Dating Advice: Red Flags, Boundaries, When To Break Up, Fighting, & More

[@ariannavaladezz]

“We do not date off of potential, we date off of patterns.” I LOVE THAT!!

[@sierramist1992]

On the topic of boundaries, I heard it said that while you’re dating someone, keep in mind that they will potentially be someone else’s spouse. You should treat them in such a way that you could walk up to their future spouse and say “I took care of him/her for you”.

[@JeanineAmapola]

Amen!!!

[@KatieMusser]

So thankful for you and the Godly biblical wisdom you share J!

[@carolineshort9433]

I really think it’s such a great thing to have someone who doesn’t sugar coat things and will just tell you how it is. It’s hard to hear but at the same time what you need to hear. Thank you ❤️

[@marisadavies5143]

LOVED this!! Especially the part about knowing the Gospel and not punishing your partner for their past. I'm dating a man who definitely has a past. Shoot him and I have a past, lol. And he has done a complete 180 and changed old behaviors, etc. I still struggle with letting the past go. So that was a phenomenal reminder! You rock, gal!

[@melissacalderon1515]

this is great advice because the dating world is brutal especially being a Christian, I would Love if you make more videos about dating because I realize I make so many mistakes when it comes to the dating world

[@desirees3166]

I just wanted to say I thoroughly enjoyed your video(: & I wanted to know if you would be willing to run us through some examples of good questions to ask the person we’re talking to? Especially as the relationship has been going on for a while, I’ve often been curious about how to take conversations further for the sake of identifying if I would want to/should continue things.

[@ShalomAlem]

Really solid & grounding advice, thanks for making this video!!

[@hopeolivia590]

it was valuable to hear about having boundaries of respectfully declining/ searching for someone not playing games and also no yelling boundary!!! i am learning so much as Christian relationships are so different to the ones I'm used to in my family! :) thank you so much you're like a big sister (and so good at speaking btw!) xxxxox

[@vkr1887]

I'm Hindu but your perspective is really good and for any religous person. I've been watching your videos since 2013 and I am so happy for you how far you have come, I still love your videos🥰❤️

[@rainabouth1249]

Girl…I want this uploaded tonight❤️❤️❤️!!! Love watching your vids!

[@iuriwest]

I stole 3 of your playlist songs ,Thank you

[@julieschwartz245]

This was so helpful, thank you Jeanine!!

[@Itsmealejandra]

I loved this!! So so helpful thank you so much❤️

[@esperanzab4310]

Thank you for this advice. God bless you and yours always, praying for you and us all🤍🙏🏽🕊

[@TheMildredplotka]

You go girl 💥 Amen to all that 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@shadyabrown-hall5955]

Yes sis! Keep pouring out the wisdom! God bless you ❤🙌

[@toniamoronczyk1132]

So much wisdom in this video!

[@billiejolawhorn5269]

im in a healthy relationship with the foundation being God and i always enjoy your videos like this! thank you ❤️❤️

[@Bere_nicee]

I freaking loveeeeeee this video thank you so much Jeanine!!

[@kimmiheart]

Yes yes yes to all this! And the boundaries aspect 🙌🏻 you have to be so firm in your boundaries where they become your conviction. It makes for a relationship built on respect!

[@jackie.mendoza]

I’ve followed you for a very long time and you’ve just grown into the most wonderful and wise woman of God.

[@alexisserrano2205]

Thank you so much for answering my question. I was afraid to ask others because of fear of judgment, and I definitely gained some clarity from this video. So thank you so very much 💛

[@norm219]

Luv this video Jeanine! I luv my single self ❤️❤️

[@eminenceautumn]

Thank you for the advice Jeanine! I appreciate it!

[@TechGalDiaries]

Yay thanks for answering my question 💜💜

[@krystalgoethe8007]

This is a wonderful video! It has answered a lot of my questions. ☺️

[@megannbruckert2439]

loved watching this video!! I definitely needed this as I have been struggling some with how to figure out dating recently and my mindset on it after going through a bit of a hard situation with it; you are awesome girl! ❤

[@candye0]

I am muslim and dating is similar in islam. The restrictions that god made are merely to protect ourselves although we might not be fully aware of it.

[@Willemims]

Great advice! God bless!

[@christinelorelle787]

Love you Jeanine! 💓

[@oyindamolaoluyemi7435]

Very helpful. It answered a lot of my questions Thanks 😊

[@sarafinasachetti3974]

Jeanine, I love you and that's why I need to tell you that the background music in this is not it... lol again, I love you though and appreciate the advice

[@JeanineAmapola]

Sorry I have a new editor! That’s good feedback! Thanks!

[@chinazaekpere9802]

Character over Chemistry 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾😍😍😍

[@sivuyilesivuyile8558]

Wow this was really helpful ❤️❤️❤️

[@MarahJane]

Such great godly wisdom!!

[@xnamansanasya]

Preach Sister Preach! I'm loving this

[@yelenalitvinchuk]

Wow! Such in depth, amazing dating advise. Thankyou.

[@theamonidiaries]

Love you! I know you're not an expert but, I can honestly say you're my favorite KZbinr. Thanks for being such a blessing 💛

[@ruthbard2525]

Great advice!!

[@efileni]

Love this Jeanine 💛💛💛 more content like this 💛💛💛

[@bethelhemtilahun904]

This is full of wisdom

[@cryskiiim]

I would love future faith based advice videos! esp one on singleness/waiting season/purity 💕

[@summerdenson2769]

THIS was INCREDIBLE and God used this for my good at the perfect time. Thank you.

[@NatiDLeon]

Thank you, friend, for creating this video! I really enjoyed hearing all the great advice and personal experience that you shared. I am single and have been just working on my walk with God. I am not in a rush at all. Now i know what to look for when the time comes to be in a relationship. Love you!

[@ThrivingwithTeodora]

God bless you Jeanine, so much wisdom comes from you in this video. ❤️ I wish I heard this years ago when I did all those wrong things, put my eggs in one 🧺, and put my self worth in someone else. That scarcity mentality - there's no one else for me - is the real thing. Be careful people and don't let your own thoughts trick you to thinking "that's all I can get". Thanks Jeanine ✨

[@krystalmelinaanderson5077]

GREAT ADVICE!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@tsunginaomencube4204]

Great video 💕

[@evameeks5346]

“Don’t morph your boundaries for that person”🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Our boundaries are our safeguards. Everything we do should come from them. This video was so good!

[@Alemarie2023]

Your advice is spot on!

[@zsb99]

is there any other platform for the abide tribe? i dont have facebook... but i would really love to be a part of the community. also, i can't seem to find your podcast on amazon music.. help?

[@JeanineAmapola]

No sorry :( eventually there may be! But we just have the FB & IG page And it’s mainly on Apple podcasts, Spotify, & KZbin! Just search happy and healthy!

[@Michelangelo-m1o]

Are you hyped for Coachella?

[@Natalia_72]

Do you get to choose the ads on your videos?

[@JeanineAmapola]

Never

[@NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[@iuriwest]

Nowadays I am happy to be alone then dating 🤣

[@theresab1751]

So good!!! Love the work God is doing through you!!

[@jackie26]

Ahhh Jeanine- Tati moved to Dallas u guys might run into each other ?!🥰

[@samhuertas148]

Love your crewneck 😍😍😍😍

[@melb7736]

Do you find it challenging when it comes to dating to weed through the “bad Christian men”. My friend goes to church and was seeing a “Christian man “ for a month and then discovered he was in a committed relationship with someone else ……

[@JeanineAmapola]

That’s why you gotta give it time and ask good questions and not get too committed too early on. And don’t take it too personal. We will know good people by their fruit, and it seems he didn’t have much lol

[@davidparnell1903]

Hi

[@evastood4539]

3:19 omg I had this guy drop the L word within the first month of hanging out!

[@tsurek]

"not gonna talk to you for the next 40 days..." lol

[@missk4934]

LOVED this comment: “If God has someone for you, he will show you in the form of peace.” 💛

[@ZainBornAgain]

Are you native American ?

[@meshelllp6658]

Jeanine, constantly giving people timelines turns advice into legalism. Your convictions will not be the same as someone else’s. Also, a lot of this advice seemed more geared toward knowing how to stay unattached 🤔 ?

[@mayrareyes5060]

What is the L word?

[@weirdcrazygirl1156]

Love like saying I love you

[@mayrareyes5060]

@@weirdcrazygirl1156 ohhh okay lol thanks

[@weirdcrazygirl1156]

@@mayrareyes5060 ur welcome

[@miavodopija]

Girlies, WHERE do you meet men? I feel like there aren't a whole lot of quality men out there. 😅

[@Abigail_Kidimbu]

Church :)

[@renelara1925]

1 day to drop the L word

[@noelnoelle4118]

Humanity is in its saddest state right now ... and this woman is helping promoting it while trying her best to make you believe she's a real Woman of God! She deserves the Judgment of God. She thinks she's so cool and popular lol.... Lets watch watch our true God humble her.

[@noelnoelle4118]

wow no COCHLEA satan festival this year eh?

[@noelnoelle4118]

"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, (Jeanine) but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world" -1 John 4:1

[@noelnoelle4118]

when God comes down on you don't say He wasn't trying to warn you. And you treating people God has sent to you like myself like crap. Okay....

[@Greenrivers14]

@@noelnoelle4118 What's wrong?

[@noelnoelle4118]

You know how many likes satan gets on KZbin? GET OFF KZbin AND STOP COMPETING WITH him. Pray about it!

[@OLUWAFAYOKEMI]

🙃🤔

[@Anna-vc4tc]

Sister why you on youtube then… hypocrites do not inherit the kingdom of heaven

[@meganphipps7898]

I absolutely agree with everything you said in this video especially as someone who initially didn’t set boundaries and ended up in an abusive relationship for 3 years. Thank the Lord that he set me free from that past and God has shown me in my current relationship how beautiful and intentional dating can be. Wait for Gods best☺️🤍