if you don't use these men they will use you...point blank period
@perlitalaguna66224 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this is very true.
@ivonetorres44344 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@yourfavpersuasion93853 жыл бұрын
this
@msve37303 жыл бұрын
Take it from me it happens all the time. I've always been that Good girl and treated every man honest 😌 and they always ended up using me in some way. Either it was for Car insurance, a place to stay, food, money, lunch money, a shovel to shovel their ex out , a jack to change their ex tire. Yes I said it. It happened to me. When you come on the scene having it ALL together you attract dusties and users and narcissistic. When I didn't have anything I attracted high value men it was the other way around.
@teanna45693 жыл бұрын
@@msve3730 that's true because men look at independent woman as competitors, and we can't grant them emotional security because they no we don't "NEED" them and they don't feel secure if you don't need them that's why they date LOW- CLASS woman only to mistreat them, I refuse to dumb myself down to stroke a man's ego, if he don't like this .....next😂
@omgfinally43406 жыл бұрын
Attractive is a man who spoils you and loves you. "Model" looking men aren't my target. They never come thru.
@angelae17915 жыл бұрын
Omg Finally exactly I’ve never wanted a relationship with a model type looking man they are too into themselves
@starrix47125 жыл бұрын
Yep ugly guys are a better investment, they’ll be more desperate and enamoured with you ... hot guys have probably had some “10”s even so aren’t as impressed
@spacelyman94825 жыл бұрын
@Cynthia Saintfort So if a man is giving you money, what will you give that man in return? It can't just be one sided.
@spacelyman94824 жыл бұрын
@Cynthia Saintfort It's a simple question.
@blueocean14244 жыл бұрын
@@starrix4712 😂😂😂 gotta screenshot this goof ass shyt
@queenie_the_virgo7 жыл бұрын
As my grandmama said "Baby get a man with a money that you can stand to look at."
@LeilaniAlua6 жыл бұрын
queenie_the_virgo My granny said the Same thing lol!!
@robynfloyd92156 жыл бұрын
queenie_the_virgo I like this
@brianajackson49756 жыл бұрын
Come through grandma
@starblossom13705 жыл бұрын
TeamVirgo ♍
@beninthefield85025 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆
@Mamilicious236 жыл бұрын
I'm weeding thru them, like a pro now! I'm not even playing nice anymore. I'm on a mission!
@everyroseenterprises22265 жыл бұрын
Margaritamami yasss
@timeless_beautie96235 жыл бұрын
Me too
@QueenP901.5 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@elaineanderson48915 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@ahmosel49015 жыл бұрын
Any luck?
@T.a.s.h.o.n.n.a6 жыл бұрын
Yes I'd rather STAY single than settle.
@Melanie-le6mw5 жыл бұрын
Tashonna Johnson same here!!!
@peekaboots015 жыл бұрын
I have never settled. But I'm also over fifty! So nobody wants to be this old and single, although I'll remain single until the day I die rather then settle.
@ritasjourney Жыл бұрын
@@peekaboots01I’m almost 58 and got approached at a coffee shop recently. I’m almost ready to start free styling even though I still need to lose weight. Never give up. Just get out there and have fun either way.
@bribrimarie21218 жыл бұрын
This woman is the TRUTH! I started watching her videos.. last week. I have already gotten shoes, designer bags , money , wealthy men approaching me smh... why wasn't I doing this before?!..
@boujieekaylonnii52388 жыл бұрын
BriBri Marie what have you been doing lol to have it manifests this fast
@SheRaSeven17 жыл бұрын
lol yay
@scorpionpam6 жыл бұрын
BriBri Marie LMAO. Why does this remind me of the lady on Kanye's workout plan. 😂😂😂
@CurtisReese-tl7ip6 жыл бұрын
MxTooReal She married a ugly man that a lot of women is not going to chase. She is using that to manipulate you women into thinking its so easy.
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
Curtis Reese 2969 he's not ugly
@InnerPower4me8 жыл бұрын
My last relationship my ex paid everything and I am accustomed to that... I tell my friends all the time... I want to be a kept wife and he has to be able to provide and protect 100%
@stacyr47686 жыл бұрын
Men use that as a way to control you
@honeywest39j956 жыл бұрын
@mrlpn2 god forbid something happens to him, and she have no skills to actually work....that's sad...at least have a plan B
@dcaramelone6 жыл бұрын
@@honeywest39j95 She has a degree, and then there's insurance. You never been married to a man of means have you? You can't even fathom a future for her. Lol
@honeywest39j956 жыл бұрын
@@dcaramelone as I stated in my last comment, having a plan "B" is necessary....and you really don't know enough about me to know what I can "fathom".....these were supposed to be words of wisdom, not an attack.....take care...✌
@dcaramelone6 жыл бұрын
@@honeywest39j95She DOES have a plan B and a C. T. lol
@g.pearson47264 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy My dad tells us a story about a women he met that said she wants this this and this My bill cost this He passed on her but he still says til this day She was fine as hell and wasn’t afraid to ask for what she wants And she was worth every penny of it He tells his daughters You need to be the same way State what you want and if he doesn’t give it to you keep it moving Thanks for sharing your story
@keianajohnson1836 Жыл бұрын
Why didn’t your dad pursue her? Did he feel she was out of his league?
@StrangeOccultist Жыл бұрын
@@keianajohnson1836 he couldn’t afford her probably loo
@ancientdreamsinamodernland5147 Жыл бұрын
“Fine as hell”? Hopefully he’s single bc of the way he talks about other women
@ilikeponie Жыл бұрын
@@ancientdreamsinamodernland5147 you’re here yet u still don’t understand how men are 😂
@sabrina-br4br Жыл бұрын
Your dad sounds like a loser
@Suerenity7 жыл бұрын
I must say your unapologetic delivery is tough for broke men to swallow or even lovers of broke men but to each his/her own. When you have seen or experienced true struggle love, nothing can change your mind from wanting better for yourself and children. Thanks for sharing. He showed you how interested he truly was in you from the jump! Law of attraction works whether you know it or not.
@carolynr60266 жыл бұрын
I found her videos by accident lol 😂 . I do agree 100% that women should want men who are providers. I’ve been in struggle love relationships and they don’t work and are a waste of time especially when you as the woman is the breadwinner. I will never settle for less again.
@IntellectuallyAstute6 жыл бұрын
Carolyn I 2nd that!
@faizalzulkifli67173 жыл бұрын
Karma also comes back to women like y'all
@Suerenity3 жыл бұрын
@@faizalzulkifli6717 Karma is for the lame dudes who use women as objects for free. Karma for a woman and her children being provided for? Gtfoh
@faizalzulkifli67173 жыл бұрын
@@Suerenity karma for the lame women that expect to be provided for in everything while at the same time they do not know how to be a proper wife.
@art6374 Жыл бұрын
I did the Dusty Sponsorship program from 19-22, and got tfo. I’m in my 30s, married and spoiled to heaven and back. No thanks. Never again. Keep spreading the gospel auntie.
@weilancui409 Жыл бұрын
Dusty sponsorship program 💀💀😂
@inasyal6311 Жыл бұрын
I also did dusty sponsorship from 16-21 ......wasted my precious years for this dust
@mexicana4721 Жыл бұрын
Not the gospel! 😂 lol
@NimeetaA Жыл бұрын
never did sponsorship. the man wasn't even broke but never spoiled, provided or paid my bills. told me he only "want a real genuine connection". i wasn't broke either. but somehow it felt more plain like a room mate situation.
@besapeposhi386411 ай бұрын
What did you do to end up at second comment?
@donyell63355 жыл бұрын
Don’t have to do much WHEN HE WANTS YOU‼️
@tabitha1821 Жыл бұрын
So true😊
@daniellehedger3644 Жыл бұрын
period
@Anastasiyaaaa-n4k3 күн бұрын
fact
@melindaroop13468 жыл бұрын
The geeky/nerdy types are my favorite ! They're so cute.
@jrmetmoi8 жыл бұрын
Melinda Earl-Roop Watch out...Some geeky nerdy types are straight up freaky deaky and only 'date' people polygamously.
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
jrmetmoi girl I agree with the freaky
@percyastronautstatus.87805 жыл бұрын
I'm geeky. And nerdy. And I wear glasses too lol
@bgaines1615 жыл бұрын
They're usually an alcoholic...it gives them the courage to be who they wish they were verses when they're sober and being shy
@xo.Frenchie5 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@lalafl2005 жыл бұрын
Society will call you names because you want someone who is financially stable. Don't listen! Its a trap! Be with someone who appreciates you and knows your worth! I love my man and his funds tuh
@Haddonfield63 Жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with wanting a man who pays all the bills but remember that at any point he can replace you. Don’t paint y’all selves into a corner
@divarlyasmr Жыл бұрын
@@Haddonfield63 now imagine a man that don't pay your bill replacing you too. Cause that happens and it's even more embarrassing.
@Haddonfield63 Жыл бұрын
@@divarlyasmr yeah but on that account you got your own stuff so you can just find another man. If he paying for everything and kicks you you ass out basically. I’m for all parties choosing to play the game but all players need to have their ducks in a row before stepping on the court
@ashmoney3946 Жыл бұрын
@@Haddonfield63 thank you for this advice
@BobbiHustles Жыл бұрын
@@Haddonfield63just because a man is paying your bill doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have your own money. Either work, start a business, or stack and save some of the money he gives. Shera makes her own income even though she is taken care of and she teaches other women to do the same.
@SheRaSeven15 жыл бұрын
whoooo child my make up ! lol (watching myself years later) lol
@nataliesuki4 жыл бұрын
You have deffo had a glow up since this video x
@Malvica924 жыл бұрын
Girl... You look absolutely beautiful here!! 😍
@TECHRRESTRIAL4 жыл бұрын
I watch some of your old videos sometimes bc you are so cute at this age!!!
@forgettablegirl4 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1 you were cute
@siesies0004 жыл бұрын
Still very pretty
@lexlo5 жыл бұрын
Wow. This video just got me together like seriously. I’m done dating people who can’t do shit for me. Period
@Gi01144 жыл бұрын
And so it is ✨amen
@lovelifefitness10764 жыл бұрын
I agree. My whole mindset has changed.
@eyzaguirreyoutubedatabase41064 жыл бұрын
. I don't date Dusty women either who can't do anything for me. Complete agreement to male feminist. I have my interests and my concern about myself 100% holy and nobody else. We are on the same page.
@mwoods23754 жыл бұрын
Me too. And I'm damn near 60. But each day is a new beginning. Can I get an amen?
@clare37912 жыл бұрын
@@mwoods2375 Amen
@creativpassionj8 жыл бұрын
BOSS! For knowing what you want and accepting no less than the best. You call it gold digging, I call it having standards for yourself. Keep making these videos and empowering people to live their authentic lives. Blessed Be.
@Simplyhowiseeit7 жыл бұрын
creativpassion- I agree!!! Men go after what they want all the time. Men have in their mind they want a beautiful woman with a great body, doesn’t talk too much, fun, and doesn’t have kids ... ( for example) and that’s okay for them but women can’t want a man with intelligence and financial stability? Let’s just get real!
@meep_murp87582 жыл бұрын
Dusty men use the same strategy to pull a Pickme and trick her into paying for him.
@Simplyhowiseeit7 жыл бұрын
I wish I started watching these videos earlier; like nine years ago. I paid an ex’s bills when he couldn’t, bought his groceries, paid another ex half of the rent, bought groceries, paid for meals and didn’t get help for car trouble or spending money or anything and he would tell me how beautiful I look naturally, when I told him my nails needed to be done, he said they were fine. But it’s all my fault. I have wanted a guy to spoil me like my ex husband but never made it a requirement. I am learning to value myself more and love myself more, have higher standards and know what kind of person I wanted in my life.
@femininebritaneyburnett89044 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️♥️♥️😍😍😻😻
@ivonetorres44344 жыл бұрын
Omg I feel so related with your story. Thank God i only spent a few months with someone like that. Im in my way to level up!
@sarahjaye4117 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@PumpkinPinkJuice Жыл бұрын
How do you feel now after five years? Any updates?
@alenad668 Жыл бұрын
Interesting to know your story now, your levelling up process.
@InnerPower4me8 жыл бұрын
Now that I am back dating, this video is confirmation... I been curbing , deleting and blocking ..getting rid of guys who dont measure up to my standards... bc I know exactly what I want and the type of life I want to live. #DontSettle
@zainajenkins4 жыл бұрын
Did you not settle? How are you doing now?
@lexnicole95997 жыл бұрын
Ladies you gotta be careful with quitting your job because that can be a strategy to make you be dependent on the guy giving them the upper-hand
@MsCromartie16 жыл бұрын
a walston unless they’re stacking some of the money he’s giving them in a sep bank acct.
@stacyr47686 жыл бұрын
Very true
@stacyr47686 жыл бұрын
@@MsCromartie1 that is sneaky and most men with money keep a tight hold on their money
@Arlene_witha_y6 жыл бұрын
Lex Nicole if I marry up to a rich man I would not give up my career. Maybe I would got to part time from full time to lower my stress but I would keep working and just save my money. Let him pay everything and I just save and save and eventually invest. You never know when a man can suddenly become abusive and turn on you. You never know if he’s the type to pamper you so long as you’re with him and if you get sick of his asshole character that developed later, if you leave he will get a lawyer to try to not give you anything! You just never know. So if you’re happy with him let him pay for it all and save your own money. Keep your skills in your profession and always be prepared for a future without a man providing, just in case.
@AnumIAM5 жыл бұрын
Shera encourages women to use the money the man gives you to invest in your own business or save most of it if you don't know what to invest it in yet. In fact, she leaves the decision to leave your job up to the woman. It's a matter of when to leave a job working for someone else to start working for yourself or at least working from home. The whole purpose is to allow the woman to focus on the main responsibilities she has as a wife: home, kids, self, and caring for her man. It is very difficult to do that when you have a full time job like he does. The woman is helping him with his duties (by paying half the bills and taking care of herself) so what is he helping her with just as equally? SMH. Women need to wake up and wake those men up. Even they don't realize this is what they are doing sometimes. My husband of over 8 years finally understood this and has taken on more of the financial responsibility and promises to one day take on 100%. We have 2 kids. It is good to hear another point of view....
@Chillalot8 жыл бұрын
there is nothing wrong with having standards ladies...who needs a cute man...men get their worth from work and providing.. gold digger or not what woman in her right mind would marry a broke man( financially or spiritually) that can not/ does not want support her
@brecaldwell2993 Жыл бұрын
Is it unrealistic to be taken care of by someone you find physically attractive even just a little bit?
@debiedebsielein3264 Жыл бұрын
@@brecaldwell2993 no, it's not unrealistic! You need a certain level of attraction to him. How else are you going to have sex 😂 It just depends on how you define "taking care of". He doesn't have to earn millions to take care of you. Things get unrealistic when one has ridicilous expectations 😅
@zayub1116 Жыл бұрын
@@brecaldwell2993no it’s not unrealistic, ideally we need to be drawn to them as well as have them be providers, it’s possible just expecting someone whose a millionaire and also looks like Americans next top model is when things are unrealistic..but you can definitely have a balance and find someone your attracted to!
@k-wayhatchet15147 жыл бұрын
I like how real you are. folks may not like it, but I respect honesty.
@genevajuniper75055 жыл бұрын
K-Way Hatchet YES
@AlSharpton8 жыл бұрын
Girl, he wanted you! Great story.
@kiwi07050kr8 жыл бұрын
Dang...i've been living my whole life wrong! lol
@corsicanlulu6 жыл бұрын
u aint the only one for real
@alexfromoakland28626 жыл бұрын
😂👌🏽
@sensuallysexual5 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Ashera we get the knowledge.... all the food for thought to start doing it right!! 💯🙌✌️
@timeless_beautie96235 жыл бұрын
Me too
@timeless_beautie96235 жыл бұрын
@Jessica Wilson me too better late than never
@freeandblessed85005 жыл бұрын
I love what you said about being mysterious. So many women meet a man, and just tell him everything.
@realpristine2 жыл бұрын
I swear I know this story by heart 🤣👏🏾 Never gets old!! I’m just here to remind myself to stay on track 🏅
@oa8463 Жыл бұрын
Read the book of tuth if ur a Christian. The only book in the protestant bible named after and about a woman . N she looked for a rivh man bc working in the fields after being widowed was a NO. 😂 the book says she did good. She did what was right!
@_ladiosanegra Жыл бұрын
same!
@junkmail1111 Жыл бұрын
@@oa8463 about to re read the book of Ruth rn 😂
@alenad668 Жыл бұрын
@@oa8463 oh thanks) You make me to read this 👍
@AndrewGarcia4826 Жыл бұрын
Now she got 3 ugly kids a middle class sugar daddy nobody wanted and fake luxury cgi bacjgrounds on youtube 😭
@Glad2BGolden5 жыл бұрын
An older wealthy man who is a 2-5 on a scale of 10 in the looks department is going to pursue an 8-10 woman with vigor especially if she’s in her 20’s.
@sweetmslovinglife8 жыл бұрын
20 years ago everybody did this. A group of women always attract men. They love a variety. I was with my girls when I met my man many years ago. He was everything I desired. I didn't know about LOA back then & had no plans. Just a desire.
@jaistar31898 жыл бұрын
SheRa, I just love how happy you and your husband look on the thumbnail picture for the video.
@BlackGirlGreenThumb5 жыл бұрын
honestly, as a woman past 40 with a good career, her own means, & honest, wants love without all the games ... but single & without children it makes me wonder if playing games & gold digging would’ve been the better choice smh 🤦♀️
@camiller9585 жыл бұрын
courtnee nicolee idk but I plan on playing games lol once I’m an adult
@jessejameslatimer86865 жыл бұрын
There are still ways to have a child over 40. Janet had a child at 50.
@user-qr7eb1sf3l5 жыл бұрын
Jesse James adoption is better
@jessejameslatimer86865 жыл бұрын
@@user-qr7eb1sf3l I agree with you
@CircumstancesNeverMatter5 жыл бұрын
Wow I appreciate your honesty. Respect.
@ericamlca4 жыл бұрын
I’m 23, and I loveeeee your vocabulary I want to speak like this, your jokes and everything are amazing.
@beac82384 жыл бұрын
She’s very witty. I’m sure that’s one quality her husband values about her.
@SirenaAzure8 жыл бұрын
Your storyline has me 😂! But the law of attraction is so real. I hope your followers are paying attention 😊
@percyastronautstatus.87805 жыл бұрын
The universe just ATTRACTED me to. You
@KnowledgeSeeker784915 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story is that no matter how good of a person you are, no matter how faithful and how honest of a person you are you won't beat hypergamy. It's taken me 20 years to learn that an attractive woman will not build with you so it's best to build by yourself and when you are financially stable then you might be able to marry a beautiful woman who will hopefully be faithful to you. This is coming from a lesbian stud who's going on a dating hiatus until I'm debt free and have disposal income
@suzan-x3i3 жыл бұрын
You are looking for a "beautiful woman", yet implying like they're flakey or superficial for not choosing you based on honesty and morals? You were looking for looks! I wish you the best with your business though gurl
@FEMME_CHRONICLES2 жыл бұрын
Yassss honey !!!
@KnowledgeSeeker784912 жыл бұрын
@@suzan-x3i Yes, beautiful to me would be someone in physical attracted to…trust me I’ve tried several times to have girlfriends who were not traditionally attractive in my eyes and after awhile I would cringe when they would try to touch or kiss me. That’s not fair to them and that wasn’t fair to me
@KnowledgeSeeker784912 жыл бұрын
@@FEMME_CHRONICLES Fast forward two years later I said screw it. I have more money in my pocket, more money to invest with and peace of mind remaining single. I rather spend my money where it’s supposed to go: my 11 year old son, my dog and myself Some people are just meant to be single and I’m one of them
@MsLotusBlooms Жыл бұрын
Right. Women don't want to be mules their partner builds their success on.
@violetselene2448 жыл бұрын
lol i was dying when she said the lady was ugly and not on a natural level and that she was a work of ugliness lol I can't stop laughing 😂😂😂
@violetselene2448 жыл бұрын
oh and thanks SheRaSeven for all the great advice. I'm 20 years old and have wanted the same life style that you have for yourself since I was 16 and this is just reassuring me that I'm going about it the right way plus giving me more tips and tricks on how to get what I want out of life. thanks again!
@belleamourphed11118 жыл бұрын
Me tooooooo i was ctfu. I just love her aura so much.
@violetselene2448 жыл бұрын
Belle La Fleur lol yes! So happy I found her channel
@rorypeddicord25838 жыл бұрын
Ashley Ramirez I thought it was funny when she said no offense to ugly people
@briana143336 жыл бұрын
Same! I was in tears!
@dalala9323 Жыл бұрын
Money for woman means security. Every woman needs security to flourish and to a build a home ❤
@vturner5 жыл бұрын
'' he's broke ofcourse...thats why hes my ex'' lmaooooo Im so glad I found your channel
@imjustsayin34 Жыл бұрын
Now this is the most romantic love story I’ve ever heard
@pitaachipp Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m seeing this at 23
@sandragutierrez73962 жыл бұрын
Im gonna manifest that millionaire husband that treats me like a Goddess Queen . Thank you so much ❤️ for sharing
@tonismith888995 жыл бұрын
Love your story! Thanks for sharing. And you're right about not settling. My husband is the same way. He's a little nerdy, but he's cute, keeps all the bills paid, and he puts up with all my craziness. I love him so much...
@fergiebatista88707 жыл бұрын
Hopefully watching your videos will wake me up so I stop being too nice and get the life I deserve.
@LOADING...o.o.o6 жыл бұрын
Wow. I love your story. My sister, is basically an Asian kid who always sit in front of the class and wear glasses, got Chanel bags and apple computer from all the people that she dated. I’m here dating all these attracted loser guys and I sometimes have to pay for the dates -_- I need to learn from you and my sister!
@Donna95 Жыл бұрын
Is there an update
@i-3137 Жыл бұрын
ur sister prob escorting herself
@milkchan2029 ай бұрын
@@i-3137and?
@VictoriaGabrealla2 жыл бұрын
I wish I saw these when I was younger but I appreciate that I found you through tiktok. Single, no kids, 28 and i'm not willing to settle. So this is very informational for me. Definitely helps me know what I should be doing, saying, and how I should act.
@zayub1116 Жыл бұрын
Your still young, you got this!
@CRYSTALSLIGHT26 жыл бұрын
As a matter of fact he was paying for my car & house bills with in two weeks of meeting me. However I didn't see my self as a gold digger I just thought thats what was suppose to be. Lol
@maraka81066 жыл бұрын
You go girl
@mikayacox30357 жыл бұрын
I WANT THIS LIFE 😭😭😭
@simonelove34736 жыл бұрын
Mikaya Moorleghen go get it! If you have breath change your situation the next day you wake up! New life New friends New You
@ashleyneal34496 жыл бұрын
*I HAVE this life
@Melanie-le6mw5 жыл бұрын
Yes mam! You can!
@ArmyBarbie5 жыл бұрын
Mikaya Moorleghen me too
@zainajenkins4 жыл бұрын
I hope you wanted it enough to go and get it! I hope you're doing well two years later 😘
@doredaubin90214 жыл бұрын
I feel like Sheraseven is a very dear friend. I love listening to these stories during quarantine! She’s extremely smart and all ladies need to hear what she’s putting out. The BEST!!
@teresadavis5284 жыл бұрын
Yes, i dumped my last boyfriend too because he was broke and didn't want to go anywhere.
@jokas77327 ай бұрын
Men who are providers understand women’s desire for money is really a desire for safety and security. That a wise woman considers those things as top priorities, because he does as well. You are too adorable Shera. You lit up his world.
@dreamofjayda5268 Жыл бұрын
Once you DECIDE you become the vibrational match to your desires...
@Anastasiyaaaa-n4k3 күн бұрын
100%
@123CREATIONS5 жыл бұрын
Gurll you are teaching us!!! I saved this video to my "Relationship" playlist. I cant wait until I get paid in 2 days I am going to buy me some ShaperMint undergarments so I can start wearing my dresses and leveling up. I LOVE YOU SHERA
@123CREATIONS5 жыл бұрын
@Bea Force I dont know if you are a man or a woman. So I will just give a general responce. Alot of people say "its better to just be as you are" when it comes to wearing make up,shape wear and anything that enhances a person. People say they like folks to be natural...but then they go after folks wearing weave, a ton of make up and etc..lol 🤷🏿♀️ Im already a decent size, i workout all the time. The undergarment is for a more neat/smooth look.
@123CREATIONS5 жыл бұрын
@Bea Force So is makeup, and weave decieving to u?
@123CREATIONS5 жыл бұрын
@Bea Force Oh I see your a dusty!! Lol 😂🤣😂🤣😂😰🤢🤮🤮🤮
@gorgeousmone61514 жыл бұрын
I love my Shapermint garments! They make my attire look so much better. I’m ordering more soon!!
@123CREATIONS4 жыл бұрын
@@gorgeousmone6151 YASSS 😊🖤🤎
@mrrandom80505 жыл бұрын
Lol James was 30 seconds from losing out on Shera lol. Thank God he got that drink lol . love your videos
@Peresphone Жыл бұрын
God Bless Shera! Have been listening to her for over a year and she is necessary to listen to everyday! Don’t ever stop listening to this..use it as a daily affirmation. I forgot to watch her videos for a week and had a pickemeisha moment for 10s! Imagine living in pickmeisha every day, I couldn’t even do it for a moment chile!! Thank God for Shera. This is how every healthy divine feminine woman should think.
@MegaLadylove20126 жыл бұрын
My initial requirements are these three things: non negotiable. Rich. Generous. I’m safe with Now that you said, never married. No children. I’m good. Eventually would get to the rest. However, those first three are stuck in mind like super glue Only wish I had more friends with this mindset to go out with more
@StarGoddessLove7 жыл бұрын
Can you pay my bills Can you pay my telephone bill Can you pay my automobile If you did then maybe we can chill ;-)
@scorpionpam6 жыл бұрын
StarGoddess Love 😂😂😂😅😅😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TaelurAlexis6 жыл бұрын
Curtis Reese 2969 lol why do men wish the worst for women who have high standards 😇
@CurtisReese-tl7ip6 жыл бұрын
Fatima Don't act like you've never read none of the negative comments from black women. It goes both ways. Probably 85 to 90% of black men are married to black women. Not all black women are marriage material and you don't know what some of these men have been through with a black woman. Quit acting dumb.
@corsicanlulu6 жыл бұрын
i love that song!
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
@@CurtisReese-tl7ip yadda yadda
@miss.p45708 жыл бұрын
was just about to go and search a video on the law of attraction , and here you are at the top of my sub list
@maureen_momo5 жыл бұрын
Shera I have been on a serious binge. Watching all your videos over the past week and I love love love your message. You are what every woman needs in her life
@camronayaz48918 жыл бұрын
I hope that my dream man is on the way!
@tiffany69ciera8 жыл бұрын
I needed to see this, thank you. This video has truly lifted my spirits. You make me laugh a lot, I wish I knew you personally.
@tajthegreatone93266 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am attracting this life NOW. I've been watching your videos lately and have committed to bettering myself. Almost every man that approaches me now is older and better established and starts off with how beautiful I am and how they want to pamper me. I gotta SEE the action though.
@ShayLamere3 жыл бұрын
I freaking love you!! This is game I wish my mother gave me, I’ll be handing this right over to my future daughter as soon as I start implementing it all
@dcaramelone6 жыл бұрын
Beware of the misogynist.He is extremely competitive, especially with women. If a woman does better than him socially or professionally OMG! He will use anything within his power to make women feel miserable. He may , make jokes about women or put them down in public,!! (c)Berit Brogaard
@pamelamarquez4447 Жыл бұрын
starting my sprinkle sprinkle ERA, wish me luck!
@YouMakeMeBean018 жыл бұрын
It's about to happen to me, gurl!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR UPLIFTING, POSITIVE AND EMPOWERING VIDEOS REASSURING ME WHAT I WANT (OR BETTER) IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN ANY DAY NOW!! YES!!!
@YouMakeMeBean017 жыл бұрын
mrlpn2 THANK YOU! --- I'm sure you are the same...inside and out and in the pockets! Ha! 😀🤑😋😊😝
@YouMakeMeBean017 жыл бұрын
mrlpn2 lmao! Well, you gotta show yourself Beast, so that the Bell Beauty shall arrive! Ha!
@ShannDiior8 жыл бұрын
"No offense to ugly people" 😹😹😹
@bkstandard8827 жыл бұрын
Shan Valentino She is ugly though. Ugly and fat.
@aditi17294 жыл бұрын
I’m currently in school, going to graduate and go to a college this year. Even though I’m going earn well in future, I want a man who is stable and rich. Why? BECAUSE I HAVE STANDARDS!😂❤️🙏
@blueberrypoptart24246 жыл бұрын
"She wasn't even ugly on a natural level, she MADE herself ugly." LMAO
@MAey09297 жыл бұрын
I did not want this video to end!! I loved every minute of it! I am literally getting ready now to go out with my cousin tonight. I never go out! However I Crave a social life and a companion... friends by practicing the Law of Attraction and Manifestation. I'm nowhere near being a guru in this department as of yet but I definitely try to practice this on a day-to-day basis just in life in general not just with romance and my future husband. I found such Inspiration in this video. I'm going to make my list after I finish painting my face and sewing down my wig. I am going to manifest my husband and pray I meet him tonight if not he still coming he's still on his way and I will continue to take the journey until we find one another but thank you so much for sharing your story you are hilarious. Much blessings to you and your family!!! New Subbie!
@mariahhart7170 Жыл бұрын
Did you meet him
@queame8465 Жыл бұрын
@@mariahhart7170 Kissed many frogs since this message....... Still on the journey to align with my Prince! How about you?
@Queensley7 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssssssss! I LOVE YOU! I NEEDED THIS VIDEO! Meeting all these build with them men is getting out of HAND! I'm def manifesting my wealthy, successful doctor that spends a lot of time with me and SPOILS ME TO NO END!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏾
@Blaquebarbgamer8 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail is so cute for this video
@conniek63853 жыл бұрын
Your husband sounds wonderful! Most men are not gentlemen at all. And, most importantly, most of them can't even pay their own damn bills, let alone, someone else's bills. Hold onto him forever girl!
@HoneysAstro7 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this video 😂 "of course my car note was twice as much as what it was" 😂😂 hilarious.
@jemenfousdecequetudis9359 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@prercyZw5 ай бұрын
Who's watching in 2024?
@masterartist10257 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1 "A work of ugliness" just made me crack up! You are awesome! Thanks!
@daniellem.78858 жыл бұрын
20 years ago! Damn how old are you??? You don't look at day over 30!
@SheRaSeven18 жыл бұрын
38
@majesticwiththemagic47178 жыл бұрын
+SheRaSeven1 dang girl! You look good I thought you were in your early 20s 😍🤔
@thestaralchemist8 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1 what.. you look 20
@fadi09658 жыл бұрын
guess black rlly doesn't crack
@redrumax8 жыл бұрын
45
@kandacejohnston35308 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos from you. So real and upfront. & your makeup is fabulous 👑
@donyell63355 жыл бұрын
Glad I’m seeing this while I’m single now
@thlaliar.francisco1575 Жыл бұрын
Girl I fumbled 3 bags… one owned multiple businesses, the other is an engineer, the other one has a logistics company my only thing is that they were older except the engineer he was like 7 years older, now I know better I’m 24
@Subtronic_Esther7777 Жыл бұрын
I believe meeting you at this time of my life is divine time for me.I've learnt so much these 4yrs and I am done dealing with this situation I am in
@ArmyBarbie5 жыл бұрын
Girl..... i love you 😂😂 you gon make me so high class
@Beenabela8 жыл бұрын
your makeup looks sooo good in this video!
@marediththaele1076 Жыл бұрын
Crazy how im discovering this video when I'm now ready to settle down with a well established provider man
@marythetourist1010 Жыл бұрын
Done with being with men who can't even take me on a date enough
@belleamourphed11118 жыл бұрын
Love it! I love it Queen! You become even more thoroughly beautiful to me with every upload. You are so wise thank you for sharing your beauty & wisdom with me. I take each piece of advice with me daily.
@daherbalgoddess7776 жыл бұрын
No struggle love
@katelynaguilera25465 жыл бұрын
I love how smart you are and took advantage of going to school 👌👌👌👌
@marianieto93377 жыл бұрын
omg i think im leaving my bf.... lol
@ethiopiangoddess46786 жыл бұрын
Maria Nieto me too
@LeilaniAlua6 жыл бұрын
Lol!!!!
@amazinggrace3135 жыл бұрын
Dont be stupid. No amount of money trumps real love. Yes, dont date a lazy man but dont lose out on love
@03Heaven905 жыл бұрын
@@amazinggrace313 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@user-qr7eb1sf3l5 жыл бұрын
Amazing Grace first is a man that can provide, if you are lucky you have love as well. But the fist he must be a provider.
@lavieestbelle60685 жыл бұрын
I have been lying to myself. Your video exposed it. Thanks. Now I am going after what I want.
@stellakamau69944 жыл бұрын
When Shera said James gave her money equivalent to her salary i knew he was the one lol
@gorgeousiz11708 жыл бұрын
You are not old SheRa you look good girl and your videos have helped me so much!!!
@AlpheaMariae8 жыл бұрын
Omg 30 minutes Imma grab myself some popcorn !! 😍😍
@taitai1088 жыл бұрын
You look so lovely. Make up is pretty🌺
@Walkingbeaute Жыл бұрын
I’m in my Shera Seven era right now & I love that for me ❤️
@mft75302 жыл бұрын
She was wise as a young woman. I wonder who taught her? Especially since it sounds like her sister is the exact opposite. In any case I wish I had had this game even 5 years ago. I’m working on leveling up my self concept because now I’m older and the messages western society conditions us to believe about older women is godawful. My next mate will be my forever mate who understand what it is ti be a man and *enjoys* being that. I’m beautiful, youthful, fit and fun. I won’t settle. Not anymore. Asè!
@taniahollingsworth24827 жыл бұрын
I'm going to get me a man like this
@CandieLand_727 жыл бұрын
very very true, this reminds Me of my story. I married a good Man, a real one too. I enjoyed this video. 😙
@MarciaRain4 жыл бұрын
Oohhhhhh my goodness...this story was amazing. There are notttttt a lot of men like James. I know I’ll have to dismiss a lot of frogs before I meet my husband.
@gigglypoo1238 жыл бұрын
I love your honesty and humor. You give great advice. Your story made me smile. I'm making my list now! Thank you
@mariacaos75224 жыл бұрын
Your attitude has changed sooo much from then to now . You seemed much happier back then
@JessicaWilliams-qn8kp2 жыл бұрын
Watching this 6 years later. You look so beautiful x
@elaineanderson48915 жыл бұрын
One day I was just playing on KZbin, I came across School Of Affluence and your channel.
@Torihappyness5 жыл бұрын
Nice! Fellow School of affluence sub 😊
@lynettegreene47694 жыл бұрын
Same here. This is how i came across her video as well. This is my favorite video!!!!! Job well done. You nailed it. I will use this method.. Proud to be a gold digger. I have standards. I do not. want s broke man. My mentality will not change. I like fine things and beautiful things and money. Although, i can buy them myself.
@bossladyempire51386 жыл бұрын
That's why you attracted a husband you're not attracted too... because you made up your mind you cannot have a good looking husband that can provide ALL those things! x
@bossladyempire51386 жыл бұрын
Law of attraction gave you exactly what you believed was possible up to your limit of what is possible, and according to what you asked for!!
@heyokannika99905 жыл бұрын
Boss Lady Empire 🙌🏻
@crownjewel8325 жыл бұрын
In other videos SheRa mentions that she prefers much older, ugly, rich men as partners to fawn over her and to love her more than she loves him. She’s been very intentional and candid about this.
@annakarina84174 жыл бұрын
Her husband isnt ugly at all. He looks very good for his age
@celestegarcia9234 жыл бұрын
Boss Lady Empire Her husband definitely isn’t ugly or hideous. He is just average looking compared to her