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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and let me tell you about a rollercoaster of dating disasters in less than 28 seconds! From spilling drinks on your crush to accidentally calling them by your ex's name, these mishaps will make you cringe and laugh at the same time! Join me in this hilarious journey as we explore the chaos that can turn a promising date into a total nightmare. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button for more entertaining tales of romance gone wrong! Let's commiserate and laugh together at the absurdity of dating fails! 😂✨ #DatingDisasters #Comedy #CharlotteDobre
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[@marshalmichelney-bc8qn]

I’m guilty of a terrible date once. Like really bad. I asked this girl to go out on a date with me. We would go out to eat, go to the movies, classic first date stuff. I was 17. I told her real quick before we went to dinner I needed to swing by the mall to grab my brother a bday present as it was his birthday that day. After the mall I start my car and there is this loud clanking noise from the engine. I tell this woman that my grandfather is good with cars and close by. Just to be safe, we would swing by. Get there. He drives us around a few blocks. No noise. I feel dumb. So he floors it just in case. The pedal gets stuck to the floor. This poor woman in the front seat with me in the back as we are approaching 100mph in this residential area. Thankfully my grandfather just turns the car off and we glide to a stop. It’s mid November and freezing. She’s in this summer dress. I give her my jacket and we walk 6 blocks back to my grandparents house. They lend me their car so I can take her home. She says she’s still hungry so I offer to get Boston market and some movies to try and salvage it. She agrees. I buy the food and we rent like 3 movies. We ate, watched one, and I than left telling her I would call her the next day. We have been married for over 25 years now, with two beautiful children. She told me it was me giving up my jacket that got me a second date and a second shot lol

[@morticiaheisenberg9679]

❤❤❤

[@karenmoran3707]

Sounds better than a lot of my first dates. So glad it worked out for the both of you. ❤

[@kathiemahoney4261]

That’s so crazy cool.

[@OneWhoDreamsAwake]

I love this story. Honestly, an adventure. An emotional rollercoaster ride. Lol

[@PatchouliStef]

Omg this is the sweetest story I've ever heard honestly!

[@angelawells2731]

I got y'all beat. Met a guy online, who lived in my grandmother's town. We chatted for several weeks, mostly just friendly banter. When I planned a trip to visit my grandma, I told him I would be in town and said we should meet up. He suggested an ice cream palour that was popular in the area. Meet him there and immediately realize his pictures don't match what he had posted online. But, since we had friendly conversations, I told myself it wasn't a big deal. We go to order our milkshakes and he stopped me from paying for my own. Then we sit down outside to talk. He proceeds to tell me that freaking ADOLF HITLER wasn't that bad of a guy and that he was just misunderstood. I brushed that off as just being an awkward and horrible joke. Nope, he was serious. Then, in the same breath, he asks me how much longer it will be before I finish my shake, because he really wanted to take me back to his place "to get to know each other better." I told him, sorry I don't do that on a first date. He then proceeded to knock my shake over, spilling it all over the table and me, while yelling at me for leading him on, using him to get a free meal and accusing me of having another date later. I reminded him that I offered to pay for my $4.50 shake, which he insisted on paying for. I got up to walk away, and he jumped up to stop me, grabbing my arm. Unbeknownst to me, there was a table full of teenaged boys sitting behind me, who all jumped in to stop him. I ran to my car and quickly drove off. During the 20 minute drive back to my grandmother's house, he called at least 30 times, leaving messages ranging from apologetic to raging anger and a slew of profanities. I blocked and deleted his number and never spoke to him again. I spent the rest of my trip having a lovely time with my grandmother, aunts and cousins. Yep, I dodged a bullet with that one.

[@esecallum]

never mind all that. but did he make you laugh?

[@eowyn8340]

I hope you reported him to the dating service. He sounds like a psychopath and I’m glad those boys stood up for you.

[@martina21953]

Thank God for those fine teenage boys stepping in to help you.

[@fluffy_mcflooferson4635]

Incels creating self fulfilling prophecies. Scary, I'm glad you escaped!

[@smarie923]

Wow... crazy af

[@lifeaschronicallyingrid]

My husband took me on a first date to McDonald’s and told me that I could have whatever I wanted on the menu. We had only known each other for about 6 months and we agreed to keep the dates cheap so that neither one of us would spend too much money on the other person. He paid for the first 2 dates and he let me pay on the third and we took turns paying. We dated for 4 years and then got engaged at a VERY fancy restaurant that he saved up for along with my engagement ring for a year to carry out. Then we stayed engaged for a year and got married. We’ll be married for 1 year in December and together for 6. You don’t have to go out to eat to fancy places on a first date. Save those for special occasions.

[@bluebutterfly4594]

Guess it's OK if you can stand McDonald's

[@Stacey-o2c]

Ss nice of a story that was, I feel as though thats alot different than what the girl on this video went through. Sounds like you and you're husband are both mature enough to compromise and stick to plans.

[@BlackAcePlays]

Oh, I think we should always invite dates to a really fancy place. "Maitre, after studying the menu, we'll both have a nice tableside prepared bread with butter and a small glass of tap water." 😅

[@disturbedkitty69]

My love and I will be together 10 years this Dec..never really have been anywhere expensive or schmoozy but I love him with every beat of my heart..I know what you mean gir! ❤❤😊

[@ananyabhagat7052]

What's wrong with McDonald's tho?😭​@@bluebutterfly4594

[@lindawilliams5478]

I’ve been married to my husband sixty one years. When we went on dates I paid for myself. We both made less than minimum wage. He asked his older sister if it was ok. She told him sure if l volunteered. This was early in our courtship, sixty one years later we share everything to do with money. This makes me feel better about myself.

[@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet]

Integrity of Honesty and Communication. That's how it ought to be. I'm glad people like you exist: to remind us that it's all possible! May you have a wonderful day

[@Da1n_0nly]

Congratulations on your wonderful relationship ❤️ unfortunately nowadays it just doesn't seem highly likely that a good-hearted man is going to find a good-hearted woman or vice-versa. Modern society has ruined it for both sexes.

[@Luminara1981]

I once went on a date, reached the venue to get a text... He couldn't come?. Oh well, party on Wayne, party on Garth! ... I stayed at the venue cause it was a good vibe. 2 hours later he turns up with somebody else!. ... On a date! 😂. Had the audacity to ask me why I was still there because he felt awkward! 😂😂😂

[@powellinaALDAY]

Omg what did you say??? That’s so crazy!

[@Luminara1981]

@@powellinaALDAY oh I went straight up to him and asked him if I'd made a mistake, he said 'no I'm sorry, but I've liked him for a long time and he said he would go out with me tonight' then he asked why I would still be there? But the whole situation has made him feel awkward!.... I politely called him the 'c' word and went back my evening, and I had a great night! X

[@gorosemonde]

@@Luminara1981well deserved. The audacity.

[@Luminara1981]

@@gorosemonde the complete audacity, and to this day (over 10 years later) he still slithers in to my DMs every now and again, apologising and asking if we could meet up and catch up.🤣

[@gorosemonde]

@@Luminara1981 wow. Loooooser 🤌

[@feleciaphillips6388]

Asked a guy once, what's my name? He had no clue. We were on a 3rd date. Yes, I left.

[@aftersexhighfives]

How. 3 dates!! Gross. Excellent job walking away. This is such absurd behavior. Feels like they only see women as numbers not names. Ick.

[@joybodelay9679]

Mulva?

[@TevelDrinkwater]

… I mess up my own kids' names! Good thing I (hopefully) don't worry about dating anymore. ---- To be fair, I mostly just use the wrong names without realizing it. I did mess up the name of my eldest when filling out the birth certificate information, but it was an I/Y substitution, and the "wrong" name is a perfectly normal alternate spelling, but it's still a funny story years later.

[@draalttom844]

Some peopl3 cant remember names, or faces, both or one, same for voices. Eye colors. Instead they care about the person

[@aftersexhighfives]

@@draalttom844 no. I have face blindness. Sometimes my own face confuses me that that's what I look like. No. If you are dating someone, you do not get the luxury of not remembering their name. Especially not by the third date. What am I saved as in his phone if he doesn't know my name. Probably a number.

[@MummaMacca]

Did she literally grate a freaking egg??? That was more shocking than her story!!! OMG YOU JUST SAID IT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@hahahaooof1354]

Lol had to rewind it a few times just to hear the story

[@iteachlit]

Did she add HONEY to that “avocado toast”???

[@lauralaforge558]

Salad shooter. You haven’t heard of egg salad before?

[@BigWormCR]

i was like WTF too

[@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet]

LMAOA RIGHT! WHY?! Cheeze Graters exist for more than just CHEESE these days!!! ahahahaha

[@GruberTD]

that girl on date in Chinese restaurant wAs probably trying to rob the guy with online banking if she could break into phone... NEVER leave your phone unsupervised same as your valet!!!

[@Mrscvbuzz]

Thankfully my dating days were before MySpace. On our first date, I knew my date (now husband) worked in construction and when he picked me up, it was a beat up xterra and it was plain to see that he took the time out to clean it and vacuum it, but it still had that kind of funky smell that won’t go away, but I noted the effort. We were going to an art show and the poor guy didn’t realize that there was a private event happening that night so when we drive up and realized we couldn’t get in, he looked so defeated. So we went out to eat at a place we were both familiar with, and we just had such amazing conversation. I could tell he was still bummed about the art show because he mentioned wanting to take me somewhere, but he wasn’t sure where. We decided to go to a pool bar and played pool all dressed up and just played and talked for HOURS. It’s been 22 years 🤗

[@tweety25m]

So Sweet!

[@gemmareign6226]

Happy tears for him and you! Lovely people, wish you all the happiness

[@pavlal.4552]

This is so sweet 🤩

[@redwoodrebelgirl3010]

Beautiful! ♥️ Congratulations. Glad two good people found each other.❤ God Bless you both, your Marriage, & your family, always. 💗

[@kateedwards2191]

That is so sweet! I love y’all’s story!

[@sarahtaavetti]

Don't go on expensive date for the first time. Go for coffee, go for a walk - whatever. Nobody needs to pay and when and if you like each other, ask each other out for dinner for the second date.

[@thepkitty]

Coffee dates are my go-to now. An excuse to hit up my favourite place which is a little out of the way for me to go to on a normal day, and it's so low commitment but still public. If he does want to pay for the coffee I don't feel bad about it cuz it's about 20 bucks for two people even with bagels. Now that the weather is nicer, if it's going well and we want to keep talking we can get more coffee to go and take a walk by the river that's right there! Also, if the date is bad, it's a lot easier to end it sooner because you're not waiting for an entree to come out!

[@IcesisLover]

Literally met my fiancé online dating we went to Starbucks for 1st date and talked for hours.

[@amabdall]

Don't tell that to 90% of women that will burn you at the stake. The Wagyu A5 kinda stake 😂😂

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

That's a good idea !

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

​​@@thepkittyWhere do you live that two coffees & two bagels costs 20$? That's crazy to me! So glad i'm happily married !!

[@roxy071288]

the girl with the wine REALLY DRINKIN THAT WINE. I don't get how guys don't see the signs of a crash and burn

[@ashalonchiq]

I hope her dad saw that. Lol. He won't value u as a wife. He expects a stepford wife.😂

[@artemis199]

She was like,” I might as well get drunk!” 😂

[@Sarah27H]

I didn't realize paying for yourself on a first date is a sign it's potentially gone wrong. Apparently that confused my hubby on our first date. I just viewed it as it's just a getting to know you date, neither of us are invested enough at this point to pay for each other 😂 but I texted him right after to let him know I had a good time and wanted to go out again, so it was a short-lived miscommunication thankfully.

[@a.n.9800]

When my fiancé and I were dating it was always a race to see who could grab the check first XD

[@daphneglasurus7886]

I think Charlotte means like not first date, like a guy you like BECAUSE you know him and trust him

[@aslaugsnakeeye]

My husband and I's first date was at a space invaders machine on the 7th floor of the college we attended. We were both nontraditional students, him a disabled marine veteran, me a newly divorced single mom. It was the BEST date. He bought me a grilled cheese with bacon sandwhich that we shared and shared a coke. 10 years later on our anniversary he still makes me grilled cheese with bacon. 2 kids, 4 cats and a homestead later, I can confidently say it was the best choice to tell him yes.

[@bethysbarn]

This is so cute!! 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Professionalasshole]

I love it! My fiancé still makes me grilled turkey and cheese sandwiches. Food is so much better when you don't cook it yourself! ❤

[@desireebailey611]

That is an awesome story!!

[@morticiaheisenberg9679]

❤❤❤

[@aslaugsnakeeye]

@@bethysbarn Thank you!

[@Mina-hm2og]

What is sad in these videos is not the hurt feelings of the women, but the fact that in each story none of them left immediately when they felt uncomfortable :when the first rude remark was made, when they were ignored, when their date did something they didn't like, when they felt uncomfortable, or even when they didn't feel safe. Instead they tried to excuse the bad behavior and rationalize. Why does society teaches girls that above their safety, comfort and self respect is the opinion of others, and the most important thing is to not get angry and make a scene, because an angry or rude woman is despicable?

[@mistypedhi]

I don't think it is that. I think women are just naturally more compassionate than men and don't want to feel mean.

[@erzabetf9544]

@@mistypedhi It’s not natural. Not wanting to be “mean” when some dude is making you feel unsafe is not at all natural. It’s one of the most unnatural states you can ever find yourself in, and it has nothing to do with “compassion”. It comes from years of conditioning and indoctrination that we’re not as important as anyone else, that some dude’s ego is more important than our own well-being. That’s not natural.

[@eileen58]

⁠@@mistypedhi Nah, we are definitely taught to not make a scene and look “crazy.” We are told to minimize our feelings and our pain and “don’t make a big deal out of things” even if you really feel unsafe for uncomfortable. That’s not compassion, that’s brainwashing. We are also taught to be careful not to offend a man because he could hurt you, so don’t do anything to upset them. Basically we are taught that our safety and feelings don’t matter and if they do, don’t show it.

[@Kors_Cookie]

The way people emotions are these days… rejection could get you killed! So many stories of girls saying no and ending up dead. I think its pure survival. Last the date as long as possible while trying to find an escape route

[@paulcdevine]

It is called agency. Particularly the one with two girls and one is mostly ignored. Take control you. Introduce yourself then ask the man what is going on etc. Why are you sitting there like you are helpless? Oh, and don't make out him LOL. You just rewarded his bizarre and radically rude behavior thus make it virtually certain he will do it again. Stop it!!

[@2Bad4YOUuu]

Just use your head when dating. Plain and simple. Don't compromise yourself for another person, don't meet up with complete strangers, don't give a stranger your address, don't set up an expensive date for a complete stranger, leave immediately if it's weird or scary. Get to know people first before dating or consider recommendations from the people you trust most.

[@BorkDorkArt]

One of the reasons I've never liked "blind dates" or "online dating". Meeting up with someone you barely know or even don't know at all with the clear intention of seeing if you're date compatible always seems to end in disaster. I can't speak from experience, but just what I've seen/heard from other people. I feel meeting someone and developing a friendship THEN, if both of you catch feels for each other and try moving on to the dating portion is a much for comfortable and "natural" way of progressing a relationship. It also gives you insight to who you're meeting up with and there's already a sense of familiarity there. Just my personal opinion on the dating scene tho. If blind dates/online dating works for you, I'm thrilled for you and wish you all the best and hope you stay safe out there ♥

[@Becca11389]

the reason the mean and nasty ones get so many people is because they are willing to mow through as many people as possible regardless of how they hurt them until they find someone they can push around. it's not that people are drawn to assholes, its that assholes will play the field at an insane rate basically speedrunning from one relationship to the next because they are not emotionally invested. they are just slamming through as many people as possible until they find someone who is broken in a way that suits them so they can manipulate them to stay.

[@jadziamerryweather77888]

Lmao you just described my birth giver. On point.

[@Zectifin]

100%. the whole "nice guy" whining they do about "women only go for assholes" is not true. They just run into a lot of assholes.

[@imeverywhereandnowhere56]

Men are the prize. We do as we please. Drizzle drizzle.

[@Becca11389]

@@imeverywhereandnowhere56 lmao what are you, 14?

[@RaptorFromWeegee]

Sounds like a great lifestyle, actually. Thats the dream all guys want to life, and they all would too, if they had the mojo to be able to pull it off. These guys, Becca11389 describes are heroic figures in the finest traditions of the old west.

[@llamainyamama3088]

Not her guzzling the wine while choking out the “yea… oh mmyeah”s

[@whitneyhatton3736]

So refreshing to hear a man's worst date & damn dude I feel so bad for you

[@Zectifin]

the audacity of someone saying "you talk too much" on a date. like thats the point of a date, for you two to talk and get to know each other.

[@GSTripleF]

My thoughts exactly. That man has Patrick Bateman vibes.

[@Khomebaker]

When someone says you talk too much on the first date, it’s code for I’m a narcissist, your hear to listen to me.

[@christinarapolas7738]

I didn't get asked for a second date because I didn't talk enough.

[@_se7enfall_944]

Hush. You talk too much.

[@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet]

@@christinarapolas7738 Sorry to hear about that. Some people feel that if the other person isn't as much of a talker then they might be more prone to telling secrets and have less of an integrity to honesty, communication and problem solving things together. Anyways, practice, practice. Social Skills are a Set of skills that you have to keep practicing and the "study sessions" are pretty much determined by the Will of the Person. It helps when you practice short talk "1- 3 minute" convos with cashiers first before you consider more personal, intimate-potential questions with friends or dates.

[@HangingWithMelissa]

The audacity of that girl to try and unlock his phone and steal the money from the food. I hope she has been found and charged with a misdemeanor.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Is theft only a misdemeanor charge ? It should be A felony. Maybe it depends on how much was taken.I don't know.😂

[@leighlilly7588]

​@@perfectlyimperfect9129last I checked theft over 500 is a felony

[@silviahannak3213]

What the Heck..why? He seems like a nice friendly Guy. Why do they always get out with the weird beautiful ones? Is that only in US?

[@karmagal78]

My guess is that she was probably going to try to get his card numbers from the wallet app.

[@Sorchia56]

She’s a vile cow!!! Definitely press charges! It’s all on video.

[@sonicsnobody]

4:27 COUNTER-ARGUMENT!!!: I have adhd, so it will take a variable amount of time before I can truly remember someone’s name off the top of my head, but that’s the only argument I can make for this story

[@lauralaforge558]

Of course, you could say I don’t remember what your name is, but I remember that you have three siblings, your favorite color is yellow, and when you were a little girl you wanted to be a fairy godmother

[@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet]

Exactly. But one WITH this issue would typically announce it the first time meeting someone potentially important (like a future forever mate), not at the point when wanting a kiss. Just a "Hey. Nice to meet you. By the way, I would just like to let you know: I'm terribly bad with names. But I'll try to say it several times during our date so I may hope to remember you. If I don't remember, please remind me what it was again if you don't mind?"

[@lauralaforge558]

@@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet idk lol. I have adhd and the most humiliating part is that I am good at so many things others find difficult, but fail to be able to do what others consider easy. Like I cannot explain to someone why I can research problems at work better than anyone else but I can’t send out a birthday card despite having stamp, the card, a pen, and a mailbox down the driveway. ADHD carries a lot of shame with it. Plus we um are forgetful. I could totally see my self forgetting to say that.

[@sonicsnobody]

@@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet honestly, my partner would find out about it within the first hour. I can’t keep my mouth shut about anything, including my adhd

[@Fizzicist21]

A lot of great tips, but there is shame with it and worry of judging, especially with so many people claiming they have it when they don't. I'm sure the name thing wouldn't have been an issue or a test if the guy wasn't so terrible.

[@bysscanna]

once went to dinner with an ex crush, i remember he put his phone up against MY water glass and said "if you don't mind I'm going to be watching this game while we're eating" yeah needless to say we definitely don't talk anymore

[@TeaBooksandYoga]

Moral of the story: If something feels off, just leave. You don't need to give an explanation other than taking care of yourself.

[@glitterbomb7896]

Amen! Best advice ever ❤

[@user-sq6vb1on3d]

Yeah, I need to work on this! Remember girl, remember

[@Gwendolina12]

Safety first. Always ask for public places to meet. Maybe even in daylight. Have people you know in the neighbourhood or watching their phone for your emergency call.

[@TeaBooksandYoga]

@@glitterbomb7896 ❤❤❤

[@glee_again2594]

Yeah. Don’t get in a car alone for that first date. She was trying to safely get back. But yes, you could call someone or an Uber to pick you up.

[@gingerbeer849]

First date with a fellow I met at an improv show (my son's first show with his troupe). He shows up for a "farm date" to ride horses with me (my horses) -- told me he could ride well. We went on a short ride through farm fields, very nice ride, very pretty, along a river. He had brought his dog, which he said ran five miles a day with him on his bike. He couldn't even get on the horse, let alone ride. I put him on a small horse (easy to get on) who was a sweetheart and would give him no trouble. She (the horse) was so pissed at his awful riding she pinned her ears the whole ride -- I'd never seen her do this before. His poor dog must have been laying next to a stationary bike for that "five miles a day." The dog had a heat stroke and DIED about 1/2 mile into the ride!!! I carried that dog (big dog!) to a pool of water as it was expiring, trying to cool it down, and gave it mouth to nose resuscitation three times to bring it back when it stopped breathing. The man was totally useless. When we got back to the farm, my dad (lived next door) handed him a shovel and showed him a place in the garden where he could bury the dog. Date guy was insulted that he was being asked to bury the dog, himself. Once it was buried he came into my house to shower!!! I'm the one covered in death slobbers and mud -- but he wanted to clean up first (while I made sandwiches because he was really hungry) and then (I've washed my hands, obviously, but still wearing muddy clothes) started angling for a pity fuck because "he was sad about his dog dying". Worst date of my life. The dog was a sweetheart and this asshole killed him by lying, lying, lying.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

I feel so sad for the dog. And you did not deserve that sociopath who murders his dogs..

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

Kristi noem said hold my drink.. Thanks for being a good companion to the dog!

[@bobbiellison4315]

Good Lord! Tell me this is pure fiction

[@eacomedy]

HOLY CRAP THE TRAUMA

[@dela2612]

This one. This one is the worst one

[@lilliankelly4350]

23:51 I lost it at “Serial phone farter” 😂😂

[@TeezieMo]

HAHAHAA!!! Same 😂

[@danielcarter305]

17:10 Did anyone else notice as the guy got further and further into his "HI I'm the world's most selfish man" story the young lady just kept talking longer and longer drinks of her wine?😂😂😂 She should have been "Okay, thank you" the minute he said Joe Rogan.😂😂😂

[@shishimii]

‘she will steal your money and fart on your phone’ IS THERE A WORSE REVIEW A MAN CAN LEAVE ABOUT YOUR DATE? 🤣 im cryinggggg 😂

[@Stories_I_Tell_Ya]

😂😂😂 I do love that he got to see it all on camera.

[@sallygirl1012]

Dude reviews on dating profiles would be funny as hell. Also quite helpful.

[@kaylynanderson2187]

the last one, Charlotte: if a man says, "You talk too much," get up and leave immediately. no comments, no glance. Don't go for a walk on any first date - you never know how it will end. I've heard other stories on your channel that I like: see if you can have a friend show up at the same location to observe & ensure your safety (possibly a ride home if needed).

[@AmethystEyes]

Also there are safety bracelets that will send a fake call to your phone or message the police

[@truthseeker9249]

@@AmethystEyes Really? I might buy those for my future daughters. Thanks for tell me that.

[@truthseeker9249]

Well we went on a magical walk around a beautiful lake for our first date. But my love is a middle school friend of mine. Someone I've known since I was young that I know would never harm me. Someone who knows how well I can handle myself if he ever tried. And it was the greatest day of my life. After all these years he's still my best friend who makes my heart flutter faster than a hummingbird's wings.

[@susannairisastarte5192]

I got told that I talk too much on a first date once lol 😂😂😂😂😂 I laughed and said well that's not gonna change so....

[@kaylynanderson2187]

@@truthseeker9249, there's nothing like a first love. I still remember my first kiss.

[@rebeccakirk5089]

One thing for sure I've learned from watching Charlotte dobre is that I'm so glad I never really got to much into the dating scene it seems like more trouble than it's worth.

[@christinsmith5656]

I met a guy online and we met at a restaurant (I got there first). He walks in, sees me, walks up and says (VERY loudly) "oh thank God you are fat! I'm what they call a chubby chaser".... I was embarrassed and insecure so I stayed. I tried to order a salad and he told the waiter "no! She will take a burger with fries"... Uhm... Okay?? Then he "forgot his wallet". So I paid. Then he didn't have enough gas to get home and asked me for gas money. I will never forget that

[@sfrcma8449]

Please tell us you dumped his ass after the date from hell. You deserve better.

[@christinsmith5656]

@@sfrcma8449 oh yes! There was no second date!

[@JenniferShipleyArt]

“Giving my home address to someone before our first date is my first mistake. Getting alone into the car of someone with whom I don’t know and already asked me for money was my second mistake. Getting back into his car after every moment of this date had been horrible was my third mistake.” I am so glad she got home safely.

[@hunnibear0102]

Right! That's what I was thinking!!!

[@shalonamaranth]

She was travelling so it's unlikely to be her home address .. but yeah . Don't take rides from men you don't know

[@Zectifin]

honestly as a guy if a girl online gave me her home address I just met online I would see that as a red flag. Either she has no self preservation instincts or she's up to something and I'm putting myself in danger.

[@Bayloy]

" she will steal your money and fart into your phone" 😂😂😂 I cant believe its real 😂😂😂😂

[@bellaelleira]

Honestly gave “The worst she can say is no” a whole new perspective lmao

[@melissasheppard6674]

can’t say I’ve heard that one before but now I have lol

[@szigetizita2698]

i wonder how his eye is doing 🤔

[@latersugarpumpkin]

​@@szigetizita2698 i was wondering that too. Its wild but... bc of medical implications,,,,girlie could be sued if they caught her on camera farting on his phone and his getting pinkeye immediately after. At the very least a small lawsuit bc of the fact it is a infection caused by very strict sources 👀 especially bc she seemingly did it bc she was angry she couldnt unlock his phone.

[@angeladurand3034]

Nah y’all, I have you all beat. I went on a date with a guy I’d met on the internet. This was in Nashville during CMA week. I have Ehlers Danlos syndrome and often dislocate joints. Well, I wasn’t paying attention during dinner, and I dropped my napkin. I had my legs crossed as I bent to retrieve it. I dislocated my hip in the process. I told him trying to hold back the tears. He got angry at me because I said I needed an ambulance. He was like “this is so embarrassing…” and he left. I rode away in the ambulance and didn’t look back. Worst first date ever

[@firsttimeisawjupiter1031]

The guy talking about the gay frogs was absolutely trolling

[@shopahauliquewithjacquelin7025]

The egg cutting machine is insane. It takes 1 minute or less to hand cut an egg. She spent 2 minutes machine cutting one egg, with a lot of it trapped between parts, and will spend 30 minutes cleaning the machine.

[@Sindrijo]

That wasn't even the weirdest thing... HONEY???? On avocados and eggs?!

[@shopahauliquewithjacquelin7025]

@@Sindrijo I got stuck on the ridiculous machine. Good point, it's a no all the way around.

[@carolinegrova8707]

Once she started putting the eggs into the vegetable grater, I couldn't really pay attention any more.

[@shopahauliquewithjacquelin7025]

@@carolinegrova8707 I want a video of her cleaning that hot mess out the machine.

[@marshmallow13585]

It's not just for eggs. It's awesome for cheese and veggies too

[@adristein84]

The guy towards the end who had his phone sat on and got robbed of the check money seems like such a sweetheart! I feel so bad for him. He’s adorable. I hope he’s had a decent date since that experience! I’d usually recommend to be a petty potato and exact revenge but holy hell he doesn’t need to see that girl ever again

[@robinkholmes7127]

Thank God for security cameras

[@BeeWhistler]

Was that your take? He seems nice but he really needs to learn some basic societal survival skills. He thinks WWIII is a conspiracy theory and that farts on your phone give you pink eye and leaves his phone with strangers then lets them use the phone after they try to unlock it while he’s gone. Man, she was a piece of work but it’s so frustrating to watch someone taunt fate like that. She saw him coming a mile away.

[@huskytail]

@@BeeWhistler what does "he thinks WWIII is a conspiracy theory" mean? I must have missed someething ☺️.

[@Elven_Lady]

​@@BeeWhistler a fart? No. 😂 An STD if her bits rubbing on his phone and leaving even trace amounts of fluids and those fluids coming in contact with the fluids of his eye? He's not wrong for getting tested.

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

@@BeeWhistler Most of that I agree w/ you on about him needing more survival skills. Have to admit, he was acting a bit more like woman often do, w/ being too agreeable and extending too much benefit of the doubt. it could be possible to get pink eye though. Pink eye can come from feces and that's pretty much what a fart is, in vapour form. Esp. if she got her actual ring touching his phone. I'd be freaked out at the possibility. Hope his immune system was good and strong.

[@SaltyGammon567]

About the gay frogs: that was true, it was some company dumping chemicals in a river and it turned the frogs gay. They also had mutated limbs and birth defects. I have no clue why you would ever bring that up on a first date though!

[@raynbeauheathercheng7721]

I LOVE your commentary! Perfect amount of SASSINESS!

[@jacklow9611]

When paying at a restaurant, NEVER just leave the money on the table. always take it to the counter and pay for it there. That way, you have proof that it was paid for, and it can't get stolen. Even tips just lying in plain sight on the table could be stolen by someone walking by.

[@carolynmcdonald2746]

You’re right..I’ve seen people steal tips before. I always wait for the wait staff to return or I’ll hand it to them on my way out.

[@owatagusiam44]

Not even just other patrons, I used to waitress and this lady Karen (her actual name) would steal people's tips for herself. We were not in a place that pooled tips.

[@ajamzmom4882]

My husband is totally paranoid about this, he always makes us wait until the server comes back to hand them their tip.

[@ingridakerblom7577]

I will wait for the server to return to get the money before I leave. And I live in a place where no one would probably just take it. If you lose your wallet you will get it back with everything left (mostly) . My mom had her wallet stolen, the theif took 50€ the only cash in there & a few ibuprofen tablets 😂 Then the theif had left her wallet on the back off some random bike in town & the next morning someone saw it & called her.

[@jacklow9611]

@@ingridakerblom7577 : In certain cases when I can't leave a tip at the counter when I pay, and can't give it directly to the server, I'll tuck it under one of the plates so it can be found as the table is cleared.

[@carolineann5518]

I always pay my way when going on a date and as I don’t drink I drive myself to said date. My dad taught me that you pay your way whatever the situation is. Then you don’t owe any man anything. If I’m in a committed relationship then we take turns. My money is my money and his money is his. I’m nearly 50 years old and can’t be doing with all this 💩

[@Yazmin_P]

Exactly!! When I speak like this, women around me look at me like I am crazy... They even told me "oh, you like supporting men".. 😳 Supporting? I am a functional adult, he is not my father. The only reason why I didn't paid on my husband's and I date, was because it was 2020 (pandemic), and the only thing we ate was ice cream, it was really cheap.

[@SMJSelena]

I do exactly the same. I only let a guy pay for me once because he insisted and I already knew him from high school so I had a good feeling about him (we did date for a while until he went abroad for a year). Other than that I always pay for myself or we take turns. I'm not going to owe anyone anything ever :)

[@Saltine_American]

I taught my daughter to drive herself EVERYWHERE even if she could ride with friends and it doesn’t make sense. My biggest fear is a friend taking her to a sketchy situation (usually for a loser guy) and then ditching her with creeps or drag her to a second location they didn’t plan to go to that is dangerous or could get her in trouble. Girl code flies out the window when guys or drvgs are involved.

[@wendycregan2147]

Your such a wise women

[@TheVespertineKnitter]

Exactly! I have 3 daughters and I have drummed into them since they were small that you always, always, always go dutch on a first date.

[@Moonbunny55]

The girl in LA. The more the dude talked the faster she drank 😂 🍷

[@lindaohanraha-hanrahan2817]

I was totally distracted my that egg shredding thing. I was obsessively thinking about how long it was going to take her to clean the machine when she could have used a pastry cutter or fork instead.

[@lauralaforge558]

Salad shooter. You guys must not have been around in the 90s

[@jemmrich]

I once rejected a girl i was talking to on a dating app because she randomly found my number started texting me, then she would drive by my house asking me "guess where i am right now? Looks like you must be at work.". I never told her my number or where i lived. Then, after i thought it couldn't get worse, she began to gaslight me, saying im not a man and must be intermediated and can't handle a committed relationship" etc. until i finally blocked her. Two months later, she popped up on Facebook with "just got married" 😳 like what the freak...

[@2late4date]

That creep is the perfect candidate for a restraining order.

[@user-fw8bw3eg7q]

She'll end up on 'snapped' one day, sounds like you dodged a bullet!

[@kristenw2147]

My boyfriend and I (both elderly) met online. He asked for a phone call and we went out for root beer. Five plus years of happiness and romance so far. I always offered to split bills, suggested bike rides, picnics and such during early dates.

[@misst5835]

I am so happy for you both. Bless you.

[@user-kn4vn6ot2y]

0:50 you stayed lol

[@patriciat4493]

If your spider senses are tingling, pay attention! I agreed to meet a guy that my cousin knew. When I arrived at the Cafe, he was already there. Points for punctuality. We enjoyed coffee and small talk, then I felt an actual shift in the air. He told me I had great legs. 'Thank you' I said, I am a competitive distance runner'. 'Stocking or pantyhose?' He asks I said neither. It's summer..... 'But when you do wear them, do you wear stocking or pantyhose?' He asks. 'Pantyhose' I respond. 'Ah, you should wear stocking. I prefer them. Much more feminine. You would wear a size *** and preferably a ***** denier. All this in a dark tone while leering at my legs. I excused myself to the washroom, gave a waitress $20 to let me out the back door, give me 5 min, then tell my date I wasn't coming back

[@dbpublishinghouse]

You knew the Avocado toast was going south when she used a fork instead of a spoon to scoop it out of its skin. Also, the clean up on the 'egg grater" is not worth the effort.

[@tjohnson9192]

The pushing-through egg slicer is much better! Then a few cuts to make slices into strips, bam, done.

[@Mars_doll]

That all I could think of.

[@beaniebaby638]

Thank you I was thinking this the whole time lol

[@jessicalee9884]

I came to the same conclusion! Who scoops out avocado with a fork?! She must be insane

[@desert_holly]

Lmfao i just wrote about that. Whhhhhy didnt she use a knife on the eggs 😂 that veggie shredder probably still has egg stuck in it 🤣

[@TheOfficialPatriarchy]

All my romantic partners were women I met at a coffee shop where I go casually to hang out with friends. I met them organically with no pretense of a relationship and had coffee with them several times before ever going on anything that could be perceived as a date with them, so I already knew I enjoyed their company and conversation. Even then, said date likely started with hanging out having coffee together and one of us saying something to the effect of "I'm hungry, you wanna get something to eat?" No pretense, no expectations, just two people getting food together who enjoy spending time with each other. For this reason, I have never in my life had a single bad date.

[@pancakesatthedisco8088]

This. Please, print out the playbook and pass it around friend. Help us help them lol

[@KdotStew]

Not the pink eye!! The way I died laughing. Caught me off guard 😅

[@Vampyr787]

In that last one you can clearly see the guy is trying to buy her, expensive restaurant, expensive dinner, expensive gift.

[@kinzinator1]

See this is why i talk to people for a couple weeks before going on dates. A lot of them weed themselves out within that time 😂

[@Anna-wo9gb]

Same, when I used dating apps, I would give them my art instagram since it had no personally identifying info. If they passed the instagram test, they got my number and a date. Well one guy got my instagram and proceeded to call me 4 TIMES IN A ROW over instagram. I started panicking and blocked him. Another guy and I arranged a voice call over insta to see if we got along before a date, he spent 2 hours yapping to me about his Latina fetish (I told him Spain spanish is NOT latina and he couldnt understand that, calling me exotic when I’m legit a white woman…) they weed themselves out quick

[@mollysreadings4845]

Same 😊

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

Never, ever, ever leave your phone on the table. You never know if your date will do crazy s**t.

[@JennyNobody]

Reminds me of the last date I went on before getting serious with my husband. Guy nervously talked about MMA the whole night, didnt ask about me, got really drunk and then tried to drive me home. He did pay for our food and drinks at least lol.

[@ayannaj6168]

''I know what you're doing and I see what you're doing'' is a phrase to mark maturity and or experience

[@eustacia03]

That last guy read 50 Shades of Grey ad thought "yes I can do the exact thing this questionable fictional character does and it will definitely win me a submissive arm candy woman in one night".

[@ZimVader-0017]

The fact that people who are part of the BDSM community absolutely LOTHE that book should have told him something.

[@geometerfpv2804]

It works on the right person, she just wasn't the right person. When I was in college, plenty of my female peers had an older man that would spend on them. They were perfectly aware of the nature of the relationship, they found it fun. Nobody really judged them, we all thought it was funny.

[@ostlandr]

Friend of mine is a full time professional model, and is into BDSM. She is a "true switch" she says. She was at FetCon one year, and met this cool lady. (She's bi BTW). This guy walks up, and the girl immediately kneels. My friend, looking towards some kind of a group fun evening, introduces herself. The guy yells at her "You WILL call me master!" She bitch--slapped him, and read him the riot act. Dude literally screwed up his chances with a gorgeous half-Asian professional model. BTW my friend also teaches couples classes in BDSM. She made bank when "50 Shades" was popular.

[@Woo_Woo_Woman]

​@@geometerfpv2804It's the oldest trade in the world.. certain people are into it.

[@burnyizland]

@@geometerfpv2804 Gross. I knew one girl like that and before we graduated she had turned herself into an actual hooker - sorry, ESCORT - and was trying to recruit me too since I'm 'so sex positive.' Yeah, I'm so sex positive I ONLY have sex with people I feel positively about, not just whoever pulls his wallet out quickest! Gross.

[@TianaBarker]

God 18:50 that guy with glasses dodged a crazy lady so many red flags on the first date 😂 like what the hell is wrong with some people ?

[@craigforrest6548]

I know right? Who doesn't like Chinese food?

[@TattyLocks]

He didn't dodge her at all. He got run over head-on full force by her🤣 Got stolen from, farted on, THEN finally got the opportunity to run away in the opposite direction, yet is STILL suffering the consequences by being labelled a thief and has to go to the doctor for pink eye. Poor guy!

[@TianaBarker]

@@TattyLocks well at least got to see how psycho she is before he stayed longer to discover it later on 😂

[@TattyLocks]

@@TianaBarker I can only imagine it gets much, much worse... 😳

[@TianaBarker]

@@TattyLocks that’s why he’s got to run away before it got worse then it already was 😂

[@barbaraswan1701]

That weird date, after five minutes of being ignored I would have just said 'Well, I'm going to leave, enjoy your date' and then I would have left them to whatever they were doing.

[@amandadarlenemidgett8249]

That girl wanted to go back to his place to scope it out to see if he was worth robbing. Thats why she was so upset when he said he was ready to call it a night

[@spankyhunter]

Good morning. Was up in the office at work yesterday, i called someone delulu. On the way out new staff member grabbed me & said " omg you watch charlotte?" A new friendship has formed 😁

[@curleyqreviews9793]

So the next day you asked about the farting on phone story?

[@tamzvand3325]

15:36 Yes!! I was also distracted by her pulverising the egg through the grater 😅 it was excruciating 😂😂

[@musicaldolliex]

The strees of cleaning it after. I'd rather just cut it up as usual 😂😂

[@WonderingNelly]

I had to rewind several times to actually listen to the story 😅

[@justKorppi]

@@musicaldolliexI have the same grater. Luckily, it's really easy to clean

[@MindiB]

“Let’s be realistic-Nobody likes anybody. We just tolerate other people.” Dang, I’m alarmed by how much I agree with this.

[@paigehillock8638]

Point period . Yes I agree so much with this haha

[@paigehillock8638]

I meant point period . Lol I agree so much

[@paperballchez9363]

That's really sad tho.

[@duhni4551]

The pink eye dude.... i feel for him 😂😂😂😂That must have been surreal for real 😂

[@ShakinandBacon]

My best friend set me up on a date with my ex boyfriend‘s best friend. We talked for a month and really liked each other. We go on a date to the movies then he drops me off at home. My best friend then calls 15 minutes later asking what I did that the guy had a horrible time. He complained that I was too stiff when he put his arm around me, I didn’t kiss him, and he didn’t think I enjoyed myself. I called him, explained I had a great time but was nervous and I don’t kiss on the first date. He said that was very classy and asked me out again. We’ve been married 10 years and gave 3 amazing kids.

[@sarahweisheitrtear]

For the guy where she was trying to unlock his phone, i would make sure all tracking is turned off, in case she was trying to case home.

[@lynnettebelle3019]

After she stole the cash off the table, it makes me wonder if she was trying to get into his phone to venmo herself money or something.

[@klaytonalexandermatthews2047]

that's what I thought, like she may have been tryna rob him

[@LittleMaitea]

@@lynnettebelle3019I didn’t even thought about that 😱😱😱 You are probably right! Until I read you comment I was so puzzled about the trying to unlock thing… I was thinking if she wanted to check/stalk if he is maybe already dating But with the stealing sending herself money … that would make so much more sense

[@rolandhansen812]

@@lynnettebelle3019 Or get into his bank account if he uses his phone to do his banking. Her taking his phone outside to talk to her sister is very suspicious. She was probably setting him up to be robbed by her cohorts. The guy needs to check his Venmo, cash app, bank accounts.

[@jenellenelson4447]

Ewww. This poor guy!

[@FattyButterBits]

- nobody likes anybody - we just tolerate other people. The motto of my life.

[@RaptorFromWeegee]

Theres no such thing as a good date, theres just some that are less horrible than others. If you EVER should find yourself on a "good date", rest assured, he'll turn out to be like a Manson Family grandchild or something.

[@ThatGuy-vi8ch]

​@@RaptorFromWeegeeoh that's why I got ghosted all the time. Good date means I'm likely an insane maniac. Great, I should have been a dick. 😅

[@dicars623]

The gay frog one--I loved how she kept hitting the wine! Hard!

[@billcorn2]

Honestly, with the story at 12:30 The dude was clearly still frustrated about the entire situation and vented/word vomitted about the whole thing because he was still pissed about it. I once went off about a fight I JUST had with a friend to a random girl in the sauna at the gym. She was just literally the first person I saw after the situation, and unfortunately poor sauna girl got word vomitted at 🤣 Me and sauna girl are still friends on IG and wave at eachother to this day 🤣🤣

[@HalfB]

🚨The first example had my red flags flying but about her. I understand the focus is red flags from your date but what about the red flags that should be known concerning safety and what to NOT do!! 🚨 1) Never never never meet a new person in your home or hotel room. 2) never allow them to pick you up at your home or B&B or hotel. Getting into a car with a stranger is an absolute red flag. Always always always drive yourself or get an Uber to where you’re meeting. 3) Never tell them your home address or the exact hotel you’re staying at before the date. 4) Meet at a restaurant , coffee shop or establishment that is well lite, busy with customers and not out and away from other businesses and people coming and going. 5) always gets to your date destination a half hour early so you can assess the safety of the location. 6) Always tell hotel staff/or one family member or friend where your meeting and your dates name. 7) For hotel stays, leave the name, address and a phone number of a family/friend with the front desk in case of an emergency. 8) when you arrive early to your date, speak to the hostess, manager and introduce yourself and let them know about your meeting a new person for a date. At a minimum they naturally will have more attention and concern . 9) I could go on but, if all people ( especially young people) did these few things then they would be safer on every date. God bless!!!! 🥰🛐😇

[@coachnursececille]

Thank you for posting this. It's as if you read my mind. Totally agree with you.👏🩷🩵

[@LoveLifeLiveLife7]

I agree on all except trusting the hotel's staff with an address. Hotels also have employees who get hired by human traffickers to gove them them leads on people

[@HalfB]

@@LoveLifeLiveLife7 Using common sense and basic security measures is what I’m trying to say. There are predators, just don’t make it easy to take advantage of you. Learn to have situational awareness and don’t stay in places that set off normal alarm bells. Be safe but still have fun, travel and enjoy life…. Big sister hugs!!! 🤗🙌

[@LoveLifeLiveLife7]

​@@HalfBI agree!

[@madjennie3417]

At this point I may stay single, living at my parents house, and take care of them. These stories make me feel okay about not going out with anyone in YEARS

[@amandagreen4332]

That’s what I did. I helped them through ALS (Dad) and cancer (Mom). Now that they’re gone, I only regret their loss.

[@muzicfreek1986]

Legit hard same.

[@ingridakerblom7577]

Same! I need to care for my parents, their 4 elderly cats. I work full time. And I have my 3 cats, i don't have the time or energy to go on crazy dates 😂 it's been easier to let the guy stay for the last 15 years 😅😂

[@ingridakerblom7577]

​@@amandagreen4332that must have been so hard. such cruel unforgiving diseases is terrible to see someone you love go trough. And you want to be able to help them more than you can, so there is a constant frustration about not being enough.. But I wouldn't want it another way I feel it would be extremely hard not to help care for the ones you love..

[@katarinad1309]

I have done the same cared for my Mom since her stroke. I get lonely but every time I try to date I end up with a pig or a freak. I’d rather be lonely then deal with these crazy mfs

[@Pink_Aqua]

17:54 she was CHUGGING that! 😂😂😂😂

[@Pearltsuno]

Charlotte, I must confess I absolutely LOVE your hoodie! It gives so much joyful, happy-go-lucky yet mischievous vibes, it was more interesting to watch than the egg-grater thing. Thank you for wearing it on the video! 😍

[@Ash060786]

I met my husband on an online dating site. I asked him how previous date experiences were, since it was a dating app, and I was new to it. He told me one date he picked up to go to dinner, and in the car on the way there she pulled out a dog collar and leash and wanted him to wear it 😂😂😂😂. He pulled over to the nearest bus stop, and said bye, have a nice life 😅

[@skellbo]

Yeah that's definitely something you talk about BEFOREHAND. Anyone who's an ethical person into BDSM knows you don't just throw that on people, you have an open conversation first talking about wants and limits. You don't just throw that onto someone who has no interest. That makes everyone look bad, and is not caring at all of the other person.

[@robinkholmes7127]

At least she was direct, no gaslighting there

[@Kayenne54]

I asked one guy the same thing; apparently they met for brunch, and she put a WHOLE piece of toast, with a WHOLE fried egg, into her mouth, like a python. He never recovered from the image. I haven't either.

[@Ash060786]

@@robinkholmes7127 I think the directness would have been better prior to meeting up, not pulling a leash and collar out of nowhere, with zero previous conversation.

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

@Kayenne54 I just spat out my drink

[@czntrm]

For that second girl, I would have excused myself to the "restroom" and then left the 2 of them at the table to continue the "date" without me.

[@Pieza_De_Queso]

I would have flat out asked the dude what was going on. Wtf

[@user-lp4wj8hm4x]

I would have taken out my phone and made a date with someone else and then excuse myself and walk out. On phone- Hey yeah, no, he's a loser. I'm bored. Want to meet at (name place)? K, see you in 20. Hang up To the other female- Nice meeting you. Leave.

[@Ghryst]

that would be because you are a coward who cant deal with a situation that needs to be dealt with.

[@CannabrannaLammer]

Same here

[@burnyizland]

When I was in my 20s I was at a homespun version of Woodstock - 3 day music festival all my musician friends and I put on annually for a good 20 years(I'm a singer). I'm in a hottub with one of the guys that I happen to be attracted to, he starts fingering me, another girl gets in on the other side of him and before long his other hand went questing... she jumps up horrified, says "I'm NOT that kind of girl!" and runs off. I turned to him and said, "I am." I had so much fun that weekend!

[@Ellada18]

I have the best worst date stories ever and sometimes I feel bad I don't have a tiktok to share them. I remember one particularly: A guy showed up on a date in hawaiian shirt, which was mostly unbuttoned (mind you, I met him in an elegant restaurant where it was a bit inappropriate, despite the good weather) and I could see his well-groomed chest. Nice view, actually. Throughout the dinner he never once looked at me, he was eating and only once offered me to eat as well (which is fine), he never asked any questions to get to know me, except one - when I asked if he had siblings, he asked me "You?" and that was it. And by the end of this whole thing, after finding out that I have over 15 years of business experience and do consulting projects, speak multiple languages, run a small company, and work on my alcohol business, he said: "You know, you seem like a smart girl, you're pretty, you speak multiple languages. If I were you, I would stop doing all this nonsense and become a translator".... And he repeated it once again when I was saying goodbye... I don't think I'm as smart as he hoped I was though, because I never took his advice.

[@kleinesdaisukii]

On the topic of the guy paying for the dates: I never expected someone to pay for me on dates. My husband once told me (after we dated for a while) that that was something he really loved about me from the beginning. He never felt used, he felt like I was going out with him, because I really liked him, not because he had money.

[@DannyDevito606]

I alwayssssss pay my own way on a first date for multiple reasons, 1. So if the date doesn't end well he can't say I used him for anything other than getting to know him. And 2. If they get super defensive over not paying that's a red flag for me like if they act like it takes away their masculinity me paying for myself. 3. So they can't use buying me food or something as an excuse to demand sex. I have genuinely gotten into fights with my dad about this I'm his only daughter and he raised me by himself, but I am constantly terrified up becoming financially dependent on someone or even worse using someone I care about without meaning to cuz I'm just used to the treatment.

[@rolandhansen812]

Yeah - that first girl gave me red flag #1 with her "this is a date so you can't ask me to buy anything". Other than that, she seemed pretty nice overall.

[@new.alternative.productiones]

You forgot the: "I pAiD fOr YoUr FoOd So nOw YoU HAVE TO sLeEp WiTh mE" reason. 😆😅

[@theycallmequeen6273]

@@rolandhansen812 Thats not a red flag. Whoever asked for the date should be paying. If you both agree ahead of time to pay for yourselves then that is fine.

[@DannyDevito606]

@@new.alternative.productiones oh girl that never crossed my mind I dare a man say that to my face, I was raised by an old school Southern Man and I fight like one too 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like I know men say it but I've been told I'm an intimidating woman so God help the brave one that tells me that.

[@jeaniebird999]

Yes, exactly that! And also ☝️ that reason. I'm not about to give them ANY reason to think I owe them a damn thing!

[@sharonroberson3416]

I'm so glad no one is talking about my son not knowing how to act right on a date. My husband showed him how to treat a lady right. First date- picked her up in front of her apt building (good for her that she didn't give him her apt number), he hands her a bouquet of flowers, opens her door, they go to eat and he pays, they have a couple drinks and he pays, he drops her off and again opens her door and walks her to her building, tells her he had a great time and looks forward to seeing her again. Might sound old fashioned to some but he said the look of surprise and happiness on her face when he gave her the flowers was totally worth it💘

[@thetjdman]

All I hear is he did, he did, he did and all she did was show up.

[@2late4date]

Fathers are important!

[@LuxNovuz]

@@thetjdman If you want traditional shit then you act traditional or shut the hell up. Men like you need to get with the times or act right for the women you want.

[@brendadickson9583]

You raised him well ❤

[@naadi2000nr1]

Son well raised!

[@nathanieldavidson308]

Back when i was first dating, just thinking things would be normal because i was chill and other people would be chill. I had a woman agree to a date with me, telling me that she lived a ways away so if we did the date shed need a place to stay. So i was like cool, i will give you my bed and i will stay on the couch no worries. So she just came over, i had offered to cook. She specifically requested grilled cheese and tomato soup. Not the top tier request, seemed odd to me, but easy enough so i made that. After she arrived she didnt speak a word to me the whole time. I tried talking to her a few times and she didnt respond at all. I tried getting her to at least put on a show or movie to help maybe make it more relaxed. She put on friends and legit stayed sitting on my couch watching friends in pure silence until 2am when i finally said i needed to sleep. Without saying a word she got up went to my room, closed the door. So i went to bed on the couch. In the morning she comes out of the room and walks past me without a word and leaves. I got a text like 2 hours later saying she doesnt think shes ready to date anyone. Umm yeah obviously you couldnt even use words to me all night. Like if you were nervous you could have done text still we had already been texting before this so not like we were strangers.

[@angeluss28]

17:35 Putting stuff in the water to make frogs gay??? To make everyone gay??? Really??? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ So 48 years ago the water made me gay???? I CANT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Noiseprojekt]

Haha no, but there are high levels of estrogen in the water due to residue from birth control that are not filtered. We have that issue in Sweden. But if you are a conspiratorialist, that what be a good way to make men weak and easy to control for the elitist ;)

[@jenx5870]

No, he's trolling her with an Alex Jones quote. However, there were studies done to show that chemicals dumped in the water were changing the biology of the frogs, and they were also causing birth defects in said frogs. Alex Jones has quite the way with words, and it's not exactly as he puts it, but it is an interesting study.

[@figjelly3476]

Aaaaaaand this is why I stay single. I am at peace with myself. After a marriage, 2 kids, & a divorce almost 10yrs ago, I’m way too comfortable just being on my own.

[@_XomBae_]

Is this supposed to be a “I’m a strong woman now” type of comment or a just a sad one? Cuz I can’t tell. I’m not trying to be funny or rude I just don’t get the message here.

[@IamElChapo]

But you got half his stuff right?

[@NaeniaNightingale]

@@_XomBae_ there’s no law that says women must be married to be happy, your comment sounds extremely toxic.

[@milksteak-]

“theyre putting stuff in the water to make the frogs gay. theyre making everything gay y’know” lmfaoooo

[@Kayenne54]

"Xenoestrogens are synthetic chemicals released into the environment as pollutants from agricultural spraying (pesticides and herbicides), from industrial processes, and waste disposal (PCBs and dioxins)." He's got it mostly right, actually. It's also affecting human males, reducing libido and reproductive capabilities. Also increasing the chances that men end up with "breast" issues; it's very common. Muscle in men is replaced with fat, just like women's breasts are formed.

[@cathryncavaney5070]

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4586825/

[@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533]

It’s an Alex Jones’ classic, which should speak for itself to the character of that dude 🙄

[@Tirani2]

The second someone says Joe Rogan or Ben Shapiro or Jordan Peterson, I'm out the door. Bye-bye.

[@7ShadowMaiden7]

@@Tirani2Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson are decent when it comes to being open minded, Joe Rogan is an old hippie who has smart people on his podcast. Jordan Peterson is a clinical psychologist. Sounds like you’re the problem.

[@kellye.5678]

I would never do a dinner for a first date. It’s so awkward. I need something casual or some kind of shared activity so I’m not panicking about how i look eating or freaking out about what to say next. My current bf and I went to a small house museum and a mall for our first date and got rice balls at the food court. It was pretty casual so less pressure.

[@atxcats42]

Decades ago, when I was in college, my friends often tried to set me up on blind dates. One friend invited me to her boss's holiday party, which was in a verynice part of town. Asa bonus she set me up with one of her co-workers as a date. Since the party was to be pretty nice I dressed up as best as I could as a poor college student. My date came tp pick meup. I don't remember exactly what he was wearing, but he was dressed appropriately for the event. The drive to the party was less than 15 minutes, but he spent the entire drive practicing his barnyard animal imitations/impressions that he said he was planning on performing at this party. This was so weird, and I really dont remember what happened at the party. Who does barnyard animal impressions at a fancy party? He showed up unannounced a few days later to my cottage. .I'd just had oral surgery and was in pain and bleeding and did not feel like having company, and I told him so. He kept trying to persuade me to let him in, and I kept telling him no. I think I finally just slammed the door in his face. After that, I told my friends, "Thank you, but I shall findmy own dating disasters from here on out!" (My space bar is sticking and I missed an apostrophe, sorry for all the typos.)

[@candacesmith6058]

22:56 aww i wouldve legit been so relieved if i went on a date with a stranger and it was this guy. A sane, non-chauvanistic, handsome gentlemen. That story is so crazy. I hope he pressed charges against her for stealing his money.

[@Sarah-fs1xw]

When I met the love of my life, he was brave enough to approach me to talk to me, so I was brave enough to ask him on an informal date to the beach. I picked him up after the wedding we met at, went to the beach, shared a joint, and talked for hours. I also took him out to a water park like a week later. We’ve treated each other like a Prince and Princess since the day we met. We’re now happily married 8 years later💕🥰 Fellas, good ladies will happily accept coffee if they like you for real, or they’ll level up and do what I did! 💯

[@lifewithmrsmacp]

The way the girl in LA was drinking her wine and just being like ah, yeah 😂😂😂😂😂

[@anrivenn8716]

For the first video, my mom had always taught me that whoever asks for the date or hangout is the one who pays. Im not sure if thats presumptuous or not, but if I ask people out, even to lunch, Ill pay.

[@SassyST]

Had to pause this video and go hug my husband real quick and thank him for saving me from the crazy out there! WOW Let me be an old lady (54) for a second. Single Ladies, be very picky. Get ok being alone with yourself and enjoying your own company. You are beautiful, smart, funny, and so special to this world! Believe it and the good guy will find you. Meanwhile, I’ll be praying for y’all because damn it’s rough out there nowadays! 😳😫 Edit: finished the video now and whoa!! Praying for you guys too!

[@what.the.whatever]

It really is rough out there especially when you're picky. I'm 32 and I'm really picky and I'm starting to think I'll never get married. I love that for you that you have your husband

[@guestguest9634]

So love your style and your uplifting message to other women! Good job! I too am even MORE EXCITED about my husband after watching this yikes 😮

[@FantabulousFail]

​@@what.the.whatever I met my boyfriend on tinder in the middle of absolutely nowhere and I'll be 30 this week. Your soulmates probably just still married to their highschool sweetheart who they secretly hate but won't divorce yet because of religion. You got this and just remember, being alone is ALWAYS better than sacrificomg your peace.

[@what.the.whatever]

​@@FantabulousFailhaha I'm a catholic and divorce is frowned upon there but I bet it's worse for the baptists lol

[@Fueled.by.freshness]

The reason that genuinely kind men and women, don't seem to get picked by their forever person until later in life, is due to the fact that most of us grew up in households with parents who didn't pattern "love" to us in an appropriate way.. if our parents loved toxicity, we also do, as a consequence to the fact that we grew up in that environment and it is all we saw. We are recreating the patterns of our youth, for better or worse.. that's also why so many people get divorced in their 30's-40's.. because one day they wake up and realize they married their parent, and that this was never really love at all.. but it's a hard lesson to learn, and it takes even those who do eventually learn, a very long time to get there. We will be chosen my sweet friends. You are not alone in feeling lonely and unappreciated. I see you and i appreciate you 🫶🏻🌌✨️

[@roodbennett]

OMFG this is soooo true!! ❤❤❤

[@joojooahybawl]

This is so encouraging thank you 🥲💕 33 feeling like I’m alone forever haha

[@liliannjq7006]

I see & appreciate you too dear friend ❤

[@toritorittaja4394]

Agree kids learn from home - my mother father called her ugly when she was 8 . She became covet narsist and shaming and blaming and gaslighting and physical violence was her way to raise me I didn't continued our family because it's better that way. Pain and bad karma continues of her wrong doings ( 6 abortions+ my little brother self cancellation) mentally ill parents usually rase unstable children or at least children who would be door mats / victims of different abuse.

[@ktwhimsy6946]

🥹❤️

[@malinoscarsson9362]

Same, that's my rule too! If I know I won't go on another date with a guy, he's not paying. Doesn't sit right with me, knowing that I'll never return the favour! Respectful and clean.

[@kellyanna2010kk]

That girl was probably trying to unlock his phone to check his bank apps. She did steal his money.

[@hodso1ra]

I LOVE telling this story. By far my worst date: We met on OkCupid (I'm old, ok?), he lived in another town and drove in to meet me. Skipped dinner, went to a movie. He says something like "I guess I have to buy you a pop" and doesn't get one for himself. Proceeds to drink most of mine anyway. We run into one of my friends after, dude makes fun of my friend's name. Go to a bar that I frequented (friends with bartender and bouncers), dude makes fun of me for buying drinks and carrying a wallet (not a purse girl). Insults the bouncer. We go to a friend's apartment. Dude full-on misses the toilet and pees all over the bathroom floor. At this point, he is too drunk yo drive himself home. I agree to let him sleep on my couch. He got so upset that I wouldn't let him into my room, kiss me, or sleep with me. I locked my bedroom door. He was gone before I woke up.

[@amandalongman737]

Why didn’t u part ways way before a lot of this… I would have been done after insulting my friends name.

[@chincemagnet]

@@amandalongman737what’s your friends name? 😏

[@Katfall2012]

@@chincemagnetwhat I wanted you to know! Though he seems to make fun of and insult everything and everyone

[@ellenscofield5632]

He didn’t deserve to stay at your place with the way he treated you and everyone that you know.

[@ellabellaswe]

As someone living in London - the drinking and driving thing is so common here. Especially people living outside of London, commuting in who maybe drive to the train station in their home town. I've had a colleague say, multiple times, when I questioned why she was drinking if she has to drive when she gets home say "I have no other choice!!". Uhm, yes you do - don't effing drink!

[@suonatar1]

I heard the Poles are considered to be drunks in general, but when we're designated drivers, we are sober.

[@jvc8947]

My husband of 22 years. First date - let me pick the restaurant. I went with family casual. About $40 bill including tip (no drinks). He opened the door. He was sweet. We went back to his house via blockbuster because he didn’t want the date to end. We made out a bit, watched a movie and I went home. Good dates are easy - in 2001. Now-it’s a poop and pony dog show. Good luck ladies. I don’t envy this. YIKES. ❤

[@PumpkinsPatch]

“You talk too much when you drink wine” My go to response for these comments? “And you talk too much when you’re breathing but i can find a permanent fix to that”

[@KlawzLigon]

I actually went on a date with this guy, he was my older brother's old hockey teammate, he was between my brother and I in age. His dad also coached with my dad, who was also our mechanic. Long story short, the date was super awkward. Dinner was fine, but then he had the theaters mixed up so we had to drive a half hour away to go to the right movie theater to see the movie we wanted. We definitely had chemistry. We've known each other since elementary school and have a lot in common. He is a gem of a person. But we decided to just stay friends and not make things weird for our families. And he actually officiated my wedding last minute, instead of being a guest, because our officiant came down with covid the day prior. Sometimes awful dates still turn out ok! 👍

[@fetB]

how is that an "awful" date?

[@KlawzLigon]

@@fetB I guess I would say awful in a different way. Because I knew him, he wasn't acting like himself, probably nerves, and I dunno. It was just an awful date. I think he considered it more awful than me. Because he wouldn't make eye contact with me for over a year at the "family" parties. I would have...I dunno I was still like 16 at the time. And now that I think about it wasn't horrendously awful. My favorite date, though he would consider it awful, was the first date with my now husband. He wanted to impress me with his Italian heritage cooking. (It's an extremely small town, and he knew I moved here from a city that is kinda somewhat of a cross between Seattle and Portland) He wanted to make a seafood sautee with scallops and prawns over a fettuccine and newburg sauce. Burnt the pasta, overcooked the seafood, and the sauce was more like a gravy. But here we are almost a decade later. So 🤷

[@dswhit64]

I dated a stand-up comedian and it was the absolute worst 9 months of my life. He turned out to be abusive, both physically and psychologically, and he would yell at his audience if they didn’t laugh. Yeah, he was suuuuper funny.

[@AnAngryPomeranianUnderYourBed]

Omg he would YELL at his audience? This deserves a name drop lmao. I want to go to a show & yell back. 😒 What a baby lol.

[@MsKwesi]

Dated a comedian. It was not a good time. He was very insecure. Glad I didn't date him for long.

[@dswhit64]

@@MsKwesi tears of a clown as they say. I met the guy I dated while I worked at s comedy club. I knew he was a wacko but he was cute so I went for it. As Julia Roberts said in Pretty Woman; Big mistake. Huge! I saw a lot of fucked up things while I worked at the club. Some big names passed through and most of them had issues. Really dark world.

[@dswhit64]

@@AnAngryPomeranianUnderYourBed he’s a nobody. I don’t think he’s in that industry any longer. I would travel with him to his gigs and I would cower when he did that. He would yell at me for not supporting him in those instances. Because we traveled together I couldn’t just leave.

[@metalkingtohorses]

literally im glad i stopped dating 20 years ago, i can see im not missing out

[@camilaparra7980]

The guy with glasses is so cuteeeeeeee! 🩷 so sorry for what happened to him. 😢