When He stops Being Romantic

Tips on how to get your man back in line and turn back up the romance!

[@Taylorray7]

let a man slide once and he'll start ice skating. keep em in check from the start lol

[@highhonor106]

love this

[@fionalovely8208]

Lol

[@alexfromoakland2862]

I literally fell ouuuutt 😂😂😂😂

[@beigelover95]

OMGGGGGGGGGGG wish someone told me this last year

[@aquamoon4401]

😂😂😂

[@gcsugirl]

My husband wouldn't travel with me so I planned to trip to Paris by myself. When I came back, he wanted to plan a trip together right away. We went to Costa Rica and we are planning a summer trip to Europe this year as well.

[@tylanrichards]

these games works on the old folks.....be straight forward with your man.....playing mind games, tricks and manipulations doesn't work...you may even loose your man...

[@tylanrichards]

i highly doubt sheraseven is married....i bet she has a baby daddy......wow...."nice nasty", playing mental games, programming, "make sure he doesn't slack".....ha

[@gcsugirl]

Actually, I didn't do it to play games. I REALLY wanted to travel and I had been waiting on him for years. I decided that if I waited on him, it would never happen. He then felt some kind of way about my traveling on my own. He thought that it made me look "lonely" so he decided to come with me. That lit a light bulb up in my head and this video only confirms it! Going forward, I will start to use these tactics. It's a win-win. I get what I want either way. Why lose because you want to be a sad goody-two-shoes?

[@scrubbingoffinternet5221]

yoyo yo I can attest to this that it works!

[@scrubbingoffinternet5221]

yoyo yo she definitely has a husband

[@baddestalivecom]

Lol I love this woman. "STOP showing him affection in private,starve them"🤦😂😂😂

[@Ravenpriestess]

Your advice is so on point! My parents have been married 44 years and my mom continues to make my dad chase. Guess what? He keeps on chasing. LOL. When she wants to go out and he doesn't, she and I will go out to eat. My dad will come back saying how he wants to come too! Next thing I know he is taking her to dinner out every now and then. HAH!

[@spartanman5231]

Ya think

[@QueenofBluntTruth]

That's all men understand. That's how u get them obsessed with u. 😂😂😂😂 Never stay put as a woman.

[@QueenofBluntTruth]

Women are the real leaders, males don't know they like something until women introduce it. That's why going by males beauty standards is silly. They don't know what they like til they try you. Now you got him hooked on a different type of beauty.

[@trinityp8575]

How does she do it long term? I know some wives just go out and do things by themselves and the men just don’t care.

[@4exquisiteservice680]

"The game doesn't end until they are trained or dead." 💀💀

[@Aquariuswonder86]

4Exquisite Service that was too funny lol

[@4exquisiteservice680]

@@Aquariuswonder86 I was quoting Shera

[@catherinem.6290]

😂😭😭😭

[@legony1]

4Exquisite Service 😂😂😂😂😂

[@stilljocelyn4166]

Scribbles on notepad 📝

[@Jamilah1117]

Nice nasty is the way to go! I just said this very thing yesterday! It disarms men when you put them in their place in a polite and calm manner. No emotion. They will lose their mind!

[@bettycat4136]

Jamilah1117 how do u do it tho? do u have any exemples for situation or a story it would help a lot

[@sabsays4091]

betty cat Look them in the eye. Be clear and assertive when you're telling off. Don't say it with anger or an attitude. Just be upfront about it. And maybe smile afterwards.

[@JC-ce8uw]

But what did u say?

[@ohketodae5304]

Every single time lol

[@raissanjombog9063]

This thing works even in Africa here.I have been practicing for two weeks now and he wants to meet my family to ask for my hand.he's older and rich. I am younger and beautiful. Love you girl

[@fatima-zahrakajji4821]

Congratulations sister

[@diamond_noir89]

This woman studied men like a Scientist 😂😂😂😂😂

[@adeolatemowo7640]

I want to like this comment a million million times 😂

[@faridahnakayemba1496]

Yes very well she has a phd in them l listen to her Avery day like am in class lts crazy 😂😂😂😂

[@MeowMatee]

After dating hundreds of men , she is 100% right .

[@MaryyB.]

Lmbo

[@aquamoon4401]

I dated a guy once who never showed PDA. Even in his own home he shared with a roommate (if his bedroom door was opened) he rejected my affection (and by "affection," I mean a simple kiss) lol. Needless to say, I left him for a better man. I don't like a man who doesn't claim me in public or around others. My guy now has no problem with PDA and I love when he gives me a quick kiss in public and grabs my hand. So just remember fellas, what you DON'T do, someone else WILL. 😉

[@QueenofBluntTruth]

Affection is uncomfortable for some people, I'm only affectionate to my kid and mom and siblings if they are not mean to me. Him not claiming you would be offensive to me. As long as a man respond to me sexually (and usually he has to beg), Im content

[@lc-il6wr]

Yall R so needy! Pda is cheesy!

[@Janelle.Bombshell]

Girl this is so true about asking for more than what you want. I asked my boyfriend to buy me the Givenchy bag for $2500. I never would have thought he would buy iy and that was my birthday gift. I was shocked!

[@sexyladyakb]

Janelle Scott where are you finding these men where can I get one?!

[@ssmith8758]

Wow, very impressive!

[@kxlot79]

@@sexyladyakb if your energy isn’t right, you won’t know what to do with them even if you did find them. Most likely, you’ve dated men who would do for you except your energy/attitude/behaviors let it slide.👀

[@QueenofBluntTruth]

Put these men to work if u gone have them around🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉yes

[@DrBeeSpeaks]

You have to continuously teach people how to treat you! You have to keep a man on their toes bc they like a challenge from time to time. It keeps things interesting.

[@MsPrestige2009]

Men play games, but us ladies invented the game 😎

[@AllThatBeautyandmore]

She's the big sister I never had ❤️

[@trippiezi4998]

I'm really gonna stop trying to spend time with my bf. He's always making excuses. I'm just gonna stop calling and texting. If I don't see him for 2 weeks then oh well....

[@az0963818]

Exactly.

[@Awjikis]

right! I’ve been seeing this guy and he’s been changing his attitude with me I’m sure it’s normal but it bugs me, if anyone is reading this I’ll update y’all on the relationship with sheras advice hehe

[@tmjewel]

@@Awjikis Update?

[@obengjemima6477]

@@Awjikis update pls

[@smileyglitter852]

Update plzs..

[@Veea-re9fe]

i grew up without a mother. so i made alot alot alot of bad mistakes in my early 20’s. you wouldnt guess im 24 and already saying that. but your stern caring advice and speech help me SO much in being disciplined.

[@lakotahollins1888]

Mines stopped once when his dad died, we got married and had a baby.. ive had this sexy red dress in my closet for months waiting for him to take me out after I've asked him to take me out more. Our 11yr anniversary is next week. Wonder what's he not going to do this time. This video made me cry cuz everything you say is true. I can't believe I've came down to this . And to think I was thinking earlier what is the real benefit of being married

[@divestedconservative26]

Hey girl! I'm going through the same thing in my relationship right now! Any updates? Did he ever get around to taking u out??

[@lakotahollins1888]

Summer Wright hey , yeah he took us out on our anniversary, only because of occasion and I complained prior. Still have the sexy red dress in my closet, no date since February, our anniversary. I'm 5 months preg and only getting bigger ....doesn't buy me flowers but when he does I feel it's only because my 4yr old daughter suggest buying them for me all the time it's not from the heart like it use to be.... Good man don't get me wrong but gosh do Men not teach their sons how to not only get a woman/wife but keep her and make her happy? I ask for nothing but flowers often and planned date nights that dont involve me complaining about it before .... But. That's too much to ask for from men now days .I guess. How about you?

[@Yae391]

Start having the flowers delivered to your door sometimes & start having a runway photo shoot sometimes- just for fun. After you have that baby- break that red dress out & wear it!

[@leeslyrose]

What are the updates, darling?

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

Go out alone in the dress

[@gorgeousmone6151]

It's crazy how I've been on my BF lately about him being too comfortable, and then this video pops up! I sure been thinking about getting cute and taking myself out on a date! He gone learn real soon!!

[@yolandacantu7242]

Man I love your videos so much, cause mostly all the game you’d given I’ve done in the past but have slacked off ALOT & lost my touch. I’ve let emotions take control…thanks to you it’s all coming back to be a little at a time… sprinkle Sprinkle ✨

[@documento6789]

I love you so much. You don't get this information anywhere else.

[@sweetestkaysmith5838]

I love it when she said if he ain't holding my hand I'm going to he 10 steps behind him looking at other people. 😊 ❤

[@kaytheeintrovert6260]

"You gotta be nice nasty" 😂 I love it!! lol

[@ar1079]

Compareing him with a dog was the most lol moment 😂😂😂👍🏻

[@imbrakingthrough2152]

%1000 what it is

[@ilovereadinginspanish9424]

All these advices are typical SheRaSeven, in other words: PURE GOLD!!! Thanks girl, you are a gem!!!

[@divestedconservative26]

Omg this video hit EVERYTHING that's going on in my relationship! I don't know what I'd do without u girl! U are God sent!

[@katscandance]

I’m naturally just a nice person , too nice to be truthfully. Never feel like I’m in control of the situation. Thanks for the video ! I’mma try some of your tips n see how they work!

[@zztops3739]

Did they work?

[@AnalystAyi]

Girlllll I needed this 2.5 years ago!!! My ex husband was horrible

[@GeekyTricee]

I've been watching your videos for a minute, but I'm still cloudy on how to really stay mysterious and hold back information about myself. Since watching you, I'm learning I probably say too much. Can you touch on what is too much information? What is the right amount of information? What is enough information to stay mysterious, but still intriguing?

[@SheRaSeven1]

they should not know your life story , just a brief intro... lol let him do most of the talking ask him about himself. learn all you can about him before you give him your information... this way you can decide if he is even worthy. then you only give him few details... keep it non descript. let him wonder about you. when a man knows everything about you he is bored and will move on fast!

[@GeekyTricee]

Thx. I'm gon' work on that. lol In retrospect, I can definitely see where I've done more talking than I should have. I'm learning. lol Thx again.

[@melaniedonoghue8103]

I asked my best friend to go theatre with me . 2 weeks later my husband has booked theatre tickets for us on my birthday… I was scratching my head why he did that ! . Now I know 🤣

[@Lisa-ce3kt]

how the hell you gonna get all this knowledge in one book? lool. we're gonna need a trilogy! and ill have all 3 books trust me. another great vid, thank you!!!

[@scrubbingoffinternet5221]

best game for females on the net!

[@hanael8627]

This is so ON POINT!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Open your books to 1 Shera-lonians 2:13 #gospeltruth❗️❗️#keepthemincheck #fromthebeginning

[@DchansClarityHouse]

Hana El 😂😂😂😂

[@SheRaSeven1]

lol

[@vivianl8278]

Shera- lonians 😂😂😂😂😆😆🤣 I just died

[@Xi1557]

It’s weird… ppl talk shit on sprinkle sprinkle but this world of men are just playing games & manipulating so why not bet them at their own game?! Most men will leave u completely damaged if u don’t kno how to play back to the ones who are!

[@LizNeptune]

“This is like inception” lmfaoooo I love it

[@YungTsundere]

LMFAO the way she said this game never ends im screaming

[@mysmirandam.6618]

I laughed so hard" ..trained or dead " HA HA HA!

[@fvshionngoddess7303]

i love your videos ugh your advice helped my relationship alot i really feel like you should write a book .

[@MaRiAm936]

"The game nevers end until one is gone"👏👏👏👏👏

[@dailyd2790]

Shera I love you girl, everytime I need a pick me up and remember I'm the prize I come to your videos❤❤❤❤

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

I just love your wisdom. So refreshing.

[@ericapeace]

you are so entertaining. Love to watch!

[@Ali_Levon]

Sis!!! You are putting so many of us on game 👌🏾

[@trollassassin7819]

Very Good Topic! makes a lot of sense...Make him keep working for you romantically..💜

[@alexandrarusu3966]

My favorite channel! Number 1!!!!

[@skatingandcheerlove]

Why haven't you find sooner ?! Hi from Switzerland :)

[@hostyourparty6]

OMG!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS ADVICE!!! I've been married for 8 months and hes let up on romance and sex😖😖😖 I'm going to try these tips!!!

[@Emilyramirez-bm7qf]

Did it work ?!

[@BlissfulNMindful]

STARTING @ 11:15 ... " You strengthen your standards, you do not bend them".... 💯 GOLDEN RULE 🎉 THANK YOU. ❤

[@yasminedebah7288]

I listen to this twice a week for maintenance

[@Lovejoi222]

I love gifts, so what is the best way to hint to a man I've been dating, that I want something? Like a purse, or material item for example? I'm usually nervous to ask straight out because I do not want to hear no..

[@Lovejoi222]

ok thanks!

[@angelsattachedtoangst7576]

I needed this! Thank you 🙏🏻

[@adriannafisk]

Not Shera comparing men to training a dog 😂😂

[@ieshabush32]

No reward for bad behavior

[@maryfiero8122]

I watched ceasar millan. I learnt a lot from.him eventhough i dont have a dog

[@MarinaM-o6p]

It is too much work to be with a man ….but we thank you

[@claudiam9444]

My boyfriend used to send loving pictures and texts and post me and now it’s sooo dull. I let too much slide… where do I start? Just doing me?

[@EmpressofChrist]

Dont get too comfortable

[@corinaweber9014]

Your advice is priceless. I sooooo needed this!!!!

[@phylter867]

Where were you when I was married?! 😂

[@Honeyiroseupfromthedead]

"Strength your standards ,when you get into relationship "

[@MsBrown-dw4wy]

Damn, you rite I’m dealing with that mess now “ I’m doing things alone at this point

[@trishvincent4773]

Yes, theres no romance!!!!!!!!!! none zippo!! We live togther in the same house and all he does is nothing, so yes, I go out!

[@JoeDidIt]

time to move on... you will see him get on his grind again once you leave

[@vam9785]

I live for your videos!! Love the new nails by the way :)

[@QueenJuliana89]

Never be Netflix and Chill Chick 🐣👌🏻

[@allenarust4152]

Going to try this when I get my new man

[@QueenofBluntTruth]

Men aren't really romantic by nature they consider that and emotional bonding work. This why you have homegirls that u travel with and do fun things with

[@Naimah0914]

I have done this before but my husband enjoys it when I go somewhere with friends or alone and he doesn't have to go with me. What do I do in this situation?

[@Taye5394]

Shala Avans Take a group picture with your girls and men. Make sure its an equal amount of men to women so he'll think you were on a date. Like you your friend and two men and just say its your friend bf and cousin.

[@Taye5394]

Shala Avans Another man would drive him wild

[@kwarduavanderpuye5322]

Ask for spending money...for drinks, gas/carfare, a new outfit...

[@spartanman5231]

yeah you should totally do what TAYE just said come back and tell everyone that he left you dumbasses seriously do it though shes right it will drive him so wild for you NOT

[@IDEALCONFIDANT]

Love your videos that short to the point like these.

[@liltina1088]

he broke up with me and now I'm seeing your videos

[@BrandiXo]

Listening to your message. Thankyou for your time and knowledge. Love your eyeliner in this video

[@aprilshowers3331]

New subbie gurl you the realist!💯

[@aubreym1854]

What happeneds when you let them slide now it’s like he taking advantage how do you reverse it

[@isabellasamantha3234]

LOVE YOUR MAKEUP😘

[@laronagasper803]

you are right sweet heart I don't let nothing slide at all I always says, I'm going out with my girlfriend's and majority of the time I do.

[@Annamelese]

OMG!! you are so right!!!yes keep walking in front of him😂😂😂

[@TECHRRESTRIAL]

To death do you part (from the game)

[@issyo957]

Aleshya Barbour gurl 🙅‍♂️😫😂🤣

[@nadaabdul916]

Thank you and thank you. you're genius 💗💗💗💗

[@egolovely]

awesome tips!

[@arielj.densmore3140]

this came across me at the PERFECT time. wow!

[@soso-b7n2n]

Great video, thanks I really needed to hear this!

[@TheSandrafabian]

I love all your videos!

[@Hijabibti925]

You are such a blessing 🙌

[@carolynblevins65]

👍loving this attitude!

[@ngbadure]

Oh dear, this sounds like a hard work but then waiting to find the one who does and says all the right things is taking a long time, it might be time to pull up my sleeves and get guys to do stuff for me. It shows that I know what I want and they don't mind that

[@icarusrosy4528]

Is it still possible to train even when were 3 yrs in on the relationship? I got it all wrong from the beginning

[@AlwaysSetApart]

Yep. Just disappear randomly when absolutely nothing is wrong with y’all lol it’ll catch him off guard. Give no explanation and when you start back talking to him after a few days just start the game

[@umrilifenChrist]

❤️❤️❤️ great advice

[@TheJustinGreen]

Your voice is so soothing! Lol

[@kitkat0815]

I needed this Thank you!

[@wiledman2430]

Pretty solid advise tbh

[@charlesturner6131]

Just the video I needed to see my nigga think taking me out to eat with his cousin was a date I had to tell him about himself

[@Blue-gw4ft]

:)))))))) she make me laugh so much with this! Give me some money! 😄😄

[@boitumelokeabilwe946]

Never settle

[@adriana3598]

very helpful video! i have a question , how to make my husband be more open minded , he is not very jealous but cares a lot what others think and wants to be controlling and he has fordbidden me from having social media he hates this stuff .How do i make him realize he is wrong and be more modern , in general he is kind and very loving , but i hate the old fashioned way of his thinking and judgement . thank u .

[@McFraneth]

Why do women put up with this shit? Going out to eat by yourself???

[@freelunch375]

Hi goddess! Your eyes are the best!

[@nawarmali6974]

how come I just discovered you now

[@mkaur612]

You are my fairy godmother...I love you so much 💗 💓 💛 ♥

[@JC-ce8uw]

How do u make them buy u taxis and pick u up from ur house?

[@chocoflan6672]

love you shera and this damn GAME!

[@haydeejohnson8290]

"Okay-Bye-Thanks"🤓

[@bettycat4136]

hi sheera, I have a video request. im newly starting a relationship with a nice guy, who pays on dates and everything, so that is check lol. but i was wondering how can i make him do more, like shopping and spoiling me with gifts, since its the start of the relationship?

[@chronoman442]

user

[@DarkMoonDivaCherikanGoddess]

Gotta love shera❤❤❤

[@itsreihanehriyahin9341]

So how would you handle a situation where they stop calling you babe or baby? Do you bring it up and confront them?

[@shantavalentine9537]

I’m going through this it’s horrible