was not. That means a lot to me.

[@UrsaBella]

poor guy. i feel sorry for him.

[@bibliomaniac4life]

@@UrsaBella Don't worry! You don't need to feel sorry for anyone in this situation!

[@AWEnomALi]

God that's rude ​@@UrsaBella

[@UrsaBella]

@@AWEnomALi i was pretty mild actually. At 55 a man is still pretty young. He might be waiting on some inheritance. Not much else to do with a 78 yo.

[@AWEnomALi]

@@UrsaBella you don't know that. It's just how you think about it and so is a reflection of you. someone at 55 could be very in love with someone who is 78. I've seen bigger age gaps. You don't believe it because you could not Yourself and would only have selfish motives yourself if you were in the same position. That's why you carry that opinion

[@violettabicycletta331]

Let's not forget the soul connection ... and soul does not care about age . Thank you for this great video in praise of older women . Every single woman is heading that way nothing to be scared about ! Behind Every older women ... there is a younger women hiding behind the cover !!!.

[@giupinkfairy]

TBF, the law does though...

[@pains1956]

thank you I feel that way....I cant identify with my age..and this podcast/video has been illuminating..I cant find a man my age that I can love and admire and have fun

[@rickholland6695]

The woman who would eventually become my wife was 14 years older than me. We were EMT/Paramedic partners working EMS together for decades. I knew Penny for 43 great years. We lived together for 30 years, married 15 of them (I was her second husband). Unfortunately, she passed away suddenly in 2020. I can tell you they don't women like her anymore. But life goes on.

[@shellylavigne5913]

I want a young one☝️

[@Oceanix__]

i happened to be with a 38 year old lovely woman when i was 24, i was really desperate for a relationship, love, sex and learning experience. She would never hesitate to correct me if i do a mistake and always was patient with everything, even though she was in tough time of her life. Though our relation only lasted few months, it taught me a lot of things which made me a better man.

[@FindingMyself90]

That's what's up. That's definitely a blessing

[@Fourstar97]

an older woman did the same for me, i strongly value her to this day.

[@eQuariuz]

"She would never hesitate to correct me if i do a mistake" That makes you a young sucker and kind of a simp. Can't believe you clowns are endorsing this shyt.

[@TriggerHappyThoughts]

@@eQuariuz What? Isn't that a good thing? How is is simping

[@hachiroku8677]

U were lucky. I only had some sparse and negligible dating episodes throughout my 20s, so I could never acquire the sexual experience a man must have by my age. Now, I'm in my early 30s, but without a single big lifetime achievement under my belt (when I was about to take off, the pandemic kicked my ass so hard that I'm still picking up the pieces to this day). In practical terms, it means that my sexual market value hasn't really changed since I was 18. But, unlike my 18 self, my sex drive has plummeted, my gray hair is starting to pop up and get noticeable from a short distance, and I'm far less optimistic about life, society, and relationships (especially romantic ones). Despite all that, I still refuse to lower my standards. I still refuse to date low-quality women. I still refuse to stick my jimmy in some old dry-ass pu$sy. I'm already fine driving a 1994 Toyota with faded body panels, bald tires, and 200k miles on it, which means that I don't need more old, depreciated crap in my life. Having that said, I'm seriously flirting with the idea of staying alone until the end if I fail to improve my current situation.

[@maam-yj8ph]

I think the dynamic works well for child-free couples especially. If age is literally the only major difference and otherwise the values and expectations are similar, why not go for it?

[@catherineingalls7357]

Agreed if he doesn’t want children and is ok if you already have some.

[@LRS11B]

I was 21 and she was 26. We clicked immediately. She was my first. I had no experience with women and never had intimacy before her. She was understanding, patient and coached through the anxiety. We've been married 34 years and together for 36.

[@adrianacatalinaradu]

I have been reading all the comments. Delightful

[@MyNameisNeo-w3x]

😮😊

[@emilymaric2098]

I am 10 years older than my husband. I met him when he was 23 and I was 33. We have been together for 5 years and married for 4 years, and have a 3 year old daughter. 🥰

[@vidyatharun3474]

Mam tell me when you get married and tell me your age during your marriage ☺️

[@caribbeanflora2119]

How do u deal with others' opinions of the relationship

[@Sabah.Jamilovitch]

Beautiful 💖

[@Sabah.Jamilovitch]

@@vidyatharun3474 it is totally normal and beautiful. Life is diversity, it teach us to follow our hearts and intuition.🌹💖🌸🔥

[@YasminYoruba]

@@caribbeanflora2119you don’t care because people will judge anyways so do what makes you happy

[@dianedorney5147]

I married a man seventeen years younger than me, we had a wonderful life....he passed away, he still makes me smile

[@Badobadee]

God bless his soul ❤️

[@huldahchayah8799]

❤

[@meenamoh6084]

Omg you did love spell on him? Don’t lie 😮😮😮😮😮

[@jacquelinestarr3267]

I am 70 met my guy at work 10 years ago he was 45...I love him completely

[@67Stu]

When I was 24 I had a girlfriend who was 37. I'm now 56 pushing 57. It was one of the best things that ever happened to me. 💓

[@ytano5782]

Is was 23, my wife 32. I‘m 40 now and we‘ve a son (16) and a daughter (14). I couldn't be happier. This constellation can also lead to stable, long-lasting relationships

[@MartinLaforce]

I'm crushing hard on a woman who's probably 15-20 years older than me.. I never thought I would crush like this ever again, here goes nothing and wish me luck lol

[@Nikkiole84]

I hope all is going well. I'm crushing on a young man 14 years younger than me lol. I'm 39.

[@Escow0rld]

You got it 🎉

[@EveVon83]

Im crushing on 24 younger see saw me at our boys football field ❤❤❤ im liking it hopefully it goes well

[@Bronte866]

W here who has always been exclusively into guys much younger than myself. Currently crushing on a guy possibly 30 yrs younger but he will think I’m 15 yrs older max. I look very, very young. It may be a freak out for him but I am a decent, gentle & honorable person ‘ think he is, too. I think he’s interested but we’ll see. Best of luck & love to you.

[@applechapman]

update?

[@heathertaylor4979]

I am 72 and my partner will be 40 this month. We have been together for three yrs.

[@simplu_de_tot]

super

[@mollysmom4]

I've been seeing a guy 30 years younger than me; its great to hear it can work under the right circumstances.

[@DeScorp1029]

I’ll be 57 next month and on the cusp of a relationship with a 41 year old. He’s the sweetest, most sincere man I’ve encountered in a long time.

[@twoleftfeet4089]

I'm a 28 year man and is about to start dating a 40 year woman. I been single for a while so I am a bit nervous but she makes me so happy!!

[@twoleftfeet4089]

@@rulingstone123 lol! Is that right?

[@silverlining6259]

@@twoleftfeet4089 don’t listen to him 😊

[@twoleftfeet4089]

@@silverlining6259 oh I aint lol

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@rulingstone123 if it doesn't so what nothing lasts forever

[@Mauriora596]

@@rulingstone123 I’ve been with my younger man for 20 years now, your just jealous he sounds so happy

[@joyleentyson308]

Just came across this video which really caught my eyes. Very interesting indeed. I'm almost 14 years older than my husband we've been married for almost 17 years and we have a 16 year old daughter. We have a loving and great relationship and I have no regrets 😊😊

[@ednafortner6444]

I am 65 year old woman dating a 49 year old man. I tried warning him off, but he said he thought I am beautiful and wanted to date me. We are both past childbearing! And since I want a sexual relationship, he is happy with me.

[@AdventureVixen]

My husband is 20 yrs younger we just get along well. We've been married 8 years, and there have been bumps along the road, but he really makes me happy. I did think we were going to have a short-term relationship, but we stayed together.

[@lilylife4426]

I had a 15-year age gap in both directions and the relationship with a younger guy felt much easier and more fun. It depends on what each person is looking for. I wouldn't seek marriage with a younger guy, but dating and enjoying each other's company, mind blowing intimacy (both physical and emotional) are totally worth it. It's the older guy who pointed out my age (thirties) and the younger guy only complimented me.

[@evilzinabyssranger5695]

We think that The young girls are funier.. The fact is that People bring traumas with them. But sometimes different ages bring different values...

[@jordy885]

Yet both didn't work out 🤔

[@Youaretheactionsofgod]

Unfortunately women don't have the ability to have intamacy, or empathy, compassion, loyalty, respect, kindness. It's just biological, you can't expect those things from women.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

Why not marriage? Don't sell yourself short

[@dreamdust38]

Older men do not seem to be much fun for the most part. Usually negative and bringing one's happiness down. I see it as a oxytocin and cortisol experience. I try to stay away from the older man cortisol experience.

[@user-qb8qm4mp5n]

An older woman, here, with a younger man, we had a child together, and we're still together after 30 years. We are not competitive with each other and support each other in everything. Before meeting my young guy, I was in a relationship for a few years with an older man and I felt like I was always in a competition and never quite measuring up. I highly recommend older woman/younger man relationships. They are a lot of fun.

[@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot]

Yours was an ego problem then

[@equestrianangel968]

I’m enjoying mine We both don’t know where this is going to go but our goals are a lot of the same & we enjoy what we have Age is just a number

[@WakandaBabe]

I have read a bunch on these types of relationships. Usually, the reason for separation is the 'children' issue. But usually, these relationships work out. And I'm not talking about young men in their 20s who just want a sex partner so they can 'learn'. I'm referring to adults who are both financially secure, emotionally intelligent, mature. It's like any relationship; if it satisfies emotional, physical, sexual needs, then why not?

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

Ss long as the female isn't 40 yet she can have kids with a younger dude. It's possible for a female to get pregnant over 40 though I don't recommend it. Not everyone wants crib midgets.

[@nickyannajones]

Agreed

[@jordy885]

Statistically they don't last. In the US roughly 78% of those relationships don't last more than 5 years and are 3 times more likely to end in divorce than couples of the same age or ones where the man is 3-7 years older. 60-90% of men would date an older woman but only 14% would actually consider marrying them. In the words it may be fun and exciting for both but won't last for a healthy and have kids together or simply just die old together happy ending.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

@@jordy885 not everyone is looking to get married or have kids plus there's always adoption

[@nurhesen]

"men in their 20s who just want a sex partner so they can 'learn'" That is a really stupid assumption. Most men in 20's look for love and marriage more than men in their 30's. But probably not with 40 year old women.

[@MarvelousSeven]

I was 23, she was 44. Classic she had me come over "to fix something" scenario, led me to a bedroom and threw herself at me. She was and remains the most talented woman I've ever been with.

[@Poussyeater-w5e]

Damn

[@klopcodez]

Okay reverse the roles now

[@milescivis1018]

@@klopcodez this! Haha

[@klopcodez]

@@milescivis1018 Shows you how corrupt men have been conditioned to be. Calling pevertic behavior good or evil good

[@milescivis1018]

@@klopcodez huh? What’s pervertic?

[@AlisonRuthless]

As someone married to a man 8 years younger than myself (for quite some time now), this was really insightful & interesting. Thanks for sharing.

[@hachiroku8677]

I have a 26 yo cousin that since his early 20s has been consistently dating women in their 40s (hot women, tho). I used to think it was weird, given that, aside from Mariah Carey and Toni Braxton, I've never been attracted to older women at all. But after this video, his strategy begins to make sense to me.

[@ph3879]

YOU ARE AND ABSOLUTE LEGEND . Videos are concise and to the point avoiding waffling. Your voice is clear and the message is well constructed. Honest , logical yet tactful. The content is ultra relevant. Pure art !!!

[@Daniela.Mccaffrey]

I Agree!

[@florroma805]

i HAVE BEEN READING THE COMMENTS. HOW INTERESTING & DELIGHTFUL. Actually there's this guy who is seven years younger than me. I like him so much. Very much. And we hit it off. Unbelievable magnetism and chemistry between us. I'd like to b elieve he's my soulmates. I truly believe so.

[@robbiePlanetaSano]

My partner is 23 years younger than me. We originally got together when he was 24 and I was 47. Now I am 67 and he is 44. We were apart for 15 years and got back together a few years ago . Always an amazing partnership. We accomplish a lot together. And 20 years of partnership and friendship we really do know each other … Our relationship has always been very sexual and is better now than ever …best sex in my whole life ☺️

[@mojok7070]

Great to hear. Me and my wife been together literally 8 years now and we have 4 kids as well. Even our relationship has always been sexual from day 1 but we fell for each other as well. I'll be turning 35 soon and she wll be turning 46. It's great to hear other people are happy with being in relationships with young men like us because I've always preferred older women even back when I was in school. I lost my virginity to a older woman that's why I loved being with them from day 1. Sexual or romantic either way I still enjoyed being with older women than women my age

[@gardeniabee]

So glad to learn of your happiness. My age gap is 27, and I was mystified how it could be… it is inexplicably the most spiritual, harmonious, and mature relationship I’ve known!

[@aushshsushshsh5224]

Sex at 67?! Where do they provide health services this great?

[@victoriousjoy9338]

​@@aushshsushshsh5224What do you mean?

[@emmaphilo4049]

This is such a nice story, wishing you a lot more happiness to come :)

[@melocoton7]

when I was around 35 I was dating mid 20's for not particular reason. It just so happened that I clicked with that age. I look and get guessed at least 10years younger than I am anyway. My husband is 6 years younger than I, which isn't all that much of an age gap. He was 29 and I was 35 when we met. It is absolutely the best relationship I have ever had. On all levels. We've realized that we do not want kids, so me being almost 45 now and him closing up on 39 is really not an issue. In his own words, he is still absolutely smitten with me. I sometimes catch him staring at me with that lost in thoughts face and then just goes "how am I so lucky"

[@phoenixrising1675]

My husband was 21 and I was 31 and I had 2 kids- we had one of our own and now we’re 55 and 65- and still going strong!

[@thekimberlyanderson]

Love this! I just put out a video on this very topic and would love if you could share your valuable experience! ❤

[@GrumpyVeteran374]

At 35 I met my wife 47. Beautiful woman inside and out with a PhD. We were both looking for a life partner. We are best friends and still have a lot of fun in and out of the bedroom 21 years later.

[@abdulmateen3326]

wow, i am jealous of you

[@ramonathemidwife7121]

Currently, I am seeing a man who is 30 yrs younger. It is not all about sex. We enjoy each other’s company. We have fun together. We have great communication. We never argue and allow each other to be ourselves, as well as, give each other space. He is the kindest and most thoughtful & respectful man I have dated. Will it last? We don’t know…we take it one day at a time.

[@BarbaraBialk-i4z]

Im 71, he’s 44, entering our 9th year together. In began as a deep mutual friendship. Hes the best friend I’ve ever had in life, and I am his as well. We mutually respect and accept each other. Always have. Best relationship I’ve ever had.

[@shirleyclarkejackson5560]

My husband was 40 and I was 56 when we met. We had a fabulous marriage until he died aged 52. We never wanted children - I had 3 adult children - he didn’t want any. Most of the men who want to date me now are younger than I am.

[@dion5804]

The reason for this type of relationship is that men on the emotional side seek stability and trust. We suffer trauma and damage since our mothers' wombs. Only maturity and experience can make us resolve or learn to deal with it. Many will not make it. Many will. The young, romantic man is looking for a more mature woman who has achieved this. It's not just a matter of age. It's his innermost yearning, as women have an easier time with emotional intelligence, especially when they're truly mature.

[@CameronKiesser]

Bingo. I want someone I can trust and rest with. I know I still have a role to play, but I was shocked at how calming this lady made me feel. 8 year age gap. I'm actually hopeful. lol

[@ZFern9390]

I needed to hear this because I am 56 and a 46 year old man keeps asking me out. I went out one casual evening and we had a nice time. I am three years divorced from a 22 year marriage. He is 5 years divorced from a 5 year marriage. Can you offer more words of wisdom?

[@andreharris7211]

Ive done it both ways, been with a man 20 years older and have spent last 14 years with someone 15 years younger. Went to a wedding this weekend with husband 25 years younger they have been together more than 10 years. What i notice in common is that the men tend to be more serious and conscientios than typical men of their age and the women tend to be more adventurous, dominant and happy than is typical for women their age.

[@Ginger57]

I'm loving this post. Im the older woman who is 2.5 years into the best relationship of my life with a man 10.5 years younger. He has been my next door neighbor since 2015. We are happy,settled, content and moving my Dad in next door for his remaining years. Fate is fabulous ‼❣🌹💯

[@DR-cr3zo]

Im happy that the comments all break the theory of the video. I think its just about the video makers personal preference.

[@SherryLembo]

He's 25 , I'm 57. We're great together ❤️

[@JuneKovac]

It boils down to:if it works FOR BOTH of you, then nothing else MATTERS 😂❤

[@marincuculic1020]

June you look so charming :) Are you maybe single?

[@michelleedwards1165]

My husband is 28 and I am 45 married almost two years. He has taught me so much as a person and has showed me a love that I’ve never experienced before . I love e with everything I have.

[@valiaudet3415]

Any age difference really doesnt matter. For those who have found their soul mate , congratulations. Love is love. Many people never do.

[@marycowan7666]

I am 66, he is 45. This is the first time for us both to be involved in a relationship with this type of age difference. Initially I ignored him; young for me was 55. I’m glad he was persistent. He says he didn’t realize what he was missing … for the same reasons you mentioned. And neither did I. Our relationship is loving, passionate, and we’re very comfortable and relaxed together.

[@dunichtich100]

In Germany we have a saying: "You learn sailing on old ships" This referrs to the same relationship dynamic 😅

[@thomasvan7738]

In Belgium we say: the best soup is made with an old pan and a young carrot.

[@eQuariuz]

You are all blue pilled.

[@stefanmatton8778]

😂😂😂😂

[@Bucephalus84]

That's nasty. Ever look inside a grilled cheese sandwich?😮😢

[@annabanzon313]

Lol

[@sandrathorpe95]

I met my man 7 years ago he was 47 & i was 74..we're still together im now80 & he 53. He loves being in my company & i love his company..

[@bbalance2086]

Very encouraging. Thank you!

[@viliusg210]

Im 26, had a relationship with a 36 year old woman for 6 months and it was a very good experience. We had a matching sexual drive and generally i had a better time than with younger girls.

[@anmazool725]

Also they are more open not gonne lie 100 times hotter …

[@MarvelousSeven]

@@anmazool725 and they got a schedule to keep, so they'll give it you earlier and not lead you on until 2am

[@anmazool725]

@@MarvelousSeven true true men and also the best thing good body look you ger woman they all fat and high body count bcs they have the new generation life style..

[@TheDieseldiet]

Lol you probably got rejected by younger women and older was your only option. Disparaging younger women is a cope.

[@emmaphilo4049]

​@@TheDieseldietyou're so negative. It seems you can't accept people enjoying themselves

[@Violetta1912]

My 2 sisters and one of my cousins are all older than their partners. 10, 16 and 18 years difference. They’ve all been together for well over 10 years and 2 of them are married. It works for them, they’re all very happy.

[@tinacser310]

OMG!!! And I thought that I was alone in such a situation ! I'm really happy for all of us... such a good feeling ❤

[@carlosdixan112]

I hate the dynamic with younger women. They expect you to lead but if you don't do it exactly how they want if you're the had person. It almost seems like an way to avoid accountability on their part.

[@FindingMyself90]

This

[@carlosdixan112]

@@FindingMyself90 ??

[@FindingMyself90]

@@carlosdixan112 i was just agreeing with emphasis bc you summed it up perfectly

[@carlosdixan112]

@@FindingMyself90 Thanks. Wish you a great day !

[@FindingMyself90]

@@carlosdixan112 thanks! Same to you. Keep ya head up for the rest of the year.

[@sambadham1404]

When I was 30 I had a two year relationship with a 41 year old. The sex was mind blowing and she did teach me a lot. But she was also a narcissist and was capable of being incredibly cruel. I'm now around the age she was then and I would never treat anyone like that or allow myself to be treated like that. But back then, I was love sick.

[@jordy885]

Sounds like my ex lmao

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

Well that had nothing to do with her age. Plenty of young people are awful people.

[@danadavis8333]

​@@ASMRyouVEGANyet he's not dissing older women, he just talking his life experience.

[@jonathanroa2403]

I’m 21 and she’s 29, we’re currently in a long distance relationship, I can’t wait to see her again. I miss her 😔.

[@anjunatuna]

8 years is a good gap in Chinese astrology too :)

[@prim.an.propher1505]

Im 40 and my man is 34 and it is a match made in heaven. I usually would be approached by older men but it was love at first sight and I cherish how much he loves me

[@sandyshoals7565]

I love your logical approach to relationship issues. The younger man/older woman dynamic works well in my experience.

[@giakurstenschweizer73]

I have been in a relationship for three years with a significantly younger man. He was 22 and I was 45 when we met. At first it started out as a casual FWB situation, but it turns out that we have so much chemistry beyond amazing sex. I’m pretty much expecting this to run it’s course as he matures into wanting a family phase of his life; however, he insists that something like that won’t happen with him. He’s deeply in love with me and keeps insisting that there’s a real forever future with me. Right now, we’re in a very happy place, so I want to just enjoy it as is for however long it is. If it’s a bridge to nowhere, so be it 😅

[@giakurstenschweizer73]

@Stefan / Educated Tyrone Lately it has been exclusive.

[@giakurstenschweizer73]

@Stefan / Educated Tyrone We’re satisfying each other. Beyond amazing sex, we legit have real chemistry together.

[@os8051]

@Stefan / Educated Tyrone she’s crazy man look other different comments this account made

[@MarvelousSeven]

Gotta love nuttin' in a talented cougar.

[@n-tertainmentx-tended4760]

Keep in mind that he will change his mind when he gets older. So don't do something foolish like marry him, otherwise he's going to feel trapped when he's older.

[@Mauriora596]

This is hilarious , this is still such a taboo subject, people can handle the fact that some younger men love older women and some older women attract younger men, yes the sex is great and the love and friendship can be too , if it’s not for you , that’s all good but why have a negative opinion , cos it’s not your life and it’s works for plenty of people alot do no matter what you all think , it’s happening a lot more than you realise

[@imjustmeeks]

What's even crazier is society has been so conditioned to accept the older man younger woman dynamic that the younger man older woman dynamic is ALWAYS met with negative commentary....I hate it!

[@empressthefemalekinglife2529]

Well said ❤️❤️❤️🥰🌹

[@TheDieseldiet]

A younger man with older woman= can't get someone their age which =low value.

[@durpnurp9693]

​@@TheDieseldietas a woman in my twenties I think it's cool that men my age date older women. In my experience I've seen they are the best quality guys as well 😂 I want older women to teach me their ways

[@TheDieseldiet]

@@durpnurp9693 I don't understand!? Why would you want to lose potential mate to competition? What do you get out of this?

[@davidbuchanan3738]

Holy shit, this hit the nail on the head but I disagree. I’m 26, my lady is 48 and she’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I thank god for her every single day. She’s helped out so much and I’ve helped her. I love my lady and every day I just wake up feeling so lucky. I’m going to propose soon, I just hope she says yes 🙈.

[@christinejohnson5888]

Congratulations ❤

[@cindystigling6374]

I just turned 40 and honestly feel I'm at the perfect time in my life where I just want to enjoy myself , alot of younger men have been hitting on me and I decided to give it a try.. and u hit the nail on the head. We both know what we want out of this. No kids just physical pleasure..

[@animedweeb393]

Hi I agree

[@justinthebeau2590]

And the younger guys will do alot more and Try newer things

[@RamDan-k1n]

You make the right decision as 27 I would say that many guys will be happy to be in stable relationship with you and with now sham yes I intrestead in you

[@dante340]

Back in college, I would occasionally go salsa dancing. I was a complete beginner (which is awful if you're a man) and I can say with certainty that the older ladies were BY FAR more pleasant learn and practice with than the younger ones. They had such a sweet and fun-loving attitude and were so much more willing help me learn the moves.. as opposed to the younger women who typically develop an insanely cold and stuck-up attitude the moment they realize you aren't a professional dancer lol.

[@jessicavanoverbeke6668]

This is actually true. I'm 36 now, just started salsadancing. But I realize that a lot of men feel insecure doing so, so I am patient. I actually danced with some younger men and it was fun.

[@kevinn.7060]

Keep going Dante! I can certainly relate.. remember this: “salsa is hard to start but easy to change, and bachata is just the opposite - easy to start but hard to change.” Think of it as flying a plane. The takeoff part can be intimidating, but once you’re in the air you can get very creative (turns, spins etc…)

[@maryanntheresegime1302]

Thank God I saw this content. I’m 38 and single since pandemic started. This enlightened me. I love reading the lovely stories. Thank you. 💗💗💗

[@martine3884]

Met love of my life at 55, he was (a very old soul) 30. Never had anything like that, probably never will again. He broke it off, his desire to have kids stronger than this unbelievable connection. I went down a dark night of the soul and spiritual journey which both destroyed me and forced me to re-emerge as my best version yet. I learned what unconditional love really meant and felt like, and for that I say Thanks. For comparing every potential guy to him and failing each one, maybe not...

[@TeutonicTribe]

If the big issue was an inability to have his babies, then that’s not “unconditional love”. There *was* a condition placed on you. Otherwise, there is no doubt that mutually intense love bonds are possible & as one can see in these wonderful, hopeful comments, unconditional love commitments also can occur x

[@DORCASSMARTKASTAR]

So you guys still married?

[@Tangerinedream1984]

I’m 39 and dated a guy who was 28 who just wanted to use me for short term gratification- idk I think it works out for some people but I also feel like a lot of younger guys are mostly in it for the short term

[@tbunnyshy1]

I had a wonderful experience at 42 with a 29 year old. He persuaded me to meet him and we truly clicked on a deeper level. It was a great 2 years. I will never forget him and I wish him the very best.

[@AceKite00]

My first OFFICIAL relationship was with a 24yr old woman, and I was 16. She was the most kind, caring, emotionally nurturing woman I’ve ever met. She also never took any bullshit and ALWAYS called me out when I was wrong; and she always made me feel better whenever I got into my emotional rage episodes about the way other people are in general. She literally changed who I am and made me better. I’m 28 today, and I still think of her. Brenda, I’ll probably never find another woman like you again..

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

was the age of consent 16 where you lived

[@AceKite00]

@@mitchellmartinsky2299 No; But in the end it doesn’t matter. I have friends today who are well into their 20’s who dated girls who are 15. Age gaps like that are much more common than most are aware. I only wish I was as strong and mature back then as I am now, I’d be in a happy and stable relationship and not trying to date the cesspool of girls we have now. The older truly can make younger ones grow a conscience and be better, just as Brenda did for me. It’s thanks to her that I’ve never truly fell into a dark place. I always think of how disappointed she’d be in me if I did.

[@samuelmontenegroserniotti7146]

Do not catch the feels. There are many Brendas bro, dont you fucking sweat it.

[@AceKite00]

@@samuelmontenegroserniotti7146 No she truly was one of a kind. I’m the one who messed the relationship up. I messed around with another girl and just generally started treating Brenda like shit. I began not caring how she felt. We made up a couple years later but haven’t heard from her since. I Haven’t ran into a woman like her yet, but I will keep trying. She always told me for every 100 bad people there’s always that 1 good person. Being the asshole kid I was, I thought that statement was stupid, but quickly realized what she meant.

[@samuelmontenegroserniotti7146]

@@AceKite00 If you treated her like shit is because you didnt love her anymore. And you are just sad that she knew better. If she didnt left you wouldnt realize this, and you would have treated her like shit to this day. This means: this was the best outcome for yourself, because it makes you grow as a man. Remember: You cant replicate old happyness. You will never be happy the same exact way. But there are many, different ways to be happy. The time will come when you will look in the mirror and see a happy man, in a different world.

[@theoracle2760]

So this is basically just a nice, professional way to say older women should come to terms with being fun and practice for younger men until the younger man increases his sexual market value enough to get the more desirable, younger woman. Sounds like short term gratification that can lead to long term issues (for the woman mainly).

[@f3042]

LOL That’s what I was going to say. I’d never date younger because it won’t last. I’ll stick with an older guy. 😆

[@francosuarez]

There are psychological, financial, and social dangers for men which is why this is dangerous for men. Older women with kids are even more dangerous for men, so, it is not short-term gratification but long-term enslavement and social stigma.

[@edwhatshisname3562]

@@thecarnivorefix No, but they are more stable, generally, than a younger guy with an older woman. Unfortunately, nature has been cruel to women as far as how long they are found to be physically attractive to men, then there is also the fact that they stop ovulating around their 40s or 50s, or at the very least have significantly increased chances of having a child with issues if they still can ovulate, while men can stay fertile well into old age, though with diminished "seed" quality. Most guys probably don't think consciously about having kids with the women they sleep with, but their instincts will always take that into consideration, and our instincts have more control over what we do or don't like than most people seem to realize.

[@yep3172]

I'll have to disagree based on my personal situation. I was 20 and my wife was 26. We've been deeply in love and together for 14.5 years. I think for a relationship to last there's really only two variables that count. 1. do you truly love each other and it's not just lust. 2. putting in the effort to communicate and work through your issues together.

[@Vakator-29]

well yes

[@MuhoroWaManchester.]

I'm 26 and she is 33. I hope this will work out. She has transformed me alot.🎉

[@beckycarreiro2369]

Yes my husband is 32 im 60 lol but we are already 10 years married still strong

[@pandorasbox1658]

I sent this interesting perspective to my son who is 23, and is seeing a 43 year old woman. Some good things to think about.

[@TeutonicTribe]

How incredibly kind & loving of you to consider this! I wish for happiness & contentment- for all of you to come 🥰